Five Worst Places to Have First Dates (According to Men.....Oooh Boy)

In this episode, we dive into the top 5 worst places to have a first date, according to men. From the pressure of a sit-down restaurant to the lack of interaction at a movie theater, the noisy atmosphere of a loud music venue, the messiness of a BBQ restaurant, and the intimacy of either person's home, these places can make for a disastrous first date. But fear not! Our hosts share insights and personal stories about how to avoid these pitfalls and make your first date a memorable and successful experience. So, join us as we explore the dos and don'ts of first-date locations.


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What's going on everybody? Welcome back to an episode of whiskey and uncensored. My name is Eddie Lopez. And I'm gonna be the host of this debauchery today, where we've taught sex, sex trends, relationship and all other bullshit in life, all while drinking whiskey and having some fun. Today I am on the Mexican version of whiskey at the TiVo with whiskey almost tries Canadian say whiskey right there. Every me may have had a couple of drinks already. The Mexican version of the whiskey is not too shabby. It's thick, creamy, caramel D and sweet, though it sounds kind of gay, but we're gonna go roll with it. This bottle actually was brought to me by machine Gray, who is on the other end with us today. How are you doing today? Ma'am? No, I'm pretty good. Good. You haven't had this whiskey heavy? I have not? Well, we are going to have to get you on these whiskies. Especially if you're going to be around on the show. We're gonna have to have you drinking whiskies other than vodka all the time. So when I will try it will make you a whiskey girl yet. So today, today we are discussing five of the worst places you can possibly take a date and we know fellows that having a woman pick some place, either if it's to eat or to go someplace, is like pulling teeth. But this time, this report is by men, five places that men say are the probably the worst places to take a girl out, even if she takes it first day on a first date. That's right. Well, would you say women can come up women should be able to come up with a first date idea, right? I mean, it's the new is the new time it's a new world. Women are independent. They want to make decisions now. So why can't they make a decision on the first date? No, I'm preparing myself for my response. Well, let's hear your response. Now. I've picked enough first dates, but there's also one How deep do I want to go into this? One? That's what she likes to hear. Right. That's how deep I want to go. Women have been pushed into their independency. Right. So first, we could debate that. I don't know about pushing. Really? Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. It made it. I don't know if we've pushed where because you know, sometimes guys like to have any pushed women into their independency. No, I think I think they fought for their independence. Like I'm an independent woman hear me roar type stuff. I don't think men pushed him into saying, Yeah, we want to hear you talk more shit to us. I don't think that's the case. Oh. That's not even the same thing. It used to be a broke bitch talking shit to somebody. Okay, well, apparently, you know, women have gotten more feistier. And this is why a lot more women are single because they tend to be a little too feisty. Some guys don't want to deal with it. So you know, that's why sometimes first dates don't even make it past the first hour in the first date. Because initial conversations No, I already can tell not dealing with this one. Well, I'll tell you when I have a guy that can't like, say I'm enjoying the conversation. I would like to meet you. There is something extremely appealing of a man being a man. Sure. I wanted to take you out Friday night at seven o'clock. Let's meet at wherever. Yep, that's a huge turn on for a woman. Now maybe she's a raging feminist. Maybe not. I don't know. But for the average woman we still want to even though we have to be independent and we pay our bills and remodel online all the fucking independent chat, which is just being a doll. What was what was what was that video real? I sent you where the man and the woman were at looks like they were at a movie theater or something and being a bitch. She was a he was she? Okay, well, let's let me explain the prequel which I thought I found fucking hilarious was that the couple was at a Um, like I said, Let's, I think it was a movie theater and they were at the counter getting ready to pay for something. And the mantel, the attendant is she's gonna pay. And she looked at him like, what? No. He's like, Well, babe, you wanted to be a, you thought you were independent. And she was like, I am independent. He said, Oh, so you're independent, when you want to be independent. But when it comes to doing your partner relationship, or something to that effect, you decide, you don't want to do it. And then she comes back with well, you are the man of the relationship. You're the provider, bla, bla, bla, you're supposed to pay, you're supposed to take care of me whatever. And so he's like, Well, I don't have a problem paying. I just want to know where the line is at where the woman independent comes in, into play other relationship. So I just thought it was a funny real. I don't think many people when I shared it, I don't think a lot of people actually thought it was too too funny, because he didn't get very many views there. They thought that he got kind of nasty. There was an awkward