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Lets talk The Dallas Fetish Ball! Kari and Casey had a wonderful evening with friends and seeing allllll the things like leatherwear, impact play, hot wax (kudos to Kari for the public hot wax performance) and of course out favorite, Shibari.
Lets talk The Dallas Fetish Ball! Kari and Casey had a wonderful evening with friends and seeing allllll the things like leatherwear, impact play, hot wax (kudos to Kari for the public hot wax performance) and of course out favorite, Shibari.
three fucking
Kari:weeks. We've been Three weeks?
Casey:Yeah. Our loyal listeners and followers who have been asking us, Hey where's the new episode?
Kari:Sorry. You know, it came with the best intentions. We wanted to, but
Casey:we always come
Kari:with good intentions, but we also realize it's okay to take a break. It's okay to let other things take priority for a little bit. And we had just been dealing with a lot of. With our, our kids and school and October is very busy
Casey:for us. I didn't realize that. Well, I mean, we're, we're huge Halloween fanatics and so our, our, our October was filled with just a ton of events, a ton of people, a ton of things. And you know what? We dropped the ball on recording some episodes
Kari:and I'm not, but I'm not mad. I'm not normal. It's time to have little breaks and then we come back and, and we're fired up and ready and more energized and got more to talk about. And that's what we're here to do
Casey:today. That's exactly what we're here to do today. So Carrie, how has life been for you? As of like today? No, as of in a three week, three week
Kari:break here, I'm sorry, I thought you meant the pervert sending me a message. Oh, do we want to talk about that? I guess we can, like, we'll keep as much as we'll keep every bit of information
Casey:out. Yeah, we're not going to give any details, but there was an instance in which Carrie was sending a text message from a person that should not have been sending this text message.
Kari:You have absolutely no business to message me in that way. We have a professional engagement, even like professional is like A kind word to say, like, I barely fucking know you. But
Casey:what did they say? They said, I have nice feet. No, they said the most beautiful feet they've ever seen. Okay. First of all,
Kari:that's a lie because I have like Fred Flintstone feet. First of all, second, secondly, like you did not gain consent to say that. So you are not someone that should ever talk about my appearance ever.
Casey:So that's the big point to me. This was. Completely in a, in an inappropriate setting. With an inappropriate message that was the conversation was meant to national. The conversation was meant to be about an issue that was being dealt with. And the response to it was, Hey, instead of me dealing with your issue, I'm going to go ahead and let you know that you have the most beautiful feet I've ever seen. And when I
Kari:didn't respond the way that I, that he wanted me to, he gasped
Casey:out of me.
Kari:It, like the response immediately after that comment was just no,
Casey:I wasn't being rude. I was just stating a fact,
Kari:well, I'm offended by your
Casey:facts. We just let you know that there was unwelcome, unprofessional and completely inappropriate in your responses. Well, I'm just stating a fact, just trying to compliment you, time and place, right? There's places where we can do that. There's places where you need to maybe check yourself and, and you might have this thought, but do. Set a boundary for yourself, like just shut the fuck up, like the time side
Kari:been great. Aside from that, the last few weeks have been amazing. Your life changed a bit the last three weeks. Oh yeah. I'm the same babe. Let's talk about you
Casey:started some new, some new work. Yes. For those of you that do know, I am a chiropractor. I love the profession and I took a hiatus for around a year.
Kari:It wasn't a hiatus. You still worked. You just, you didn't have a clinic. Oh. Pull your hair so quick, then please pull my hair because you have consent to do
Casey:so. So I started, I started working again here in the Dallas Fort worth area and it's been a fun little transition and getting back into a, you know, an office. It's, it's, it's a fun thing to do. Anyway, that's all that's new with me. No, with you, that's a quick one updates, right? Yep. So we're gonna start off the show today by discussing a question that we received from someone. And this was a unique question because it's not one that we have been over before. No, we have not. This person. Was seeking some assistance, advice, support, suggestions, help, like tricks. I all, all sorts of, of anything they can because they were curious about their partner who has in their words, weird fetish and our words. Just a
Kari:kink. It's just a kink. We try to stay away from the word weird. I think some people take it as a compliment, but others can take it as an insult. It's
Casey:all about how you mean it. Like, what do you mean whenever you say that?
