Nobody’s Talking Podcast
"I NEED TO VENT"...Bonus Episode!!!
Hey, adventure seekers of the airwaves! Let's navigate the stormy seas of social commentary and personal tales with our comrades-in-conversation, Yo-Yo and Brenda. Our chatter voyages from the gridiron controversies of Chiefs punter Harrison Butker to the uncharted territories of single parenting struggles. We don't just skim the surface; we're diving deep (without the cliché) into why a kicker's kickbacks on gender roles cause such a stir and the jersey-buying frenzy it ignites. Then, we anchor down into the taxing emotional labor that single parents heave aboard, balancing the books of child support with the quest for appreciation.
Turning the dial to more whimsical wavelengths, chuckle along as we mishap through language miscues and dissect Sidney Sweeney's silver screen escapades. Who knew mixing up German phrases could lead to such delightful detours? Plus, we'll spar over the sizzle of youth versus the gravity of wealth in the dating sphere—spoiler alert: it's a toss-up. From the eerie allure of "Immaculate" to the perplexities of age-gap romances, our banter is a treasure chest of candid takes and rip-roaring revelations.
But it's not all fun and games—dare to join our expedition through the treacherous terrain of education funding and the quagmires it creates for teachers and learners alike. We navigate the issue with personal insights, questioning the logic of financial distribution in schools. And as we quest for the male equivalent of a 'baddie,' we mix in a pinch of humor, a dash of confusion, and a generous helping of reality checks. So, fasten your earbuds and prepare to be both enlightened and entertained—with Yo-Yo, Brenda, and myself at the helm, it's a podcast odyssey you won't want to miss!
Thanks for listening to the Nobody's Talking Podcast. Follow us on Twitter: (nobodystalking1), Instagram : (nobodystalkingpodcast) and email us at (nobodystalkingpodcast@gmail.com) Thank you!
Hey, adventure seekers of the airwaves! Let's navigate the stormy seas of social commentary and personal tales with our comrades-in-conversation, Yo-Yo and Brenda. Our chatter voyages from the gridiron controversies of Chiefs punter Harrison Butker to the uncharted territories of single parenting struggles. We don't just skim the surface; we're diving deep (without the cliché) into why a kicker's kickbacks on gender roles cause such a stir and the jersey-buying frenzy it ignites. Then, we anchor down into the taxing emotional labor that single parents heave aboard, balancing the books of child support with the quest for appreciation.
Turning the dial to more whimsical wavelengths, chuckle along as we mishap through language miscues and dissect Sidney Sweeney's silver screen escapades. Who knew mixing up German phrases could lead to such delightful detours? Plus, we'll spar over the sizzle of youth versus the gravity of wealth in the dating sphere—spoiler alert: it's a toss-up. From the eerie allure of "Immaculate" to the perplexities of age-gap romances, our banter is a treasure chest of candid takes and rip-roaring revelations.
But it's not all fun and games—dare to join our expedition through the treacherous terrain of education funding and the quagmires it creates for teachers and learners alike. We navigate the issue with personal insights, questioning the logic of financial distribution in schools. And as we quest for the male equivalent of a 'baddie,' we mix in a pinch of humor, a dash of confusion, and a generous helping of reality checks. So, fasten your earbuds and prepare to be both enlightened and entertained—with Yo-Yo, Brenda, and myself at the helm, it's a podcast odyssey you won't want to miss!
Thanks for listening to the Nobody's Talking Podcast. Follow us on Twitter: (nobodystalking1), Instagram : (nobodystalkingpodcast) and email us at (nobodystalkingpodcast@gmail.com) Thank you!
And this might be the bonus episode. I was teasing it. I feel like a real TV producer. Now Five, I'm messing around. Remember the bell? Hey, guess what? We got some special guests. I know y'all thought y'all was going to hear her next week, but this is the bonus episode with.
Speaker 2:This is Yo-Yo. What's up, you guys? It's been a minute.
Speaker 1:Uh-oh.
Speaker 2:Glad to be back, uh-oh Glad to be back.
Speaker 1:Uh-oh, she got bailed out of softball practice.
Speaker 2:We won and we lost.
Speaker 1:Oh yo, you won one, lost one.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was good, it was good.
Speaker 1:And guess who else we have.
Speaker 3:Hey, this is Brenda.
Speaker 1:You like the mic like that, I like the mic like that, I like the mic like that.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I do. Okay, just asking.
Speaker 1:Can you hear me? Hey, we can hear you loud and clear. And this is your boy, bosco. I'm not going to even look over that way, I'm just going to be like all right, yeah, okay. You're not normally. You're like enjoy yourself. Now we are here to talk about. I don't know what are we going to talk about. I know somebody wanted to vent.
Speaker 2:As always.
Speaker 1:And the Chiefs punter. I don't even know how to say his last name. I like the guy, though Harrison, I think Harrison Buckner Buecher.
Speaker 2:B-U-T-K-E-R.
Speaker 1:I think it's Buck Buecher. Yeah, I think that's how you say it, buecher.
Speaker 2:Buecher.
Speaker 1:Buecher.
Speaker 2:So yeah, I just read it. I kind of was watching it. I didn't really care, but I had the idea that, like it was something about him saying that the women should go back to being homemakers so that's what it was about well, he also talked about, I guess, abortion right. Being anti-abortion, that the me too movement was.
Speaker 3:I'm on my fourth kid, me too. We talked about, I guess, abortion right being anti-abortion, that the Me Too movement was. I'm on my fourth kid.
Speaker 2:Me too. Yeah, like again I don't, and it was 20 minutes and I guess you said that like people were applauding and stuff.
Speaker 3:So I don't know at what college they did this, but I know that the NFL distanced themselves from that.
Speaker 2:Again, why are we putting any emphasis on someone who you know like plays football?
Speaker 1:Hey, football rules man. I mean, I know you play football, but are you going to go and, like, give a commencement speech? No, I'm not going to do that, but I'm just saying it's not like a political thing, that's probably why people care. They're just like, oh, and then he's from the Super Bowl champions.
Speaker 2:They just make a big deal out of nothing, like, okay, say whatever you want, that's fine.
Speaker 3:Well, it was just kind of, I think, more startling for how many people agreed with some of the things that he said, and I don't know if it was necessary. I think it was some of the concepts I could understand, where maybe there was a validity to it, but the words that he spoke and the way that he said it you know some of the things that he was talking about. Hey, girls, I know that you all are out ready to graduate, but you should be home having babies.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Wow, hey, you know, I just I just looked this up. You know his jersey, his jersey, sold out His tails are right. Exactly.
Speaker 2:His jersey sold out. Yeah, that's good For him People are allowed.
Speaker 3:Yeah, like you know, I mean.
Speaker 2:But I feel like if you put an emphasis on it then. But I feel like if you put an emphasis on it, then people are all going to be like what's this all about? And it's like, who cares? Dude, it's a very small population. These are the type of people that will buy Nikes to burn them. The rationality is not there, so it's like say whatever the fuck you want, like actual people who have some sort of semblance, like they don't care.
Speaker 1:Damn the women's version and the men's version.
Speaker 2:So so, like that guy that was like, um, you know, praying to god and stuff, good, do, do whatever you want. Like that's what america's for freedom of speech, do that right right like. I just feel like again when we put too much emphasis on it, like that's when you're giving it a voice, but again, the people that are already on this side are already on this side.
Speaker 3:They're like right? No, I think that's kind of where the shakeup would be, is that? Oh, I thought that so many people are waking up, right? So many people are more aware than what they were, but then to realize how many people have the same ideology as this.
Speaker 2:I mean it makes it seem like he sold a thousand jerseys or whatever. That's probably the number that he had. Like it's not even a big deal. Nobody even knows about this guy. Like who cares? I just feel that way, like yeah. Now, if you're like Going to the senate and, like you know, advocating for women To stay home, okay, well, now we gotta pay attention, but he's allowed to talk About whatever he wants, it's fine.
Speaker 1:He wants y'all to get back To y'all's roles the way y'all used to be.
Speaker 2:You know there's a lot of women Lay down and have my babies. There's a lot of women on TikTok and stuff.
Speaker 3:I can't believe that was part of what he said, that women should go back to being quiet.
