Have you ever entertained the idea of surrendering ultimate control to your partner? This episode, hosted by the ever-passionate Chastity Queen, pulls back the curtain on the intriguing world of chastity and its transformative power in relationships. You'll find out why bestowing the gift of control and becoming a keyholder isn't just a physical thrill; it's a profound act of trust that can bind you and your partner in new, electrifying ways. We dive into the heart of what makes chastity a game-changer in intimacy, from sparking curiosity to breaking the monotony of daily life.
Whether you're a seasoned player in the power dynamic scene or simply curious about expanding your pleasure palette, this conversation is your invitation to a world where play, trust, and surrender can lead to an exhilarating journey of discovery with your partner.
Have you ever entertained the idea of surrendering ultimate control to your partner? This episode, hosted by the ever-passionate Chastity Queen, pulls back the curtain on the intriguing world of chastity and its transformative power in relationships. You'll find out why bestowing the gift of control and becoming a keyholder isn't just a physical thrill; it's a profound act of trust that can bind you and your partner in new, electrifying ways. We dive into the heart of what makes chastity a game-changer in intimacy, from sparking curiosity to breaking the monotony of daily life.
Whether you're a seasoned player in the power dynamic scene or simply curious about expanding your pleasure palette, this conversation is your invitation to a world where play, trust, and surrender can lead to an exhilarating journey of discovery with your partner.
Thank you for tuning in to Diaries of a Dom, plus questions answered with me Chastity Queen. So today I want to talk about chastity. Yes, that is the crux of who I am, and there are many reasons. You've heard many of the reasons why I absolutely love chastity, but I want to reinforce to you the benefits to relationships and chastity, and this can be a benefit to many different angles within a relationship. So today I want to talk a little bit about that and the importance of it, as well as the excitement that can come when you add some spice to your life with chastity. It's exciting and it's something that you can offer as a gift to your partner by allowing them to hold the control, to be the key holder, to be the master over your body. It's exciting and I think that many partners would absolutely adore finding out that their partner wants to try something new. And yes, you can frame it as this is a game. When I go to work, I will be locked for you. When I come home, you can unlock me for your own pleasure. When I come home, you can unlock me for your own pleasure, and I will tell you that the majority of women will be curious and you know what, when there's some curiosity, often times there's some experimentation that happens after the discussion is had. So never give up on that. That happens after the discussion is had. So never give up on that opportunity to introduce something that might seem a little bit unusual into a relationship, into your relationship, because it never hurts to try, it never hurts to ask. It's all in how you frame it. So I want to go into discussing something that will help you in this journey, and I do have many affiliates with different companies, but one I want to really put a spotlight on today is Locked in Lust. So you can go to lockedinlustcom and I have a discount code on there. So if you are shopping around, if you're browsing different devices, I highly recommend you go to lockedinlustcom and use my 15% off promo code, chastityqueen that's CHASTITYQUEEN, all caps, no spaces and get your discount. It can make a huge difference. And right now they have a discount 20% off store wide if a chastity device is on the same order. So if you purchase a chastity device, you can use the 15% off discount and you will also receive 20% off of any other item that you purchase. And that's exciting because there are many different options now there is the flathead chastity device with dildo attachment, which is super exciting. You can get all sorts of different dildo attachments for that, as well as you know other things that you might enjoy adding into your daily routine or your weekend routine of kinky play. You know everybody's different in their sex drive and their routine, and so it could be daily, it could be every other day, it could be. You know the weekends is your kinky time, but, you know, at Locked in Lust, the beauty of it is that you can purchase, for example, lockable penis kegs, which are super exciting.
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I love using those on bunny. I love CBT and there's some CBT devices that are available. There's a CBT chamber of pain. There's a spiked ball crusher, you know, and if that's not your thing, they have other exciting items such as, you know, leather arm binders those are beautiful Sex slings. They have leather locking, restraint kits, the cuffs, the collar. There's anal hook, which is it sounds scary but it's really not. If you research it a little bit it's kind of like a glorified butt plug for rope bondage and do a little research on all of these things. So I would highly recommend you go in, you browse, you see what the options are and what kind of kits they have restraints, nipple toys, strap-ons.
