Supremely Full Of It Podcast
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Supremely Full Of It Podcast
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With special guess Rob we talk about when it comes to the modern man's pursuit of love Has our over-sexualized culture reshaped what men are looking for, or is it just a case of old wine in a new bottle? We wrestle with the concept that a digital buffet of desire might be altering the chase, pondering if today's gents are more about quick laughs or deep connections. Meanwhile, we peel back the layers of attraction, debating whether a double-tap on a screen can ever replace a heart-to-heart connection, and how personality plays the leading role in the drama of dating.
Hey yo Supremely full of it. Hey yo Supremely full of it, Ha ha.
Speaker 3Man, oh man, oh man, supremely full of it podcast. Back with another rendition. We here again.
Speaker 2Yes, sir, they call me Dyer and I be your boy now. We got a special guest in the building today. Special, special, special. Go by the name rye. How you doing my brother good. Good mr chill mode. Good, mr Chill Mode, happy to be here. Hey, he the chillest dude I ever met in my life.
Speaker 3Oh my God, what's good man, how you doing.
Speaker 4I'm all right man. I'm just happy to be out the house. You know, Can we chill with my guy? This show will die.
Speaker 2The show before the show, though, bruh, you know what?
Speaker 3I mean it's amazing, it's amazing.
Speaker 1It's amazing.
Speaker 3Anyway, man, so you got that cowboy hat on today, man, you a cowboy fan.
Speaker 4Yeah, man, since sixth grade, Since grade, yeah, yeah, yeah. I got a pullover for Christmas one year. It was cowboys and I've been rocking there since.
Speaker 3Sorry to hear that man.
Speaker 4It's America's team. America's team yeah, he loves saying that it's America's team.
Speaker 3They're not, though, but that's okay. It wasn't no vote, but.
Speaker 2All right, who? Your team man Detroit? Oh okay, all right. Yeah, you hip to that rapper from Detroit. Which one? The Caucasian guy? Yeah, the third greatest rapper of all time. Who Eminem? No, I'm talking about the guy I sent you. Oh yeah, detroit Lion.
Speaker 1Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, he be killing it for the Lions boy.
Speaker 2I mean he Detroit Lions, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, he be killing it for the Lions. I mean ride or die. He represented this year. He do he do.
Speaker 3But uh, since I'm around my peoples, you know what I'm saying. I found something that I wrote a few years ago. Mmhmm, I was gonna write a book.
Speaker 2I told you man, he the chillest you man. He didn't cross his thumbs and everything. He didn't leap back in the seat. I feel it, though Let me listen and pay attention.
Speaker 3Anyway, I was going to write a book a few years ago, right, and it was based off my dating life, but I couldn't like pick, pick a title that I was going to use for the book. So I'm gonna read my titles to y'all, okay, and see if we could figure out which one is the best one. Okay, title number one is me, you, me, you and them other niggas you with. So I think about that one bestseller. I would read that when you hear a title like that, what do you think about?
Speaker 3you getting cheated on yeah, for sure, okay, you, I, I same thing I hear a lot more than that.
Speaker 2Though. What do you hear? You know I'm saying like I don't even know, necessarily being cheated on, but you know, I like people highlight work, husband, work, wives. Okay, you know, I like people who have like work husband, work wives. Okay, you know what I'm saying. All that too, you know what I'm saying Okay.
Speaker 3Second title I Can Only Get Away With so Much. That's a good one. What is that? That's a good one?
Speaker 4Yeah, I like that too, what you like about it. Yeah, I like that too, what you like about it. I feel like it's saying I don't want to say like you walking on eggshells, but I feel like you got to watch yourself in that relationship.
Speaker 3Okay, I can only get away with so much. I think when I wrote that one I was thinking well, I was being funny, like I'm getting away with so much, like I can only get away with so much, before I get caught.
Speaker 4So you, on the other end of the spectrum, you're doing a lot.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah, yeah, cause it's based off of my dating life, right, okay, so you was a piece of work. Yes, yes, yes, I was Never mind. Day walking. Number three Call me when he leave for work.
Speaker 4Yeah you, I feel like you was wrong on that one.