Speaker 2:I'm not like a TikTok person or whatever, but there's these women that are like. You know what I would do when this girl was going over there to fight for the right for women to work? I'd tell her to shut the fuck up. Women are like, but it's a joke. Right, like it's a joke, but yeah, women are still second-class citizens. Like, let's be real, that's how we're treated.
Speaker 1:You think so for real?
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:Okay, they're like no, I agree yeah.
Speaker 2:Like abortion laws here in arizona. Are you serious? Yeah and my kid was so like you know. Uh, he was so anti-abortion, anti-abortion, until he realized that he can get someone pregnant and have to take care of the kid. All of a sudden, tables are turned.
Speaker 1:Hey, I told him when them lights come, you start to think a little different. You're like uh.
Speaker 2:And it's an economical stance thing, Like they just want to dictate who can stay in poverty. Right, that's all it is. Because their mistresses are still going to continue having abortions. They know where to go. They have special doctors that do that. It's a fucking joke.
Speaker 1:Yeah, come right into the house.
Speaker 2:Like talk about, about. If you want to talk about something, talk about. Like when there was a law that was passed just recently and like a lot of republicans were like speaking in tongues and shit in like the capital, speaking in tongues, that's religion. Those two things should be separate. That's actually in the constitution. Like that's when you just look at stuff and you're like this is when we're going in the wrong direction see by, by religion involved in politics.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so you can't mix.
Speaker 2:No, you gotta keep, you shouldn't yeah, and that's the thing with the abortion laws that it's a religious thing, so, but uh, what else is going on? So?
Speaker 3:yeah, that guy can okay.
Speaker 2:So here is the thing, and I I will tell you that my kid is now. He's got a permit right and I bought him a car. I bought him a little beater. It's cute, it's a 2002 honda civic and um, I paid for it. And I told him. I said this car will be yours once you pay me back right so for right now it's still in my name okay um, it's a stick shift, all right.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I've been teaching him how to drive for like three years, right, he's 15, and we started when he was 12. I would let them drive the car here and there, and then I bought him the stick shift. I taught him how to drive, stick, right, and everything was fine until he told me that he was going to tell his dad that he didn't know how to drive, so that his dad can think that he taught him how to drive. Dad can think that he taught him how to drive. And I was mad about it because yo, I've been teaching you how to drive. I bought you a fucking car, I taught you how to drive stick and you want your dad to get the credit and it just bugs me. It bugs and he's like, why are you being so like defensive about it? Like everybody knows that you taught me how to drive? He's the only person that is going to think that he taught me because it's a father and son bonding thing. Wow.
Speaker 1:Dang, I'm trying. Ooh. Wow, Dang, I'm trying to. Ooh, so so you're. So he honestly thinks that why can't he just be like oh yeah, my mom taught me how to drive. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:Because that is the time that he gets with his dad.
Speaker 1:And if you already know how to do it, then you don't need time with me. Oh oh, I see where you coming from. That's smart. Uh, I see where she's coming from, so we can get that extra time here okay.
Speaker 2:So then on Mother's Day, the dad was like hey, can I come over and teach you how to drive on mother's day? We've had the car for a month and on mother's day he wanted to come over and teach him how to drive. Okay, whatever, I was gonna go have, uh, I had already had breakfast with the kids and, uh, we had done they like cooked lunch and stuff and cleaned the house. You, they were doing the little cute things and I was going to go have dinner with friends in the evening, and I told them. I said, okay, your dad can come over and teach you how to drive. Why did the dad come over with the girlfriend, though?
Speaker 3:I'm going to go ahead and pour a little salt in the wound, yeah, like do you know what I'm saying? But did you expect anything less from him?
Speaker 2:I don't you know, he always seems to just fucking like, dumbfound me, like I just can't believe how you came over with the new boo yeah. But my kid is like this is a father. And then when I told him I said so it was a father and son and girlfriend bonding moment and he was like yeah, I didn't know she was going to come. And it sucks because he expected this bonding time with his dad.
Speaker 1:But why do I have to get stepped on, though? He said she didn't know that the girlfriend Is that how you felt?
Speaker 2:I feel like that.
Speaker 1:I feel like I'm getting stepped on, did you? Did you feel because the girlfriend came, or because he did it on mother's day?
Speaker 2:because now, because the girlfriend came okay, because for the most part she's actually nice, fine, whatever. But if you're supposed to go teach your son how to drive, my kid has this expectation that it's going to be a bonding moment between them two. And in order for him to get that bonding moment, it's going to be a bonding moment between them two and in order for him to get that bonding moment, he's got to shit on me and not give me any credit. And then the dad shows up with the girlfriend and I was like where the fuck is she going to like? Is she going to wait in the car? What's going on? And she went in the car with them and they went driving and I just sat there like so.
Speaker 1:That hit a nerve, huh.
Speaker 2:Yes, because I'm getting shit on and I don't. I get that. He wants this the bonding time, but like I feel like it's fucked up that it's at my expense.
Speaker 1:It is.
Speaker 2:Like I have to get hurt in the process, because even when we got into it the next day, I was he's like. Whose feelings is there hurting? And I was like mine. I've been fucking teaching you how to drive, I bought you a fucking car and you want to give the credit to someone who doesn't fucking care. Like I think that's. I think it's fucked up. I hate that. It's that. It's that it's at this point where, like, I have to like validate myself because I'm not getting validation from my kid because he's still trying to grasp at something with someone who doesn't care.
Speaker 2:That's someone who doesn't care, so like I get it. I get what you're saying. Like this is where he bonds with his dad, right?
Speaker 1:He's really, really grasping for, likeping, for, like that approval yeah, like it didn't happen and so what?
Speaker 2:and I told him. I said your dad taught you how to drive a motorcycle. Like why isn't that okay?
Speaker 2:yeah right, like, and I just feel, and then and then like, okay, let, this is one thing. And then my older one wanted to play soccer and he was like I told him. I said I don't want to pay for soccer, I don't want to pay for club soccer. I know that it's a lot to like have to take you to practices and everything and you have to do tournaments and everything. So I'm not on board with this. And he's telling me that I'm not supportive, even though I'm the one that buys him really expensive shoes. I'm the one that takes him to different soccer places so he can play soccer games Like I've been doing soccer for a long time.
Speaker 2:The dad all of a sudden says that he's going to pay for soccer and the other kid asks I don't think it's fair that he has to pay for soccer. And I'm over here like I've been paying for sports for eight years. I've been paying for sports for eight years and I've never asked him for a dime. Why am I getting shit on by my fucking kids? Because he's talking about the money that he. He hasn't even spent it. But he's saying like oh, it's gonna cost me $200. And the kids are like you should pay half of it and I'm like I don't even want him, I don't even want him playing, yeah, but it's like, why do? Why do these kids like? Why do they feel that, like they're that I have to do things that I've been doing, when he hasn't done them?
Speaker 1:Like I feel like I'm getting so you're not getting any credit for all the stuff that you did like back in the past and everything like softball or baseball, basketball.
Speaker 3:I have a question for you. So you've been doing this for eight years and your kids are go ahead and tell us how old are they? Okay, I've been doing this for eight years and your kids are go ahead and tell us I've been doing it how old are they?
Speaker 2:Okay, I've been doing the sports thing because the dad maybe, if he could, if work wasn't a problem, like he would show up, right? I've been doing sports since they were three years old, so my oldest is 15, right, maybe I wasn't actually paying for it because I didn't have a job, but eight years ago when we divorced, I did everything and I had to beg him to take the kids to the sports, like I had to beg him to take them to the games.
Speaker 3:So your question is why are they acting this way, right, for those eight years that you've been doing this? How much of it was their knowledge? Or how much did you keep quiet about what you're doing? Because what I know of you, normally you do because you do it from your heart, you want to do it, you don't do it and then hold it over their head saying your dad's not doing this, your dad's not correct, correct so what I'm trying to get at is that you're now at that point where yeah, she's fed up way too well.
Speaker 3:They were too young, they didn't know what was going on. You've been doing this. Now they're older, now they're aware what's going on, and now they're chiming in because for all of those years they didn't realize that it was you and solely you. And now it's just like oh well, why does dad have to do this? Why aren't you doing it? Well, guess what? I've been doing it for the last eight years.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:He can go ahead and step up now.