real. Yeah, well. And ironically, most of my followers are female. So I tried to pull push over very well with them on this one. But anyway, so wait a minute, let's touch on that. So most? You just said most of your followers are women. And when you were talking to the guys from the daily BM, you're like, it's a chick has nothing but men followers. She has a high number. Well, but these are these are my followers, right? I'm not following them. I have a lot of women followers, like I follow a good portion of them. But I don't follow all of them. No, but I'm just saying that in relation to what you said, you were saying females, they do have a lot of male followers. You basically must be fucking them. If you have, if a female has 5000 Male followers, I don't have 5000 followers, or followers at all. So let's just let's get that out. Because it just goes just get that clear. But no, my last time I looked at the stats, it was 56% were male and 44% or 56% were female and 44% were male. So it's very close, right? I can attract a good portion of the gender Some? Some so like that. Yeah, you can see your stats, your your typical follows if you go in deep dive, dive deep into your stats. But anyways, we're going off the topic here. Anyways, so some of the, according to men, um, this study is that five places that are probably the worst to take a first date on now, I don't agree with some of the items on this story, but we can get into it. Item number one is the most typical place thing that guys are going to do on a first date or to get to know somebody is taking them to a sit down restaurant, like this is the most obvious thing where guys are going to try to get to know somebody, but why is it that you think that these guys are saying that it is the worst idea as a first thing? Because they're saying you want to be able to make a tax fully and relatively quickly exit and things are not clicking. Yeah, yeah. But the pain to avoid weight and to avoid paying for a stranger's dinner. I mean, I have walked out on dates, and I've had I've walked out well, not on a dinner date. I've had this conversation and I think it was episode one when we talked or maybe it was episode two. And we talked about worst date scenarios or situations or whatever bad dates that you want to be in. But to the extent was, I met a girl, we went to the movie theater. And this is before Facebook, Tiki, talking Instagrams and all that stuff type situation. And I met this person and it wasn't what I was expecting. Because it was at the time when you scan photos and dinner. You're you broke up on me. What was that? You didn't get up and leave from a dinner? No, but I got up and left from a movie theater. Like we can say it again. I'm sorry. booked up. I got fucked up. I'm assuming you said That's fucked up. Right? Yep. Okay. Yeah. I mean, again, I was a teenager and it's one of those things where, you know, you lie to me, You sent me a photo that wasn't obviously what you look like, and I get there and it's two tons of fun. So, yeah, I've left I at least was a gentleman and bought her a damn tub of popcorn with extra butter and what Often theater went to the bathroom and I left. So, but anyways, but to me to me I know what this piece of the article said about not wanting to pay for a stranger's dinner and make sure you know your exits or whatever but me personally, I think getting to you can actually have the conversations at a dinner table. It's not going to be loud and noisy, you're gonna have that the ambiance in and yet, you might not want to pay for the dinner, but I mean strategically as a man or knowingly as a man, that's what you're gonna do, right? You're taking the woman out as a first date. That should be your first impression. I mean, maybe these guys nowadays, you know, we have a loss of masculinity right now. Go Dutch on these dates, which is awkward to me. I mean, look, I mean, hell, I think Brad's not Brad but Mike from The Daily BM said that his daughter was going to meet up with somebody at one point and he asked for the Netflix and chill and I guess she gave in so yeah, whatever. But he asked her to bring food and other shit to his house so that way they could Netflix and chill. Like, what's the first day this? Yeah, I guess it was, you know? This what I'm getting at is these I guess these guys are unknowns. Like what the fuck? I have no, we I don't think Mike wanted to get into all that. But I mean, you go to the obvious you know what Netflix and chill is. But I guess she still went to this but the the fact that he had the he had balls to say hey, you want to Netflix and chill? Go to my house bring food bring this and that. And we'll Netflix and chill. Like, come on. Man. Your first day you should be taking these women out there at least sight in my opinion was to at least a restaurant, or at least to kind of get to know somebody that's kind of like the the easy. Spot. Pick a spot? Yeah. It doesn't need to be a pricey restaurant. No, absolutely not. You don't need any type of URL. This is my opinion. It doesn't need any type of like romantic feel to it. ambiance none of that because you don't even know that person. Because there's been plenty of times I've gone on a day. And I typically would request or ask for particular restaurants that were pretty close to my house. Because I wanted to be able to make a quick, easy. So you're the one trying to do the Get away. Oh, yeah. You know, what? If I had a lady that left me during the middle of a date, as an adult where I'm at in my life now? I think I'd be fucking pissed. Like, bitch, you try and tell me you can't tell