6 Tips to elevate your game in bed.....Step it up peeps!

In this episode of Whiskey'd & Uncensored, we discuss 6 tips to help improve your sexual experiences in the bedroom. Whether you're looking to spice things up or simply want to improve your overall sexual satisfaction, these tips will provide valuable insight and practical advice. Some of the key topics covered include communication, exploring new positions and techniques, and how to create a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere and of course they typical left fiend commentary we all love!

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What's going on everybody? Welcome back to another episode of whiskey and uncensored. My name is Eddie Lopez and I'm gonna be the host of this debauchery where we sit around Converse anything sex related sex, trans relationship, gossip and just the good old bullshit. All while having fun and drinking some whiskey. Today I got on the other end, I have Miss Sheena gray, which I still think she is still drinking. I think she is on her diet plan right now. Right? You're still prepping for your show or getting ready to prep for your upcoming show here. Is that correct? Transitioning into prep, transitioning into prep? Well, you enjoy that while I enjoy this Knob Creek. Not my best not my favorite, or not the best but not my favorite either. But it's on the shelf. So I'm going to drink it. But before we before we get into this, I I had a meal the other night. I told you I was gonna bring this back up. It was a meal so good. That it almost made me want to slap my mama. So I bought myself an instant pot. And I made myself a whole chicken teriyaki meal. And let me tell you, it was absolutely fantastic. And I know they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. And I would like to know if I cooked it myself, does that mean I'm in love with myself? I would believe love yourself. Oh, I do love myself. But after that meal, I fucking love myself. Knowing damn well that it is a repeatable meal that I can just gouge out on. Let me ask you, have you ever had food? That was almost as good as six? No, no, not even close. Like, when you bid into something or you just save or something like God damn, this is fucking good and just had their juices flowing. I enjoy it as food. But not more, not more than six. I mean, when it'd be a little bit disappointing if I could really replace your deck with food. I mean, I wouldn't be managing. I mean, eggplants are bigger than me. So I mean, those are foods that can be replaced. We're almost six but yeah, but I get it. No, but there are times where I feel like sometimes that shit. This was fucking phenomenal. And I can just fall asleep because typically after sex, what, what is it you fall asleep. So after this, I felt like I had the itis I gave myself the itis where I was ready to pass out go to bed and not care about anything. But the rest of the evening because I had a full stomach or full belly. And I was feeling really good. Like, I didn't care about anything else at that point. So I was just curious. If you happen to have food that made you almost thought it was better than sex, but I might be the only one home. All right. So before we get into today's conversation, which is a rather interesting one, can I ask you a few general questions to see how it's going to fare out in this conversation that we're going to have? Do you feel that you are on top of your six game? I mean, I would say that you can take or most people continually get better. As you get older you learn more things, different techniques, you get more confident. So I think I could be better than what I'm at now. As far as top of what my game has been so far to ensure Yeah, I mean, I can rock that. I can say I feel like I'm in my prime time. I think there's a particular age where they say guys are in their prime I noticed that younger age like in your 20s I believe what I could personally say I feel what no you don't think the 20s are like their patrons what have they learned? Oh no no no 22 year old learn how to do they got the stamina that's for sure because that's where I was getting ready to seminar but they don't know what to do with it you're just being stabbed it up. Just pounded away Hmm Yeah, cuz I can say that. If, if I had to work on anything, that's definitely one of the things I would would enjoy to work on would be my stamina because, you know, you get in a moment where next thing you know you're pounding away. You're just having a good Oh, good sex session that You feel like you're fucking out of breath within a few minutes. If I can be able to control that stamina portion of it, I think I'd be the stamina or your breathing. It doesn't that fall under the same thing, stamina and breathing, necessarily if you if you're pumping away and I'll send you out of breath, like you just got gassed out. No, that's fine. I kind of put that together as part of stamina like, like, you just did all that. Cool. Yeah, but that's kind of a turn on to though to hear so many huffing and puffing. Yeah, like the deep breathing and all that together. But you just, if you just back their eyelids, like, somebody might be done, you might have to check in like, you're breathing a little too hard, motherfucker. You're good. So do you feel like you can do things better? Sure. Absolutely. What do you what do you think you can do better? Um, well, I guess stamina could be a thing as well for a chick as far as writing or whatnot. Bunnies or old? Knees? Oh, I mean, I think we're all at that point. Now where you squat down a little too low and you ain't getting back up. So caution when you go into weddings and stuff. You decide you want to get to work and stuff. I might go down, but I'm not coming back up. So that tell you that story? No, you have a story waiting. I mean, you might as well tell it now. Your knees locked. Chatsworth is. So my, my knees are bad come out of place. Okay. The bottom part comes disconnected from the top. Well, once I know I know is that a wedding reception. I had just moved down here to Florida, and then went back home to go to a friend's wedding. And wasn't drunk and had like one glass of wine. And legit. So one glass like little eight ounce glass or like, glass was like a little John cup. That's like the Yeah, that's a whole book and bottle in there in that one? Yes. It had just started. It was one last line. Okay, so, um, we were doing the wobble, and somehow. I know. Ironic, right? So somehow I turn and when I turned the bottom part of my leg and turn on my knee came out of place like it had before. But this time I ripped everything in my knee. And then did you have to go to the hospital after a wedding? Listen, I didn't want to leave. So I stayed. And my ex was like, we need to go. And I was like, I'm not leaving. I want to see everybody. I don't want to leave yet. So we stayed and we play games. And then I wake up the next morning and my knee is like four times the size that it was supposed to be. Yeah, I can walk on my leg I can. It was a whole fucking shit show. Did you have to go get a drained or just let it swell and come down. I went back and forth to the doctor a few times. I was supposed to have surgery on it. But like most of my stories, I did not refuse what the doctor said we get. So this is a great PSA announcement. Ladies and