Speaker 2:No, and that's what I said.
Speaker 3:Well, if they don't know about it, they're speaking out of their ignorance.
Speaker 1:Because they don't know, yeah, and because you don't know, yeah, and because you don't want to shit all over their dad.
Speaker 3:You're not trying to make him look bad you've kept it all inside, you haven't shared with them because they were too young and they didn't need to know how you spend your money.
Speaker 2:It's your money well, like, even in the same sentiment, like when my kids like doesn't he pay you child support, should I tell him that I only get 92 every fucking two weeks? What does 92 fucking buy you nowadays?
Speaker 3:like well, I would say, if they don't understand their place if you're not putting in a boundary as far as that goes. And they don't understand their place. You want to talk adult concepts with me. The reason why is because I get 92 every two weeks you think that I should start bringing that stuff up?
Speaker 2:They're 13 and 15. I don't think that it's.
Speaker 3:That is something that you have to figure out, whether or not it resonates with you. But if you can't explain to them and get them to understand I'm the parent that makes the money. I choose how I will spend the money. My job as a parent is to provide X, y and Z. All of these extras that you want to do, that you're wanting, that I have been providing for you are exactly that extras. Now, if you want to get into the economics and understand the adult side of things you need to go and think about, do I want to have this information? And then you need to figure out within yourself are you comfortable with sharing that information? Because in the last eight years you haven't You've kept that to yourself. Why did you keep it to yourself?
Speaker 2:Because they're little kids and they shouldn't even fucking be involved in that.
Speaker 3:Well, you're asking, and so the thing is is that, do you feel that they are of an age now where they can understand that? If they're not, then you need to just simply explain to them the way I spend my money, and how I spend my money is my decision.
Speaker 2:But I just feel like I'm constantly defending myself.
Speaker 3:But you shouldn't have to Exactly so.
Speaker 2:I need to set that boundary and be like don't come at me.
Speaker 3:What.
Speaker 1:But you're also wanting to empower your children right.
Speaker 3:So then that way they also understand when they become an adult or as you're aging, don't just accept or presume that something is going to be there for you, because everything has a cost. Right, there's always an exchange, there's always some kind of sacrifice somewhere. Somehow. If I want this and I have to sacrifice this amount to get that Right, if I want to do this, oops.
Speaker 1:Are we out? Can you still hear?
Speaker 3:Can you hear? I can't hear.
Speaker 1:You can't hear? Oh damn, hold on, I'm all excited Technical difficulties, technical difficulties.
Speaker 3:Fine, I'll set the boundary Just set the boundary, would you Get me all excited and tear out the table?
Speaker 2:No, but it's because it's exhausting. I feel like I'm constantly just so hey, now the question I have.
Speaker 1:So do you think, are you looking for credit now?
Speaker 2:Damn, we are messing up, huh I want the huh, I want the truth, I want the truth.
Speaker 3:Well then, you can't handle the truth. You gotta ask him can they handle the truth? That's what I'm asking. And do you really want to give them that much information?
Speaker 2:They just need. Look, he just needed to say right, like who he? The older one just needed to say I already know how to drive, but if you can teach me how to drive I need, I can always take another lesson. Like you don't have to sit there and lie, say my mom started teaching me how to drive stick, but I still still need some help. Did you explain it to him?
Speaker 2:he makes it seem like he fucking called me entitled of all, I don't even think he knows what the fuck that word probably doesn't I'm entitled and selfish because I want the credit oh, your kids I've got gray hair because I taught you how to drive. I just don't think it's fair, you know. So yeah, when we got into it, I was like you don't want to give me any credit because you want to give it to somebody who couldn't even bother showing up by himself to have your son-dad bonding thing.
Speaker 1:All right, listen, that's the question I have. So do you think that's? What bothers you most Is like, maybe, that you're not getting the credit, or that dad showed up with his little boo thing?
Speaker 2:I could care less about that.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:But let's be honest, right, Like I want the credit.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:I've been fucking teaching you how to drive for three years. I have one question, if I can interrupt, interrupt.
Speaker 3:Who is it that you care? That has the credit? That knows that you have the credit. You know you've been teaching him. He knows you've been teaching him. Your younger son knows you've been teaching him. Who is it that you? Care so much that knows you want your ex to know. Yes, so you don't think that your kid being in the car driving as well as he is is not going to be some kind of indication, like he already knows how to drive.
Speaker 1:Yeah, obviously He'd know right away.
Speaker 2:He said he was pretending to stop and I was like, why do we have to go through this fucking circus for someone?
Speaker 1:I think once you know how to drive, it's kind of hard to even do that stuff. It is.
Speaker 2:It looks like. Yeah, yeah but you could just say like look Okay.
Speaker 3:where did he learn that that behavior was okay To lie?
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:From a lying parent, from a lying parent. And who's he lying to the one that's been lying? Yeah, so he lying parent From a lying parent. And who's he lying to the one that's been lying? Yeah, so he's modeling what he's been taught. Yeah, so it kind of sounds if you look at it through that lens.
Speaker 1:Therapy.
Speaker 3:It kind of sounds like the father is kind of getting what he gave. Karma's a bitch yeah.
Speaker 2:He sure is so okay, he lied because he was trying to get a bonding moment, and then he was disappointed when that didn't happen which, unfortunately, unfortunately is the it's the norm routine with his dad. Norm for them right.
Speaker 3:so he, he knew you know he's just riding that roller coaster. I'm going to get excited. I'm going to see my dad, I'm going to see my ah, he did it again.
Speaker 1:I would like why don't he ask his dad to let's go play catch with the football or let's go shoot some hoop or play catch with the baseball?
Speaker 2:They play basketball.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that shit that's bonding right there. Yeah, me and my pop would go out, but it's not like he's a weekend parent Like he gets them 50%.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah. Like you get them every other week. So, then, that's your insight of recognizing that when he gets them, he's not with them. He's not present. He's not more like you where you sit and spend time with the kids.
Speaker 1:He's probably more like you, where you sit and spend time with the kids.
Speaker 2:He's probably off you almost say you make it a priority. Yeah, and God forbid, I want to go see a comedy show during the week that I have them, or a concert, and they'll be like, why don't you spend time with us?
Speaker 1:And I'm like I'll spend all the time you, ungrateful son of a bitch, you entitled little pieces of caca.
Speaker 2:Look, I understand that they feel comfortable with me. Enough to you know. Like, talk to me that way Because I know that they're afraid of the guy, aren't they what?
Speaker 1:15, 15 and 13?. Yeah, I'll be like man. If you don't get up out of this house, let me watch this Netflix and enjoy myself. At that age, I'm like, come on, yeah, I got a date with the bathroom.
Speaker 3:I think that's why they each wanted their own room.
Speaker 2:So yeah, I guess I mean I feel a little bit better about it. But yeah, I just wanted the dad to know.
Speaker 3:Why.
Speaker 1:Why Are you? You're completely. You said you've been divorced eight years.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:You're completely over him.
Speaker 2:Yes, okay, he did not age well, so that's a win-win in my situation I glowed up and he deflated deflated, it feels good and karma is a bitch I love, like I'm seeing what he's creeping. You know what I'm saying, so so you're just like whatever, it took like a long time for me to finally have like some compassion for him and understand that, like you know, he's a wounded person and he can't be by himself and he needs to be with someone. And even his kids have recognized like that's sad, that he can't be by himself. Like he was divorced in November and the girl moved in in December, so the new girl so you're just like and his kids are ashamed of that, which is understandable.
Speaker 2:But again, give me my fucking credit. Three years we know. And everybody in the podcast knows Especially our folks.
Speaker 1:Shout out to the people in Germany what's up? We love y'all.
Speaker 2:I don't know how to you know how to speak German, don't you A little bit? A bit, I think.
Speaker 3:I shouldn't say what. I know how to say you know how to say basta. My brother sat me. My brother was on the military base and he sat me down. There were a few words you need to know.
Speaker 1:Oh my.
Speaker 3:So for all of those people in Germany, he made sure that I learned how to say fichtisch oh, fuck this Off. Yeah.
Speaker 2:Oh, I can understand you he made me say this.
Speaker 1:Say this because I didn't say it gutturally enough. That means F off, mm-hmm oh.
