Supremely Full Of It Podcast
The Thin Line between Comfort and Complacency
Imagine your partner's appearance changes post a life-altering event. Would it be fair to call it quits? We debate this, discussing scenarios such as a woman's body changing post childbirth or a man's appearance altering after a job loss. We stress the importance of open conversations and digging deeper before ending a bond, reminding you that understanding and transparent communication are the unsung heroes of relationships.
Ever contemplated the role of physical attraction in a marriage? We dissect this with a real-life example of a woman who was married for 16 years but was not attracted to her husband, leading us to a discussion about the concept of maintenance in a marriage and the role of sex. We also touch upon the influence of social media on relationships, urging listeners to not be swayed by its illusions. As we sign off, we leave you with a powerful dose of motivation about not entertaining foolishness and prioritizing genuine connections. Tune in, and you might just find yourself reflecting on your own relationships.
Imagine your partner's appearance changes post a life-altering event. Would it be fair to call it quits? We debate this, discussing scenarios such as a woman's body changing post childbirth or a man's appearance altering after a job loss. We stress the importance of open conversations and digging deeper before ending a bond, reminding you that understanding and transparent communication are the unsung heroes of relationships.
Ever contemplated the role of physical attraction in a marriage? We dissect this with a real-life example of a woman who was married for 16 years but was not attracted to her husband, leading us to a discussion about the concept of maintenance in a marriage and the role of sex. We also touch upon the influence of social media on relationships, urging listeners to not be swayed by its illusions. As we sign off, we leave you with a powerful dose of motivation about not entertaining foolishness and prioritizing genuine connections. Tune in, and you might just find yourself reflecting on your own relationships.
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Speaker 4:Let's make it hot. What it do what it do. Supreme full of it podcast back with another episode.
Speaker 3:Yes, they call me Dyer and I's Bees, your boy's nimes, and we are back.
Speaker 4:How you doing I'm good bro how you doing Everything, uh, copostatic, you know what I'm saying that's what it does. I got a question for you. Cause this question's been going around. Alright, if you could name your Mount Rushmore of R&B, what would it be? Ooh, I think there's only four. Four heads too.
Speaker 3:Top R&B artist yeah your. My, my top R&B artist. Alright, man, people ain't gonna like it, man, but Kale's Okay, uh, would have to be one, uh. The group silk. Yeah. Yeah, yes, sir, the group silk, maybe a conversation later. Alright, that's what it, though who else do? I got usher.
Speaker 4:Okay.
Speaker 3:Um, and one more. I would have to give it to Eric Bellinger. I've heard that name. What ever heard that name from? Yeah, he's wrote a lot of music. Yeah. He's wrote all pretty much almost all of usher's music. Okay, that's what? Okay?
Speaker 4:Yeah, alright, mine would be also Kale's, since you put a whole group in there. Yeah, I had to, bro. I'm gonna put the uh, the temptations in mine. Alright, alright. Uh, usher and uh. I don't know if you will say he's R&B or he's just a pure artist, but Prince, ooh, that's a good one. Yeah, that's a good one, but Prince would be in front of everybody. That's just my opinion.
Speaker 3:I would say he was probably the most well-rounded artist there was.
Speaker 4:I always get in arguments when I say Prince was better than Michael Jackson. Mmm, that's just my opinion. I think Prince was better than Michael Jackson.
Speaker 3:I would say all around talent wise, yeah, Okay, Uh, singing, producing, I would have to give it to to not not producing, but singing and dancing, I would give it to Michael.
Speaker 4:Dancing. I would give it to Michael.
Speaker 3:Okay, you wouldn't get singing to Michael either. No, I can't do that. I can't do that. I mean but for Prince to be able to play every instrument on the man Self-learned Right, all this music produced all this music and to have like a archive of like a thousand songs before he died, bro, that's amazing, yeah, man.
