Can You Date Someone w/Same Name as an Ex? (Guest: Sheena Gray)

In this episode we get to discussing getting into new relationships that may have the same name as an ex. Could you do it?? Could you move past any past negativity or bad memories associated with the name?? Let us know, via contact info, we'd love to hear your thoughts!

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If you're having sex, hopefully should be calling them by their name other than God, God can't be everybody's boyfriend or Jesus name or some players right there. We're probably gonna get shut down for that one guy then we're gonna get shot. Lightning please strike me now I got a new job starting weeks do not strike me down now what's going on everybody welcome back to another episode of whiskey and uncensored. My name is a Lopez and I'm going to be the host of this debauchery where we talk anything taboo, crazy life stories all while drinking whiskey. Today I'm on the OG classic of crown and coke. I just felt like having a chronic coke. I haven't done coke in my whiskies in a very long time. But I figured the best way to finish off this OG bottle was to add it with a splash of coke. So today I have my guest Sheena with us today. And she is on coffee. Yeah, she is on coffee. So hopefully everybody had a good weekend. How was the weekend for you? Ma'am? I know we had some fun this weekend. We did have a fun weekend. A lot of car shows extra one. The car shows Yeah, let's go. But let's go to this car show. I woke up early in the morning to go to a car show. And the the name of the car show is called Cars and Coffee cars and coffee. Mind you I am not too much of a morning person. So I am needing coffee. So I get up even though we had coffee at the house but had a cup of coffee with Avon so I'm thinking I'm gonna go out to a show possibly in there's gonna be some kind of coffee stand some kind of coffee booths, booths, and there was no coffee. Not a damn bit of coffee. We barely found anything to eat up there because it was so damn early by the time we get out there. But the survived. I survived Yes. And the car show was was pretty damn cool. I got to see a lot of badass cars, some souped up cars and classic cars. So it was a it was a it was actually rather large for a car event for a car meeting car show whatever you want to call it. But there really wasn't no judging. It was just kind of like a gathering of all the you know, the hobbyist enthusiast of cars really. So what was your what was one of your favorite cars out there? The Lexus? Tell everybody what's up, Alexis we talking about here? To prepare me for that. I don't remember exactly what when it is. Come on. You're supposed to be a car person here. And I know you've told me under the bus. Right, right. Well, I'll tell you some of the ones that I fell in love with obviously, was the Corvette the new C eights. There were some badass CAS out there. And of course, obviously, some beautiful Lambos and there was a ton of Lambos out there, man. It was yeah, it was my young kid inside my inner kid just screaming of all the supercars there was one. I only saw one. McLaren out there, which was which was pretty dope to see. But to me that that entire shape of that car reminds me of a Lambo, actually, so it was parked next to all the Lambos so it could have you know, most of those that they were just walking by would have just thought it was probably there's another Lambo. But me walking by I knew was a McLaren. So I had, I had to make sure I looked at that bad boy. So I like the McLaren better than the Lambos. Me personally. I mean, it's a tight one. I mean, that one that was there was was a pretty sexy car. So those were those were my favorite. Obviously some of the classic muscle cars that were out there were really lit Yeah. Some of the restored old school Chevy big block trucks are out there. And they were looking pretty good too. So it's a kudos kudos to that good little car show that got put on so and so Lexus LC 500 Oh, you looked it up just to redeem herself. So From my understanding this show is actually done once a once a month is what the kids said. Yep. Once a month so if anyone's happens to be down in the west palm area we were done in West Palm, aren't we? Yeah, took the Palm Beach outlets, the Palm Beach outlets on once a month. But is it a particular day though? Obviously, well, which son is usually the first Sunday last Sunday? Any Sunday? Or is it just scheduled on Thursday? I'll get it soon. There's got to be like a social media page for it to announce when there but yeah, if anyone's ever happened to be in that west palm area make sure you guys go check it out. It was actually a you know, a good a good turnout. It was not bad. 10 bucks if you wanted to actually get into the event area itself or there was plenty of parking on the outside of it. You can just park and walk that's kind of what we did. But But yeah, so we did that. We checked out what pop stroke targeted one a Tiger Woods is a influences. The CO owners designs a lot of those courses out in Port St. Lucie, and let's hear it one. You had a very marginal winner. Oh. Boy, it was like seven point no. Well, okay. We had the Oh, we got we got the all day pass. They gave us all the pets that we were able to play both courses that were their first course. Sure. I gave you seven whatever. I had a marginally the seven. Second game. Let's hear. I have no idea. 13 anyone listen till the final score. 