Supremely Full Of It Podcast

Love makes you blind.

March 11, 2024 N.I.M.E & DY3R
Love makes you blind.
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Supremely Full Of It Podcast
Love makes you blind.
Mar 11, 2024
N.I.M.E & DY3R

Ever been torn between the heart's desire and the moral compass? Our latest heartfelt episode delves into that very quandary, unpacking the tricky territory of confessing romantic feelings to someone who's spoken for. We grapple with the question: is it ever acceptable to lay your emotions bare, knowing it could potentially rock someone else's relationship boat? But that's just the tip of the iceberg.

Strap in for a rollercoaster ride through the peaks and valleys of love's landscape as we confront insecurities that often sneak into partnerships, threatening to unravel the threads of intimacy. Tune in and discover if it's reasonable to expect your significant other to double as an emotional warrior in your personal battles against self-doubt. We also bring in scenes from reality TV relationship dramas that spark a debate on the absurdity, yet undeniable reality, of the expectations we place on our partners.

To cap off the journey, we engage in a heartwarming reflection on personal growth, both within our relationships and as individuals. We muse over the art of knowing when to hold on and when to let go, and the lessons learned along the way. We're also celebrating the leaps and bounds of our podcast community, extending a heartfelt thank you to you, our listeners, for your unwavering support. So, prepare to be swept up in a wave of honesty, laughter, and raw emotion as we pursue the essence of true connection and the courage it takes to foster it.

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Ever been torn between the heart's desire and the moral compass? Our latest heartfelt episode delves into that very quandary, unpacking the tricky territory of confessing romantic feelings to someone who's spoken for. We grapple with the question: is it ever acceptable to lay your emotions bare, knowing it could potentially rock someone else's relationship boat? But that's just the tip of the iceberg.

Strap in for a rollercoaster ride through the peaks and valleys of love's landscape as we confront insecurities that often sneak into partnerships, threatening to unravel the threads of intimacy. Tune in and discover if it's reasonable to expect your significant other to double as an emotional warrior in your personal battles against self-doubt. We also bring in scenes from reality TV relationship dramas that spark a debate on the absurdity, yet undeniable reality, of the expectations we place on our partners.

To cap off the journey, we engage in a heartwarming reflection on personal growth, both within our relationships and as individuals. We muse over the art of knowing when to hold on and when to let go, and the lessons learned along the way. We're also celebrating the leaps and bounds of our podcast community, extending a heartfelt thank you to you, our listeners, for your unwavering support. So, prepare to be swept up in a wave of honesty, laughter, and raw emotion as we pursue the essence of true connection and the courage it takes to foster it.

Speaker 1:

Hey, yo supremely full of it haha and my mic sounds nice.

Speaker 2:

Yes, sir, supremely full of it. Podcast. Back with another episode, back with another. I think my name is dire this week, is it yeah?

Speaker 1:

yeah, I was gonna call you something else but it's cool, they call me dire and.

Speaker 2:

I'll be your boy now, not be your boy now. What's going on, man?

Speaker 1:

man, I'm good how you doing bro fresh, fresh, fresh.

Speaker 2:

That's how I'm doing.

Speaker 1:

You're doing fresh yes, yes, never heard it like that, but that's what it though we mess up the English language all this you do yes yes, I have a speech impediment what? What does it have to do with changing whole words, though that's what and just making up new stuff?

Speaker 2:

what is that to do with a speech impediment? It's an excuse for the type of speech payment that I have so let me ask you this what did you want to say that you couldn't say?

Speaker 1:

but you said fresh fresh, yeah, yeah that's all.

Speaker 2:

I'm just starting to see. Yeah, anyway, you know, last episode. Wait, was it last episode, or?

Speaker 1:

it might have. It might have been a couple ago.

