The Single Spark with Chantelle the Coach (previously The Single Girl's Guide to Life)

#87 - Letting Go Of The Guy You Didn't Even Actually Date

March 02, 2023 Chantelle the Coach
#87 - Letting Go Of The Guy You Didn't Even Actually Date
The Single Spark with Chantelle the Coach (previously The Single Girl's Guide to Life)
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The Single Spark with Chantelle the Coach (previously The Single Girl's Guide to Life)
#87 - Letting Go Of The Guy You Didn't Even Actually Date
Mar 02, 2023
Chantelle the Coach

Looking for advice on how to move on from a guy you never even officially dated?

In this episode, I delve into the power of the no contact rule and how it can help you let go of someone who was never really yours. I'll provide practical tips and strategies for letting go of unrequited love, navigating mixed signals, and overcoming the emotional attachment to someone you never even dated.

By following these strategies, you can gain emotional clarity and heal from the pain of unrequited love. Whether you're struggling to move on from a crush, a casual fling, or a complicated situation, this podcast episode is for you.

 So tune in now to learn how to let go and find the love and happiness you deserve.

Download the No Contact Rule Tracker here.
Download the No-BS Guide to Dating here.


0:18 - Introduction  
1:09
- The No Contact Rule - What it is, and How and Why It Should Be Used
4:47 - The Emotional Stages of a Break-Up
5:15 - Cutting off the love hormones
6:43 - The "Enough is Enough" point
9:30 - The Challenges of The No Contact rule
14:41 - Cutting Off All Contact (Even if they keep messaging you)
20:31 - Tips for Success in Executing the No Contact Rule
25:15 - The No Contact Rule Q&A
28:08 - Stay away from a FWB situation
29:40 - Applying The No BS approach to dating 

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide:

- Visit my website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow me on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single women, divorced in your 20s

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DISCLAIMER: The podcast and content posted by Chantelle The Coach is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

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Looking for advice on how to move on from a guy you never even officially dated?

In this episode, I delve into the power of the no contact rule and how it can help you let go of someone who was never really yours. I'll provide practical tips and strategies for letting go of unrequited love, navigating mixed signals, and overcoming the emotional attachment to someone you never even dated.

By following these strategies, you can gain emotional clarity and heal from the pain of unrequited love. Whether you're struggling to move on from a crush, a casual fling, or a complicated situation, this podcast episode is for you.

 So tune in now to learn how to let go and find the love and happiness you deserve.

Download the No Contact Rule Tracker here.
Download the No-BS Guide to Dating here.


0:18 - Introduction  
1:09
- The No Contact Rule - What it is, and How and Why It Should Be Used
4:47 - The Emotional Stages of a Break-Up
5:15 - Cutting off the love hormones
6:43 - The "Enough is Enough" point
9:30 - The Challenges of The No Contact rule
14:41 - Cutting Off All Contact (Even if they keep messaging you)
20:31 - Tips for Success in Executing the No Contact Rule
25:15 - The No Contact Rule Q&A
28:08 - Stay away from a FWB situation
29:40 - Applying The No BS approach to dating 

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide:

- Visit my website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow me on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single women, divorced in your 20s

-----

DISCLAIMER: The podcast and content posted by Chantelle The Coach is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Introduction
The No Contact Rule - What it is
The No Contact Rule shouldn't be used as a gimmick
This is the perfect tool for when you haven't been dating a guy for that long
How to manage being upset by a break-up
Cutting off the love hormones
The "Enough is Enough" point
Breaking the cycle of the highs and lows in dating
The challenges of the no contact rule
Second-guessing your decision
Why you can't stay friends with them
The problem with romanticising the past and/or future
Separating yourself from the experience
"But I just need closure"
Cutting off all contact
Why keeping them on social media is a problem
What if they message me?
Overcoming the temptation to contact them
Valuing companionate forms of love
There is nothing worse for a single person than not having plans
Using a No Contact Rule habit tracker
Find an accountability partner
Can I start dating again during the No Contact period?
What the No Contact Rule is for
What to do at the end of the No Contact period
Stay away from a FWB situation
Applying The No BS approach to dating