Wrack Your Brain Episode 11

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Episode 11. This is a show about everything and nothing. Part politics, part satire, all bourbon. Join Dominick Leon and Charles Fuks as they muse about current events, social issues, and whatever surfaces from the depths of their minds. In this episode we tackle phobias, toxic masculinity, and a little bit of survival prepping.

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Transcript

ladies and gentlemen welcome to may 12th 2022 rack your brain podcast with

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charles fuchs and dominic leon and we are no i'm not gonna do it and i can do it

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uh okay good i've taught him well we we don't synchronize here on rack

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your brain podcast okay that is a rule that we will not break

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all right so any any announcements no not not since sunday so we're still

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we're still at uh over 500 downloads and you know a thousand thousand followers on tick tock actually that's that's

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fairly new a thousand followers on on tick tock um thank you to all those followers thank you to the followers cheers

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uh we have about 110 subscribers on on youtube uh so we're we're going places i don't

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know where we're going channel is the podcast is slowly growing the channel is slowly growing

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uh we're growing the more we do this we get better at it the more we do it we enjoy it

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um our viewers can see you're growing oh they can totally see well that's what's what you get when you take prednisone

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and beer and then bourbon that's right not that we're doing that on tick-tock

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truth be told we don't know if it's allowed anyway um so but we're we're we're actually for for the listeners on

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podcast you you can't really tell and i suppose you can't really tell on on youtube is that we are recording episode

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11 while also doing tick tock live that's right but we are going to do our best to ignore whatever comments uh pop

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up on on uh because really we're about the podcast life we're not about the tick

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tock life anyway tonight's topic what was your friend that list that listens that call

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me cringe i hope you're listening thank you for calling me cringe it gives me a lot to think about

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that's that's we'll leave it at that i i have an employment to keep oh no i'm not mad i'm not i just make myself better

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i'll accept it as constructive criticism shout out i mean not that it's going to change anything about that i'm not

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changing [ __ ] but that's

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shout out to all of our listeners including those that i work with on our on my full-time job

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so all right uh what are today's topics i think i think we said uh we're going to talk about phobias phobias

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uh well how about this phobias entities in addition to

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including but not restricted to masculinity femininity what other unities are there i don't

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know about all that we just kind of we pinpointed it to masculinity and now

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you're now it's your candidates yeah now it's entities masculinity feminine the infinity all the entities no no well all

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right well let's see where we go let's see where where we would go all right uh and then we had oh a third

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topic and uh we're we're calling it prepping but but the question that we are going to

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attempt to answer and this is a good one in our extreme expertise on all subjects matter

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or subject matters is what would it take during a in a pop an

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apocalypse world ending or society collapse situation to maintain our current lifestyles

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or lifestyle how about that uh should we start with that well that's going to take the the bulk

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of it oh yeah let's just tackle the first couple ones and then we'll just we'll go right to that one

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nice you think we're gonna get through two topics and entities without going

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down rabbit holes and then we're gonna cover both them quickly 11 episodes and we haven't managed to not do that so you know yeah

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okay well we'll try let's talk about phobias

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do you have any focus i do but we want to make the our viewers and listeners aware that we're not

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talking about like arachnophobia or you know fear of the dark agoraphobia

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agoraphobia if you're going outside we're talking about homophobia transphobia

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cryptophobia crypt yeah if you're afraid of kryptos you're weird

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[ __ ] weirdo but anyway anywho uh okay what is a phobia

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it is a you you're afraid of something well no i don't mean it's like fear no but i don't okay yes so the psycho

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psychologically yeah that's what the root of that word and then there's a greek greek root right but i mean like

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i'm talking about in the context that we're using like what is what does it take to for

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somebody to be phobic how do you recognize a phobic person

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on how they treat others based on their phobia okay if we're talking about a phobia that involves other people

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yeah and that's what we are talking about so i would say on how they treat others based on that phobia how they interact

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with them if at all or how they go out of their way to avoid

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them since it's a phobia that's what people would usually do is avoid them

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okay you want to pick a phobia sure let's go with homophobia start with

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that one it's the one i can actually what a homo i am it's the one i can actually

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participate in and know at least what i'm talking about okay so as a homo

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talk about homophobia homophobia is stupid it's really i don't even think it's a

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thing i don't even believe homophobia is not a real thing homophobia is just a label that was put on

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people that don't know how to either accept or interact with

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homosexual people but it's not so much a fear more of a hatred

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well that's so but that's the thing though right like but when we when you tack on the word phobia onto anything

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you're you're assuming it's out of a fear people fear homosexuals but only yeah i i think only

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but nobody uses it that way right like nobody uses it that way but the root of it is in a fear sure but whether or not

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used it that way so it's poorly named right like right it is poorly named but but i get what you're saying you're

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right you know people talk about homophobes they're talking about people who hate kids who hate gays or who have a disdain

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who who will go out of their way to avoid them you know and that's not so much of a

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fear as just uh i don't want to have anything to do with them kind of thing yeah

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you know and so but for me homophobia doesn't really

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it's not a fear you either hate gays or you just you don't know how to really interact

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with them in any case i don't give a [ __ ] i think you're you're

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if you're homophobic you're either an antiquated human being you're or you're an [ __ ] or you're a

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religious or you're a religious fanatic because there are religious people who are cool sure or you're just just

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closed-minded you know unwilling to to um learn and educate

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yourself about certain things kind of a person sure but let's just let's talk about

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the people who you described as religious but cool so and those are kind of few and far

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between and even the cool ones you gotta watch because they're sneaky right you know most most republicans i don't

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know you're always saying that most republicans are sneaky but the religious republicans are sneaking

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okay okay but even the ones let's say of the ones that

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are cool right like there's a dip there's a difference and and some some people say some people

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would say that depending on on if they apply their

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coolness to you in person versus either behind your back a behind

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your back or b uh kind of not about you but about people like you well here's but here but

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to that point i don't care what people ever say behind my back

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because there's nothing i can do to control that i can never control what people think of me

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or what their opinions are of me behind my back i can only control on i can only control how i behave in front

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of people and how i present myself to people and whether or not people choose to

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see me in a in a high regard or and respect me or see me as like some [ __ ]

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that they just want to avoid i can't control that i can't control it but we're talking about we're not talking

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about how people treat you and gays well in indirectly we are but we're talking

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about what what is homophobia right i'm talking about people who but to that point nice to your face but then like

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think that basically gays shouldn't be treated equal in society but they can think all they want as long as they don't try to insult me to my face or try

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to treat me with disrespect they can think anything they want and that's the right given right but wouldn't they be

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described wouldn't they be wouldn't they qualify as a homophobe it depends on their interaction with me

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homophobic the way the way is the people who've never met you in your life okay who believe that for example gay

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marriage should not be illegal are they homophobic yes because they're not famous