Speaker 3:And I'm saying this. You know, you drilled this to me and I had to say it, just right. I'm like, what am I saying? Fuck off.
Speaker 1:No, I can't say that Schlüssel.
Speaker 3:I think that's key Schlüssel yeah. That doesn't sound like key, does it? I think key out of.
Speaker 1:Schlüssel. I don't know, that's key. I could be wrong.
Speaker 3:I don't know, it was a long time ago, it was 16.
Speaker 2:I watched that movie Immaculate, and it didn't have the subtitles, so a lot of them were like speaking in Italian. And as long as I'm like paying attention, I can pick up what they're saying.
Speaker 1:The nun movie yeah, did you like it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, which movie?
Speaker 1:Wasn't that movie good?
Speaker 2:It was good, immaculate, but what was it about? It was about this girl that went into a convention.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the nuns and some scary stuff was happening.
Speaker 3:A convention? Is that what you said? A convention? She went to a convention.
Speaker 1:What are they called? Called a convent.
Speaker 2:I don't know, there was priests there too. Yeah, it's a. You can't say anything but that, because it's a you give it all away.
Speaker 1:It's a trippy movie, for sure and well, I heard this on the radio show, on the podcast, that Sidney Sweeney, beautiful young lady, they say she's from Euphoria yeah, she is. That's a good show have you seen Anyone but you?
Speaker 2:oh yes, I've seen that movie. Have you seen Anyone but you? It is, oh my God. Oh yes, I've seen that movie.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've seen that movie. Oh my, have you seen Anyone but you? I'm trying to think, oh it is hilarious, but she's in it. So they were saying I guess she always kind of.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Because you know she has a nice body, she's busty, so I guess she always Didn't you find it? I mean, this is I'll tell this part. Did you find it crazy that they still found some way to do it? Yeah, in the nun movie. Yeah, I was like I don't know.
Speaker 3:That's not too far off, right? I mean there's some crazy things that goes on in there.
Speaker 1:And that's the thing, because I mean I went to a Catholic high school, but as far as that, I mean, it wasn't nuns walking around or any of that, Maybe way back in the day. So I was just sitting there thinking like damn, they found some way to put some ta-tas. I mean, I'm here for it. Do your thing. She's got a very, very nice body. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:Like ridiculous.
Speaker 1:But it was just crazy how they did it.
Speaker 3:I was like god damn it, it was clever the way they was doing.
Speaker 1:It was clever, it was tasteful it's a good movie and you just like what the hell he's crazy in it too like at the end you're just like oh, my God. You got to watch it. It is, it's good, and you got to watch Anyone but you.
Speaker 2:What is that about? And I've got both of those movies.
Speaker 1:Do you? It's a rom-com, I guess Sidney Sweeney and, like some dude I guess they supposed to meet or they went on a date or something like that. Maybe they had to go to a wedding and act like they liked each other. I just leave it right there. And they go to.
Speaker 2:Australia and craziness ensues.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I guess it was some rich folks. Somebody had money somewhere.
Speaker 3:Nice Alright.
Speaker 1:It was hilarious. It was hilarious. I was like what? Why?
Speaker 2:did my kid yesterday tell me that I need to find me a rich man and marry him. And I'm in my head thinking like how dare you? Don't you think I've been trying to do this?
Speaker 3:What do you think this is about? What do?
Speaker 2:you think I've been doing?
Speaker 3:I just don't tell him that I can't fucking like close the deal. Rich people are boring.
Speaker 1:Is that the right way to go?
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 1:Rich guys.
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 1:Lay down and have my babies. God damn it.
Speaker 2:And shut up. Yeah, shut up, lay down and hit you on the forehead with a ding-a-ling they probably can't even do that, because it's so small, because they're so old.
Speaker 1:Hey, you know, they got chewables. Now with Viagra, they got chewables.
Speaker 2:Does it still have the same side effect?
Speaker 1:I mean, I've never had one before.
Speaker 3:Okay, I'll try. Had one before. Okay, I'll try one, though there are younger men, you don't always have to go for the old ones.
Speaker 2:I had an 18-year-old hit me up. I was like get out of my face. This is super illegal.
Speaker 1:Would you let him smash?
Speaker 2:It's super illegal. Do you know how disgusting.
Speaker 1:He's 18. Wait, was he in high school or was he out?
Speaker 2:of high school. He was out of high school, Okay well, he's legal.
Speaker 1:I'm good, Let him smash.
Speaker 2:What is an 18-year-old going to do?
Speaker 1:No, let him smash, and then you can tell us about it.
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 1:We'll see the report back.
Speaker 2:I told him, I said we need content, I need y'all to have sex with some young men. Well for the sake of the podcast.
Speaker 3:Okay, I'll let him smash.
Speaker 2:I love the way that she takes one from the TV, if I must, I guess.
Speaker 3:Well, you know, they always say that you know 20 and 40, the older woman has finally now hit her prime and you need the younger guy, because someone who's a little bit older can't hang Right right, true. So you need the younger guy because someone who's a little bit older can't hang Right Right.
Speaker 1:True.
Speaker 3:So that's why you want to go for the younger one. And why there are now younger men going for older women.
Speaker 1:But 18 is just a little too young.
Speaker 3:A little too young, my kid's 15. Still wet behind the ears A little like hmm, a little creepy. I mean my ex-husband started dating someone who's eight years older than our daughter and that just freaks her out.
Speaker 2:Oh, really, at least they're not the same age.
Speaker 1:Eight years.
Speaker 2:Eight years older than my daughter. Well tell the age between you two.
Speaker 1:How old is your daughter?
Speaker 3:My daughter is 23.
Speaker 2:My ex is 10 years older than I am. This isn't algebra.
Speaker 3:So if X and b.
Speaker 2:Let's just say you know he's 63 and she's 30, so x equals 63 okay, now tell me this he's 63 are you bothered by that?
Speaker 3:I'm not yeah I don't have to look at it is your, your it, your daughter?
Speaker 1:she's bothered.
Speaker 3:Yeah, man he was grooving her to take over his business.
Speaker 1:I'm going to throw some confetti for that cat 63. You got a 30 year old because he's got money.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's not.
Speaker 2:It's not for his personality oh, never mind yeah dude is so like I don't even think he can sleep with her he's in so much pain, oh dang. Oh, never mind. Yeah, dude is so like I don't even think he can sleep with her.
Speaker 3:He's in so much pain. Oh dang, oh no. I bet when I he's on he's hopped up on something being killers. He just walks around like he should be in a wheelchair.
Speaker 2:Yeah. That's obviously for the money man I mean. And how do?
Speaker 3:you sit there and actually pretend like it's not. How did, how did how? Does he not know? I mean, you're not a kind person, you don't have a circle of friends, you know? And geez this. How many times has has this relationship broken off? Yet you guys are always going on a trip. What, why, what would you think? Oh yeah I mean, that's what I'm saying like how do you sit there and act like not know?
Speaker 2:yeah, like you're, like you look like a fucking idiot. Oh my gosh, everybody knows when.
Speaker 3:She saw him like the last time that, like he, he just. He wrote her off right after after he started dating this young girl and so the daughter he wrote off the daughter right and so she had met him for lunch and she was like mom. He walked in, he was hunched over, he is balding, but he managed to have a mohawk that wasn't exactly standing up, so it was like limp.
Speaker 3:We'll just say that skate so like the longboard shorts standing up. So it was like limp. We'll just say that skate so like the long board shorts, high top skate shoes and an old band shirt and had both of his ears.
Speaker 1:His ears were pierced both my ears were pierced you're not 63 with a limp mohawk either you know I should have been pierced, for I'm urban but he just pierced them at 63 mine's been pierced since like 88 and it has always get a tattoo, oh, a couple of them.
Speaker 3:They got matching tattoos and he always, um are, uh, he's jewish. And so when my daughter would say, I want to get a tattoo, no, you can't, you can't. And so when, instead, she started getting piercings, and then, um, he gave her, he gave her a rip about that, and then she's like, oh yeah, now he's all tapped. What, what? How can they tap that?
Speaker 2:yeah, creepy skin I mean seriously, somebody has to hold it right and so, like they have to like iron it out, then they can go ahead and tap.