13 strokes, 13 strokes. I spank that ass. He was me against all three. That was there. So again, victorious in any competition I encounter. And matter of fact, this competition. This competition that we're on right now with the your each of the head on this one. I'll give you that it ends tomorrow. I think so. Maybe I need two days left. I think it ends tomorrow. But maybe I'll go ahead and go to the gym and have softball tomorrow. But I'm not sure if I'm gonna make it because my shoulder is just killing me so and your loss. I'll try to maybe go to the gym early and maybe try to get in the workout and boost up by points. But softball would have helped solidify the wind for sure. But if that's the case, it is what it is. But I had enough wins from the weekend. So did you want to add thrown? Yeah, so we got to do some x Dorian, which your job which was pretty cool. Shout out to them for the invite. It took a little bit with those boards that we were throwing against those boards. It just those axes were not sticking to but once we realized how to throw a little bit more, I'm just really sticking we started doing really well. But yeah, I think I was kicking your ass in that too. So because at one point, we immediately had our own little score going on. And I think I was sticking it to you in the X with the axis. So yeah, so I think I gave you that when we were competing against one another. Yes, you are. But we did well, against that. Yeah, well, we did the team competition. That was interesting, because, you know, I wasn't sure how we were going to fare out. But we ended up doing we ended up coming through pretty good. And well, we finished third, we finished third. And we could have made it to the finals. Like I posted this on Facebook earlier this weekend. We could have finished in the finals, but that last x or that second to the last X that I threw did not fucking stick and it was a bull's eye shot and it did not stick and it fell out. So it kind of just shot our shot or shot and fucked us up. So that one was on me, or actually that should have been I'll say that one's on the board because the board should have or the action is stuck to the board. So but yeah, overall fun weekend, did a lot of stuff. So yeah. So to transition into the kind of the topic that we're going to have, we're going to be talking about today, which, you know, is rather interesting. And I know a lot of folks actually encounter you know, situations as this. Could you ever date someone that has the same name as a previous ex? I mean, we all have our memories we all have our thought process of you know, exes you know, some things will trigger memories. But before we get too far into it, what are your initial thoughts on dating somebody with the same name as an ex Could you do it? But could you pass away? No. You can personally not do it. Give me some reasons. Give me some reasons why you couldn't. If we're going off of my ex husband, just the name in general, just like black, just because of the dating light swiping moral like, no. Yes. Well, it's funny said, because that was, you know, when I started putting some jotting some notes down when I knew we were going to talk about this, but yeah, I know for a fact. I mean, I dated a few girls that have have had the same names and continue to date the girls with the same name as I've gotten older. Maybe just because true, some memories are triggered or whatever, or some feelings are unprocessed feelings or whatnot. But, and yeah, as to your point, as far as the dating apps, I'm not gonna lie when, when I was on those things, if I saw a particular name that I didn't like, even if they could look gorgeous, they could apply the best personality did not even give him a chance just automatically swipe, swipe, swipe. Nope, not happening. But yeah, there are names where it just, some of them are just too sensitive, like, Nah, I couldn't do it. But for the most part, I think, some relationships, you got to give it a chance. Right? You never know, it could be that that other person could be the other one, even though it had the same name. I mean, what are some of the triggers for you that you would be like? No, I mean, some some indications that would give you that note to that other person would say anything, even though their name had nothing to do, or they did nothing wrong to you. It's just the name. I mean, my my exes have pretty basic names. So I was kind of cutting myself short anyways, I guess. So there were Michael and Michael and Matt. So those are pretty common names. But I mean, my marriage was ended pretty badly. And I just don't think that I would. So just the just fine, be comfortable with all just a negative connotation. Yeah. I just, I mean, I get it, especially if something ended badly. There are times where if you happen to date somebody, like you said, a microman. You may turn, especially if it ended bad, you may tend to compare yours. The relationship a lot. Like you can possibly I just don't want to hear the name. So it's just the name trigger itself. You don't want to hear. Yeah, just don't want to hear the name. I don't want to hear our names together. Okay. I mean, yeah, that makes a lot of sense. I mean, some people process well, actually, a lot of people process things differently. For everybody. I should say, not a lot of you, but everybody process everything differently. But do you think though? Like I was just mentioning, though, do you think if you had somebody with the same name, you would potentially compare things that your ex did that, you know, you didn't like, now you're comparing it to the current new person? And not really, not really give them a fair chance? Me personally, no. See, I I think I would I think I would, I would be that person and be like, Listen, this is not how the previous so as I don't want their names out there, because I could have possibly dated one of the girls if I throw a name out. But the previous so and so didn't do this. And but yet you do a one did it this way? Yes. Yeah. And that can really cause that can cause a strain, actually, you start comparing a lot of stuff. I mean, I think that even happens now to this day, even without having the same name. Some folks who didn't completely process all their emotions and feelings on it from the previous relationship, you know, brought some of that will tend to carry that baggage over. Right. So and you start to do a lot of comparisons. I think I did that rather a bit in one of my previous relationships where I happen to compare a lot with my ex wife to that current relationship, and it got brought up a few times. And it's, and it wasn't that I did intentionally again, I think it just was just a reaction that I would say, Oh, this is not how I you know, and then you kind of go back I probably shouldn't have said that. You know, when you're with somebody or you are vocalizing that, yeah, like, you know, yeah, absolutely. If I happen to say something like, Oh, I did this before with and then you like, email that you kind