Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share.
It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed.
BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure.
BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
Chastity Queen xoxo
Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
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Welcome to 2024. You have tuned into My podcast. This is Chastity Queen, and I wish you all a wonderful year. I had a lovely holiday and I have been just itching to get back to episodes, so I'm very, very excited to do my first one in 2024, January 2024. So I'm going to start with an interesting format.
Speaker 1:Today I want to do a little bit of a discussion on being a submissive in 2024. So that is something that I know can be nerve-wracking for somebody who might just start to realize their desires, or those who have been doing it for years. And today and for the whole year, what I want to do, my goal, is to pump you up and make you the best submissive or DOM or switch that you could ever imagine yourself to be. It's possible, absolutely possible, and I just think that sometimes you need a little bit of support and inspiration to keep you on the right track. So let's start. Let's start this journey. You know there are lots of episodes that I have created that you can turn to for a deeper dive into different topics or a deeper dive into my experiences, and you can learn a lot from those. But I think it's very important that we start this year off right, and the right way to do it is easy and task-driven, and that's what I want to do this year is I want it to be easy for you to be the best that you can be as a submissive in any role in BDSM, and that will include DOMs, that will include subs, that will include switches, that will include slaves, that will include, you know, any kind of fetish that you think of that you can enjoy, that you do enjoy, maybe you want to explore. But today I want to talk about the overall subject of submission. Okay, so you have the desire, it's there, it's strong, and you want to practice it, and I want you to practice it too as a female DOM. I really, really, am looking for men and women who are submissive to embrace that role.
Speaker 1:And here's the key Don't give up, don't quit. You know you're not gonna find your partner the first year. Maybe you're lucky, maybe you find the first partner, you know, the first time you go on a date, but that's not the common situation for most. I think that for some and for many, it can take years. Now don't let that get you down, because when you have a goal, when you are focused on that goal and you have me right beside you on that journey. Yes, you do. You can accomplish anything that you put your mind to. So if you have the submissive nature that's natural for you, then you're already on a good first step, and all you need to do now is to get into groups, talk, discuss, network.
Speaker 1:It's no different than being a success in business, and I know many of you are successful in other areas of your life. Now it's time to put your focus in on the things that you have been challenged to achieve, to attain, and being a submissive can be one of those things. I don't want you to quit. This year is going to be pivotal. I feel it Even personally. I can sense that this year is going to be different, not only for me, but for those around me, and I want you to grab onto that positive energy and I want you to take it and run with it, because it is time for you to find your joy, your happiness, and you deserve it. You really do, and you may find that every other aspect of your life will start to fall into place when you find your joy in that role in the bedroom or in the dungeon, or at the event, with a dom with a sub, whatever the case might be. You know what.
Speaker 1:This is your year, so what I want you to do this time today is I want you to sit down, okay, and I want you just to take five minutes. That's all I want. I want you to sit down for five minutes with a pen and paper and I want you to write down these words. I am submissive and I want, for the next five minutes, for you to write that over and over and over again. Write as many as you can, cram into that five minutes, put an alarm on, set a timer on the microwave on your phone, whatever the case might be, and I want you to handwrite it and do it as many times as possible. When that five minutes is up, I want you to take a look at that page and I want you to absorb that page visually, look at it and realize that this is something you want to be and this is something that you are. You are submissive, so that's your task. I mean, it's a simple thing five minutes and if you have the ability to do that every single day in between episodes and I'm going to be creating more smaller episodes to keep things task-driven, to keep you focused, to keep your attention, because I have been long-winded in a lot of my episodes and, while I do enjoy discussing things thoroughly, I think it's time that we get right to the meat and potatoes of the situation. Forget the appetizers, it's the meat and potatoes.
Speaker 1:This year you will find your Dom. This year you will find her or him or them. Maybe you'll find more than one Dom. The key element is this If you tell yourself you can't, you won't. So all I want from you is to think about the possibilities of being successful in this arena. If you've been successful in other areas, then you can be successful here as well. If you've found that other areas in your life are struggling, you're having difficulty with those things, by changing your mental attitude, even just in this area of your life, it could have a domino effect, an impact on your personal, business, financial, home, life, whatever the case might be. So you know there's a balancing act here. There really is, and I know that you can achieve it. So, five minutes, put the timer on.
Speaker 1:I expect you to follow this, to do as I say. You may not have a Dom right now, but essentially you're listening to one. I will become your Dom from today on. Yes, I will. I will be your mentor, your trainer, your guide, and you know what I'm telling you something. I'm here for it. I want to be and I want you to be happy, and I know that you can find that joy and I will do the same. I will have some of my more extensive episodes where I talk about my journey and my continued search for a pleasure partner and how that's going. So you're still going to get that, but I want to sprinkle in a lot of tasks.
Speaker 1:So today you have your task. Follow it, look at it and you know what's going to happen. You're going to look at it the first time you do it. You're going to say, well, that's nice, but I don't see myself as a sub or ever finding my Dom. When you hear that message in your head, guess what? Turn it around and say hold on inner voice. You're being negative. Anything can be achieved if I think more positively. And you're going to look at that page again and you're going to say to yourself Chastity Queen has asked me to do this and I am going to make her happy, I am going to please her and I will succeed at any cost. So you're going to have those messages still coming to you.
Speaker 1:It's not going to go away in the first task, but as we chip away and chip away, you're going to find things are turning around, probably by spring. Your internal messaging is going to change. You're going to see more opportunities. You're going to search for more opportunities to get involved, to meet people, to network. And maybe you are shy, that's okay. You can stay online. You can talk to people online. You can stay behind the computer screen, no problem.
Speaker 1:Whatever it takes to break that, to get you out of your shell, you know, to poke your head out and say, hey, I'm here and I'm worth it. So, as usual, you can go to my link tree backward slash Chastity Queen for all of my links. You can look on the podcast here for that information. You can write a review for me. I would appreciate it. I'm going to keep these episodes to a minimum, a smaller amount, so that it's quick and easy to listen and then quick and easy to do a task, complete the task, and I will be talking to you again very soon. Trust me on that. So thank you for your patience as well. Bye for now.