me that. I'm not into it and all sudden, you know, that's fine. But if you just get up and disappear and leave, I'd have been disappeared. I'm just saying to be close to home. I don't want to be driving 45 minutes back home after I met somebody that didn't look like their pictures or bored the shit out of me. Or like 10 minutes in I'm like, Oh, fuck. I have an emergency. I got it. Well, I've never done that but still always went away. Never told nobody. I mean, I know you've been on a lot of dates. You're trying to tell me that you have never told one guy. Hey, I got an emergency. I got a bounce. Because a guy knows typically the phone picks up in your hand and all sudden, you're just trying to bail out I've never done it because that's one thing for me. I have my pet peeve I hate having phones at the table because it's such to me it's such a rude thing. And the phone is literally distracting you like I'll turn my phone down face down or I'll leave it in my my pocket or whatnot but i i hate hate having phones out. And then now you go look around these restaurants and all you see is people's faces buried into phones like what's the point just stay at home and just listen to the TV in the background if you're gonna be stuck on your goddamn phone the entire time. I know even some of the norm sound like oh that's fucking man right now but we even our tinder say that to us when we were at Disney Springs. Yeah, it's like oh look at y'all like actually talking and enjoying each other not on your phone. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, it's like I said it's just one of my things like if you're gonna be on your phones and don't need to go out save the money just ordering or something and just have the TV playing in the background but but yeah, so apparently a sit down restaurant according to this list, which I'm not in favor for but to this list, it's not the best place to have your first date. So that's a typical place for your first day. So I know we we said not typically like fancy restaurants right? Ironically, I always try to show out right and I noticed the bad Share. heuristics but I would I would try to do something nice, right. I would go to like, you know, I did one date. Ruth's Chris Steakhouse, and your first day. I did. I did a Ruth's Chris. I didn't get that and that didn't last and then I took another one out to OSHA was oceans front, no Capital Grille. And that only lasted a little bit so it just I put the money into it early and then it wasn't getting me nowhere. So unfortunately, I think for you, we, we we went where we went. I took you we went to the casino, we had the casino cruise vote we went on our first date really? So I actually got to enjoy some gambling and while then I got to know you at the same time, I kind of changed it up going from a restaurant to a casino cruise because fuck it was my birthday weekend too. So I'm gambling dynamic. We'll do we'll do the fancy dinner at a different time. Hell we just what went to a fancy dinner? And I had to wait till Christmas. Yeah, well, I'll tell you that change up the game that's what happens when you have a few bad apples and also nothing happens I was like you know what I spending hundreds of dollars here on dinners first dinners and there's these relationships aren't lasted for all that was that there's no need for all of that. There's not but again again, that's always been me though I always been one that actually wanted to do go out and do the nice restaurants you know, I'm a person that feels like you should treat a woman very nice, you know, especially meeting get that good first impression at least. That's why I don't agree with number one and list but I always initially did the nice restaurants until recently. And then it took me time to get to a nice restaurant. But anyways, but you know the time that it took to me to take you to one of the nice restaurants it was a very nice restaurant like it was fabulous restaurant it was a great fucking time like STK is probably one of my favorite restaurants steakhouse is that is only a very occasional type situation and you don't go to it you don't bring just rent and randomly anybody there it's gotta be worth the time to go to so I appreciated that being our Christmas dinner together more than I probably would have appreciated it been for random day or first day. Yeah, yeah, I mean it was flashy. Spending a shit ton of money. It's not a big it's not not your thing, not your vibe. Like I enjoy it but it doesn't need to be all the time. Like we I think we did a lot of fun shit. Yeah, well are beginning first dates. I mean, put pun in like, darts. I like do a lot of fun shit and especially anything competitive where I know I when I'm definitely I'm definitely down. Like you said, bowling one darts, one putt putt one even if it's a day I'm still competitive as hell. You know. I'll make you feel good. Air Hockey one and basketball one. Air Hockey. I thought I wanted to okay, maybe you want to rock the rest of the basketball the basketball games I want Yeah, so I can get competitive. I do get a bit and that's my that's unfortunate. That's My nature but but my competitiveness is all in fun. The nylon is the next one will be top golf where you'll see how competitive I could be as well. Speaking of Top Golf, there are building one a new one next to my office. Holy fuck. When that is done. I know where I'll be spending some afternoons after work waiting for the traffic to die out on freakin 275 odd to sit right here until it's all done. But anyway, so yeah, Top Golf would be the next one that we can but that