Speaker 3:Maybe that's why he has her, because she has good hands and she can just hold the skin, spread the skin so they can do the work. Ew, disgusting. Oh, that was a really gross talk and she's not even pretty.
Speaker 2:But it's a Scottsdale thing. Like you go to Scottsdale, so go to Scottsdale, so I don't know I had a date one time over there and, like I, met this older dude.
Speaker 1:He didn't have any money in Scottsdale, in Scottsdale. This is so funny when people just be like Scottsdale, scottsdale why would you meet him in Scottsdale if he had no money?
Speaker 3:I know stupid me right?
Speaker 2:oh, he was thinking, oh, you were gonna pay well, we went over there and he, well, he makes good money. He's a waiter and he makes like $500 a day.
Speaker 3:So that's more than I pay. So he's not good with his money.
Speaker 2:Well, he doesn't have Scottsdale money.
Speaker 1:So when I was sitting there, I was going to say $500 a day is pretty damn good. It's really really good, that's good.
Speaker 2:And this guy like tried to come back around after he said something stupid and he goes I had like a brain aneurysm and I was like okay, am I supposed to dismiss how you treated me? And he goes yeah, I had a brain aneurysm. I was like that's a first, I'm good, so anyways. So while I'm in scotland, are you prone to brain aneurysms? Is that something I should know about? Or fucking people brain aneurysm Is that something I should know about? Do I give fucking people brain?
Speaker 3:aneurysms. Which personality are we talking to, right?
Speaker 2:now, is this the one with the aneurysm or no?
Speaker 3:Can I see?
Speaker 2:those fucking doctor's notes, because I don't know if I believe you, dude. So when you go to Scottsdale, you see a creepy older man with, like really, really young women. So like they have to be aware, you have to be aware, you have to be aware.
Speaker 3:Okay, so then, that takes you to the point, both of them and you're an older man, right?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I am.
Speaker 3:So, it takes you to the point Is it all about having the trophy and the eye candy that you can walk around with, or whatever happened to that, that sentiment, that connection? That what the true intimacy?
Speaker 1:right, but here's one thing I will say. Here's one thing I will say there are times not not every single time, but there are times where that trophy truly is like smart and you know they really do love each other. But on the surface you will look and see like, oh man, I mean because I swear to God, me and Joe, we literally just talked about this when you see the real, real pretty girl and then you see the guy, first thing I think, oh, he got a lot of money. That's every single time. I just saw it in the target as soon as I walked in I saw the old dude real nice, she was all right.
Speaker 1:I was just like there, there are those times when they click, that's true, yeah, but no, I get what you On the surface, though as soon as you see it you're like nah, I was like either she don't have papers or mail order or mail. Yeah, exactly, Either mail order or hey, you got a lot of money. I'm serious.
Speaker 3:Let me bring you back to the fact that she did say she was in Scottsdale.
Speaker 1:Dude, you can go out there. You can just go out there and just people watch.
Speaker 2:And that's what I was doing. I was just sitting there and I was like, damn, like all these young girls, You're just like man.
Speaker 2:Listen, I was in LA, right, and there was one time there was a gay couple. It I was in LA, right and there was one time there was a gay couple. It was a fat white guy with a thin black guy, young, right, I would say. The age difference was probably like I'm sure the guy was like 40, late 40s and then the young guy was like maybe, yeah, early 20s he had like they were at the mall coach bag oh, yeah, yeah obviously this guy is buying. It's obvious right.
Speaker 2:But like I, can't do, I can't but I know, like a lot of gay people, and they're like I'm attracted to older men, like I'm attracted to older men and I'm just like so then I, when they were young, right like so. My friend was like I was attracted to older men since I was young. And then he goes and now I became the older man and now I like them younger and there is guys that are attracted to older men. So I'm like can there be a possibility with women? Because in my head it's called daddy issues that women are attracted to it's daddy issues.
Speaker 3:Those are, yeah, consider that. Where did that term come from?
Speaker 1:doesn't matter if you're male or female you're going for someone that's a little bit older there's, there's a father wound because like so if you go with a real, real older lady, is that mommy issues or just?
Speaker 3:Very well could be, do you think?
Speaker 2:that 18-year-old has mommy issues. He wants me to spank him.
Speaker 3:Either that or he just wants to suckle your nipple.
Speaker 2:So, so when I get older.
Speaker 3:Like am I gonna be attracted to older men?
Speaker 2:I'm not attracted to older men right now no when I get old, do you think?
Speaker 1:that we get attracted to the age. I guarantee in two weeks or three weeks. Brenda gonna come in here be like, hey, I met this dude 35, I think I'm gonna give him a chance. She gonna be like you gonna wear her back out too well, that's what they're supposed to do. 35 that's a good uh you know, 25. Okay, you just all right, go ahead and leave 35.
Speaker 1:You might want to keep them around a little bit yeah, kind of agree with them yeah, I think 35 is a good age because you got listen, you got to realize with energy level, you got to go with energy level too. You got to go with energy level too. As you get older, obviously, your energy level goes down. I like to stay in shape and my fitness.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God.
Speaker 1:You're going to be on cocaine and then this older guy is going to be on Viagra. Hey, some chewables. I'm about to look up chewables, but obviously I know my energy level ain't what it was 25 years ago when I'm 20 or 25. But you just sit up here and you think like man. But they said well, you guys, y'all be ramped up and ready to go in your 40s or something, or you're like man, so you got to die in his 40s or 50s.
Speaker 2:Look, I'm ready to do the dirty deed, but it's got to be at 8 o'clock Like I can't wait till 11. I am out by 11 o'clock.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, listen.
Speaker 2:It's like listen honey. There's no middle of the night, there is no booty call anymore, you, there's no middle of the night.
Speaker 1:There is no booty cup anymore. You gotta come and hit it before you go to the club, early in the morning, mid afternoon or, like you say, about 7 or 8.
Speaker 3:Yeah, like the dishes are washed, I don't mind that if I'm crawling into bed and it starts at 8, if he wants to go a little bit longer, okay, as long as it starts before. If he puts you to go a little bit longer, okay, as long as it starts before, if he puts you to sleep, perfect.
Speaker 2:That's the whole point.
Speaker 3:Don't keep me up for fucking hours, dude, what's?
Speaker 2:wrong with that? If I need to go to work, there's a lot wrong with that. I need my sleep.
Speaker 1:You want to be up for hours.
Speaker 2:Goddamn Brenda. Okay, there's no problem going for hours if we start at five in the afternoon oh hell right, that would be a two in addition if we start at five and we fuck around till eight o'clock fun yeah, now let's go have dinner. Sleep then, yeah now let's go have dinner and I can go to bed, yeah, but if you want to start at 8 and you want us to finish at 11, I'm going to be cranky the next morning.
Speaker 3:You know what that just means you pour an extra cup of coffee or we can just start at five. That works too. But what if you get off late, Get off work late?
Speaker 2:As long as I get off, I don't care.
Speaker 1:Ha, ha ha.
Speaker 3:Ha yeah, I intended that.
Speaker 2:B-4-8. B-4-8.
Speaker 3:And don't fuck around with my shows either. Oh, jeez, oh, and make sure that you warm me up first, yeah.
Speaker 1:Just can't go in cold turkey.
Speaker 3:No.
Speaker 2:I don't know. I mean, I like if somebody's coming over to my house, I know what's happening. So stuff is in place already.
Speaker 3:Well, it might be in place, but it doesn't mean that you want to just like, yeah, I'll be naked.
Speaker 1:I'll meet you in bed you already lubed up. I don't need lube, I just like, yeah, I'll be naked.
Speaker 2:I'll meet you in bed. You already lubed up, I don't need lube, I ain't that old.
Speaker 1:That's how they do it on television.
Speaker 3:You got to have a little bit of foreplay.
Speaker 1:It's not like hey, oh for sure, we want some foreplay. That's what I'm talking about. I thought you just lay down and just.
Speaker 3:See, that's the male's perspective. You just lay down, lay down.
Speaker 2:Remember.
Speaker 3:Lay down, shut up, make my babies Right. No, I mean, there's a lot of things that you can do Like I would tell one guy Honey, bring the sandwiches. What are you talking about? I?
Speaker 2:would tell one guy like just walk in, I'm asleep, Just wake me up.
