Supremely Full Of It Podcast
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Sex on the first night. Would you or would you not? We breakdown all things that may or may not come with it. Special gust, the homie J-Will.
Hey yo, supremely full of it, hey yo.
Speaker 2Supremely full of it, Ha ha.
Speaker 3Yes, looking real bald-headed in here today.
Speaker 1Yes, sir.
Speaker 3Yes, sir, we back Three baldies in the building Supremely full of it podcast Back with another episode. You know what I'm saying. They call me Dyer and I'll be your boy. Now we got a.
Speaker 2I ain't bald spec nigga. I got my man. What you mean? I ain't bald man.
Speaker 3You bald like Super Saiyan level Got me looking like Krillin over here.
Speaker 2You know what I'm saying Krillin over here.
Speaker 4You know what I'm saying Krillin Destructo.
Speaker 3Dix, anyway, knocking the headphones off. Oh man, anyway, oh man, supreme, we Full of it podcast. We got a special, special, special guest Special. He is responsible for 0.5% of the supremely full of .5?
Speaker 2.5. Who does this math?
Speaker 3I'm just saying he is the middle man of how me and Nam got to know each other.
Speaker 2Yes, sir, yes, sir, yes, sir yes sir, giving you your flowers he put the band together. Yes, he did. Yeah, yes, he did. And he's been saying he is no Diddy, though.
Speaker 3Wow, I'm just saying I gotta put that out there and he's been saying that you know we need to have the originator on the show. The reason to be full of it. Okay, ladies and gentlemen, saints and sinners, nick Nags and Scallywags, my fellow bald-headed community, yes, yes, yes, we got the homie J Will in the building J Wazeel.
Speaker 2Yes, sir, what's happening J?
Speaker 3Will.
Speaker 4What's good man? Yes sir, I'm here finally.
Speaker 2I'm here. I'm mad he got the best introduction than anybody we ever had on the show.
Speaker 4Well-deserved, Better than mine too, Well-deserved. Well-deserved how you doing man, I'm good, man, I'm good, I'm here, I'm ready, you ready, I'm ready. Dog, you ready, man, I'm ready.
Speaker 3All right, I just got to like before we get into the show. Right, right, I'm going to start off with something easy, okay, okay, you know how the music industry is trash right now. Right, yeah, basically, don't you think it would be better off if we went back to selling CDs instead of streaming? Mmm, because when you sold CDs, people went out and bought hard copies and stuff, still got my books in the closet. Exactly, yeah, but with streaming, it's easy to get. You know Numbers. That's very true, very true, very true. So I think If we went back to Selling CDs, half these musicians Wouldn't be out right now.
Speaker 4Yeah, I agree, music sounds better Off a CD too.
Speaker 3Yes, it do In my opinion. And don't you miss the dangers Of. Yes, it do, in my opinion. And don't you miss the dangers of while you're driving you open up your book.
Speaker 4Oh man, it was hard.
Speaker 3And then you got to find you know what I'm saying which one to pick, and then you got to take it out while you're still driving and then put the other one in. But if it don't work, take it out, rub it on your leg, that's the worst part and then put it back.
Speaker 2Oh man, is your CD player Not accepting that joint? You're like Bro. I wanna hear this. It keeps spitting it back out Like nope, nope, yeah Dang.
Speaker 4Them was the days, man, them was the days. It don't be the car that didn't have a CD player. You had to put the tape in there and plug it to the portable and hope the anti-skip Don't make it skip.
Speaker 3Yeah, Good times man.
Speaker 4Good times yeah.
Speaker 3I forgot to add something to your intro. What's that man? The only nigga alive that believed Tupac is alive. I'm not the only one.
Speaker 4I'm not the only one.
Speaker 2Yeah, he ain't, I'm probably the only one you might know, but I ain't the only one. I never told you. I believe it too.
Speaker 3Wow, anyway, today's show, that's not even a, that's not even whatever. You know, he dead, nah man, he in heaven. Blessings, okay, blessings.
Speaker 2I don't know about heaven, but okay, I'm just saying I don't know. But you, I don't know, man, I can't say where somebody at All. Right, my G. You know, If you believe it that's dead.
Speaker 3So you know, we're all 30 plus men. You know what I'm saying we don't live, don't do it. You are still in your 30s.
Speaker 4Hey, man Still further along than others.
Speaker 2I'm about to cross over here soon, but you ain't there yet, though Don't mess this show up Two months.
Speaker 4I'm crossing over. You know what's so funny, though? We all 30 plus, but I'm still the baby in the room.
Speaker 3You're too big to be saying that. Hey man, hey man.
Speaker 4I got to keep it where I can keep it. All right, I ain't going to be able to say that too much longer With no baby here.
Speaker 2Hey, man, it's a little bit, I didn't know you was younger than him.
Speaker 4Yeah, I didn't know that A couple months.
Speaker 2Okay.
