Ex Marks the Spot: Tactics People Use to Reclaim Their Ex (Guest: Sheena & Danny)

Welcome to Whiskey'd & Uncensored, where we bring you the juiciest, most uncensored conversations on love, sex, and relationships. In this episode, we're spilling all the tea on how people try to win back their exes - and some of the tactics might just make you want to take a shot of whiskey (or two).

We're diving into the world of mind games and dirty tricks that some people use to manipulate their exes into taking them back. From diversion tactics to proven psychological tricks, we're leaving no stone unturned in our quest to uncover the most outrageous methods of reclaiming a former flame.

But don't worry; we're not endorsing any of these manipulative tactics - in fact, we're calling out the absurdity of it all. After all, if you have to resort to underhanded tricks to win someone back, is it really worth it? Join us for a hilarious, no-holds-barred conversation that's sure to make you laugh (and cringe) at the lengths some people will go to get what they want.

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What's going on guys? Welcome back to another episode of Whiskey'd and Uncensored. My name is Eddie Lopez and I'm gonna be the host of this Debre, where we discuss sex, sex trends, relationships, dating, and all the bullshit that comes in between all wow drinking whiskey. And today I cracked open a new bottle, the redemption bourbon. We can put that on the camera here cuz we're actually gonna try to record this and see how this goes. This may just be clips, but we'll see. But yeah, redemption bourbon. Looks like it is 88 proof. It's actually not too bad. This might become one of my new favorites. Is it sweet? It is. I was gonna resay. It's not sweet. It's got a little bit of spice to it, but it's not sweet. So. But today I have, as you all heard, we brought back the infamous Mr. Danny Williams. This feels like it's been forever since we've had Mr. Williams on. He's been on a life journey trying to better himself. And we'll get to that in just a second. And then we also have Ms. Sheena, who's half on my screen right now, the way she's leaning. So the panel, oh, there we go.. . Yeah. She's not used to having the screen recording, so I'm trying to make sure people are staying centered on this. But like I said, this may end up being a clips video that will use, so depending on what you guys say, you know, can be used as clips. It's not your Miranda rights, but it is your rights to know that this could be used as clips later. Mm-hmm.. So, Mr. Danny Williams, how has life been treating you, sir? Well, for Mr. Danny Williams once again, I do not have TikTok, Facebook Twitter chat what the pick our kids call it these days? TikTok might not be around anymore anyway, so you ain't gotta worry about that ticky talkie. That's true. That's true. They, they fucking taking a take it over the world, apparently. It seems like it. You know, they're not taking over the world. They, about, they about to try. United States is trying to take them off. We, well, they, they do too many, they do too many secrets. They have too many secrets on the, on America. That's the problem. Yeah, well, it is what it is,. Anyway. Anyway, yeah. So tell us what's been going on in your life, sir. Well, what's been going on? Life changes maybe from the last time we chatted. Yes. Last time we chatted Mr. Williams have decided to step out from his current employer to seek employment elsewhere. and I, I, I put in my notice to do that and they said, you can haul ass. So, I'm a jobless here for about three weeks, so I'll be partying, hanging out with my friends, doing little fishing, little golfing, little drinking. And that's about it. What I got going on right now, tell you the truth. Well, congratulations, sir. I'm very proud of you that you made the jump. It's, it's exciting to hear. I think you were the last one out out of our current friend circle that was still at Geico when you finally made the jump. I'm so proud of you. Yes, I, I did. And cuz I, I don't know where things are going right now with that establishment. Hopefully it goes well, but I don't, I don't think my longevity was a part of that new process they have going on. So I decided to take my talents elsewhere to like, to South Beach. LeBron James said. I dunno, I dunno. I don't know if you make it down to South Beach, but we got what you're saying. I mean, hey, we, we, a lot of us have made that same decision and you know, like I said, I'm, I'm really am glad that you actually decided to make that jump, especially for the financial betterment. And hell, from what I understand, you're gonna get two pension checks now, you just gonna qualify people, you another one. That is correct. That is correct, sir. So I can retire at 55, if not before then if I choose shit motherfucker, that's, that's the goal for me is 55. We'll see if I make it at 55. I actually had this conversation with Pops and my aunt and uncle who are in town from Connecticut right now. And actually they're staying a little longer because up north right now is having a hell of a storm coming through a noreastern brood. So, but yeah, another one that discussion. Yeah, it's, it's apparently, it's kicking Connecticut's as right now, so there's a lot of snow happening and I guess a lot of canceled flights. So luckily they made the call ahead of time to reschedule for Thursday and hopefully they can get in by then. So, but yeah, we were actually discussing about 50 age, 55 retirement, and they were, you know, my uncle basically was telling me, he goes, why, why do you want to retire so early? I said, I at least wanna travel. He goes, yeah, but think about it then. You're still gonna be without work even if you waited till 70 or whatever. You still got about 15, 20 years after that to be able to try to survive. And I was like, Hmm. I mean, , whatever. Most people are retiring what? 60? 65. So even at, if I retired at 55, got to that point, that's still 10 years. 10 years of what? Before your typical retirement, then you gotta go from that age to till you die. And I'm like you know, that's a good point. But I think I, I've done well enough with between pension and 401k. I think I could stretch it out, but he sure as hell got me thinking a lot though. So I'm like, mm. Maybe I'll wait till 60 maybe. I don't know. Maybe I'll, you can have residual income if I can, if I can figure something out. Yeah. That is gonna provide me some decent passive income. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. And I wouldn't mind looking into, you know, like they start, they're staying at a nice little Airbnb that right up the road from me and I'm thinking, damn, that's right up the road for me. I could possibly do that if I move out of this house, rent this one out Airbnb, and go into something smaller in that retirement timeframe and then I'll be good. So I think what people, people think when you say retiring 55, they think, oh, you, you're gonna stop working. You're not, you're not doing nothing. And that's not the case. Right? For the most part, you're gonna be doing something, you know what I mean? And people think, oh, you're done working at 55, what are you gonna do? Trust me, motherfucker, I'm gonna find something. Goddamn damn beer,. Trust me. Goddamn it. I, you know, I've already said, I, I plan on doing a lot of traveling, you know, I, and, and traveling itself doesn't have to cost you a ton of money. You know, I'm planning on doing a lot of road trips where I can go to different places around the country where I haven't visited and just do a lot of a lot of the sight scene stuff, you know, that doesn't require you to have to pay a gazillion dollars to do shit because Lord knows everything is fucking expensive right now. So, you know, it is what it is. But what were you gonna say? She knew before we got cut off there, oh, I was just saying, you, you were talking about renting that out and finding something else. I said I know somebody that can help you with that. Oh, well how about you get more back in the middle of this frame here. Jesus, there you go. I mean, if I need to use any of these clips that you could potentially say anything funny, I could use these little clippers here. You know, , are you happy now? Yeah, you're right in the middle. Then. Danny's, Danny's bouncing around. This is why I don't do video very often because you can't keep people still for not a goddamn reason. Where where'd it go? In the middle of, in the podcast. Where'd it go? It's okay. I can't even see Danny, which is kind of messed up. Hello? Wait a minute. What the hell's going on here? I didn't charge my computer, but I barely used the damn thing. Oh man. Listen, you were the, sorry. Ah, you were the only one that I have ever had so far that would do. The video that has had one couldn't get connected, has problems. It's either your phone and now we got computer problem where you didn't charge up the computer. Well, I, I thought, I thought you were supposed to be a remote professional. You're supposed to know to keep your computer charged. Sir, bro, this is my personal computer. I barely use it. I use my phone for every damn thing I do. My porn, my DCA . Is that, is that why the Little skeet skeet. A little cream on there or something. Is it cloudy? Hold on. It is a little cloudy. I mean, yo was looking like Michael Jackson right now. Oh, now, ah, damnit we don't watch your belly bun right in the middle of damn screen.. That's better.. Yeah, you can use that. You can use that. We can use that. Yeah, you can use that as your belly clip on my head. Blocking the screen. So saw today that Alan Lazard, greenie Packers, former, former wide receiver, is signing onto the Jets four years. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Hold on. I thought, no, I thought, hold on. He signed for four years, 44 million with the Jets. Mm-hmm.. So what does this lead you to believe? You know, the history, and I already posted, this is kind of where Green Bay's going right now, so that's why I'm gonna be drinking probably a lot more than I normally do because I already see where this future is, where this team is going, because Aaron Rogers, when he met with New York, apparently had a list of free agents. He wants them to recruit, and I gotta assume Alan Lazard was on that list and now that Alan Lazard signed. It kind of, I kind of see this momentum of Mr. Aaron Rogers moving on over to the Jets and we're gonna be back to, oh. No, we suck again. Tenure for a while until this Jordan, love guy can provide us some hope, but we shall see. But this is what I saw today, right before we we got on the call and I was just like, yeah, this is not gonna be a good upcoming season cuz I don't see Now Aaron Rodgers returning to Green Bay. What do you think? Well, I think I guessed that wrong when I seen, I guess I read it wrong on ESPN today cuz I thought he got re-signed with Green Bay. I guess I didn't read it right. Nope. Nope. You got it wrong. Yeah. Cause I took, that's the first thing, I took a screenshot of it and I was like Oh, yep. Four years, 44 million. Yep. Second thing is, if he's signing there, some of their good receivers with the Jets, at least one, they're gone. They're probably going to Green Bay cause they have a couple good receivers there in in the Jets. They have a few good receivers and a good running back. So someone's gone from that receiver core to bring lazzard in, unfortunately, well, I, I, I have to assume Aaron Rogers is looking for targets to hit. So, if that is the case, I would love to see Devonte Adams come to the Jets then. Even though I hate, I would hate it, but I would also love it because that, that dual combination right there obviously is it's very, very dangerous. But either way, they're not in Green Bay, so whatever. Like I said, all I know is I already see the, I already see the headlines coming in a few weeks. Aaron Rogers signs the trade blockbuster deal to the Jets. So, we'll, we'll, we will drink ahead of time to what it is. It's coming by the end of the week. It's coming. Yeah, it's coming. So have you have you watched that show Sex Life? I know I've talked about it before on Netflix, myself or Miss Sheena? You, you, you, I, I, I have not watched that show yet. heard it's very good what your recommendations are. It is very good. And season two is out now, and so I had Sheena, well actually we both binged watched season one cause I've already watched it before, but, and she hasn't. And we end up binge watching. What was it? 10 episodes in season one or eight episodes in season one. We watched all of season one and half of season two. Right. But what I'm saying is season one was, what, eight or 10 episodes? I think it was right around there. Yeah. Something like that. Yeah. Yeah. And then season two is coming out and it actually is pretty good now. I think actually Sheena finished last three episodes before me, and she's already, she's shaking her head like she's not too happy about it. But from what I've seen so far at the midpoint, I like it. But, you know, obviously the drama always comes right in the middle of any season. So, but yes, you need to get on this show dog if you, if you enjoy some sex, this show's got some sex for you. It has a lot of slow sex. It doesn't matter. Oh. If you like seeing some, so it's kinda like soft porn a little bit. Yeah. Yeah. Oh yeah. Pretty much. Pretty much on Netflix. If you like some, if you like some decent looking titties. It's got some decent looking titties for you, sir. Yes sir. Couple dicks titties too. What pro prosthetic dicks? There was one prosthetic dick scene where they, over enhanced there's another one again that you haven't seen. They're funny. Well, okay. They're humorous in season one, you know, just to make the whole theatrics of the, I don't wanna give it away if you're gonna watch it, but just one of the scenes, they just made a whole theatric about it and obviously when the dude turns around, his shit's basically down past his knees, so they kind of made okay. They kind of exaggerated like, damn, that was the ex's. Or you know, my wife's ex-boyfriend type situation. Anyways, but yeah, so little exaggerated. But anyways, , which leads into kind of the conversation today because of the way that theme of the show runs is, you know, trying to win back in ex question is, have you ever tried to win back in ex? And if so, what were your tactics? And if not, have you ever seen someone try to win back their ex