Speaker 3:Yes, but that was how many years ago.
Speaker 1:Two weeks ago. No, could have been Could have been?
Speaker 2:Could have been Nobody's keeping score, but yeah, I mean, I think we all went through that phase at some time.
Speaker 3:Yeah, the key's under the bat, just come on in.
Speaker 2:Man. I remember one time I told this guy I was like, hey, just come in, I'm going to be blindfolded and stuff you know, and it seemed like a really good idea.
Speaker 1:Was it a bad idea?
Speaker 3:Hey, listen, I'm here he was ugly, he was my friend.
Speaker 2:Handcuffs he was so ugly I was like oh was he ugly. He was so ugly but he had like a huge penis.
Speaker 1:So you was cool with it then. So I took one for the team Until the lights came on.
Speaker 2:No, I literally was like I'm just going to wear this blindfold.
Speaker 3:This is how kink I just didn't want to see him Really?
Speaker 1:No, I just didn't want to see him. Hey, listen.
Speaker 2:I've done some stuff that I'm not proud of.
Speaker 1:Oh, yes, you have. You've said it on here before too, and people are still talking about that which episode you check it out?
Speaker 2:It was the one with Eddie. We got a little offhand. Oh yeah, he's sad, but hey, I'm not going to shame myself for my past.
Speaker 1:No, don't listen, I shouldn't.
Speaker 2:And I've decided, like you know, the person that needs to understand, like dude, I'm just open.
Speaker 1:Hey look, here's the thing.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God the visual.
Speaker 1:When you're younger, listen I know, like when she says she's just open. Like when you're younger, you just sit up here and you just think like, oh man. But as you get older you know people are going to have a past. And then you're just kind of like it's judgment-free zone. It's like, hey, whatever, everybody's done stuff.
Speaker 2:Yeah, if you're judging Sometimes not crazy stuff, but so like I had this one guy and I told him that I had a threesome with another girl and a guy, oh, he was super into that, you know. So then I was like and I've also done it the other way.
Speaker 3:And now there was judgment. What do you mean?
Speaker 1:Give, and I've also done it the other way, and now there was judgment. Give me clarification. Oh, with two guys in a group, with two guys, yeah, two guys, and you.
Speaker 3:I think it's always interesting when a guy is like hey, so you and your girlfriend, yeah, hey, what about you and your guy friend the hell? No, no, no, no.
Speaker 2:Why? Why is that? Why is that? It's a fucking what is it If you love me.
Speaker 1:Well, honey, if you love me, it's a choo-choo train.
Speaker 2:What's a choo-choo train?
Speaker 1:Oh, we're running a train on you Two guys and a girl.
Speaker 2:It's a train no the two guys don't want to do it. They feel like, ew, yucky, I have to see another guy's dick. It's weird, it's not a matter.
Speaker 1:But the thing is, I mean, you don't expect the two guys to do it, right? No, oh, okay, yeah, maybe, nah, hell, nah, hell.
Speaker 3:I'm not putting it out there. You can go here and you can go here.
Speaker 1:Yeah see, that's what I said.
Speaker 2:Yes, but that's what I'm saying. Like guys are like two girls. I'm all on board. Two guys. Well, I've got to think about it. Who's the other guy? Like one time I was like gonna start messing around with one guy. I was like, hey, so you want to come up to the room? I've got another guy over there and he's like, if I would have been like my friends up there, no hesitation you're messing around with some suckers that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:You get a girl who's like open sexually, who can teach you some shit, and you're going to cry because she slept with two dudes before.
Speaker 3:It's intimidation. Can I perform? No, that's what it is.
Speaker 1:And then they start thinking about oh what if the other dude's dick is bigger than mine?
Speaker 2:Okay, is that a thing? Is that a thing?
Speaker 1:Yes, I don't care, I mean.
Speaker 2:You're supposed to be the male perspective, nigga.
Speaker 1:Didn't I just sit up here and say, listen. He's probably thinking the dude's dick is bigger than mine.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:So if I sit up here, okay, let's just say, for instance, we going in, I'll be like God damn that nigga's dick big as hell. Oh well, I'm going first.
Speaker 3:That's right.
Speaker 1:You would want to go first anyway, wouldn't you Well? I mean if he pulling out the hammer.
Speaker 3:Well, I mean, I do know that there are guys that are like it just makes a little bit more slippery. That's a problem.
Speaker 1:Oh, oh, oh, oh Nah.
Speaker 3:Didn't like that visual.
Speaker 1:Oh hell, nah you talking about like the double load, huh? Oh my God, man listen, y'all casting man listen y'all casting man dog no lubrication was needed. Good Lord, have mercy. I've seen it on the porn before. You're just like, hey, you never know what'll happen when you going in there.
Speaker 2:You'll be like yeah, but like you're like, oh, a threesome. Yeah, fuck it, who cares if it's two guys?
Speaker 1:and two girls right like no threesome is a threesome, but for the most part, honestly, guys be oh. Okay, it's a train, but I mean it's a running joke. A threesome is a threesome, yeah well, three people but then well, yeah, but she's talking about like the two guys and them like messing with each other. No, I mean, if they into it, then hey, it's whatever.
Speaker 2:You know, there's a lot more fluidity, so guys are getting like they're a lot more open, and so it's like you know what, Like I wouldn't mind, you don't have to do stuff, but maybe you can grab each other or something, I don't know. I know a guy who wants to bring in a transsexual and I'm like maybe Hmm.
Speaker 1:Cause you get both worlds you get a guy and a girl, hmm, but he wants it. He wants it because it's a force of he wants to get pegged.
Speaker 2:So that's the to almost be like four of y'all. He wants it because it's a foursome yeah. He wants to get pegged, so that's the reason for a tranny.
Speaker 1:He wants to get did in his booty.
Speaker 2:Well, where else is he going to get did?
Speaker 1:I mean his mouth.
Speaker 2:I guess what are the four holes. I heard somebody say she gave you all four holes.
Speaker 1:It's four holes.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so we know the three. Which one would be the other one? Your ears, not your ears, you got that makes it what yeah do you think if you put your like footsies together, would that be considered a hole?
Speaker 1:your foot your foot.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like you've never heard of people using their feet.
Speaker 1:I don't know. Let's see, put your feet together.
Speaker 3:No, I don't think so I don't think that would be considered.
Speaker 1:Okay, so then Put your feet on the microphone.
Speaker 3:But then that would be like you know, guys that want to do it between the breasts. I've been doing yoga, is it the breasts?
Speaker 2:No, I don't think that's a whole. Would it be a nose?
Speaker 3:I would hope not. Could you imagine a dick up your nose?
Speaker 1:Nah.
Speaker 3:There's that visual again.
Speaker 2:I'm imagining it. It's weird.
Speaker 1:The fellas didn't miss this one. Look what I done. Walked into.
Speaker 2:This is the bonus, yeah, we have. Just, I mean, I'm like super busy and stuff and I've got softball again and stuff and I was like at some point I've been wanting to go out. And then she's doing like coaching now and so she's got like calls and she's got a new job, so they made the announcement at school and I was like, don't call me up on the stage.
Speaker 3:I'm not going up on the stage when you announce who's leaving, sorry but instead my name was on the board and, like everybody, read it and all of these kids afterwards were like sad and crying and sobbing why do you have to leave?
Speaker 1:Oh, so you're leaving.
Speaker 3:Yes, I took a job in a different. Can you get this? I am down the street in a different district, 35% more pay.
Speaker 1:Damn.
Speaker 3:Okay, that doesn't sound right, does it? I mean, I get the whole, the whole reason. Oh, it's different taxes and people you know but I mean, when it really comes down to it, aren't all kids that are in school, aren't they all residents of arizona, right? I mean, do you?
Speaker 2:work where you live no, none of us do so why?
Speaker 3:why can't it just go into I mean, it'll be my ignorant speaking why can't it all just go into a pot and then distribute it evenly, so that, oh, we have, oh I don't know what would that be?
Speaker 1:because they got them quality for everybody.
Speaker 3:They got them. Title one schools.
Speaker 1:They just want to. I mean, you had them, them kids, that's she's.