gentlemen, once you get close to your 40s Do not try to drop it like it's hot, because you have seven years ago. Okay, so 30s by 30 If you're in your 30s Shit starting to break down when you hit your 40s it's already broken down. So when you get to that point of dropping that shit, like it's hot, you ain't coming back up, it's gonna get cold really fast. So. But, but back to the question, if I felt like, you know, or if you felt like I could do things better. I know, for me, I feel like I can always do something better. But I think I do things rather exceptionally well. So until that this strong word until the Google reviews come in. I'm gonna keep it as is. And then if I get a better what is exceptional is quite a word there. No, the mouth does a lot of substitution for other lack of things that I may fall short on. So whatever I can't do to perfection, I will substitute and slide in with the mouth and things are totally forgotten. Believe it or not, it's like magic. It's like the magic eraser. Let me tell you if I had a Google review on what my mouth can do, let me tell you the reviews I'd have five stars including myself even by myself I stars like I'm pretty fucking impressive. I'll toot my own goddamn horn if I have to No. Are you shy about anything? No, not if I'm comfortable with the person. There's body parts or whatnot that insecure about I guess, but as far as we can shy Oh, really? Well, I think I've actually mentioned this before on previous episodes is that I don't know if it's a shy thing, but I know I'm not one to like to send like, Digg photos or whatever, it's I know, it's a very unsolicited thing, you got to work on that. I know, it's not an unsolicited thing. Nobody wants to the unsolicited dick photos. But it is one that I do not personally enjoy doing. That's one thing in my sexual realm that is not I'm not a fan of like, I cannot bring myself to do the photos, a whole video thing. It's just, I just feel so uncomfortable. Just looking at myself doing that, right. So I don't know, well, don't look at yourself. And you know, you can't help it for your enjoyment. But if you're putting it on video, you're looking at yourself, because you want to make sure everything is looking right. Things are looking bigger. Things are looking bigger in the screen than it really is appears you know, in person, you know, that type of shit. So yes, so the the I personally like to receive Oh, good to know now, I don't know, here's what's gonna. Here's, here's what's gonna happen now. Because you mentioned this everyone that's going to look Yeah, well, price, Google search it and price start setting for you to say you like to receive these. So you just opened just saying. Okay, well, some guys will still buy. You don't want to send it to you. So we're here you go. You're probably right. Exactly. Um, people will find you people are people are tech savvy, your information is out there. So you will start to tell you might start receiving phone calls right after this podcast airs. So let me ask you, do you do you feel that the bedroom tactics become stale as the relationship continues? And easily in ages? Yeah, absolutely. All right. Give me some give me give me an example here. Well, I think a lot of people just get into the when you're having sex, like the same thing over and over, like, you know what's going to start with this particular foreplay, then you're going to move to this position, then you're going to be flipped over and it's going to be this position, then you're going to be flipped back over. And you're going to end at this position. Yep, I can. I think that happens with a lot of guys like, early very early on. No, no, I that I can completely agree. Like I think and I think that would have been my point as well is that if it becomes very predictable, then shake gets still really fast. And then that's when you start running into issues, right? You started looking at? Well, if this is the same shoe, what are other people doing I'm curious about what are other people financially doing that are keeping their partners interested? So I think that's where people I mean, sometimes that can be where people cheat to not because the relations chips horrible, or they're not in love with their partner or whatever. But they're curious. Well, others well, not even bad. Just that feeling. I mean, obviously there's a different feeling when you're having sex with something that's a bunch of I don't know what chemistry is even the right word that I'm looking for. But like that, I mean, you've had one night stands or whatnot so that we know I never had a one night stand in my life. I don't know what type of guy you think I am. Come on now. Okay, anyways can be something there's some you know, hotness and less the to that, right? Yeah, sure. So once you get caught up into something that's the same bullshit over and over and over and over. Yeah, and you're like, I need something to kind of spice this up. But you should be able to spice it up with the person you're with. Absolutely agree. What about solo six? Do you feel like sometimes solo six can be? Well, it's not sex if you're solo. Masturbation is sex. That is considered solo six, you're you're pleasuring yourself. That is you're sexually getting yourself off. So are there I don't prefer right. Well, I mean, obviously, some obviously anybody prefers to have sex with somebody else. But are there times where you might be so frustrated with your partner that you're going to just rub one out, or what's a tear for females? Is it rub one out as well? I mean, Flick, flick it a few times I don't know, what's the what's the proper term? Do you flick the mouse? Is that what is that term? So say rubber? Well, you know, for my female listeners that are up to that, I'm interested to know what do you guys call it? Do you call it rub it out? Flick it out? You know, nobody says, I have no idea. I mean, obviously, you're not licking yourself. So you can't say look it out. So unless you're that flexible, that would, that would be something to see. I would love to see somebody who's actually that that inflexible, I've seen some flexible really what I have seen some flexible as people but I don't know if that's something that I have come across just yet if somebody can actually do that to themselves. So I know what you're Googling later. I might be Googling this now. During this call, see if this actually happens. i For me, it wouldn't be out of a frustration thing. If I'm mad or frustrated or upset with my partner, my sexual desires not going to be there. But for me, it's more of a estimations more of a focus thing. I guess we'll look at masturbation different because I can see if you're pissed off if you get into a heated argument. And also you don't want anything to do with your partner at that time. I can see that as a stress reliever and once you bust that nut and have that post nut clarity, you're like, okay, at least for a guy you kind of like forget what you were mad about us like I move them out of town now now that I got not I got that pent it up and out the way like sometimes that solos solo sex can really be better at times because you could tend to say things you don't want to you know argument that you might regret later on right? And all of a sudden you go to the bathroom to the shower cool off rub one out and you know you come out like