Unmatch Me If You Can: Surviving (Potentially) Dating in the Digital Age

Get ready for a side-splitting journey into the world of digital dating. This episode is the ultimate guide to potentially surviving and thriving in the world of dating apps. From the cheesy pickup lines to the worst dates, we'll have you rolling with laughter. Whether you're a seasoned swiper or a newcomer to the world of online dating, this is the perfect place to commiserate and find humor in the craziness of it all. So, come along for the ride and discover that love, in the digital age, is just a right swipe away.

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What's going on everybody? Welcome back to another episode of whiskey and uncensored. My name is Eddie Lopez and I'm going to be the host of this debauchery, where we discuss sex, sex, trans relationships and all the other bullshit that comes with life, all while having fun and drinking whiskey. Today I am on the OG Crown Royal xOP which is actually one of my favorites. And today I came prepared with some notes I've no I know I said many times I was going to try to get some of these notes that are within the whiskies so that way if anyone was ever curious at some of these and wanted to try themselves, I finally was able to find or get the notes and print them out myself. Because I am no Stewart. I have no kind of sewer of the actual notes. I don't have that taste, but all I know is I'm a fan of whiskey, and I like to drink that shit. So I think I'm like with a lot of people there's only a handful of folks that maybe are can tell exactly what their tongue is tasting. Not me. It just tastes good. So just to give a summary on some of the flavor notes here in this Crown Royal Expo, we have the caramel and vanilla which is I know I can taste the caramel I really never really tasted the hints of vanilla which is quite interesting. The Cognac is part of the fruitiness which obviously the whiskey itself is aged in the cognac cask which is the part that I love because you can taste a cognac which is the awesome part of this. Spices we have cinnamon, nutmeg and cloves that are often detected. And of course, oak you got the bitterness the dryness, which gives it the overall flavor profile. All in all, it's just good fucking shit to me. So this is why it's one of my favorites. On the other end, I have Miss Sheena Gray, and I think she is on the basic white girl drink. What is that? There? Is? Was that the white claw I saw you have in your hand? Was it sir? Was it one of them days that you needed to have a white claw ready? No, I was just thinking last time I felt like I really needed a drink when we were doing the podcast because of my shit. Talking. Yeah. So you repaired I figured I'd be prepared today. Awesome. Good. Well, good deal so. So this weekend we actually had we had a good fun weekend. Out in Orlando. We got to catch up with all my friends. We went and saw Miss Nikki Glaser Stand Up Show. What do you think? Think about that. Let me tell you I enjoyed it but I think I saw a side of Nikki that you don't see on the specials or whatnot. Maybe on the podcast that should be cancelled? Maybe I don't know. I mean you could still technically see whatever but it just depends on what the network's want to push out but but the stuff that yeah the stuff that she was working on it obviously she's working on content because I guess she's working on a new special coming up soon. Man I even I myself and I don't I don't cringe a lot so some of the jokes I was like Oh, that one's that one's really pushing it but hey more power to her if she can get it through and get the last letter put it in the show but man I mean I enjoyed it. But yeah, some of some of the jokes had finished up she started out good. Like you expected it to be dirty and raunchy right yeah. I think she started out good but then it just kind of took a left turn where it was like oh, I tell you what I was anticipating was obviously everyone knows when she comes out on stage she comes out in some short skirts and dresses and this show was no different she came out in what are those dresses call where they kind of rap over like a rap rap the rap? Okay, so God she fidgeted the whole fucking time well this whole time I was I wanted to pop her hand like fucking stop if it falls out it falls out I was I was literally hoping that damn whatever she was trying to keep tight whatever was just gonna come loose and just open up with like, Come own dress, come home baby dress. Open up. Let's see what you got. So because I don't think she's one to have any scandalous videos out there leaked release or whatever, though. I bet she if she did, I can promise you would break the internet for a little while. But, you know, even though you say you don't really find her as attractive as private practice. Well, yeah, I don't think she has Zero ass. She has like a keen on the Hill app so it's almost inverted. Well, I wasn't really focused on all that. So I was just watching that little loop on that dress. Let's see if it's gonna go so, so today, we're gonna have something to talk about. But, you know, I've been working on my intro for this settings today I want to kind of set the, the mode, the mode, the mood on what we're going to be getting into. So let me pause and get prepared. Are you ready? Everyone ready? Don't make me laugh now. I've been working on this one for a while. Ladies and gents, hookers, hoes and gigolos? Are you tired of actually talking to people on your first date? We'll have no fear. We're going to help today in the digital world. The wild wild world of digital dating. Yes, the wild wild world not the World Wide Web. But the wild wild world where anything goes and eagles are just as big as dicks. Apparently. Nobody has small dicks. From digital profiles, dating profiles. Now is that really a thing? Is do guys actually put their dick sizes on their dating profile? Like, big dicks? I never saw that. Okay, well, from what I kept on won't do my research in this topic that apparently guys put their dick size are saying, you know, reference their dick. I'm like, God damn. That's something I didn't know it was a thing. I don't think so. Oh, okay. Well, what's better than swiping through endless profiles, sending poor texts, cheesy pickup lines, found on Reddit, only to be ghosted, catfished, and rejected without ever leaving your couch. What a perfect world. Well, today we're going to be diving into guys dating in the digital age. But seriously, with dating apps and all the virtual communications, it has dramatically changed the game. And while it may be a dream come true for some, you know, some it's not so enjoyable. I mean, there are fun