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but i that's fine but they're not basing that um they're not basing their their um

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beliefs of gays not being able to get married solely on because when you pin listen

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if you were to pinpoint all the things that people do on a daily basis pure you know

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solely on your religious beliefs well you know what then that means that all these um

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self-righteous christians would then we would be still living

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2 000 years ago as far as the mentality is concerned why well how many times does anna wear mixed

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fabric clothing do you have to stone her to death because of it it's in the bible you know what i don't want to lose my

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wife so i bring her within like an inch of death i mean that's kind of normal i get it but i mean that would be what you'd have

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to do you'd have to stone her to death because she's using fabric what if you ate fish on a thursday i can't tell you

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how many times we've had to change the sheet because we've had to put holes in there it's a jewish thing you know i put holes

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in sheets at least five times a day if you know what i mean [Laughter]

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okay all right well listen as a conservative people think my sheets only have two

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holes and i wear them on the weekends and i look through them on the weekends well

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some conservatives would say you you shouldn't be using any of your holes you know what i mean uh yeah listen

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so what i what i um what where was that going he threw me off

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with sheets where are we good you're talking about like how can i treat you so let's say we what

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if you ate fish on mentalities right what if you made fish on a thursday are you supposed to be

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paraded around the middle of town in and humiliated some parts of the world you would be for doing things

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again and and that is and that's that's how they live and that's perfectly okay but that's living

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strictly by bible code now how many of these same people that want to believe

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and live there i mean not believe that's the wrong word because we all a lot of people believe but you know how many of these people

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who are these self-righteous christians going to live strictly based on the

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codes you know written in the bible uh well it depends on who you ask if no nobody right now is

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living well i'll try those goals nobody is stoning people i'll play devil's advocate okay i'll play devil's advocate it's but you can't though

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because i'm about to but you can't because the things in the bible and all these ways of life some of them have

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been even deemed illegal i'm about to you can't you can't stone a person to death because they're wearing nylon and

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polyester so hold on the gay community might get there's a difference between and i'm gonna i'm gonna wear my

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evangelical hat right right now he's breaking up the heads my southern baptist well i mean if you guys tuned in

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last time you saw i had my cowboy hat now i'm wearing my uh my billy graham hat okay

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how you doing i can't ask that okay that's that's cringe that is good anyway

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um okay so i'm wearing that hat right so um you are right that

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today we as christians we don't apply every

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quote-unquote rule everyone's like i don't i want to use the word commandment but

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i'm not talking about this the thing the elements of life living

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life that are dictated according to both the old and new testament we don't do everything in that

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nor do the majority of christians live their life uh uh even close to let's say the way

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jesus did is a good point however here that's another good point and i don't mean to

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interrupt you but these christians got the whole thing confused where they worship jesus but jesus didn't want to

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be worshipped he wanted you to live like him that's right but they all worship jesus and so and if you don't you're a

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piece of [ __ ] well that's what they think of you well it's in incidentally that's what the muslims think that is true and they're really weird

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and they go to a [ __ ] weird extreme throwing people off buildings and [ __ ] you know what they say and beheading two

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wongs can't be a white so

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uh i i that was that meant to be insensitive if anybody yes it was everyone does

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we do we do we absolutely do give give a [ __ ] but um anyway i ran out of [ __ ]

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again so normal that's one of my last names i mean it wasn't my list

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anyway okay so so even though we don't live our lives

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according to every element specified in the whole new testament but it's funny how they want to just paint that

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[ __ ] thing and well that's true but and even though we we by and large don't

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live our lives most people don't live live their lives the way jesus did and wanted people to

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we are still living up to the religion why because jesus said nobody is perfect

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and as long as we ask for forgiveness we can be welcomed to the king of heaven and therefore nothing else matters

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because as long as we ask for forgiveness we're okay

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jesus might drop let's talk about transphobia notice how

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i didn't say anything because there's really nothing to say that that's that's a you said it it's very well said there's

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that's the thing there's no way to counter that isn't it there's there is no way to counter that but i mean again to the point it's like it's it's it's

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really strange how these christians they all want to be so self-righteous and they want to live by these bible rules

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but you really don't do you except for the one thing that you can [ __ ] grasp or like two or three things that they

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really want to grasp you're either all in i'm not speaking of tic tac i was

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watching technique the other day and there's this christian kid he was like 19 year old kid jewish guy actually

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he was on a christian or jewish i'm sorry did i say christian you said a christian kid i meant yourself jewish

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he was a kid he basically knew nothing anyway he was saying he was talking about but you mean like most of these

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blue-haired freaks that are out there he was concerned he was in the blue he was okay yeah but i don't care if he's a conservative you're 19 when you're 19

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you don't know anything that's true you're dumb so let's listen to papa dominic here

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okay so um you don't know anything about life he was saying that

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uh that only god can can take life

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that's what he was saying now somebody was like how do you feel about

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ivf and he's like no i totally support ivf i'm like my comment was but only god can create

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life yeah so you're picking you're saying oh no like in one case you're like only god grew but in another case

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you're saying oh you know humans can create life why wouldn't you be saying only god can create life so his his response in my head

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the way a christian would respond because this is how christians operate so well god intended for these people to

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know how to practice ivf in order for them to create life is like that's right

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weird because i feel like god also taught us how to perform abortions he revealed

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how to perform abortion through through uh through medicine because god wanted those doctors to know how to do that

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that's right 100 percent to some [ __ ] retards logic isn't that isn't that

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great we i don't think we can say that on tick tock i just did it on youtube and

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we don't want to get blocked sorry tick tock we don't we don't have any we don't have any um backup accounts so sorry to take time

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off we don't have any backup accounts we want to we we uh uh praise praise be to tick-tock praise be to tick-tock

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yeah if the algorithm specifically praised me to the tik-tok algorithm praise be to the church anyway we're not

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we're um so okay let's talk about we talked a lot

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about homophobia right so but who cares about the gays let's talk about the trends

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who cares about the game let's talk about the trend that's right well the trans is the new hotness you know what i

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mean like i don't know about that but all right it's the new hot topic that trans is the new 40 how about

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all right uh what's transphobia how about this i'll ask a very important question because i've been thinking about this a lot i've been thinking

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about becoming trans yes here we go uh episode 11 record podcast charles uses is uh uh uh uh from

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charlie what do they call what do they call it it's uh it's not coming out there's another term for like like

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revealing your true self or something like that oh who the [ __ ] you know all these facts that weird [ __ ] that they want to do

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on the weekends who is tick-tock chinese is this

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all right well [ __ ] the people's uh uh republicans no yeah but i was what's the

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[ __ ] the chinese communist party okay so i wonder if i'll get blocked for that

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anyway anyway but until then we're still on well until yeah but i don't want to get lost we're going back up again and