hey, what's what how was your day while the other one still might still might be steaming from the conversation? Because we know women will hold those conversations for a very long time. Any anything a guy says in combat all women are exactly the same. We all process everything except Yeah, do everyone Yes. Yeah. Do every one of us like the same everything is different. You go into different territory there that that is a different game, right? Not all Dick sucking is the same. I can attest to that. Some are absolutely great. Some are good, some are bad, and some are blocking terrible. And so and I think I've had terrible I think what how can you be terrible moving your head so damn fast and vigorously and having your teeth exposed and just rubbing that shit raw. Like you're not D barking a tree. And I have had I have had those. I have had those experiences where or it's like, a like, think of a vegetable peeler going against a potato or a carrot? That's like the sensation of a bad fucking blowjob. Right there is where you're just you're getting that shit just scrape the fuck off him. So then do you vocalize? Like no, you know, and that's the thing I know they say is great, great to talk and communicate. But to me I feel like sometimes that's gonna hurt someone's feelings because especially if they think you're into them and you're into the moment most guys will take you for the team. One is because they're getting head. But for the most part no, they're not going to say nothing. I mean, I know we might say we want to talk about things. But in the heat of the moment it's not nothing's been said it'll be said afterward probably but in the heat of the moment. Because I can particularly tell you one case that I had is it was the motion it was just continuously just just like literally, Jack rabbiting on top and it just like oh my god, this is horrible. Oh my god, stop, please stop. I'm thinking this in my head. I didn't say this out loud. Because I know damn. Well, if I would have said something, it would have hurt someone's feelings the way my tone would have came out. So I'm like, Alright, just let me let me focus on something different. Let me just fine to the pain. Let me just get this over with. If I can get over quick enough then it'll be done and then she'll think she did a great job got me off and then I'm like, okay, so it's time to go. Go now, My back's a little sore. So I'm not gonna have intercourse because I could be potentially bleeding. It is goddamn time right now. And we don't want to risk any potential diseases. But yeah, so conversations usually during the moment, not so much. Maybe after and you're only going to somebody after. If you're in a relationship relationship with that person, not like a fling or just when I stand like women, typically there's no point. So yeah, yeah. But anyways, the whole the whole point of these initial questions just as kind of get your baseline is because today's topic I found rather interesting was I got six tips on how to become way better in bed, and how to feel like you're the fucking man or yet the woman you know it depending on who's the more dominant one type type situation, this relationship do you have? Before we get into the actual topics itself? Do you have an idea? Do you what do you think Jimmy discussed as far as making somebody way better in bed? I mean, I personally think it's making sure that your foreplay your oral game is on point. Okay, we're good there score thing. Excellent. So the the number one tip from this is a panel of experts is to try some sex toys. And Good God, have we not talked, you know, effortlessly in sex toys? I mean, obviously, I have affiliation partnerships with like, three or four sex shops, you know, so and all links will be that's a great focus anyway, actually, all links will be Yeah, all links will actually be in the show notes of this podcast. So if you're listening to this and are interested in any sex products, and are curious about sex products, go check out the sex notes, you can click on the links, and you will actually have a massive amount of information and discounts available to you. So those notes or those links scuze. Me will be in our show notes. But yes, the number one item is trying new sex toys. particularly high quality sex toys, like I believe I had a podcast where we actually went into discussing different things and you definitely do not want to have a poor quality made sex toy or something that irritates you wrong materials. Everyone's going to have their everyone's body itself is going to have various reactions, right. So you don't want to risk something utterly going wrong if you're using a poorly made toy, correct. I mean, have you ever played with a bad toy that gave you some kind of reaction or, or just broke in the middle of your solo pleasures made me a couple of pleasures ever? No toys are new for me. They're new. Okay. Well, welcome to the world. Thank you. I mean, they they're fun, but they also intensify pleasure, right? That's, that's the whole intent of having a sex toy is to intensify the pleasure it can help climax reach. You can reach climax a lot faster is but sometimes you don't want it to be too fast. Because you know, you want the sexual experience. I don't think it to last longer. I don't. Yeah, I don't I mean, I guess depending on what you're using. I mean, when you say toys, it's not just using like a fucking rabbit or a dildo, right. There's totally a wide variety. So the feathers the all of that brings a completely different experience floggers the writing crops, the handcuffs, the hard tie said the lubes the actual extra dildos, the butt plugs. Yeah, so I mean, there's it's but I mean, but can you can contest that it does help stimulate and get you to climax sooner if not multiple times. So if this is something that nobody is using or trying, I can't stress enough at least try it because if it's not something that you're into, at least you gave it an attempt and it will bring you closer as a couple but should also open your eyes. eyes to a lot of different possibilities. All right, which brings me into Tip number two is to talk dirty to each other. You like you like you some dirty talk? What Darren that journey act before the X, you know, help steam it up, you know, get you all worked up before. I mean any dirty talk is dirty talk right? Doesn't matter when it is just it's dirty talk. I mean, I like sexting. I like sexting with the dirty cop and the pictures that I'm not receiving. And I like it daring to. Yeah. Yes. So I really do it during but I like to hear it. Ya know? Yeah, so with talking dirty. A man can actually control is woman's orgasm. By knowing what to say in do you know, making her orgasm longer, more intense, and potentially squirting orgasms. So words are not going to make the typical I mean, if if you say the right words, you just never know you might turn them on. Alone. You might just turn them on by words alone but a baby. This place is so good. It's worth a million dollars. And oh, skeet skeet skeet skeet skeet at you just never know somebody might really positive reinforcement. Aaron, sex is a great thing. Yeah. So there you go. I mean, it will. And as you're confirming that it will, you know, turn you on even more, I mean, that this I have a couple of favorites, instead dirty talk. It definitely helps women