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Why Adding Meaning To Things Makes Them Problematic

John Morgan Season 5 Episode 101

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Adding meaning causes unnecessary pain and there's nothing to gain by doing it.

 Grasshopper Notes are the writings from America's Best Known Hypnotherapist John Morgan. His podcasts contain his most responded to essays and blog posts from the past two decades. 

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"The Grasshopper" is the part of you that whispers pearls of wisdom that  seem to pop into your mind from out of the blue. John's essays and blog posts are his interpretations of these "Nips of Nectar." Others have labeled his writings as timeless wisdom. 

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Why Adding Meaning To Things Makes Them Problematic

Here’s a golden nugget of observation from The Grasshopper: “A situation becomes problematic when we add meaning to it.”

A situation is just a situation. It's only when we add meaning that things start getting complicated. A situation is raw reality; it’s what happens. An apple falling from a tree is raw reality. “It fell on me, so I could appreciate gravity.” That's an interpretation of the event.

It’s the interpretation that causes problems. When we “omen-ize” reality, we add meaning, and that creates problems.

To illustrate The Grasshopper’s observation, let me give one of my favorite examples from the music world. It’s a few lyrics from singer/songwriter Van Morrison in his song DOMINO.

There’s no need for argument

There’s no argument at all

And if you never hear from him

That just means he didn’t call

The word “problem” could be substituted for “argument” and the message wouldn’t change. The word “means” in this context translates to “outcome,” not a sign from above.

A similar definition of “meaning,” comes from the people helping skill of NLP: “The meaning of the communication is the response that you get.”

This is a long way of saying we create more problems than we solve when we add meaning. 

How many times have you misinterpreted a text or email by ascribing meaning to it? In short, step back and pause. Then look at situations without jumping to conclusions.

Pulling petals from a flower and saying, “She love me, she loves me not” may be a silly, superstitious way of interpreting reality, but it's also a problem because . . . It's another “blooming” idiot pulling apart a naturally occurring situation looking for meaning.

All the best,

John

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