Kari:But, but if you're asking someone that was like a fetish again, like. I don't like the putting the word weird and fetish in the same sentence. That's just my personal preference. However, let's dive into this question.
Casey:Yes. This person wants to, is saying that their partner has a a kink for bellies, belly buttons, tusks tummy buttons, navels. I mean, every synonym for, for belly button that we can find. We're
Kari:just making sure we really understood. Yes, the assignment,
Casey:but they said their partner has an interest in playing with their belly button. And this person that sent the message actually has an Audi themselves. So they already have this little piece sticking out. You
Kari:know, match made in heaven. Hello. Like that's literally have a belly kink and your partner has an Audi play with it.
Casey:Universe. You're welcome. Like you've been brought together for a reason. Exactly. But that our, our response to this person then is like, Hey, has this kink for, what do I do? You laid back in. Okay. First of all, oh, oh. First of all, you have some self-reflection. Yeah. On your Yes. No. Maybe list. Where does it fall? Is this a yes for you? Is this an, an absolute no for you? Mm-Hmm. Or is this like, Hey, look, my partner's into it. I can indulge in their, in their interests and this could be a little bit of fun. Let's see what happens with it, which is what I'm leaning towards. Exactly. First things first decide own
Kari:comfort is
Casey:level is, what is it that you, that you're, and if you're okay with it, great. Then move forward. The only way you don't move forward is if it's an absolute no. If you're like, I don't want it. I have, I have no intention to indulge in this. Then you communicate to that, to them, Hey, I understand this is what you. Might want, might be into, but this is an absolute no for me. Because
Kari:whatever but it didn't seem like the question was them being a, no, so really with any type of new, like fetish or kink that you are allowing yourself to parents or your partner experience with you. My tip is like, try all the different, like not the senses, but like try different aspects of, right. So like maybe cold play, maybe a little temperature. It's a reaction. Exactly. Maybe something more, maybe incorporate food into it. Like if you kind of just like, Oh, they just want to lick my belly button. And maybe that's the weird aspect to me. Change the environment around it. Ask, do different aspects of it. Maybe you're doing like a hot wax or maybe you're Oh, or doing like via either way. Wrong answer.
Casey:She hasn't tickle it. I didn't get it.
Kari:Yeah. Poke it with a
Casey:toothpick. If you're comfortable and okay with it and give consent, then go nuts.
Kari:There's no wrong answer. It's literally the sky's the limit, you know? And again, like you said, if you are giving consent, you have that comfort. Your partner has the want, I mean, literally match made in heaven guys. Kings are
Casey:Kings. Yeah. They're they're explored. You're explaining something that you've determined is. Unique outside the norm and you're wondering if it's okay. Yes, it's okay. Absolutely. Is it consensual? Is it enthusiastic consent and voluntary consent? Is this something that you can find yourself that you're not being harmed consensually? Yeah. Go for it. It's okay. Like what you like. Enjoy
Kari:it. Yeah, I think there was a point in the question that he had asked. Not that it had like made him uncomfortable, but he did. They did. They, I'm gonna say they definitely dove in heavily to their belly button and like their belly button. Yeah, the situation. And apparently it's like even more of an out. I
Casey:mean, I kind of liked reading this message.
Kari:It was a lot. In a great way,
Casey:there was a lot, there's a lot in there. I mean, you've got very detailed with the message. She wants to eat or liquid cream, honey, chocolate syrup, ice cream, get a little food play off my belly button. She wants to use cold items. Price. I love this girl. Clearly
Kari:she's thought, I love this girl.
Casey:Clearly she has thought out the things she wants to do to this, this person's belly button. Yeah. And we're here for it. Do it. They can do it. If, if there's nothing that's, that's really stopping you, like no big reason of why you just don't want to do it, then indulge in it. Yeah. Have fun with it. Explore
Kari:it. And I think that if you're in, like, obviously she is like so into it and maybe you're like on the fence, start out small. Like it does. Seemed in the past. It does seem like you are open to it. Just keep that openness. I know there was a point that you said that it like kind of made you feel a little uncomfortable and there's
Casey:ads. There's, there's a bit to add to it too.