Speaker 3Okay. So you know I was thinking about life one day and about how you know, the dating scene changes from age group to age group or whatever. So I'm just going to ask the first question. Okay, straightforward, mm-hmm, is there a problem with smashing on the first question? Okay, straightforward, mm-hmm, is there a problem?
Speaker 2with smashing on the first night you meet somebody.
Speaker 4I'm not answering first. I personally, in my elder years, don't think it's a problem. Why not? Because we grown. We grown, I mean, if the vibe is there, if everything's flowing the way it's supposed to flow, why not?
Speaker 3No, uh-huh, you're second what Stand on business? All right then. Inside joke All right then, is it a?
Speaker 2problem with smashing on the first date? Hold up then. Inside joke All right then. Is it a problem with smashing on the first date? Hold up, wait.
Speaker 3Before, let me preface this for you yeah, please do. If you take the spiritual aspect out of it. Well, you know, I no, because I know you.
Dating and Intimacy Considerations
Speaker 2I mean it depends On. It depends on, in my opinion, man, like if you really feeling that person or not. I think that should be the deciding factor whether or not smashing on the first day is important to you or not. Should it be important? If it's important to you. I don't think you should, because the way I see things is, if you let me smash on the first day, I don't see you as somebody I could be with long term I don't me me personally.
Speaker 3I don't see anything wrong with smashing on the first night. If if you didn't come into it trying to do that because you know how some people show up and the only thing they talk about is sex, then I don't see a problem with you smashing on the first night. But if you go into it like the whole build up to the date was just sex talk, then you know what I'm saying it may be a problem.
Speaker 2Yeah, I mean, I don't view you as a female. That, I think, is worthy of my time for real Worthy.
Speaker 4Yeah, for sure, okay, so, but hold on With the pushback from what you said.
Speaker 3Okay then, uh-oh, talk back to me, uh-oh.
Speaker 4About. You know you don't see them as a long-term. Yeah, in my younger days I've smashed on the first day and we've actually gotten to a relationship and we was years in, so it didn't hinder our relationship.
Speaker 2Okay, let me ask you this Younger years versus what you know now, though, what I know now, what you know now, would you still do the same thing With the same person, or just Just, would you view them the same way that you viewed them in your younger years? Or would you look at them now and be like, if she let me, man, I just don't think she. You know what I mean.
Speaker 4Knowing what I know now, I would probably think twice about it. Now I ain't going to sit here and lie and say I wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3But it would definitely be a second or third thought that crossed my mind before I took it there yeah, okay, let me ask y'all this then what would be an indication that the person that she was talking to was willing to give it up on the first night if there was no talks before about sex? That's the hard hitting questions over here, I mean indication that they want to give it up even though there's no talks about it.
Speaker 2Sometimes you can just pick up on that vibe, bro, like the way that you know I'm saying they might touch you, you know I. Like the way that you know I'm saying they might touch you. You know, I mean the way that they they behave in. You know what I'm saying. And and sometimes, even if you don't talk about it, somebody who talks about what they not gonna do.
Speaker 3Often, oh yes, they lying it probably comes across as I want you to you know what I'm saying Exactly.
Speaker 4Yeah, I mean yeah, like you said, you know If they're real Touchy feely, you know If it's the first date, and they say hey man, you know. You think you wanna spend A night tonight.
Speaker 3You know, what I mean. If you laugh at all of my jokes, I think you wanna give me some, and all of my jokes, I think you want to give me some and all of them, all of them, because you ain't that funny you just might be funny, though I am
Speaker 3hilarious. Okay, what edit aisle two please? No, never mind. I was gonna say what do I always say? I am the funniest person in my entire family and I got some jokesters in my. I always say I am the funniest person in my entire family and I got some jokesters in my family.
Speaker 4But I am by far the funniest one.
Speaker 3I've only met three people in your family, that's all you need to know, then you know what I'm saying. That's enough evidence right there. Say, I'm pretty sure this has never happened to y'all, because y'all is y'all. But what if, like, a woman, wanted to give it up to y'all, right but, but she was trying to respect her on a different level? Do you think that would make y'all look uh silly?
Speaker 4no, I've done that before. I've done that. I've been in that boat where I knew all I had to do was put my two cents in and it was going down. But the vibe wasn't there. That's all she worth is two cents, amen. I said the vibe wasn't there. Go ahead, the vibe wasn't there, man.
Speaker 4And I knew, you know, once we finished with the date, I'm like, yeah, I'm going to go ahead and delete this number. I knew it, she stank or something. Nah, she didn't stank. You know, have you ever Been attracted to somebody and then the more they talk, the more unattractive they become? Oh yeah, so that was the case. So I'm like, yeah, this ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 3This ain't it. I was just thinking like, like One day I was, like you ever like Wanted to date somebody, and when you did date them, you kind of realized why they always got cheered on. Yeah, yeah, like they did all this talking. Like you know, I'm always cheered up, I do X, y Z for my man. But then when you date them, you like, yeah, where is this at? Yeah, I see why.