Speaker 2Your life. Hold on, bruh. We not gonna keep reading these titles and skipping over how you was when you was. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, now, this was an actual situation. Yes, yes.
Speaker 3I know all the years and everything. This was 2007 to 2009,.
Speaker 4I think with the same person yeah wow, you know, I work with a man that just went through. That man next door neighbor was hitting his wife and then they just got divorced. Yeah, you don't know how long it was going on, but that's what that reminded me of. So how did he get caught? Huh, how me of. So how did he get caught? Huh, how did he get caught. How did he get caught, man? I don't know if he said he came home early or she just finally confessed.
Speaker 3I can't remember that confession. Stuff is crazy.
Speaker 2My thing is, I've seen videos where people would do that, knowing that they got ring cameras.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah. That's why you know what I'm saying. They got hotels.
Speaker 2Dyer, you were something else.
Speaker 3Just saying Okay, the next one. She ran from everything she wanted and now Dot, dot, dot, dot dot.
Speaker 2Okay, I can see that being like. You know what I'm saying. She know I was good for her. She was running away from that. Yep Went out there and tested the waters. And now what? Either you want me back or you done messed up.
Speaker 4I feel like now is she got with somebody that she regretted. That's what I feel like how she wish she would have stayed with you.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3She probably ran away from me and Anna with two baby daddies, and she know that that's my limit. I don't date women who got more than one baby daddy, so now she got two. I don't think people would got more than one baby daddy, so now she got two.
Speaker 2I don't think people would like to hear that man, it is what it is.
Speaker 4When I was younger I didn't date nobody with no kids. When that changed, it never really did. I put the kids in them.
Speaker 2That's what I'm talking about, alright.
Speaker 3Next one is that was funny. The next one is that was funny. The next title is if we didn't break up, she would have never met her husband that sounds like you regret it nah, that sounds like me probably knowing that I'm not the one for her that's real love.
Speaker 1Yeah, so if I didn't let her go.
Speaker 3you know what? I'm not the one for her. That's real love. Yeah, so if I didn't let her go, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3You ain't got nothing to say about that.
Speaker 2No, I'm with you.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2Oh, you kicking the mic stand. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead. That was it. Yeah, I'm with y'all. Yeah, go ahead. That was it. Yeah, I'm with y'all.
Speaker 1I'm with y'all.
Speaker 3And the last one is I'm a good man if you leave me alone.
Speaker 4Ooh, that's deep. I don't really understand that. One Like what? Like you just want to play video games, or?
Speaker 3something. What I mean by that is at my core I'm a good man, but at certain seasons in my life I won't be a good man. So the best thing for you to possibly do is just to leave me alone.
Speaker 2Right, here we go with this season. Talk again. I'm just saying you know, you know how I feel about that.
Speaker 4Yeah, just hold on, bro.
Speaker 2You said what now, this is what I'm thinking. This is what I was thinking. Okay, I was thinking it was. You know, maybe the person that you was with was so toxic, right, that you couldn't be good to them, and then, when they left you, you you was able to be cool. You know what I mean.
Speaker 3Well, to be honest when you know what I mean. Well, to be honest, when I wrote that, I was basically saying I'm a good man when I'm in a relationship, but if I got some outside attention, I won't be good anymore. Okay, so that's why I said if you leave me alone, I can dig it. I will be a good man. You leave me alone, I can dig it.
Speaker 2I will be a good man, you in the streets, I can dig it.
Speaker 3Yes, day walking yes.
Speaker 4That's what day walking means. Yeah, that's what he called it, I would be getting. I would be getting another podcast out there. Yeah, yeah, I would admit.
Speaker 3Yeah, day walking. If I didn't get no unauthorized attention, that would yeah.
Speaker 4I feel, it, I feel it. That's like you know. That's just like your eyes, like what the Bible say about lusting with your eyes, you can't. Once you start lusting, you can't. It'll never go away. You can't get enough right. Like the what they say, the grave is never full of bodies. It's like your eyes will never get full of sin, which you lust for. So that's what that remind me of. Like once you start, you can't stop. Quit day walking.