facts. There are obviously less desirable outcomes on some of these occasions. So So whether you're a seasoned vet, or a newcomer, aka just got dumped or really horny, welcome to the world, digital dating. So guys, get yourself some whiskey, and we're gonna get into it dating in the digital age. So from this Sheena, when you think of dating in the digital world, and age, what's your your first thought? what first comes to mind when you think of having to date in this world today? I mean, it makes it easier. So your, your automatic me? I probably? For me, I probably wouldn't. If that wasn't a thing, I probably wouldn't even meet anybody. So you're saying that the dating apps is what's making it very convenient for people? Yeah, it's easier to connect people. Whenever, however, wherever they're at the meeting, no matter where you're at. Like, I'm not gonna hang out at a bar all the time. Okay, and I work a lot. So it makes it convenient. Now, when you think of a dating app, are you thinking of the dating app as a way to actually connect with somebody as far as a real relationship? Or are you looking at connecting with somebody just for the ease of a hookup and part of the part of the hookup culture? Well, I mean, it just depends on what you're looking for. Everybody's looking for something different. Okay, but for the for for most folks. Let's I mean, let's say for you, for instance, were you looking at using the apps at whatever part of your life are you just looking at just hooking up or were you just look were you actually looking to find an actual person to date? How did you use the the apps in today's I was open. That was my thing. I was like, whatever. I'm open to whatever. Open to what was it necessary? Yeah, I wasn't necessarily looking for a hookup. But I also wasn't like, Oh, I'm sure my dream husband is on like Tinder, like that wasn't? I mean, there's possibility right that people do get married off of these things. So there's no they do. I'm just you asked me what my thing was, I had, like patients out of it. Now I have to say my experience was probably more enjoyable because I had zero expectations. You hear people constantly on Facebook, or Reddit or whatever, just in conversation. They're like, Oh, my God, daddy now sucks, so that it sucks that I was having the time of my life. I was enjoying it. Like, if somebody was addict me, I was like, oh, fuck you, and block them? Like, why would I have like a second thought about it? When I went over, see, I definitely, I definitely think females actually have can actually have more fun with these dating apps. Because there is an increased pool potential. For you females like it's, the water doesn't stop flowing to your pool for guys. Or guys, it can easily dry up as bad as your typical dry spill on the streets, right? So we and they the way they target the guys to make you think that you're going to actually connect with somebody, you have to pay money, obviously, right to see who you match with, potentially, because if not, you may see somebody not paid for that too. Right? I mean, but for guys that make it harder, because there's like, if you pay this, this will increase your odds in the algorithm for females. I do that to girls. They promote that to girls too. But to get you more visibility's, but I mean, we all we all know, and I think I've proven this before, is that they have a particular algorithm that if people are swiping a lot more, they're putting a lot of those deep behind a stack, and a higher paywall, the ones that are not getting the swipes and likes, they're gonna put those with the folks that aren't getting those swipes and likes and you're like, eff This is not my personal but but the hotter you are, the better the more swipes you are, the less likely you're going to see that to a person who's not getting those type of swipes. So there's there's definitely like a wall that you know, they put the hot folks behind compared to your average Joe has appeared compared to your your fugly. Right. So I think I've when I was Yeah, I guess you're probably right. When I was going on that I'm thinking about Yeah, because when I was going through those dating apps, I was able to tell because if I paid for the subscription I did a few times where it was like the three month type deals I was checking it out. Definitely saw a difference in opportunity. I understand. I'm not talking to you, Siri, get out of my business again. Yeah, when you paid, you actually got a different pool and you got to see saw, you know, like different women in my, in my experience. When I when that subscription ended. It was one like one hot girl, and then you're like, Okay, so you would swipe and then after that was ugly, ugly, ugly, ugly, right? And I'm just I'm just being I'm keeping it real. Right. So then he goes, How is it supposed to have an algorithm like how would it even know if it's considered ugly? If you're not getting the swipes? Like how many times you're being presented to somebody and nobody's in somebody's swiping? No, your likability factor is going way down. So you're on what's considered on the ugly side. Now, if you got a photo of like, Margot Robbie, who's going to be on there, which I wish I had comment down there both. Margot Robbie from Wolf of Wall Street, obviously I if I even start rambling off movies, you're not gonna know. She was I know that movie. She was also in the Joker, the Joker movie. Suicide Squad. That's what it was. She was why would she be on Tinder? I'm just I'm just using this as example because she's a hot girl. Oh, that's that. That's what I was going with was that you put someone like her on there. She's gonna get a gazillion likes. So she's going to be constantly just flooded. Right. So, but anyway, so where was it going with that the the role that dating apps that played in that hookup culture, obviously, you know, it makes it easier. You got you got that increased potential partners. You're able to vet you're able to vet who you you know, you want to potentially hook up with right? See them like Nah, I'm good. You know? It's not like going to a bar where you don't know what you're going to run into right? And you get to drink in. And if you have a female can do the same thing at a bar. It's very easy. You scan it. You would think the same way a guy does. Well, yeah, but with a guy, and when it comes close to the end, when you set your target, well, when your targets are no longer available, by the time that they're night, and you've been drinking a few you're seeing what's left in the pool. Well, then you fucked up. That's, that's a different. Yeah, to play it smart. And you go in and you set your target before you even started