Calendar Girl Part 1

Let's talk 2024! We have compiled a list of the most recognized sex days all nice and neat for you. So sit down with us and lets plan a kinky 2024

Mentioned in this episode:

Carla Renee Intimates

Nightshade Burlesque 

Transcript

casey: 0:00

well, welcome to one of the final episodes of come with Casey of the year of the year. I should probably add that in of the

kari: 0:09

year, not forever.

casey: 0:11

No we're going to keep this going for as long as you'll have us, the audience will have us, but we're closing out where we're coming up nearing like midway point of December. We've had a lot of fun this year.

kari: 0:27

You know, it's actually been crazy to structure and organize out the podcast the way that we have. We, we do have a solid routine now at this point. But I wouldn't say this came easily for us. No, sometimes There was a lot of trial and error with our show. There was a lot that we had to finger out together. Yeah. And, yeah. We

casey: 0:45

fingered out a lot of stuff together. Yeah. We were just continuously Figuring things out. And so, we, we've, we've done a lot. There's episodes that we've done that have been completely improvised. Like absolutely.

kari: 0:57

So we do this like show notes that we'll share together and we'll kind of like create these concepts and we've done that. Or like you said, we've literally just sat down and start talking and then kind of figured out what happened

casey: 1:07

as we went. We have like a broad topic we want to discuss, but we don't really have a plan for it, which I prefer it that way. It allows us a lot more room. Do we go on a lot more tangents and change up subjects a lot more? A

kari: 1:19

little bit. Yeah, we do. A little bit. But whenever we have such like these like broad topics that we're trying to like discuss within like an episode, I understand how we can kind of like veer off a little bit. Oh, for sure. I, I will say our show notes help us. Mm hmm. But this whole like sitting down fucking recording, I love that too. But let's go ahead and get, no, no, no. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, actually go ahead. Go ahead, baby.

casey: 1:43

What are you going to say? Yeah, you're right, I'm going to say it. Go ahead. As we, as we, this year, we've had a lot of good experiences and we want to take a few minutes to discuss some of the people that we've been able to collaborate with this year and not only the things that we've done with them but what they have coming up. So first, actually yesterday even, so at the time that you're hearing this, it'll be a few days after. But yesterday we went out and we did an outdoor shibari shoot. Our first ever.

kari: 2:10

Very first for us. It went really well. We had fun. It went really well. So we live in, in North Fort Worth and there's this park that's close to our house. And we walk throughout this park often and, and we had kind of like found this like slightly secluded area, but this tree in this area

casey: 2:31

is like, it was straight up. It's Tim Burton, Tim Burton film. It's

kari: 2:33

the coolest walking tree I have ever

casey: 2:35

seen. So if you want to come out and take some photos. We

kari: 2:38

will let you know where to go, but like coolest fucking tree. So we knew that we wanted to shoot there. But yeah, this was our first time taking what we do into an outside environment and, and also not only an outside environment for us, but a. environment for our photographer because she's never shot

casey: 2:59

there before. No, not in that particular location. She's done outdoor work. She's done indoor work as well. But this was, so as we mentioned before, Carla

kari: 3:06

Renee intimate, we're talking about Carla, Carla, Renee

casey: 3:10

intimate. She does insanely good boudoir photographer and she does do a decent amount of outdoor stuff. This was one that she came met up with us like right around dusk and we went out there and I spent about 20 minutes getting a harness on Carrie. And putting a couple of lines on the tree. We didn't do full

kari: 3:28

suspension. No, not for this. We were a little limited with this time. I mean, as you'll, most of y'all understand this time of year, like the sun sets early

casey: 3:36

and this was

kari: 3:37

also covered. Yeah. It's also cold. So, I imagine we're going to have some pretty kick ass shoots later next year, whenever it warms back up. But for us having such a limb. Location limited concept. We just knew you were going to tie me up I don't even think that you had an idea on what tie you were technically going to do at that point It was just a matter of like let's get outside. Let's try something new and let's have our You know very talented photographer meet us there and it it really it worked

casey: 4:09

out. I know the test shots that we've seen Yeah, they're gonna look good. We can't wait to release them to everybody and carla is a fucking magnificent photographer So if you get an opportunity check out her stuff Carla Renee Intimates, where you get the opportunity to book a session with her, with boudoir, or with whatever it is that you want to do. She takes limited clientele, so it's, it's, it's very, very

kari: 4:31

I think you just gotta like, pique her interest at this point, you know? Right. Like, make what you want. I'm super interesting. And then she is fucking down. Yeah. Like picture.

casey: 4:40

Exactly. Just pitch her on

kari: 4:41

your idea, but in all honesty, while we're talking about her, we're going to go to the next concept and, and, and to do with her. She also works lovers. It's called lovers, right? Irving Irving. I mean,

casey: 4:53

they have a bunch of locations. Well, I w I

kari: 4:58

would. So I'm going to talk about her, but you know, we talk a lot about, you know, going to a sex shop and being there with your partner. And I feel like sometimes people need that, like comfort before they even walk in. So let's give you someone that we know that is very well educated, super personable. Again, this is Carla. She works at Lovers in.