Kari:Well, hold on. Maybe you need to like dive into feeling comfortable within your own skin. You have a partner that is clearly interested and then it does sound like there's a little bit of insecurity on your part, which is very common. Yeah.
Casey:It is, which that answers the question because this person had said, I want this to work out with her to see if I like having my belly button, you know, tease, but I have highly sensitive skin and my Audi belly button is ticklish, so more on highly sensitive but then is self conscious about having an Audi. Girlfriend has any, I'm not really a big fan of my own belly button. So it's clear that you have a little bit of confidence issues with your own belly button
Kari:because it is an Audi. And I feel like everyone I know that has an Audi hates their Audi, you know, so find that comfort in yourself. Clearly your partner loves it. That's
Casey:it. That's what I'm saying. I understand that you have a partner that's like, I like it. And that's okay.
Kari:And I mean, there are aspects of my body that I don't like, or I didn't like. And then, and then Casey's like, that's my favorite part of your body. So it did take time for me to, to kind of like separate that out in my head. Like, no, no, no, no, no. My partner likes, it doesn't really matter. I mean, it doesn't matter, but I shouldn't let that be an insecurity for me when I know my partner is like obsessed with it. This is a stupid example, but like, I used to fucking hate my nose. I hated my nose all the goddamn time. And then you're like, That's one of my favorite features about you. And I like, I like an upturned
Casey:nose, you know, that
Kari:you do. And then through that, I have now learned to love my nose. And so no, it's not an Audi or get over here. My little, my little
Casey:who, who, Bill, he wasn't like Grinch over here.
Kari:I would make a very great Cindy Lou who, or Tinkerbell, you know, like
Casey:the, the Pixie look, it, it does it for me. I enjoy it. You give me, but I didn't give me the gothic Pixie and we're going to have a great time.
Kari:I mean, he comes so fast,
Casey:but it brings up another part of it. Whenever this person is talking about various kinks, various fetishes where do that, that next question pops up, where can I find stuff about this? And so as always, we, you know, direct people over to things like fat life is one, you don't have to be careful with that because it's a large community that's not very well vetted and you need to be careful, but it's a good place to find other people. And events. Things is, I mean, we on an interview we did, which is upcoming about an app called bloom with it today. Yeah. And part is, is meeting at, but a place that look at events and find them in your area, whether it be with Shabari work or with various king. Events or anything, so you can find that all online, which is exactly how we came across an event that we attended this last weekend. I,
Kari:you follow us online You have already seen what we're talking about, but
Casey:go ahead. I have my nice bdsm shirt
Kari:on today. You do. I love it I'm, really jealous that you put I did because I don't want to be matching you all the time. But yeah, we did. It was the fetish ball, the Dallas fetish ball. Fetish
Casey:ball. Yeah. So I'm online one day and me and Carrie had been talking about like kink events. And so I had searched for kink events near us as we had told many other people to do. And look at these different pages. And one of them popped up Dallas fetish ball that we had never been to this. We hadn't even heard about it. And this fucking thing's been going on for 10 plus years. Like for a long fucking time,
Kari:I was honestly like a little embarrassed that we had not heard of it. Right. We're supposed to
Casey:like, yeah, we're the, we're the experts
Kari:over here. Wait a minute. So you immediately like messaged me, you're like, Hey, there's this ball going on. It was ending up your birthday week. That was something that we didn't necessarily discuss. But yeah, it ended out your birthday week and I was like, yeah, no, we got to do this. We, we, we absolutely have to go. So, so we got
Casey:tickets, right? And it was. It was a three day event. We went to one of the days, we went to the actual night of the ball, but it was hosted as day one was a beat and greet, which was a, you could buy like tickets or a table. It was, it was a nice spot and they gave you a preview of the artist coming up. Yeah. The main night that we attended to was the actual fetish ball itself. Yeah. Saturday night and then Sunday night for those that attended was if you ever, if you've ever been in the Dallas area and you remember what was it? Lizard lounge that closed down. They, there was an event that's been hosted there since like the late nineties on Sundays called the church and it is essentially like a like a, like a gothic dance party and they've hosted it for a long fucking time and we've always wanted to go. We've, we've been talking about it for years at this point with like, we need to be able to go. It's just difficult on a Sunday.
