The Technician Podcast

Episode 93: Why Women Can't Stand Nice Guys With Jacob O'neill

March 05, 2024 Travis Cochran Season 9 Episode 93
Episode 93: Why Women Can't Stand Nice Guys With Jacob O'neill
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The Technician Podcast
Episode 93: Why Women Can't Stand Nice Guys With Jacob O'neill
Mar 05, 2024 Season 9 Episode 93
Travis Cochran

In this compelling episode, we sit down with Jacob O'Neill, a renowned men's work coach, to explore the often misunderstood world of the "nice guy."

Jacob shares his insights into why this seemingly positive label can lead to a host of issues, including submissiveness, inauthenticity, and a disconnection from one's true masculine essence. We dive deep into the consequences of always trying to fix things, the pitfalls of pleasing behaviors, and the toxic dynamics that can ensue.

But this episode is much more than a critique; it's a roadmap for transformation. Jacob discusses the critical journey from boyhood to authentic manhood, shedding light on the rites of passage many men miss in modern society. We examine the importance of confronting and healing the mother wound, letting go of seeking approval from external "queens," and embracing the lessons from the myth of Iron John to reclaim one's power and authenticity.

Listeners will come away with not only a deeper understanding of the "nice guy" syndrome but also practical strategies for stepping into a more genuine, powerful version of masculinity. 

Whether it's through embracing vulnerability, setting healthy boundaries, or engaging in meaningful men's work, this episode is an invaluable resource for anyone looking to navigate the complex terrain of relationships and self-development.

Join us as we unravel the myths, face the hard truths, and discover the path to true masculine empowerment with Jacob O'Neill.

If you'd like to connect with Jacob please follow this link:

https://www.instagram.com/thejacoboneill/


Show Notes

In this compelling episode, we sit down with Jacob O'Neill, a renowned men's work coach, to explore the often misunderstood world of the "nice guy."

Jacob shares his insights into why this seemingly positive label can lead to a host of issues, including submissiveness, inauthenticity, and a disconnection from one's true masculine essence. We dive deep into the consequences of always trying to fix things, the pitfalls of pleasing behaviors, and the toxic dynamics that can ensue.

But this episode is much more than a critique; it's a roadmap for transformation. Jacob discusses the critical journey from boyhood to authentic manhood, shedding light on the rites of passage many men miss in modern society. We examine the importance of confronting and healing the mother wound, letting go of seeking approval from external "queens," and embracing the lessons from the myth of Iron John to reclaim one's power and authenticity.

Listeners will come away with not only a deeper understanding of the "nice guy" syndrome but also practical strategies for stepping into a more genuine, powerful version of masculinity. 

Whether it's through embracing vulnerability, setting healthy boundaries, or engaging in meaningful men's work, this episode is an invaluable resource for anyone looking to navigate the complex terrain of relationships and self-development.

Join us as we unravel the myths, face the hard truths, and discover the path to true masculine empowerment with Jacob O'Neill.

If you'd like to connect with Jacob please follow this link:

https://www.instagram.com/thejacoboneill/