Speaker 2:

Okay, a couple ago, yeah but I'm the one a couple ago you know, so God just got you there yeah, it is what it is? We had a email from Bruce, okay, and he asked the question. Like you know, I this is girl that I like, but she got a man. Should I tell her right by the buzzer, right, right, man, you still been going back and forth on yeah, yeah we have.

Speaker 2:

You know, I'm saying yeah, yeah. So from from our YouTube comments, we we have a comment that a who I don't know if rubbed, rubbed you the wrong way. Did it rub me the wrong way? Yeah, I don't know. But I don't know. But you want to talk about it?

Speaker 1:

I mean, I think we should talk about our fans.

Speaker 2:

Comments man okay you know I appreciate every last one of them okay so the comment read I mean reads this okay, what if you're not trying to shoot your shot or be disrespectful to the person's relationship? Life is so short I had to go.

Speaker 1:

Okay, hold on, hold on. Before you read the first sentence again, what?

Speaker 2:

can't stand. What if you're not trying to shoot your shot or be disrespectful to that person's relationship?

Speaker 1:

okay, let me say this okay, alright, even if you're not trying to do something, it doesn't mean that you're not doing it. But they're not trying to do it, that doesn't mean you're not doing it but they got good intentions.

Speaker 2:

Because they're not trying?

Speaker 1:

your good intentions mean nothing if you're actually doing something. That's what I'm saying. Okay, you know, I could say you know I'm gonna try not to hit you, but if I slap you I'm still wrong, bro all right, okay, we can get.

Speaker 2:

Okay. Okay, life is so short. I hate to go through life and not tell people how I feel. Hmm, not trying to get anything from it, just one that person to know how highly you think of them, or whatever the case may be. Okay, is that okay?

Speaker 1:

in caps. All right. This how I feel about that. Okay, in certain cases, man, you shouldn't be worried about it. Why not if you are in a relationship yourself, mm-hmm. Or married yourself? You trying to let people know how you feel shouldn't matter to you. I feel like you've lost a privilege to do anything like that when you, when you're in a relationship or you married I see this with me.

Speaker 2:

You differ. Yeah, go ahead. I don't think you lost it. Why didn't you? Because you can still do if you want to. You're just choosing you not to do.

Speaker 1:

You forfeited the right to do that. You didn't. I will give you you a forfeit, it if you're married, but if you just boyfriend and girlfriend, you ain't for but how do you, how do you get to the stage of getting married if that's what you want to do, if you are already playing that type of game all this person?

Speaker 2:

is saying is that if you don't, like I said at the one show, mm-hmm, you would beat yourself up. For what if you don't tell the person?

Speaker 1:

but see, that in itself means to me that you are doing it to get something out of it. That's not because if you're going to beat yourself up for not doing it, then you want something from it, even if that person don't bite, don't, you know, try to highlight you back or whatever the case may be. Mm-hmm, if it's gonna bother you, you are looking for something out of it, okay yeah.

Speaker 2:

I'm gonna let you have it. I'm gonna you get you got to bro and it continues. Yeah, I would think cuffing season will be in the summer, mm-hmm, that's when most people travel. I'd rather have a temporary person to travel with and do all the fun summer activities with. Why spend money on somebody during the holidays that I don't see myself with?

Speaker 1:

okay, you lost me there hey brother, what I'm gonna say is this everybody got their own definition of what cuffing season in and when it is right, right, my thing is I'm not traveling with nobody temporary. Exactly. To me that's more of a financial hit to your pocket. Then spending time with somebody around the holidays, yeah, and I don't want to know. I mean what if the person you traveling with that you trying to cut you know you probably don't even know I'm not with?

Speaker 2:

I'm not traveling with nobody that I don't know for at least a year if I'm traveling with somebody is with somebody that I want, true, and it has. Prices are now mm-hmm, yeah, um, I know way I ain't doing that, one ain't no way. So yeah that you lost me there.

