Healing For Love
Healing for Love
A podcast for anyone who wants to stop shrinking, start healing, and grow into their most grounded, authentic self in love & life.
Hosted by Dr Gemma Gladstone — relationship coach, former clinical psychologist (25+ years), and expert in schema healing — this podcast offers thoughtful, insight-rich episodes to help you understand your patterns, heal from past emotional wounds, and gently rewrite your relationship template.
Here, you’ll learn how to reconnect with your worth, trust your inner voice, and build relationships that support who you truly are.
This is for the woman who’s ready to feel more secure, more whole, and more herself — in love and in life.
Healing For Love
76. Emotional Landmines: Understanding and Coping with Schema Triggers
Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast!
In this episode, Gemma does a solo show talking all about schema triggers and schema activation.
Gemma described the trigger chain and how we can break down the components of schema activation - feelings, thoughts, memories, sensations. She describes what action urges are and how they are also part of the schema. She then outlines the 3 different types of coping responses and how we can start to make some behavioural changes.
Finally Gemma also discusses some tools and strategies to cope with schema activation and the difficult emotions that can arise.
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