451. You Have Three Options

Nellie discusses her commitment to achieving a 10,000-step goal daily, despite challenges from her children and technology issues with her Apple Watch. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and commitment to oneself, paralleling it with her dedication to her children and clients. Nellie reflects on the creation of The Wealthy Mama Movement, driven by a desire to support other mothers and improve their lives. She encourages perseverance, quoting a motivational book that suggests giving it your all is the best choice. She concludes by offering a book giveaway and affirming her audience's value as mothers.

We will touch on:

• Commitment to Self-Care and Family
• Challenges and Perseverance
• Inspiration and Motivation
• Real-Life Struggles and Solutions
• Vision and Purpose

Transcript

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I think that this is beyond perfect, beyond perfect. Because, if you don't know, I've been doing a 10,000 step count goal every single day. I don't even know if you can hear me right now. I had one six year old that literally, we refused to leave my side, and was whining and complaining and upset that I was not going to bed when I told her, You are welcome to go to bed, but mom has a commitment to herself that she needs to get this step count done, so I finally got her in bed, and then I am literally so close to finishing, and this one wakes up, and now this one wants their mom. And this step count goal, the goal for me, I got to keep moving, because I kind of finished getting my assessment. This goal was a commitment to myself. I give to my kids all day, every day. I give to my clients all day, every day, even if I'm not messaging them, I'm thinking about them. I'm thinking about how we can do better, what they need based on our last conversation. And so I have realized that I'm giving so much of myself to so many humans, and equally, that is obviously my choice, my responsibility. And also I get to give that same love, that same commitment to myself. And so this challenge has been a challenge. It has been so incredibly hard to stick to. I wanted to go to bed hours ago, but I am too stubborn to give up. I don't want to give up. I want to prove to myself that I can do this, because I know that I can, and I know that this is literally testing me in so many different ways, and it's so cute because the live video that I wanted to do today was about reminding you that you're a good mom and I'm I need that reminder too, and This is exactly why. This is exactly why I'm doing The Wealthy Mama Movement, because I am in the trenches with you, and I don't want to get out of the trenches, but I want to, I want the trenches to be a little bit brighter and happier and lighter, and I believe that, like the vision of The Wealthy Mama Movement was placed on my heart for a reason, and I actually have had it on my heart for a long time. Truly, it's been on my heart, and I shied away from it and shied away from it because I didn't believe that I could do it. I didn't believe that it was my purpose. I question myself so many times. I'm like, but there's so many people helping moms that like, clearly, it's not me like, and it kept coming back around and coming back around and coming back around. And I finally just got to a point after having boom, and I just said, F it. I'm like, apparently this is my purpose. I'm supposed to do it in my way, and there's room for everyone. I need to keep moving. I need to keep moving. You might be moving with me, but I just wanted to remind you, you give to your you give to your kids, you give to your home. You're cleaning your home all the time, like I was packing for the beach today, not just me, but two other children thinking about, what do we still need to buy? So that way I'm not stressed and overwhelmed like the night that we're leaving, right? So it just like everything that I'm doing at The Wealthy Mama Movement is because I think it's so needed, and I want you to not question yourself. I want you to commit to yourself more than you ever have before. And it's not going to be easy. It's not it's not the thing that I wanted to read to you. Let's see if I can read it and walk all at the same time. Of course, I can, but I was getting so upset at myself as I was getting my step count in because I'm not going to bed until this is done. I'm not I refuse. What are we at? My Apple Watch loves to stop resetting too, like I have to turn it off and on, which is just, it's just cute. You know what I mean? Like, when you get when you're up leveling to new levels, there's some turbulence, right? There's some frustration, but it's not a reason to give up. Come on reset. Why are we not resetting? But today was just. One of those days I think I've done more. This thing is not but I'm I need to see it. Need to see the actual numbers. Come on. Why are we not resetting? Well, that's frustrating. I have something I want to read you. This is real life. This is real life. And then this one woke up. Can you say, Hi? You want your bottle? Can you explain why this is not resetting? Moon? Okay, let's take a step. Is it not resetting because I'm holding him, I'm so confused. Okay, well, we will figure that out here in a second. I'm going to read you. So I was getting a little annoyed. So one thing that I love to do is I love to like, I buy books all the time. So this says whatever it takes. And I randomly pulled open a page as I was doing some steps, and this is what it said. You can't beat someone that never gives up in life. You have three choices. Choice number one, give up. Choice number two, give in. Choice number three, give it all. Give it your all. You get to choose which one, but I recommend going with the option with option three, which was, give it your all, you will never regret giving it your all. I would agree with that even if you fail. Plus, if you never quit, you never fail. Mic drop. Mic drop. It's amazing to find out what happens and who you become when you don't give up. My father always told me that that you that you don't quit. If you are going to do something, then you have to give it your all and try to become your best. The person who never gives up, will always beat the person they are competing against. Never fucking quit or give in. Ever stay humble, stay hungry and always be the hardest working person in the room. Dwayne The Rock Johnson, the life that you want, the marriage that you want, the family you want, are all going to be fueled by the products and services that you can sell. This book gives you the habits required to fully win it all. So I'm gonna give away this, this book tomorrow. I was gonna do it tonight, but we'll do it tomorrow. We'll do it tomorrow. So I love you. If you're in the trenches, I see you. You're an amazing mom. We've got this. You.