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we just got to a thousand followers so let's talk about let's talk about trends

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if if a cisgendered heterosexual

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man meets a transgendered woman

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and they and she hides her appendage from him like the

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knowledge of his appendage until they uh until the moment that they are going

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to become intimate if you know what i mean until they're going to pop a hole in the sheet okay

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two holes if you think about it because okay cause there's two things going through

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okay now is it fair for her if he freaks out on her well let's say

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let's say he doesn't freak out let's say he's respectful but he sees the pieces he goes i'm sorry i'm just not into that like

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respectfully like look you know your great personality otherwise you're beautiful but i am not into that

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some people would label him a trans folk and those people are [ __ ] up those people are stupid

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listen there's a reason people have

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types of people they're attracted to and there's a reason people are attracted to certain other people

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whether it be the same sex or the opposite sex doesn't matter you have a type that you

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you go after or that you pursue a thousand people of whatever you're attracted to can walk past you

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and you're only going to be focused as one or not or you you can have a thousand people walk past you and your

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own your eyes are only gonna go to those who who you find attractive you have no malice against anyone else it's just uh

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that's what you're into that's right now the the tricky the slippery slope here is it's all like

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what you said on on how they uh respond to it but now

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i get that some people freak out and they go crazy i get it and other people don't like respectfully i don't listen

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hey i didn't know and well i don't okay i don't like it at the same time though the person that hit it

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is is has to be held accountable well that's a weird thing like what are you gonna do sue them but like no no no no no not accountable in that sense yeah

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but no they have to take they did something wrong you're right you have to take responsibility for what you if you

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want people to accept you and fall in love with you and want to date you then guess what if you start and

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forget that you're trans let's just forget that for a second if you start dating somebody and the first thing you

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do to them is lie to them then what are they good you're not setting you're not setting the right precedent to begin with

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you're they're already thinking well [ __ ] they just lied to me about something that's you know this important

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you know this is a major thing what else if they can lie about this thing that's a pretty major thing

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even if they were okay with you being trans that part of the whole thing is now a

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side thing they don't even they're not concerned with it they're more concerned that you went out of your way to lie and

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hide this and now they're reacting based on the lie not the fact that you're trans how

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about this how about another angle for that but they still want to be like oh well you're transphobic no i'm not

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transphobic what you are a [ __ ] liar that's right and i'm not into that now here's another angle the person that

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lied aka the trans person in a way took away

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their supposed partners consent right and their freedom of choice

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that's right you know you so are you going to choose to be with a trans person or are you counting them into

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getting them to a certain point because think of it this way let's say you hide the fact that you're trans if you can

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pass because there's a lot of transfers like jeez but let's say you're a passable trans male to female and you're

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passable and i've seen a ton of them and some of them are extremely beautiful but let's say you still have your your

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your instantly if you want to hang out hit me up okay like share subscribe comment

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on the show but um but let's say you you private show and

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and you get to a point well now you've already because it's nothing short of a con

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and you've got this person now in a situation where let's say you've been on three dates they're still oblivious to

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it but three dates you know let's say the three date rule after three dates you kind of want to have sex now and then sex

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yes s-e-g-g-s and then you get to the bedroom and you realize like whoa like what the hell is

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going on you didn't tell me you were trans oh what difference does it make we've been on three dates yeah it means

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you've lied to me three [ __ ] times i i think as the expression goes i think we've beat that [ __ ] to death yes

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[ __ ] being a rooster um i'm going to say one last thing and i'm going to say it i'm going to summarize

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this in a smart way people oh you respect this is to trans

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trans people i would say uh people always people don't know anybody well i mean as

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oh let's get that out of the way hold on hold on hold on hold on let me make myself clear

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because this is a big thing i have with the gay community i'm gay but i don't expect anybody to either respect me or

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to accept me or to you know accept me into whatever service no if they don't like me that's their

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right to [ __ ] not like me and i don't give a [ __ ] and i can't obligate or expect anybody to respect me just

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because i demanded it because i'm gay so it's so [ __ ] small let's step back

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it depends on what you mean by oh okay people

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in in our free society until that changes and hopefully it doesn't are free

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within reason to treat others how they want right within reason within reason right and

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and something like somebody's assault and harassment no but that's unacceptable yes if you said good morning to somebody and

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they said [ __ ] you they're like okay that's it that's you're right at the same time though at the same time though

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so let's let's kind of qualify the oh the o is like oh it's probably the wrong word

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because it's like well if you owe somebody something you know their repercussions for not not providing anything that you owe okay so

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somebody uh uh speaking in a in a disrespectful way to

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another person generally objectively right unless it was warranted

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is considered unacceptable it's considered rude right it's it's considered bad let's let's be

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let's use very simple actually is it bad versus good you can actually be it can be considered assault even if you don't

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touch somebody right i know that but i'm just talking about like just like oh good morning [ __ ] you and you woke up

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like what a person is a polite person another person is an [ __ ] okay and you have to remember we're from new york so we're used to if you say good morning

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somebody tell somebody told you to go [ __ ] yourself i would never say good morning anybody in new york no you might be in the city

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you mind your business in new york city but i mean if somebody says anything to anybody in new york city and the

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response you get is go [ __ ] yourself that's par for the course new york city [ __ ] that's actually important okay but

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i'm trying to just snap stick with me stick with me most generally more times than not right

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like i've stuck with you for 11 episodes stick and five million to go okay

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so so we mentioned sponsors okay and buyer merch by the way really quick uh i think i'd like our first piece of merch

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to be etched rocks glasses with rocky brain oh that'd be nice that'd be really cool right i think that if personalized one rank your

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brain charlie wreck your brain dumb no no i don't mean merch for us i mean much for other people unless your name

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is char charles or dominic i don't think you want i'd say we only got two listeners charles and david that's it

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that's right and only you you can buy this as gifts for people named charles and dominic or you can buy it for you

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and it won't be professionally done i'm just gonna break down the dremel and just start doing it myself no but i i'd

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like our first piece of merch to be to be uh rocks glasses with with rocky bread podcasts on it uh you know let

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listeners let us know in the comments or dm us you're only allowed to drink bourbon in it

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it's a free country they can drink whatever they then they don't get a [ __ ] glass that's just they don't give a [ __ ] but if you don't like

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bourbon you're verbalist you're a barber fault bourbon bourbon phobic

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okay so okay but generally here's what i'm getting at right like so so o is probably the wrong word but like i'm

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just talking about for versus it would be better for a society if

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people respected one another no of course just hold on

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you just can't demand it go ahead well okay so so starting over i was

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you're not allowed to talk i'm finishing this transphobic transphobic segment okay

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i'm talking people oh you respect and society

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owes you the opportunity to live your life that is the best way for you

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nobody owes you uh uh being attracted to you being into you