Speaker 1:

That that was it yeah, okay, that was it. My thing is. I mean, I understand the comment, man, and you know everybody had their own thought process. Yeah, life is short, but some things you need to let go, some stuff you got to let go, because how would anybody feel if they was in a relationship with somebody else and then the person that they would Go to, the person that they thought highly of and say something to them?

Speaker 2:

I'm gonna give you the example that I gave up before when we was talking. Yeah what's that example? I Saw a girl that I found attractive. Mm-hmm I. Didn't want to be with her right. I just found she was attractive. Mm-hmm. I Went up to her, introduced myself, right, and all I told her was I find you very attractive, right, and I just felt like you need to know that, okay, and then I walked off, right, I didn't want nothing from her, okay let's rewind, okay.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, let's rewind real quick because you and I both know, you know, um, you found her attractive, right, and I'm assuming that you might have been single. Yeah, okay. No, this is back in the Transition okay so I don't, I think I was okay, now Perfectly fine, cuz you single, right, right. My thing is you didn't know her, no, okay, you didn't know if she was married or in a relationship, okay, or did you?

Speaker 2:

This just not just.

Speaker 1:

I mean for the argument's sake. Did you know? She was separated okay, she was separated, all right. Now you telling her that, even though you didn't want nothing from her, yeah what you say, right, right, if she was to bite, would you have moved on it, because you had already found her attractive, right?

Speaker 2:

She, she did bite. Okay, and at first no, because Her biting Calls me to what, what? What caused me to be in something that I didn't want to be in With her?

Speaker 1:

Yes, okay, but you got something out of it.

Speaker 2:

Towards the end.

Speaker 1:

I mean wait, wait you got something out of it.

Speaker 2:

It's not because I, it's because she wanted something.

Speaker 1:

But first you opened the door. You opened the door, you you gave the invitation, bro. So If you say so, you, you wanted something out of it not bruh.

Speaker 2:

If I wanted something out of it, then I would have stayed there after I told her you know, I find or I would have said like yo, I want to take you out sometimes what happened was.

Speaker 1:

It turned out not to be something that you wanted to be in. That's what happened. But even if you say and this is even if I go with what you're saying as far as I just told her that I didn't want nothing to happen, don't Discount the fact that the other person was put in a position to either do it or not. Now, if you're gonna go tell somebody how you feel and speak highly of them, like with the comments said, you're still placing another person in a situation that you shouldn't place them in, especially if you know if they're in a relationship or not. All I'm saying is.

Speaker 2:

Are you? Are you doing? Is telling the person how you feel?

Speaker 1:

And now, if they act on that, then that's them no, bro, no, it's both of you, it's both of y'all, bro, and, in my opinion, going to tell somebody how you feel, especially if you know they're in a relationship, you're selfish individual like bruh sometimes, first we have to be selfish to be selfless. Where you get what you hear this from. This sound like dr Uman Johnson talk. What? Nope. Hey bruh nope. Click bait nope.

Speaker 2:

I'm not, nope. Anyway, come on, man appreciate the YouTube comments. Man Just keep. You know, I'm saying keep comment.

Speaker 1:

Like I was. I will say this if you want to hold on to what you already have, keep your mouth shut, all right that's all I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

Any who before this gets out of hand what you mean.

Speaker 1:

You know what I mean amen, I want all the smoke.

Speaker 2:

I don't Not right now Not right now it's too early, too early anyway. The TV show love is blind. You heard of it? Yeah, I heard of it. Never watched it, but okay, well, in case people haven't heard it or or watched it, it's about a group of people who know, I'm saying who get to know each other behind walls, like they talk, get to know each other on a Mental and sentimental. Artists are the credit level you know saying. And then, once you vibe with somebody so much that you fall in love, you propose to them without ever seeing them, oh nice, and then you don't see them until After. You propose to them no, and then they, they brisk them off to paradise, and and that's when they get to know each other on a physical level. Hmm.