get out of their head, right. So when you starting to talk dirty to them, and not having them think about the everyday things that are going on in their life. Things they got to take care of what did they do today? Today, everyone get their homework done that type of stuff. So dirty talk, you know, they can focus on that, oh, let's let's let's talk about this. And it puts them more in a relaxed state. I mean, does it not? Do you feel like you're more relaxed when you feel like somebody's really taking the time to get naughty with you. I mean, in my own current personal experience, I'm already relaxed. So that's my main issue. But like I said, for me, it's the positive reinforcement. And for so you tell me to continue doing that? And I'm like, Oh, yeah. Okay. We're liking something that you're doing. Okay. So that so the, the affirmation is kind of turned you on as well, like, you know, as one of my love languages. Okay. And I know, we recently took that test of the different which color we were between reds, yellows, blues, and greens, which was very interesting and found out that I'm a red, obviously, with a big mix of yellows. So if you guys haven't had a yellow and blue, it's red and yellow, red and yellow. It was more red than it was yellow, blue was at least like I had nothing to blue. But for now, remember the colors? Yeah. So for anyone that's interested in a good book, or audio book to read is surrounded by idiots. It definitely is a way to understand how people are wired. And it possibly can help in your sex life, to understand exactly the personality of your partner and how you need to handle them and possibly even manhandle them and put them in their place in in bed, so you just never know. Alright, so yeah, nevermind, go ahead. No, no, go ahead. But you can't you can't do a cliffhanger you that is like the worst thing in the world to tell somebody. I tell you what, you know what? Nevermind. So you always, always, always need to finish out your statement that you are going to stay. So anyways, um, if you have a because I'm very read on that list. Right? So if you have like a strong woman or independent woman and blah, blah, blah, you hear a lot of guys. They're like, wow, she's too Alpha. She said, rah, rah, rah rah, but our I don't want a woman like that. But if you kind of manhandle a woman like that, and let us fall back in our femininity, especially in the bedroom. Squirt, squirt, squirt, baby, squirt, squirt, squirt, I recommend 10 additive. So there you go, guys. If you guys have you a stubborn ass woman that is one of the traits one those traits for red are fucking stubbornness. So this absolutely falls into that realm. If you have a stubborn ass woman and you can dominate harass in the bedroom, she will fucking not bow down leading up to it. Like the domination leading up to it. Okay, then you go down on the couch. Yeah. You suck my dick when I tell you to woman, there you go. That's maybe not the one I tell you to. If you want to try to really dominate me, whatever, I suck your dick every time you turn around. Anyway. Anyway, so. So tip number three guys, that was Tip number two, make sure you talk dirty to each other, and it will help you guys out in the bedroom. I promise. Number three is one that we probably all can work on. It's probably not the best or everyone's favorite but is to communicate with your partner. And I know right before we were getting into topics when we were having our conversation you were talking about discussing and telling your partner things you like but yes, communication with your partner will help you in bed with your partner and help you in the long run. Things for communicating with your partner or to discuss your likes, dislikes, fantasies, and what feels good to you. You know, what do you like? What do you dislike, continue to do this do not do this anymore. This type of stuff your partner may enjoy to hear. However, there is a fine line though, right? Correct me if I'm wrong, if you say something, but and try to critique them don't give it in a of a way that you're going to piss them off or make them feel stupid or whatever, right? You don't want to insult them. You just kind of want to give them that edge. You want to give them that guy say hey, I know you're trying this, but do this and see if this works out for me too. This might feel a bit better. What are your What are your thoughts in response to that? Do you rather would you rather chose somebody or, or like I was mentioning earlier have the conversation after the fact. Like a bad job is being done. If we're in a room. If you're in a relationship, I think you should be able to say something in the moment. Like is sexism in sexual activities. It's not something to suffer through. Like if it doesn't feel good to be like, hey, moved in this position, you can even transition into something different without bringing that particular thing up. And when the other person like isn't in a heightened state or whatever, right. Like if the dinner just burned and the dog does shit on the floor probably won't be like Hey, remember when you were sucking my dick the other night? He did a horrible job. Right? Like I would not be the best time and the best way to do it. Like your your your did. Sucking job is as bad as this shit smells on the floor a fight? Probably never gonna get your dicks at the gate. If you've mentioned that guy that her blow job is as bad as this shit smells on the floor. Never again, you might as well just call that shit quits. I mean, I think you do have to be very careful. And they depends on the couple in their relationship and how they're capable of communicating, right? I mean, I've had somebody in the past be like Barbie doing that. And so if you're doing something sexual, like why are you doing that? Yeah, the sexual one. Okay. Yeah, it's a particular, whatever with a blow job. So, to me, I was like, Okay, fine. I won't ever fucking do it again. Never had a complaint before, but I won't ever do it again. Then years later, there was the question of why don't you ever do that anymore? It's like, well, your tone. It definitely wasn't a Huh, why are you doing that? Right, exactly. To come at me a certain way, then I'm going to be like, alright, well, I'm not going to do that anymore. So if you can't exactly nope, the Bailey's in the way anyways. I know, I think but I think people hopefully are getting better at communicating and having that from the get go. Because it does if you have somebody that you're comfortable with and you know, you can communicate to it makes suck so much better. Yeah, but absolutely. I mean, if you're mature to have sex, you're mature to talk to your partner. Right? That's the thing. So I think that it to add to this as well, since it's talking about like ways to spice it up or whatever. I mean, there might be a couple things that I enjoy that I haven't communicated yet that they're like kind of tucked away until they're needed. Right? detail so I'm you Got interest you got you got two ears perked up, like, what are you really being reserved about that you can potentially I'm not being reserved, but there's a couple things that I like. But if I'm liking everything that's going on anyway, so why not hold those for a little while until maybe things start to get a little bit more? Oh, your ammunition to spice things, or