Speaker 3Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 4So if y'all had to pick what would be a good title, okay, run them back one more time real quick, my guy Okay, just read them through real quick.
Speaker 3All right, me you, that's the same book, right, yeah, okay, me you and them other niggas you with. I can only get away with so much. Call me when he leave for work. She ran from everything she wanted and now, if we didn't break up, she would have never met her husband. I'm a good man if you leave me alone.
Speaker 2I know which one I think you should write. I'm going to say the last one. I know which one you should write. They all good though, okay, and it's only because I feel like this one could be turned into a lifetime movie. Okay, which one Call Me when you Go to Work? Yeah, that's a lifetime movie, bro, I agree.
Speaker 1I agree Okay.
Men's Changing Desires and Society's Influence
Speaker 4I like that too. I like Amal, but the last one sound more like you gonna go more into that, sound more specific. You've been doing the whole book on different things, though, right.
Speaker 3I mean it could be like chapters or whatever. Yeah, you know what I'm saying yeah, but just to catch somebody's attention, what would you would go with the? What would you would go with the last one? I would go with comedy when it goes to work. Okay, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3that's what, yeah okay, I need someone to jump off the shelves, yeah that's gonna pop out okay alright a couple days ago I saw this article on social media and it said that I didn't really have time to read it that much, but it said that men do not desire women like they used to.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3Okay, so starting with you, rob Mm-hmm, first off, do you think that's true?
Speaker 4That sounds homosexual to me.
Speaker 1I ain't going to lie to you.
Speaker 4Okay, Y'all crazy man, I'm just being real man. I ain't trying to be funny or nothing.
Speaker 3That's what you came with huh. Yeah, he come with the heat. I feel it real man. I ain't trying to be funny or nothing. That's what you came with huh.
Speaker 2Yeah, he come with the heat. I feel it. I feel it. What do you think? It depends on what you mean. Desire him like you used to yeah you ain't saying what he mean.
Speaker 4He just said the words. That's what.
Speaker 1I thought, he just said the words.
Speaker 3Okay, this is how I took it. Yeah, yeah, please let us know, men don't like pursue women like they used to. They don't, they don't want to actually spend quality time, stuff like that. You know. I'm saying they think that they have Men in general have a lot of options.
Speaker 4So we don't desire women like we used to, because we think we can have the pick of the litter. So it's not that they don't desire women, they just desire more. They just got more variety to choose from, that's what you're saying Possibly.
Speaker 3Or they think, since they have more variety, that they don't have to put effort into it.
Speaker 4I can see that Because it's just so many and it's just getting worse. And then they having less morals, the younger generation got less morals, so it's more sex is more easy to get than it was. You know what I mean. The younger you get, sex gets more easier to get because the times is changing. Okay, the older people was a little bit harder in our generation than it is for the young. How old are you? I'm 40.
Speaker 3Okay, so we close at the same age. Nah, what do you think?
Speaker 2Nah, I mean, I agree. I mean it's, it's. Society is over-sexualized. Okay, like you can't even get on Facebook without seeing some cheeks. Without seeing some cheeks, you can't go on TikTok without seeing somebody twerking. You know what I'm saying? It's like. It's's like they're selling it too. Why would I want to pursue a relationship if I could just hit you up and say I got a couple dollars?
Speaker 3Okay, this is my thinking when I heard, well, when I read, that it's kind of true, because I think women only fans and, like you said, once you get on social media, you get on Instagram twerk videos. So what's there to desire when it's at our fingertips?
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4But it ain't real. You know what I mean. I feel like I don't know if y'all ever seen that when Boozy had that thing, that clip that went viral and he was talking about like back in the old days before phones, like if a man had his wife he might see a bad chick at work and maybe a bad chick at the grocery store, and that was it, like in his surroundings. That was just. It was just his wife work, you know, grocery store paying, wherever he paid bills. He might see a bad chick. But now when you just flicking your thumb, it gives you a false sense of it's so many out here but they got to like you too, so it's just a false sense of reality.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree with that for sure. Like back in the day, like he said. You talk about how it was in the older times, like you actually had to physically be in the place of somebody you wanted to talk to, right, and you had to actually put in work to pursue them. You know, you see them one day at the store, like he said, and it's like, okay, I got to go back to the store in the mall, right. You see, if she there, nowadays it's just so easy to see somebody and instantly hop in there, then you second guessing your girl, because you like, why you ain't like this?
