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89. Your self worth is your net work

June 24, 2024 Katie Smith
89. Your self worth is your net work
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The Cash Flow & Manifestation Project
89. Your self worth is your net work
Jun 24, 2024
Katie Smith

Today I break down how your self-worth is completely related to your net worth.

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This podcast helps you discover your best self and live a life full of purpose and freedom. Your host Katie Smith, mindset coach & manifestation expert will lead you on a journey to achieve time, location, and financial freedom, all while feeling amazing and staying in the flow. The podcast is all about inspiring you and show you all the amazing possibilities that are within your reach, even when they seem distant.

Katie doesn’t hold back on the tools she used to create a successful business, making 6 figures as a busy mama & enjoying a life of freedom!

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Today I break down how your self-worth is completely related to your net worth.

FREE Masterclass here.

Follow me on IG @yourcashflowbff

This podcast helps you discover your best self and live a life full of purpose and freedom. Your host Katie Smith, mindset coach & manifestation expert will lead you on a journey to achieve time, location, and financial freedom, all while feeling amazing and staying in the flow. The podcast is all about inspiring you and show you all the amazing possibilities that are within your reach, even when they seem distant.

Katie doesn’t hold back on the tools she used to create a successful business, making 6 figures as a busy mama & enjoying a life of freedom!

Don't forget to hit that subscribe button, rate, and leave a review!


Audio production, sound editing, and post-production is handled by Hey Guys Media Group LLC. Want to start a podcast? Need help with editing? Check out our friends at Hey Guys

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Welcome to the Cashflow and Manifestation Project Podcast. My name is Katie Smith and I am a Manifestation and Mindset Coach. I'm a mom who successfully took one of those little side hustles and built it into a six-figure business with the tools of manifestation and some spiritual woo. Every week, I'll share uplifting conversations, interviews and talks centered on unlocking your inner magic, pushing past limits and creating a reality even wilder than your dreams. If you enjoy listening to topics on money, mindset and manifesting, then you've come to the right place. I'm obsessed with helping women transform to their next level of freedom and wealth. I hope you enjoyed today's episode. Now let's begin. Hello, my cashflow queen, I have a question for you. Are you ready to be done with the money drama and get off the never ending emotional rollercoaster of money? You know the stress of not having money but then feeling a massive sense of relief once it hits your bank account. Yes, that rollercoaster. If you answered yes, then I would like to formally invite you to my free masterclass Cashflow Makeover and learn my proven wealth energetics blueprint to move you from financial stress to financial success. Discover your own financial consciousness, how to align your energy to attract money and create a steady cashflow effortlessly. In this free masterclass, I'll be sharing the tools that sparked my transformation from $20,000 in debt to over six figures in just eight short months. If you're ready to relax with money and call it in on demand, you're going to want to be inside this free masterclass. Sign up today and step into your wealth era.

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Hello, hello and welcome back to another episode of the Cashflow and Manifestation Project. I'm so happy you're here. Come on in. I'm going to do a little bit of a riff on self-image and how your self-image, your net worth is related entirely to your self-worth. Your self-image will literally determine what your bank account looks like. Your self-image will determine if you're in a loving relationship or not. Your self-image is everything. So we're going to get deep and I'm also going to brag about one of my one-on-one clients, because she's just kicking freaking ass and she deserves to be highlighted. She will remain nameless. I know she's going to know I'm talking about her because she's just kicking butt, but it's all going to be around self-image, so let's just head on into it, okay.

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So what do I mean by self-image? Another way of calling it is self-concept, so maybe you've heard that term before. It is huge in the manifestation and like self-creation world. But essentially what self image is? It's your view of yourself and it's how others view you. Like what you think, others view you. And a lot of this has to do with the law of correspondence Other people call it the law of reflection where you're getting reflected back essentially what you're thinking or feeling or believe about yourself, whether you know that or not, and your self-image is where everything happens literally.

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And it is really my job when I'm working with someone one-on-one is to get them to improve their self-image, improve their thoughts completely, start thinking and operating like a different person, their thoughts completely start thinking and operating like a different person and we have it match what their goal is. And it's such a simple process but a lot of the time we can't do that on our own and that's exactly what this client did. We've actually been working together for a year and she came into my life last April and I love her because when we were talking, getting to know one another before we made it official, I was asking my standard questions and she's like yeah, my goal is to be a millionaire yesterday and I love that because I think she actually got that from one of my episodes on my podcast and I'm like, oh, I love it. But as we started working together, I always start with self-image stuff. I start with mindset stuff because that's like my thing, although back then I was always helping people out with more content, strategy but I have now pretty much ditched that. I don't even talk about strategy anymore because the strategy is like the aftermath of the right mindset and belief system. So we started working together on increasing her self-image and I remember a lot of pushback, which is always happening every time I work with somebody.