Speaker 2:She's in a title one. You had a title one yeah, see 100, and that's what I don't think I've never well the education should be like they have been cutting so much from, so the teacher should get paid equally right. But, like she said, the districts dictate how much teachers get paid. Yeah, yeah, well, so a teacher that has a ton of experience, if she's in a title one, it doesn't get paid her worth, and that's bullshit. Like you should get paid, so you have to go somewhere.
Speaker 3:So if you were to go to like out, like scottsdale or something, well, like yeah, well, no, I I'm actually going to be making more than what I would at scottsdale. But the thing is, is that I, the position that I had, um was covet money, so that money has. It has been taken away now, right, so positions have been reduced and the government is cutting title one spending and we and we lost some of our COVID money. So we've lost 11 teachers this year. So those 11 teachers are going to.
Speaker 3:I tell you the education system Right exactly going to different districts and I'm going down the street to another district where I'm going to be making 35% more income. Yet, okay, that's what I have to do, because, as an adult, I shouldn't feel like I have to have a second job or a roommate to be able to pay my bills right to be able to put my daughter on my insurance my health insurance to be able to afford it.
Speaker 3:That isn't the way it should be, so like, if, whatever the funding is, why can't it just be all put in one great big pot and then distributed evenly, right? I mean, I know that there's litigation, there's reasons for it, but I mean there's got to be a way where it can be more equal, because why would one district oh you know what? You've been working for this many decades. I'll give you all of your years where you go over to this decade or to this district and it's like oh you know what, we can only give you a decade, right, they don't, even they don't even pay you where you are.
Speaker 1:For how many years wow?
Speaker 2:yeah, and we had voted in arizona. We had voted to give teachers more money and they went and they rescinded it like because it doesn't.
Speaker 1:It doesn't um it doesn't, nationally, it's not good for people to be educated?
Speaker 3:They want dumb people, they want sheeple yeah they want sheep.
Speaker 2:They want people that are just going to work and not ask any questions.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and then the other part that is so frustrating is okay, why do we have state testing? That's not for the kids to figure out what the kids are learning and what the kids aren't learning. It's so that how's the kids to figure out what the kids are learning and what the kids aren't learning?
Speaker 1:it's so that how's the?
Speaker 3:school doing right, I heard about something like that in uh in florida and so if, if you have principals that are involved and are on campus and are able to be in the classrooms and able to walk around and see what's happening, wouldn't we know what's happening on our campuses and wouldn't we know whether or not our teachers are doing what's supposed to be going on versus oh you know what. Here's a test coming up. Let's, let's cram and get ready for this test and this test. So then it's. It's like how, what are we preparing the students for?
Speaker 3:right and and the other thing that I've been hearing a ton about, which I find so interesting, is, like they're all of the things that we have in our curriculum that we're supposed to teach, right? How much of it is actually stuff that you or you or I use in my everyday life, right? How many, how many kids that graduate from high school will come over and say, well, I never learned how to balance a checkbook.
Speaker 2:They don't. I don't know how to have a budget. I don't know how to do taxes. I don't know how to pay bills.
Speaker 3:So we need. I don't know how to cook, I don't know how to do my laundry.
Speaker 1:So we need to have some things. Why don't they have that? Yeah, they got rid of cooking why?
Speaker 3:Because because I really used to have like our. Ours was called home economics, right and why not. Why not having something like gardening, so that they know how to prove? I mean, okay, why am I having a third grader asking me where chocolate milk comes from? Okay, there's a lot of stuff that doesn't.
Speaker 2:That is presumed is going to be taught at home, but isn't taught at home like maybe those conversations aren't happening anymore, so well somewhere somebody's got to put it in the curriculum. Well, because you have two parents that have got two jobs, exactly, and they don't have time, exactly, you're the babysitter.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Exactly so there needs to be more Like they're learning they have to learn everything at school. There needs to be more added into our curriculum. Okay, then you tell the kids great one, like when you were little, you know your imaginary friend, right? Oh, now you shut it down, shut it down, shut it down, right. Well, our imagination is our key to whatever we can create and what we can grow into. Right, we don't. We don't have the kids nurture, we don't nurture that in the kids at all right right, and so a lot of art.
Speaker 3:I don't know about you, but when I was in art or in class, I had to produce something that looked just like what the teacher produced now, that's true that's pulling away now.
Speaker 3:But you're not even allowed to have your imagination in that way, because, oh, you know what you have to do. This rubric, you have to check all of the boxes to get the points, to get the grade. Why not teach the whole person? So then, that way, when you leave my classroom and you go off, and whatever happens in the rest of your life, I've been able to give you this, this and this skill that will help you function in life.
Speaker 1:Do you ever sit back sometimes and be like damn, we're doing these kids a disservice Every?
Speaker 3:single day my dream. What I really want to do is I want to be able to get the capital I used to have a Montessori program out of my home and I had kids that were 19 months doing cvc words I were able to read cat and dog and pig and and do math, and they weren't even two. They weren't I want to be able to, to go back into that place where I can open up an environment where we can teach the children how to live, not not just how to follow orders but what?
Speaker 3:do you need to have a more well-rounded life, you know? Versus a boy who's feels like I have to lie to get my father's attention right instead of being able to say you know what? Mom already taught me how to do this, but it would be really powerful if you and I could just spend some time together let's go through, let's go shoot hoops, right?
Speaker 3:why can't this boy feel like, hey, I can talk to this person, because we've been programming people that they have to be a certain way, you have to follow along, and nobody gets the opportunity to find themselves and talk about what happened with meditation.
Speaker 2:What do you mean? That you had to give it like a different name because you can't teach kids how to meditate, right, you know, like, how to regulate your emotion different different religions and stuff and you have some parents that would push back on certain things, and meditation in some cultures are considered it's considered kind of like.
Speaker 3:It's kind of like an occult right like it's like it's taboo, it's bad, it's not good when you don't realize that what it is is. It's just being able to. It's a part of self-regulation if I can just calm myself, get out of my head, get in my body and just let all that crazy energy that's going on in your body because what ends up happening?
Speaker 3:yeah you get angry, you get frustrated, you get rushed out the door in the morning, right, and so I would tell the kids that we're gonna just do an energy dump we're gonna get rid of all that anxious and that yeah and then that's good. That that's how you want me to operate the rest of the day. You want me to be able to sit in a desk for how many hours? And listen to you, right especially kids.
Speaker 1:You know, you sit around, you know what the hell?
Speaker 2:well, because a lot of parents are like you. You're not really actually feeling that, so they shut it down and then you have a teacher who's like let's just go ahead and like meditate, and they're like you can't say that damn they don't even do the pledge of allegiance anymore, huh it is so disturbing how many people just they don't.
Speaker 3:But we do the pledge, our school, we do the pledge, but so many kids will sit right through it oh, as you do whatever, and okay, I remember we used to do that all the wow. Oh, and you better stand, you better not sit down, you better take off your hat and your hand better be over your heart. Yeah, I mean it's great that people now have options, and I can do what I feel is right.
Speaker 3:But you know what? If that 8 year old doesn't want to stand, then let that 8 year old make that decision. Don't tell that 8 year old, you know, as a parent you can't stand let them know why we do it, and then let them make that decision on their own now it's just silent, right, Isn't it?
Speaker 1:I heard some schools are just silent and they can pray or do whatever they want.
Speaker 3:No, we'll do the pledge, but then the kids get a moment of silence, which is really three seconds.
Speaker 2:Like again religion being taught in there. They're just like oh God.
Speaker 1:And basically the state test and all that stuff is really just to see where the money is allocated or where the money goes.
Speaker 3:Exactly. Look at all of the websites you have, for you know great schools and we're going to check it out and see what your score is.
Speaker 2:I already saw also that like it gets to like a. This is an A plus school and but I read somewhere that like a, 68% is considered a, b and there's, I'm not kidding. I've had people come into my office.
Speaker 1:They're 68 is a, b Is a, b.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they've changed the way they grade so that these fucking kids can pass.
Speaker 3:I'm going to tell you this Absolutely, because they don't want to retain anybody because it costs money.
Speaker 1:I remember I went to public school, k-8. I went to a parochial high school and I remember on a test when I first got there I remember on a test I read this when we first got there, I remember freshman year I think I got a like a 73. I was like, oh, okay, she said D, what the? I was like a D, I was like a 70, and I'm starting you start looking at the grade scale, but then like how, you said that a 68. Because obviously 73 to C. So I was like, okay, well, at least I passed and I'm good. I mean a D, I passed, passed. But still I was like what the hell is a 73, a D? And so when you're telling me a 68.