Speaker 3Why you can't make it clap like that.
Speaker 4It's not real, though True.
Speaker 3Okay, what was I about to say? Crap. I lost my train of thought looking at this dude here.
Speaker 4Just trying to get y'all interviewed.
Speaker 1Get interviewed, bro Nah.
Speaker 2You asked me to be here. I brought the party to y'all. You know what I'm saying yeah for sure?
Speaker 3Nah, all right, okay, all right. I think the problem is, just because we look at that don't mean that we actually want to wife that Right? You see what I'm saying? Yeah, so I think saying that we don't desire women like we used to is kind of misleading.
Speaker 4That's why I said it sound homosexual. Because we still do, because they all on the phone. They're everywhere.
Speaker 3But they think that the Instagram model is what we actually want. But we look at that as entertainment. I don't think we would actually wife somebody who makes a living twerking showing their cheeks.
Speaker 2But you know what? In a sense, though, that's what'll make people desire them less, though, because you believe that everybody's the same, you start believing that anybody outside of somebody that you can physically see is all about the same. You start believing that anybody outside of somebody that you can physically see is all about the same thing. Okay, even the one that might be on social media dressing the business suit, you still might look at her like she's just craving attention.
Speaker 3Okay, if a woman, if a woman posts anything out of the ordinary, I guess, on media is she looking for attention.
Speaker 4What do you mean out of the ordinary, like naked?
Speaker 3Well, you can't be naked.
Speaker 4I mean half naked yeah. Yeah, I feel like she's selling herself to somebody that got some money that can fly her out where they at. Okay, it's all about getting paid.
Speaker 2But I think even if you ain't half naked, like if you always posting everything you're doing in your day-to-day life, you want attention.
Speaker 1I don't care.
Speaker 2I don't care that you got up and cooked breakfast this morning. I don't care that you stopped at this place to eat. I don't care about that.
Speaker 3You see a lot of get ready with me videos.
Speaker 2Yeah, you do see that a lot, but how do they start off though Half naked?
Speaker 3Well, it depends on what they're getting ready to do, like some have get ready to cook breakfast with me or stuff like that, but they don't be naked though.
Speaker 2So it all just depends on what they're getting ready to do? Don't show me a cooking video, or you cooking anything without giving me a tutorial you want all that I want a tutorial, because now, in my opinion, it ain't for attention.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2I follow a lady on TikTok right now. Cook everything from scratch. I love it. Is he dressed? Yes, kids be in the video sometimes. Husband be in the video, I love it. Bro, does she got yams? I don't know. You never see that. You know what I'm saying. Like she in front of the counter. Good answer, that's because she ain't on sale, everybody else on sale. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. And she just cooking, bro. And I love it, bro, because it's something that's you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3Okay, so let me ask you this then, rob Was you dating somebody who was on sale, mm-mm.
Speaker 4Mm-mm. Nope, I ain't got that kind of money and I'm cool, my ego can't take it. It ain't nothing but money, baby that kind of money.
The Impact of Personality on Attraction
Speaker 2and I'm cool, my ego can't take it. It ain't nothing but money, baby. That's an inside joke, bro he always be saying that, bro Ain't nothing but money, baby, that was back in the day.
Speaker 3But look though, if single people sell themselves, though right To some degree, like you have to sell yourself for somebody to see you, to get to know you, stuff like that you have to sell them on why they should, you know.
Speaker 4That's different. When you get on social media sites, man, you, for the whole world, can fly you out. That's different Versus, like I said, we just local.
Speaker 3But that's how life is now though.
Speaker 2But that's why they starting to become less desirable. Though you got men right now like bro, I'll never marry nobody, because they all the same.
Speaker 3The more videos of women twerking and all the other stuff that they do makes them less desirable.
Speaker 4Yeah, For marriage yeah.