Speaker 2:

And then like they get married quickly. So, with this season, what they're on season six, mm-hmm. And you watched all of them. Yeah, okay, you know how? Like, how you ever Seen your wife watching something? You like this is stupid. Yeah, you might watch this, but then all of a sudden you play no, don't do that, why they doing this. You talking to your wife like bro, what I ain't gonna lie, bro.

Speaker 1:

I don't like none of them shows, but she was watching something one day, bra. I walk past I'm like, oh yeah, he a cheater, bro See yeah, you find yourself right there. Yeah, I'm saying like yeah, I bet he say this and then he'll do it. Yeah, now I'm hooked, you know I'm saying yeah, so like the first season.

Speaker 2:

I was a man it's a stupid, but then I just kept watching them and then we on season six. Mm-hmm you know what I'm saying. So what it seems like as the seasons go, they just, they just care less and less. So Me personally, I don't think TV has been the same since flavor of love. That's to me, that's peak television.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, flavor of love was Was. It was epic. You know I'm saying top five for you, huh bro, and I just let all these shows are just watered down version of that, anyway they. Okay. My first question is do you think love is blind?

Speaker 1:

Yes. Okay why I do think love is blind. Why, now? Not in the sense of Not being able to physically see somebody now, mm-hmm, but sometimes we love people and it blinds us to who they actually are. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, I.

Speaker 2:

I believe that love makes you blind. Yes, right, both. Mm-hmm. Like if you, if you love somebody enough, you will lie to yourself. Mm-hmm. Just just to keep them around. I agree, well, to keep you. Yeah, yeah, to keep them around.

Speaker 1:

Mm-hmm, I agree.

Speaker 2:

Like you a lot of yourself just Like To not notice their red flags, and when you do notice them, you will make an excuse for mm-hmm. You know I'm saying and you will say love, love makes you do stupid things I don't do. Does love make you do stupid things?

Speaker 1:

Yeah all the time. Okay, not always bad, no, but yeah, okay but okay.

Speaker 2:

So let me ask you this then Mm-hmm. If love makes you do stupid things, why do so many people go and search for it?

Speaker 1:

Because it's also a good thing at the same time.

Speaker 2:

Can it be both? Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Definitely, it can be both Okay.

Speaker 2:

I think when people say love makes you do stupid things, you only say that after you've done something stupid and it didn't work out for you.

Speaker 1:

Or the other way around you can still be with the person that you're saying that about, because before you could be like man, I used to break up with girls. You know when they did that, I'm gone, yeah. And then now you with somebody and you putting up with certain stuff, trying to deal with it. You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, you know you put up with it, you be like I used to leave for less and now you still there. What man? I'm not speaking from myself. You know what I'm saying. I'm just, I see this. You know, I know these things.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, all right, I think, all right, it's this woman on this season I think her name is Chelsea or something like that and during the show she showed, in my opinion, extreme insecurities. So my first question is can insecurities ruin a relationship?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2:

How or in what way?

Speaker 1:

If you have. It depends, man. It's kind of twofold. It's like two sides to the same coin. You know what I mean. Some insecurity is up to the other person to help you with, and the other side of that is there are some insecurities that no one else can help you with.

Speaker 2:

Okay, Is the person you with. Is it their job to help you through your insecurities? Like, isn't their job to do that? Yeah, Is their job? Yeah, or it would be nice if they did.

Speaker 1:

It's their job to help you with the insecurities that you can help them with. Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2:

But a person can only help you do so much If you don't never see it. Eventually, what the other person is saying is just going on one ear and out the other. I agree. Yeah, I agree, so okay. So you stay with a person who is very insecure, but they don't want to work on it. They're secure about what. Let's say how they look. Okay.

Speaker 1:

That's something you can help them with in a sense. You know what I'm saying. I mean, give them positive feedback, blah, blah blah. But if they never see it, though, how?

Speaker 2:

good is your positive feedback.

Speaker 1:

And that's something that they got to work on themselves.