can also be that that is also a very fucking expensive date. Right there's Top Golf. That's an easily two$300 Just for a bay and some food. Oh yeah. You've never been a top buff have you because I have but I didn't pay. Oh, well see there you go. Prime man paid right. So yeah, you're I'm sorry you broke up again. I said his company paid. Okay. Well, either way. A man's paid at some point. So anyways, anyways, but yes, Top Golf is a fun but yeah, it is an expensive date as well because you're paying per hour per day. And then when you have multiple people, five, six people in the bay, it just takes forever so you're gonna end up spending a lot more time more money in that day. So but anyway, so that was number one was the sit down dinner number two on his list. This is actually an interesting one. This is almost like a common sense one but that either one's house You don't want to go to the person's house on a first date. Now, unless you're in the situation of Mike's daughter where she was going to Netflix and chill on date, number one, I mean, each his own, but it is stating that it's not probably the best idea to go to somebody's house. Why? Too much pressure put on you? Because obviously, you know what you're possibly potentially going over there for and if it doesn't work out, do you still sleep with the person who dealt with the person, whatever, Netflix to the person if you're not vibing with them, just to kind of, let's just get this one and done and we'll never speak again? Or do you just I've had that happen in when I was younger? Was that just hook up with somebody just just get it over and done with and just never talk again? I guess I was young. So it was an uncomfortable situation. So I felt obligated. Ah, that's felt like safer to go forward with it versus not safer meaning like if you didn't decide to sleep with or hook up this person. They got violent. Kinda Yeah. Okay. I think you probably call for a man to understand that feeling. I mean, I get where you're going with that. I do. But I think if I would have felt that vibe Nisha wouldn't have probably lasted 15 minutes. I don't know, man. I'm there's a bad vibe or going on here. So, I mean, it makes sense. Like, either one's house like this one I can't agree with like, they'll bring somebody over your house for your friends, because you don't know who you're bringing over. You think you're looking at a potential firecracker. 10 on the scale, when you get they come to your house, and they're coming to rob us. And it's, I mean, you don't know, like, go to a normal spot in public. So that way, if anything happens, it's it's uh, it's visible. Because this person could be coming with a car behind them and you know, distractions and all that stuff. Like, I'm weird about that. Like, I'm not going to just let some random person initially come into my house without me. Knowing who they are. I want to make sure that I can take this person just in case because she can come in body builder souped up, whatever and take me out and I'm done. So Right. So nobody's coming to my house. Unless I get to know you for a little bit and then I feel comfortable with you to bring in a house then I'll smash it different. None of the first people I know in my house. So say that one more time. I said, I know let people I know in my house. Definitely not gonna let some random stranger in. Okay, well, I mean, that's a that's a definitely a valid point, especially for a female like, definitely be smart about this, right? Don't just randomly invited a dude over to your house. Like, obviously, you know, if, if a guy knows if a girl is going to invite him over, especially on a first date, and you met him off one of the apps tomorrow, we already know what's going down at this point, right? Like yeah, I'm about to hit this good. Even on the females just being very cautious and very safe. Because you just never know there's a lot of fucking crazies out in this world. And, you know, that wants you to bad happen to you just because you were horning in. The horniness was just kind of bogged your brain type situation. So Oh, when it will. That's why you go bathroom rub when we were had that, rub one out, flip one out, whatever the females call it, flick it with the mouse, whatever, and get that PostNuke clarity. You know, it is a thing we know for a guy, it's a very clear thing. Like rub one out like, Man glad to do that shit. And then you're good. You don't have to worry about you know, making stupid mistakes. So, but yeah, so number two is don't go to somebody's house on a first date. Which I said that one I can agree on. This next one. It's a toss up for me. Like this is one of my favorite things is watching movies. You know movie theaters and stuff. Granted, I haven't been to a movie theater in a very long time. But movies is a big part of a big thing for me. I get it. Movie theaters are you know, you gotta be quiet. So you really are losing that time? What typical movies now? Almost two and a half, three hour so your dates are normally the last four hours at most, maybe four and a half depending on what you're doing. Because you know as date you said a long ass day Yeah, I mean think about it you go to you catch up for dinner six whatever, hang out for a little bit here about usually what for about 10 o'clock 1030 Most days are probably ending unless you're going back to smash and that's a different story. If if it in a piton in our free will. But I get it movie theaters. You kind of want to be quiet, right? You're not gonna you're not going to talk much. Because you're trying to get paid less. It seems