The Gentle Dommecast
Episode 5: Money and Men
It's Episode 5 of The Gentle Dommecast! This week The Rough Subbe and I are talking about money and men!
First, we discuss the role of money in a kinky relationship. Should submissive guys expect to pay tributes to possible dominants? We also talk about clarifying exactly what you're looking for if you're a man searching for a "Mistress," and how that plays into the role of money within that search.
We bring up findom, and I come to no particular decision about it except that I think I'm bad at it. We also touch on emotional labor and sex work in a pandemic economy.
Then we move on to talking about submissive men and masculinity. Does being a submissive man make you less "masculine?" What about desires for emasculation in kink? And how do societal expectations about what is "masculine" and "feminine" play into these questions and anxieties?
It's Episode 5 of The Gentle Dommecast! This week The Rough Subbe and I are talking about money and men!
First, we discuss the role of money in a kinky relationship. Should submissive guys expect to pay tributes to possible dominants? We also talk about clarifying exactly what you're looking for if you're a man searching for a "Mistress," and how that plays into the role of money within that search.
We bring up findom, and I come to no particular decision about it except that I think I'm bad at it. We also touch on emotional labor and sex work in a pandemic economy.
Then we move on to talking about submissive men and masculinity. Does being a submissive man make you less "masculine?" What about desires for emasculation in kink? And how do societal expectations about what is "masculine" and "feminine" play into these questions and anxieties?