Navigating Intimacy and Expectations in Relationships
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying so, yeah, you know that, you know that. So, yeah, yeah, I don't know bro. I Nine times out of ten, bro, if I ain't trying to On the first day, bro, like I said, it's because I'm really trying to Trying to build something with you, cause, like I don't want to be in a situation when, like I get too attached, too quick Over. You know what I'm saying, you know, oh, you get sprawl quick. That ain't what I'm saying, that is not what I'm saying.
Speaker 3Oh weak in the knees over here.
Speaker 2No, no, that is not what I'm saying, but I may not want her to be attached too quick either. I'm trying to learn you for real. Okay, okay, let me. Have you ever been in a situation where you was messing with a female? It didn't work out the way you wanted it to, but it was hard to get rid of her. Yes, okay, I don't want that situation. Come on, dyer, you can't tell me you ain't had a slashed tire or two, bro.
Speaker 3No, I wish a mother what? No, I've never had A broke window or something, man. No, I've never had that before. But that don't mean that my stroke ain't clean, though you feel me.
Speaker 2Moving on.
Speaker 3Hold on G. Nah, hold on G. You mean to tell me. An indication of your stroke being clean is if you got a broken window at some point in your life or some slashed tires.
Speaker 2Hey, babe, come break everything. No, I'm just saying. It was to the point to where they couldn't see themselves without you.
Speaker 3Yes.
Speaker 1I've had that.
Speaker 2And since they can't see themselves without you, you can't be with nobody else.
Speaker 3No, I've never had that. I've had a woman say that even if you get a girl, I'm still going to try to yeah okay, I've had that, I can.
Speaker 2Even if you get a girl, I'm still going to try to.
Speaker 3Yeah, okay, I've had that. I can dig it, but my property has never been damaged. I've definitely had a kick door too. I've had a key card too, Because I'll be dating them. Hood chicks.
Speaker 2Well, I mean some of them. You don't know they are until you talk to them when you find them at. Sometimes you don't know they are until you talk to them when you find them at. Sometimes you don't know where you found them.
Speaker 4They disappear. I'm just being honest.
Speaker 2They there and then they don't go away Because you know hood people go to non-hood places too.
Speaker 3Non-hood places is crazy. Okay, all right Okay.
Speaker 2So back to the host mentioned first. Hey, you go to the other side of town and don't realize that the bus go over there, True?
Speaker 3You know, Okay, Say, okay, say you're back in your 20s. Would you still view it the same way? Like you know, if I smash you on the first night?
Speaker 2you may be easy. No, I ain't thinking about that in my early 20s.
Speaker 4My 20s I was. I was outside dog, so if I got it on the first day or first date, oh yeah, you was trash to me. That was in my early 20s dog Okay.
Speaker 3Even if she gave you, even if she had substance, you would still think she was trash.
Speaker 4Yeah, I was different as a young man Tough crowd, I was different dog, I've definitely evolved. I was different.
Speaker 3So do you think in?
Speaker 4that time frame. You may have passed up on something In my early 20s, yeah. Just because she let you in between. Not off the top of my head. I can't think of none. No, okay, yeah, not off the top of my head.
Speaker 3I can't think of none In my 20s. Okay, this is my general thinking. I've never thought, just because a person gives it up on the first night, that they're easy. I took it as you know what you want Now, depending on how good it was. No, I take it back Depending on how much you knew was going to make me think. Hmm, how many times have you done this? G Right, like if she using two hands on me the first night. I'm like yo, how many times? B? Who taught you that?
Speaker 4Right, right, so let me ask you this Let me push back on this one, okay. So you said, just because you know, let me push back on this one, okay. So you said, just because you know you had it on the first night, you didn't think of her, no different way. Nope. Now what if she brought out all the tricks, everything from A to Z? I mean, it's the first 24 hours I done been in the room together and she done brought out everything.
Speaker 3Then I'm going to think, like, like yo, she's done this several times right, so you're still not gonna look at her no different, though I'm gonna still look at her as she know that she know what she won't, but I'm gonna look, I'm gonna look at, like she's probably done this a lot of times and she's I don't want to say she's easy, because that would cheapen my. You know I'm saying w, but but.
Speaker 2But you don't think it's easy on the first night.
Speaker 3I mean, some people just fall for that dire charm. Oh, you know what I'm saying? It was Supreme before Supreme was a thing.
Speaker 2What size hat you wear, bro? Bro, here you go bro, I'm just saying boy.
Speaker 3I'm just saying oh blimp head muggle. I'm just saying oh blimp head. I'm just I'm just saying, bro, it's Same thing. Okay, did you answer the question, nigga?
Speaker 2Uh, I did. Uh, what was the question I?
Speaker 3don't even remember the question.
Speaker 2I mean, I thought I answered, but I don't know.
Speaker 4What about my rebuttal? You didn't answer that one. Okay, when you said what If she First night, you get it on the first night and she bring the whole bag of tricks out?