whatever. And then I'd be like, Oh, what about this? I gotcha. Okay, well, then, I mean, that could be useful. That can be very useful. Good to know. All right. Well, there you go, guys, potentially your partner or whatever, could have something in the chamber for when you get fucking boring. Like, what we asked you haven't fuck me as guys in the next, you know? You add that to your list? Oh, nevermind. I'll have that later. What's that? Yeah, you know, you said list and it might already be in here. I don't know. So we'll go through the checklist. And then if it's not, I'll bring it up. Alright. So number four on the list of ways to make your six better, is watch a 60 videos. And it's not just necessarily porn as immediately everyone's considering just sexy videos itself. Because why? Number one is hot to watch other people engage in sex. And to you definitely get turned on. And you can learn new positions. So watching sexy videos together as a couple can really help the relationship or the the sex play. Are you not? Like you write in and say something when talk about sex videos? Are you not wanting to watch videos with your partner? You're not a you're not a fan? Why not? Explain. So what's your different my thing? So this is where probably the part where the communication with your partner comes into play. Like, listen, I like to watch videos. And this is kind of what turns me on and watching other people and then turns me on. And then we want to get onto us. Maybe this is a conversation have which partner? Right? I mean, I get it, there are things that we like and don't like. I mean, I I mean, I've been in a relationship where Porn was like the devil, like, if you are watching porn. It's like cheating, which I completely disagree with. But there are and I get it, there are females that really really resent a man or their man or their significant other to watch adult films. men feel that same some men feel the same way. For a woman to a woman lays your watch for Yeah, not to no relationship at all, whatever your rules are, in your own relationships, but obviously need to be communicated like to be communicated. Yeah, I mean, now I know they say porn. And there's been a lot of studies that porn does a really put a hindrance on a lot of folks, sex lives or one's sex life per se. Like there's too much high expectations of what they watch compared to what it is in real life. But I guess it also really comes down to somebody's personality, like how they're going to perceive porn, right? They say it can affect men. And well, I think they talked about affecting men more than they talked about how it will affect women. But this will go in a completely different conversation. But porn can definitely affect people's productivity, all kinds of things. So I have what was there was a series on Netflix that I actually watched something, maybe it's the dark web or something dark web, where they it was porn actually was one of the topics or whatever, and how some folks actually just lost themselves in porn and couldn't have relationships with females because they expected these high expectations of what the porn stars did and could not relate in real life. Like this is what happens sexually in real life. So I guess it boils down to someone's personality, but I guess I've watched shit. I've watched fucking porn. Early I started watching porn at a very early age secretly with the satellite dish my parents had that when I found out that they can find you know all these free porn stations around the world and stuff like that, but I don't think as long as I've been watching porn it and it's not an everyday thing, but you'll watch it but I don't see my I don't I guess I don't have that personality where I feel like it's ever affected my, my sexual activity with the female, and everyone's probably different, but I don't see as much porn as I've watched and I think I've gotten a few times you've reached the end of the internet of porn. That it has affected me Jesus Christ. No, I joke, but there's a lot of shit that I probably have not watched. Like, I've listened to a few of Berkshire's podcasts. And when he talks about some of the stuff he watches on porn, because his quote unquote, Governor has been broken, because he's watched porn so much. Some of the shit he's like, just scrolling through, like, Give me something just give me something. Give me something. So I'm like, I'm not that I'm not. I'm not that bad. Right? So what I'm like, damn, Bert, how much porn Do you watch but he's but some of the stuff that he watches. And he'll describe him like, I don't know if I can get into some of that shit. Because I'm like, That's not that's out of my my comfort zone watching porn. Some of that stuff is not from me, like I'd rather watch. Just a the shit that will get your adrenaline pumping. And next, you know, you're done. Not the shit where you're shitting on someone and you're humiliating them and they're just eating the shit and that type of porn. That's okay. That type of porn is not me. But there there is a niche for this porn and it's crazy. Like there's a niche for everything important. But anyways, we're going we're going way left field on this topic of how to have better sex. Obviously porn anyway, said sexy videos. So I mean, obviously, there's other stuff that can turn you on that doesn't have to be straight. Yeah, absolutely. You know, you can watch some of the Instagram reels and watch what some of these. Some of these girls are getting by with somehow, without, but yeah, I got flagged the other day for posting up the damn cop girl who got ran the train on and I put a photo of that little meme that they have out there with five guys is hiring and she raised it up, you know, I can start immediately. So I find it funny that everybody's so upset over that. I don't know what we're all adults. I don't understand why everybody's except because they're police officers. I don't know. All I know is my my post got flagged it was going against community standards. I'm like, what, like this is all around the internet right now. How's this going against community, but whatever. Sometimes we get some insensitive people that are running these algorithms or are monitoring this stuff. So whatever. But anyway, so number four is watching sexy videos with your partner ladies and gents, and it will help you out, I promise you, it will help you out because I have watched videos with ladies and you can see how they can get turned on. And if you're doing things right and you're touching at the same time, while you're watching some of these videos, you can tell at the same time that a female is actually getting excited. Am I wrong? Like because if you're watching say promise that it's going to work. I've never enjoyed it. So this will be we'll have to go back to number three later on communication with your party. So all right, so let me weigh in on those photos. So all right, so we will move on to the fifth topic Ladies and Gents the fifth topic is still sticking with the sexy videos however, number five is to listen to sexy videos but without watching meaning put something on turn your laptop around halfway close it just listen to the words listen to the dirty talk that's being said right What are you laughing I hear this I just find this hilarious. I mean it's I will teach you how to dirty talk right so you're