"And There Was this Teacher" with Eric FitzMedrud - Act 1

Eric FitzMedrud joins me today for a fascinating conversation about the intricate dance of healing, growth, and modern masculinity. From unpacking the multi-generational nature of trauma to exploring the nuances of accountability and self-forgiveness, Eric's journey offers a compelling lens for examining our own paths to becoming better men. We wrestle with the challenge of integrating our 'shadow' selves and the ongoing work of personal development. Our conversation touches on the power of mentorship and the delicate balance of boundaries, leaving me pondering the complexities of guiding the next generation. Ultimately, Eric's insights remind us that growth is a continuous, often messy process, but one that's crucial for fostering healthier relationships and a more conscious approach to masculinity.

Bio: 

Therapy is always about the client. Sometimes though it is nice to know a little bit about the person you are considering to be your therapist.

My identities:

• Cisgender male. My pronouns are he/him.
• My ancestries are northern European, including German, Norwegian, and Irish, and I grew up in Minnesota.
• Polyamorous and I have two committed long-term relationships.
• Bisexual/Pansexual. Though, like most bisexual people, I tend to partner with one gender, in my case, women.

I grew up in Minneapolis, where the diversity around me ignited my passion for diversity issues. After high school, I lived in India for a year while in the Rotary International Youth Exchange Program. I went to college in Colorado, where I met my wife. During college, I experienced a larger view of the world on Semester at Sea. I moved to the Bay Area in 2002 to begin my Ph.D. program in Clinical Psychology. My family and I are now settled in this area for good.

I became a licensed psychologist (PSY23669) through a circuitous route. I began with a strong interest in spirituality and human development during my undergraduate major in Religious Studies. I considered a more academic career but I realized that what I really felt called to do was work with people one-on-one. I took some prerequisite courses for a year at Loyola University in Chicago and then began my Ph.D. in 2002. I earned my Clinical Psychology Ph.D. in 2008.

I love my job. I am honored that I get to do work that I enjoy, that is meaningful, and which helps others live meaningful, connected lives. Below you will find a brief list of different positions that I have held during my career and little further down, a brief description of my therapeutic style.