and perform some crazy shit to try to win back an ex I'm gonna speak for me from just watching that show, maybe not winning back, but there's definitely some of that shit that probably I think people experience. What do you mean they can help past experiences or whatever?. Oh, just the whole daydreaming Yeah. Especially if there's been a significant amount of time you forget the bad shit and you only remember the good shit. Shit. Not in my like a kinda like a selective, selective memory. Remember the good stuff, the bad, the bad stuff. Yeah. Like a trauma response. You forget the bad stuff. You remember the good stuff. Not in my recent breakup. She remembered all the bad shit, not the good shit. So , I don't know what you're talking about there. That, that, that it wasn't in my experience and the bad shit got remembered and, and I thought, I didn't think there was that much bad shit, but apparently there was. So, I don't know. I thought there was, but sometimes that makes it easy to move along in the, in the current moment, right? Yeah. You only think about the bad shit. It makes it a lot easier to move on than to think about the good shit. Yeah. I, I guess, but and everybody's experience is different.. Yeah. This is, this is true. So, Mr. Williams, have you, have you ever tried to win back an ex and obviously before you got married, when, when you were probably in the dating scene or whatever, did you try to win back somebody that you lost, somebody broke up with you and you weren't ready to break up? Well, not, not me per se but I have a, a few stories about, about that. There is one situation where the guy thought he was air quotes, cuz I'm not talking about me, . There's, there's a guy where he thought him bringing in, I got this friend, I got this friend. Yeah, I got this friend. He thought bringing in a third person to the bedroom a female would make the situation better. Right. To, to bring her back, you know, Into, into the, into the relationship, and they'll get along. Turns out that wasn't the case. She ended up leaving him and started dating. Oh, the girl that he brought in, two story that he brought in to the relationship with, and she wasn't, I don't know if she had any kinda homosexual tendencies at the time, whatever the case may be, but she started dating his ex and ended up being together for like five or 10 years. So he broke, he was, he was trying to better the situation, so he broke up his own relationship.. He brought in another chick that probably ate the pussy better. And she's like, what the fuck? This is so much better. I'm, I'm leaving you for the one who can do me. Right. That's right. And that's what happened. And I, I, I believe, if I'm mistaken, they still together to this day. Damn. Wow. Really? That was over 12, 15 years ago. Okay. Which is amazing. Go ahead, get a carpet munchers, go get that shit. I guess that's some risk, huh? Yeah. I mean, what can you do? What can you do? What can you do? Were they already rocky? I, no, they were not. They, they were, they were pretty strong. They wanted to try something different to spice it up. And they were broke up. And they broke up and they, they, they was trying to get it spiced up and say, Hey, hey, let's try this to see if it's gonna work. So they brought somebody, well, it had to be rocky if they were broke up. I don't know how rocky it was though. Cause I, I don't know why they broke up the for the first reason. I don't know if, if he cheated on. or hell, she could have cheated on him with her. Proud to him, to them getting together for the first time. Actually , that's possible. Actually. Maybe she already had some experience with her before. They decided all three to get together. That's very true. That's very true. And then that was her, that was her way out. Like, listen, we'll we'll go ahead and set this up for this, for this threesome and we can play it off. Like it didn't work out, but all of a sudden I just fell in love with the way you just went down on my ass. And it was, it was all, it could have been all a set up all along. They knew what they was doing. That's true. Them heifers knew what they were doing.. She could have been doing it . She could have been doing it. That's right. So I have a story where I have seen, and this is actually almost in perspective of my personal life, was when I was dating my ex-wife, and when we first started talking, her ex-husband at the time when I was living in the old apartments over there off of Mulberry one, he was a bad stalker. And now, and looking at this list of ways that people have tried to went back their ex, what he did was quite a bit, was on this this damn list. But we'll go through this list in a minute. But he was my list. He he did a lot of stalking rights. Somehow he would find out everywhere that we were together, stalk us, harass her, constantly blowing up her phone just to, as long as we wanted to talk, talk, talk after they were already. and there was one, there's one story or one incident that I remember that I thought it was pretty funny was leaving the apartment complex. It was a big ass sign on the gate to leave when it opens up and closes and asking, you know, Michelle, Hey Michelle, I love you. I want you to come back. Please come back home. Me and your dog misses you. Jesus . So, It. Like I said, to me, it was funny to her it wasn't as funny because obviously everyone was just going back, going through this gate and this damn sign was there and obviously we didn't see it till we were leaving for work. So who knows? I mean, the whole neighborhood probably saw it. Nobody probably thought to take the damn sign down because they probably thought that shit was funny. But yeah, so that shit scary. Being stalked is scary. Oh, let me tell you. It was, it, it wasn't just being stalked when I had my motorcycle at one point in time. Somehow he knew and nobody knew I had got this motorcycle time, but somehow he knew it was my motorcycle cuz he had the ability to. License plates with the job that he had, that he was able to run license plates and get information on people. And so I, I'm a a gotta to assume that he was running everyone's tag that was in front of the apartment complex, just to see if he can peg, to see who she was possibly seeing. And obviously you see a motorcycle obviously at this point. You know, I was in my, what? I was what? Damn, this was over 20 years ago. I was 24. So you were in your twentie, huh? I was in my twenties. I was 20, I wanna say I was 24, 25. And yet obviously you see a motorcycle and you know, okay, obviously it's gotta be around this younger guy, so I'm gonna go down the island, apparently pegged it. That was me. But yeah, he was able to pull up my information, knew everything about me by just running my license plate tag and like, okay, this has gotten a little outta hand right now. And yeah, so. Trying to win back an ex that, that's a real deal. There's some people go to extreme lengths, lemme tell you, I've been stuck by an ex. It's scary. Yeah. What was your what was your situations being stuck by an ex? Mine was pretty extreme. There's multiple situations. One time I came home, he was hiding in the closet. Like I came home and there were rose puzzles everywhere, which was not something that