drinking, which is part of I'm always assessing the room. No fucking different when I go to a bar. Okay, so I go in, and I'm assessing, and I'm watching and I'm watching. So I've already started to make my move way before I'm even tipsy. But so I've laid my foundation way before are you actually the one approaching? Or are you hoping that the guy Yeah. So you're being the aggressor? Wow. If I set my target, why am I just gonna sit back? Okay, well, most, most females aren't going to be the one being the aggressor, most females are going to sit back home. They're left with a guy who's dropped off his ass, like, what's left in the pool? So, all right, so so. So some pros of technology and dating into the, into the digital world, right? It can help with social anxiety, right? Yeah, absolutely. I mean, people who have that issue of talking face to face with somebody, they can try to build that initial interaction behind a keyboard, get, you know, build that bond, and then hopefully, hopefully, you know, hook up, meet up with not hook up, but essentially meet up with this person. And, you know, kind of hope that what they built behind the keyboard actually falls into place when they meet in person. However, there's that gap, there's that downfall, right? They finally get the nerve to, you know, go to meet this person. And all of a sudden, they completely freeze up because why they were more comfortable behind the keyboard just running game and they get in person and they freeze up. And then what you also you just have this disaster of a date. I'll tell you that. Go ahead. No, no. So I'll say my first like, I guess it'd be considered my rebound. After my breakout, didn't start from a dating app, but did start from online. And everything seemed spot on. Like we knew, even though we lived in different states, we actually knew a lot of the same people. I had a lot of the same interests, blah, blah, blah, everything seemed almost close to perfect. And for me, like as soon as we met in person, I was like, nope. So do you think that technologies especially like during the pandemic, let's say let's use a pandemic as an example. Do you think that obviously, the dating apps, popularity increased? Do you think that more couples actually just created this virtual relationship, long distance relationships, because we're all staying in the house and since you're not able to go out that more couples actually just, quote unquote, became a couple online? If they happen to match up or however, be hard? It's been a thing for a long time. I don't know that COVID really played much more of a factor. I mean, maybe locally, it made more of a factor. But that's always been a thing. I mean, for me, personally, the long distance thing was a preference. Yeah, I think when I was when I was looking into this, what I did read was that the pandemic led to an increase in virtual dating and long distance relationships. So that's why I'm I'm curious if you think that that itself is a ideal situation, you know, long distance relationships. For me when I decided to go back into the dating world, if I was gonna date somebody that was is a preference for me I think it just depends on the person that's your preference is to have a long distance relationship when I first got back into the whole dating world or even talking to people it was you needed to live in a different state Wow different state holy shit okay now when somebody's taken up my I did not want I was so into doing what I needed to do for me that I don't want anybody around fuck them with it gotcha what what do you think are some of the potential dangers when you're right online the rate okay that'd mean that's obviously that's a huge one murder yeah murder I think we actually brought that like make sure if you're gonna do something like this go to a public place and your first time right but yeah, I think I've shared my location and shit right like hey that's where I'm at. Okay she don't see me tomorrow. Well that is smarts definitely sharing with Elisa, for instance, if somebody knows your parents or whatever, so like, Hey, if you know if I go missing this is where I go to share with my dad. Hey, Dad, I'm over here getting pounded. Make sure I'm alive. I'm not saying you're gonna tell your daddy that you get impounded. But all I'm saying is you can say hey, I'm going on a date. I'm being a quote unquote, respectable female. I actually are you trying to say there sir? I used to. Actually I did used to tell my dad. Like, I mean, Tinder and online dating have been around for a long fucking time. Right? Yeah. So um, I used to when I lived in North Carolina, I'm always put people on hikes. Oh, yeah, we've had this conversation. No, I told you walk and you were like, Oh, you're gonna take on my hikes and knock them off the edge just in case you know. That's what my dad always said. He was like, Honey, so my gonna throw you over the edge. But I wanted to just see if they were little bitches. If they could really hike or if they were going to be bitch and complain. Interesting, but yeah, your daddy could have been right? Somebody could have overpowered your little ass and sent you off the cliff. Nobody would know. Very true. So they like bit Shut up. I mean, it could be valid point. But you know. I never did. But, but as far as dangerous and stuff including this social media to that aspect. I with all the technology that we have, you can do some serious digging on somebody easily by just Googling the name, putting the name in Facebook, Twitter, ticky, tacky, whatever you want. You're more into that? Well, it depends on the person. It depends on the person. And to my point. Yeah, I have and I'm not gonna lie most dates that I kind of prepare myself to go into that kind of do my research to see exactly what I'm potentially getting into. And yeah, now you have to use the information in a good way, right? You don't want to use the information to be, you know, a horrible stalking type person you're using, like, Hey, is she like, she's a fun person. She looks like she could be a bit she could be a prude. I mean, what type of person possibly getting into but but as far as some of the dangers, I mean, that could put you in a spot where they can find out where you live, what you drive, you know how many you know, because people leave or not. In this day and age in this world, especially digital age that we're living in and you can find anything personal even though you're protecting your privacy or whatever. Some things are still public record. You know, your your property taxes and all that stuff. That is public record. You can look somebody's name up and find exactly where they live. The lot. There are ways you can