casey: 5:25

We just said

kari: 5:25

Irving. Irving, whatever. It's all the same to me. If you're not for words, it's all the same. But she works out there and one of the things I love about her, if you end up following her online, she'll post a lot about new things that they have in the shop. Yes. She's, she's very informative as to the new toys that they have. So if, if you and your partner want to go to a sex shop, but you just still have that like little level of like nervousness, go to someone that we then recommend. This isn't just like some rando. You can go in there, you can ask for Carla. And, and again, like how personable she is with us. I know she's going to be that way with you because it's just who she is as a person. But I love going to sex shop with you. I mean, I feel like we find every opportunity we

casey: 6:06

can. That's because we have fun. We go in, we speak at a, at a decent, you know, normal volume. We're not even there whispering, pointing at stuff from across the room. I'll be across the, across the shop and be like, Carrie, check out this vibrating butt plug. Come here.

kari: 6:21

But I mean, and I love that we are like that, but not everyone is. So we say this to tell you, like, be comfortable, go with your partner. If you are, you know, nervous about going to someone that you don't want to ask questions to, we get that.

casey: 6:34

It's okay to be, it's okay to be open. It's okay to, to talk about it. Like you're in a place with professionals. And they are more than happy to show you different items and take them out of the boxes It's

kari: 6:45

their job like sex shops are not like Crazy busy places. So when someone comes in, they're like, please talk to us, please, please let us help you. And they've got

casey: 6:55

a lot to show. They've got a lot, a lot, lot, lot to show. So thank you, Carla, for everything you've done for us over this past year with our various photo shoots and advice on some great sex gadgets, because there's been a decent number of it. So that's pretty cool. We also have our other friends who are the just greatest showman. I don't know, I can't wait for this. For the last six to eight months somewhere right in there. I think it started in august

kari: 7:32

Somewhere in there this show started in august. They've been performers

casey: 7:35

for But they're they do the first friday of every single month at the cicada in fort worth It's an amazing gothic themed burlesque show If you have not gotten to go to one go all of their tables sell out all of their couches sell out Their ga typically sells out at this point. So it's a massively Yeah, popular thing to do. And so what they're doing is they're putting on a special show for Christmas on December 22nd, which is called Nightshade before Christmas. It's going to be a Tim Burton themed shot where we already have our table secured. I believe they just said that there's like one table left and then there's owner owner's box tickets left and there's GA left, everything else is sold. Out. This is going to sell out fully. It's going on at tulips and Fort worth on December 22nd. So check that one out too. And then they also have there's January show, January 5th is going to be the first nightshade burlesque of the year at the cicada. So make sure that you're at any of those come and say hi to us whenever you do and then you know

kari: 8:34

Buy us a drink when you do.

casey: 8:36

Yeah, hang out with us. Tell us tell us about your sex life. Ask us questions It's our favorite topic But there's there's so much coming up in this new year And if you follow on our Instagram page, you've likely seen already We need to go ahead and get right into this because we have so much to cover today We have a lot where it may not even get done with the the whole thing In this episode, we have to continue on, but what we, we did is we pulled from various sources across the internet. We looked at various days that are considered like actual Celebrated sexual days and ones that are considered like a sexual celebration day. Yeah, and there's a lot of them. Holy shit There's like 30 of them throughout. We have

kari: 9:13

a lot and we we s a casey. It's casey compiled an entire list. So that's what we're going to go over like it's it's december We're going into January. We're going into a new, a new year. This is the opportunity to do everything that you missed out on in the year before like you want a new year's resolution Here you go, like fulfill

casey: 9:33

this list be your intimate sexual sexy self

kari: 9:36

with your partner Exactly there's no reason why 2024 cannot be the sexual liberation year for you and so again casey sat down and and like sourced out all these different lists of themed days for the year. Yeah, let's kick it off. You said like what, fucking 30?

casey: 9:54

Yeah, there's something like 30 of them. I even looked through and went, it looked like, I think it's October that has the most, between October and July. Those two months have the most days that we celebrate. But we're gonna kick it off with January. So starting off with January 13th, write all these down. January 13th is Sex in the Shower Day.

kari: 10:12

That one is so easy and so

casey: 10:15

rewarding. I hear that like mixed. I hear some people are like, No, sex in the shower sucks because water gets everywhere and its penetration isn't super easy. Okay. So don't do penetration. Do something else. Or also

kari: 10:26

take out of your, or yeah, or take out of your mind that sex means coming. Sex does not mean coming, intercourse does not mean coming, you, you, you and your partner can take a shower together, fool around a bit, like you just said, give each other head in the shower. We love doing that. We love doing that. I don't think I've conditioned my own hair in like years. That's like

casey: 10:48

our, that's our ongoing deal that we

kari: 10:50

have. Yeah. You condition my hair and I give you head every time guys, every single time. Yeah. That's, I mean, that's, this isn't head to come. Yeah. It's not. It's just, I'm going, we have a stool in the shower, I'm going to sit on the shower, you're going to run a conditioner through my hair, and as I sit, and my eyes are straight, there's a dick. Might as well. Yeah.