like a waste of money. Yeah, yeah, I think I took one female on a movie date. And we did the dinner thing first then the movie. So Hi Anna had that's why I'm saying I'm kind of like in between and so because we did got number one and three on this list right? Did the dinner and the movie so which is a common thing going dinner and movie so I kind of had the conversation piece kind of already out the way for a little bit get to know who the person is during dinner and then went to the movies. Because if the what's the point of the movie though, I wanted to watch a guy that movie that was maybe there was a particular movie that I thought would be good to go check out or something that I've been wanting to watch. And I brought up the idea if the she was for it came on, we were watching a movie, because listen, if you don't happen to watch the same type of movies I watch, or lack of, I'm gonna have you watch movies. I'm gonna make you watch movies. And I'm gonna quiz you later on. I will quiz you down the road. Hey, do you remember this? Or I will put lines just to see if you paid attention during the movies. Intent? Because let's let's be right about I've watched more movies in the past five months than I've watched in like my entire life. Exactly. Because when you told me that you really didn't watch TV or movies that much it automatically almost broke my heart because I'm like, this is a big part of my life movies, you know? And then if you're going to come around, Mr. Clint Rando, he will be down approximately in April, he will vote Movie Quotes all god damn night. And if you don't happen to catch references, like you won't click with them, because that's how he talks. Right? So he doesn't have to like the same things. I actually made a Facebook post about that today about liking the same thing as your partner or Yeah, kinda along those lines. Because we all have things that we like, right? We're not going to be identical people. No, no, no. I mean, when I guess I'm saying like, I was like, I hope we'd have similar interests that we like it movies being one of those interests for me is movies for sure. Like I spent a lot of my entertainment system so that way I can basically essentially have my own home theater in the house. So that was one way like watching documentary. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. I love watching documentaries. Absolutely. But movies is a very big thing. Like if it's if it's not documented, or worse, then obviously stand up comedy because, you know, I love you. So stand up comedy is my thing. But you got to be able to enjoy movies. And when I saw this on the list, that's a hard one. As you know, I have done first dates and movie theaters, dinner and movie. First date. It's stupid, really, you know, wasted time. That's a lot of hours sitting with somebody that you just met an hour previously. Well, then I'm already supposed to give you these this many hours of my time. Like, like I said that. That's why That's why for me, I did the movie thing. So that way, I can kind of vet them out a little bit like, Okay, I think I can hang out with this person during movie because if the dinner didn't go, Well, I'm not going to go to them. If they're not like, oh, we can do this at a different time and ghost out. Never, never reach out again. To me. That dinner thing is what kind of was the vetting process? I'm just gonna say this in regards to your movies. Though, you know, be smart with what you say here right now woman be smart. No, I'm just circling back. I enjoy watching movies with you like as I've watched a lot of movies in the last few months. So when I posted today, and it's because I'm listening to Jay Shetty his new book, but how you handle your differences is more important than finding your similarities. You know, I think I did see that post. I think I did not see that post. Because if I if I see the post I usually liked it but if I didn't like if I didn't like it probably didn't see it. Maybe I didn't see you didn't like it or anything. Oh, well, I can look my insights and see if he looked at um I'm not I'm always bad with like to surf. Ah, how you handle your differences more important than how you know I thought I do like that. Do you? Did you go I liked it now for you. You got another like from me? Ah, okay. I personally, we differ on that. I think a movie on the first date silly. But we haven't even seen a movie yet. In a theater. Well, like I said, I my my living room is basically has to become my theater now. And then especially now that you can actually stream movies that are in the theaters as well. It's almost not necessary to go to a movie theater. Granted. There are there are things on my bucket list. And I know we've talked about sex bucket list that I have not been able to you conquer yet and it moved there. Maybe. Maybe movie theater will have to be here in the near future. Just movie theaters have gotten so fucking expensive. Like, you're gonna go and spin it up with 5060 bucks now, and I don't see how somebody's kids are actually taking up these little girlfriends out there that are in high school that with no jobs. Mommy and Daddy paying this damn expensive bill. So yeah, yeah, I mean you got kids and your kids are day in so I know you're putting in that extra bill. It's like you're paying for a date that you're not even going on? Yeah. The joys of having kids right look at that Siri listening in the background you creeper little Ho. Okay, so number three list was movie theaters. Number four on the list. This one was interesting. Because this almost kind of falls into the