Kari:Yeah. It's hard on a Sunday when you Sunday
Casey:night and so we went to the main night. Of the ball was held at the Longhorn ballroom in Dallas, which was fucking ironic as shit to pull up and have like this big ass statue of a fucking
Kari:cow and then a Longhorn and then you literally like it was just so like. Like a scene out of a movie, we, we pull up, there's a big fucking cow. There's a neon sign. You know, like with the big bulbs, like think like Texas country shit. And the marketing
Casey:reads Dallas fetish.
Kari:And then the first person that gets out of a car is this like six foot five individual with this like red leather jacket with spikes and fringe, which mad respect with spikes and fringe with underneath. Only red fishnets and the highest heels I've ever seen. It made
Casey:me think of anybody that's ever watched the super Mario brothers movie with like John Leguizamo back in the day. And, and he's dancing in the club with the one girl, not John Leguizamo, but the other actor, and I can't remember his fucking name, but he's dancing with her, she's got the big jacket on that's like the latex and the spikes.
Kari:But this was a dude, but basically, yeah,
Casey:it was just like that.
Kari:And it was so funny, like no pants, no pants. Directly underneath this, like cow sign. And, and it was amazing, but it was a big, it was a huge venue. I had not been there before. Yeah. But walking in, I can clearly see why they had a, a huge entrance. It was a ginormous space. It kind of reminded me of the palladium ballroom. Yeah. In Dallas Bomb factory or Palladium ballroom. No, not bomb factory palladium. But it was like that exact setup, but like. It was big. It was, it was really big. And then they had a lot of like vendors
Casey:everything that they kind of hosted is they had a number of vendors. We actually bought a couple of prints from,
Kari:yes. I'm
Casey:not saying their name right now because I don't have their card with me.
Kari:Not this episode, but next episode, you'll see our backdrop is like. Completely changed and different. We have pictures that we're going to be hanging up. It was all stuff that we got from, from the guys on, we, we will, we're going to, we'll post business
Casey:cards. We'll tag them to everything. Cause they made some cool fucking stuff. Yeah. I immediately went over there.
Kari:They had a bunch of options. That was one thing that I liked it. It wasn't like, here's five prints in 20 different sizes. It was like, every parent was different. The image, the artwork was great. And then the people were fucking, I felt like
Casey:I was sifting through the vinyls at a record shop with these
Kari:guys. And then, like I said, just the individuals running the booth were so insanely nice. Like gave you a discount, like start following us online immediately. Like it was just, that's one thing that I love about going to these types of events. And it's actually something that we had discussed when we went home is like, you go to an event like this and. You would think that it's an environment that you would be uncomfortable in, right? Like fucking half naked people, latex everywhere, like nipple pasties, nipple pasties, thongs,
Casey:whips, boots. I mean, I was very comfortable.
Kari:But it was the most like Comfort I felt in a bar. Yeah. And, and a really, really,
Casey:it's one of those things where we've discussed this before Where a lot of bars you go into and as you as a vulva owner a lot of times are on edge Because you're having to be vigilant of the people that are in there. Is this person gonna try to drug me? Are they gonna hit on me? Are they gonna follow me? Are they gonna
Kari:try to touch me
Casey:inappropriately? Are they gonna tell me that I have the most beautiful feet they've ever seen? Vomit, like, are they going to do something inappropriate? That's unconsensual events like these are driven by consent and by good people. So you're
Kari:already people that understand consent. No, like,
Casey:because if there's one rule above all in the world of kink. It's consent. It is. It's like the golden rule. It's not treat others as you want to be treated. It's consent is king and queen and jester.
Kari:I think that's the last rule. Treat others the way you want to be treated between like a bottom and a top. Like, fuck, you don't treat me the way.