casey: 11:13

Might, might as well. Provide the pleasure. Yeah. Enjoy it. You know,

kari: 11:18

and then like massage your girlfriends or partners or whoever the hell's giving you head. Like it, it's just a great experience.

casey: 11:25

Work the conditioner in, you know, grab them by the back of the hair. Do

kari: 11:28

your own thing. Shove it in. Yeah. So this is January 13th again. So January 13th is a sex in the shower day. I wonder where these actually like Who determines these in a sense, I'm sure it's such a collective sense. So the

casey: 11:44

vast majority of these kinds of things come through and it becomes, you know, it was posted one time on urban dictionary or through some group and then people went, Oh, that's cool. And so more and more people started posting about it and doing something about it until it becomes a staple. And so these are, these are the ones that we came up with that we were like, all right, we're, these are where we saw them the most. This isn't from one source. This is like, over all the sources, these are the ones that continuously popped up consistently. So January 15th, actually, is Fetish Day. Fetish Day. If you don't know what a fetish is, it typically revolves around arousal from an inanimate object, or from various body parts. Yeah. It also differentiates from a kink in the fact that fetishes Typically, a person has difficulty, if they do have a true fetish, they have difficulty becoming aroused without this particular thing. So you can lean into that as much as you want to, but this is a good day to examine your own sexuality. Be like, do I have any fetishes? Is there something out there that just beyond all else just gets me going? And if

kari: 12:48

you don't feel like you have one, maybe take this time for you and your partner to sit down and look some up. Because I feel like some people don't fully understand like all the vast options of what a fetish can be. It is not limited. There are like unmeasurable amounts of fetishes. And what we're trying to say within this day like you maybe don't know that you have one. Utilize this time to explore, to figure out maybe I do have one. Maybe my partner has one that they have never communicated with before. Utilize this time to open up the conversation to a fetish and what that could mean to you and then what that could mean to you and your partner. Yes,

casey: 13:32

absolutely. And to add to that point, whenever it comes to something like a fetish, a lot of people grew up in a, in a world where they were like. Yeah. Oh no. Careful. Watch out for fetishes. That kind of stuff. But no, the reality is, is great. You've now discovered something that arouses you sexually. Awesome. Can you incorporate that? And is it harming yourself non consensually, then get the fuck out of there. But if you can find something that you're like, wow, I really enjoy this. It arouses me. I want to do it. My partner's cool with it. We're doing this consensually, then fucking enjoy it. So take fetish day as a time to either. Engage in one of your favorite fetishes, or B, to explore some new fetishes. And talk

kari: 14:14

to your partner and try to figure out what their fetishes are, too. Exactly.

casey: 14:18

Yeah. Great day. Okay, so, let's head, we're now, there's only two in January. Yeah, I was about to say, there's only

kari: 14:23

two in January. And then there's

casey: 14:25

only one in February. February. And February is February 7th. It's, this one is geared towards people that work from home. Because it's work naked day. Work naked day. Work naked day. Work naked

kari: 14:36

day. I am a hairdresser. Do you know how unpleasant that would be to work

casey: 14:41

naked? Hair

kari: 14:41

splinters. Color. All kinds. I mean, just, I stand in a mirror all day. Do you think I'd want to stand in a mirror all day and look at my naked body? That would be so

casey: 14:53

unpleasant for me. Now where people can benefit from work naked day if you are a sex worker. Or, you know, you're working in, in, yeah, you're working in a strip club or you're working. Yeah.

kari: 15:06

I'm literally thinking like an office job. I work

casey: 15:08

at home. Yeah. That's what, were you not listening? What I said just then? Probably not. Yeah, I know. I'm very aware. You missed my point entirely. So while this can be geared towards people that work from home, also, if you are some form of a sex worker, this is your time to celebrate too, because you're already working naked. So now you just get a chance to be like, Hey, I'm just, yeah, I'm diving into it a little bit further. Yep. Yep.

kari: 15:29

But also if say like you are someone like me, I'm a hairdresser. I can't work naked. That does not mean that I can't go into the bathroom and send my partner a naked selfie. That's very true. I'm at work. And I'm naked. There are ways to fulfill what the day is without it being so literal. No, we can't all work naked all day. Casey, I'm pretty sure your clients, your patients don't want you to adjust

casey: 15:56

them naked. I do not want to lose my license. Thank you very much. Like,

kari: 15:59

that could be really bad, but that doesn't mean that you can't go into the bathroom and send me a little naked selfie

casey: 16:06

for you. Okay, okay. So that's the only one in February and now we move on to March. We're hitting March 3rd I can't

kari: 16:12

believe there's not one on my birthday in March. I mean either. I'm annoyed. Wait, hon.

casey: 16:16

Oh, man There's just totally one not on your birthday. Oh Who would ever think to not put one on Carrie's birthday? Rude

kari: 16:26

ass bastards. Selfish.

casey: 16:29

Good lord. March 3rd is threesome day. Oh. Go out and have a threesome. Do it. We recommend it. You

kari: 16:35

know, and, yes.

casey: 16:36

You wanna spend some, wanna spend a couple minutes talking about this?