go to your Property Appraiser. You can go to the city you can have that bought I mean 9.99% of police officers, firemen. Anybody in one of those industries typically has their dress a lot. Okay, well I think a lot more than that, but I think I'm not blocked. So I know you're not logged in If I don't, I can defend myself for the most part, so I don't think I have anything to worry about so or not you gotta deal with my dog. If he's not gonna lick your face off when you come into the house, so I was gonna say Duquesne he'll, he'll sell me this outside my door. But uh, you know, when you walk into a different story, so. So when I'll say wait, touching on that though, I noticed, guys, I don't know, obviously, I don't know if girls do it or not. But a lot of time guys lie about their name a lot. Well, cuz sometimes there are some crazies out there that want to. If you can't even tell me your name, like I don't need to know your last name. I don't even like, I'll have time for that shit. If you're gonna lie to me about your name, I'm instantly so fucking turned off in over it. But how are you? How are you? How are you finding out that they're lying to you about their name, though? How are you? Okay? My first situation with that was many years ago, when I first had Tinder I just came out, got on it or whatever, actually went on a date with a guy we had been on a couple days now wasn't quite sure about him. And this was my first like time even being in the dating world because I married my high school sweetheart. I went straight into our relationship after that. So this was my first even reality of dating. And then he sends me a text and he's like, hey, you know, I really liked you. Blah, blah, blah. Here is who I really am. Here's my real name. I live with my grandmother. And I was like, fuck you. Don't contact me again. My most recent time of it happening was the guy I had you're picking with? Sounds like you're picking winners. Great Taste. I may be careful there. Right. Yeah. Anyway, so my most recent time I had seen this guy quite a few times. And then he started wanting me to help him he was going to move up here from like, West Palm or somewhere he was going to move up here. So then I'm having to like submit paperwork for him. submit paperwork? Because I was helping him get a place up here. Okay, I guess I'm a realtor moving up here. I'm like wait, what? Like this, and what I call you are two fucking different things. It's a name that's a weird fucking feeling like if I Morrow was like, they this is a my name. My name is Ashley. Like, that would be fucking weird. It's weird, especially because I was intimate with this person. And now you're telling me your name and something different? Well, so hold on there it's it can be a tough one because if you're if you're if who Id somebody when they're going on dates with somebody I mean, I don't know if I'm end up single again IDM people you do not enter it until I see it I deeply I mean, but let's say goodbye sometimes they might be looking at protecting their privacy good, right? Because you just never know until you get to know this person and also didn't you know, at least he decided to open up and say hey, this is my real name. I wasn't going to express let me finish like he could have been like, Hey, I wasn't going to submit all you know trying to get all intimate with you and stuff but I needed to know who you were and make sure that you weren't so crazy folks. Oh crazy chicks so that way that way if she went down south and you decided to go fucking nuts on somebody, you're looking at the wrong person you're not gonna find me so that could have been a hole up I was like stop and he would pick that and that could be going bad that you too I bet YouTube that I was like motherfucker if you don't leave me alone and that could that can also lead back into the the danger that that stuff right because also the harassment starts coming in like you're gonna get the constant spam the content text is that's my thing though. I hear girls all the time. Or people that are like not wanting to give either phone number. And I'm like, if you start to bother me, I'm gonna block you. I guess for me, my number is such a public thing like Google my name, you're going to get my phone number. So I don't what are you gonna do with it? Call me, irritate me. Cool. I'll block you. Actually, I'm probably going to let you go on for a while and I'm going to screenshot all of it and I'm going to send it to my other friends and we're going to laugh a lot. Then I'm going to block you. Typically Alia, female gossip at its best, that's what it is. What ah, I was sharing that ship with my male friends. I'm like, Hey, you want to see what the dickwad did today? This is funny. And then some of them were like, Okay, I'm actually kind of concerned for you're like, Well, I was like, Oh, really? Yeah. So you're playing with fires what you're doing if you hadn't blocked it by then yeah, you're definitely playing with fire. That's why they have the block option. So yeah. So cons, obviously cons on dating in, in today's digital age, right? False and false imprisonment, false represent false representation or exactly what you were just saying saying who they weren't basically. Catfish, catfish. ghosting. Ghosting is probably a big thing now right? You get I think it's such an immature thing to do you you know start chatting with somebody having a conversation with somebody and all sudden, you know the, the pool for that person's probably just flooding in with water pick out another option, another fish that's coming out at water and all sudden, somebody that was sitting on the other end, thinking, hey, I potentially have a good shot or a good opportunity with this person now has ghosted me because I've tried to reach out to try and do something go out for some coffee dinner, you know, Netflix and chill type shit. And I have been ghosted. So that's obviously the icon. Can I give a tip? Tip Would you just want the tip or what? NOT want to beg for it no it tip for guys. Like if you're hitting her inbox. And she's been very like we do have quite a pool of people to pick from what when I drove over to Tampa to hang out with my friends and drove back. I had 4000 Why? Like, listen up this eagle 4000 Most of whatever I went, I was in an area that wasn't mine. So you're probably right, whatever. Without me. I was fucking crush me in that algorithm. Right? So whatever. But when somebody's like, Oh, I'd love to take you out. I need a little bit of conversation to figure out if I want to go first. Like I need to leave something right. But if she's not giving you anything, don't fight in there every single day. Hey, hey, are you