Casey:But it was, it was this killer event. So not only did they have vendors, but they also had some things set up. There was, I think the, the dungeon is called dragons and pearls. That dungeon was so cool. So they had a back room area where you would walk in and they had a couple of St. Andrew's crosses set up a couple of spanking benches and a few various other tools and things that you can use that you could actually use yourself. You have, you're there with a partner, you're there with somebody that's consenting, it would be like, Hey, this is for open use. Here's. All these tool, here's floggers and here's chain. They had all
Kari:the tools like laid out. They, you know, even like sanitizing it out, cleaning the stuff. In between,
Casey:they did a real good job of that, of cleaning everything off before and after that
Kari:was, we even got to partake in that a little bit. Like you and I, like I got on a spanking bench and you had got to kind of like. Play with me with toys that we haven't necessarily played with
Casey:before. Yeah. There was a couple of unique floggers that I'd have been like, Ooh, if I want to try one of those. So we did that. That was a lot of fun. There was one, there was one switch that we grabbed that it was an immediate no for
Kari:you. Yeah. That was an absolute don't ever fucking touch me with that again. It was.
Casey:So if you know what a, like a, like a writing crop is, we have one of those and we like using that, but that's like looped leather or whatever the material is on the end. This was. Like thick wire that had been lined in a flower shape with wrapped leather. And so it was real thick and it was, it was heavy. And the second that I caught you with it on the ass, you immediately go, Hey, that's a no, we're not going to
Kari:continue that. I'm not even going red. I'm not saying any colors I'm turning around and saying. Get that the fucking out of your hand right now. Don't you ever hit me with that again? I don't know what that was, but I don't want it. Don't
Casey:want it. So we participated in that. And then we, we decided, Hey, you know, this has been fun. We were there for a little while as we were leaving, they were setting up some stuff that I was like, what are y'all doing? It looked like. We didn't go back in because it got real busy in there. There's a line outside the outside this like dungeon that was well, and that in the
Kari:inside the dungeon was super small, like, and so they could only you're,
Casey:you're fitting like 30, 40 people in their tops.
Kari:And by the time we tried to go back, I mean, it was like a wraparound line. I mean, that took an hour to get in there. There
Casey:was no way. And so we were like, oh, we'll, we'll try it out. But as we were walking out, they were putting down, like, there was a chair that was coming out and there was what looked like allegedly allegedly. It may be some waterproof stuff on
Kari:the floor, so there was definitely a heavy squirting happening later on that. This is allegedly,
Casey:we don't know for sure. This is just a, you're thinking about
Kari:the fuck else. Are they waterproofing a room? Doesn't need to be made waterproof.
Casey:Oh Lord. So we did that.
Kari:You don't need that cleanup for semen. Like you don't need that kind of cleanup for semen.
Casey:We participated in that. Yeah. Oh my God. Then this is, this is within the first hour that we're there. And we were there, we got there around nine o'clock and we stayed till around one 30 or so, but they had, so they have the main stage, which had performances on there. This included burlesque. This included Shabari. All included a, a fashion
Kari:show, a latex fashion show. That was really cool to see. Some really bad ass designs. There were girls that had come out and like full, like head to toe, like leather material. Some gentlemen, gentlemen that came out and like a latex like suit, but they also did like this, like latex coating over their entire face that gave me mad anxiety. I don't know how they breathed in that. But that was crazy. And then they had these individuals come out and these like butterfly latex outfits. It was like a onesie again, all, all latex with these like wings that would move up and down. It was a beautiful performance. I know
Casey:I'm sitting here like trying to figure out. Oh, that's right. Okay. So the, that's, I was looking for the, the fashion designer is Donna matrix, D a W N a M a T R I X Donna matrix. The shit that she had on that stage was fucking cool. You can find some of their stuff. If you actually go to fetish ball presents on Instagram or check out Donna matrix or check out even Courtney crave. Who is one of the people that was there, you'll see images of all their latex wear and they had some intricate designs. It was really, really cool. So that was definitely part of it. The performances were awesome. We enjoyed that. We got to see some of our great friends. We got to see lavender and Vivian from the nightshade burlesque. And we also got to see Miss Ophelia Winters there who we've met through nightshade burlesque.