kari: 16:39

Well, I mean, in a way I do. Like, this is a time for y'all to plan something. You're just getting out of the new year. What if your new year resolution is to open up y'all's relationship? Cool. You've had that time in January. You talked about it in February. If you know right now, you're listening to this episode in December. And you know that you want to have a threesome, you now have three months to plan that shit out. That's true.

casey: 17:04

You got three months. Well, and you can think of it like this. Let's give it like a quick breakdown. So there's a few reasons why you would want to have a threesome. It creates a new sexual experience for you. It generates a ton of fun if done correctly. It's a good way to explore sexuality. It plays into sexual altruism and as well as allows you to start looking at sexual compromises on a deeper level. So there's some really great reasons to actually engage in a threesome. There's also, you know, some decent ones not to. If you're, if you're people that are like, we've thought about it, but so never have a threesome just to gain access to a person. So what I mean by that is say that, say that there was a Bisexual girl that wanted to sleep with you, but then she compromised by adding me in. So she's trying to get to you, but she's like, well, I guess I'll also sleep with him too. No, threesomes don't work well like that. Threesomes work well whenever everyone is attracted to each other on all

kari: 17:57

levels. All parties are consensual and wanting.

casey: 18:00

Yes. Another great reason not to have one is intoxication. Consent needs to be given. Now, if y'all have already gotten together and you're all consenting to it, whenever you're all sober and everything like that, and you're like, we're going to go out tonight with the intention of doing this and you have a drink or two just to loosen up a little bit, you've already consented in the beginning, but it's best if you're able to. You know, have complete control of your cognitive faculties.

kari: 18:24

Yeah, don't just be out with your partner and then y'all start talking to some girl and decide that's gargantuan. Yeah, or guy. Honestly, that's just a bad idea. Yeah, anyone. But that's just a bad idea. Yes. All the way around.

casey: 18:35

And then the other one, other big one not to have a threesome is coercion. Like, if, if I were to, Manipulate you into having one because I wanted to sleep with somebody and I coerce you into doing it. That's, that's dishonest on all levels. That's a violation of trust. That's a violation of boundaries and a terrible way to go about doing it. If your partner is not into it and to the idea, even then it's best that y'all compromise in some other way. You'd like watch threesome porn or use a dildo

kari: 19:01

or you find yourself March 3rd and y'all are really passionate about this. And a threesome is just not in y'all's wheelhouse. Watch a porn together. Or sit or like watch a threesome porn together or sit down and like maybe fantasize together. Yeah. If I was to be in a threesome, this is what I would really want to happen. Just because we're going over this list doesn't mean that Oh, that's what you have to do. Like just. Utilize what the idea is or what the theme is for that day And then how can you put it into your relationship and make it work? Absolute best cuz

casey: 19:35

days like that like like a threesome day if you're in a couple that's like no This is not something you want to do, but you'd like to explore the fantasy of it Yeah, you can literally be in bed together and just talk about what would you do if we were in this? What would? I do. What would I want to see? What would I want to experience? Engage the senses and talk with your partner while you're having sex and that could itself can be a great experience.

kari: 19:54

And be really playful with it. Don't try to get bogged down on like what you think could happen in a threesome. If you are going into it as this like fantasy concept and you're just having a conversation with your partner, leave the what ifs out of it and really just play into what you would want. To then happen because again, this is just this is a playful thing to do with your partner And I know threesomes a lot of people get really nervous in that concept But I will tell you it starts with the conversation. Yes, just having the conversation with your partner That could mean three years from now. You finally have a threesome. Who cares, but utilize this time. And maybe in March utilize this day to really figure out what your wants and needs could be around the subject for sure.

casey: 20:39

See, I love it. And we're going to have another upcoming episode that is like a very deep dive into threesome culture and how it works. Yeah, we're going to move on for now. Cause we have so much to talk about. These next two are funny because these next two I don't want to call them like vindictive, but I want to be. A little bit. How many men petitioned for that? How many? A guy's response to valentine's day, which I'm already like, wait, valentine's day is about you as a couple anyway,

kari: 21:09

if you celebrate it. I hate when people are like, oh, valentine's day is just about the woman and the romance. No, it's not.

casey: 21:15

Yeah. It's all about your partner. It's all about this person or that person. No, it's supposed to be about y'all. It's yeah. Anyways. So there was a response that came to that called steak and blow job day, where you're supposed to eat a steak and get a blow job, which I mean, I'm not, I'm not opposed to that.

kari: 21:29

Steak and I love giving blowjobs, but that's just a unique, you're the

casey: 21:34

person that'd be like, no, I'm expected to do it today. No. Oh, a hundred percent. Like not happening. No, you I'll

kari: 21:38

do it tomorrow. You want me to do absolutely. I will do it on the 13th and I will do it on the 15th, but

casey: 21:45

not that day. And then next step, we have what came as a response to steak and blowjob day, which is April 14th. And this is cake and cunnilingus day. So eat some cake and go down on a vulva. But

kari: 21:59

like, I don't know if that just annoys me. I was going to say,

casey: 22:02

now you're into it. Aren't you?