like okay, and I get it when I read this part of the article it said to mimic what the actors are saying right like the guys are saying this to girls saying this and you saying this out loud? You can kind of test the waters of what can and can't be said Right? Like yeah dirty slits what I like like and then you look at her to see if let's see exactly how she's gonna react to the dirty slot right? You never know in the moment she could possibly be turned on she could have possibly you call me a dirty sled daddy go ahead maybe tell me what you want how you want me to talk to you. You know that type of shit right? So you don't know I mean this could have some valid points is to listen to it. And but not watches and you already saying one you don't want to you're not wanting to watch it for maybe You might want to just listen to it and you were talking about the hot and heavy breather. Right? So at this point, you might as well just listen to some porn and see what's turning you on. When I watch porn, I don't listen to it. So you just watch porn just volume down and just watch the motions. Yeah. Okay. Cuz if I hear the girl, it turns me off. No, I mean, I hear that female It turns me off. And I'm like, Nope. I'm out. Have you ever been in a threesome? Yes. With the female? Yes. And did that turn you off? I mean, I was pretty intoxicated. Okay, so it didn't turn you off. Switch here, essentially, just to say to say it didn't turn you off. So there was something about the situation that we're like, but you were intoxicated. So it didn't matter. Right? Right. So what you want to get drunk and listen to people? I mean, if if you want yeah, sure, if you want to listen to folks, because I'll tell you what, listen, I have I have been in hotel rooms actually, fuck that. When I was in the military going through my basic training, or actually my tech school. We were supposed to have our dormitories separated. And somehow not gonna say somehow but obviously we know girls are dirty little girls and they're gonna sneak over to the guy side of the dorm. Right? Give me an alert now right but the girls will sneak over to the guys side of the dorm. Guys aren't gonna sneak over here because the commanders are Exos are going to be on that side of drone watching for guys to sneak over. So girls, it's easier for the girl to sneak over without getting caught and in trouble. But what I'm getting at was that I had a room that was next to mine or they call them bunk mates or roommates not was not a roommate situation but squad mates flatmates or whatever. Anyways, there was one night it was one of the weekend nights where we had you know free liberty on the base and just had to be back in in our in our barracks area dorm rooms or whatever by a certain time. Well, I'm back in my room, suppose like follow the rules. And next thing you know, I'm halfway asleep and I started hearing not gonna fucking lie. My ears perked up. I'm like, Okay, this should just get interesting. So I actually sat there and listened to whoever was in the next room just getting railed cuz I thought it was gonna get off. I was I didn't know because I thought I had the guy that I had to share the room with was just Rican because that's a whole nother story. I'm gonna fucking do not wanna take a shower so it would not have been sexy for me to try to get off thinking of this girl getting railed and next room what my fucking roommate is smell like ask because he refused to take a shower. So it was a bad situation but this night this situation actually just made my night better like hi, I could do this so of course and I start closing my eyes and again you listen to the sound listen to the visuals there in the females. Of course I mean that the females and right hearing her spot attorney on Oh, it was because I'm not so but my oh my god Shut up. But just listen to, but it just going back to like number five says listen to sexy videos. But even just listening to sounds of someone having sex listening to sexual sounds, sensual sounds that can really kind of keep things up. Like I can go to a hotel room. And I've been to a few hotel rooms where the walls are fairly thin and you can hear couples just going at it. So obviously I'm gonna sit up and listen. So I'm like, Okay, I might as well listen shit somebody's having a good time. I'm not but somebody's in there having a good time. And I may or may not have at that point had the solo sex moments listen to other to other folks because it is it to me that is fucking hot. It is it is fucking hot. Listen to other folks have sex and you're not seeing them but you know and so it just heightens your entire imagination of somebody else's in there just fucking in that shoe. Right? But then you kind of put yourself in that situation right? Like okay, let my imagination just run while listening to someone else and me being part of this or whatever. So, but yes, listening to sexy videos. We can put even put on that we can even add on to that slash sounds, ambient sexual sounds so that can possibly help improve. So if anybody wants I can let you know when I'm traveling. If you want to book it hotel room that I met and you could be in another room. There you go. You can get your sexual sounds from when I'm traveling because there will be sexual sounds because anytime I travel there is by far more sex in a hotel room. And I know we'd had tried to have conversation about this before, but that episode didn't work out as well but more sets in a hotel room than probably a normal house would have. So if you want to book a room next to me, you're more than welcome to and you can possibly get yourself off. Listen to the sounds of moaning and screaming, so correct. No, the sounds not doing anything for you. I mean, literally, I'm actually kind of turned on listening to you talk about how the sounds were turning you on. Oh, okay. Well, then they mean well, how are you really feeling right now? It's all nice and juicy right now. Ah, you guys to see right now. She's she's blushing pretty good right now, guys. So She is blushing. at your hotel comments the truth though? She's blushing and gushing. So well, what should be a shirt? blushing and gushing? Wait, let's go back. What do you what do you mean, my hotel comments aren't true. They try to call it I don't know if in your current situation that they're accurate. Or how's that? How's it not accurate? We think we have more sex in a hotel room than we do. Let's say in your house. Well, we also haven't we've only been in we traveled what? Twice in a hotel room. So it's we haven't had that experience. Like, we're, we're about? We're about to be in Tennessee. So we will we'll report back after that trip. We've stayed in two Airbnbs and one hotel. Okay, so it's still very, yeah, yeah. And one of those was with another couple. So I mean, anyways, we're getting we're going beside the point. We'll report back after we get back from Gatlinburg after a week, after IV IVs ice packs, all that good stuff. Alright, so the sixth and final way forward to end this podcast tonight is to let strangers watch. You heard that right? To let strangers or friends people watch you have sex can really stimulate both partners. And your relationship. Do you agree or not? I don't know about the whole friends thing. Because that can make things awkward. I've had things go weird and awkward