Kari:It was really cool running into them and just kind of getting a chance to talk with them. And then Ophelia and I got to experience the wheel of something fun, the
Casey:wheel of pain, the wheel
Kari:of pain. So on the side stage, they had three to four rotating out different dominatrix on stage. Yeah. And you, you know, you waited in this long ass line and, and you got to like head up on stage. Well, actually, first we waited in line for a while. We got all the
Casey:way to the front of the
Kari:line. I had said, I was like, Casey, I want to do something that is going to be like memorable. I don't want to just like go buy a shirt and cool. Like, no, I, I want to remember this night. And so we like be lined it for this line. We were in this line for a while. And then they're getting ready to start the next show. So I was a little like, upset. I was like, no, I'm done. I don't get to do it. And then they're like, no, we're going to give you a little token. Yeah. We got a little poker chip. Yeah. And they're like, bring this back at this time. And you in line. So we did, we, we, I was a good little
Casey:girl. Yes, you were. And you and Ophelia hit the very front of the
Kari:line. Yeah. We were like first up there and Ophelia had known one of the performers on that stage. And so they kind of like be lying together and. They did their own thing and then I went up and got on stage and I got to spin the wheel. This is a massive, massive wheel. I, I can't even tell you all the things that were on it. But what I can tell you is that the one that was fatedly chosen for me happened to be something that I have really wanted to play with. In front of a
Casey:crowd.
Kari:Well, I mean, I wanted to play with it in general. The crowd was the bonus. Exactly. And then, well, the ladies were the bonus. The crowd was, I didn't even think there was a crowd there. I'll be honest. When I was experiencing this, I didn't even think once about a crowd being there. Welcome
Casey:to how it feels being a performer. Yeah,
Kari:like not even, like, I'm not even there. But I landed on hot wax. Yeah, you did. And so, I'm like, I'm clapping on stage. We have
Casey:video of it too. You spun the wheel and you're like, so excited. You're this little girl that's like, Oh yeah, I got the thing.
Kari:Okay. Where do you want me? And so they like set me on this banking bench and I think there was four candles. Yeah.
Casey:And two for
Kari:each person. And just. All over my body. Yeah. It, it was they, my neck, my shoulders, my, your thighs. My thighs. Like your breasts. I was getting there everywhere. And so, and, and I could tell that the, the lady performing was like, this has to be elevated. So she was, she was. Letting the wax, like build up on the sticks. And then she would like sling it on my legs and she would do that a bit. And so all of a sudden I just feel it like sling up against me. And then she like stood up and then she started like letting it drip on my chest. And then she just pulled my fucking dress to the side.
Casey:And it was like one titty and other titty.
Kari:Yeah. And again, no audience. Right. So I'm just like me, this girl, we're doing this. This is great. And then there was a brief moment where I was like. I think my titty is completely out from my angle. I couldn't really tell, honestly, but from my angle, yeah, from, I couldn't tell fully that my titty was out and it wasn't until I saw the videos later on. I was like, Oh yeah, no, that
Casey:was, that was like, you got off stage. I was like, you realized they just pulled your titties and that was a whole ass city. And you were like, wait, they did what?
Kari:Like, what's this? You know, angles. I don't fucking
Casey:know. Well, of course, both of us were fine with it, right? It was something where it was like, that was a hell of a show, hell of an experience. I mean, the crowd was going wild. Like we, you had you doing your thing. You had Ophelia doing her thing. Both of y'all were just engaging, experiencing life together and stuff. Yeah, it was a lot of fun. And it was, it was a lot of good fun for y'all. I'm sitting at the front. Me and my, I have my camera, like my camera phone out and I'm sitting there like kind of the side, trying not to get too much in front of the crowd before realizing like, wait a minute, that's my wife on stage. Yeah. Fuck you guys. Get out of my way. I'm getting right into the front of this. And so I got some good video of it. And it was, but that part was, was such a good fun.
Kari:I was pretty sure it took me like 10 minutes to dig all of the wax off my
Casey:nipple ring. Girl, you were digging wax out the next day. I was
Kari:finding wax the next day and I'm like, there is still wax on me and I'm still really happy about it.
Casey:Oh, there's a memory. Oh, look, there's another memory. But that part, I mean, that was a lot of fun. So we, we continue to make our way around where, of course, we like picked up our shirts. We, we, we ran into people, ran into people that we knew, like randoms too. And sometimes it'd be like, Oh, I know you from this. Yeah. And talk for a little bit. We, we got recognized a couple of times for our show, which was, I mean, that was a lot of fun. We're still like, Hey,
Kari:Hey, you know, like, wait, y'all are, yes, we are.
