What is an appropriate response when I get something I don’t want, or don’t get what I do want?

Bully the person I “think” is responsible? Chastise, criticize, frighten, and ruin them I’m following the Chief Justice and going with no.

At least from a mindfulness perspective - and I’m guessing this is obvious: it’s the age-old processes of listening patiently and with compassion, remembering we’re all in this together, and then making choices that don’t cause any harm, no matter how disappointing the moment. 
 
 Or to make it even simpler, and as Justice Roberts said, file an appeal.