Speaker 3Mm-hmm so.
Speaker 2You're going to desire to be with a woman bro.
Speaker 1Unless you're homosexual.
Speaker 4That's what I'm saying You're going to desire. Any regular man is going to desire to be with a woman, bro, Unless you're homosexual. You're going to desire. Any regular man is going to desire to be with a woman. Yeah, but we talking about you talking about twerking, and I can't wife you down if you're doing all that.
Speaker 2I ain't going to lie to you, bro. The internet is so saturated, bro, with the same stuff, that I swipe past that stuff to watch something else.
Speaker 3I do, though I let it finish, and then I go, and then I go, bro.
Speaker 2I bro, I be scrolling, you'll see it on there, bro.
Speaker 3And then, like I said, I'll stop at somebody cooking something somebody, somebody, yeah somebody fixing something is that why you swipe past it Because your wife be around.
Speaker 2No, it's just twerking is twerking, bro yeah. But Eventually you just get desensitized to it altogether. You see it so much All cheeks ain't made equally. That's facts, that's true. That's very true. That's very true, he was like that's deep.
Speaker 2Yeah, no, he was like that's deep, yeah, nah, nah that's very true but like I said, some things get old, bro, like I like watching the videos of people doing comedy skits and I like that type of stuff, bro. It's just after a while. It's this one thing that killed me about social media is that it can show up on your page once and then you scroll past it or you hover a second or two. This one thing that killed me about social media is that it could show up on your page once and then you scroll past it or you hover a second or two. Then all your joints get flooded with the same type of content.
Speaker 3I don't like that. Well, yeah, the phone be spying on you, bro. I don't like that. Okay, I'm going to read something to y'all. Tell me if y'all think it's true or not, or if y'all feel this way. I don't care if your appearance is a 10. If your personality is a 3, then you're a 3.
Speaker 1I agree.
Speaker 4We ain't talking about getting married. If you're just kicking it, like you said you was out in the streets then you probably cool with that. But if somebody you want is really locked down, yeah, I agree with that. But if you just having fun, then no matter.
Speaker 3So you would rate a person based off their personality, only Me, not their looks.
Speaker 4Nah, you're going to rate them on all of it. I'm going to rate them on the total package. Yeah you rate them on all of it, but I'm talking about what you just read.
Speaker 3Right. But they said that the personality is a three Right. That's you in the street, so that means you is a three Right. That's you in the streets, so that means you're a three.
Speaker 4Yeah, but he's. You just said she look a 10.
Speaker 3Yeah, but the personality a three Right, but so that knocks her all the way down to a three.
Speaker 4But he's saying basically, if it's somebody you're trying to wife up If you was in the streets, on them books. You was talking about, like I'm in the streets, that in them books you was just talking about I'm in the streets, that's cool Right there but on some wife material. That ain't cool. You're going to be a three on wife, but if I'm in the streets kicking it, I'm going to go off your 10 part.
Speaker 3But what I'm asking you is why does having a three for a personality take away everything else? And she just left with the three for the personality?
Speaker 4We're not about to keep arguing all day. We made it, I'm cool, why do? You want to keep arguing when she bad, but we arguing every day. That makes sense.
Speaker 2I got to be able to be bothered with you. Yeah, I'm cool. Listen, if you, let's say, your IQ low, right, right, but you a 10. Okay. And we at the restaurant. And they say, okay, we're getting breakfast, right, right. They come to me. They say what you want? I say, let me have this. I want my eggs. You know what I'm saying? Over medium, blah, blah, blah. They get to you. They say okay, how do you want your eggs? And you say yellow, I'm done. You ain't got to go to work. Who cares Bro?
Speaker 4you got to deal with bro. You got to be able to deal with the person, but that's different than what I feel, like you're saying a bad personality versus she's just a little slow, but she bad.
Speaker 2Okay, I'll let you have that. I'll let you have that. Yeah, because that is what saying yeah, but yeah, on the personality side, we got to be able to click I feel like you're saying attitude but he's saying slow.
Speaker 4I feel like that's y'all talking about, I mean. But but.