of bite your tongue after why you like, Fuck, I didn't mean it like that. But, you know, again, going back to what I was getting ready to say was that you sometimes you're with somebody for such a lengthy period You'd have time, right? And you just have, you're always going to have these memories, you're going to have positive memories, you have negative memories, you know. So well like my previous my last ex, Matt, it'd be really weird for me to be in a relationship with somebody else they map is, although there's nothing romantic between us, and we never ever could be together. We were together for a very long time. So, I mean, when you're with somebody for a long time, they're part of your family. Yeah, like, unless something just crazy fucking happens. They're typically not completely erased, so that I just think that'd be fucking weird. Really weird. Could it be that you think emotions will be brought up in? If you happen to do that? Let's let's talk about it. Let's say, Matt, if you dated another person named Matt, do you think by having this new relationship with this? Let's call it new Matt. All sudden, the the feelings would come back. I mean, you can mix feelings, right? Like, like, wait a minute, which mat am I referring to at this point? I mean, that could be a possibility the other person would never know. Right? Well, true. But so with the new the new person call in my name? Well, and this is where I was gonna say there could be a pro and con to this right? At least one of the pros is that you will never call out the wrong name during sex, right? I mean, that could be a possibility. If you happen to get a tattoo named on you, like an idiot of another person, II might benefit on bench finding somebody with the same name. Or that way. You don't have to try to readjust this or have to explain it and you can already you know, lie your ass off. I premeditated that I would meet someone named Alexis, you know, I premeditated that would meet you. So this is why I already have your name on me. I knew this was faith, for faith, not faith, but faith. I don't even know what level of IQ would be like, Oh my God, that's so sweet. Now, as far as cons, the six could be worse. So then you're gonna end up comparing, right? Like, well, the previous well wait a minute, the name doesn't even matter. The name doesn't matter. But, but it's no, but it will as you're in your brain. You're gonna be like, Nah, the previous Steve was fucking better. His dick was bigger, you know? Now I'm stuck with little Dickstein, compared to compared to Big Dig, Steve. I mean, I can be sad for the guys. Little titty, Betty now from the big titty, Betty, it's gonna happen, it's always gonna be in your head. So I mean, you at some point, you're gonna have to just kind of be able to disassociate yourself from those names without having to cross the lines. There probably has to be space, right? Yeah. can go from one. You couldn't go from one straight to the other having the same name. I don't think it'd be weird. Yeah, I mean, that was a month later you dig in another jack. And I'd be weird. But if that's the case in but if let's think about social media, then at this point, you won't have to really explain me and Jack them together. You know, you don't have to. I mean, if you just come by Jack, you're good to go. People won't think that you're jumping around guys like a jet, you know? I mean, you could have a whole nother thing. How early? Do you post somebody? That could be a whole nother conversation. But what do you think how, how soon do you post, according to girls, God or girl's gotta eat podcast, they call it the hard launch. When you start posting the photos and the name and talking about this person that's considered your hard launch. So you can do like a soft launch, which is like maybe a little teaser pic. But when you're constantly posting that you're doing things with them. That's considered the hard line. What do you think? What's their timeframe? I don't remember a timeframe that they actually mentioned. What do you think your timeframe is? What is your appropriate timeframe? I don't think I have a rule on it. Okay. Does that help at all? Just that was valuable input there. Really helps out the people listening right now. I don't think I have a rule on it. I don't know if you look through my Facebook. Like previously, you probably wouldn't even know that anybody existed. So you just don't post anybody at all. I see the trend. Okay, no, no, even though it's engaged, no posting from Sheena. Got it. Got it. So the other person, the other person will constantly post the photos and things like that. Interesting. Interesting. noted, noted, it's not that I won't ever post I'll post but my biggest thing is I do not want to, like you just said, I don't want the whole like, which I'm not going to post a drama on my Facebook anyway. So something that ended it doesn't nobody knows on Facebook anyways, but yeah, I don't know. Did you see the people that are like, happy and dedicated one day, and then like, a couple of weeks later, they're living, especially females. They're living their best life and they're doing them and then the next week, they're in love with the next person. And it just keeps going through that rotation over and over and over again, all the motivational quotes are being posted all the sudden, to the anytime you start seeing motivational post, somebody got fucked over. And they're upset. Why is it so many? I mean, I post a lot of motivational shit. That's just me, but it is it like, she remembered who she was. That's like the number one thing you see on a girl's Facebook? Oh, yeah. After she gets a breakup, yeah, all of a sudden, they're, they're philosophers to everybody's at that point. But the quotes over there asked, and funny, hilarious to me, I'm gonna do me, boo, I'm gonna do me. But here's a photo of my ass and a little bit of my lips hanging out. And that's what I'm going to do. So, hi, mind. So how do you how would this let's go back to the conversation of dating someone with the same name. If there was a way to deal with it, to try to get through it? Do you think given them a nickname? Like let's say if they have a nickname? Would you just rather call them by