Speaker 2:

Is there a time limit on that?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, Whatever time limit the person set, they're dealing with it. Okay, yeah, I mean, if you've fed up with trying to help them with it, then if you done with it, you done with it.

Speaker 2:

Okay, at one point in the show, the guy that she was the guy that proposed to her. He told her spoiler alert. He told her that he didn't want to marry her, right? He told her why. Yeah, there were some reasons. You know what I'm saying. Basically, she was like I feel like you never even tried to get married. I feel like you just wasted time. But all through the show she would like argue about small stuff. What kind of arguments. One argument was she said that she got, she was in her feelings or whatever, because he didn't kiss her all day. What, yeah, yeah, alright. And that was. That turned into something. Alright, like, what? Like? How do you, what's you supposed to do with that?

Speaker 1:

I'm petty bro.

Speaker 2:

Okay, how was your handle?

Speaker 1:

I do petty stuff. How was your handle? I would have never kissed her. I just blew kisses at her from across the room and I'd have made her even more mad.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that would have made her mad, yeah.

Speaker 1:

That don't even. That ain't even realistic bro, that don't even make sense.

Speaker 2:

Well, she was mad about that Kiss on her all day. He just didn't give her.

Speaker 1:

I don't know. Okay, let me ask you this Did he kiss her at all period?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, he just didn't do it that day. He said that he was working and she was gone doing whatever, but she was really mad that he didn't kiss her all day. Is that something that you should expect to happen every day?

Speaker 1:

All I can say is she put her, she put it out there. It's up to him to figure out if he willing to do it or not. Okay, okay. It's just, you know, that's a a whack argument to have, though Okay another one.

Speaker 2:

She was at home. He went out to celebrate something and I think he was gone for like 90 minutes or something. He went to the bar, had made me like two drinks and came right back home. She was at home, mad because he went out with his friends and he, like he said that he never goes out whatsoever. And she got mad because he went out and she was at home and she said she doesn't want a man that goes out all the time.

Speaker 1:

Because he went somewhere once. Yeah, for 90 minutes.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

The length of a movie.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, and she said that she don't want a man that goes up all the time.

Speaker 1:

I can see.

Speaker 2:

If she said she didn't want a man, that goes out Okay, but to say all the time, but isn't that asking for too much, though saying you don't want a man that go out at all?

Speaker 1:

There's some, though If that's one of the things that draws the line and saying for you, then that's cool.

Speaker 2:

So you mean, tell me if I wanted to go, kick it, if I wanted to go to Roosters with a friend, she can get mad because I'm going out with a friend.

Speaker 1:

No, I'm not saying she should get mad. I'm saying she should find somebody that don't do it.

Speaker 2:

Don't know. Woman want a man just stuck in the house. Some do.

Speaker 1:

All right, bro, some do bro, that's crazy.

Speaker 2:

But okay, that was the argument though.

Speaker 1:

How did he handle?

Speaker 2:

it. He was dumbfounded. I go out for 90 minutes. I go out for a drink or two and you mad because I did that and now you don't want a man to go out all the time. When I don't go out all the time, my thing is this If you are that insecure, you shouldn't be in a relationship.

Speaker 1:

I don't even know if it's even about being insecure about that situation.

Speaker 2:

But I think that all comes into insecurities. All her reactions comes from her insecurities.

Speaker 1:

Did she express that, though? I mean, some of them just don't want you to have fun, they just the fun police bro. They just the fun, some of them the fun police bro, you having fun without me, and then they mad bro.

Speaker 2:

If I'm not around, what you smiling for?

Speaker 1:

That bruh.

Speaker 2:

What you giggling for. I think that if the person dating the insecure person be mad that the woman is projecting their insecurities all the time, or is it just something that they signed up for, so they just sit there and take it?

Speaker 1:

Nah, I think if it wasn't expressed at the beginning, then you kind of learning that stuff is happening, so it's gonna make you mad.

Speaker 2:

So it's okay for you to be like it's gonna make you mad.

