The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
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The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 177: When Possums Become Watchdogs
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When I work with parents whose child spends a lot of time on the possum pathway, I warn them that sometimes possum kids become watchdog kids before the finally have a nice, strong owl brain.
Because watchdog behaviors are often more intense and scarier than possum behaviors, this can feel like your child is ‘getting worse.’
It’s actually a sign of healing, and here’s why!
In this episode, you’ll learn
- Why kids who have a lot of possum behavior can sometimes become kids who have a lot of watchdog behavior
- Why this phenomenon usually means there is progress and healing happening
- Why sometimes kids move from possum behaviors to owl behaviors without having watchdog behaviors
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/possumsbecomewatchdogs
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