their nickname then? So you wouldn't have to think of the name? Would that be something easier to get by? Like, if friends call them instead of Richard to call him Dick was did. But how often are you calling your person by their actual name? You typically have a pet name for them. It's very rare that you're calling them by their actual name. If you're having sex, you hopefully should be calling them by their name. Other than God, God can't be everybody's boyfriend. Or Jesus demo some players, right? They're probably gonna get shut down for that one guy, then we're gonna get shot. Lightning, please strike me now. I got a new job starting a couple of weeks. And that struck me down now. But yes, that can't be. That's a whole nother topic. I mean, even saying, Oh, I wonder if Indian girls called Buddha just Oh, Buddha or Buddha? Or, you know, I wonder if that's the thing. I got some I got some female Indian friends I need. I just don't know how to bring that up. Yeah. How do you ask for a when you're getting smashed, you say? Do you see Jesus? Do you say Lord, what do you say? I'm curious. But anyways, anyways, back to the nicknames. So if you have a nickname, would you but you're saying you're talking about like, you're calling people bae. Boo, baby, you know that that was if you're not calling them by the first. When you're going into social gatherings though you and you're going to introduce them. Obviously, if you don't want to if the names already causing some sensitive issues, or if he doesn't have a nickname, maybe you can establish a nickname for Hey, can we just I know this is your name, but obviously you know my situation in my past? Can we just come up with a name or I can introduce you to folks and just be cool with it? What do you what do you think on that? That's kind of weird. That's fucking weird. You would try to negotiate a name so you would have to say the name that brings you bad memories? No. No, that's their name. So some dude told me they're like okay, which is it would be extremely rare for it to happen to me but my name but if somebody okay name Sheena. But when I introduce you to people, we need to have a different name. Really? Fuck you. My name is my name. I don't know I'm just thinking of ways to kind of help a situation if you happen to come across somebody and you really are digging this person and that but that name just Yes. You should be mature enough to get through it and get past it. But again, everyone's gonna do something differently. Can you potentially if you if you decided to go that far? even get to know them to the point that you're introducing them to other people and then you need to just suck it the fuck up. Yeah, I mean, it's it won't be fair to that person, right because they did absolutely wrong. But and this person could have completely different skill sets, personalities, they act differently. So that's it's just well I would hope so if it didn't work with the first one hopefully you're not going for the exact same thing with the same name and everything then you have a completely different maybe mental issues. Maybe you have a type do you have a type? Do I have a type? Yeah, what are your types? That's not what the do this show does not stay on. This show branches off and goes into little random tangents. So what are your types? Ma'am? I guess I have a little bit of a type which is typically bald. No check. But continue. Typically bald typically. Tall. Okay, and that's about it. No, that's not very well damn. So that could have been the rock. I mean, the rocket bone and tall. The eye here. Are you looking for fat guys? Dad bods slender guys. Muscular guys so just taught me to go into my actual they tall ID bought sorry Brad from the daily BM you are out love fucking I have a checklist but this your your checklist? Let's go through it. Would you like me to open that? Let's go through if you got a checklist on your phone. Yes, you got a mint let's go through your your man requirements. Where's that? Oh my God. You're ready. Yeah. Let's see what you get. It's pretty personal for me. We put it out there but all right. Someone motivated, dedicated, driven. So they can't be a lazy slob. Somebody with a job? Right? Yeah, I mean, be motivated and driven, right? not lazy. So that means you can have a job and still be very fuckin lazy and have no motivation. True. Valid point. Okay, continue. Yeah. I'm someone that works out. Because I think with the way my lifestyle, it'd be difficult to be yoked with somebody else that doesn't work out at all, or is it active? So let me stop you right now. I think, Dan Oh, my mommy on the second one. I think I remember asking you one time she wanted to work out and you said no. He said, Fuck nah. That's my thing. So how can you have this? You're gonna bring this list? I'm gonna challenge this fucking list because I think I asked you to work out last time with me a couple times. Yeah. And he was like, fuck. That's my thing. So how can you possibly have on your list? Explain. Let's reverse because I absolutely did not say Fuck no. It's not at all to the middle bucket. Now you ain't working out with me player. You ain't mine a man, whatever. You ain't throwing no shade. I said you don't know cloud on me out there in the gym. So let's listen. So we're challenging number two right now, or use or number three, whatever that was. That was number two. I skipped over my number two, but that that's the one I said for number two. For me working out it's a very personal thing. Okay. It's a Yeah. I don't know. So are you wanting somebody who goes to the gym and motivates themselves but not with you? Is that what you're saying? Which could you work out with somebody? Do you think you can actually merge yourself to work with somebody? Yes. Wow, that was like a hesitant Yeah, I can. Yes. Yes. I tell you. I can't fake that. The work is that we have got to ask these questions. We're gonna do those again later. Sorry. No, we haven't done well. But yeah, the fact that I'm just saying you've talked about working out and working out, Jim block these what you do. Thank you very much. No, I have worked out. I have worked out with females. And it's not a big deal. But I feel bad sometimes because the cost of weight