The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.
Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 191: Helping Siblings with Verbal Aggression
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Does your child with a vulnerable nervous system say mean, hurtful, taunting, or aggressive things to your other kids? You already know you can’t control what comes out of someone else’s mouth, so what do you do??? How do you help your kids deal with their sibling’s verbal aggression?
In this episode, you’ll learn
- Steps to help increase your children’s psychological boundaries
- Activities that will help your children increase their psychological boundaries
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- Setting Boundaries That Sick - Juliane Taylor Shore's book!
- Boundaries with Verbal Aggression with Juliane Taylor Shore {EP 115}
- Setting Boundaries That Stick With Juliane Taylor Shore and Therapist Uncensored {EP 185}
- Helping Siblings Understand "Unfair" Parenting {EP 186}
- Teach Siblings about Owls, Watchdogs, and Possums... Without Excusing! {EP 187}
- Grief as the Sibling of a Child with Special Needs {EP 188}
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/siblingsverbalaggression
Underneath every behavior is something happening in the body, specifically in the nervous system. When we support the body first, behavior often begins to shift. Even for kids who don't have a sensory processing disorder!
Join my March 24th webinar at 8pm eastern- Sensory Strategies for Dysregulated Kids with Baffling Behaviors
RobynGobbel.com/SensoryWebinar
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Therapy with Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors- June 1 & 2 in Syracuse, NY RobynGobbel.com/NY
Presence in Practice- July 15, 16, & 17 in Rockford, MI (outside Grand Rapids) RobynGobbel.com/Michigan2026
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