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personally uh uh uh wanting or or desiring to have a romantic

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relationship with your romantic and physical relationship with you if there is something about you whatever

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it is that is not within their interest nobody owes you that

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okay think of it this way in the gay community no but i thought you finished but like

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but let's here's why it's weird to me this entire conversation when it comes to this because it's coming from the gay

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community it's coming from the trans community it's coming from that community which i belong to but yet

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if anybody knows anything about that community it's that it's one of the most

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non-inclusive communities you have twinks you have queers you have

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bears you have the woke left is just as exclusive as [ __ ] as the close-minded right if you

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are a queer and you are in a group of queers and you go into uh uh a gay bar

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that's frequented by bears and otters and you start doing or behaving as

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queers behave they will kick you the [ __ ] out because they are not going to tolerate that and furthermore

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if everything is equal if everything being equal if i'm not attracted to a trans person but in your your logic

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you're saying that well you're you're transphobic we're like well i'm not attracted to large burly fat hairy guys either does

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that make me bare phobic i'm not attracted to fat phobic i'm not attracted to extremely hairy other guys

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and no no disrespect at least from this side of the camera no there is no disrespect but it's a it's a real thing well right but

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you know what i was gonna say no disrespect to obese women no well no

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but they in some respect they they treat their people not being attracted to them

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similar ways the trends yes just because people don't find them attractive it's immediate oh well you're fat phobic

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people are just not into just not into that yeah you can be respectful and not be into like that's again taking note

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everybody's going to be in today i'm taking anything forget something physical right yeah let's say somebody's into hiking and somebody is into gaming

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right and the hiker is like oh i don't want to date anybody that games oh what are you you you're discriminatory

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against people who play video games no i just want somebody what is a hiker going to do with a gamer they want to go hiking you want to sit

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on your ass all [ __ ] day there's no compatibility it's just is what it is right it's not

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it's not everybody is going to like you that's right except for me everybody likes me

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silence in the room okay all right i mean i like you but i don't know if your wife likes you she loves

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you she tolerates me she loves you but i don't know if she tolerate is the same thing as like isn't it no no she just

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accepts that you're around and she loves you but doesn't mean that she likes you she

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really likes me anyway but what do you think i'm poking five holes or she five holes in a sheet a day

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by myself you were doing laundry when i got home so this is gonna be something going on

31:39

all right so okay we talked about we talked about a couple of isms or phobias let's talk about this phobia

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the phobia of air conditioning and how i meant to suffer because it is

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[ __ ] boiling in here it has got to be like 85 000 degrees 73 degrees

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73 degrees i need a refill here's what we're gonna do i'm gonna

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pause the podcast and we're back okay much better so let's

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talk about this is really good all the entities

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cheers how'd you give me the fruity pink one because i'm gay yeah okay i don't know ask sam adams why

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they made um why they made it pink this is really good it's like a very light orange is

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how i would describe that very good or grapefruit yeah it's grapefruity

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well it's fruity i get this right here it's fruity for the fruit okay let's talk about entities

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entities what about oddities i don't look out of these they're weird i like oddities

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do you because i'm weird you're weird i like putting my oddity in in unity

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guarantees or somebody's an innie and they're like i wish i could meet an audi today i actually saw porn about that like it was one of those um

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like uh not a blooper porn you ever seen like it's a it's kind of like a com no it's a real porn but it's like a comedy

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porn and this guy was having sex with with an ssb sex and it said

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was having corn ssbbw and he was [ __ ] her giant belly

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button it was hysterical not sexy in the least but he was dick

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was fully in her belly button all the way in there okay all right she moved up everything and shoved in there and she was smiling and

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seeing his whole thing his whole historical entire penis this is okay anyway in her belly button let's talk

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about entities very interesting to watch let's talk about masculinity toxic masculinity is that i think no

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is masculinity sure can masculinity be bad no people are bad masculinity has

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nothing to do with it do guns kill people no do people kill

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people yes do guns with people or people with guns kill people

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no people with guns don't kill people people who use guns to kill people kill

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people but not all people people have guns so a shorter sentence is a person with a gun can kill a person aka

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people with guns copied no i mean it's grammatically you're you're denying grammar here now that's

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not that i'm denying grammar but you're generalizing with the way you're saying it people aren't going to think grammatically i would say certain people

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with guns kill people yeah no i don't mean every by people would go but that's what happened by saying i don't mean

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every person with every person certain people with guns kill people yes

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some people die some people die via bullet that left a gun

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that 99.9 of the time is in the hands of a person yes okay don't

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very simple very simple okay how did we get from masculinity to that

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that's the way we roll here on rocky but that was within like three seconds i don't even know what was my life that

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was all you that was almost all you know it was on me mask oh cause i was like he's masculine

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oh right because i said ken mascu can masculinity be bad and you said no

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and my thought process was well let's look for another example where

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dominic is going to deny grammar and we reached it until you came up with an agreement so uh

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can uh name an element of masculinity an element of masculinity anything that

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is within falls within masculine within versus feminine hmm

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let's see russian not necessarily yeah

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so let's be clear i'm not saying if you are aggressive or masculine i may be gay

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but i consider myself a masculine person because i think i have more masculine traits as far as doesn't matter

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where we're identifying elements name any single element of masculinity don't

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give me an example don't say dominic leon is masculine no i think well masculinity comes it's it's it's how you

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carry yourself when you're a man you know not every man is a masculine man women right so some women can be

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masculine yeah okay so there's nothing to do with being a man no no no that's what i'm gonna do with being a man sure

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it's all based on how you present yourself and how you carry yourself okay you know like i just said it how you present

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yourself and you carry yourself what is interesting one way is that you can present yourself that is masculine well

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if you're a female and you are a masculine female it just let's say it's like a step above

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tomboy you're not you're not giving me an element you're giving examples like i don't it's like saying so be specific on

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what you want me to tell you but we're talking about shoes and i say well you're like well for example you can wear shoes to the beach no describe a

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shoe well it's something you wear on your foot and and it protects you from the ground right like you mean like a

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flip-flop or a slide right which is which is a type of shoe

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but it those are elements of shoes they protect you from the ground okay yeah stick your foot in

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okay so now we're talking about now the topic is masculinity give me 10

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i i i'd settle for one let's go but give me a list of things that are masculine okay well let's say not activities but

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like but all right well let's see like so men usually wear jeans women don't but when women do they some people would

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perceive that as a masculine trait no i i don't believe that genes are not an element of masculinity why don't you

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go ahead and tell me what you want me to say i don't know no no go ahead and say elements of

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masculinity what you want okay aggression is generally seen as

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a an aggressive sorry it's a masculine trait versus a feminine trait why femininity that is not

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this is why this is why i i'm trying to explain construct of of uh of uh concepts to you

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so that's what we're starting the topic is constructive of concepts ladies and gentlemen uh for for for for my