Speaker 1:

But it's like I said, it's up to you to put up with it. Try to figure it out, fix it, whatever the case, Okay.

Speaker 2:

How do you? Okay, what do you think about her saying that dude wasn't even trying to get married? Because he said he did want to get married. But all through the show they show him trying to work through the arguments that they had. But she said you wasn't even trying. Hmm.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I'll be mad about that, yeah, yeah, and you kind of know what you're getting, you know what I'm saying, like that, and that's where you know, love can be blind, bro, or love makes you blind.

Speaker 2:

Okay, it was another guest on the show and another spoiler alert if you ain't seen the show yet, but he had issues with marriage because he came from parents who got divorced. Mm-hmm. And his dad cheated on his mom.

Speaker 1:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

And. But his dad, I think, used to take him out when he was cheating and and, like the dude said, like he came on the show to build that emotional connection or whatnot, mm-hmm. But when he got to the altar he said that he wasn't ready to get married because he needed to do some work on the self. But all through the show he kept saying like I don't want to let you down, I don't want to cheat on you, stuff like that. Yeah.

Speaker 2:

If we look at our parents and they have been divorced over there from cheating or whatever, can that make us scared to get married? We'll try marriage too.

Speaker 1:

I mean, yeah, I mean you seen some stuff you don't want to go through, but he whacked for that though. Yeah, yeah, I think he whacked for that. Bro, you go to a show, mm-hmm, to get married, to get married, yep. To make it to the end to get married, to say you don't want to. Mm-hmm, yeah, you whacked Because you said he's not ready for marriage, you wanted 15 minutes of fame.

Speaker 2:

I think if you go on any type of show like that, knowing what the end result is, you should be ready for marriage.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, you just wasted your time in there, but if you've seen the way your parents did things and you didn't agree with it.

Speaker 2:

You've seen the blueprint on what not to do. Yep, I agree with you, so All lessons are good lessons. Right.

Speaker 1:

Even the ones that are bad lessons. You still know firsthand what it looks like to do something wrong, right. So whatever they did, do the opposite, try to do the opposite.

Speaker 2:

Do the opposite and like, if you can, if you've seen this growing up, possibly you could see it before it happens in your life. Mm-hmm, maybe, but in my opinion I come from me. My biological father was in my life, so I know, whenever I have a kid, not to do what he did For sure. So to some degree you have.

Speaker 1:

I learned an experience.

Speaker 2:

Right knowledge of what to do and what not to do. Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1:

I think a dude might have been a cheater already. Yeah, that's what I'm about to ask you.

Speaker 2:

He. Do you think a person can be worried about cheating on us? Let me reword it Do you think anybody wakes up that day and just be like? You know what I'm gonna cheat today?

Speaker 1:

I don't think nobody doing that. Yeah, they do. Yeah, they do. Yeah, some people do, some people do.

Speaker 2:

Not if it's it was playing the night before. But that's not like that. They just wake up with nothing playing. They just wake up like yeah it's a good day to cheat.

Speaker 1:

Nah.

Speaker 2:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

I mean not like that, though. You know what I mean Some people looking for it, all right.

Speaker 2:

I just I think, if you constantly saying I don't wanna let you down, cheating is, I've seen it, whatever. Mm-hmm. Why you even think about that.

Speaker 1:

That's why I said he whack for going.

Speaker 2:

He whack for going Because, like speaking from experience, when I've cheated I never thought about cheating, it just happened. I saw myself in. I saw myself in a situation, some situation I put myself in. There you go.

Speaker 1:

But some of, because you know that's what I was about to say. Yeah, but some.

Speaker 2:

I saw myself in a situation and you know, but I never woke up like yeah, today Give me some strange.

Speaker 1:

Today, Like but, like subconsciously though, you place yourself in situations where something happened, though.