number one item that was on the list, which was restaurants but this one's particularly calls out barbecue restaurants. Which I thought was interesting, because any place that you eat with your hands, you just don't want to do on your first date. I mean, I guess I can you can kind of look at this person like, Nah, she's making the worst faces ever eaten. Chicken Wang II in whatever. Chicken nuggets or whatever with your hands. Whatever you put your hands you know, make the weirdest is talking about a barbecue restaurant. Messy chicken nuggets are messy. I mean, I think anything is not necessarily I mean, you can get barbecue chicken. You ordered. You literally order wings. Like 98% of the time. I'm pretty sure that's what you ate on our first day. We were on a cruise on the live music the night before the cruise. We Oh, we did II remember the no we I know we ate but I'm thinking we were Yeah, we did go watch live music. I don't think it was wings that I got that night. I don't. I don't think it was wings. But I do eat a lot of wings. I do eat a lot of things. I enjoy wings, even though you and your kid decided to give me a hard time on my wings the other day. That's me. Okay, I eat going to eat my wings. And y'all give me help. I mean, you know, you know, who also gives me how I eat wings, Clint. He's just basically says the same sheet. You left a little bit more B than that. Why don't you because one I don't want to suck on a bone just you know, because that because actually, that is something I just put in the the topics list, which will be a great fucking conversation to have is how you judge your woman eating wings is how you can judge the blue job that she will give. So that will be a great conversation actually, I think I'll try to have some of the guys come on is that with that one as well. But yes, that's that's a whole nother month but either way, I want to be sucking down and I'll just like eat my lick my little drumstick wing, whatever. You know, clean it the way I clean it and move on. Move on to the next one. Don't you don't clean it. But anyways, so I had a friend, male friend. He was definitely a male friend. We were talking or whatever. Don't think we talk with one another. But we were talking we went on dates or whatever and stuff but we also work together. Oh, you asked that question before Have you ever dated somebody you worked with? And I was like, Nah, I just remembered I guess I kinda did. We were talking a lot. Now I just can't remember anyways but go ahead. All right ever. We got heaps we can go back and listen to everything. So this was a long time ago. But anyways, his thing like when he was dating a girl he took her out on her first day we take them to a barbecue restaurant. Because he was like if you can be comfortable like getting your hands dirty and your face dirty and not give a shit then we're good. I mean it does make valid sense like if you're comfortable with this to me he's like it's my favorite food so no it makes a very valid point you know if we could be like this around each other then we're good and have no problems and we're good but I will be judging the hell out of you like she looks her fingers Oh, she just got she got deep the wrong finger up nasty bit nasty whatever you will be turned on to me you can't make that known right like not we can't be let her know that she's turning me on just that quick gotta make it work for it make a one the workforce can make it known that easily I mean I get news a lot of guys that would you say you're so hot you turn me on like here's talk is straight bullshit. Here's what I needed. This is why you need to be drinking with me because I'll talk to shit now is well, yes, barbecue places, apparently number four in the list did not take a girl on a first date. I can honestly say that is one that I have never done. So get to know. Number five. What do you think on this one here? Anything with loud music. I mean, it's a first date. So you kind of want to get to know the person. Like, and again like that can put you in an awkward situation of being there with them too long. We mean like, I mean, I don't know if it's been there like, hell, our first date, as you mentioned, was fucking around live music. And it's okay right now, right? Like we literally had the Casino Night was a next night. We went out drinking the first night at a live music spot. So fuck I do a lot of these appears. Restaurants movies, a loud music. So I got three out of five. So apparently I'm a bad first date person to be around. Whatever our first date was like three freaking days. But it was loud. Like we were able to talk to one another. Sure. I mean, that's the thing. I mean, now I guess when you're saying love us like clubs, like going to a club with somebody for a first date I that could be shared. I think that would be a horrible idea. Yeah. Because you're what screaming each other's ear. Yeah, this is you know, no, I say that. You've done that. I have. Again, it was dinner. Because it's always dinner. Because I like to eat. But it was dinner. And then we went across the street to the club that's out there in International Drive. mangoes. So we from dinner, walk cross street to the club. Bam. Your first day is all the way up in Orlando. Yeah. Oh, I have no room to talk. Yeah, I mean, sometimes sometimes you go meet somebody wherever and see how it hits off. But yeah, it was a I didn't see her after that night. But this net, this is the person that Mr. Randall always thinks that I got used for he thought I was just the sound and the the side piece he was I think that he was