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listeners to say you're listening before

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later on i guess the show is his now it's our show okay you know i'm the

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brains you're the most okay so and a pretty face

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you're the arm candy and the muscle you're the muscle and the arm candy in one okay you're like a pretty bouncer i'm the cringe

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okay so uh a construct of concepts um

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saying that that uh an element of of of one of

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one thing let's say we're talking about a dichotomy right we're comparing one there's only black and white there's

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only masculine and this gives masculine feminine for for this discussion and we're comparing the two

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a variable that is considered part of one because it's

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one of thousands probably is not the same thing as saying

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somebody a an item or entity that that is clearly in the other

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category displaying that one element is automatically jumps categories that's not how i think you're explaining things

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like bill maher you're saying things way too smart for people to really say in the most layman terms possible okay

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you've you've you have um okay we're gonna have to come up with a a

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really weird example okay you have two buckets with me so far two buckets yes in one bucket

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goes red circles and the other bucket goes yellow triangles

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okay it needs three it needs three variables

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to make sense okay bear with me

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red sweet circles sour yellow triangles

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if you have a yellow

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red circle which bag should it go to should probably go with that one because it has

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two of the three right it should go with the with the yellow

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and i already mixed them up but you're following what i'm saying right it has more of one than the other but it still

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has one of the other is it automatically that other thing no it has to do with what do you have more of

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right so back to back to masculinity and femininity aggression is seen as a masculine

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quality are there feminine people who are aggressive yes because it's just one

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quality one variable of thousands that make up the categories of masculinity

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but you also have to expl you know be clear on the construct of aggression because people think aggression they

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automatically think you know the physicality of violence and and you know sure you know

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but that's not that's not entirely what aggression means it's confrontational nature

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even and then that's even that but that would be more of where we're going with that when we say aggression as a

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masculine trait with the confrontational attitude

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so for being from the gay community when a lesbian and

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you know when uh when a lesbian is presented and even lesbians have you know different labels

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for their subgroups and their subcategories there's lipstick lesbians there's you know like the motorcycle

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bull lesbians there's there's i mean there's it's a very strange i mean gays have it women have it it's it's a very

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strange thing but when we and the gay community see a woman with short computer haircutted

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styled hair and you know like say sleeve tattoos and she's wearing jeans and she's kind of on

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the husky side that's that's a masculine woman but in that case

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when it comes to the gay community and this is my opinion because again i've this is what i've seen my entire life

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there are women who are that's how they are but there are also women who that that they try real hard to portray that

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because that's what they think they have to do but the same thing goes for the gay men they they present themselves away because they think that that's what

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they have to do in order to i guess be accepted that butch woman that you're talking about or

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or or i mean and butch and if people are offended by

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butch the lesbian community has a subcategory that they label themselves butch

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yeah but that's their word you can't use that i can use anything i want to use words or words whether they like it or not you either come at me or some

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demographics on words i don't give a [ __ ] words are words you don't like them [ __ ] sue the people who came up with

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them i'm just using words so so let's let's say a a lesbian woman who

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who has the outward appearance

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or or or many of the characteristics out in an outward appearance of of

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of a man okay they're they're they're a woman that identify as a woman let me ask you a

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question if you met a butch [ __ ] and she was what many people would see as

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masculine traits of aggression and confrontational would you not say that she possesses toxic masculinity

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or she is displaying that we're not even we're not even we're gonna get what we're doing forget

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what we're doing just answer that question if a butch bulldog one of these big big you

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know no that's not toxic masculinity but if a man does the same thing also depend

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it depends on whether it's toxic or not and so i i don't know if we were asking

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the right questions but just like anything okay you write the you're like i asked if what's masculine

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do you describe to him like can masculinity be toxic you said no and i said can you masculine be bad and you again you said okay but it take anything

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like like let's just say well can can watching what you eat be bad and you say no of course not well

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what if somebody watches it to the such extent that they're malnourished they're still watching what they eat

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right so in that case it is bad and so i don't i think it would be different when you take things to an extreme in either

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direction it's gonna be bad okay so can masculinity be bad yes can

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femininity be bad yes fair enough okay was that what you were getting at this entire time

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yes when you could have just said that to begin with and then correct me you said you couldn't know but you could

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have just corrected that thing that way saying you're generalizing masculinity saying it can't be bad i'm

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saying does it have the possibility to be bad and then i would have said okay now i understand what you mean yes well

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okay so you understand you just went around your [ __ ] to get together no no no no because because i was i was

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because you would you just went around your [ __ ] to get to your people because

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people define things i don't know how to explain this

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you you've never you've never heard somebody's like asked like oh give me can you describe x

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and their response is you know can you describe a phone and they're like

45:45

for example i make phone calls with it like they're they're they think in their

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head they're describing something so they're just kidding what else are we talking about here so where were we

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because i think we're losing track over over a very semantic [ __ ] and we're losing track of it's not semantic if you

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cannot so masculinity can be bad okay masculine can be bad and so can femininity sure

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okay um is something that is toxic bad

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can something that's toxic be good no i don't think so now so masculinity can be bad

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and something that is toxic is bad there's almost zippers zero let's put

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nature of the word toxic meaning stay away that's right so can masculinity so can masculinity be

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toxic yes okay now the the theme of many things that we

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talk about is that a good idea can be taken to an

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extreme and be made negative right 100 right so like when we talked about you know taking

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taking sexual uh assault uh allegations seriously but not to the extent of

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immediately penalizing the accused yeah you can't be reactionary you're gonna have to like dive into what happened if

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you really wanna you know if you have to make a judgment on something you can't just make a a you

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know a knee-jerk reaction response to it okay you have to dive i mean we're seeing that with the whole

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amber her johnny depp thing where disney got rid of johnny depp purely on an op-ed that amber heard wrote

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and without and they didn't even bother to dive into what was going on yes and they got rid of them and now we're all

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finding out from amber heard his own mouth after she denied writing it she was the author of it it's on the [ __ ]

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thing and then disney right now i'm sure they're probably they haven't made any public

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statements but i'm sure they're like [ __ ] like i can't believe we jumped the gun so early when we could have

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given him the benefit of the doubt at least spoken to him about it but no and now i'm sure they're just thinking

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about all the money they're losing off the pirates of the caribbean franchise oh right and i he he shouldn't if they

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go back to him that he shouldn't well you know i think he's already said like there's no amount of money in the world that you know for me

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so okay so that's we're talking about masculinity so so people and this is mostly on the left

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um will look at a you know a man or somebody who

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identifies as a man acting a certain way and say oh see that's that's toxic masculinity

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well just because or well let's let's let's keep it simple for those in the audience who are simple

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sometimes it's not an expression of masculinity that is resulting in somebody acting like an [ __ ]