Speaker 2Oh, oh, I'm talking toys lube everything First we— why she need lube in her toys.
Speaker 4I don't know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was in the bag, okay it was in the bag. It was in the bag.
Speaker 2All right. Nah, I'm definitely going to look at it a little different. Yeah For sure. Why? Definitely Because, bro, experience come with doing something. Bro, right, how much experience you got in your early 20s though.
Speaker 3That's why I say if you start, you know what I'm saying doing all that, I'm like yo Don't ever do that again, pause, pause.
Speaker 2Okay, I'm just saying. I'm just saying, at that age, bro, you looking like, bro, how many you know what I'm saying? Like, how much you know, like, when did you start? Okay, all right, like I'm definitely going to think about that.
Speaker 3All right, If okay, now say you in your 30s now.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3And you met a woman who didn't want to give it up. You know what I'm saying on the first night. But y'all let's say okay, we all are not late 30s, late 30s. Do you think you would look at her differently? Or you'd be like girl you 30, 38. You should be giving that thing up, do you think? I'm not saying that you should, but I'm just saying that's exactly what you just said. What I'm saying is would you think that, since you're in your late 30s, no, I wouldn't.
Speaker 4I've actually honestly never gone in on a date thinking I'm going to get it the first night. That was never the train of thought going to the date. If I offered to take you on a date, it's something about you that I'm feeling, so I want to explore that a little more, Okay.
Speaker 2I feel that I mean in my 30s. I ain't thinking about that. I mean because at this time, bro, you got some age on you, so I'm already. I'm already going in knowing that you done, did a thing or two right. You know what I'm saying like I yeah, you, I know you did a thing or two okay.
Speaker 2I just care to believe that I'm the only one you ever done that to. That's all I'm thinking. So you're going to lie to yourself. Yes, I'm not doing that. Yes, sir, the whole time. I don't want the imagery, the illusion. I got to act like I'm him.
Speaker 3I'm the only one. I don't know who taught her this. That's me the whole time.
Speaker 1I got her wanting to do new stuff. You know what I'm saying it ain't new at all, that's just.
Navigating Modern Dating Views
Speaker 2That's how I want to see that. Now you know All right.
Speaker 3I don't think when you were in your late thirties like I would still think of you the same way In general. Like you you came into this knowing what you wanted. Like I would still have the same train of thought as I did back in my 20s. But say, say you wanted to have sex on the first night and she didn't want it, would you look at her differently? Like would you keep talking to her?
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 4You would Did the date go good.
Speaker 3I mean sure yeah.
Speaker 4Yeah, the date went good, yeah, I would.
Speaker 3You would be scared that you came across kind of thirsty trying to have sex and she didn't Nah nah, I think Muggs is so blunt nowadays she'll let you know if she was thirsty.
Speaker 4I don't think so, at least the people I've come across.
Speaker 2But most women think everybody want them anyway. Yeah, so it wouldn't even matter. She would be mad if you didn't want to have sex with her the first day and mad at you if you did want to have sex with her the first day. So it don't even matter.
Speaker 3Well, excuse me using what you just said, if you don't want to have sex, you would be in somebody's group chat like girl.
Speaker 2He didn't even try nothing. He lame, right, he must. I can't say that word go ahead oh, I hate when you do that.
Speaker 3all right you, you get right there.
Speaker 2Not today, not today.
Speaker 3You know what? No, I'm not going to say that, not today, all right, but if you did try to do something and she didn't want to do nothing, you would be in somebody's group text again. Man, he was thirsty. Yeah, he was hot in the pants. All this other crap.
Speaker 2Hot in the pants. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3Anyway, that's what I think. For sure, I agree, I don't think a woman Would just tell you when you trying to make a move, yo, you being thirsty.
Speaker 4I don't know, man, I don't know. I think I think nowadays, bro, that the roles have flipped as far as what, as far as the what's the word I'm looking for. Like as far as what? As far as the what's the word I'm looking for. Like, as far as if she would let you know if you're thirsty or not. Like I think there are more women who are out here that are more dominant. So if Dominant as far as what, as in I don't think nowadays the guy has to try to smash on the first night. I think there's a lot of females who have taken on that role and they'll let you know. I'm trying to get something tonight.
Speaker 3Okay, this is going to sound weird, but don't you think it's safer that way?
Speaker 4Okay, this is going to sound weird, but don't you think it's safer that way? Safer as in it cuts out the middleman in the guessing game.
Speaker 3I mean that. But also, if she makes the move, then it's kind of hard for anything to come back onto you. You see what I'm saying? Yeah, that's why I'm saying yeah, that's why I? Said it's safer. I can see that.
Speaker 2It's safer, but in my opinion, that's even scarier, though, than me pursuing somebody else, bro. How is it scarier, Bro, if you that type of female that's that aggressive? Bro, bro, what are you doing Monday through Sunday? What?