Speaker 2:

Okay, this is gonna be a show, mm-hmm. But At some point in any person's life mostly men, probably at certain ages they wonder if they still got it. Mm. All right Dian, all right Dian, yep, yep.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, okay, yeah, I'm just saying I ain't saying nothing. I mean for real, for real bruh. Like the older you get bruh, like you don't even care about stuff like that. No more True.

Speaker 2:

Not much. I'm gonna say that you don't for real, because I know a lot of older people who still be trying to get attention, just to get attention.

Speaker 1:

Them kids man.

Speaker 2:

I guess Everybody wanna feel loved.

Speaker 1:

Bruh, I ain't From whom, though?

Speaker 2:

Everybody wanna feel wanted.

Speaker 1:

From who? Mm. From who Mm?

Speaker 2:

Anyway, let me ask you this, because this is going somewhere else Say you proposed to somebody that you never saw before. Mm-hmm. And then, when they came out the first time you saw them, they wasn't what you wanted. Mm-hmm. You gonna take it back.

Speaker 1:

You gonna take it back which the proposal yeah?

Speaker 2:

First of all, nah G hey listen.

Speaker 1:

You gonna take it back First of all? I ain't gonna find myself in that situation, bro.

Speaker 2:

I'm not doing that anyway, If you was in the situation I I'm gonna tell you the truth man?

Speaker 1:

In a situation like that, where we talking and we don't never see each other, I think you a liar anyway. Yeah, so it's pointless. You talking to a person representative? Yeah, it's pointless, bro.

Speaker 2:

So I ask again Mm-hmm, if you saw, I don't have to take something back that I didn't do.

Speaker 1:

That's what I'm saying. If you was on the show, bro, all right, I gotta put myself in the show. Yes, you do. Put myself in the show. Yes, would you take your proposal back Like, nah, cut it Now. I need you to do me a favor, what I need you to explain to me. What said woman look like that. I had to take it back, for what was it about her? She was 5'2". Okay, nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 2:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

Flat butt. Okay, squats, all right, keep it moving Uh.

Speaker 2:

Her stomach hang over her belt buckle.

Speaker 1:

Okay, okay.

Speaker 2:

All right, she got one big titty, one small titty called Biggie Smalls. Ooh, she got Biggie Smalls. Oh, my God Called her Biggie Smalls. She got two gold teeth in the bottom and she got, and she got orange hair.

Speaker 1:

I'm taking it back. I'm taking it back, bro, some stuff can be done.

Speaker 2:

What was your go?

Speaker 1:

Some stuff can be done.

Speaker 2:

Okay, how I'm taking it back. How was?

Speaker 1:

you taking it back, I would just walk off the show, I wouldn't even say anything, but okay you right here and she right here when the doors open and y'all come out what you doing, turn around.

Speaker 2:

Hey, close the door back. That ain't the one.

Speaker 1:

Nah, bro, she, so you taking it back.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, okay, yeah, that's why the show's stupid, yeah, but they act like, when they do see each other, that they really feel in each other. But, then, as the show go, they never touch each other, they're not affectionate, none of that. So if you know, you're not attracted to somebody in the beginning, that's why it's a waste of time, but you would never get to know the person that you've gotten to know.

Speaker 1:

And what good did that do, bro? Like we just wasted our time and, like I said, the door might have opened. She might have seen me and be like nah, I'm cool and that's alright.

Speaker 2:

You know what I mean. So physical attraction is way more important than what people suggested is no?

Speaker 1:

That's it does no you ain't gonna explain that. It's important, man, it's important, but not, in my opinion, that way more important, though, than who a person is.

Speaker 2:

But you won't know who that person is if you find them ugly, with two girl teeth and flat backs. Oh no, I didn't say they was ugly, no, but what I'm saying is, if you don't find them attractive, you would never know how they are on the inside. They could be the most beautiful person on the inside, but they outside is trash, okay. So, physical attraction.

Speaker 1:

I said it's important, but it ain't way more important, though I said way more important than what we act like it is.