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I love the crotch rocket. I absolutely think it's fabulous and it fits most people Like. It's very adjustable. So I tend to be more of a hippie dom. I've got, you know, thick thighs and beautiful hips and strong legs, and I find when you go to hips and strong legs and I find when you go to another online site you get something. You order it, you receive it at home, you try it on and it just doesn't fit. It's tight, it's lacking in quality and I will say this much you get what you pay for. So check out the crotch rocket strap on harness. It's wonderful.
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There's lingerie for all of you sissies out there, for bunny, for cross dressers, enjoy some of these discounts. 20% off is a good amount and it's off of each item, so it's very exciting. But in particular I have to say that the options in chastity at Locked in Lust have expanded substantially and for me that's exciting because not everybody wants a resin or, you know, a plastic style device. They want something that has metal feel to it or something a little bit more dense. You know, I've got the gatekeeper for bunny and the gatekeeper is fabulous and that's a metal device versus their other device. So you know, there are many different sizes and shapes, and there's even a chain mail chastity yes, I said it right, chain mail. So you can feel like that beautiful knight in shining armor on your cock for your partner and they can hold on to the key you know and control you. So definitely go there, use the discount.
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And I want to talk a little bit more now about chastity for partners. There are many partners that are kinky but they've never delved into chastity for a number of reasons, and one of the reasons is this they think it might be painful and they do not want to hurt their partner. A lot of women feel this way and, being that I'm, you know, a cis born female and have been many men in chastity and have engaged in chastity, when I first dabbled in it, I was concerned about the pain factor. I did not want to cause any undue discomfort to my partner, and I think that a lot of us, when we are in a good relationship, we do not want to engage in something that might be painful. And I want to assure you all that, if you measure correctly in your research, a chastity device should not be painful, unless, know, unless you want to do spikes in your chastity. That's a whole other story that that delves into more so the CBT aspect of chastity, which is something that is a personal choice and dependent on an individual's desires. So general chastity, wearing a cage should not be painful, and I also noticed that a lot of men choose a cage that is the length of their erection, which is also incorrect.
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Basically, a chastity cage when it is a good fit, it is not meant to hurt. It is just meant to feel present on your cock, to feel like it's there. So when you do get excited, you feel a little bit of the restriction. It's a cock bondage in a way, but it shouldn't hurt. So you need to correctly measure the base, you have to correctly measure the shaft, go on Locked and Lust and they will give you those specifications how to correctly measure your body for a cage.
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And when you do that, entering into chastity arrangements with a partner or just for play is fun. So the key is this educate yourself. And then, if you want to take your partner out for dinner and have a little discussion and say you want to add some spice to the relationship, that it's not a reflection upon any sort of boredom. It's just upping the ante per se and you want to throw a little chastity in the mix and you can just start every now and then just play in it. And it's exciting because I find, as the female dominant in the relationship that I'm in, I am in charge of my own pleasure and I use my partner to accentuate my pleasure, to please me to do as I say, because, as I said, I'm in charge of my pleasure and I use my partner to fulfill that.
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And chastity is such a wonderful experience. I mean, my chaste slave has been in chastity most of our relationship and I can't imagine our relationship in any other way. Really, if I want to, I can unlock him and use him as I wish. If I don't want to, I don't have to. I can have him use his mouth, I can have him use dildos on me, I can have him wear the crotch my choice, my pleasure. And for him that's what really grows that intense bond between the two of us, me as his key holder and him as my chaste slave and being sort of a caged heat experience where you're wanting it so badly but you know, you're locked, you're stuck, you have nowhere to go. You're denied, I'm denying you. It's a huge turn on, not only just for you, but mostly for me as Chastity Queen. So please do go to the website today. Go to lockedinlustcom. Use my promo code Chastity Queen, get your discount. Do go to the website today. Go to lockedinlustcom. Use my promo code ChastityQueen, get your discount. Have some fun. Consider that a task, enjoy it, and you don't have to be partnered to enjoy it.
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I'm sitting here hoping that all of the unpartnered men that are listening will find their way to that website and get themselves a cage and lock. For me. That's exhilarating, that's powerful and that shows your submission and respect. And if you haven't yet subscribed to my additional content, my bonus material, please do so. I am happy to say that I do have a few wonderful fans that have subscribed, but I want more and I want you and it's a mere $6 per month a small way to show your honor and devotion and to tribute me. And in the process of showing your devotion, you can learn more about how to become the best, about how to become the best submissive. You could imagine, with my guidance, my training as Chastity Queen. Thank you for listening. Have a wonderful day and I will be dropping another episode quite soon. Bye for now.