Speaker 2you mean Exactly what I just mean, if you are being aggressive towards me, or you approaching me, or blah, blah, blah, x, y, z, bro. That's scary to me, bro, because nine times out of 10, women can pretty much have sex with whoever they want to have sex with. All they got to do is stand on the corner point at it and say, do you want some, and somebody gonna say yes, yeah. That's what's scary to me about it, bro. It's to me it's no longer a a prized possession, bro. You know what I'm saying? It ain't valued like it used to be valued. That's my thing. Yeah, man, it's not like it used to be.
Speaker 4No, Because women are trading it just for money now, bro, they didn't put a price on it.
Speaker 2Kidney's starting to hurt. Hey bro, it's scary to me when I see an aggressive woman, bro, so there's no more 90-day wait.
Speaker 4Man where they at Okay.
Speaker 3Would you be mad if a woman made you wait 90 days or said that you got to wait a certain amount of time to get this?
Speaker 4Nah, not in my older years. No, as long as we vibing and we good, I'm cool, I can wait.
Speaker 2I don't even want a time limit on that, bro. Let's just rock out together and see where life take us, bro. True, but you know what I mean.
Speaker 3But if she did put a time limit on you, wouldn't be like thinking she had sex with somebody else?
Speaker 2That would cross my mind, yeah.
Speaker 3Exactly, definitely would That'll cross my mind.
Speaker 2Yeah, exactly, definitely It'll cross my mind, okay.
Speaker 3Alright, you know what I'm gonna say, since we just went this route. What if y'all was Doing some things or whatever? And then you tried to get her To do something and she said I did that for my last guy and I didn't like it. Keep that to yourself.
Speaker 2Just say no, no, no explanation.
Speaker 4Speak.
Speaker 3No, what is you like? I don't want to do that, because I did that for my last guy. I just told you I like to believe that you, I'm the first person that you've ever been with?
Speaker 2No, that wasn't.
Speaker 4Keep that to yourself. Just tell me no man listen, don't explain why. Don't just say no, why explain it?
Speaker 3I'm just saying, I'm just saying no, just say no. No, y'all ain't with that.
Speaker 4No man, I'm cool.
Speaker 3Okay.
Speaker 4That's going to kill the whole vibe. All right, how would you feel about that?
Speaker 3I would stop everything that I'm doing and say thank you for tonight's evening. I had a good time. Text me or call me when you get home. That's what I would do. Yeah, because everything has just went. Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 4I want to know.
Speaker 3Hit it with the brother, and not the eye. Yeah, I'll take it back too. All right, then Pound it. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, we done. Alright, I should have asked this In the beginning. I got something for you. Nah, go ahead.
Speaker 2Ask your question first Would y'all look at her differently.
Speaker 3If y'all had sex On the first night, I am you gonna look at her differently? Yeah, for sure. I don't know, bro. I am I gonna look at her different? Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4I don't know, bro, I am, I don't know. Like I said, it depends now if it's just straight regular sex. I probably won't.
Speaker 3But like I said, what is regular sex that's just missionary.
Speaker 4I need to know what that is too missionary backshot, you know, just regular stuff missionary backshot, just regular stuff.
Speaker 3Missionary backshot.
Speaker 4Just regular stuff. That's it, Like I said. Now she pulls out the whole bag of tricks, Right. Then that's when I start thinking what are we doing here? Okay?
Speaker 2My thing is, I go back to the point that I don't think you value yourself, bro, and that's what I'm looking at Like. I cannot be the first person that you've done this with, so you.
Speaker 3so you automatically think, if she had sex with you on the first night, she's done this with other people.
Speaker 1Yes.
Speaker 3So it can never be you? Of course not. Why don't you love yourself?
Speaker 2That's how I'm no, I do, and that's why I want to save myself the heartache. Bro, my thing is like and I? I may have been the first one, but at the end of the day, man, like, if, if you value yourself, man, you're gonna, you're gonna take care of yourself too. You just know me. Three hours ago, all we did was share a cheeseburger, mmm, and took a walk in the park.
Speaker 3Hold on G.
Speaker 2And you parted. Like the Red Sea, hold on G.
Speaker 3Was that an inside jab? Because you said cheeseburger.
Speaker 2No, it wasn't, but that fits Every time you say cheeseburger, now I think it's an inside jab.
Speaker 3No, I was just thinking back.
Speaker 2I mean, you took them to McDonald's or something.
Speaker 1You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2I'm just saying, you know, okay, we didn't share a cheeseburger, we had the two joints. You know what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying, the double cheeseburgers, the double cheeseburgers With cheese. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3You know what I'm saying All right, I'm just saying like bro, that's how I see that man what if you spent like, let's say, three, four hundred dollars on a date, the first date?
Speaker 2I can't even answer that question.
Speaker 3Yes, you can. You going to?
First Date Expectations and Past Relationships
Speaker 2as far as this show, I'm just saying I ain't never did that Go ahead, though?
Speaker 3Would you be expecting to have sex on the first date?