kari: 22:03

Well, no, no, I'm kind of even more annoyed because I'm like, I would rather have steak than cake any first of all. So to assume that like cake and kind of language goes together, it's just like steak in a blow job. Like now I'm offended. Now I'm a little

casey: 22:20

offended. Well, then let's leave these two behind. Let's leave them in the dust. Carrie, how about that? April 16th is national horny day. Are you a horny? Yes. I don't know how

kari: 22:32

I feel about that one. Cause horny is not set to like,

casey: 22:36

you're going to wake up on the 16th and just

kari: 22:40

be like, someone did that. Some, someone, somewhere I was like, God dang it. I find myself really horny on the 16th of April. I would

casey: 22:48

bet that you could probably take national horny day and just use it as a day to maybe engage in some teasing behavior. If you're with a partner or if you're single with like a friend or an interest or a crush or whatever you want to do But use that day to kind of like just step up your game a little bit in the engagement arena, right? April 24th is lingerie day. I'm a huge supporter of this one. I want to see lingerie on everybody

kari: 23:14

All everyone around walmart target. Yeah, everyone It's national lingerie

casey: 23:19

day guys. So make sure you're wearing your lingerie wear it on top of your clothes if you need to

kari: 23:23

but I mean, how sexy would it be to like, for a, your partner to go to work, putting lingerie underneath and then going in and like sending you a

casey: 23:31

picture, just the knowledge that you, that they're wearing it throughout the day that you're going to have you

kari: 23:35

aroused. So would that be like a turn on for you is just knowing that like, I'm going to work and underneath my work clothes is this like really sexy lingerie outfit that you would think

casey: 23:44

about? Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah. Especially if I'm receiving like. Notes and pictures and things. Yeah. You know, I can't not think about it then. That's true. Then we have May, the entire month of May is masturbation. May, I mean, I think every month is masturbation month. I don't think we should limit it to one month.

kari: 24:00

I, I don't, and, and just because it starts with m doesn't mean that may should be masturbation month, but hey,

casey: 24:06

hey, whatever works for, I mean, it could have been March. That would have been

kari: 24:09

better. Why? Because it's my birthday.

casey: 24:13

So we take the month of May to celebrate masturbation. We already know how healthy of a practice it is. I was just about to

kari: 24:20

say, like, that's something that actually should be discussed. Masturbation is very healthy in a relationship and outside a relationship. I, I, I hear it a lot in the salon where someone would be like, I don't want my partner to masturbate. And I'm like, Why? Why? It's a great form of self love. Self love. Self stress relief. Stress relief. Yeah. I got five minutes. Masturbation should not be, you're not in competition to

casey: 24:46

your partner. I know, that idea that I'm the only person that should provide my partner with a physical pleasure. That is, that is, Insane. That's out there to me. It's an out there concept, an out there idea, and I think is one that deserves to be discussed in a way. That could maybe shift a person's perspective. Yeah, and

kari: 25:02

figuring out why you might feel that way. And I'll actually be very transparent. I felt that way in the very beginning of our relationship. Very, you know, 15 years ago I felt that way. But we've grown and we've evolved and it's so different now. But I understand there's this weird sense of like jealousy in a way that you're going to have if your partner is like doing something without you. But Masturbation is such a healthy thing. So step aside from that, understand that it's healthy. It's normal for you to touch yourself, for your partner to touch themselves. So go next. Have fun. Yeah, have fun. Masturbation

casey: 25:35

May. Next we have May 5th is make out day. Make out

kari: 25:40

May.

casey: 25:42

Makeout day. Yes. On the the fifth make out. May. No, on the fifth. The one

kari: 25:45

day. One day. Yeah. Just the one day. Masturbation make out May No. Okay. Yeah. So make out day. How often do you and your partner make out? That would be my question to the listeners. Do

casey: 25:55

you make out or are y'all, are y'all just like peck on the lips?

kari: 25:59

Because I feel like the longer you're in a relationship with someone, the less you are to make out.

casey: 26:04

I don't know. I don't know. I mean, we make

kari: 26:06

out all the time. I stand pretty, we, we do, we do. But even then I guarantee, I suck your dick way more than we make out.

casey: 26:14

Yeah, agreed. We make out. No, yeah, you're, you're right. You're right. Like

kari: 26:18

we don't. Make out that much. If we do make out, it has not, it has nothing to do with intercourse or around sex. A lot of times we'll just make out to make out whenever we're in a normal setting, like a lot of fun in the morning where I come downstairs and, or we'll make out for a little bit and whatever, but like actual, like. To set aside a time. And this isn't make out just once that day it understand May 5th. We're going to try and make out as many times as we can.

casey: 26:48

I love that. And that's coming up afterwards is May 8th. And this is one of my favorite ones. It is. Outdoor intercourse

kari: 26:55

day. You fucking love anything sexual outdoors. Yeah. Outside of our home. You want all

casey: 27:01

of it. Yeah. Let's take some cleansing wipes and go on a hike and just fucking go nuts behind a bush. And we've done that a lot

kari: 27:09

actually. We, we have done the hiking trips and trails where I give you head and then you've done the ones where we have sex. and. We we've re we've like literally recorded cute little videos and there's like this, like mountaintop behind, well, not mountaintop, but we're in Texas, but

casey: 27:23

whatever, you know, well some people, trees behind us. Some people would call a lake. Or that.