there? That loser? Where do you go? Well, that hey, well, that is a today that itself kind of plays into the lack of social skills, right? Going into this digital world. You know, you're not out there socializing with people and having conversations and knowing how to talk to somebody in person to see exactly how their body is reacting. They're just their natural reaction. So you know it you know, they were growing up in this Licious chat all online and you know, I'll Oh, I match you. I can you know, Mac my way into your heart. It's not going to happen because that was an even macking that was like poking. Like the top of the post. Do you remember the pokes used to do in Facebook? Facebook? Yeah, just to get some from older men when they wanted to poke? Yeah, I always I always thought it was a weird thing. My friend's husband, my friend's husband is whoever we get it from. Okay, like my older female friends. Yeah, their husband. I might put up or down. Stop virtually poking me. Maybe he wanted to virtually get a nut. Maybe she'll play poke me back or something. The good old days. So guys are weird. Females can be weird. Trust me out come across some way can be nutty and crazy. Well, tell me your weirdest story. My weird nuts are weird. fucking nuts. Oh, well, we know women are not absolutely what, tell me your craziest story. I honestly, my craziest story would have been the one that I got left behind on a date up there in Orlando that the one that actually we just had this conversation that was probably my nerdiest one, like, quote unquote, I have to go to the house, I got to my dogs got to go to the vet, and I'll come back later. And next thing you know, I try to reach out and I get no communication so so I'm sorry, just the fact that I got ghosted, which was my first kind of feel some kind of way, but it is what it is. I agree with Clint on this that you were probably she was bored, tired. Her man cheated on her. So she would get revenge something like that. I mean, I'm biased because I'm I don't understand why she would get you. So I'm a little biased, but I agree with Clint. Yeah, whatever. It is what it is. So what what are crazy though, to me, that's crazy. You ghost me. That's crazy. No, you go there. Wow. Glad you got that drink now. Yes, I am. It made that a lot easier. I had some time. Okay, while you're thinking of that, what was a know? What were some of the cheesiest wines that you've got coming in from the dating as? And which dating apps? Were using Tinder Bumble. Just Tinder and I think the Facebook. Oh, yeah, forgot Facebook had one. I always forget about that one there. So I wasn't looking for somebody. So I wasn't trying to be on all kinds of different shit. You just go in there, hit it, quit it. And that's it. I'm out. So but so give me some some of these pickup lines because let me tell you anything cheesy, because I like the cheesy pickup lines. So you're the sucker for the cheesy than ever, it was at least an effort. When you look at you obviously saw my profile. In my profile, the very first line literally said, please start a conversation with something else other than how are you? And you're so beautiful. Well, let me tell you, Tinder can actually help these guys with some pickup lines. Because obviously there's a subreddit of Tinder for Tinder pickup lines. So it's give you just a simple copy and paste that goes you know all your magic just to see and see which one responds so I just want I'm kind of curious of which cheesy ones got copied and pasted into your because it's a numbers game, it becomes a numbers game, like you get 100 matches. If you throw the same, you know, gift or whatever or the same line from Tinder or Tinder promo you've read it and at least a percentage is got to reply by felt like they didn't read my actual description. And I could tell I typically move the fuck on. Okay, so give me you can engage me in conversation, then I just don't have popped in time for it. Sure. Well, I mean, nobody does, right. You don't want to be trying to meet somebody and sit there at dinner when you finally do get to meet them and be like, Oh, this is fun. Let me just continue to read the menu like five times before I try to come up with something not to say so. But But again, till I'm sure that same thing for guys. Right? You already get on there and you're like, wait a minute, let me just figure out Yeah, swiping just lower that age a little bit. Lower the what's the what's the lowest age bracket on your pool there? Ma'am. how low do you go from where you're at? Typically 10 years. 10 year gap. Ah, okay. What's the what is your biggest age gap difference that you've hooked up with? Probably like 1112 year. Okay. I think I got you in that one, too. Yeah, I don't even know why No. I don't even want to. Mine was 14 There was a 14 year difference on one of my. But but she did not look it. And I don't think you're old enough to have a 14 year old. Definitely different. I was 20 something and she was in her 30s late 30s Oh, she was older than you. Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. Nevermind, I'm fine with that. That's good. Okay, well, where were you going with it? I have like, various issues. No, she was always shitless. She was 14 years older than me. That was the biggest age gap for me. So, okay, she was fun. No, she, she knew what she was doing. That's for sure. I was gonna say younger guy typically, like, now I have to say this. It didn't always the fuck out of me. And they call me mature or something of that nature. Because I'm like, motherfucker, I'm still in my 30s You may be younger than me. I don't know, my gap might have been more than what I'm thinking. Whatever. But young ones are fun, but they can also be really annoying. Those were the ones that got blocked the most are the young guys. They're the ones they're the ones that are like, Oh, my dick. It's this side. So we're about to you know, you've already told me that like, 10 fucking time. Like, I guess I don't see I don't even want to see it now. I guess. I guess I don't see the need. Right. And that might be again, something in this age is digital age where you have to kind of express and because you're not actually physically being able to show things other than maybe you want to send a photo for your proof if you're gonna say your fucking 10 inch long when you're soft. I mean, just, you know, prove it instead of just like Woodward. Not a prude. Right? Like, I think we've established that I'm not a prude. No. And it's amazing, huh? So it's amazing to me the amount of guys that actually would come out the gate with some bullshit and I'd be like, wait, what? And then they would just go down a rabbit hole of