Speaker 3But I mean the personality, that, that, that kind of goes. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 4she didn't have to be slow, but she's got an attitude that's different.
Speaker 1That's the piece of Okay, yeah, hey, man, that's stupid, we gonna talk after this show.
Speaker 2We gonna, we gonna talk after this.
Speaker 3I had never heard that in my life she didn't ask to be slow.
Speaker 4But she chose to have attitude. That's the difference.
Speaker 2I feel him you know what I'm saying. I'm trying to make a comparison, but yeah, that's, you gotta be able to deal with him, alright we gonna talk after this show.
Speaker 3That was amazing. She didn't ask to be slow and guess what I feel bad about my little analogy. Now, bro, though bro Like yeah, I didn't mean it in that way, but yeah, that's cool, all right. So having a bad personality would take a 10 all the way down to a 3.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 3Not to a 6.
Speaker 4Is it straight. 3?. We still on the chose to have a bad attitude, not the slow one, right Both All right no. His would be a six, yours would be a three.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2Okay, yeah, I feel you Give him some good numbers.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 3Yeah, oh wait, you said slow would be a six. Yeah, because she didn't choose that.
Speaker 4She chose to be. I'm sorry. She choose that. She chose to be. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3She chose that attitude. Alright, yeah, I feel it. Yeah, you a Cowboys fan, bro, you a Cowboys fan.
Speaker 1That's crazy.
Speaker 2That's crazy.
Speaker 4Oh, that's so funny, Okay Looks.
Speaker 3Her appearance is what attracted you first.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3So if she had a snotty attitude, mm-hmm, how long would you talk to her to see if it would change or anything?
Speaker 4Talking to you, rob, right it didn't depend on my intentions. If I'm dating to get married, I'm not dealing with it, but if I'm like what you said, I'm in the streets, that's cool because we kicking it.
Speaker 4I didn't say I was in the streets and I'm just saying he was a day walker and all that for the streets if I'm in streets, life that's cool, because we kick and I'm going to pick you up, we're going to kick you, I'm going to show you off and I'm going to take you back home. And every now and then we do what we do. But if I'm dating with an intention to marry somebody, I'm not dealing with it. No, I'm not messing with her, I'd rather mess with the slow girl I feel you, I feel you.
Navigating Family Dynamics in Relationships
Speaker 3Oh my God, this episode is wild. Okay, rob, what would you consider a bad personality like a bad attitude?
Speaker 4You don't get along with my kids, my mama. You always want something. You know where I work, you know what I come for. You ain't working. You just got an attitude like I'm good so the attitude involves your family yeah, if you just boozy, I got kids.
Speaker 4so if you don't get along with my kids, you feel like they bothering you all the time, like I can't deal with nobody like that. But you said you're a parent though. Yeah, if you ain't even trying like say if somebody do something, or you just don't like being around family settings, Like you know, I'm involved with my family on the holidays. So if you just wanna, if you just all about your appearance and material things, like I ain't with that, Like you ain't got no substance.
Speaker 3Oh, so you want substance? Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, but they can be slow as long as they got substance.
Speaker 4Yeah, if she got a little substance. But you said she was bad. If somebody bad and slow, I'm not going to knock nobody for that. Like man she bad though.
Speaker 3I'm going to dap you up like that, that's what I'm saying, bro. Bro, bring the moe to you, bro. I can't, I can't.
Speaker 4Hey, this is amazing. I ain't talking about super slow, but he said like I want yellow eggs, I want some yellow eggs.
Speaker 2That's what he said, but this has happened before, though. Okay.
Speaker 4It's real, I want my eggs yellow.
Speaker 2It is real, though. I mean a female didn't do this. I was using the analogy of what happened to me before with somebody else, but that sounds like a sweet girl Going out to eat.
Speaker 3That might be a sweet girl.
Speaker 4How does it sound like a sweet girl? Because she's like I want my eggs yellow.
Speaker 3That's cool. Get her the yellow egg and scramble them with cheese. Bro, I feel it. I can't with you, bro.
Speaker 2I can't. I feel it though, bro.
Speaker 3Nah, it's cool Any of y'all want to talk about. Yeah, you got anything that comes to mind.