Casey:Got to have some good pictures taken like all together. It was a, it was a fun event. We had a good night. We
Kari:had a really good time and we looked hot as fuck. Yeah. We have pictures up on Instagram. Go take a look. I am kind of glad I didn't wear latex though, because it was so hot and like these people wearing like full ass body. Oh, yeah. Let's talk about some of the costumes we saw or some of the dresses. I mean, Bravo, man. Bravo. I don't know that, like, I don't know that you could ever be in something like that. You're too.
Casey:Yeah, I, I too, I have too much of like a skin issue. Like you can
Kari:barely, you can't even wear skinny jeans without freaking the fuck out.
Casey:I put those on and I'm like, get them off, get off, get off. I cannot imagine you in something like latex or something. But there was, I mean, if anybody's ever seen, you know, the Norse god Loki with the horns, there was somebody there that was in all black latex, head to toe. I'm talking like no skin showing, nothing showing. And they had these big black latex horns that just protruded out of the top. Of this, of their head and they were walking around with them and their partner. We were like, Holy shit. I
Kari:like that. The other one didn't have horns. I think they had like ears or something, but and then there, there was
Casey:like, my favorite was the, the bitch boy. I, I'd be just calling him the bitch boy. It was this, it was a latex almost like a French maid outfit. Yes. But it was pink and black, so there was like the, he was carrying a sign. What did the ruffled frilly shoulder pads and the skirt and everything like if you've ever seen little Nikki and there's the scene where Hitler, where Hitler's in hell and they're going to shove a pineapple up his ass. It was like, that is the, that is what it looked like. Just pink and black, but pink. And he had a sign on the front of him. That was something along the lines of like, I'm this person's little bitch. Treat me in whatever way all that goes up and he was on, he
Kari:was on a leash, he was on a leash and again, he was wearing the highest heels I've ever seen. There's no fucking way I could walk in heels like that ever, never will I ever be able to do that. It was very
Casey:impressive. Me neither. But by the end of the night, we saw many people kicking off their heels and like taking refuge barefoot.
Kari:That was, that was really cute, honestly. And there was this little like arrow people were starting to like dance and stuff because there was this big show or performance that was happening on stage or something. I'm kind of surprised you haven't brought that up yet. What the stage performances? Yeah. Well, it was
Casey:last. So this was, this was close to me. This was around the time that we were getting ready to take
Kari:off. Yeah, because I was being a bitch about my own feet.
Casey:But the very last performance. Was a Shabari performance. I've got, I got to find out the name. Okay. So it was, I'm going to butcher this fucking name. It was Saki Kimiju. Yes, I think is what, is what the name was. So S A K I K A M I J O O you can find them on Instagram. Saki Kamiju one, I believe is what it is. But their, their Shibari performance was unreal. Awesome. They had this big rig set up on stage, metal rig. They brought themselves out. They brought their, their model out and this, I mean, it almost started off with them, like whipping. The model. I don't know if you caught that. I did. I
Kari:did. From
Casey:across the stage. They took whatever was in their hand. It went bam and slapped him like right in the
Kari:stomach. And I think that they, yeah, they did. But remember they had like robe over them for a bit. So they were like the rope bottom was had this like rope and the road was faced backwards. So like the arms were in the back. You couldn't see their body at all. And you saw all these ropes like slinging and that's when you're like, I guarantee you they're doing like this tie, but they're just not showing the crowd like what type of time.
Casey:Yeah, that's right. She was, yeah, she was putting into the TK behind the back degree angle tied together and
Kari:then they like ripped off the robe and then there was the model and then it was like going more into like the tying and moving their body all around and like suspending them up and like letting a leg go and then it would
Casey:fall. Well, my favorite thing about that was. The choreography to the, to, to the tempo of the music. So there would be times where they were having this very like smooth music playing and the performer was moving at that tempo, very soft, smooth, very like intimate and all that. And then they would just speed it up double time. And during the double time, they were like, I mean, there's ropes flying. There were knots being formed. There was pulling, there was suspension. And then they also did a drop.
Kari:They did a big drop. That was.
Casey:So if you don't know what a drop is in that it's where you go from one position and they almost just let one of the ropes loose. You're still suspended, but it drops you into another position. It's a very big thing. And it like watching this was mesmerizing. I really wish we had been closer at that point, but it was next
Kari:year. Next year we will definitely get a table.