married. And then she just came out meet you for the good time for that night. And that was it. I honestly can say I've never felt used more in my life. And that night right there, dinner, club sex, and then never heard anything. Or maybe my sex game was bad was she just didn't want to come back. I don't know the look. But we'll go with that. Maybe I was being used. So yeah, so I have the three of the five on this list, which is interesting enough, so I can agree. And I think you can agree as well that anything with loud music is probably a bad idea, especially if you're trying to get to know somebody now at what date never do you think is an appropriate timeframe to go because obviously, everyone loves music. Music makes memories right? Because a song will trigger a memory like I remember doing this with a song so when do you think's a good time to go to a live music event? Do you mean like a concert? Or like answer? Dinner kitchen a place to go listen to some live music fine for first day of it. I mean, they are pleased that it can get really loud, so loud. I think it's fine for first date if it's not loud, because it also kind of like makes it to where there's not too much pressure. And you're not like drilling one another like the drilling is after the love. Yeah, it's not the drilling that comes after all the drills. Yeah. That's right. Oh, yeah. You see them with shots, and I don't remember taking one shot. There was at least a shot. I remember. So you don't remember but anyway, so live music. Yeah, I would. I'm not opposed to like the live music. I get it loud me saying loud music so but like, I need to know you well, like really, really well. To go to like a concert with you. Well, let's see this weekend. We are going to be in Orlando watching Miss Nikki Glaser starting off the 2023 comedy series because obviously 2022 I had a good run and watched some comedy shows. We're starting already in February with Nikki Glaser So ironically, I don't have anything else lined up after that but this weekend, we'll probably listen to some live music because there's a spot in Orlando across from the yard house which York House is one of my favorite places out there a international Dr. Paul tin roof and they actually have some great bands that actually go out there play some live music so that's why she took the other girl what to work. At work. I have I have been. I have been to this place a few times. Because it is one of my my fun spots to go out there in Nash. Drag. No, no, you're talking about the girl that this mean? No, no, we that was an actual club. That was the actual mangoes club that's there. It's the multi story club. Now this is a little little blind music venue that's outside of the yard house right there where the Orlando eye is that actually I think listen to buddies over at The Daily BM I think they were just over at tin roof not too long ago this in a live music is definitely a fun spot. The last time I was there, they had a great 90s band and they were just playing a lot of the 90s tracks and I literally had a fucking blasts like, I think I was back to my young roots just singing almost every song and you get these young millennials like I don't know, this second song. It just makes me feel old. But at that point, I was drinking, I was just vibing out because it just brought me back to my younger days. And like, fuck yeah, I mean, it was going back from a lot of the hip hop stuff. They're playing a lot of the the alternative the grunge music, just everything you could possibly think of this group was playing. And I think I started following them after that night because like, if they're gonna be out here again, I'm definitely coming out and checking them out because they did a fabulous job. But yeah, so we'll go check it out since there's not a date number one for us. So we'll go in, we'll check out some live music kind of go full search, maybe we'll find a movie theater. fell off the bucket list. It's still on the item, a whole week vacation coming up too. So I can knock all kinds of stuff off the bucket list. Definitely have a week long vacation coming up and I'm even considering so that way we don't lose any timeframe of episodes during that week. Maybe even bring some of the mics and we can record some stuff out there. Give an update of what's happening out there. Get Oh, Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, Tennessee, because it could be cold in the forecast. It looks like it's gonna be fucking cold when we're up there. So we may end up having to stay bonded up inside warmed up, do some things and then record and then push it out to the people let the people know what's happening. Make sure they know I'm alive and I didn't get abducted out there by by anybody. I'm a popular guy that I rarely drink Oh my shit talking today. Do you need a drink? I needed this drink today so this week, and it's only been it's only Wednesday has been a busy fucking week for me like I have had to be in St. Pete two days in a row already and me get stuck in this traffic. I'm like I'm drinking tonight. You know I might feel this in the morning. You know be a little rough but whatever. It was funny last week and that's why it's been last week you had your hell week and this week is it's not that it's been a hell week. Work has been okay work has been fun. It's the traffic that I've had to deal with the past couple of days coming back and I've caught some heavy trap like it has taken me almost two hours on a normal hour drive. It has taken me almost two hours to get home and the fuckers just need to go back home go back up north