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sometimes they're just an [ __ ] but sometimes it's the people can be being themselves and they're not being

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toxic masculine people because i think toxic masculinity is also very subjective to

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the person that they're interacting with because what one person can perceive as toxic masculinity another person could

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say no that's just that's i don't have any problem with it and those two people can be from the same community but one person perceives

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it one way another perceives it another way now that perception is what [ __ ] everything up because your perception

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and the grand scheme of the world doesn't matter unless that person is being offensive

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directly to your face and trying to to mess with you what they're doing on a

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normal basis shouldn't be a problem so that's the thing that

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not all masculinity is toxic masculinity right and not all masculinity is bad

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we need masculine men and women well i mean the

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the world needs how about this the universe needs needs balance yeah and and whether or not somebody who

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identifies as a man regardless of whether or not they have a penis is masculine or feminine but remember what it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of

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things remember what i said if we need masculine people whether they're male or female we need masculine people and we

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need feminine people but here's why i say people because we also need masculine women the reason i'm saying

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this is because there's a lot of girls that they you know young girls

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that grow up and they need female role models but the role models shouldn't

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always be the housewife with the dress cooking you an apple pie sometimes you need that rough and tough i don't give a

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[ __ ] attitude woman that's ready to do whatever she needs to do to survive in this world and she needs to do whatever

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she whether she is no no no i'm not that's don't put words in my mouth listen to what i'm saying

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a woman that has an attitude to where she is not going to let things get in her way to accomplish her life goals

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meaning if she's at meaning no they don't because they've already consented to staying at the house and

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being a housewife that's their goal that and that's a good goal but you're you're putting words in my mouth and you're

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interrupting the sentence we need masculine women for the single girls who

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need masculine role models in order to grow up as stronger women to be whatever

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they want to be but also strong as far as their competency strong as far as

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their their their their willing to you know not have to be subservient to

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anyone else to be independent there is nothing wrong with the woman who wants

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to marry anybody they want and play the role within that relationship

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but if they want to remain single for the rest of their life and are able to and they don't need to be with anybody

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else because they are so independent and so strong that they're able to take care of themselves that's the type of people

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that need to be around and when it comes to women i think more women should learn

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that ultimately you can love who you're with but you don't need to be with anybody if

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you don't choose to be if you're strong enough to learn these things to be on your own if that's what you choose to do

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if you choose to be on your own then guess what you have to learn how to do certain things

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you know change your tire do physical masculine type [ __ ] does it make you a masculine person it just

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means you're doing masculine things we need those type of women to teach other women

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and it doesn't take away from them being feminine it doesn't take away if they want to be a housewife that's great

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but again let's take your wife for example she's not masculine but she is not a

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subservient person by any means i am the king of this house you are the king of this house but anna is a strong

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person who was a very smart person and if anna was on her own i know i don't

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see anna struggling in the least bit with anything that's presented in front of her because she's a strong-willed

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person as far as that's the anna that i know and if she doesn't know how to do something i promise you anna will figure

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out a way to get it done whether she needs to contact somebody or figure it out on her own but she's got that

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but you know what i mean you get it now that that's where i was going yeah but let's let's go back to a couple

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of things that you said you said little girls need role models

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not like housewives no

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you put in the housewife part and that's why i said don't interrupt the sentence because that's not where i was going i

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got help if the if the housewife is a role model for some young girls that's perfectly fine

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but assuming the person chose to be a housewife but that but again but i said that i already said assuming that's that

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was their goal but now that's but it goes against what i'm tr the point i'm trying to make a housewife can be a role

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model but it's taking away from what i just said because a housewife just by calling them a housewife already

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puts them in this subservient place in in the relationship so they can only be

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a role model to other girls who aspire to be housewives that's not what the housewife is

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interpreted as being somebody who is dedicated their life to be in the

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house and raising the family but they if they need something they're going to go to their significant other they're getting

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of conservatives and and and and feminist liberals that that would

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disagree with with with what you're saying so you're saying that women need to be in the kitchen and quiet what i'm

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saying is i mean in a perfect world but in a perfect world women need to be

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in the kitchen and quiet charles pugh said it's j k j k but um there's always truth and

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jokes well there's a little bit you know i mean look it's it's not about it's not about women women or men it's just that

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you know sometimes sometimes it's better when when spouses uh are

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are um not uh i don't know in your face all the time

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okay so no should they be so therefore it's it's okay for for for them to be quiet in the kitchen sometimes because

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if they're in the kitchen and quiet they're not in in the same room as you uh are they also barefoot and pregnant

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isn't that a book or a show anyway no i'm thinking orange is the new black

55:25

how did you get orange is the new black from barefoot and pregnant no clue wow

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anyway and there you have it folks charles fields a toxic masculinity

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hi i thought there was no such thing we didn't say there was no no we

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stopped i feel like if i hadn't if i hadn't redirected you you would have you would have said there's no such thing no

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i wouldn't have said that but i i think there's there are plenty of people who would disagree i think that housewife

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automatically means subservient like the there are many people

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then i'll answer this question then why is it and why isn't it a house husband and the wife is out there working there

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right but we don't acknowledge that and if the woman if the woman is the one bringing in the money and she is the

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breadwinner and she pays the rent or she pays the mortgage and she pays the car note and she pays the bills

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what what part does the husband play if he's the house husband what do you mean

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taking care of the house the kids cleaning cooking cleaning cleaning the washing machine does most

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of the work you press the button cleaning you you're marginalized hold on no no

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cleaning you mop and sweep guess what if you lived alone it's what you would have to do anyway

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and kids kids are your responsibility whether you like it or not so you taking care of them you chose to have them

56:53

let's play that game you chose to have them um because that's where we're at in 2022

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you you know choice you chose to have them not on your board i know but you know but that was as far as two days

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ago and we're talking about you know the majority of existence not official but you have them

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regardless you have them so you have two choices be a scumbag and don't feed them clothe them or take care

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of them or do the responsible thing which is what you're supposed to do listen being a

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responsible human being doesn't mean you're going to get a [ __ ] medal for doing all the things that you're supposed to be doing oh i cook and clean

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guess what so you have to eat then you're going to cook so being a house spouse is not a worthwhile endeavor

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it is if that's what your goal is but it doesn't mean that it's going to not be a subservient role

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i would side on on on the side of many including many conservatives and liberals that no it's

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not a subservient role it is one half of a division of one half of how a particular couple or

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sometimes throughput uh has has divided the labor of life

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some people divide the labor of life by both people working and then having the income to pay other people to

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do those things other people want want at least one of the

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typically two to be home usually with with the kids if you have

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kids if you have kids that's right um that's actually a good question i wonder how many ha people choose to be house

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people and the spouse is okay with them being house people if there are no kids in the

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picture i i would i would think it's a majority that being said