kari: 27:28

Or that. I think I was imagining, like, the area that we're at, we had that kind of like cliff area, but I was like, yeah, it's Texas. But yeah, outdoors, it's a great way to just enhance the, the day to day of what your sexual

casey: 27:42

routine can be. And that's also one of our most spicy stories we have was the time that we fucked outdoors at the Dallas Arboretum. That's my, it's my favorite story. Anytime that I have engaged in conversation with, with someone and it's been like, Oh, what's something that you and your partner have done sexually? That's been like out there been like, we had sex at the Dallas Arboretum behind a waterfall. Like that, I mean, that kind of beats out a lot of what some people would say. And I looked really good that day. We both did. We did. But yes, use that day, May the 8th, to go outdoors and fuck somebody. Just make sure it's consensual. May 14th, online romance day. I mean this could be online in many ways, many shapes. It might be a dating app that you find somebody to be romantic with. It might be, you know, with your partner through So, you know, Instagram sending pictures back and forth or playing truth or dare. That's always one of a fun one that I love doing.

kari: 28:37

We played truth or dare a lot when we are not together and we're both working. Yeah. But I like, I like what you're saying. You know, maybe you are not in, in a poly relationship and you are very monogamous. Yes. There are, are beautiful ways to incorporate online with. with, like you said with your partner something to make it fun outside of the norm of what you normally do. Again, all of these days are trying to get you to step outside of what you do every single day. Let's see. So the next one we are now getting into June. June doesn't have that many but June, I'm

casey: 29:14

sorry, four, it has four, it has the most so far.

kari: 29:17

Oh, you're right. I'm sorry. I looked at that. I thought, I thought there was only two. I thought there was only two. That's so funny. Anyways. Yeah. June, June 9th,

casey: 29:25

national sex day. And that's pretty straight forward. Go into that one. It's like national sex day. Everybody. I would, I, the only curiosity I have is just how many people are having sex. Right then. And if it's if it's a

kari: 29:40

lot i'ma set a reminder in my phone and i'll like june 8th I want to pull people on june 8th and then like you never think

casey: 29:45

about that if you're having sex at night and be like I wonder how many other people are having sex right now in the world

kari: 29:50

about that so many times before honestly like in

casey: 29:53

this entire world How do you even

kari: 29:55

like i'll even break it down to like our block sometimes, you know I'll be like how many people are fucking if our

casey: 30:01

neighbors are fucking right now. Like I don't know

kari: 30:04

I kind of doubt it

casey: 30:06

That doesn't Older people are heavily sexually active.

kari: 30:11

Yeah, in group homes.

casey: 30:13

Yeah. If I'm ever in a group home, it's gonna be Balls to the walls. Balls on the jello. What's up next? We got June 14th, nudity day. Great

kari: 30:27

one. I'm curious as to what day that falls on for next year. June 14th? 2024? Because like I'm limited to honestly days that I work. I only work three days a week now. Thank fucking God. But June 14th, nudity day. It's a Friday. Yes, but I watch it be a fucking Friday. I cannot partake in that.

casey: 30:46

Same day as Flag Day, just so you know. Oh, Flag Day. Got it. Alright. Of all the important holidays, I would rather celebrate Nudity Day.

kari: 30:56

So, my question is well, I guess the other one was Work Naked Day, and then this is Nudity Day. So how would you recommend someone Changing that up.

casey: 31:07

Well be nude Look at nudity

kari: 31:11

I was taking it literal Like you kind of had that spin on it. It's just nudity in general read that

casey: 31:22

could be any read about nudity You know read some erotica Read some erotica. Yeah, listen to some nudity

kari: 31:32

I am so visual. So you are fucking my mind right now by telling me to read nudity. I use my eyes for that, babe.

casey: 31:40

But yes, be naked on June 14th in some way, shape, or form. June, June, you ask

kari: 31:45

for that a lot. And I never get it, so, well, I wouldn't say never. What, what? Oh yeah?

casey: 31:52

Go ahead, share with the class. No. No. June 21st, World Kama Sutra Day. Oh. I would consider this as just like a sex position exploration day. Yeah. Kama Sutra is great and all that and it's been a popular book for centuries. However, There's other sources where you can get great amazing sex positions designed to engage your pleasure. They're all over the place and there's some really good ones out there. I like

kari: 32:18

what you're saying, like just use this as a time to explore a sexual position that you've always wanted to try and you

casey: 32:25

just haven't. And I mean, ask your partner and be like, Hey, is there any sex position that you've been like, I want to try this, but we, we've always kind of talked about it, but we never actually execute. Each of you pick one to two and be like, all right today, if, and when we have sex, we're going to try these and we're going to prioritize it and be like, all right, let's go, let's do this. So enjoy June 21st is world Kama Sutra day. Next up is June 22nd. Carrie, one of your favorites, probably it says, Oh yeah, no penny day.