your fucking butt. Neil approved bla bla bla bla bla bla bla, and I found those like, fucking hilarious. I'm way. Okay, have fun with. There's a lot of the male ego out there, though, in the dating world is something else. The thing is, I don't take anything personally. That dude doesn't know me, never met me. Or even if we did go on a date, whatever he fucking thinks about me, doesn't play two cents into who I am. I don't get to shit. But the average person is out there, taking all this data in and consuming it and thinking about it, dissecting it. And I'm like, move the fuck on. There's a whole like you said, especially for females, you have a whole pool of people? Why are you even given it a second thought? ridiculous to me. So do you think technology itself granted all these dating apps or whatnot? Do you think with as much as in this? Isn't this dating pool? Do you think that it also has sparked interest and, you know, influence people's sexuality? Like, you know, this woman, this lady is beautiful. Like, normally, you know, you're not going to be very vocal about things when you've probably going out like, oh, I want to talk to that. Girl, girl or guy a guy situation. But if you're at home, and you're just browsing through apps, and also you just happen to get a little curious, like, let's, let's see what this is about. Do you think that technology has made it easier for you know, same sex attraction? A lot easier. Do you think it's influenced? Technology has influenced the I mean, I don't have my staff said that females so? Well, I'm not saying I'd say no, I'm just what I'm saying. Well, this is what I'm getting at. Do you think if you're curious that all sudden, it can be easily flipped? To flip that switch? Like, hey, I'm curious. You know, I'm not seeing anything on the male or female, whatever your gender is. Let me flip that switch. Like just like you just said, you could flip a switch, like, do you think that with this technology, you know, people can confuse those? I'm not I guess you really can't say confused if you're an adult by this point. You really are not Can you you're gonna kind of know what you're going for at this point, but you're making a decision. Right? You're making the decision. So but do you think that because these switches makes it easier to kind of like, I'm curious now. You know what? Let me see. Yeah, it makes it easier to find out I'm interested if I wouldn't match with her that type of stuff. Because what would we should run that experiment? We should go to your Tinder account, flip it over to a female and see which females match up with you just to just to see we should remember right now what your now let's do that out of town. I'm just saying we can be in town run through that experiment and see how many females are actually ping ping ping since obviously, you're having 4000 Apparently for the guy. So I'm curious to see how many coming in a lot more men than women. But we never know. So maybe we can win that experiment when we're up in Tennessee next week. Just yeah. No, I did that in town. So what if you get a good match? You want to bring him back to the room what happened? I'm having a thought process your tastes and checks and my case and checks are so completely different. But with alcohol involved, the taste could be the same. Your taste is going to have to remind days Oh, there's another chick coming tonight. I'll be whatever taste so So you think that technology has kind of influenced a little bit on you know, when you hear because I mean, think about it, you hear more and more of you know, same sex relationships right? But you know, if we would have thought about this 15 years ago, you wouldn't have heard about this as often so now it's all out there. Everyone's like, oh, now I'm whatever, all these letters you know, I'm saying so I think technology has really influenced the way people think women will do that quicker than men well. Um Yes, I can maybe I'll say yes on that one. I'm just spitting it out just without fully thinking of it. But I would say yes, because you can go to a club which I haven't been to a club in a long time but you can go into a club and all sudden you're with a group of friends and next thing you know, you got two girlfriends all of a sudden are just all dancing with each other is typically what you see the girl dancing with each other women are kissing each other. And of course, it's easier to be attracted to a woman than for you to be like I'm gonna get that deck tonight. Yeah, I mean you're you're definitely not seeing guys on guys right grinding really? Typical public clubs right? You're a one is because of obviously a lot of there's still a lot of social repercussions right people start you know really seeing guys on guys right? You only gonna go see that if you go to the actual game clubs and that's where they can be free be themselves and you know, without no judgement, go grind on each other and do whatever. Have you ever been into a gay club? I have no desire. Or desire. No. Oh, I have I actually i i figured by the way you asked that. Yeah, I actually I actually want Kahoot was I was with and it was with some friends in my information that I don't want. I actually it was me. You know, one of my gay friends obviously. And they were like, Hey, let's go check out this club or whatever. I was like, Alright, cool, you know? I don't care. I'm comfortable with my skin. I'll do whatever. But hold on your ego you're like I can pull it do too. Oh, listen, listen with my fucking ego. Yeah, exactly it yeah, guys are gonna you know, they're gonna want this okay, this is this is what you right? You want that salt, that sexy bald head to rub on? Absolutely. I have no shame. But however, what I was getting at was I walked into this club. And for the first time I actually felt how a female would feel typically going into a club like a PCB. I did that is exactly where I was going with like, I felt like I was a piece of me like I literally just couldn't I was walking even just walk into the bar constant. Hey, handsome. Hey, bah bah bah. I was like, Hey, what's going on? You know, I'm here with some friends. You know, I'm just checking out, you know, checking out the scenery. Is it a no offense? This is scenery, checking out the scenery, just see what this vibe was about, like every time Yeah, absolutely I'm checking to see with this virus and I'm checking out the scenery. You're saying I'm checking y'all know, I was my intention was I'm just checking out what the scenery itself was about, you know, the vibe in this club to see what this everyone's always talking about. Right? So because I'm not I have no shame. But however, I guess like you're saying