Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub.
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It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes.
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BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community.
I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.
Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book!
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BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be.
There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"
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Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen
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Well, hello my darlings, it is episode three of Diaries of a Domme, plus questions answered with Me, Chastity Queen. Thank you for listening. Today I'm going to do a little story time. I haven't done one for a while and I think it's high time that I do so. Today I'm going to be talking about a sissy and his mistress. It will be a love story theme and I hope you enjoy. So let's get going.
Speaker 1:Once upon a time in a quaint town there lived a young man named Oliver who had an unusual but fulfilling job as a sissy maid in the house of a remarkable woman named Victoria. Victoria was an elegant and successful businesswoman who valued order and cleanliness in her life. She hired Oliver not just for his cleaning skills but for the unique touch he brought to her household. Oliver, a kind and gentle soul, a submissive, embraced his role with great enthusiasm. He wore a frilly pink maids uniform, complete with a lacy apron and a dainty cap. His everyday routine was a symphony of tidying and organizing and ensuring every corner of Victoria's home sparkled. Victoria, recognizing Oliver's commitment to his duties, treated him with kindness and respect. She appreciated the extra flair he brought to his tasks, turning the mundane into a delightful experience. Oliver's dexterity with a feather duster was unmatched, and his ability to arrange flowers brought life and color to every room. One day, as Oliver meticulously dusted the shelves in the living room, he stumbled upon an old, forgotten photo frame. The photograph inside revealed a younger Victoria smiling alongside a man who seemed to be a long lost friend. Intrigued, oliver couldn't help but ask about the photo. Victoria, with a nostalgic twinkle in her eye, shared the story of her late husband, a man who had a penchant for dressing up and embracing the extraordinary. Oliver found himself captivated by the tales of their adventures, the laughter they shared and the memories that lingered in each corner of the house. As time passed, a bond formed between Victoria and Oliver that transcended the employer-employee relationship. Victoria began to see Oliver not just as a sissy maid but as a companion who brought joy and a touch of the extraordinary back into her life. One day, victoria decided to host a small gathering at her home. With Oliver's assistance, the house transformed into a dazzling spectacle, with vibrant decorations and delectable treats. The guests were enchanted by the charming sissy maid whose flair for hospitality stole the show. As the evening unfolded, victoria realized that Oliver had become an integral part of her life, not just for his cleaning duties but for the warmth and companionship that he offered. Their unique connection proved that sometimes the most unexpected friendships can bring immeasurable joy and fulfillment. And so, in the heart of that quaint town, a remarkable woman and her sissy maid continued to create a home filled with laughter, love and the magic of embracing life's extraordinary moments.
Speaker 1:The End Now. This is part one, and I will be continuing with the story of Victoria and Oliver further. But today I wanted to stop at this point and just emphasize that there are moments in our life where we immediately expect that if we become a submissive, that we will automatically fall into a relationship of love and erotic pleasure and kinkiness and fetishes. But sometimes these attachments, these connections, are part of what I discussed in the last episode networking. Go to events, dress up if you want, if you're able, if you can, if the dress code allows, do it, take the risks, and you're not going to immediately be partnered up with somebody for life. I mean, that's not how solid relationships begin. No, it's little by little. So continue with your task, continue with your networking. Go into FetLife, join a group, join 10 groups, whatever your desires are, whatever you're looking for, there are groups for those specific things and I'm telling you you're not going to regret it, you really are not. Put yourself out there. Unless you put yourself out there, you will never know what could have been, and there's nothing worse than regrets, missed opportunities. And you're not going to go to these events and immediately fireworks start to go off and music begins to play in the background and it's like a movie and everything's perfect.
Speaker 1:No, I think a lot of the submissives that I saw, who were often failing at finding what they needed, what they wanted, what they desired, were often those who were complaining, who were, I guess, I hate to say, whining, but a lot of them were winers. You have to stop. I'm not saying you're a whiner, but the ones that I met, a lot of them would get upset. They would kick up a little fuss, they would have a temper tantrum. They would often come and complain to me because maybe the mistress that they were with didn't give them the full play session that they were hoping for, and yet they came with a mistress. They already had one foot in the door, they had to do the work and there is nothing that I could do other than maybe offer them a little further play on a cross or a bench or a spanking scenario, whatever they needed to make them feel better. I was always a confidant for those ones and I had always said to them don't give up, you have to try harder.
Speaker 1:Sometimes it's not about how hard they try, even. It could be that they aren't expanding their network, they're not bridging out to others. Maybe they have a specific look, a specific type that they are hoping to engage with. Maybe they want someone who's taller than them or who has dark hair, or who fits a certain stereotype or a certain fantasy that has been in their mind. You have to understand that when you taste some of the other options, those options can actually replace your old wishes, your old desires, your old style, your old types. In their place comes something fresh and new and exciting, something you've never considered.
Speaker 1:It's very important that you start this year by networking. You know you're submissive. It's in your heart, it's in your soul. It's what you want to do. You know you want to be dominated. It's in your heart, it's in your soul, it's what you know you want. So just because you're submissive doesn't mean you cannot achieve those things. You can be focused and you can go and you can do this. With my help, you will achieve a lot this year. So stay focused. Today I want you to join some groups on FetLife. It's a free, kinky online website. You don't have to put yourself out there, you don't even have tech photos, but you can go at least, at the very least, and look at the groups and get some feedback, get some information, have some questions, put them down, post them. You might find events that are happening. Start to join, start to attend, get out of your shell. Anyway, that's today's episode. Hope you enjoyed and I will finish off part two tomorrow. Bye for now.