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i know for a fact that it's a minority because i i've actually had family members and from exes that i've dated

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has family members that that was the case and

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didn't go it didn't go well in any of those situations no because it's really like the value is

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not in taking care of the kids but in one of the two parents no no always being around forget forget the kids it's

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you the example you said if there's cases where you know a married couple one is always

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at home while the other one is being is going out there and working and and there are no kids and they're

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comfortable with it my answer is no from a lot of people that i know that are in this situation their marriage is either

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dissolved they get divorced or they hate each other's guts that's right and it has a perceived value right and it's

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usually the person that's working comes home and just wants the [ __ ] railroad the person sitting on their ass doing

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absolutely nothing that because i'm going to say the same thing that i said before because the value

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more times than not for the opposite for the for the for the the families that have a parent at home with the kids

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isn't that the person is there cooking and cleaning and doing house stuff the perceived value is the amount of

1:00:00

time that that at least part of the parental unit is spending with the kids that's the

1:00:06

majority of the value as most people would say you take that away what the [ __ ] are you sitting at home

1:00:12

for us what is what are you doing no that being said like some people just

1:00:17

want a trophy spouse and but usually those people are making a ton of money but yeah but a lot of times in one

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one of when one of the two is staying at home doing absolutely nothing while the other

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one is working the one that's working is saying this [ __ ] person is probably cheating on me

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because think about it they have all the time in the world to do whatever they need to do while i'm here busting my

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[ __ ] ass trying to make this money what are they doing so i'm gonna come home and say oh i was

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you know cleaning the kitchen all day [ __ ] took you eight hours to clean the kitchen really okay what else

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did you did you go anywhere oh i went to the mall the mall oh would you buy nothing so you drove 10 miles to the

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mall didn't buy [ __ ] how long did did it take you see this is where things this is why marriages and

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those situations where one person stays home doing nothing while the other one is working these are the type of questions you're going to get what'd you

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do all day where'd you go who would you see what were you doing who are you with why because that distrust

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is there some people who make a lot of money like this is typically men

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want a trophy wife that that stays home now the the value

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proposition in in those cases are built around what at least for the guy

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what what the i mean it's it's both right it's clearly the the woman lives lives in

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comfort doesn't have to work and and probably has lots of nice things because the person is rich

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what is the what is the other person what does that cost her though what does it come to her as a cost

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what is the cost for her for those levels of comfort and the ability to stay home it's it's i wouldn't describe

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it as a cost but the value proposition in terms of what what everything has a cost

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because and i'm not always talking about monitoring i know that but again it's it's

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when we're talking about um division of of

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i don't say partnership but like when it's when it's what what is the

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value division household no but it's like what is the household

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what does the desired household look like for two people okay for some people it looks like

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as much money as possible coming into the households and then both people work and then you know whatever their

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personal life is but like in the case where a very rich man wants a very attractive

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trophy wife to stay home and not and do nothing else right

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the the woman the value proposition is is she gets to stay home and not work

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from his perspective there are certain things that she that she still needs to uphold as part

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of the value proposition typically staying attractive yes and having the

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type of i know this is where you were getting at i just disagreed with the verbage that you were using um but

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ultimately we got here which is that that like she needs to stay hot and give him sex assuming that that's something

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that he's into the cost also because even though people associate cost with a monetary you know

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number no i mean a lot of times this is where i was going here's the thing you're not going to

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always find prince charming to be the one that gives you all these things that you want so

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the trade-off here's the better i guess the trade-off is where did i disappear i have to

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settle for this troglodyte ogre looking [ __ ]

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even though i don't want to but i mean and that's not always the case obviously but we've seen it happen i have to

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settle for this troglodyte ugly overlooking [ __ ] that probably crawled under some bridge but while he

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was crawling under the bridge he stumbled across a lot of [ __ ] money and guess what that money's going to get

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me the things i want i want to stay home i want to be with the kids if he gives me kids i

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want to you know be that trophy wife for them and i want to always be presented in front of his friends to look pretty

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and blah blah blah blah and the cost is i have to let this ogre [ __ ] climb up on top of me whenever

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he wants or behind me and in the meantime while he's not climbing on top of me i have to

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remain desirable for him to want to climb on top of me and i have to allow this [ __ ] animal

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to breathe on me climb on top of me or behind me whenever he wants that is a cost

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that is a cost it doesn't have to be a ma a number value but it is a trade-off

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a cost that some women have to endure in order to get what they want

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that's the thing i disagree with the verbiage of cost but yes that is that is something you can

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disagree with all you want but the the because people associate the word cost with a monetary value that's how i

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disagree it costs your your dignity it's at the cost of your dignity it's at

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the cost of your you're trading your dignity in order to get whatever it is that you are willing

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to to you're sacrificing in some cases it's not in every case but in a lot of

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cases we see that this is the thing and again you know

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you don't even have to be an ogre you might be a a beautiful man but your personality is that of a of a

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horse's rectum i feel like if even if you somebody is very wealthy

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you kind of have to be an [ __ ] to tell most people are sociopaths

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because to get to where they got most i didn't say all so there's a lot of well and there's you

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can look up these statistics if you want most successful wealthy people are sociopaths to a degree

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because they've learned that they cannot be nice to everybody they can't be agreeable to everybody they've been

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learning they don't have the capacity to to think like like other people that's kind of a definition of sociopath but

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i i'm just i'm thinking about the way that you phrase that there

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they have done studies and there are a lot of sociopaths in the in high functioning

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i'm not saying they're bad people right no nor are they they're not serial killers but like but the expression for

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those individuals that for some pre for for some people and i admit i never

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remember the difference between sociopath and psychopath but for some people the expression of that is being a

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murderer and some people like uh the expression that for others

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is knocking everybody the [ __ ] out of their way as they as they as they climb up the

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ladder of so here's here's the definition of psychopaths and sociopaths just from a psychological point of view remember

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i've got the degree in psychology so i'll make it very simple you didn't pay for it whatever the army didn't know if it was a government paper it doesn't

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it's irrelevant who paid for it i still have to go to school and get the degree they didn't just hand it to me because they paid for it i had to go and study

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and get good i actually had to see what i'm saying you get good you need to be able to apply it sometimes it did cool yeah no it costed

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there was a cost associated to it thank you taxpayers um thank you gi bill

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uh but thank you for your service oh my thank you for your service

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so psychopaths usually when they look to kill people or look to

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do harm to other people will that is their main goal but they will take the time in order to properly think

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think it through because a psychopath when you so there there's crazy

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which people generalize but it's not crazy is like say if i'm a serial killer but i just want to kill people however i

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can just kill them no matter what i'm a mentally

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sick just murderer it's not a psychopath though psychopath is calculative they

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think about things that's why most psychopaths who are serial killers tend to kill people

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all of their victims the same way they'll pick a they'll pick a type of victim