people took it the wrong way, the way I was seeing things, and I constantly had the right, I constantly just kept on now. Now, what I did enjoy was I did get a few free drinks. So for the first time for a dude, I got some free drinks like, okay, I can deal with this. But for reference, I did not leave with anybody. I left alone, I went home. That was it. Actually, it was out of town. So I was we went back to hotel rooms and that was it. That was the end of the night. But for the first time I was like, damn, I felt like a female as a I was being hunted. But I did get a free drink just but in the funny thing is, I had a good time like these people had a fucking blast in his club. Like, it was like nobody. There was no judgment. You just you know, no inhibitions. Yeah, it was literally the best fucking time like it was a it was fun. Now have I been back? Obviously, no, I haven't made activities, clubs, but doesn't mean to say I wouldn't go hang out with some of my friends into the spot that that's where they're wanting to go. But yeah, for the first time, I felt like I was a female being hunted, you know, I felt like little prey. Anyways, anyway, so let's get back to the digital age here. So we'll get ready to wrap things up. So we went through some pros and cons. So just to wrap up some pros dating in today's digital world is that there's the convenience out there, there's the increased pool of potential partners are able to vet your partners, the reduced pressure of having to have the face to face interactions. The social anxiety, obviously, people can just, you know, be who they are behind the keyboard. And hopefully in the event that they decided to go meet this person that a you know, we built a little bit of a conversational bond that maybe I can open up in. No beat me but hopefully not freeze up. That's also why you should do a reverse image lookup. reverse image that's what's that I've never really. So you take an image and you do a reverse image lookup and Google to make sure that whatever you're seeing, is that like a stock photo or a photo of the venue's a million times or whatever. Oh, I guess I've I did that all the time. So I guess I'm confused like you take that you take the profile photo that he sends you and see how does it know if it was it definitely got a reverse Google search for it. It's like a Google search but with a photo. Okay, I'll have to especially like when I we get these huge light Jack dyes and stuff that that my like spidey senses are going off a little bit with my spidey senses. Like what little dig a little deep learning. For what? No, like, just if I just don't know that sometimes it's kind of off. Like, are they real or not real? Okay, I've guess I've never heard of the reverse photo thing, which is new to me, which is odd. Normally, normally, somebody's little tips and tricks, but I learn something new today. I know I'm kind of shocked you caught me off guard. Alright, so some of the cons, right? We talked about dating in this digital world murder, murder. Murder is one that's a bad one. You might not come back from that one. false representation where you know people say there's somebody who they're not and you find out later on online harassments where someone is constantly gonna braid you which if obviously you turned them down but they weren't one And to be turned down. I've seen this takes you out of like the dating apps, but like, let's say Instagram. So these people, they get popular on there. I saw it today. So this dude, it's like, and he's like an average fucking guy. Popular on there, I started following him because he drives a race car. Then it became this whole thing single, blah, blah, blah. But like, there's like 500 fake accounts of him. And I guess some chicks been sending money to one of these fake accounts. So now she's blasting the guy on all these things. I'm kind of like one of those sites. You were blasted on the Facebook pages. It's like, yeah, who he is he is, or whatever the photo shoot was. Yeah, you know, I never did get a follow up. Well, I like I know. But I added my I added myself to it. But it was the most like, feminists, stupid shit, like those women that are in that group? Or why men can't stand most women. Like they were disgusting. Absolutely disgusting. Well, again, I'm biased. So when I was reading some of the comments that the girls wanted to put on you, it's really hard for me to bite my tongue. So I was like, I'm gonna take my little Pitbull attitude out and this page was gonna be ugly. Well, here's the funny thing is when my friend actually pinged me on this saying, Hey, your photo has gotten dropped into this. What was it something like people or something about dating this guy? We were dating the same guy or something like dating the same guy. But she wasn't even saying that. She just said like, what your profile said? Karen, this fucking Karen thought because she didn't like what your profile said that she could go drop it somewhere else and talk shit. That was fucked up. Right? And I at least do it. Do it tag tag me in it ourselves, just so I can have a chance to hit. But I was reading all this shit. And they're like, this dude is just a fucking what they say he's a sex addict. He's a fucking sex on it. I was over that weekend. I didn't even get that morning. I got up you went to work and I went to work with zero sex. The fuck y'all talking about? Damn, I got from my business out there like that. I didn't get six. But the funny will the screenshot that I was sad morning. The screenshot that I was sent was that that one chick saying that? Oh yeah, I went on a date with this guy. And was touchy feely. Um, it was like, he was super handy. I don't even know who that chick was. Like, I'll let you know if I went on a date somebody but that. I didn't know who that was. I mean, you are kind of handsy on dates, but so follow that. But for me anyways, she followed it up with but he does look different. And all of these pictures and obviously completely changed his profile, you stupid bitch. That means that it's not the same profile. He looks different. All the pictures are different. And all the words are different. Yeah, yeah, that fuck. It's like when I went so annoyed. I was like, I can't I can't be here. I can't be here. For so many people that have an opinion about somebody they never had an interaction with. I can't stand and then I went back to one of my friends and I'm like, venting to her about how fucking stupid women can be. Which is why most of my friends are not women, because they have weird ass ways of thinking. And she's like, Yeah, yeah, yeah, my niece was like, You need to get on those you need to get in those pages. So when you're