was ever done, like during our relationship. And then he was hiding in the closet. That was scary. Hiding in the closet. Like a damn serial killer. Yes. One time I thought I saw somebody out the, like I had moved on and I was with my current ex and he was outside the window watching us have sex. That was weird. Wow. Wow. Like, oh, okay. Leaving notes on my car, written with his finger in mud. God dang. Anyways, my ex went to prison over it. But anyways. Yeah. Okay.. Yeah,. All right. Now did you send him to prison or he just did shit on his own that sent his ass to prison? Cuz he just got through some shit. No, no, no. We ended up sending him to prison cuz it got extreme. Oh, I gotcha. Well good for you on that one. So let me run through this list of shit that people have done and, and Danny I want you to give me your thoughts on some of these. Obviously we're, we were, we already went through the first ones, stalking. The next one was hiring a plane or to fly a banner. You know, that seems like you're pretty sweet. I mean, if you, if you got the money to go hire a plane and get a banner to be flown to say, Hey baby, I want you back. I mean, that's kind of crazy and I guess sweet. But I guess to, to the extent of how crazy were you before you actually decided to hire that plane? Cuz tell you, renting a plane to do that is not cheap at all. There's, there's, that's a extreme situation, right? Showing up at the ex's place of work workplace now, I mean, we were both at Geico and. I know I saw this plenty of times. I remember seeing an incident between some friends of ours where , yes. The ex showed up at work and the ex rammed the other girls' car in at Workplace. Holy mention. Shit, we will. Not mention names, but that bitch was crazy.. Yes, . And only because she was accusing one of our friends of cheating with said coworker person. To this day, we don't think so. We don't think nothing ever happened. I think, I think she just had this assumption because they worked closely together. They were in the same. I'm trying not to give out too much info. They were in the same type of, of job function. Right? Right. So I guess because you know those situations, she had this assumption and we're, and this is when I was smoking at the time, this is, I was actually outside on a smoke break when all this happened to go down You know, we saw the saw car come up, pull up, it backed out and next thing you know you heard what boom, like walk off the fuck is what just happened? And we're all sitting like, damn is she okay? She what happened Then when you hear the story and then you hear her hopping out and, and just going off, we're like, oh shit. This is that type of situation. This wasn't no accident.. I think it's funny that it's at an insurance company makes it even funnier. Right., I bet you none of that shit got covered. Cause that shit was intentional.. Go ahead Mr. Jesse. Tell us, is that shit covered when the bitches are like crazy like that? Why? Actually it would be , what we would Depends on your insurance company. Yes. Get the fuck outta here. Even if it was, well, I hit right, because it's not the person's fall that she rammed it. Yeah, it would be covered. Depends on if, if you don't have a, like a, the president says if you don't have cut rate insurance or , what a god cut rate insurance. It's covered, Mr. Mayhem. Yeah. Mayhem. Wow. But yeah, so, so that, so that incident alone was one that we got to witness, especially at the workplace. And it's so funny, I totally forgot about that until I just saw this on this list. I'm like, ah. Epiphany. I remember this very vividly. That's crazy. And ironically, obviously they're not together and they've, they've all, both since moved on and, you know, everyone's been remarried since, and gee, I wonder if she decided to go crash their, the new wife's car, you know, if she was that crazy enough to do it. But I got it. I haven't, I haven't heard those stories, but yeah. Showing up at the work. But now let me ask you though, if, if, if you had an ex that you were just so head over heels for, and she broke up with you because she said, listen, I thought the, the stories about a black man's dick was supposed to be true and bitch yo shit was false and she moved on to a bigger black dick Okay. Would would you try to win that bitch back even if you were head over heels.. I probably would. I mean, cause Cause why, why didn't she leave me? Because over the, the penile situation yeah because she found a bigger, black, thicker dick. Yeah. I'm about to I'm about to try to win it back. Really? You, you would go to war with that? I would. I think I would because I know what I got. But apparently she does too. And that's why she moved on. Right. That's the whole scenario.. So what, what is she gaining for coming back? something. I, I'll pay a light bill. A water bill? Yeah. Car. I'm gonna pay your bill bitches. I will lick that pussy. But you ain't got a, you ain't gotta ride me. But I will just lick it. I will suck that bitch. Queen. There's plenty of toys. Oh shit. Oh. This damn, this damn whiskey is going down smooth. I'm already, I've been refilling this bitch up a couple times already.. Oh, I the, and it's only, it is mid-week of this shit. It's not mid-week. It's only Tuesday. Well, there I go see it is a Tuesday, bro.. It feels like our motherfuck mid-week already. Oh shit. How about trying to recreate a first date, what do you think about somebody trying to recreate a first date and trying to win back to your ex? I'm trying to think what type of first date would I have gone on that I would've tried to attempt to recreate. Cuz not even in my mine's kind of creepy though. My first date was kind of with Another dude. Wait, what chick?. Whitewood.. Yeah. It was a good friend of mine. We went go see Saving and Private Ryan, so that's kind of weird. Oh, so you, were you the third wheel or were you on the date and you had a third wheel? I'm on. I was on the date and had a third wheel. Yeah, that Cause I didn't have a car. Yeah, she, he drew, he had a car. I didn't have a car at the time, so that was kind of weird. So I wouldn't do that. You used somebody, you used somebody for their car, so that way you can, why didn't you just have your mama just drop you off somewhere? She was at work. I mean, technically our first date. It was us and Danny, so we can't really say much. Yeah, that's true too. That's true. I get, yeah, I guess you right. Well, damn, I guess I can't judge you on that one. dawg, but, and my, and my sister and my wife. And who else?. But listen, we at least had a car. We at least went Uber if we. so we didn't have to ride with a, a, a creepy friend that, you know, but it wasn't a third wheel we had no, I guess the first night we did. Yeah, we did the first night it was me, you and Danny. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Did y'all too, in a stranger? You know what, you know what's funny about that scenario here? Here's what I started thinking about. People were probably analyzing this situation when we first went on a date. We're like, there's a black dude, there's obviously, he's not white, so he, he looks a little mixed. So obviously, cause I'm a light, very light-skinned Puerto Rican, but obviously I don't look white compared to contrary to what some people believe. But they're, you can tell like black man and a mixed guy out with a white girl. We know what's going to happen later on tonight. This is not a good . This is, we know what's going down gang bang time. I guarantee you , that was probably the situation because Danny was in the club dancing or the live music, dancing his top hat looking drunk, pointing fingers, dancing with all the ladies in there showing his skills. And then he comes back. Rico will have it back to our table like Uhhuh , we know what's going on here. He's dancing them smooth moves to get her all excited. Yeah. So I guarantee we were being judged that night. What? Probably that is so out the fucking picture I would've thought of. I'm telling you it is. I thought we were three adults out for the evening is what I thought. No, no. You think so? But people look at the scenario like Mm. It is a fr it. I think it was a Friday night. People out drinking. Yeah. We know what's up. And it wasn't early Friday. Like if you out with friends, you going about seven, eight o'clock. We went out like 9, 10, 8? No. Yeah, we were about nine, 10 o'clock. Somewhere around there. It was that late. Yeah. Cause we left that last bar right around closing time and we right before that and we just bounced out. So I don't remember that. Yeah. You was already drunk by this point. You was fucking, I don't remember none of that. I remember seeing the moon at one point and that's it. Yeah. You saw the moon because Danny was carrying your ass back to the room. Into the, into the, yeah. I don't remember that Into the Airbnb. You couldn't even walk. Yeah. So I don't remember that. So I guess nobody's recreating a first date here. So to win back a night. No. Faking a medical emergency. Hmm. Faking a heart attack. Faking strop. I don't know if you wanna say, I don't know if it was fake, but I had my recent ex, I had to take him to the hospital having a heart attack. Really? You should. You should have put the, you should have asked on a, can you put those paddles on just to see if shit works For real It was such a, yeah. See? See what would've happened. So I wasn't working. Spent that time there. Yeah. It was a whole weird thing. Mm mm-hmm. They were like, oh, your wife? And I'm like, yeah, no, I'm not his wife. He just called off our wedding. Oh, this is the most recent ex. Yeah, my, oh, I gotcha. Why am I here? Why am I here? Oh, do I, no, that didn didn't have anybody else. Yeah, anybody else. I took care of 'em. I mean, I think it would be pretty fucked up if I didn't. So I went and got like fucking PlayStation and snacks and clothes and took 'em to 'em, and then he said something that was just, . I can't even remember what he said, but it was so rude. Why'd you bring this game? And I was like, you know what? Fuck you,. So you were just being naive. That's all you was Being naive. That kind of describes me in my whole life. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah, faking the metal me medical emergency was on this list of things people have done to win back to x. I don't know, I don't know if I'd want to fake it medic. Now I did have an ex where her ex had claimed to have cut off his finger. I don't know if that's a medical emergency or just a fucking but it just a lie. Yeah, I mean, well, the, well, here's the funny thing is we've, we've thought for the longest time that it actually was in fact cut off. There was a lot of drama around it. Like, oh, I can't do this and this and that. My thumb, you know, I think it was his thumb where his fingers all cut off. He was gonna have to go find one of those fake thimble and thumbs for a finger. And, you know, hey, you know, I don't want the kids around. How did, does that affect her l listen? Well, because the kids were kind of emotional about things or whatever. Oh, okay. It was always something. There was always something that came up anyways. So for the longest time we're like, oh, damn, I, and then I kind of felt like, damn, he cut off his goddamn finger that, that fucking sucks. Come to find out, it never was cut off. We're like, wait a minute, this fucking fingers right there. What the, what the fuck is happening here? It was always something trying to. Get that sob story, you know, to come back and I need you do this. I cut my finger off. I can't do this. I don't know how to do my laundry. I don't know how to cook. I don't know. But it was always, there's always something. So, but cutting off a finger or faking cutting off a finger, maybe that could be a, a fake medical emergency or whatever. But yeah, it was it was definitely different when I, when I realized like, that's his finger right there. It's his whole finger. that bitch ain't cut off like I thought it was. I know that bitch didn't grow back miracle all of a sudden, you know? No, that doesn't happen. So, I mean, I've received texts that have been like, make sure my children are taken care of. When I die, things aren't good. I'm like, what the hell is that? Yeah, right. Just to make you feel bad. I'm like, thumbs up. Cool. Okay. Thumbs up. Cool.. All right. Hope you died. Go ahead and don't worry, they're paying, they're being taken care of already. You don't have no money in the account anyway, so what the fuck? Sending large amounts of gifts and letters. Would you send any woman? No. Any gifts? Like if she broke up with you, why keep on trying to pay for shit? Just, you know, move on. Ain't no gift, ain't no letter worth the hassle of an embarrassment of trying to win back somebody I got, like I was telling Sheena before we even got started, I, I think I may have tried to get back an ex, not to none of these extremes but where I kind of was like, Hey, I wanna work things out, blah, blah, blah. Let me do this. I think I've only done that twice in my life. And then I realized, why am I doing this? Why, why do I feel like I have to chase somebody? I don't feel like I need to chase somebody, obviously. And then I, I learned, moved on and I haven't done it since. Like, if you are gonna leave, you're gonna leave. You know, we can part on the, you know, we will. Be on bad terms or good terms, whatever, but I'll try to be as amicable as possible. I don't, I don't try to make any ex's life living hell. If you moved on for a reason, you moved on. So it is what it is. But yeah, I don't, I don't think ample amount of gifts would really truly be the reason to try to win somebody back. Yeah. Cuz you, you were buying something doesn't, it is not gonna change a person's heart or change how they think about you. It doesn't matter what you're buying. You can buy 'em a, a fucking house or a car. They're not gonna change how they feel about you. I mean, I went and wanted me in it. Yeah.. Nah. If you bought me a lottery ticket and that bitch won, I'll be like, hell yeah. Thank you . . Thank you. You made me a millionaire. Because I, I know right now with, with my wife, there's nothing I could buy her that's gonna make me, make her come back to me cuz she's very low-key.. You know, I, I got, I can't tell you how much the ring I spent for on our, for our wedding one a lot. But she's not a big jewlery person. Not a big clothes person. So what's, what's mature things on like three paychecks? Is