stop moving to Florida and we're full we are our roads our capacity here. Now I keep moving here. Well, you might need to keep moving here but you can take bitches down there to port Port St. Lucie. Yeah, right. Port. You know that could be that could be a good selling point. Right Port St. Lucie means you what you need to do is reference to see if there's any porn stores porn places and your favorite or famous porn stars in your area. You I mean, you got PGA down there, so obviously, they're gonna be around the money so you never know. Hey, if you want to live next to Jenna Jameson or something. I know our strippers. At the one strip club. We have our Wait, you got a strip club down there? I don't think you guys had a strip that there's not much to do in that town. That's why That's why it kind of caught me off guard. That is a strip club there. Yeah. I mean, there's not a nightlife. It's somewhere that you raise kids and shit and retire and grow old and die. Yeah, perfect. Wow Hey, hey, don't there's a liquid down Lakeland? Lakeland? What? We are a growing town we are one of the fastest growing towns and we look. So when you want to go to strip clubs out there, let's go check out your strip club. Here. No, no, go to a different one. But God said you got one out in that area. But it's yaki. Alright, so we do that's what the we haven't done yet. And that wasn't on the why wasn't strip club not on this list. Like you're horrible. Like that would be that takes a very special that would take a ballsy person to say. Fuck yeah. Let's do it. Let's go to strip club on boy, I would probably rather go on a first day and have a bunch of fun. Probably not going to see you again. Have a shit ton of fun. Wait, why wouldn't you see me again? If we went to a strip club on day number one? Yeah, cuz that just probably wouldn't be survive. Okay. Yeah, if that's what somebody wanted to take me to on the first day, I would probably like, depending on my mood, see, like, sure that sounds like fun and go and do it. And then that'd be that that would be one of those. I know, that was a lot of fun. Sex was great, or bad, or whatever. But I'm good. So you have sex on a first date? That's good. That's good. I mean, imagine if a guy is taking you to a strip club on the first day. He's hoping to get something. Oh, yeah, I'm taking somebody home. Nevermind. What, what? Why, what? What was? We've had this discussion before, you can't start a conversation and sentence and be like, let's pull back. So what would you say? No, no? What were you gonna say? I taken somebody back from the strip club, not to my own home. But you've taken somebody's home from the strip club, but not to my home to my friend's home. I was very intoxicated. So sounds like you drink a lot, ma'am. No, I drink a lot. Do we need to have a conversation? This is why I don't drink a lot. Whenever I was having, like, whatever guys are able to do whatever the fuck they do when they're single. And I guess if we're talking about independent women, I do whatever the fuck I want to do when I'm saying Oh, rah, rah, rah. Me too. Hashtag me too. Hey, I always said you do you boo, boo. Whatever makes you happy. You know, whatever. You know, don't let no we don't ever let anybody hold you back. Alright, so we're gonna go ahead and get ready to wrap things up. Obviously, you know, as a recap, on the five apparently worst places to not to not go on a first date is at a restaurant, at someone's house. Movie Theater, barbecue, and live music or loud music excuse me, not like put loud music. Apparently, on the worst first date ever. Three out of five is on the list. So I always put guys on a walk tickler path. And I'd be like, Why don't you just meet me out here? A walk? Yeah, because if they complained, if they were like in time. How long is this? If we can have a conversation while we're walking? Then I can be like, nope. I don't know if I'd be up for a walk on the first day. I'm like, listen, listen, I didn't come here just to walk I could have done this year around my neighborhood. I don't know if I would have done well so glad that wasn't part of our first day. We might not be having this conversation. But come on, man. Do we have a person that has to actually physically do things I got to isn't ugly snowing. So I mean fun walking running. That type of shit is not fun to me. Like I get it for exercising cardio but for a date. It's to me that's not fun. Now I would you know walk around the lakes or whatever now but as as a date though as a first time now I'm gonna pass on that it's not happening for me. It's like a low no pressure. So what's going on the casino Cruise was low no pressure because we had our A fogs by time we got on the cruise. So why was he no pressure? I mean, anyways, so before we get ready to wrap things up, but you wanted to bring up that the new merch site is up on whiskey and uncensored.com So make sure you guys go check that out. We have three new products that launched along with the typical whisking and nonsense gear but three new products are launched. They are the featured items so go check them out whiskey and uncensored.com front slash merch or just go to the website and you can find there just merch gear so go check those out. I know last episode I did not have all my affiliate partners which obviously I have all the links obviously in our show notes so when you listen to the podcast, check out the show notes. But we have our affiliate partners still with Adam and Eve my central secrets pink cherry for our sex and Play stores. 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