Daughter Dialogues

Adrienne Abiodun: Part 2. Overcoming generational shame.

September 10, 2020 Reisha Raney and Adrienne Abiodun Season 1 Episode 11
Adrienne Abiodun: Part 2. Overcoming generational shame.
Daughter Dialogues
Chapters
0:47
Lies on grandfather's birth certificate from 1924 segregated Mississippi, black father listed but biological father was a white man James Moffett
2:50
Grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots
3:48
George Leighton, son of Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton- family in MA wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in MS
4:50
Working through generational shame, anger and pain about slave owing white ancestry
6:17
Connection to Revolutionary War patriot ancestor James Collins
8:22
Connecting with white relatives who shared stories of Revolutionary War lineage
9:30
Informing leader of CT state DAR that they share ancestry with James Collins, being invited to present the mixed race relationship to CT state DAR
14:16
Presenting Revolutionary War lineage to DAR CT state society. Using DNA to help point toward more record sets. DNA connection vs. genetic heritage vs. paper research.
16:54
Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service
17:56
Brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati
19:52
Commander James Collins's letter scolding the British
21:46
Contrast of James Collins's humanity vs. his grandson George's decision to marry into a family of enslavers
23:38
Samuel Leighton's Revolutionary War service
23:59
Joining the DAR, white cousin acknowledging her black grandfather as his uncle and taking Y-DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather
25:57
Reaching out to a white Moffett cousin, requesting Y DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather
27:44
Uncle and cousin providing affidavits of family relation on her DAR application in support of DNA evidence
29:27
Amending grandfather's death certificate to name his true father
31:31
Emotions about descending from an ancestor who contributed to founding of U.S., giving self permission to explore own history
34:12
Experience as a member of DAR, reconciling society's past, potentially caring for gravesites of the family of ancestor's enslavers
40:59
Taking leadership roles with the C.A.R. and DAR, assisting members with DNA lineage research
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Daughter Dialogues
Adrienne Abiodun: Part 2. Overcoming generational shame.
Sep 10, 2020 Season 1 Episode 11
Reisha Raney and Adrienne Abiodun

Adrienne talks about how she discovered that the black man listed as the father on her grandfather's birth certificate was a lie but instead was a white man named James Moffett from 1924 segregated Mississippi; working through generational shame, anger and pain about her slave owning white ancestry; her grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots; the story of how the family of George Leighton, son of her Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton, in Massachusetts, wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in Mississippi; connecting with white relatives who shared stories of her Revolutionary War lineage; informing the leader of the Connecticut State Society Daughters of the American Revolution that they share ancestry with Revolutionary War patriot James Collins and subsequently being invited to be the keynote speaker at the state conference during which Adrienne presented their mixed race family connection; using DNA to help point toward more record sets; the variations in DNA connections versus genetic heritage versus traditional paper research; Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service and his letter scolding the British; joining the DAR by a white Moffett cousin providing an affidavit of family relation for her application in support of his Y-DNA test results; amending her grandfather's death certificate to name his true father; giving herself permission to explore her own history; potentially caring for the gravesites of the family of her ancestor's enslavers; her brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati; taking leadership roles within the Children of the American Revolution and Daughters of the American Revolution; assisting members with DNA lineage research. Read Adrienne’s biography at www.daughterdialogues.com/daughters

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Adrienne talks about how she discovered that the black man listed as the father on her grandfather's birth certificate was a lie but instead was a white man named James Moffett from 1924 segregated Mississippi; working through generational shame, anger and pain about her slave owning white ancestry; her grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots; the story of how the family of George Leighton, son of her Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton, in Massachusetts, wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in Mississippi; connecting with white relatives who shared stories of her Revolutionary War lineage; informing the leader of the Connecticut State Society Daughters of the American Revolution that they share ancestry with Revolutionary War patriot James Collins and subsequently being invited to be the keynote speaker at the state conference during which Adrienne presented their mixed race family connection; using DNA to help point toward more record sets; the variations in DNA connections versus genetic heritage versus traditional paper research; Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service and his letter scolding the British; joining the DAR by a white Moffett cousin providing an affidavit of family relation for her application in support of his Y-DNA test results; amending her grandfather's death certificate to name his true father; giving herself permission to explore her own history; potentially caring for the gravesites of the family of her ancestor's enslavers; her brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati; taking leadership roles within the Children of the American Revolution and Daughters of the American Revolution; assisting members with DNA lineage research. Read Adrienne’s biography at www.daughterdialogues.com/daughters

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Lies on grandfather's birth certificate from 1924 segregated Mississippi, black father listed but biological father was a white man James Moffett
Grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots
George Leighton, son of Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton- family in MA wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in MS
Working through generational shame, anger and pain about slave owing white ancestry
Connection to Revolutionary War patriot ancestor James Collins
Connecting with white relatives who shared stories of Revolutionary War lineage
Informing leader of CT state DAR that they share ancestry with James Collins, being invited to present the mixed race relationship to CT state DAR
Presenting Revolutionary War lineage to DAR CT state society. Using DNA to help point toward more record sets. DNA connection vs. genetic heritage vs. paper research.
Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service
Brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati
Commander James Collins's letter scolding the British
Contrast of James Collins's humanity vs. his grandson George's decision to marry into a family of enslavers
Samuel Leighton's Revolutionary War service
Joining the DAR, white cousin acknowledging her black grandfather as his uncle and taking Y-DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather
Reaching out to a white Moffett cousin, requesting Y DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather
Uncle and cousin providing affidavits of family relation on her DAR application in support of DNA evidence
Amending grandfather's death certificate to name his true father
Emotions about descending from an ancestor who contributed to founding of U.S., giving self permission to explore own history
Experience as a member of DAR, reconciling society's past, potentially caring for gravesites of the family of ancestor's enslavers
Taking leadership roles with the C.A.R. and DAR, assisting members with DNA lineage research