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Everyone is pushing back on the self-image work, the mindset work, and you know what everyone's default is and maybe you can relate to this is everyone wants to give an excuse as to why they can't choose the better thought. They want to continue thinking the same way that they always have, which is reflecting in their world not the world that they want, not the reality that they want. But it's so hard to change our thoughts, to think in a new way, and my one-on-one clients have Voxer access to me, like I'm in their back pocket five days a week, and so you know she was like but you just don't understand, I can't think these thoughts or this doesn't work for me and it was almost like she was wanting me to give her a free pass, like, oh, okay, yeah, like, okay, I understand your situation is the only situation on this planet earth where the laws of the universe don't apply to you. So, so you're right, I shouldn't. I should treat you differently than my other one-on-one clients. Because she kind of then said that she's like you know, my situation's very unique and gave me her whole story and I did what any good coach would do and I basically said I'm sorry, but this is an excuse. It's hard work and you can admit that it's hard work, but this is just simply an excuse.

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So self-image, we adopt our self-image from our upbringing but oftentimes even into, like our early adult life, like I feel, like everyone always says, like this stuff happens between ages of zero to seven, and I say that too and that's like, honestly, the bulk of it. But a lot of stuff also happens in high school and a lot of stuff also happens in college and guess what? And a lot of stuff also happens outside of college, and so who knows where your little stints of trauma lie, where you have believed. Maybe a lie or some bullshit comment was told to you in the fourth grade, but it's happened so many times that it's given your subconscious evidence of the wrong stuff. You can give yourself conscious evidence of things going right, but you have shown yourself conscious, like see that one comment that that fourth grade teacher made to me saying that I wasn't smart enough or I'm not good at math. See, I'm not good at math, I'm in college and I'm failing. Or I'm in college and I got laughed at for answering the math question wrong. Whatever your brain will adopt and just like, oh, that's evidence, that's evidence, that evidence.

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So your self image is a bulk of all sorts of different memories stored and it can either work for you or it can hurt you. And so working on that, first of all, completely liberates you from ever being triggered by any comment anymore, because you're like no, like that was some bullshit experience that happened when I was in fourth grade or whatever, or in high school or whatever, and like I'm good now. I put that to bed, like for me being fully transparent right now, I was the dumbest of my friends in high school and then it was like a joke, like yeah, like I was in like the lowest level, even a step below the lowest level of math. Like my math skills are not great but they weren't as bad as what everyone thought it was. It's just because I did not freaking care, like I did not care about anything. So I was in like the grade below me, like, say, you're a sophomore and I was in like freshman math. But I was a sophomore in every other class.

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And that stems from something I was told in fifth grade where I messed up a question and I just adopted a belief that I was so horrible at math Guess what Everyone would like make a joke like oh yeah, katie is still in like algebra, but like damn, she's the hottest of the friends group or whatever. And it's just like it's so stereotypical I can't even believe. Like it literally makes me cringe thinking about it, like being the dumbest one. But then they told me I was the prettiest one, like get a life. So I took that all through my corporate career and I remember one job where they even kind of started to make a joke about it, like how quickly can you add, katie? How quickly can you multiply? And like that stuff really got to me.

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But then I realized that self-image work is where you have to focus to never be triggered by anything, to see things as neutral and then to be able to level up to the degree that you want to call in the life and the abundance that you want. So how does this relate to my client? She was resistant a lot on the self-image work because she wanted to be a victim of her circumstance which we always do I mean, that's human nature here on earth. School and after diligent work of really rewiring her brain because, like my coin method, there's two sides to every story and in my the wealth code Academy, I really break this down hardcore when it comes to money and like what our brain wants to do with money and the fear and the anxiety that comes on. Well, there are two sides to every coin. So if you're going to freak out at one side, you're acting like the coin only has one side. Nope, it's got two sides. So what's the other side of the coin? Say, to train yourself to look at the other side of the coin is emotional mastery, that is self-mastery and that's where I get my clients, that's where I get my students to, where I am in your back pocket or I am in your ear with activations pushing you to focus on the other side of the coin that is so foreign to you. And that's what this client did and she is fucking killing it.

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We've been working together just a year and she took a trip for two weeks and we really worked diligently on her enjoying her time there and really rewiring her brain to believe that, you know, hard work does not have to be a sacrifice for money to come in. That's not a prerequisite for me to get paid where it gets to be easy, like we can call in money whenever we want. And while she was on her trip she never posted once on social media. She wasn't out there trying to like drum up business and she was getting leads and quote requests left and right. Her entire trip where she was like this is literally insane. I haven't posted anything. I'm getting larger and larger deals and more and more deals are coming in at a higher value. She's like what is happening? It's all working.

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She has focused enough on the positive side of the coin and drummed up enough momentum with her thoughts alone to where she rose her complete money vibration and frequency with her belief system to now believe that she can go take a two week vacation with her family and not only make money, but make more money while not working. And now she has the belief that this gets to be easy. This gets to be easy for me. I don't have to stress and worry and post every day Like I can actually have it all. I just have to decide post every day Like I can actually have it all, I just have to decide. So she decided and now she's like she's back in town and we had our call today. She's like this is opening up a whole new chapter for me, a whole new level, cause it's like she feels like she's in even more control of her destiny and the way things go. And she's like I don't think I even have to go back to posting every day. I think I'm just going to maybe post when I feel aligned and maybe do three times a week or I don't even know what. But I'm going to decide and I'm going to choose that that's the way it gets to be.

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And I literally was like emotional, like I'm like my work here is done, like I am so proud because she, in that moment took her fucking power back. She's like this is how life should live and her whole life has done a complete 180. Like you wouldn't even recognize her and she's always been beautiful from the start. But like she's got this vibration and this magnetism towards her where, like she always says, people are like telling her how amazing she looks and how like she's fun to be around and I'm just so proud of her. But this is this is the work, and when you get to this point, you're in control. You get to decide how life goes for you. You get to decide how your bank account looks and how it feels when money comes in, not like, yes, yes, the money came in. Oh, thank god. Okay, we're good. More more, please. Where am I going to do it? Okay, where is it? Where is it?

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Like this anxiety, bullshit, rollercoaster, like I'm obviously very passionate about this because that is no way to live and I shared this on my masterclass If you haven't gotten your hands on that, what are you doing? Formula? And I'd say in that masterclass by no means are you here, put on this earth to suffer and stress and be riddled with anxiety about money. That is not a way to live and that's not a life to live. And the same thing, you should not be stressed about spending money where you have to hold on to every penny. That's not doing you any good either. Or spending all your money away, which was my pattern. That's not a good pattern either, and none of these are bad. None of these are things we need to guilt, trip ourselves over.

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But getting something to train your brain, to rewire it, for you to be in control, to then for you to determine and decide how life gets to be for you. It gets to be easy, money gets to be flowing in effortlessly for you and you get to call the shot. No one's pointing their finger down at you like you should cut that out, stop it. That's not how it works. All of that is literally a story you have taken on from the past and I'm here to help you erase it. And this is exactly what I talk about in my cashflow makeover free masterclass. And if you want these kinds of results that I'm sharing with my client, I just shared with you.

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That's exactly why I created the Wealth Code Academy because I am booked on one-on-one clients. I cannot give any more, and so I have taken the six month process, because when you work with me one-on-one, I'm six months or nothing. Very rarely do I ever offer three months but I'm six months or nothing, cause it takes that long for this stuff to work. So if, like, you're finding classes or courses or programs that are like three months long, four weeks long, eight weeks long, to like completely rewire your brain, run, run, I tell you it takes 21 days at least for one thing to sink in, for one thing to take hold, like you're not going to be doing much. In four to eight weeks I hate to break it to you or even 12 weeks, like this shit takes time. It is six months minimum.

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And so that's why I created the Wealth Code Academy, because I have taken my exact process and you can even work with me one-on-one by upgrading if you want to, but by no means do you have to, because I'm involved in the Facebook group that you get access to when signing up for the Wealth Code Academy. So I share that because I just am so fucking proud of this one-on-one client. She has done the work, she has completely rewired her brain and now she's literally like freedom, like she's like I get to say, and it's so fucking beautiful and it's so fucking epic and I'm just, I'm so happy, I'm so, so happy. So I share this with you to work on and think about your self image and just start taking an audit of it, like, where do you talk very kindly to yourself, and maybe that's not even your voice. Maybe you're like, oh, that was always my mom, that was always my dad, or that was always my sibling or best friend or whoever.

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And then just be like, okay, that's interesting, take note. And then just be like, okay, that's interesting, take note. And maybe just be like can I have a different thought here? What would be the opposite of this thought? Just like the law of correspondence, so within, so without right, so like it's opposite ends of the spectrum, two sides of the coin. If there's one negative thought, there's an opposite thought. That's the same thing. Another way to think about it is if, like, one person hates you, per the law of correspondence that means on the opposite there's someone who loves you madly, and so it just kind of helps you like relax a little bit, where it's like there's always two sides, always. So which side are you gonna choose? I hope you choose the positive one, because you're worthy of it and you're deserving and I love you.

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So yeah, man, we got a little bit longer of an episode here today, but I think it was so needed. I would love to hear how this landed for you and if you have any questions about any of the goodness we talked about, just slide into those DMs at your cashflow BFF on Instagram and I'll catch you here next week. Bye, if you loved what you heard today, please share with me by dropping me a review below. It lets me know to keep the good stuff flowing your way and more abundance all around. And if you're not following me on socials yet, head over to Facebook and join my exclusive, free community of epic souls who are trying to manifest their dream life in 2024. I love and adore you and can't wait to catch up with you in the next episode. In the meantime, go out there and make some magic happen.

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