meeting a guy you can make sure that he's not fucking somebody else. I was like, Y'all are fucking crazy and I can't even continue the conversation with you. So there is somebody wants to fuck around on me. That's your fucking issue. So listen, So that right there is the prime example of some of the bad shit with this digital age dating right the information that can be put out there and essentially ruin somebody's life Right? Yeah. And you have no fucking clue so you can have a fucking women or guys or whatever group you might get put into like, she's a fucking horror. Don't take this bitch. You know, that can really affect somebody's life, you know? But that's the digital age that we're in. When I joined it, and then all the like Robo messages I started getting oh, what were the messages there were Like, have you seen your guys on this page? Have you seen this? Have you seen that? Your guys doing this, your guys doing that? I'm like the frog. Like, that's some. And and I think for a lot of women that go on these pages, just because you met up with the dude, doesn't mean you're dating, you probably haven't even had a conversation. So a lot of these people, I feel like they're calling people out on shit that they have no place to call somebody out on. I don't know, maybe I'm on some pages and I got called out on some shit. But unless I was like, blown your mind, right? Now it's, uh, I mean that that right there is the one of the main pitfalls of you know, being careful date. And in this digital world, you say you do one thing that, you know, somebody doesn't like and next thing you know, you're you're being where they call it an outsider. It's almost like cyber bullying, right? But just you just beat your, your, your, your, what has happened to you, you don't even know. You're gonna well. It could have went one way or the other for us, right? Because we had literally just had a conversation about the dating apps, like, Yeah, a few days before, and then that shit popped up. And luckily, luckily, I actually had a female friend that happened to be in that group. And she pinged me say, Hey, this is what's happening. But I went ahead and told them that you actually are dating someone and it is this is not who you are. So you know, obviously I've told her I appreciate it. But yeah, that was that was some bullshit you know, put me on a site for for something I didn't even meet anybody but but but I can't help it my what I put on my dating profile apps, I just tried to use it as being funny. It didn't have big sizes or nothing. It just said what I enjoy doing when I'm out with like you like suffocation sex or like sometimes I do a balcony sex and you know, you know, excitement or enjoyment or fun things are spontaneous shit, or whatever it was. I can now many ways they were too. They were vanilla. So anyways, alright, so we're gonna go ahead and wrap things up. Hopefully we got some points out there in regards to dating in this digital world how it's got its pros. It's got its cons you know, it's definitely here to stay. We're not going back anytime soon to the old school where folks just has to go to a bar right and try to meet somebody. And that's no fun which I feel is a now is become a missed art. Right? You get to kind of sharpen your skills when you're out and about just to see, you know, you know, we should go out to a bar and just see if we still have some skills just to see if we can still run some game right? Like, do I guarantee it? They sell all right, we'll have to see well how to meet Well, you're a female it's easy. My game in the last six months I'm lucky. Oh, this girl you talking about my damn you go. But again because you are female? Yeah, have you have kids? Yeah, have a coochie so is going to be no man I run my game is the thing. Most chicks don't run their game. I run mine. Okay, I think I think I want to see you in this environment then. So when we go to tennis maybe or when we go to Tennessee next week, I want to see only like, sometimes you run your game I want to see. Let me see how aggressive you really are approaching these guys. I want to see. I want to see what game you fucking running game doesn't equal aggressive. Hey, it's funny because I had this conversation with my best friend. She was like, I need you to tell me exactly what you do. Like I don't understand. And I was like, well, it's difficult. For one. I'm a female. Like, it's not that difficult. I don't suck dick in a bar. I mean, it can be done. You could go outside, go in the car, whatever is nothing in front of the boat. But anyway, I'm never just Stop, just stop. Anyways. Alright, so do you have anything before we close out on any thing in regards to dating in this digital world, the effects of IT pros and cons. Anything, just have advice. Okay? If you're a guy, have something like read their fucking profile, pull from that and use your pickup line from what they've actually said. Like, be thoughtful. Be nice. Like, and then go from there. But if we start with just a knock Wanna get much or how you doing? Like my my advice would be get off the digital apps go to society go to the bar go and socialize go Yeah, exactly go and just be a normal human being person. It's a local Yeah, but I mean that's a chance you take right just to just hone your skills actually build your social ability Don't be stuck behind to be at the bar you don't have to be at the bar it can be a fucking target. It can be don't go to Walmart. Just go volunteer something right you know just volunteering is great because you know you already have a common exactly go to the gym or whatever you can find somebody that's working out wearing barely have any clothes. Talk to that chick, that's Do you ever talk to somebody at the gym? No, um, yes. Kind of sorta. Just just just in passing, just like hey, what's up? You know how you doing? Not really, like, hey, I want to take you on a date. You want to kiss dinner? No, but more of just a friendly passing this. You know, hey, how you doing that type of stuff. I can't run my game at the gym. No shit. Most of the time. women are bitches at the gym. So I don't even attempt to even go that route. So we're not bitches. We're focused. Okay, tomato, tomahto. Whatever you want to call you don't know you never worked out with me? Well, I tried. You did not you declined that what? Exactly. You didn't want nobody, you know, interrupting your game. So. Alright, guys, with that being said, we're gonna go ahead and wrap things up. Just a few house calls here. Make sure you guys go check out the whiskey and uncensored merch page, we still have the three new launches that are out there. 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