“The rabbinate is often a precarious place to be, from an emotional and psychological point of view.” — Dr. Elliot Malamet
Burnout is an issue that may affect people across all types of occupations, but people working in high-stress professions, such as doctors, nurses, teachers, and mental health workers, tend to get the most attention when it comes to wider discussions of burnout.
While not as widely acknowledged as healthcare workers and police, the clergy are also at very high risk for not only burnout, but depression. Their vocation carries enormous expectations in terms of their availability, empathy, wisdom, hopefulness, and ability to make things right — no matter what they may be dealing with themselves.
This episode of Living Jewishly is an instalment of Across the Sea, a podcast about Judaism and mental health, and it is the first of a two-part series focusing on the clergy and their mental health.
Dr. Elliot Malamet speaks with Rabbi Yossi Sapirman and Dr. Michelle Friedman about the particular stresses that rabbis experience, their challenges in accessing mental health care, and what congregants do not understand about the lives of their spiritual leaders.
“I don't think people truly realize that the person they’re dealing with is as vulnerable as they are.”
— Rabbi Yossi Sapirman
This episode discusses:
Highlights:
00:51 Intro
03:06 Rabbi Yossi Sapirman & Shabbat
06:17 Effects of stress on family
07:12 Always connected, always on
11:34 Gratitude & expectations
13:50 Synagogue guidelines
17:20 Isolation & loneliness
19:05 Challenges of seeking mental health care
23:21 Dr. Michelle Friedman & mandatory therapy
28:01 Resistance to support
31:29 The risk of speaking out
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