Speaker 4:RIP to Prince man you know what I'm saying, anyway, uh, today's episode Mm-hmm. So, um, I came across something that that I wrote years ago and I think it will make a great show. All right, resonated with you. So this guy named Dyer wrote this guy named Dyer Right. He wrote this when I was a kid, I watched a friend parents get a divorce. I asked his dad why was he leaving? Mm-hmm. He said his mother stopped being who I grown to love. Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4:She let herself go because she thought, because I loved her, that I wouldn't leave her. Mm-hmm. That's how I'm going to read. All right, so I guess we're going to start the show with this question Should you get comfortable in a relationship?
Speaker 3:Um, I think it happens. Um, but I think you also need to be aware of what the person that you with loves about you. Right. Um, physical attraction is something Well, um, but in not all cases is it. Do things change physically due to the fact that that person is doing something wrong? True, it's not always the case, that's true, okay.
Speaker 4:Well, we all know babies come into play.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Yeah, um, health issues sometimes come into play, but the saying that should you get comfortable in a relationship, it kind of sounds like you have to be walking on eggshells the whole time you're in the relationship, because if you can't be comfortable then you walking around tense like you know. I got to buck up at all you know what I'm saying times of the day. I got to be performing at all times of the day.
Speaker 3:Give me an example Of what, of what you mean, like walking on eggshells.
Speaker 4:Like you can't be comfortable, like you can't. When they met you, you was coming to bed and you know sexy gear. But now that you got the person, if that's what you want to do, for some reason I just want to say pause. I don't know why I'm just going to say pause. I don't know why. But yeah, it just felt right, Pause.
Speaker 3:So you was wearing the lingerie Right.
Speaker 4:Not me personally, the way you said it. You said so you.
Speaker 3:I'm just saying she coming to bed with the lingerie.
Speaker 4:Right. But then she put on the nightie. Yeah, get into the relationship now. You come to bed wearing a bonnet, smell like sofa eight, and you know I'm saying I.
Speaker 3:Mean going to bed smelling like that is a whole another conversation. Yeah, I've been there before, but oh no, go ahead, we're gonna put that in the box. Yeah, yeah, throw that mug away. Right, it happens. I do understand that it happens. Man, of course you can't expect somebody to Perform all the time, right, but don't get comfortable at being comfortable. This is what I'm trying to say, okay, um.
Speaker 4:Shouldn't you be comfortable with the person that you're with? For sure, so, I can't, all the time around my wife.
Speaker 3:I'm super comfortable I.
Speaker 4:Was farting around my girl when she wasn't my girl, so yeah, I'm super comfortable. I'm me at all times, yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but if there is something that I am lacking on. Bro Bro, hold on, bro bro, as soon as you said that.
Speaker 3:That video popped in my mind when that girl was dancing on that other person and then she farted, bro, uh-huh, and it just oh, bro. As soon as you said that, brother popped in my head man good, oh man, um Dang, I forgot what I was trying to say. Uh, but if your partner comes to you and say, amen, you don't do this no more, then I mean, you got to bring it to life again a little bit.
Speaker 4:All right. Um, let me ask you this Because you love someone, do you think you had to accept them for who? For who they are? Should you accept them for who they are at all stages?
Speaker 3:Um no, I Don't. I don't like all stages and all, but you are supposed to love them, right? Accepting is something completely different, though, mm-hmm, because there are some things that you just not gonna accept. Yeah, you know, but that doesn't mean that you don't love them though.
Speaker 4:All right, prime example, my girl works out mm-hmm. She wanted to date somebody who worked out. Right, I work out to some degree. Mm-hmm. You know I'm saying so. We have that in common, mm-hmm now that we are together I'm still working out well, for one because I like doing it and two Because she likes a person who works out. Mm-hmm. So just because, she loves me now. Don't mean I stopped doing what she liked, but if you do, okay, what?
Speaker 3:would cause her not to love you because you stopped. I mean.
Speaker 4:She probably won't stop loving me. Mm-hmm but you can love me from afar, because physical attraction is still a thing I'm not. I agree with you. So if I start working out and I'm just eating super donuts All the time, yeah, yeah, crispy creams, but that's, but, that's, that's uh.