changes. Obviously there's a big difference when it comes to loading and unloading weights because obviously you're not going to be lifting the same as that Wait as I am to the few are we got problems. So may we have problems? I mean, do you have problems? I try this and I try to mess with somebody that's lift females lifting more than me if she's lifting more than me yet, we can't talk. Maybe that's why I didn't want to get to the gym with you. Maybe I didn't want to hurt your feelings. Like you're taking my call make me spit that on my mic. You that's not good. Okay, yeah, we'll go with that. Sure. Alright, so working out. It's a very personal thing for me. So, I don't know. Are you the type of girl that will have just the headphones on and just have that bitch looking face? Yeah, resting. bitchface. Don't cut Okay. Okay. I don't need you to reach something for me. I don't need you to move something for me. I don't need you to talk to me. So eye contact with me. Well, then let me ask this then. Are you dressing? Like I'm going to the gym to workout 12 year old kid that can't dress? Are you going in there with some revealing clothes to go work out? That's going to possibly get attention? Because you know, it's all about the outfits, right? So if you're going to be wearing a particular outfit that you know are going to grab attention. You can't be mad at somebody that's just trying to come and talk to you if they happen to see you in the gym on a regular maybe they want to be your friend. Maybe they're not trying to holler maybe they just want to be friendly with you. And maybe even workout could be a new workout buddy for you to give one workout at a I don't think we were in there at the same time. What I don't think we can be friends in the gym, me and you. I'm not there to talk and make friends. I'm there to grow my muscles. Well, I didn't say you had to sit and talk about you. Network. It's part of networking, as you know business to network with people because you never know the network the people that you can connect with in the gym. There are similar interests in the gym already. You got that rapport, you got somebody Bowflex working out, you never know. I'll report back to you tomorrow morning about the people I talked to. I mean, I talked to this guy and this guy and I know Okay, go ahead. Sure. Go ahead. Continue to list now, please. So we can challenge it some Oh, goodness. Okay. So a lot of my list is kind of a reflection of me in my life, I guess. Right? So the next thing was reading or open to learning and expanding so somebody that's not just stagnant and illiterate. Basically. Somebody that graduated grade school check. All right, cool. Well, exactly. A bit of a different level. But do you like pictures or words pick one if you don't know how to read it? Please pick point at the picture. Okay. Somebody that feeds their body? Well, I mean, fat guys feed their body. Well, I mean, look at Oh, yeah, well as in nutritionally Well, I mean, fat guy see? A pork chop fried chicken. That's not feeding your body. Well, well, they think their body's feeling pretty well. Anyway, challenge this list. Go ahead. Now that was nonsense. willing to travel enjoys the outdoors capable of so why don't you you're starting to grow through the list here. I want to be able to check each one of your little spots. Were willing to travel and outdoors enjoys that's called a bum because they a bum a homeless guy. They're outdoors and outdoors. They are enjoying it right? Well, they might not be doing it but they're having to enjoy it. So that could be a bomb. So right now I have a visualize a bomb as your particular type of guy here. Send the bombs motivated and dedicated and driven. He's motivated not to work. But continue Okay, so travels, travels and enjoys the outdoors. Okay, continue on. You got Yeah. capable of communicating. Massive funding. Be good. I'm good. I'll let that one go. Okay. All right. Please do masculine Hold on, hold on. And now we got a problem with that one trigger word that right there you're gonna have a lot of problems with these. This new generation of masculinity, but I think your your show, Shawn and sex covered that one really well, the whole the whole issue of masculinity like he covered that topic very well. That was a very good episode of his podcast, but yes, There is a big problem with masculinity in our country right now. So we'll leave it at that. Because we can get really down a rabbit hole with there. But okay, so that one could be a little questionable for you. But continue. For me the definition of what the masculinity is. That's actually like, at the top of the list number one, but anyways, the next one was tall, athletic. And then I have a couple that are like, my non negotiables. So there's a silence aside list here. Yeah, my non negotiables. So absolutely no baby mama drama. Preferably somebody with zero children, because I just don't want to do it. So at your age, though, that's kind of hard to find across right. Nobody would. Alright. Yeah, that's that's a tough one. Yeah. I mean, if there's only 100 so far on this list, but continue. So the next one, which is no cigarettes, just grow. And wait, wait, where are cigars? I says no cigarettes. So we're not. We're not referring to cigars. We're not referring to for 20. Right. We're not referring just straight. Straight up cigarettes. Okay. Just trying to make sure. Oh, no, listen, I do. Take mine. Um, so that way I can go back and challenge some of these eyes. But go ahead. I'm, I'm mostly okay. My last one is doesn't drink daily and doesn't drink to get drunk. So basically non alcoholic. So the daily drinking, I get it the drunk drinking. Yeah, that's fine. But that kind of puts a lot of some of your masculinity like guys that who actually like to drink sometimes. who like to be some of the macho man, you know, some of the macho men like to drink? So wait, but masculinity and macho are two different things. So drinking on a regular basis makes you a masculine men. I disagree. I drink on my show regularly. What would you think of that? Does that not fall on your list then? Because you know, that is part of the show drinking, shooting the shit? That's not what I said. I said drinking daily