Grasshopper Notes Podcast

How To Stay Unhappy

John Morgan Season 5 Episode 79

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There is a formula for staying unhappy. You'll find it in this mini podcast.

Grasshopper Notes are the writings from America's Best Known Hypnotherapist John Morgan. His podcasts contain his most responded to essays and blog posts from the past two decades. 

Find the written versions of these podcasts on John's podcasting site: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1628038

"The Grasshopper" is the part of you that whispers pearls of wisdom that  seem to pop into your mind from out of the blue. John's essays and blog posts are his interpretations of these "Nips of Nectar." Others have labeled his writings as timeless wisdom. 

Most of the John's writings revolve around self improvement and self help. They address topics like:

• Mindfulness
• Peace of mind
• Creativity
• How to stay in the present moment
• Spirituality
• Behavior improvement

And stories that transform you to a wider sense of awareness that presents more options. And isn't that what we all want, more options? 

John uploads these podcasts on a regular basis. So check back often to hear these podcasts heard around the world. Who wants to be the next person to change? 

Make sure to order a copy of John's new book: WISDOM OF THE GRASSHOPPER – 21 Days to Creativity. These mini-meditations take you inside where all your creative resources live. And you'll come out not only refreshed but recommitted to creating your future. 

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Also, download John's FREE book INTER RUPTION: The Magic Key To Lasting Change. It's available at John's website  https://GrasshopperNotes.com

How To Stay Unhappy

If there was a handbook for how to stay unhappy, it would be a short one, with just three words: Justify your unhappiness.

There is no better way to stay unhappy than to list a boatload of reasons why you're sad and blue.

Removing one word from your vocabulary will take your justifications/reasons down to a bare minimum. That word is “Because.

The minute you say I’m unhappy because . . . you’re stickier than a candy cane covered in dog slobber.

“Because” is the gateway to justifications, and justifications will keep whatever is being justified in place.

So the formula for staying unhappy is to defend your unhappiness.

I love the way author Eckhart Tolle acknowledges unhappiness. He recommends saying the following to yourself: “I have unhappiness within me.” That gives the unhappy feeling the recognition it seeks. Once you recognize and just sit with the feeling, you begin the process of “unjustified” healing. 

Leaving your justifications off your list of woes weakens their grip, and prevents what old hippies used to call a "bad trip."

All the best,

John

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