Speaker 3:That's something that you can't control, though I can't control.
Speaker 4:Yeah, right now. What if there was a?
Speaker 3:Health reason as to why you couldn't do what you used to doing. Does she leave, because you may change if she did she trifling?
Speaker 4:Okay, let us play now. I don't think she will leave Because of my health issue, because I, because, even though I don't. I can't no more. She knows that if I could, I would you know. I'm saying sure, but a health issue is different. What I'm saying is the person just stops Like say all right. I mean this sounds dumb, but I've heard, I've seen couples do this Say your wife like your beer. Right, you cut it. Mm-hmm and you say I'm not growing it back because you like it.
Speaker 3:Hmm, because she likes it.
Speaker 4:No, you just, not just because I wanted to do it. Okay, yeah, she's she like I like you better With your beard.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm, mm-hmm, but you say um, I'm not growing it back.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I wasn't feeling it right, but then you start to realize that's a little bit of a Traction. Has slide it, you know, I'm saying has slid down a little bit. Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3:Um, I would think that if she was a person that uh wore weave. Mm-hmm Um. Eyelashes, okay. Fake nails Okay, um bbl. Fake boobs, um, I would think that, uh, she would have to get used to them not having a beard.
Speaker 4:Okay, what if she didn't have nothing?
Speaker 3:It ain't a whole lot of them that don't make up, you know okay my thing is, women do what they want to enhance themselves and don't want anyone to say anything about it. Mm-hmm. I haven't met a woman yet who, uh, can do something to themselves and they husband a boyfriend, say I really liked you when you did it the other way. I haven't heard a woman say okay, that's cool. I.
Speaker 4:Okay, if do you think okay, so your wife can tell you like yo, I like you better with your beard, right? So you need to grow that back. You would be more like welcoming to that.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean yeah for sure. As long as it's not an issue for me, though, right.
Speaker 4:So if you told her I don't like that you do X, y and Z, do you think there'll be a problem?
Speaker 3:Yeah, I've done it before, but I don't say it like that. I don't say I don't like that. I would say you know what you had did to your hair before that. I like that. That was really dope. But she's going to like what she likes. Right. Whether I like it or not.
Speaker 4:Okay, how important is physical attraction in a relationship?
Speaker 3:Very important in the beginning.
Speaker 4:In the beginning.
Speaker 3:I mean period, but I think physical attraction is important, especially if you don't want to have winder and eyes later on. It's important, yeah, but, like I said, the longer you with somebody and you grow together, you start to realize that things start to change for the both of y'all. That they got to get used to. You know, I got gray hair popping up in my beard now. You feel me A couple years ago, hair falling out. Got to cut it off, that type of stuff. You know things change. You feel me, if you was with the same woman and you had luxurious locks or waves or something that made people see sick and she was with you at that time, then your hair start falling out. Now she's looking at you like. You know I really ain't attracted to bald dudes, but can you be mad at that though? And some people will use that as an excuse to leave though?
Speaker 4:So you saying that's not a good enough reason to leave.
Speaker 3:In my opinion, no, because things happen to people that isn't their fault. You didn't wake up one day and say you know what, lord, just take it all. So basically what?
Speaker 4:you're saying is if you can control it. No, if you can't control it, that person shouldn't leave you Because you can't control it Right yeah for sure, okay.
Speaker 4:So if, how can I word this? When I'm trying to be nice, physical, all right. Just because you love the person, right? Does that mean that you shouldn't stop doing what? When people say the same thing, you say the same thing it took to get me is the same thing it takes to keep me right. That's what they say. Yeah, women use that mostly, right? Yeah, okay, so when you express something to them, they say well, you knew who I was when you met me, so I say that to pose this question. Say, when y'all was talking, she was slim, fit and everything. And then we all got together. Somehow she wasn't slim fit together, no more. How do you say, like yo, this is not who I started to fall in love with.