and getting drunk. I mean, my record with Yes, my past experiences have been with alcoholics. So that is not a situation I want to put myself back into. I gotcha. That could be a big deal, too. If you have the same name, first name or whatever. And you start arguing with the new person, and all of a sudden that you never finished, you felt like you never got to finish an argument in regards to something similar. And you guys are arguing about next thing, you know, you're bringing that old relationship argument and bringing it forward. And then this new guy or girl is like what the fuck has happened here? I just got ambushed with shit that we never even really had conversations about. And yet, you're just going off on me because this just this argument triggering an old previous argument. But therefore be an honest and I think you said this before. If this person is going to do those things, they're going to do it regardless of what the person's name is. So yeah, so if we go and have arguments with our new person, in regards to arguments with our old person that can really that could potentially end a relationship if I'm honest, I mean, that could really cause that new person who's gonna listen to you're obviously you're bringing back shit and and you just haven't gotten over. Yes, we had the same name, but obviously, there's still just issues that you did not completely deal with. time ago. Yeah, absolutely. Deuces and give the new guy a chance. Not the new guy basically didn't have a fight chance. So but the ones that are you know, nobody wants to argue but it's gonna happen every late every relationship will have arguments. I mean, you're dealing with a woman right? So. silence I'm just kidding. So come on. Let's hear the voice. Let's see what you got to say. And you got it. You bid your lip when I said that. So yeah, no, I'm just gonna let that want to let that marinate. Typical right, bring that shit back at a later time. There we go. Exactly what I'm referring to. When we will store that. Wait a minute. I think we have I think we've talked about as a point in previous episode, which is that you don't stores the As you said, you don't store things in memory banks. You just, I'm gonna marinate on that right now. And I'll when the time when that time comes, right, I think that stupid I'm gonna bring that shit up in your face. So no. Okay. So I did write one note down, that that would be beneficial if you attempted to do the relationship with or the same name, right? Just don't go to the same places that triggered memories don't go to restaurants don't go to some of your favorite spots, right? Like, I mean, you know how sometimes songs can actually trigger certain memories, right? So places like restaurants, restaurants, parks, you know, venues, bars, some of those things that will actually trigger a memory, it can be good. I mean, you can have good memories, obviously, but it's still gonna trigger something right, you're gonna have you're gonna have feeling some kind of way. It's like, if you want to avoid those, and you know that it would trigger something, just don't go. Don't do it. Save yourself the headache. And just, it sounds like this imaginary person that we're talking about, needs to like, do some personal growth. Well, I'm sound like they shouldn't be in a relationship period. Well, I'm just saying, like I said, I just I was writing all these little notes down, jot things down on things that, you know, if you did go into a relationship with somebody with the same name as an ex, how could you get past it? Or if you couldn't get past it? What were some of the pros and cons, just some of the things that was jotted down. So it's not like it was an imaginary person, I would just think in general. And this is how you could ya know, move past it. So, all right, I'm gonna show what somebody's name is. I'm not going to not near the restaurants I like to go to. But you'd kind of did. In the beginning, when you said, when you were on the dating apps, you were swiping left. So you kind of Yeah, I want to be with somebody with same name. But you. So what is it yes or no? If you saw the tall, bald headed person on Tinder, and it was the same name as your ash, like, ooh, it's this my profile. Looks like he can read. He looks like he can. He's masculine. He looks like he's an outdoorsy person. He's got pictures of fish in his profile. He's got you know, that's outdoorsy, right? He's traveling, he's traveling to oceans and lakes and stuff, you know, I mean, he's outdoorsy and travels, would you have? Would you have swiped right or left? And it happens to be the same name? And the question, see, yeah, so that's a very good question, then it's like, are you swiping on this, just the same person, but it could be a completely different personality? And to you, you don't know that? There's so many people out there, you don't know until you get that person to try? And that could be that one person and you can, but if you know what the hang up for you? Why would you even try? But if if they happen to swipe on you as well, you could have had a match that you didn't know that you missed the opportunity on, you know, the what is it the FOMO the fear of missing out? Yeah, never know, could be the one FOMO FOMO. There is so anyway, so just to wrap that up, though, I mean, like I said, that was kind of something that I jotted down when i i originally episodes I wanted to chat about when we first started the show and it just never got around to it. But if anyone was able to date there when you are you said you have I have I have dated a few girls with the same name and it all ended in the same that's why their exes. So their exes, right? So eventually replayed it the same way. No, no, it just something's just didn't work. i There's now there are certain names that I probably will never go back to and date, no matter how fine no matter if we you know, click very well. But that's me, I have my own fucking issues that I got to work with through some of the names and you know, there's gonna be a lot of hurt with some of my names, or I don't have very many, but there are a couple that I definitely would not touch again, that just because of the name itself and the memories and, and