Speaker 3:Oh, we don't have any kids fail. They get a 50%. They don't get anything marked off. They get 50%. They showed up, they made it Well. Did you just want to just bypass?
Speaker 1:the whole uniform. That's like having a participant. Hell, no yeah.
Speaker 3:Bypass the uniform and just fit them for a jumpsuit. Now what they're not going to have to work for anything when, when they're older and I I did work for a company once who went into my grade book and they're like um, you don't get participation grades, do I get a participation paycheck?
Speaker 1:No See, that's them. Participation trophies, man. Yeah, Everybody gets one. Yeah, goodness gracious.
Speaker 2:And it's crazy, man. It's just like you are producing people. You're letting them graduate high school and they can't even fucking read.
Speaker 1:No, they can't read?
Speaker 2:No, they cannot read. And then they come into my office and they look at me, like me, like you know, deer caught in headlights when you ask them to like read or fucking sign their name, and they, they could barely sign their name. Yo, you're driving a fucking car and you, you don't know how to sign your name how is that okay?
Speaker 3:how do you read the signs to know where you're going? Oh wait, I don, I don't have to. I've got MapQuest. That's like the big phase a couple of years ago. I don't even know if it still is now where people are like oh, I don't need books, I just do an audio book.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I know a lot of people. I'm like I don't know. Audio books are just not my thing.
Speaker 1:I know I have one on there and it's yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, and that's what it is Like. Everything is just so convenient.
Speaker 1:Because you start to kind of like, you know, go off, Maybe I need to just be in a. I tried to do it like I was driving. I was like, okay, I got a long drive, Let me. Oh, that's smart. You know some people'm like what the hell did I just listen to? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3:I want to. If I read it, I like to. If I'm reading something, there are times that, oh, I like that.
Speaker 1:I want to read it again, Right right, right, you know, and it's just, and I had to read something and then I'll be like I don't remember what I just read. So then I have to go back and read it again.
Speaker 2:I was like obviously my body did not want to like register what I just read, so maybe I just put it away. But there's something about just reading a book that's like. But even nowadays, like, can I get my children to read a fucking book? No, they're so stuck on that phone and you're just like I don't, short of just like doing like settings for little kids where they're not allowed. I don't, you're just, you just give up. It's just like I can't.
Speaker 1:As I said, I'm like well, I don't know about two years old, but three or four year old Know how to do the iPad.
Speaker 2:Two year old.
Speaker 1:Wow.
Speaker 3:Two year old.
Speaker 2:We were just seeing, not even to know how to work it. Yeah, and these kids will throw a fit. They will throw a fit. When you take away, you have to consider right, because everything evolves right.
Speaker 3:So we're I'm, I'm a pregnant person and I've got the, the baby, growing inside me and I'm on my phone, right. So the kids are already getting a lot of information when they're in utero from whatever the parents have, right?
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:Consider it's all cellular memory right. There's there. So I come in with some of that knowledge and then, whatever the mom is hearing, whatever the mom is feeling, I'm, I'm pregnant and you and I just had a fight. You're my baby's daddy and we had a fight and I'm afraid you're going to leave my baby is already getting that information Wow.
Speaker 3:And all of, and that is like that's as soon as the trauma begins, right? So, think about, now we've got, we've, we've, we're doing away with abortion, right so? And they're not even going to allow that for women who have crimes against them, right so now you want me to go ahead, and whether or not I would or would or not, but I don't have that choice now. So now I'm going to give birth to this being that was conceived during a very traumatic experience. How equipped am I going to come into the world, knowing that I was already conceived in this situation? Whatever the mom was growing in, right, I'm growing in the mom. So, whatever she's feeling, whatever she's going through, and then the trauma of being born.
Speaker 3:I wanted the stigma of the fact that now this child was created out of this situation. Now, what else is going to happen? Yeah imagine how. What is that going to look like down the road?
Speaker 2:and she probably gave up the baby and it went into the system or got adopted. And now this kid, who was conceived with this trauma and abandoned, add that to the mix like what are you producing?
Speaker 3:and what's that going to look for?
Speaker 2:look like for mental health down the road yeah, and they don't have money for mental health. So so right, that's not an option, you've got to have money. Like I don't know who I was talking to and they're like I don't have 225 to go to therapy. I was like nobody does and $225 to go to therapy.
Speaker 1:I was like nobody does, and they want you to go once a week?
Speaker 2:Who the fuck?
Speaker 1:I ain't that sick. That's when you sit up here you be like hey, I'll talk to myself.
Speaker 2:I'll be like that's why I go to a podcast, Cause I ain't got no money for no therapy.
Speaker 1:Hey, this boy listen Now. You know, y'all gotta come back of course it's fun every time, y'all come. You know people gonna want more. They gonna be like, wait now, what in the hell happened to them?
Speaker 2:and if you know what hole it is, let us know in the comments.
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, yeah yeah, nobody's talking one on twitter. Nobody's talking one on Twitter. Nobody's talking podcast on IG and nobody's talking podcast at gmailcom. Now, here's the thing. What in the heck?
Speaker 3:Somebody made that up Because now I'm sitting up here thinking like you know what is that? What's that Urban Dictionary right Check it out.
Speaker 1:I was See, this is so funny. I was on Urban Dictionary, we was looking at. We was looking at what's a baddie.
Speaker 2:Oh Us, we're baddies Woo.
Speaker 1:There you go, baddies.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we're baddies, baddies.
Speaker 1:I'm not a baddie, I'm just a regular guy. Can guys be baddies?
Speaker 2:No, there's got to be another name for guys.
Speaker 1:If you're a little saucy, you can be a baddie. No, don't take it away from the girls, it's the girl I mean you, hey, you know some guys out there that think that you know they.
Speaker 2:Okay, well, now you're going through the extreme, but there's got to be a name for guys that are like really hot, like I don't know what I mean. Go to the urban dictionary and find out what it's called but here we go right here. Baddie is for women like because my kids are like jennifer aniston is a baddie all right, look what's a guy baddie yeah, it's a daddy. I don't know how to say it. What was I supposed to say, daddy?
Speaker 3:no, you gotta say a girl, a woman of what? Excuse me, a woman is a baddie.
Speaker 2:If she's hot like she gotta be like fucking dying.
Speaker 1:Okay, this is on Reddit, right here. It says what's the male equivalent of calling a female a baddie. Oh well, you know what? Well, I don't know, because I have heard somebody say zaddy.
Speaker 3:Zaddy no.
Speaker 1:I have heard that before.
Speaker 3:But is that what it?
Speaker 2:is. He's a zaddy, I don't know I wouldn't even want to be called that if I was hot and I was a dude. Oh, you're a zaddy. Get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 1:But see, I think a zaddy, I think that's like an older guy though. Oh, I think that's.
Speaker 2:Like a Gen Z dude.
Speaker 1:That's the daddy but he just can't See, look, Look because you see, right there, somebody put legend. But you see, zaddy, yeah, I saw it.
Speaker 2:Oh, Well, if you know what a hot guy is. If you know where a hot guy is, also let me know what's up. They need to be legal.
Speaker 3:Wait, and you said rich earlier, right, rich. And what was the age? Okay, can you?
Speaker 2:have young and like, yeah, I guess you can have young and rich if they've got daddy's money.
Speaker 3:I remember my friend from the trip back from the Bahamas. Lebron was young and rich. If they've got daddy's money remember my friend from the trip back from the bahamas could have young lebron was young and rich.
Speaker 2:His son, who can't make the basketball, apparently what lebron's son can't make the basketball team what basketball team?
Speaker 1:I don't know. He's not on the basketball team because he can't make it, because he can't make it Exactly, he can't make it.
Speaker 2:Because he can't make it, Even though he's LeBron's kid.
Speaker 1:he can't make it. It's not even basketball season.
Speaker 2:They said that he didn't make this season. He needs to go back and like, shoot some more hoops, or some shit like that.
Speaker 1:Oh my God, what do you do in basketball? Hey y'all.
Speaker 2:We'll talk to.