Speaker 3:I think you have to start asking yourself why you love them in the first place, or what you fell in love with. Was it the right thing to be looking at in any way when you got in this relationship? Yeah, like I said, physical attraction is the first thing that's going to bring two people together or should at least. But what do you love about that person? Did those things change? Because I've heard of guys cheating on their wives or girlfriends because they pregnant Wow, yeah, I've heard of that because they're fat.
Speaker 4:Now, that's ignorant.
Speaker 3:But everybody look at stuff differently. When I looked at oh my gosh. We already know who this is too, bro, but I can't because it's going to cut the feed. Leave me alone, tooty, while I'm recording, bro. I'm sorry, all right, but I don't know why they do it like I said, because they think they fat, bro. But everybody got their own little preferences. Pregnant women and me look like fun. So I'm being honest with you they look like fun. I'm trying to hold my laugh. Tell me they don't look like fun, bro.
Speaker 4:Anyway but, they do it Okay. Is it possible to fall in love with somebody just based off of physical?
Speaker 3:You can fall in love with them physically, yeah, but is it love, though, or lust?
Speaker 4:That's a good question.
Speaker 3:Because you can love somebody for what they do for you, but that's not when. That's not, in my opinion. That's not when love takes place. Love only takes place, in my opinion, when things get hard. Right, because you're choosing, thank you, you're choosing to continue to ride it out with this person Because, me doing stuff for you, you can perceive it as I'm doing it because I love you, but that person that's doing it could be perceiving it as I just got a duty to fulfill.
Speaker 4:Yeah, Okay, let me ask you this, since you talked about the balls of fun known as pregnant women say the woman gives birth to whatever and the man is like all right, now you ain't pregnant, no more, let's get back, right. Do you think that's fair?
Speaker 3:It depends. I think you got to give them enough time to get in the swing of things.
Speaker 3:I mean yeah, because they did go through a rough situation, then in some cases, some women will get back out there right away to try to bring their bodies back, but they still don't get back to where they were, though Some of them don't. I've seen super skinny women after giving birth have skin folds where they stomach will look like a brain or something. You know what I'm saying, but that's not because of it's their fault, though. They just had a baby. Bro, if you love them, you should be like, bring that little brain belly over here Let me rub on it. You know what I'm saying Like, love your. If you love somebody, bro, you love them.
Speaker 4:Okay. Is letting yourself go a good enough reason to get a divorce? Or is that, like you know, when you get tired, when you irritate it, everything starts to bother you. So do you think, when the person let themselves go, that that can be the start of all? The small things start to be noticed.
Speaker 3:Well, I don't even think the small things even matter. Everything that didn't matter to you before matters because you already have a problem.
Speaker 4:So before the letting go thing, it was easy for you to let things go Like, all right, I'm gonna let that slide. But since that has happened, you ain't letting nothing slide. Yeah right. Okay, right.
Speaker 3:They've been leaving the toothpaste cap off for years and then now you want to throw a fit because the cap ain't on the toothpaste. You looking for an excuse to ride out instead of just having an honest conversation with them and saying I can't go for this. You know what I mean.
Speaker 4:Hold on you can't say that I can't go for this. No more bro. I can't go for it. You know what I'm saying. I ain't feeling you no more. No, I ain't saying that. That's basically what you just said. No, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 3:I'm talking about. I can't go for this type of behavior anymore. I'm not saying I'm just over it.
Speaker 4:That's even worse, this behavior.
Speaker 3:This behavior, bro, I hope so. That's what I mean, like sometimes you got to have hard conversations. All right. I just like a woman coming to her husband saying look, you know what? I can't go for you spending money on this no more because it's messing us up financially. Same conversation All right.
Speaker 4:Let me ask you this If a man was laid off right and he was just sitting at home collecting unemployment but his wife was still working, but say he was laid off for like six, seven months and in six, seven months he stopped getting a haircut, he gained some weight a little bit, Is that a good reason to divorce him?
Speaker 3:No, I think there's a way that she can persuade him to bring it back.
Speaker 4:What if you don't want to? What if this is his new norm?
Speaker 3:In my opinion, if that's his new normal, you got to look at other reasons why it's happening. He might be all the way just straight to press bro Okay, Especially if it's not as normal All right, All right.