the shit that will get triggered in my own head in my own personal head. So ya know, when gotcha, but for the most part, I'd be okay. I would kind of learn how to deal with it. But But yeah, there are a couple of there's a few names that I would definitely not revisit. So, but anyways, so let's go ahead and we got about 10 minutes before we start wrapping things up. Let's go ahead and get back into some hot seat questions that we haven't done in the last couple episodes because some of our Did you see on Call me on my show, ma'am. Yes, you did because I just can't do on the mic pretty damn loud. Yeah, I'm sorry. I am boring you right now this conversation hopefully my listeners don't think I'm boring right now. Geez. All right. Question. Has anyone ever walked in on you masturbating? No. Never had a parent your kid walk in on you, guy that would be embarrassing if your kid walked in on you masturbating? I mean, nobody. Nobody's ever. I can't say that. I've had anyone walk in on me what? Masturbating but I've had someone come home when I wasn't expecting to come home and you're talking about frantic being trying to pull everything up, you know. But you get too hard on put away. So yeah, I remember a few times, actually. But one time specifically, when I was younger, back in the day when we had the old school satellite dish TVs. We had the illegal box that went in the back that gave us all the channels and all that good stuff. Plenty of porn. I did it. I wasn't paying attention. I guess I was in the groove of things. No pun intended. But I was in the groove. And next thing I knew I hear the garage opening. Do you talk about panic? Because there was a few things I had to do, I had to take out that box that was in the back of that satellite box and switch out to the legit box where it blocks all those channels out, right? Because the ground is opening. I didn't have time to do all this. I had I had to immediately act fast. Remember, I'm a teenager at this point, I had to switch out the satellite channels, switch to my salad real fast. pull my pants up, run to the bathroom and like I'm just pooping or something and hope to God that the satellite changed in or it wasn't a process of changing and just didn't get stuck on that damn porn channel. Because that door open up and it was like Hello. Where are you at? I'm like, Oh my god. This is embarrassing, because I couldn't get walked in on. But yes, so I can say I didn't get walked in but pretty dang close. Pretty damn close. So and it's happened to me at least twice. When other time was when I was older. So. But what's the biggest lie you've told to get out of a date? I don't think I've ever lived to get out of a day. Come on, man. Come on. You've never went on a date that it was not going well. You trying to get out of a day? Yeah. To get out of it. To get out of it. Let's I mean, you can get a date while you're already in there. Yeah, I mean, yeah. A lot to get out of it. Like somebody got sick. Oh, no, I got to go to the emergency room. My mom got hit by a car. My you know? Ever I don't lie. I mean, I told you I suck at lying. Like I just, I just don't do it. I suck at it so bad. Wow. So you you're trying you're legitimately going with that you're an angel on dates. You never had a Tinder date go bad that you wish didn't happen. I've had a shift on a Tinder date. So wish never happened. Okay, so and you didn't try to get out of those dates. You were like, Oh, you just actually just dreaded through them and be the nice person just went through the night? Yeah. I just went through the night. And then like, yeah, oh, I had a few that were Yeah, no. I mean, Am I just supposed to be mean and bitchy and be like, Okay, I gotta fucking go. Yeah. Why not? I mean, never had a sexual experience where, you know, someone was just randomly saying stupid shit to you or whatever. And, and, like, I gotta go. I mean, that's, you know, say you gotta leave or something like that, like, or the dick is not good or something like, I gotta go. I forgot I left my stove on or something. I don't know. I mean, okay, so, I've had a couple encounters where Yeah, it was less than desirable. Your responses are sucking right now. I know. I'm sorry. Jesus Christ. All right. I don't have anything exciting to say on that. I don't think Alright, so this next question probably fits you better because I know you have some some of this. What's your worst case of road rage? My worst case of it? Yeah. I mean, I've never hit anybody. What's your car? No. Yeah. No, like rear end somebody or hit somebody, like a person physically outside of a car hit somebody with a bow I have some pretty intense road rage. So what triggers you? What pisses you off to give you road rage? People don't know how to fucking drive well that's just they don't go so are we referring to like slow people in the fast lane? Which is my fucking dead peers let's use the roundabout near my house there signs at every entrance to the roundabout that says Do not block the fuck around about people they block it I just need to go around it go that way are you just sitting in it for no good fucking reason we need to be the road hearing where and if you're coming into a roundabout one last thing if you're coming into a roundabout and there's somebody going around it the person that's in the roundabout has the right away yes like you can't just fucking T bone somebody alright guys we got we found out our soft shot road rage Are you a person that lays on your horn then which are road rage? Are you fucking laying on the horn for somebody? I don't lay on it. But you do be Yeah. Then if they don't go now how would you feel somebody's honking the horn at you for like not moving on and doing like would you get pissed off? Yeah, exactly. You wouldn't want somebody honking at you because unless I'm really not paying attention if you did not immediately immediately go obviously I give it a couple of like three or four seconds and I'm gonna beat the horn right okay, it's a long fucking time I'm courteous given I don't have I don't have road rage like some people are like BB go bitch you don't have a right I don't think just want to glaze over that I have I get annoyed that's what I that's what I get annoyed I get