Speaker 2Me personally, like I'm, like I'm, like I'm, I will, bro, I don't expect anything on the first date. All right then, I just want to have fun.
Speaker 3What do you go into the first date thinking?
Speaker 2I'm just going to have a good time.
Speaker 4Yeah, we vibing today. That's it. That's it. You know, food, drinks, conversation, whatever activity we're going to do for the day, and we're just going to rock out with that.
Speaker 3We're just going to rock out with that.
Speaker 4Do you think it is safe to say that a first date? You plan the date but you let the woman dictate where the date goes Indirectly, because I'll ask you know what might she want to do, what activity she's into, and then I'll kind of just build a date around that so she indirectly, you know, set up the date. Yeah, you want them to have a good time too, okay.
Speaker 3All right. What were you going to ask?
Speaker 2Oh, all, right, Now this is true, right, I ain't about to put nobody out there, but there's a situation that I know of right. There's a situation that I know of right. It was a female that apparently was decent at this time, right, but she was the type of female that whenever she would have a boyfriend, she would get his name tattooed on her. Okay, let me. Now I know the person that was dating Said girl, and that person Actually was feeling her. When I met her, I seen, you know, the tattoo On the neck. I'm like, ooh, okay, she got a name on her. Not a big deal, right, that's something you can get covered up, get removed, right. Then she took her jacket off, got a name on her. Not a big deal, right, that's something you can get covered up, get removed, right. Then she took her jacket off, saw another name on her forearm.
Speaker 1Bam.
Speaker 2Another name. I'm like, ooh, two tattoos to cover, okay, all right. Well, this person, did you know sleep with him or whatever? Came back to me. I was like man. She got one on her back, she got one on the cheek, she got one on the leg. It turned out to be like nine or ten different names. Oh, starting line up Nine or ten different names, bro, practice squad, how would you view said person?
Speaker 3To be honest with you, my G, when I saw the first tattoo, I would have asked who was that. She would have said an ex or something. Yeah, I would have been like is he dead? She would have said no, that would have been the end of us, right there.
Speaker 2Okay, why Now the? Reason why I brought this up is because everything we was just talking about some of these women are sleeping with on the first night. They just didn't get tattoos, so that's why that beat in my mind when I get it on the first date is without seeing the names. I'm seeing the names, bro, Okay.
Speaker 3Okay, you saying that If she wanted to give it to you on the first night what you doing and you really feeling her Like you, you quarter her and everything.
Speaker 2I'm not saying that I wouldn't.
Speaker 3No, g, hold on, I'm not saying I'm about to answer you.
Speaker 2I'm not saying I wouldn't have indulged in the moment Indulge but what I'm saying is I can't look at her as somebody that I could be with though. Okay, would you look?
Speaker 3at yourself differently, yeah, why.
Speaker 2Because I, honestly, because he indulged, thank you.
Speaker 3Yeah, I did. Your flesh is weak.
Speaker 2Huh I'm just saying your flesh is weak. Huh, she took a piece of me that day, Took a whole piece of me that day, bro.
Speaker 3So how about you? What happened? Would you look at her differently With the tats? Nah, just like period. If you had sex with a girl on the first night, would you look at her differently? Nah, not really bro, not really, not really. You look at it differently. No, not really, bro, not really, not really. So this whole myth of you know, if a woman gives up on the first night, the man gonna look, gonna think that she a hoe.
Speaker 4That's not really true not, I don't think not anymore. Like I said, I've done it and I've gotten relationships with girls.
Speaker 2So it didn't you know, it didn't, it didn't sway anything, okay all right, I see, but what deters me, though, bro, is like okay, have you ever had a situation where they give it to you the first night, but then also try to make it seem like it was because of you? Like I've done this because it's you. Like that's the type of talk I definitely don't like. Yeah, I don't you playing with me now?
Speaker 3Yeah, that's, I'm still talking that. That makes me feel like I just had sex with your representative and not you, because you still talking this. Yin yang, talk to me yin yang yeah, old school, that's not what I was good, I know okay all right, you know what man?
Speaker 4Let me ask you this Okay, so if you go on a date with a girl, how much history do you need to know about her? Like, do you know about any of her past yet? Because what I'm getting at, say you know about her past, say you know she's given it up on the first date a couple times, but when it gets to you, you know everybody that second life. Now all of a sudden she ain't doing that no more. Now you got the weight. But you know Mike, tim and them got it on the first night.
Speaker 3Now you, you got the weight, and what hold on a minute, hold on, wait, what dude off the wood say what's that? When you was trying to have sex and she wasn't letting him? And she's like man, you like the nigga Earl here, or something like that I forgot what he said. The boy name was yeah, but that's kind of like what it is.
Speaker 3Nah, yeah, like I would kind of feel yeah, I know I'm prettier than that thing, yeah, yeah, yeah, I would looking prettier than that thing, yeah, good, yeah, I would kind of feel like why are you doing this now, G Right, like here's the problem that, oh, facts, yeah, to connect to what you said. Okay, if in my opinion, I could be wrong, but this is just my opinion. If in my opinion I could be wrong, but this is just my opinion. If they don't see a future with you, they probably going to be quick to give it up. But if they actually see that you have substance to you, they could actually try to build something with you.