Speaker 4:I think we should ask this in the beginning. But what is your definition of letting yourself go?
Speaker 3:I would say, letting yourself go, in my opinion, would be purposefully killing yourself, knowing that you are.
Speaker 4:When you say killing yourself. Okay.
Speaker 3:And I probably should have used a different word for the YouTube algorithm. I might have to go find this and cut it out, but what I'm saying is, say you somebody that has diabetes Right, and your husband or wife is doing the best that they can to make sure that y'all don't have sugary stuff in the house, but every time that individual comes home, they find all of the things in the house that you shouldn't have. You discuss it with them and we can't do this. You know, I love you and I don't want to see nothing happen to you, and some people just have a level of I don't care and some people don't want to stick around and watch you die.
Speaker 3:Should they though that's a tough question, so I asked it. It depends on how much they can take.
Speaker 4:Would they be blamed for leaving?
Speaker 3:I don't know. I don't know, bro, and the reason why I say that is no one really blames a woman for leaving their husband, but they will always blame a man for leaving their wife.
Speaker 4:I agree. I agree. My definition of letting yourself go is basically I mean, it's kind of like what you said when you stop being you and the part of you that was doing the things that it took to get the person that you with now, when you stop doing that Like a part of letting myself go, will be no longer shaving my head and then my whole grady cut grows in and I look like I got that grandpa cut. That's a form of letting myself go.
Speaker 3:Okay, but what if you just like you know, I'm cool with it.
Speaker 4:But my girl knows that I'm not cool with it.
Speaker 3:But that's what I said, that it might be something else going on a little deeper than that.
Speaker 4:So you should ask first before jumping to conclusions. Right, like are you? Okay, you ain't shaved in a while. You good Something on your mind. You want to talk about something?
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Yeah, you think you look good with that grady cut. You would say that I mean, if I, I mean I've tried the grady cut, to be honest with you, and I don't think I look good with it. So, that's why I don't rock with it. But what. Is there like a timeframe on on how long you should wait for a person to jump back to form after the conversation of you, of you noticing them letting themselves go?
Speaker 3:I don't you talking about getting back. I don't think there should be a timeframe, but maybe you should just see some fruits of their labors. Okay, because, like I said, they may never get all the way back and it may be a fight for the rest of their life, but you should give them credit for fighting though.
Speaker 4:Yeah, nobody gives credit for anything anymore, like you actually have to do it, have a finished product. Yeah. So I got this video that I think kind of goes with with what we, what we've been talking about. All right, all right. So I'm going to play it and then we're going to talk about it. Is it hooked up?
Speaker 3:Um, oh, my bad bro, wrong fader.
Speaker 4:Yes, ma'am.
Speaker 3:Players make mistakes too. Chas again.
Speaker 1:We sat on our couch in the living room and he was like I just want to have a really honest conversation with you and I just want you to like, tell me exactly what it is. Not this cute answer, not what you think. I want to hear None of that. You've been telling me that you were working on it and it's just you and you in your head and all that like for real. And I told him the truth. It's a disconnect, like I'm not naturally attracted to you in that way and it's probably nothing that you could do about it. And his face. It was like you remember Mortal Kombat, when he would go in the chest and smash the heart out. That's what I felt like I did and this whole be honest with me. I was like the man asked me for honesty and I gave it to him, but I don't think that that's what he was thinking I was going to say, and that was pretty much the beginning of the end of our relationship. Yeah, I can imagine.
Speaker 1:Then the weird part for us, that was when the whole open relationship dynamic was introduced and almost as a means to save our relationship.
Speaker 4:And in the moment, I almost cut it off right there. So this woman was married to a husband for 16 years 16. And she said that she wasn't attracted to her. Yep, that's what she said. So my question is how do you marry somebody that you're not physically attracted to? Because physical attraction is the first thing that attracts a person to you.
Speaker 3:Should, and unless she married him for other reasons.
Speaker 4:Possibly.