annoyed when people do not get out your way what if you see someone coming up on your ass in the fast lane? Move the fuck over don't stay in the lane and be a dick and next thing you know you speed up and go the same speed as a person in the right hand lane Don't be a fucking asshole. But that's my annoying pet peeve is when people just and you don't I don't see an appropriate time to house yeah, okay, I just I just said I get annoyed I don't get raged I'm not pulling out my gun. Get the fuck out the way which I should probably just scare people every now and then. That's why I don't have a gun in my car. But but no I just that's my time to be to know I don't know I don't I still won't be best somebody I just I will I will write up pretty close on your athlete. If I'm coming in you know the fast lanes is to do illegal shit. You're gonna be going fashion in the fucking speed limit. So if you see someone coming in, don't be a dick and do the speed limit. Obviously people are driving faster exactly move over. But I get that if they don't move over. And then I then have the only time I'll will you'll see a I don't know if it's any bit of road rage but is we're also I'll just get pissed off I'll swerve to the right lane and then swerve back into the left lane just bucking and I should break every now and then. But I don't I'm not that much of a dick. But just just to show you just want to label just want to label road rage. I'm just annoyed. I'm annoyed. That's the I don't consider that road rage. Just a bit annoying me on the road. I'm not yelling Well, I'm just basically just saying Get the fuck out the way. But you know that to me that that road rage that's just everyday travels. My rage is like you want to get out and just brutally fight just for some stupid shit. But no, don't get away. You know? Just get I mean, get out of the way somebody just coming up on your ass that's I wanted to pay. If my car wasn't part of like my career or whatever. I wanted to have downlow the front of it. Move bitch get out the way. I mean, you can still get there. Nah, it's not very professional. I mean, no way looking at your car, right? So. Oh, that's not true. Oh, okay. Nobody's looking at my car. I mean, not in a professional conversation piece. But not that it becomes a conversation up late 80% of the time. Okay, fine. Sure. Don't feel jealous. Don't I mean, it's a nice car, but I don't think that you know, you put a move which by the way would be a horrible thing. But you got to put it. You got it. You got to put it in reverse though. So that way when someone's looking at it through the rearview mirror, they can read it properly. So, so that way it really does. It's not so bad, right? You know, it's gonna be somebody reads it head on. They're like, What the hell is that say? And you'll be you already drive past them so they won't have time to read it. So all right, last question of the night and we'll go ahead and wrap things up. What is something inedible that you tried? Once to eat? Something that is not edible, right that I have tried to eat? That's you have tried to eat? That's a weird fucking question. That's part of the game. weird questions, right? That's like what they ask you when you're pregnant. Have you been craving dirt? What? Yeah, yeah. That's a weird question. That's a weird question. They did. They asked me when my kid eat dirt mud high with the Hill, right? Like if you have certain deficiencies when you're pregnant, you'll crave that shit, I guess. Oh, okay. No, I don't I wait, what's the question? What is something inedible that you at least try to eat once? I can tell you two things. The only thing I can think this is Dick, but go ahead ah, ah. I mean, you technically could be it could Lorraine the Bobbitt that shit. Put it on a barbecue. I mean, technically, you could eat it. Jeffrey Dahmer ate human body parts so it is rather apparently edible. So speaking though, probably to watch that Dahmer series. Sidenote, I've heard a lot of good things about it. So I feel like I need to watch this. It's still like in the top 10 or something in Netflix. So I think I need to go get that like cue maybe maybe this weekend or something. Put that in the queue to watch. But anyways, so dig it. That is a little thing that you can eat apparently, so never accidentally tried the plastic fruits that are on table displays like you think it's an actual real fruit and excellent grab it and bite into his fucking plastic deck of the math like come on. So you call me dumb ask because I've done that shit. Like I'm thinking it wasn't. It was an actual fruit. I grabbed that bitch bite into it. It was a fucking plastic fucking fruit. I can read and I can you know be outdoors and travel. But yes, I grab in edible fruit and try to bite into that shit. Okay, so yes, it's happening. panties. You can try to you know, pull the pants down with your teeth. And you know, chew up your I'm trying to eat some people. Some people do some weird shit. I didn't say I didn't say there but I pulled them down before and shoot on them while I'm pulling them down. So that way I can get a better grip but panties so Okay, plastic fruit and panties. That's it. That's what I can say with that one. You're talking about fucking cop. Like, Dahmer style. Yeah, exactly. Just choke on it. No, you don't anyways, alright, so we're gonna go ahead and wrap things up guys. Hopefully this episode comes out decently. And hopefully it doesn't echo too much because we're in a room here. Or at least I'm in a new room and it hasn't been soundproof yet. So hopefully the editing is not going to be horrible. But yeah, if you guys enjoyed this episode and any other episodes, go ahead and please give us a review on any of the platforms that you guys are on and helps us on the charts. As I get weekly reports that we aren't keeping up pretty well. I'd still like to break into the sub 1000 chartering into we're doing pretty good. So the better the more reviews, the better we get. As always, you can find us on our socials, Instagram and Facebook at Whiskey and uncensored on Twitter, it is whiskey sensor. You can find us on YouTube where there unfortunately hasn't been too many videos. 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