Communicating from Oneness

When we speak to each other and there is a common ground in our communication we enjoy it. When we discuss something and disagree there is disharmony. It can become a war of the ego of each person declaring they are right and the other is wrong. I like to take the stand that the purpose of communication is not only to get your point across but it is to please each other.  Then right or wrong doesn't become the purpose of communication as we know it is always changing. Unchanging harmony becomes the purpose of communication.

When you meditate you see the Oneness of all Beings free from ego and mind. When you start with this premise then you know that you can accept whatever the other is saying knowing it is just another viewpoint from their life experience or learning which has to be different than yours. Two people, or two minds, can never always agree. Therefore, you don't expect to always agree. Instead, you see the Oneness that we all share regardless of opinion. Opinion changes but Onesness never changes. When you communicate from Oneness you don't need to prove anything. Then you can accept a different opinion. You want to please others and, therefore, please the one Self that is alone everywhere.