
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
From Local Deals to Millions: Jay Conner’s Private Money Success in Real Estate
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"How I Raised $2 Million in 90 Days for Property Deals with Jay Conner"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rzX5J_zDaA
Private money has become a cornerstone for many successful real estate investors. Unlike traditional bank loans, private money offers terms generally set by the borrower, enabling rapid deal closures and often leading to significant profits. Jay Conner, a seasoned expert in private money lending, shares his insights in this enlightening episode of the Raising Private Money podcast.
Understanding Private Money
Jay Conner's journey into the realm of private money began out of necessity. After his bank abruptly shut down his line of credit during the financial crisis of 2009, Jay had to find alternative funding sources. Fortunately, his close friend Jeff introduced him to the concept of private money — funds sourced from individuals looking to invest their capital or retirement savings in real estate deals. Unlike institutional banks and hard money lenders, private lenders don't require you to jump through hoops.
Jay emphasizes that using private money is more about educating prospective lenders than making a hard sell. "I put on my teacher hat and started teaching people in my own network what private money is," he says, which allowed him to raise over $2.1 million in the first 90 days after his bank cut him off.
The Mechanics of Private Money
Terms and Timelines
In Jay's model, the private money loans he secures are typically for a two-year period. However, the actual use of the money rarely extends that long. Most deals — from acquisition, and renovation, to sale — are wrapped up within six to nine months.
Returns for Private Lenders
Jay started paying his private lenders an 8% annual percentage rate (APR) back in 2009 and remarkably, he still offers the same rate today. One might wonder how he sustains such favorable terms for himself, especially given today's higher interest rates. The answer lies in two points: first, 8% is still considerably higher than the 4.5% or 5% one might earn through conventional methods like certificates of deposit; second, Jay makes the rules. He sets the terms that allow him to offer 8% because he is not competing with the strict, often opportunistic terms of larger financial institutions.
Finding Success with Private Money
Finding Private Lenders
Jay categorizes potential private lenders into three main groups:
1. Warm Market:
People you already know — friends, family, colleagues.
2. Expanded Warm Market:
This entails deliberately expanding your network, often through organizations like Business Networking International (BNI), which Jay highly recommends.
3. Existing Private Lenders:
These are individuals already lending money to real estate investors, often found through self-directed IRA custodians who offer regular networking events.
Strategies for High-Profit Margins
Jay’s average profit per deal is a whopping $82,000, achieved through two key strategies:
1. Targeting Off-Market Properties:
Jay primarily acquires off-market properties via Google pay-per-lead services. These properties, usually owned by motivated sellers, are not listed on MLS, allowing for better deals.
2. Quick Closures:
Thanks to private money, Jay can close deals rapidly, often within seven days, which is attractive to sellers in urgent situations, such as impending foreclosures.
The Exit Strategy
Jay's exit strategy varies depending on how he financed the property. If he financed it with cash through private money, h