Casey:Next year we'll be buying like a, one of the boxes. On the side. That's what I was into because they had a couple of
Kari:suites. They did have this like whole like VIP area in the very, very back that we're like, no, we would never do that. But then there was one to like the left of the stage or stage, right? Wait, which one is it? Stage left. Okay. Wow. I was right. Okay. Stage left. But they're just like this little like seating area. That's definitely something that we're going to do next time.
Casey:Place that The place you can get drinks at. But
Kari:then there were like dancers that were also like performing throughout. They had an area for you just to dance in general. They had like DJs and stuff in between. It was, that
Casey:was, that was a, we, we didn't ever got the chance to meet them, but DJ alley cat was there. It was a Vegas DJ, somebody that attended the ball that night that we're familiar with, that met up with us there. It's it's one of their friends. So they're like, Oh man, y'all need to hear DJ alley cat. We're hoping
Kari:to meet them, but it just didn't fully get to work out that time. But we really, and then even have like an outdoor area, which was nice. Cause like I was saying earlier, it was really hot in there. And so you're able to go outside. They had a latex station, a lube station, lube station. That's what it was. Thank
Casey:you. It's like for all you people. Wearing your latex that it's starting to like stick to you. Here's some
Kari:lube. They were literally just like lubing people up in latex. Like you can go back through and see a lot of their videos and it's just the two like lube girls. Like it
Casey:was cool. They did a good, but they're, I mean, the, the overall, the costumes that we saw, the dress that we saw lots, like lots of skirts, lots of latex, lots of PVC, lots of, I mean, just good material, lots of mesh. Lots of fishnets, lots of nipple
Kari:pasties, lots of pretty like the makeup that everybody did. There was a lot of guys that were in like corsets and skirts and
Casey:which is what I wanted to do. I want to do a kill.
Kari:We did want to find
Casey:you a kill. I wanted to find like a Like a fucking ankle high. I wanted to go like a long black kilt. Well,
Kari:we will find you. We have a year. So if anybody
Casey:knows where I can get
Kari:a long black, I know where you can get a long black kilt, Etsy.
Casey:Boom. I went like leather. Oh, absolutely. Chains and shit. Speaking Etsy's language. Ultra mobile.
Kari:No, we will definitely be going next year. We'll have a different setup. We'll probably end up inviting a guest or inviting someone from the show.
Casey:What we'll probably do is, is we're going to, we're going to look at getting one of the side suites and then hosting that as our collaborative partners. Hey, if you're a photographer with us, you get invited. Hey, if you're. If you collaborate with us on a big way, then you get to have a seat where you are. Treat come out with us like that's what it's going to be all about. Dallas fetish ball. 2023 was fucking fantastic. And I
Kari:cannot wait to do it next year. I know we're going to have a, and I'm going to look way hotter. I'm going like, this was our first one. We didn't really know what to wear. We look good, but next year it will be very different. Yeah,
Casey:I mean, you did look hot, but yeah, looking like a gothic katana from mortal combat over here. All right. I slit dress all black.
Kari:So glad I wore underwear. So I was not going to wear underwear.
Casey:Then you're on stage in front of everybody.
Kari:And I was going back through the video. Cause again, I don't have any memory of it, but I was going back through the video and she literally took that slant that center slit that I had flipped. I'm like, that would have just been straight vagina. That would have been nothing. It just would have been straight vagina. Happy
Casey:birthday, I guess. So we had a blast doing it. Look guys, we've been absent for the last three weeks and we've been itching to get back on air. And here we
Kari:are, but we've also been doing a lot of like talks on like different things that we're going to discuss. And we've been doing a lot of content creation. Like we weren't just like fucking around. Yeah. Like we have stuff set up now and, and I do love kind of taking these breaks a little bit to give us more to talk about, to like, kind of like bring that fire back up. You know, we can't be on all the time. We can. No, we can't. No, I can't. I'm not cool enough to be on all the time.
Casey:Oh Lord. Anyway, that's our show for today for another episode of come with Casey. I'm Dr. Casey Sanders and I'm just Carrie. We'll see you next time.