The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

EP 187: Teach Siblings about Owls, Watchdogs, and Possums... Without Excusing!

July 16, 2024 Robyn Gobbel
EP 187: Teach Siblings about Owls, Watchdogs, and Possums... Without Excusing!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
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The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 187: Teach Siblings about Owls, Watchdogs, and Possums... Without Excusing!
Jul 16, 2024
Robyn Gobbel

One way we can support the siblings of kids with big, baffling behaviors is to teach them about owls, watchdogs, and possums (or some way to understand the brain and behaviors) as well as to teach them about nervous system vulnerabilities and ‘overactive’ watchdog and possum brains!

In this episode, you’ll learn

  • Steps to take when teaching siblings about owls, watchdogs, and possums so they won’t feel like you’re just excusing bad behavior
  • The importance of validating your kids’ experience that the way you parent their sibling is unfair
  • A couple scripts for talking to your children about their sibling’s watchdog and possum brain (available on my website by CLICKING HERE)

Resources mentioned in this podcast:


Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/teachsiblings

Follow Me On:
Facebook
Instagram

Over on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With



I co-wrote a training for therapists with my colleague Rose LaPiere, LPC-S, RPT-S

All Behavior Makes Sense: Play Therapy with Kids with Vulnerable Nervous Systems

You can take this 6 hr, CE approved training online starting August 2, 2024

Details and registration here: https://RobynGobbel.com/Theraplay2024

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Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!

Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!

Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources 

Show Notes

One way we can support the siblings of kids with big, baffling behaviors is to teach them about owls, watchdogs, and possums (or some way to understand the brain and behaviors) as well as to teach them about nervous system vulnerabilities and ‘overactive’ watchdog and possum brains!

In this episode, you’ll learn

  • Steps to take when teaching siblings about owls, watchdogs, and possums so they won’t feel like you’re just excusing bad behavior
  • The importance of validating your kids’ experience that the way you parent their sibling is unfair
  • A couple scripts for talking to your children about their sibling’s watchdog and possum brain (available on my website by CLICKING HERE)

Resources mentioned in this podcast:


Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/teachsiblings

Follow Me On:
Facebook
Instagram

Over on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With



I co-wrote a training for therapists with my colleague Rose LaPiere, LPC-S, RPT-S

All Behavior Makes Sense: Play Therapy with Kids with Vulnerable Nervous Systems

You can take this 6 hr, CE approved training online starting August 2, 2024

Details and registration here: https://RobynGobbel.com/Theraplay2024

:::::
Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!

Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!

Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources