Eyewitness to Therapy
Eyewitness to Therapy Episode 6: Intimacy and Vulnerability
My guest presented for therapy with a self-reported struggle with intimacy and vulnerability, particularly in therapeutic contexts, which often leads to prematurely discontinuing therapy. She expressed a disconnect between self-perception and others' perception of her, with a negative self-view especially related to her role as a mother. While cognitive-behavioral therapy has been utilized in the past, she reports it was not effective due to a perceived inability to alter her self-perception despite evidence of successes.
My guest engaged in reflection exercises during the session and focused on increasing self-awareness. She began to recognize a pattern of negative self-talk, particularly in labeling herself as a "horrible mother". In contrast, she expressed a deep-seated knowing that she is not a "horrible mother" and maintains a healthy relationship with her child.
By the end of the session, she appeared more open to exploration of these patterns and potentially continuing therapy, describing feeling safe and unjudged. She acknowledged the significance of her self-criticism and the importance of self-awareness in making more empowered choices in how she sees herself. She agreed to review the session material and complete a post-session questionnaire.
My guest presented for therapy with a self-reported struggle with intimacy and vulnerability, particularly in therapeutic contexts, which often leads to prematurely discontinuing therapy. She expressed a disconnect between self-perception and others' perception of her, with a negative self-view especially related to her role as a mother. While cognitive-behavioral therapy has been utilized in the past, she reports it was not effective due to a perceived inability to alter her self-perception despite evidence of successes.
My guest engaged in reflection exercises during the session and focused on increasing self-awareness. She began to recognize a pattern of negative self-talk, particularly in labeling herself as a "horrible mother". In contrast, she expressed a deep-seated knowing that she is not a "horrible mother" and maintains a healthy relationship with her child.
By the end of the session, she appeared more open to exploration of these patterns and potentially continuing therapy, describing feeling safe and unjudged. She acknowledged the significance of her self-criticism and the importance of self-awareness in making more empowered choices in how she sees herself. She agreed to review the session material and complete a post-session questionnaire.