that what you spent? Like 3, 3, 4 paychecks, something like that. That's not the, it wasn't be, I dunno, you, you making, it's a long time. It was 16 years ago. So,. Yeah. Wait, I'm, I was talking to you, Sheena, you making, you forget, we're on video cameras so I can see all your faces. Three or four paychecks. That's crazy. Yeah. I think that was like a rule, right? Like No, I know. It's a rule. Actually I think it's three months of your income or something like that. Mm-hmm. But that's okay. So that makes two, four, is that at least six paychecks then? Right. So I was at least, that's fucking crazy. Right. Yeah, I guess it also depends on your job. Cuz if you, if you in the fuck the six figure jobs, whatever imagine size ring that you're talking about right there, fuck that. I mean, my last engagement ring, was gonna pay for it myself. So no, I have bought I have bought two engagement rings. How many in my life? I bought two engagement rings in my life.. You said four. You got four. I got four fingers up don't you? What's that mean? Four what? Four engagement rings you have bought four engagement rings. No. You right. I thought it was folk in the bullshit. No bitch, no , no motherfucker. Why you trying to confuse me? I've only bought two engagement rings in my life. One of 'em, I end up getting married. So really?, I was 50 50 . And I think that first one, I think I only spent, I don't know, a thousand bucks if, if that. I think at that point I was, I was young, you know, so I, I did the whole thing. Every kid speak begins with Kay and hold on. I got one for you. Every broke begins with B Yeah, sure. We good with that. I, you know, I was, I was young buck, but I thought I was gonna get married. I thought, I thought this was it. But, you know, I was You did get married. I, I was, but I was 20, I was when I was 22 ish, so I was really fucking young. 23. So I was young buck, young buck, just getting started in life. Dicking. He was ready to get married. And it ended up, I mean, I got married at 18. Wow. Look where you're at now. So did that work?? But you're sitting neither there buddy. Huh? I said you're sitting either. No, that's, that's what I was, I was Thank you very much. My next engagement that I did buy, that one, I did spend a little bit more money and it actually lasted a little bit longer. That one I spent 5,500 on. And, but you know what? You don't get to keep those rings. Why don't you get to keep those rings after a divorce? It's a gift. It's a, it's a gift. I would've loved to try at least come back on some of that, but I, I can't say nothing. That one, I mean, that one, that one lasted a good, wait a minute. That, that one with the distance. You still had one? I got the first one, the one that I only spent like a thousand bucks on . Oh, that one. That one. You still got it? No, it, it is still sitting in the. My little box with all my other rings and accessories and stuff. Yeah, I, I think I need to do something with that. I don't know what to do with it cuz it, it ain't like, it's nothing to write home about. It's, it was like, I think it was a, a half care at Threequarter care. I don't, it's nothing huge to write, you know, any big checks on, so what do you do? What do you do with it? Yeah, exactly. It's weird that you still have it. I don't know. You know, the funny thing is I have forgotten about it over years and years, but, cause I've always put it away in a box or something and then every time I upgrade something or whatever, I shift things around in my, you know, you, you got your junk nightstand, right? You always put throw shit in your nightstand and shit. Just tossed, there's some fun stuff and nightstand, well, my nightstand's got fun stuff, right? Just depends on which drawer you go into. If you look at that top drawer, there's nothing but a bunch of junk in there that I just tossed in there. And sometimes you forget what you toss in. But yeah, so I don't ever know what to do with it. So it's just been sitting around and like, yeah, I totally forgot about it, but now it's, I know it's in that box now because I've bought one particularly four other, shit, other jewelries, accessories or whatever. So, but yeah, I'll, I'll figure something out. It ain't gonna, cause I, I don't think that bitch is tainted. So you ain't, that ain't getting used again. I don't think that would beate fucking weird. I'm sorry, what was that? Yeah, they do, that's what I said. They appreciate and value. Yeah. Yeah. They, yeah, they, they don't depreciate that they, they up in value. So you paid a thousand bucks for it. It is worth more than that now. Yeah. I don't know. I I told you the same thing when you showed it to me. I don't know. I, I I don't see how, like I said, it wasn't a, it's not a huge ring, so I don't know how that would've left. I mean, shit, eggs cost more than they did last year. A fucking diamond's gonna cost more than it did whenever you bought it. Maybe I'll go, maybe I'll go get it. I, I got my friends over at Spa Jewelers out there in Bartow. Maybe I'll go pay them a visit and see if it's even worth me trying to get rid of it and just cash in on something. Who knows. You know what, Sheena, you know what Sheena? He's, he's, he's scared Sheena. Think about it. Right? So he got this ring. Scary. Yeah. He doesn't wanna get rid of rid of it. Now, he may be saving it for somebody. I don't know who, so you never know. You never know. No. Like, like I said, that, that, I don't know that ring it one, it's, it's, it's ta You can't recycle it. You cannot recycle and engage by ring. Yeah. It, it is a tainted ring. And I, I've already made it known far in advance that I am not one to jump into another marriage. Not anytime soon. Not anytime in the near future. It's just one of those things where I just.. I, I don't think I can do it again. But I, again, since I got family in town, those topics got brought up. If I ever would do the marriage thing again, I said, no. Or I said, maybe not. They're like, you'll never, you can never say never. You just never know. But I was like I just, I just don't want to go through that again. Right. So I think if I'm happy with something, what I have, there's then, then why do I need to move forward and sign a piece of paper just to say, you know, I appreciate this person. You know? So anyways, moving on from that.. . Yeah. You gave a fucking dissertation just now.. Hey, I just had, I just needed to was clear motherfucker uh, trying to sabotage an ex relationship. The new relationship that's something I've seen.. I've never tried to do it, but that is something that I have seen over and over again. Somebody trying to sabotage a relationship because they were pissed off that they were no longer fucking that person anymore. Yes. I would say my, I've done almost everything on this list. Really? Yeah, she, she date some winners, man, I tell you what, , well, she don't add, but don't add me on this list. God damn. I ain't done none of this shit.. We're not currently in ex, so well, oh, let you, good point.. Yeah, go ahead. Whatever you say. I was gonna say, you haven't been married that many times, right? She had just once. I was only married once and then in a long term relationship after that. Okay. She was in a process of