Speaker 2Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. So you said family settings. Right, they got to be cool with family settings. Like what? If you know what I'm saying, okay, let's reverse it Not your family, but her family, right? If you had an issue with her family and she wanted you to be a part of the family situations, would you do it? What's the issue?
Speaker 4Would you do it?
Speaker 2What's the issue? Okay, maybe her family dynamic is. They talk crazy about her and her face. Nah, man, you can't do that, yeah, and you just watch her getting bullied? Nah, so you wouldn't support that? Nope. But what if she's like you don't support me though. You know how they treat me and you don't support that, Nope. But what if she's like you don't support me, though you?
Speaker 4know how they treat me and you don't want to go. That's too slow. Why you want to be around people? That's hurting you.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 4Agreed. Agreed, agreed If you ain't got that kind of sense, then I'm good.
Speaker 2Okay, okay, let's say in a situation where, let me ask you this Dyer your mom, right, maybe your mom doesn't really feel your girl right Happened a lot and she shows it. Okay, would you fault your girl for saying, nah, I'm cool on your mama.
Speaker 3No, no. If my mom shows my girl that she don't like her, I can't say I couldn't blame my girl for not wanting to be around that. Because that makes you uncomfortable, which makes me uncomfortable because the mother I mean the person that raised me, who I love don't want to be around the person that I'm in love with. So I'm in the middle like, okay, who do I make happy here?
Speaker 2You know, what I'm saying. Okay, so since you brought that up, say, you got an event coming up with your girl, right, and you can answer this too, but you got an event coming up with your girl. You know they got issues. Your girl don't want your mom to come, but your mom finds out.
Speaker 3So how do you break it to your mother that she can't come? Wait, it's my event, yeah, like my event.
Speaker 2It's not our event, it's my event.
Speaker 3Yeah, Like my event.
Speaker 2It's not our event, it's my event. It don't matter. Your wife you know what I'm saying is with you and she say I don't want your mother to be there. What?
Speaker 3do you do, Nah, I Nah. I mean, I would probably still say my mother's going to come, but I'm going to do my best to keep y'all you know what I'm saying separate. That's just me.
Speaker 2It might be hard to do because mom might be sitting in the corner side I ain't her and she might be on the other side looking at her. You know what I?
Speaker 3mean Well, y'all may not like each other, but y'all going to be cordial. And y'all may not like each other, but y'all going to be cordial and y'all going to respect each other while this event is going on, because if not, I'm kicking both of y'all out.
Speaker 2How would you handle that bro?
Speaker 4Well, yeah, I'd probably just be on with he on, just try to keep him separate, man Like you know she gave birth to you, but it's the woman you love.
Speaker 2Yeah, it's a hard one, it is. It's a hard one, very hard one. What I would say is you would have to do what your wife asked you. Nigga you tripping. You married too.
Speaker 1You tripping.
Speaker 4You married, nah yeah, your wife come first, really.
Speaker 3I mean, I get that, but nah.
Speaker 2Nah, I'm not gonna. I'm not saying Don't, try to fix the issue and try to bring them together, but if it's not fixed, Be like Mom you can't come.
Speaker 4But we going I feel like he going off the biblical senses you got to. You won with your wife. You got to detach from your parents. You are detached On the Bible side. That's where I feel like he coming from.
Speaker 3But I get that. But at the Bible side, that's where I feel like he coming from. But I get that. But at the same time you have detached. But that don't mean that you can't say, no, my mother's coming. I mean we don't have to like everything that the other person do. Agreed.
Speaker 1I understand that part too.
Speaker 2I do. You know what I'm saying? No, no, no. Now, if she say, okay, she can come, but keep her away from me, that's different, true, but if she's insisting on, she don't want to be around her period, now you got an issue, I don't have nothing. You got a problem, I don't have nothing. Now, what if it was the other way around, though? What if it was her mother versus you?
Speaker 3I would tell the same thing. We ain't got to. You know what I'm saying? Mingle, be there for you.
Speaker 2I agree, Bring in a motive. No man, we're here to support you, Right? No, I understand that, but some people don't be on it. And some parents, bro. Some mothers be on one, bro.
