The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.
Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 179: Is Regulated The Goal?
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I’m sure you often feel like ‘getting your kid regulated’ is a very important goal!
But- is it? Is regulated the goal? And is it possible to even consider these kinds of questions when we are parenting very dysregulated kids with very dangerous behaviors?
In this episode, you’ll learn
- The difference between a moment of being regulated and having a regulated (balanced) nervous system
- How regulation and dysregulation must coexist
- Why thinking about any of this high-level stuff when you have REAL PROBLEMS TO REALLY ADDRESS can be helpful
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- Regulated Does Not Equal Calm https://RobynGobbel.com/lisadion
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/regulatedthegoal
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