Speaker 3:But I don't believe her. Okay. I think she's a liar, but she learned about, I know. I think it was deeper than her saying that she's not physically attracted to her husband. I just think she was more attracted to somebody else.
Speaker 4:Okay, don't you think the dude kind of knew something was up? Maybe not 16 years, Maybe not bro, I'm going to be honest with you, man.
Speaker 3:Some dudes are just oblivious to what is actually going on, bro. Like sometimes you may think that everything is good and then one day the script just flipped.
Speaker 4:But all right, if what? If she came across as like having sex with him was like a chore.
Speaker 3:I almost believe that that happens a lot in marriages, no matter what.
Speaker 4:I can't that, bruh.
Speaker 3:I'm being serious because, especially like kids play a factor, work life play a factor. All of that play into that bruh.
Speaker 4:But if you married, though, yeah, you ain't got to worry about that. Then, over your shoulder you should be knee deep, and you know what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 3:But a lot of people, when they get married man, especially on my sisters, women a lot of them believe after getting married, bro, they're done, they've made it, they've achieved what they tried to achieve. But a lot of them don't realize that now maintenance come into play.
Speaker 4:You got to maintain that and that's what sex is for men. Anyway, it's maintenance, it's a tune up, exactly, it's a tune up, and some of us need to be tuned up more than others.
Speaker 3:You don't want your husband to be aggressive. Deplete his testosterone. You don't want him to be angry. Reduce his testosterone.
Speaker 4:But I mean, okay, women is the only species gender people who can say I got an attitude because I haven't had no. Yeah.
Speaker 3:They can say that, for sure. But if a man say that but you know why they can say that though, right, they can say it because they know you want it- but we need to stop asking women though most sex as much as we do. But that's a lot of them act like they don't because that's what they use to control every situation.
Speaker 4:All right, I just all right Back to our video. Amen, it's not possible that a man cannot know that his woman, his wife, is not physically like. How is that possible? Oh, hold on, you probably don't even know. I don't know why I bring these movie references up. Have you ever seen a movie? Why Did I Get Married?
Speaker 3:Yeah, but I don't know. I told them, man, my memory trash.
Speaker 4:Okay, well, jill Scott with her fine self.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I remember parts of it.
Speaker 4:She was dating a dude who wasn't physically attracted to her no more and he told her yo, you need to lose about 50. I forget how many pounds. He told her yo, you need to lose weight, and then maybe we could work on this the whole time he's sleeping with her friend. Jill Scott knew to some degree that her husband wasn't feeling her no more. So there's no. I know that that's a movie, but I'm just saying there's no way that you cannot tell the person you are with is not feeling you.
Speaker 3:I disagree. I'm all ears. I disagree, bro. I believe that women are really good at hiding until they make their move.
Speaker 4:Their move.
Speaker 3:Their move.
Speaker 3:Yeah, until they make their move, bro. I think men, I think a woman would know, before a man would ever know If her husband ain't feeling her like that. She would know, Because women know what we want, so they would know. But some women, man, they know how to play the game until they make their strike, bro. They move bro. Yeah, they do. They do. Think about it. Just the video we just listened to. They've been married 16 years. He just asked her to be honest when she finally told him this Dude was oblivious to what was going on. Bro, you just called me ugly in our 16th year of marriage.
Speaker 4:Okay, Was he just not paying attention?
Speaker 3:Okay, let's say it was paying attention. Do you think he got an honest answer? She just gave it to him just now.
Speaker 4:It was the whole. It's not you, it's me. I'm working on it.
Speaker 3:And that's why I say they'll know before us, because your wife would be trying to get any touch on you by the blind. You drained because you didn't already been doing something else.
Speaker 4:Okay, 16 years is a long time, yeah, a very long time. It is possible to lose attraction.
Speaker 3:I mean, everybody is just your day to day workings, man. Y'all could kind of fall out of sync period.
Speaker 4:So do you think after she gets a divorce or whatever. Well, she did say that they had an open relationship.