afterwards with friends. But I mean, I wouldn't mind watching or being watched. Which is one of my obviously we all know and I've discussed it many times on podcasts that I always have. That's why I enjoy having the windows open. It's because it's the adrenaline, the adrenaline rush of possibly getting caught not fully getting caught where they possibly can call the police on you. But then again, somebody might actually catch you and ask you to stop and just watch in admiration, right? It's the naughty, dirty, exciting element to having sex in the clear view of a stranger's eye. So don't do the like, oh, sorry, no. What about like a sex club situation? I have been to a sex club twice, but not to participate. It was because I was going in there for a business meeting, meeting up with someone very weird. It was a it was a colleague that I was working with. He was his business manager was having a party there, whatever. And we had to go back there multiple times to handle some stuff. But I would I wouldn't be above going to one of those clubs and just checking out and actually experiencing it. I'm not above that. I I actually think I would be super curious to go to a sex club and actually see now what I participate in all the activities. I might be too shy at that point because it would be a new experience, but I definitely would go and check it out. Just to see because I know from the little experience that I had going to one where it literally took five minutes of me being in there because they tagged you they had they tag you as a single male, single female tag you as a couple, literally five minutes of my colleague and his manager discussing I still just sitting there waiting, having a drink, and I got walked up to so many times and hey See, you're single guy. What are you doing here by yourself? Blah, blah, blah, do you want to come take a walk? And I'm just sitting like, holy shit, what is it really this easy in the sex. And in granted, it might not always be that way. But it was just to me and like Holy fuck. And I was on the dance club side at the time, because there was two sides to this club, it was a dance club side where the DJs are, everyone's having a good time where you had to have so much party so much of your clothes on compared to the other side where it was whatever you can take the tour back there, there was like multiple themed rooms. You had couches, you had lounge chairs, you had beds and stuff that people could do whatever on you could watch, you can sit. So yeah, I've, since we didn't stay there very long, I did not get to get the full experience. And now I wouldn't mind going back. But I went back and looked at some of the prices. If you try and go back to that single guy that he spoke of things, they really determined that because it was almost 100 200 bucks for a single guy just to go, it is cheaper to go as a couple diningroom because obviously you're bringing a female into this location to get in. So maybe we can have this conversation afterwards afterwards. And like, hey, let's just go check it out. And be curious at what's really happening behind this. And at this point, you can participate. You pay for the you know, both sides or whatever you can participate you can watch, because obviously I wouldn't mind watching like I like I meant generally like listening and watching to me that she does. I've watched friends actually have sex. I'm not sure if you've ever watched your friends have sex, but I've watched my friends have sex. And I'm like, All right now. You never watch any of your friends have sex? Like if y'all went on trips or not like that? Yep. Okay, well, I have and it's very, it'll turn you on, right? It'll get you all like worked up. Okay. But me I don't the going back to sex club things like, oh, I don't want to get involved in shit with friends. Like I said, that just makes situations funky. And I keep my personal experience, even if everybody's there with friends. It seems like the guy typically always tries to step out of that afterwards. And well, that's how the calls the pulling you to the side at parties. So for me personally, I sure that's a limit. That's fair enough, because but that's also kind of where you got to have that understanding and conversation before you kind of start going into this right. Like you have this solid stable understanding of each other. Right. So before your friend started having such a really listen, here are the rules. After for after I watched this, though, I mean, I think it was kind of a on unspoken type rule like you kind of respected. And it might be not everybody. And I think I was getting I was getting really good. I might be one of those. It might be everyone's how everyone's built differently. Because it's a respected like, right, if you're if your friends are going to allow you to watch them have sex, or maybe even participate. You kind of respect that boundary like, Okay, this is this will only happen when we're together, right? Just enjoy this, you know, don't do don't do anything on the outside. You don't want to mess it up, right? Because if you enjoyed it and had fun, it was just for the experience. You don't want to mess that up, right? If you enjoyed it, you want to kind of do it again. And again, this wouldn't be something that's on the regular right. So this is something that every so often Blue Moon, like going out drinking, like hey, let's go back to whatever and just have a good time. So my role is no friends. I get it and I am going back to the sex club or whatever. Like I think going there watching all that stuff's pretty cool. So you've been is what you're saying? I haven't been Oh, okay. Well, then we'll have to find out the hours. I know. There's a few. I know there's a few in Tampa and there's a few actually out here to send me. Some of them require memberships though, but Oh, I know a few friends that are actually members of some of them. So maybe I could reach out to them. Find out how I can get access to it's just a check it out. Like I said, it's curious. It's always going to be curiosity. And then if if you don't like it, then what you just walk away and just don't do it again. But it's the fact that you take your partner and explore and check it out. Right? But that's one of the big things too, because what if one partner is there and they're like, Okay, I don't like like I'm not filling this at all. Like I thought I was gonna like it but I don't like it. I think you have that have a partner that she Still enough, cool enough to not be like, Well, I am enjoying it. So we're staying or Yeah, no, no, no, I agree, you definitely have to be, you guys gotta be on the same page to make anything to work, you guys gotta be on the same page. So, if the partner is ready to leave, obviously you're like, hey, let's Alright, we're out. Because if you want to be able to do it again, you have to be able to falters like I am out. And then maybe months down the line, hey, let's go try this again, and try it and see if we can, you know, change your perspective. So, but back to back to letting the strangers watch. easy things to do. I can give you a few points on this is hotels, hotels are going to be the easiest place to do this type of stuff to get your your toes wet, opening up the windows pressing against the hotel window, because sometimes it's nothing's harder than pressing