Speaker 2They will make you wait. I think they give it up to who they like. If they make you wait, they don't like you. That's how I see that especially in a situation where they are giving it up to tim. You know will and dyer.
Speaker 3You know what I'm saying if they are doing that, yeah, okay if they are doing that, then they come to you.
Speaker 2they ain't feeling you like that. They like you for other things, yeah.
Speaker 3That's why they make you wait. Yeah, that's how I see that. I dig it.
Speaker 1I dig it.
Speaker 2Now maybe you might have a female that turned it around and like I ain't doing that no more, and it may land on you. But I said it might land on you, it, but it might fall on you. But my thing is this Stand on that, stand on that, don't hit me on some. I want to wait till I get married. And then one Saturday evening you like, hey man, I just let's just go ahead and stand on what you were talking about.
Speaker 3All right, saying that if she didn't want to stand on it. And then you got Like you got to know her better and you understood why she said it, so you wanted to stand on it. You don't think she would go out, and you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2I actually do. It's cool, she already gave you an answer. Okay, you know what I'm saying. You just helped me out, alright, okay.
Speaker 3I uh.
Speaker 1I want to have a little fun real quick.
Speaker 3Have some fun. Yeah, I mean this— Pause, thank you. No, I ain't pausing nothing. I want to have some fun, don't?
Speaker 1say it like that man.
Speaker 2Why you say it like that. I hooked up to the board, bro, did you?
Speaker 3Yeah, because I want to play this video and I just want to get y'all input on this.
Speaker 1Okay, okay, and she apologizes, admits she's wrong and promises Okay, if you meet a woman and she apologizes, admits she's wrong and promises to change, dump her immediately, because it might be a man, women never do that.
Speaker 3Okay, that's funny. What's y'all thoughts on that? That's funny, that's funny.
Speaker 4That was not what I was expecting. That was good, that was real good, that's funny.
Speaker 1It is definitely not the norm, right, okay, it is definitely not the norm.
Speaker 2Right, okay, it is definitely not the norm. Um we? We live in a society where accountability is out the window, so when you do find somebody that is willing to apologize, it's like a unicorn bro okay.
Speaker 3Do you think it's an apology when they say I'm sorry that you feel that way? That's not an apology.
Speaker 2That is not an apology, that's straight sarcasm.
Speaker 3No, but with. They don't feel like they did anything wrong. So they're saying that they're sorry for how you feel it don't matter.
Speaker 2You still putting it on me, though. Yeah, you still making it my fault. That's because they don't feel like they did anything wrong, but you're still making it my fault. That's because they don't feel like they did anything wrong, but you're still making it my fault. Whether you feel like they did anything wrong or not, it ain't your job to decide that. I'm telling you you did something, yeah.
Speaker 3So a person should apologize even if they don't think they did anything wrong.
Speaker 2Yes, Because just because you feel like you didn't do anything wrong don't mean that the other person don't feel like you didn't do anything wrong, right? So how do you fix that? Do you think you can give your woman the same reply by saying I'm sorry about the way you feel, you think that's fine?
Speaker 3Are you asking me that for real? Yes, Remember who you're talking to.
Speaker 2I'm just saying I want some emails.
Speaker 3It's me, my J yeah, I want some emails, it's me. I just feel like, okay, we always say the best apology is change behavior, correct Facts If you don't think you did anything wrong. What can you change if you don't think you did anything wrong?
Speaker 2Don't do what they told you you did, whether you feel like it's wrong or not. I mean, how hard would it be just to change? Not doing that one thing?
Speaker 3Okay, I'll give you an example.
Speaker 4What if that one thing is holding them accountable for something, then you got to hold another issue.
Speaker 2That's a bigger problem.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2I'll give you an example. I don't like when my wife, or any girl I've ever been with, to call me bruh. I can't stand that G Don't call me bruh. Or bro None of that, dude, none of that stuff. Don't call me any of that. Now, is it wrong for them to do so? No, but I'm telling them I don't like it, right? Okay, so change it, call me anything else.
Speaker 4All right. But you know they do say the hardest thing for somebody to do is apologize and ask for help.
Speaker 3Yeah, that's the hardest thing for somebody to do. Yeah, all right, I'm going to ask this, and this is the last question that I'm going to ask anyway. If, in general, we all think that it's hard for women to apologize and accept accountability, why do we try so hard to be with them?
Speaker 2It's wrapped in your DNA, bro. Okay, it's just wrapped in your DNA, man. You want them. It's because it's a piece of you that you don't have that you need the yin to your yang.
Speaker 3And vice versa.
Speaker 2Okay, Now let me ask you this Do you think you could go through life without having one?