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they'll pick a you know a type of person to pursue usually it's the saint john wayne gacy young men you know

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uh jeffrey dahmer young gay men particularly particularly black men

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you know um you're safe

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and then psychopaths will think it through they'll typically murder you in one way

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they use one method and it's a whole planned out situation sociopaths on the other hand

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lack empathy sociopath i thought they both lacked but what i mean is when it comes to but

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they're not they're they're not gonna kill you so sociopaths when it comes to let's say a ceo of a corporation has to

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be when a ceo of a corporation is at that level you have to become

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sociopathic to a degree because if you fire right 100 200 employees that affect

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lives right so you have to take your feelings and your empathy out of what you're doing

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in order for your business to properly function and to some degree you've already accepted that i am the ceo so

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guess what no matter what i do more times than not people are going to

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perceive me as the bad guy anyway the the the way we got on this was i

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just i'm not sure what percentage you sell a lot i don't know i'm curious i'd be curious we could find well i didn't i

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didn't want to say a certain percentage because i don't know the exact percentage but i mean statistics show

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that most high-level successful people in this world are sociopaths to a degree well we'll

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we'll fact check that our or listeners fact the fact that that for us i'll show them i'll i'll double check later i

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i just don't know if it's a lot or the majority i think it's there's they're definitely up there like

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they're definitely um but we were where we were going what so that's a dif that's the difference

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between psychopaths and sociopaths amber heard is a sociopath that also and that's not an opinion

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that's a fact look at the behavior patterns that also um rounds out masculinity

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while we finished that with masculinity that ended up in sociopaths that ended masculine apocalyptic prepping

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okay uh we have and we don't have a lot of time because you have to you have to pick up

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okay so let's do five minutes first thing i get is a gun

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i mean yeah but you already have actually you don't that's right so that's the first thing i get yes first thing i would get actually

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is a functioning vehicle second thing i would do is come to charlie's house

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to see if he's alive which he probably is and get one of his guns

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but then make myself valuable enough to him to where he would allow me to stay here

1:11:35

because this would be the preferable place to be and not where i am currently staying uh as we've established you're

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the beautiful muscle okay so um the reason being is because if you have you ever seen charlie's other

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channel about permaculture i don't know doesn't matter i've been very focused on

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this plug it in there all right uh my permaculture journal check it out on youtube uh so

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okay there's we're not we're not gonna solve this in in five minutes right but let's try to define a lifestyle when i

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when i say our lifestyle like we we have the same lifestyle in the sense that it's western we rely on electricity and

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we require you know air conditioning and refrigeration um uh vehicular transport you know

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internal combustion or vehicular transport um

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alcohol right alcohol tobacco form of bourbon and cigars

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um what else like food on demand right so

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i mean there's there's that's generally what i mean like a western and so what what what would our lives look like

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as close to this as possible minus working right at a job because we're not going to need money anymore

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minus internet because i i don't think it's going to be i don't think there's going to be a way

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to for for a single household to maintain internet like that's just not the grid would be completely shut it would be

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non-existent right even if this house had electricity like there would be the servers other most servers would go down

1:13:09

right like the internet as we know it would be good okay most of the houses that would have any kind of electricity

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would be because they have some sort of a solar or wind turbine backup system with batteries and

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an engine what's the word on generator like a generator diesel generator some some way to produce

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electricity but then you have to make sure you have enough diesel was as opposed to solar and wind you that's

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always going to be around well but but but solar panels do great after 20 20 or 30 years right so that's how we'd be

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dead maybe but well we'd be in somebody else's house we have solar panels that we found what about our kids

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i don't have any kids oh i'm going to have a harem as soon as the apocalypse sits i'm going to recruit and anna knows this

1:13:50

my wife knows this i'm getting a harem now if you're trans male to female and you're passable and you're i'm taking

1:13:56

harem applications please hit me up please please hit me up on all the social media

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channels yeah if you're a female to male and you think i'm i'm attractive don't bother

1:14:08

female 2 don't care well he likes the d

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he likes the d with the rest of the things that go in it because they'd go with it because he's he's he's all about

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the the masculine masculine male d but not michael i like all the

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toxins not masculinity no not bears no no toxic yes bears [ __ ] yeah stay home

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if you even have a home you probably gonna [ __ ] what other elements of of lifestyles there's internal combustion engine

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uh there's there's food on demand well i mean i think the fact that we that when we're talking about our lifestyles we're

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of course we're talking about you and i you know and the things that we already do yeah but what let's be specific about us

1:14:51

because we're talking about our lifestyles because our lifestyles is not everybody else's lifestyles and we're

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we're probably more adept to doing things in certain first survival than

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other people would be for example we go hunting you know right so food which is part of

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our lifestyle but at that point it would be enhanced we'd have to do it a lot more it would be required it would no

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longer be just like it wouldn't be it wouldn't be a choice but this is a necessity when you talk about just like

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if you're talking about out of the entire planet most people in the west live

1:15:27

much more similarly to each other than they do other parts of the country right so it's fair to say that we have pretty

1:15:34

much the same lifestyle as from that perspective from a necessity perspective um

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necessity into a certain extent leisure as as the rest of a lot of lazy comforts

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that's right okay so again we we want we want electric light bulbs we want to be

1:15:50

able to go into our fridge and get food now there's some things that we're not going to be able to get food that doesn't grow in my growing

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region or it doesn't tolerate it not going to get that that's just the reality

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if i don't plant something now that i don't have yet planted

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and the apocalypse hits i'm never going to see that that's not going to get rough right well i'm saying like even if it tolerates

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this area but i don't have it now if the pog the moment the apocalypse hits it's not like i can get it yeah you can't buy the seeds now yeah exactly find that

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[ __ ] you have to actually find it growing somewhere and then all right let's try it right so okay so maybe maybe

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but the odds are very low sure and do i want to drive to florida or or new york just for some seeds right

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probably not so um so that's that's the food that i am accustomed to the variety

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will decrease but whether or not i have it at my fingertips

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is is something that's doable right and so when we say like what would it take to maintain that that's that's one of

1:16:55

the things that we we can talk about right um

1:17:01

even even like driving right like gasoline degrades after after two years

1:17:06

so will electric cars are going to be [ __ ] useless well actually unless you have solar

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solar panels and you can produce electricity think about charging did apps i should have thought about that absolutely absolutely right so now if

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the code sits before i have an electric vehicle i'm [ __ ] unless i can acquire them i'm i want to get that electric

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hummer because i want solar panels and i want to [ __ ] charge that [ __ ] up and i

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wanna i know it looks stupid which is part of what the reason i want it i want to be a toxic masculine gay man

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that's stupid you'd be not only would it be toxic toxic [ __ ]

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you would look you would look dumber than you already do and with that ladies and gentlemen may

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