your, your your partner against the window, her body up against the window and potentially being caught. Maybe catching an eye, you know, or thinking that somebody's watching. You can wear, you can wear a mask if if your partner is shy about her identity, or his identity, or whatever the situation may be. put on a mask, cover your face, so that way you can't be easily identified, right? Because here's what's going to happen if by any chance you find someone that is kinky enough or is turned on by it by watching you obviously what they're gonna do, they're gonna pull out their fucking phone, possibly, and record. So, you know, that could be that could be a turnoff for somebody, like knowing that they're being watched, but somebody's also enjoying it and recording it. But you can't control that because you're taking the risk. You are taking the risk of letting people possibly watch but at least it's at least they're not calling the cops. And they're just recording right? And maybe they're just going to get themselves off. Because technically you can't post these videos on these porn sites. A lot of these porn sites aren't going to let them post these videos if it's not them or got consent that they recorded somebody right? So it's most of the time you probably going to find out that it was for their personal ticket and abusing for the person who's because they're not going to make nothing off of it because it is against the law to record somebody and try to post it and make money off of it. So just but if you if you decide to remember why you see that they're recording Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. But unless you're really that deep in the moment, were you like me, my mum was done most of the time kind of get through it. You know, what if you want to but but then if you get close to that point, right? You graduate from there you go out to the balcony, just make sure that if you go to the balcony, do not overdo it. Because there are stories actually, I just watched a reel where this couple obviously you could tell they were probably having sex but obviously because it's really not showing that they're having sex they fucking fell over the real the rails because the rail I guess they were pressed up against the rails whatever and the rail gave way so they fucking fell and it was only like two two floors whatever but still, that's a fall that's still a good fucking fall if you're one halfway making falling and he's laying on your side or whatever. But yeah, so if you're gonna take it if you're gonna take it to the extent to let strangers watch if you don't want friends to be in a room or if you want somebody possibly watching a hotel, go out to the balcony enjoy the balcony but do it in a way in a classy way right you don't want to do it where there's going to be children around because to me that is that's a no no right you definitely want to only do it potentially we're at night where people are pretty much asleep and possibly somebody might be out on a balcony smoking a cigarette having a cup of coffee or having a beer or drink or in the hand or whatever just to the point where it just don't do it where kids are going to be around that's that's just common sense man just be smart about it but have fun but be smart. So let strangers watch number six on the list. Anything you want to add to this list that you think are yes, I thought it would be on there but I guess it wasn't have a bucket list. X bucket lists have a bucket list that is a that's actually that is actually a good idea to have a bucket list where you can share between each other that could be a turn on watching somebody actually put items in a bucket list and watching it pop up on your other and say hey your partner just added or someone whoever you're sharing it with just added something to the list just to see what they could that could almost be as turned on as what dirty texting or whatever. Like hey, I just saw you add this to the list. What's up let's when can we make this possibly have been type stuff? No. I think it can use scenarios fun and if you're a pleaser, and it gives you it's like a little guide sheet. Yeah, so teach Yeah, absolutely so so that's a good one. There's there's your bonus one guys, there is your bonus, making a bonus six lists. So I have a disclaimer on some of this. Why is this amazing? Girls are well guys and girls are so completely different. So some of those like, if you're going to be taking your lessons from porn, you gotta be really fucking careful with that. really careful with that. Well, I mean, yeah, you gotta use your own discretion like, gotta be smart. If you're if you're doing shit and you're knowing it's not going to be in someone's comfort zone Don't be that idiot, right just know your partner before you kind of start bringing things up just ease into shit slowly don't just bam we're gonna Yeah, we're we're gonna stick this up your ass and you're gonna like you're gonna climax It doesn't work that way. You got to work it into you know, the scenario. Work is slow and then just go from there. But yeah, just don't immediately. Surprise. Yeah, fear checks like reserved or whatever. I mean, Colin are the names that you hear in the dirty talk on horns? Probably not a good idea. So we can't just automatically assume females like to be called Dirty sluts. Let me hear let me let me see that. What it was obviously that asked gigolo, my dick. You know, dirty little whore. Oh, no, I like that. Well, not for me. Okay, I had a guy say to me one time or not one time. He said it multiple times. My dirty little calm slot. Yeah. 30. Okay. Anyway, referred to himself as Daddy. And I'm like those two things together. I'm like, no, no. And then I was like, Hey, we ain't gonna fuck no more. Like I can't do this. Then I was like, You should probably stop calling chicks dirty little cups. slots. Can I call it dirty talk? I was like, it sucks. Me and my little come dumpster to me. Yeah. All right. Well, you can get away with a lot more if you liked each other, though. So sure, sure. Absolutely. Yeah, you don't you don't do that on your first Tinder blind date flip. Right? No. So I mean, some might I mean, some might there might be. There might be the scenario I just told you. Oh, you know what? We'll have to Yeah, we will have to come back into your little Tinder first dates. Your first one nightstand hookups at some point we will talk about this later. Diary of Tinder Yeah, right. Exactly. All right. So we'll go ahead and wrap this up we've actually became a longer episode than I was expected to become but that's good though. So anything else you want to bring up before enclosing and then we get out of here? No, I think what I just said was way more than so Okay, so with that being said guys, we hope you guys enjoyed this episode of getting the six tips on how to become way better in bed. And if you enjoyed this makes sure you guys please follow us on our socials at Whiskey and uncensored on Instagram and Facebook, the website of whiskey and uncentered.com all of our affiliate partners that we discussed earlier and there's so with the SEC shots will be in the show notes and as well as the whiskey and uncensored.com affiliates page where you guys can go check out any of the sex toys to get your sex game up. 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