kari: 32:55

That's every day for me. It is. That is every fucking day for me. I only wear panties to be sexy. Where women wear, don't wear panties to be sexy, I'm the opposite. Like, if I wear panties, Casey's like, Oh my god. That's hot. That is so hot. I know, right? But, you know, so it's a little different for me. I am a no panties wearer, but hey. And you know what? That is common as shit. I, for, when I was younger and, and growing, I've never worn panties. Let's be real, never have I ever, it's never been a thing for me. I don't wear underwear. But, and when I was younger, that was like, absurd. Yeah. Unheard of. We were like, what? Why? And so now, as I'm like, getting older and all it is way more common. There's a lot of women that don't wear panties.

casey: 33:39

There are. There's a lot of men that don't wear underwear. I wouldn't

kari: 33:43

recommend it. Does it ring the same

casey: 33:45

though? I don't know. Cause I mean, I'm in jeans most of the time. Yeah. I would figure that would kind of hurt. The feeling of my dick against denim. Yeah. Sagging? That's not bad. That's not bad. My shit's up and close. It's more of like dick against denim. Yeah. Is the

kari: 33:58

problem that you're gonna run into. Have you ever like rubbed yourself raw with like denim and like. Raw? Yeah, like the tip of your dick. Like just rubbed on your pants so much

casey: 34:05

that it hurt. I mean, yeah, in some way, shape or form. Yes.

kari: 34:09

Yeah. So my, my vulva doesn't do that.

casey: 34:12

And then the good, the good thing is if you're wearing like boxer briefs or something, you get an erection, then it kind of contains it. It doesn't push hard up against your, your jeans. It's just kind of, it's in there, but if you're not wearing underwear and then it's pushing against your jeans, it can get painful

kari: 34:27

when you're super wet. Where you just nail trail down your leg. So that's not fun. It's a good reason

casey: 34:33

to wear underwear. I guess that's not fun So next I love that Next up is july the 6th and we have kissing day not makeout day not make out. This is kissing day So kiss all your friends

kari: 34:45

Everybody just kiss them. Everyone gets a kiss Yeah No, I think it'd be kind of cute to see like that day how many kisses you and your partner can get in Yeah in a day I don't,

casey: 34:56

I don't know how many of my male friends I could kiss that day. I bet there'd be a couple that would be like, yeah, sure. But most of them would be like, they'd

kari: 35:04

be like, no. I can probably kiss every single person. Period. Every single person. Regardless of gender. Work. Client. Doesn't matter.

casey: 35:17

Grocery store. Homeless person down the street. I mean, there's a lot of them. There's a lot of them in the area you work. So yeah, kiss somebody on July 6th, kissing day. July 21st, handjob day. Give a handjob. Give a handjob to yourself, give a handjob to your book partner. Give a handjob to your best friend. Just because you care. Lay down.

kari: 35:41

Start up world's biggest circle jerk that day. Everyone,

casey: 35:46

everyone hand to the person on your left. Exactly.

kari: 35:49

Or right, wait. Technically you could do both. You could have a hand on the left and on the

casey: 35:54

right. You're getting me into a whole damn rant about how many people. You've never seen that? No. How many people could you jerk off? And like, how many, okay, so there's, if you ever, if you've never seen the show, Silicon Valley, this this put them on the map for season one and it was in the season one finale and they were at a tight bind and they made the notion that they were like, if I have to go into the audience and jerk off every member of the audience and they're like, well, I don't mean you only have 10 minutes. How many people could you jerk off in 10 minutes? So they started coming up with like equations. To be like, oh wait, how would you line them up? Would it be, you know, next to each other? Then it was talking about putting them tip to tip so you could just make one continuous jerk off motion between the dicks. And then they were like talking about having to take girth into, into account. So widening or shortening up your hand. And then you could just switch out dicks mid jerk. So it could just be a continuous It was one of the most amazing Like five minute rants on a TV show I've ever seen. It was absolutely hilarious. So be sure to give a handjob on July 21st. Now, ooh, a great day, July 24th. BDSM. There's

kari: 37:02

so much you could do with that day. That needs to be a BDSM month. Just saying. Now we only have a day. So, this is your opportunity. Kind of the same as we said before with like the fetish concept. You don't have to go into this knowing what you would want to do on BDSM day, but you could use it as a time to like research what it is that you want to do or what it is that you want to be done to you. Yeah.

casey: 37:26

So let's, let's do a quick reminder for anybody that's like, I never remember what BDSM stands for. Always remember that BDSM is going to stand for bondage, discipline, dominant submission. And then sadism masochism. So yes, each, I mean, you're going to run into multiple letter usage there, but that's what BDSM really stands for. So anything that falls into there, we have a lot of fun on the bondage side. We have a lot of fun on the dominant submission side and a little, a little bit on the sado sadism masochism side. A little bit. Like we enjoy some good, yeah, we enjoy some good impact play and we've been expanding out that a little bit. So anyway, that is a, what date was that?

kari: 38:04

That was July

casey: 38:05

24th, July 24th. And then probably one of the best days of the year, July 31st. Do you want to read that one, Carrie?

kari: 38:12

Yes, I do. It is a national orgasm

casey: 38:16

day. How many orgasms do you think could occur in one day for the population? The population of earth at this point is like 7 billion or something.

kari: 38:23

Yeah. Oh, I'm going to talk about with me.

casey: 38:26

No, no, we could, we could, we could at least do double digits. At least I'm saying that's why I said at least. I don't

kari: 38:33

know. I mean, yeah, you're right. I, it's not the fact of like my inability to come. I just think that she would be like, please stop. Please stop. No more.

casey: 38:43

I can hit a solid four or five before I'm like, I can't, can't take this. Yeah. Like, do you know what is

kari: 38:48

the most that you've come in one day?

casey: 38:50

Five, five times. Was it

kari: 38:52

me? Yeah. Yes. Well, I don't fucking know. You know, I'm curious myself. No,

casey: 38:56

that's a fair question. It might not be. Right? Yeah. Yeah. I think five times. That was us. Five. Yeah, I would imagine probably on vacation or something.

kari: 39:06

I've probably come like 20 times in a day and

casey: 39:08

was not me. No, I'm joking. Yes, it was.

kari: 39:11

I promise you it was. No one made me come until you

casey: 39:14

so have an

kari: 39:15

orgasm on National Orgasm Day. And also understand that that could be you giving yourself an orgasm. That could be like.

casey: 39:24

It could be a combination of both.

kari: 39:25

Or you could fucking masturbate in front of each other and try to orgasm at the same

casey: 39:28

time. I do certainly feel like mutual masturbation is a vastly underrated act. Like, come on, jerk off in front of your partner.

kari: 39:36

Masturbate in front of them. But I don't even think that that's something that you and I have done, technically. No, we have. Like, we've played, but not to climax. To climax? Yeah, I mean,

casey: 39:43

To climax. Like, start to finish individually just in front of the other person. Yeah. No, I don't think that we've participated in that. Because sooner or later we're like, mmm, I'm coming in.

kari: 39:50

Yeah. We get a little too antsy. We like, we want each other at that point, but like on like average, how long would it take you to come by, by

casey: 39:58

myself? Solo? Yeah. Anywhere between a couple of minutes to, you know, 10 minutes or so. It depends. It depends on the day. It depends on my mood. It depends on there's so many variables, variables behind that. Am I watching porn or not? Am

kari: 40:11

I watching something? Yeah.

casey: 40:13

It's just something that I got to run into the, like, I have no time, but I'm, Yeah, I have a spare five minutes, and I'm horny right now So I'm just gonna relieve myself so I could actually be productive Yeah, and I

kari: 40:23

feel like that's probably the bigger difference is because I could make myself come in 20 seconds if I needed to That's

casey: 40:28

a skill That's a skill. You probably have people listening right now that it's like what what the fuck? Yeah, like really all the owners that are listening to us being like no it takes me like 10 20 minutes No, so I don't do it very often because I got like it's got to be a whole mood The candles and

kari: 40:44

nope, I don't know. Nope, real quick real real quick That's what I was wondering cuz I'm like I'd like I would come ten times in comparison to your one If we were like masturbating in front of each other, are you

casey: 40:55

asking us to compete right now? You really

kari: 40:57

kind of want to let's have a competition at this point want to see how many times can I come to your one? time coming in front of each other Are we allowed to laugh though? Cause you know, Oh, for sure. No, I, I'm going to you know that

casey: 41:08

I feel a little bit. I feel that playful sex is the best sex.

kari: 41:12

So we are going to go ahead and pull this into a two parter.

casey: 41:20

You think we should draw this out? Cause we have a lot more to talk about, but some of the days that are coming up are going to be like larger discussions and a

kari: 41:28

good way. And I feel like we're, we're in July. We ended in July. And then also we want to let y'all know if you want this list just shoot us a message and we can send you this list. Also the next thing that we're going to be doing in January, that's going to be a little bit different from this year is you can get on a email list for us and we're going to be sending stuff out. I guarantee you this list is going to be one of the things that we send out. So if you would like to be a part of our email listing at any point at any time, send us your email address and we'll get you added in. We have a lot more that we're really trying to focus in within this next year and a lot that we're really fucking excited about. We have some events coming up. We have some

casey: 42:12

traveling coming up. We haven't talked too much about the

kari: 42:15

events we have planned. We have things coming up that we have planned and the best way for you to to know about it is to also be in our email listing. Get in

casey: 42:23

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kari: 42:39

As I say, if you're hearing this, then you've already missed a day.

casey: 42:43

Yeah. I've already missed at least one day. You're on like day four at this point. So go get signed up. You can do it. Really? Well, you'll just start off from whatever day that you're on, you'll miss out on those first few days. So get in on that and then it also will opt you in for all of our future newsletter events. We promise

kari: 43:01

you, we have so much fucking cool shit coming. I can't freaking wait. Ooh, it's

casey: 43:04

exclusive too. I know you're

kari: 43:06

gonna feel like it only to the email list people, truthfully. Yeah. It could be part of something real special. Well, because we can't bombard ourselves in the beginning, so we're keeping this to our email listing at first. Mm-Hmm. And then it will open up to the civilians after, but it's not opening up to that stuff yet. It's only going to be our email

casey: 43:21

list. Email list gets exclusive access, like Mm-Hmm. like first come, first serve to our events and things like that before we open up to the public. Correct. Yep. So anyway. We're going to pick up next time. So for another episode of come on Casey, I'm Dr. Casey Sanders and I'm

kari: 43:34

Carrie Sanders.