Speaker 2:

That's what I said. We all shadow to some degree. To some degree, we all shadow.

Speaker 1:

if you say no, no Shallow shallow is a different term, though Shallow is kind of only extreme man. How, that's on the How's that extreme? That's on the extreme side. What's extreme? Because there's certain things that can be dealt with though, like what I put to you, like that Say a girl come out nice looking woman, right, fit, like you want her and everything else Okay, she missing her two fronts.

Speaker 1:

When I see that, that don't bother me. You don't know why. Why, cause I can fix teeth. That's just money. Oh, so you got the money fixed. Teeth, that's just money. But where should I want to get it fixed? Yeah, that's a problem.

Speaker 2:

That was the problem. I'm just saying, bro, like yeah, that's something you can fix, bro.

Speaker 1:

That ain't you know, her hair ain't done. That's something you can fix. That's something you can fix. That's something you can fix. That's something you can fix.

Speaker 2:

But she don't want to get rid of it.

Speaker 1:

I'm a barber. I whip the razor out on the show, like the fact that you made yourself. But what if she don't want it, though? What if she said that all her family members got this and that's?

Speaker 2:

cool, she can keep it. She just like can keep you. No, I got to go.

Speaker 1:

I got to go bro.

Speaker 2:

I got to go.

Speaker 1:

You can't be looking like oh boy on the heat of the night, bro.

Speaker 2:

I'm like nah In there I got to go.

Speaker 1:

I got to go, bro. I'm like nah In there. In there On the night. No, she mind me vicing it, bro, I can't do it. Nah, you're so far Nah Okay. Okay.

Speaker 2:

Oh, let's bring in the movie, but that's her.

Speaker 1:

That's fixable, though. You know what I mean. Yeah, you feel me, you guys, motivational bro.

Speaker 2:

No, okay, okay, let's just let's both make up one. All right, you don't go first, no All right. Be happy spending time with yourself.

Speaker 1:

Ooh, that's nice. That's nice. Yeah, yeah, I did. Okay, all right, I'm sorry. My mode is do the best you can with helping people with their issues. But if they don't want to help themselves, move on. What, hey man? It is what it is.

Speaker 2:

Could you remember when you still playing?

Speaker 1:

it Huh, cause I thought you was going to get in, nah, but didn't you try that?

Speaker 2:

You ain't going no more. Nah, nah, we talked after this. I'm just saying you want to keep it going, you keep it going no, no, I don't want to keep it, no, like. But like the thing was, I was going to keep going like with my modi, but she was like, oh, that's nice. So I said you know what?

Speaker 1:

Oh my bad.

Speaker 2:

Who was the rest of it?

Speaker 1:

I didn't have him, so you, just you built me up.

Speaker 2:

You just made something up, okay, yeah, yeah. But she was like, oh, that's nice, and so I was like, oh yeah, there he is.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah. So, I take some credit then.

Speaker 2:

No, I hate it. All right, bet you can have it. All Paws. You know I'm tired of saying my name at the end of the show, Like, if they ain't here at the beginning, it's in the bio. You know what I'm saying, Supreme, you're full of it on IG. You know what I'm saying? So, yeah, just like the video, comment, subscribe. We, as the time of this recording, we got 100 followers. What subscribers on YouTube?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, we need to multiply that by 10. True, but we ain't been on YouTube for a year yet, yeah, yeah, it ain't been that long.

Speaker 2:

So man just appreciate it, you know what I'm saying. So yeah, man, supreme, you're full of it. Podcast man.

Speaker 1:

For sure, for sure. Yeah. I'll be your boy nine. Y'all know who I be. That be your boy, jiminy Cricket Boy. What? Hi, hey, that was random. Your boy, jimmy Cricket. Hey, that's your boy, jimmy Cricket Boy. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

Jimmy Cricket.

Speaker 1:

All right, you got that off. Yeah, man, it's all good.

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