Speaker 3My mom would be like I don't care about that, heifer. I'm there for you.
Speaker 2Mm-hmm, and see, that's where I'd have been like, hold on now. I mean, yeah, that's my wife. Yeah, you know what I man, we're not going to call her that. See, I think part of the problem is they don't check their appearance, true, and that's where a lot of the issues come in at, I think you should find the humor in checking your appearance. Find the humor. Yes, I can see you now trying to check yours, bro.
Speaker 3Because as a kid, they used to check you and now, as an adult, you can check them To a degree. Whatever degree, that is, you're still checking them.
Speaker 1Yeah, to a degree. So you should find the humor in it. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4Yeah, but at the end of the day, you got to live with your wife, you got to live with mommy.
Speaker 3I understand that, but If we gonna compromise, like I said, y'all don't have to be around each other. Y'all here for me. That's it. You stay over there. You stay over there. You shut the F up. You shut the F up.
Speaker 2Yeah, no, I feel you, but, like I said, in most cases they don't check the parent though. Oh well then that's their fault.
Speaker 3Yeah, that's their fault. No, mom, she's a great person. You just got to get to know her. I don't want to get to know that trick.
Speaker 1Nah.
Speaker 3Yeah, see, just have the conversation. Yeah, yeah, for sure. But then If your mom start, start talking you know what I'm saying, reckless Then you be like, yeah, you don't need to come.
Speaker 1Mmhmm.
Speaker 3Yeah, but don't just Automatically say Nah, moms, you can't come. That's just me personally, I'm just not gonna do that.
Speaker 2Yeah, I'm the type we gonna sit down and figure it out real quick, right? Yeah, we need to talk the best thing and you're not gonna disrespect my mom either.
Speaker 3I'm gonna make sure she don't disrespect you be on first name or missus, or you know, I'm saying stuff like that yeah, for sure, for sure good show you got anything, rob you got anything nah man, I'm just here, hey, I'm just here for y'all.
Speaker 4In so many ways I'm just happy to be on the show. I've been waiting for a minute.
Speaker 3It's been appreciated.
Speaker 4How many years? When did it start? This is my first time.
Speaker 2It's been three four years, it ain't been three. Four years it's been two, three. No, it's been like what?
Speaker 3It's been a four years. It ain't been three, four years, it's been a year.
Speaker 2It'll be, I think it'll be, we'll be on.
Speaker 3YouTube for a year next month.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm. Okay, man, you know what?
Motivational Quotes and Chill Mode
Speaker 3I'm saying Rob brought the party to the studio, yeah man, it ain't nothing but money, baby. Bring the moe here, brother. Now, since you've been watching the show I don't know why I'm about to ask you this, but I am. Do you have a motivational quote to lead the people with?
Speaker 4motivational quote trust in God's plan. Baby, people can't hear you trust in God's plan. Alright, baby, people can't hear you Trust in God's plan.
Speaker 2All right, Give it to the Lord.
Speaker 4All right, then All right then that's what you can do. You got one man, yeah.
Speaker 3The first step in being great is to be grateful. I got that off of Google, all right, all right, I'm not ashamed of it.
Speaker 2That's what's up I got that off of Google, all right, all right, I'm not ashamed of it. That's what's up. I'm about to make mine up off the top of the dome. Okay, my motivational quote is your relationship is like a car Things break down, but it can be replaced and fixed. Repaired, repaired. You know what I? Mean yeah, cause when you say replaced, not replace the car, but replace the bad part so that you can keep the same car.
Speaker 2Okay, you know okay revision oh okay alright, you, you here, man yeah man they call me dire Okay, all right, you here, man. Yeah man, they call me Dyer, I be your boy Nine. This is Supreme Week for the podcast. Yes, sir.
Speaker 3Chill, the chill mode. You know what I'm saying. I just came here to be with y'all. You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4I was just saying, you know.
Speaker 3You said something homosexual.
Speaker 4Don't scrap my episode, man. What'd you say? Don't scrap my episode, man, because y'all petty like that.
Speaker 1Oh my God, Because y'all petty like that.