Speaker 3Without a woman.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3What you mean not have one? Do you mean like being in a relationship or the touch of a woman?
Speaker 2Having one around in any capacity. No, I agree Facts. No matter how much turmoil these knuckleheads give you, you still let them hit you over the doggone head.
Speaker 4Yeah, every time.
Speaker 2Women. That's, I love you. You know, I love you, knuckleheads. I want to put it out there. Yeah, pause.
Speaker 3Okay.
Speaker 4What do you call them? On Baby Boy? Unstable creatures, yeah.
Speaker 1Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2Let me ask you this when do you think the disconnect is? To have a successful relationship, though?
Speaker 4I think nowadays, like I said when I said, the roles is kind of flipped. I think there are more women who want to prove that they don't need a man. So they're always butting heads because they want to prove to you they don't need you. Versus, what's the word I'm looking for? Versus, embracing why they were created to do all the things you can't do to make you whole.
Speaker 3I think the disconnect is basically we live in a society where we all want to do everything by ourselves.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 3That's just it. We don't need each other, but if we do get somebody, they supposed to like. What's the word Enrich our life? Not make it easier to some degree, but enrich it.
Speaker 2I think one of the major reasons is equality. Oh, here you go, I'm gonna explain to you why equality, in my opinion, destroy relationship. Yeah, the issue is, if you are a woman that want to be equal to a man, if said man make you equal, you lose protection. True, you lose provision, yep Covering. You lose all of that Because everything that you don't want to do as a woman that he can do he's not going to do Because you want to be like him. Equality destroyed that because men used to hold women to a regard of being a I don't want to say being a weaker vessel. So you want to protect them, you want to make sure they're safe. When a cruise ship is going down, they take the women and children out first.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2Nowadays I'm getting in line.
Speaker 3Hold on, wait. I heard a joke about that. They said why do you think? When things are in trouble we always say get the women and children out of here.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3It's because men, so men can figure out the problem.
Speaker 2I'm just saying we're being asked to give our lives to somebody that we love, that are not willing to give what that man needs, though.
Speaker 3Another disconnect, another thing that happened as far as a disconnect, women started to make more money than men. Not as a whole, but for some people Like some pockets in the world.
Speaker 1Right.
Speaker 3Not in general, because we still make more money than women, but when women started to make money, that's when the whole I don't date brokies came around and I don't date broke niggas and stuff like that. I'm a boss chick, but you a cashier at Walmart. That's the type of thing that caused.
Speaker 2But that still, in my opinion, is the whole equality situation. Yeah, because at the end of the day, you make more money. Now you feel like you got power where you're in control, right? You don't, because men don't care about your money Can care less. I'm not saying in a sense that if you working together with somebody, yeah, but I'm just saying you got females that make so much money that they don't want to date somebody that's broke, but then you get one that has money too, you think you're going to control him, right?
Speaker 4That's true. A man will date down and help his girl build up, but ain't no woman dating down to help him build up? Of course not.
Dating Below Income and Motivational Quotes
Speaker 2And if she does, it's an illusion of building. Yeah, it's about control at that point.
Speaker 3Yeah, I was going to say because we have somebody on the show.
Speaker 2Yes, speak on it.
Speaker 3Who accidentally told us yes, the type of man that she goes for, uh-huh, uh-huh, and let's just say she don't date her income.
Speaker 1No.
Speaker 3No, gotcha, she dates below her income yeah.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3For control? I would say yeah, because when she mad a real nice one, ooh, bring an emoji, bro. I'm just playing, I'm just playing, I'm just playing, you don't the?
Speaker 1moaty bro, I'm just playing.
Speaker 3I'm just playing. You don't know what button it is. Do you this, dude? I do.
Speaker 2I just want to marinate on what you just did. What did I do? Keep going, I'm done. That's why I said bringing the moaty, are you sure?
Speaker 3Yeah, all right, man, you got Nope Because I said what I had to say during the show Straight, like that. You know what I'm talking about Motivation, man, motivation, motivation. I don't know if you know this or not, but you know, at the end of every episode we try, we try To give a motivational quote To lead a people with Right. You got one.
Speaker 4Motivational quote To lead a people with Nope Let me be honest.
Speaker 2Nope, that's it All. Right, I got one, you got one. You know I'm going to make mine up real quick, I just made mine up.
Speaker 3Okay. Okay, ladies, if your man ain't acting right, get you a bald head, woo. And if he is bald head and he ain't acting right, he ain't bald head like us. We didn't choose this life, this life chose us.
Speaker 2This one for the ladies too If you want a real man, think about becoming a real woman first, mm.
Speaker 1Bars.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah, well, j Will man, you was here, bro. Yes, sir.
Speaker 2I'm here, man In the building. They call me Dyer. You said your name. Yeah, now be your boy. Nine J Will Supreme today. You know, I had a name for you today too. All right, bro, it's cool, I got you All right. I got you All right. I had a good time. Though Trick I got a bald head, mm Bald head in all caps, mm.