Speaker 3:Yeah, she said that in the attempt to save their marriage is what she said. Now let me ask you this real quick who do you think's idea this was? She said it was his. I don't believe it. I don't believe it was his. You believe it was?
Speaker 4:hers? Yes, I do, because she was already looking at somebody else.
Speaker 3:Yes, I do. I believe it was her. I did Because ain't no man gonna say let's have an open relationship in the attempt on saving our marriage. That ain't happening, bro. How does that save a marriage? By introducing more body parts. That's why I know he didn't say, he didn't bring that up. Bro, that's crazy. She wants her cake and eat it too. She thought she could keep him and do her at the same time, because obviously something about him kept her there, even though she said she wasn't attracted to him.
Speaker 4:Ain't that what you're supposed to do? Have your cake and eat it. What's the point of having your cake if you can't eat it? I hate that saying, bro, I really do. Why do I have this cake then, if I can't eat it?
Speaker 3:You thinking about it a little bit.
Speaker 4:I'm just saying, bro, don't say that to me, bro, that's all I'm saying. Don't say that to me. Eat the cake, man, eat the cake. I'm gonna eat the cake, the cake's empires, bro. What's wrong with these people? Anyway, final words bro. Oh man.
Speaker 3:Hey, somebody explain to my man what Bro I'm just saying.
Speaker 4:I'm just saying Write it in, write it in, Write it in YouTube probably.
Speaker 3:Yeah, write it in, man.
Speaker 4:Maybe I'm not getting something.
Speaker 3:But let me say this before people say I'm tripping yeah, some dudes do want open relationships. I get that, but I don't believe it's ever in the attempt to save something, though I believe for those that do open marriages, this is on the table period. You know what I mean. It's just it's not a bright idea to try to do it 16 years later 16 lit, bro.
Speaker 4:You probably were in your 40s, you too old to be doing stuff with me.
Speaker 3:Sit down, play some solitaire or something. Man listen man. Yeah.
Speaker 4:This is who you with. Ok, your stuff probably don't work that well, his stuff probably don't work.
Speaker 3:You feel what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:And yeah. And you think some young champ is gonna make you feel young again.
Speaker 3:My thing is, man, don't let this social media fool you, man, Because you're going to realize that that man that held you down for 16 years ain't nobody else going to do that for you.
Speaker 4:That's that 80-20 rule. You got anything else, man, I ain't got nothing. All I'm going to say is maintain what you can maintain, but life catches up with everybody. All right, man Was that a motivational quote no.
Speaker 3:Because I was like bro we didn't have no music going on. No, no.
Speaker 4:I literally just made that up. That was a barter. Ok, I like it, I like it Now.
Speaker 3:you can bring the music in though.
Speaker 4:I mean, you got one still yeah.
Speaker 3:Bro, I'm going to stay thinking. I'm going to stay thinking, yeah.
Speaker 4:But I'm going to need you to go first, because I'm still thinking, you're still thinking, I ain't got nothing, you ain't got nothing, I'm about to make it up right now. Ok Well here we go yeah.
Speaker 3:I'm about to make it up One plus one equals two and in the eyes of God that means it equals one. If you introduce a third party, you're going to get a third party. That equals one. If you introduce a third party, you didn't mess up God's math bar.
Speaker 4:All right, hey, I like it Wow.
Speaker 3:It took me a minute to get there, but I made it, you know what I'm saying. All right.
Speaker 4:Yes, sir, my motivational quote is the longer, the longer you entertain foolishness, the more foolish you look.
Speaker 3:I feel it, I feel it.
Speaker 4:You came a fire today. I like that.
Speaker 3:You came a fire today.
Speaker 4:That was dope. Next episode pride. Not going to be so far.
Speaker 3:Oh man, they call me Duhra and I be a boy now. Supreme me full of it podcast.
Speaker 4:Yes, sir, we out.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I like that. One plus one equal to doubt.
Speaker 4:But it goes on, equals one.
Speaker 3:You said God's math, god's math, his math is always perfect, always perfect, always perfect. Supreme me full of it. Podcast.