getting married a second time and then., he decided to thank God to, to bail out. So, and then have the crazy again. You know, when you were like recreating the first date, I gotta get those texts. I just wanna date you again. We, you dumb motherfucker. We were engaged to get married. You ain't take me on a fucking date. What the fuck?, you know how much money I lost on that video? You wanna take me on a date? No I feel better now. Sorry. Continue. Yeah, you good,? I just needed to get that out. I was, I was laughing also here. It was looking at some of these random questions in regards to some of this topics., is winning an ex back, like trying to catch a fish that's already been caught and released? I mean, depends on the fish. Depends on how many holes it got in his mouth., yes. How many things have stuck to its mouth, I should say . Yes. How many times has that mouth been caught? Let's see. Hacking into social media accounts. This is probably a new thing on how people are trying to get back their ex. Just trying to hack into that social media. I, I, To me, I think. A low blow, because that's like going into somebody's privacy, like kind of going through their phone already. You know, that's, that's a big issue for me going through your phone. I've already been through that multiple times and it's, it's never a fun argument, you know? And it's not necessarily you, you're always gonna find something bad. Right. But, you know, but if you're looking, if you're looking through somebody's phone, your intent is to find something. So whether it's you are correct, it's actually bad or not, you're going to create it to be bad, because that's your intent when you're looking. No. So you're gonna justify yourself with whatever you find, whether it's legitimate or not, you can find it. It don't matter what you look, if you looking for something, you gonna find it. You're gonna find it. Mm-hmm., if you think somebody cheat on Absolutely. You gonna find it. You gonna find it? Mm-hmm.. Well, I mean, even if you're going through someone's., let's say you don't even hack their social media, right? Let's just say you going through all the posts and kind of being the stalkerish of your ex or whatever, and just looking at all the people that are liking, oh, looking at all the people that are commenting and start building your own judgment as far as, oh, I see this bitch is always liking your shit, you fucking her. That type of stuff. Or why be friends with your exes on social media? That's silly. Well, that I can debate you on. I'm still yes, I'm friends with some of my exes, not all of them. Some, I mean like, and like I mentioned, you know, maybe 20, 30 minutes ago or or so that, you know, I try to keep amicable relationships with exes. I mean, I don't feel the need to go into that whole. Social or the society. But if you're gonna have an ex that's doing that well, if it's bad and nasty, then why would you? Right. If they're doing anything malicious, then yeah, that's a different story. But if, if we're amicable, there's no need that you can't be friends. I mean, you know, my exes are Dayton folks and get married and, you know, I'm happy for 'em. If, if as long as they're happy then, you know, is what it is. The only thing you could be is an adult and move on. But yeah, I, I don't feel a need that you have to block somebody. I mean, unless you can't handle the situation where somebody's moved on, then yeah, it's, that's a different story. But yeah, there's only a few that I'm still friends with, you know, now I'm not saying that we still communicate whatever. I mean, I, I'll see photos every now and then and just move on. Maybe like a photo here and there, but, but this is referring to like basically hacking their accounts and going through their stuff and seeing who they're. Getting dms from, or who they're DMing, you know, so that just, just trying to hurt your own feelings. Yeah. You go hunt, like you said. Yeah. You go hunt, you go hunting for something, you're gonna find something. And if you don't find nothing, it's gonna, you're gonna make something. Feel like it's gonna be your, your justifiable thing that you're looking for threatening yourself or saying that you're gonna commit suicide. That's a way people have said that. They we got a story for you. Oh, there we go. We got a story time. Go ahead. Got a story for you. All right. It's a friend of mine, another where, another friend of mine, I was waiting for this to come up. I wasn't sure when it was . Another friend of mine had a ex, and he, is this, are we talking, we referring to the same ex that got car crashed , or this another? No, no, no, no. Oh, another friend. Okay. different where he said he would kill himself or commit suicide if she did not come back to him. Mm-hmm.. And lo and behold, he didn't commit suicide, but he did shoot himself several times. Oh shit. Oh, he shot him himself. He shot himself several times. Several times to make her, or try to get her to come back. Like in the foot? No, the leg in one of the main arteries. And he shot herself in the shoulder. I'm not sure what side it was, but it shot, it shot himself in the shoulder to try to get her to come back to him. And that failed mi miserly. And did not work out at all. Another story about another guest, actually. A guest. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Yeah, we can't, we can't jump, jump on this one. Say, I'm trying to skip, I'm trying to skip, I'm trying Skip first all. Yeah, you can't, you can't just run past this one. First off, motherfucker thought he was Tupac. All right. Go shoot himself a couple times. Yes, we know the end story. Tupac dies, right? So why do he think that he can shoot himself or 50 cent? 50 cent Probably the only one that we know that got shot multiple times and still live. I mean, not, not many people can shoot themselves or get shot multiple times and live. So what did he think? Did he really think that sympathy was going to bring back this accident? Did he not realize getting shot's? Probably painful as fuck. Why would you put yourself to the pain just for a piece of ass? Like, I don't think that, I don't think getting shot is worth a piece of ass. I mean, hell, I wouldn't even think getting shot, taking a bullet for the president is a worthy job. Like, fuck that Well, he thought was gonna work, but it didn't. I mean, cuz they, they was together for oof. Maybe 10 years. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Cause she was probably like, you crazy ass. I ain't going back to that. You crazier than I thought. And that's pretty much what happened. That's pretty much what happened. This happened in, it was North Carolina, I forgot, but it was, no, it was North Carolina and sounds like some North Carolina shit. He, he thought he was gonna have her come back, baby, I love you. I love you. I'm gonna kill myself. You'll come back. Mm-hmm.. And she came by one day and he was like, baby, I, I told you I'm gonna kill myself. You'll, if you'll stay with me, pow, pow, pow shot himself. And then on top of that bitch went to jail for shooting yourself. the crazy part, great part. Wait, that's, you can go to jail. For attempted murder on yourself.. Yes. Yes. I did not know that was a thing. and he got committed too. Cause it's crazy as hell. He got committed. Yeah. He was obviously office rocker. That more the, wait sir, you've been charging first degree murder on hoot yourself. I mean, shit. Now it could have been some other stuff involved with it. Like I'm sure endangered her, you know? Cause she, when he shot herself, yeah. Some other crap involved. But he, he went to jail. He went to jail. That's I think that's a bit extreme. Yeah, that's definitely a attempted suicide on yourself to win back an ex that might take the cake right there with second behind of crashing the car. That's, I think that's the most hilarious part of that. Yes. But what about nowadays? What about. With all the back, going back to the social media stuff, or maybe even dating apps or whatever creating fake profiles and assuming that this is somebody that your partner or whatever, or your ex may like, and you're pretending to be that person, you're creating a fake profile, acting as them to try to see, you know, what they would say and if, and then you can use that in the any attempts to get them back. Now I, now, to me that's going to the far extreme, but people, yeah, people do some crazy shit, right? I mean, hey, you want, you wanna like this blonde, blue headed bimbo. I can be a blonde-headed bimbo and see if you hit on me and then bam, look who it is. Hello. That's kinda dirty. That's some crazy shit. What the fuck? Lemme tell you, lemme tell you, people will do some crazy shit, especially when it comes to, and I, and, and you know, here's what I gotta think. This is my theory. A lot of these stories that you probably hear that are do be these people are doing this craziest shit are probably people that did not have many relationships. Like this is, could have been a first, it could have been a, a first. Love it. You know, they're not that attractive and they're worried that they'll never get anything that, that's, no, they're just super insecure. Okay. Or we can go with insecure, but, and don't have the mental capacity to handle life. That would be what I would think. Well, well okay. So you can go with that. But it's similar to what I'm saying. It's like they just can't handle, you know, losing that first love. They don't know what to do. Like, oh shit, I'm never gonna get nobody back. Now that I need to get back this, my ex love here. This is the only person I could live that bad. It's okay. You broke up when you said that.. I said, being alone, Nate. That bad? It's okay. No, it's not. And, and unfortunately, I'm one that I can't say I've ever been single for a very long time. And Danny, you, you know what? Long as I've probably been single was what? A couple months? Yeah. You, you got a problem. You can't be alone. You get a problem.. That is not a good quality. That's a little scary. I think the longest I have been single, and Clint fucking hates it because every time I get single, he's, he's ready to party with me. Right. I think the longest time is three, four months, maybe five months. Yeah. And then, then I'm with, then I'm hanging out with somebody, we'll see. We'll see how this this current trend works.. . Wow, that's an hat thing to say. What the fuck? I'm kidding. I am kidding.. All right. So, we are at our time to get ready to get the fuck outta here, mark. So what do we think? Is it, is it worth winning or is it worth the attempt to try to win back an ex? Because let's, before we close, if your wife left you right now, Danny, if your if, yes, Ms. Vanessa decided to say, fuck you, asshole. I'm out. I am mis independent. Me too. And I can do shit without a man. We already know that this is not the case, but let's just say, yeah. Would you weep, would you try to win her back or would you be like, there's a door to get the fuck out?, I'm gonna try to win, win back because bro, these days, you're not gonna find a person, a, a man, or a female. And I don't want to get too political. Not political, but you know, that takes care of a household works. Mm-hmm. in independent, not, not, you know, worry about jewelry, clothes, pretty laid back, pretty easy. Don't bother who I hang out with. You know, I got friends that the average person, the, the guys I hang out with, they wouldn't let their husbands or boyfriends hang out with 'em. These kind of people.. But I do that. Listen because we all, we all know and our friends, he's talking about you . Yeah, exactly. We all know in our friend circle, most of 'em like, nah, you can't hang out with Eddie. You can't, nah. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm., you can't hang out. He's trouble. Mm-hmm., . It's, it's okay. You can say, and we, cause we know it's true. Like half the, our friends, we, they, they are not allowed to hang out with me because they consider me bad. Juju, it can't happen., I pray. And who's, who's the main, who's the main way to hang out with you. I know, right? That's why you my road dawg. You my road dawg. But no, and, and this is what I was getting ready to say. This episode's not making you look too good. I, you know, it is what it is. I, I'm not here, I'm not here to try to win everybody over, but the, you actually have yourself a unicorn because you're a right. You. you, she doesn't give you a hard time. So there would be no reason for her to leave. But in this scenario, because she's such a good woman to you and she, how much she does and takes care of everything, that might be a rare case. What I would say, yeah, bitch, you better go fight for that shit. But any other time, nah. I'm like, if you wanna leave, you know, I'm not gonna hold you back. I'm not gonna hold you back from being happy. If you are, if you, if if you think happiness is out there somewhere else, go for it. But in your situation, yeah, I can see you saying I'm gonna try win my wife back. But if she pushes back, then you gonna have to What respect. Yeah. I'm about to let it go. Let it go. Yeah. Let it go at that point. And then, like you said earlier, at that point, I, I'm not saying I'm one and done, but I wouldn't see myself getting married again. You could join the club right, right now Yeah. I, I I wouldn't see it. I wouldn't see it. I, I could like, who is that? Tyler Perry. But I, I could do bad by myself. Mm-hmm. Hmm., you know what I'm saying? Mm-hmm., I don't need somebody else to put, you know, put me down. Not saying they would. Yep. to drag me down. I can do badly by myself and call that good. Yep. You know I love me some Tyler Perry movies. Hmm? Danny and Vanessa are so fucking cute together though. Like when we went to the zoo, like they were holding hands in the backseat. Y'all are just so fucking cute together. Why? He was trying to get something. That's all he was trying to do by then.. Whatever. That's fine. He was, he was trying to get some of my backseat. He's like, Hey look. We ain't driving. What's up girl? All right guys, well we are gonna go ahead and wrap this up. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode and I'm glad to have Mr. Williams back. I'm trying to talk to him and get him on more episodes so we can, I'll try guys, I'll try. So we can, I'll try. Well, now that we got this link working, we can maybe have you on a little bit more frequently. 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