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With special guess Rob we talk about when it comes to the modern man's pursuit of love Has our over-sexualized culture reshaped what men are looking for, or is it just a case of old wine in a new bottle? We wrestle with the concept that a digital buffet of desire might be altering the chase, pondering if today's gents are more about quick laughs or deep connections. Meanwhile, we peel back the layers of attraction, debating whether a double-tap on a screen can ever replace a heart-to-heart connection, and how personality plays the leading role in the drama of dating.
With special guess Rob we talk about when it comes to the modern man's pursuit of love Has our over-sexualized culture reshaped what men are looking for, or is it just a case of old wine in a new bottle? We wrestle with the concept that a digital buffet of desire might be altering the chase, pondering if today's gents are more about quick laughs or deep connections. Meanwhile, we peel back the layers of attraction, debating whether a double-tap on a screen can ever replace a heart-to-heart connection, and how personality plays the leading role in the drama of dating.
Hey yo Supremely full of it. Hey yo Supremely full of it, Ha ha.
Speaker 3:Man, oh man, oh man, supremely full of it podcast. Back with another rendition. We here again.
Speaker 2:Yes, sir, they call me Dyer and I be your boy now. We got a special guest in the building today. Special, special, special. Go by the name rye. How you doing my brother good. Good mr chill mode. Good, mr Chill Mode, happy to be here. Hey, he the chillest dude I ever met in my life.
Speaker 3:Oh my God, what's good man, how you doing.
Speaker 4:I'm all right man. I'm just happy to be out the house. You know, Can we chill with my guy? This show will die.
Speaker 2:The show before the show, though, bruh, you know what?
Speaker 3:I mean it's amazing, it's amazing.
Speaker 1:It's amazing.
Speaker 3:Anyway, man, so you got that cowboy hat on today, man, you a cowboy fan.
Speaker 4:Yeah, man, since sixth grade, Since grade, yeah, yeah, yeah. I got a pullover for Christmas one year. It was cowboys and I've been rocking there since.
Speaker 3:Sorry to hear that man.
Speaker 4:It's America's team. America's team yeah, he loves saying that it's America's team.
Speaker 3:They're not, though, but that's okay. It wasn't no vote, but.
Speaker 2:All right, who? Your team man Detroit? Oh okay, all right. Yeah, you hip to that rapper from Detroit. Which one? The Caucasian guy? Yeah, the third greatest rapper of all time. Who Eminem? No, I'm talking about the guy I sent you. Oh yeah, detroit Lion.
Speaker 1:Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, he be killing it for the Lions boy.
Speaker 2:I mean he Detroit Lions, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, he be killing it for the Lions. I mean ride or die. He represented this year. He do he do.
Speaker 3:But uh, since I'm around my peoples, you know what I'm saying. I found something that I wrote a few years ago. Mmhmm, I was gonna write a book.
Speaker 2:I told you man, he the chillest you man. He didn't cross his thumbs and everything. He didn't leap back in the seat. I feel it, though Let me listen and pay attention.
Speaker 3:Anyway, I was going to write a book a few years ago, right, and it was based off my dating life, but I couldn't like pick, pick a title that I was going to use for the book. So I'm gonna read my titles to y'all, okay, and see if we could figure out which one is the best one. Okay, title number one is me, you, me, you and them other niggas you with. So I think about that one bestseller. I would read that when you hear a title like that, what do you think about?
Speaker 3:you getting cheated on yeah, for sure, okay, you, I, I same thing I hear a lot more than that.
Speaker 2:Though. What do you hear? You know I'm saying like I don't even know, necessarily being cheated on, but you know, I like people highlight work, husband, work, wives. Okay, you know, I like people who have like work husband, work wives. Okay, you know what I'm saying. All that too, you know what I'm saying Okay.
Speaker 3:Second title I Can Only Get Away With so Much. That's a good one. What is that? That's a good one?
Speaker 4:Yeah, I like that too, what you like about it. Yeah, I like that too, what you like about it. I feel like it's saying I don't want to say like you walking on eggshells, but I feel like you got to watch yourself in that relationship.
Speaker 3:Okay, I can only get away with so much. I think when I wrote that one I was thinking well, I was being funny, like I'm getting away with so much, like I can only get away with so much, before I get caught.
Speaker 4:So you, on the other end of the spectrum, you're doing a lot.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, yeah, cause it's based off of my dating life, right, okay, so you was a piece of work. Yes, yes, yes, I was Never mind. Day walking. Number three Call me when he leave for work.
Speaker 4:Yeah you, I feel like you was wrong on that one.
Speaker 2:Your life. Hold on, bruh. We not gonna keep reading these titles and skipping over how you was when you was. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, now, this was an actual situation. Yes, yes.
Speaker 3:I know all the years and everything. This was 2007 to 2009,.
Speaker 4:I think with the same person yeah wow, you know, I work with a man that just went through. That man next door neighbor was hitting his wife and then they just got divorced. Yeah, you don't know how long it was going on, but that's what that reminded me of. So how did he get caught? Huh, how me of. So how did he get caught? Huh, how did he get caught. How did he get caught, man? I don't know if he said he came home early or she just finally confessed.
Speaker 3:I can't remember that confession. Stuff is crazy.
Speaker 2:My thing is, I've seen videos where people would do that, knowing that they got ring cameras.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah. That's why you know what I'm saying. They got hotels.
Speaker 2:Dyer, you were something else.
Speaker 3:Just saying Okay, the next one. She ran from everything she wanted and now Dot, dot, dot, dot dot.
Speaker 2:Okay, I can see that being like. You know what I'm saying. She know I was good for her. She was running away from that. Yep Went out there and tested the waters. And now what? Either you want me back or you done messed up.
Speaker 4:I feel like now is she got with somebody that she regretted. That's what I feel like how she wish she would have stayed with you.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3:She probably ran away from me and Anna with two baby daddies, and she know that that's my limit. I don't date women who got more than one baby daddy, so now she got two. I don't think people would got more than one baby daddy, so now she got two.
Speaker 2:I don't think people would like to hear that man, it is what it is.
Speaker 4:When I was younger I didn't date nobody with no kids. When that changed, it never really did. I put the kids in them.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm talking about, alright.
Speaker 3:Next one is that was funny. The next one is that was funny. The next title is if we didn't break up, she would have never met her husband that sounds like you regret it nah, that sounds like me probably knowing that I'm not the one for her that's real love.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so if I didn't let her go.
Speaker 3:you know what? I'm not the one for her. That's real love. Yeah, so if I didn't let her go, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3:You ain't got nothing to say about that.
Speaker 2:No, I'm with you.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Oh, you kicking the mic stand. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead. That was it. Yeah, I'm with y'all. Yeah, go ahead. That was it. Yeah, I'm with y'all.
Speaker 1:I'm with y'all.
Speaker 3:And the last one is I'm a good man if you leave me alone.
Speaker 4:Ooh, that's deep. I don't really understand that. One Like what? Like you just want to play video games, or?
Speaker 3:something. What I mean by that is at my core I'm a good man, but at certain seasons in my life I won't be a good man. So the best thing for you to possibly do is just to leave me alone.
Speaker 2:Right, here we go with this season. Talk again. I'm just saying you know, you know how I feel about that.
Speaker 4:Yeah, just hold on, bro.
Speaker 2:You said what now, this is what I'm thinking. This is what I was thinking. Okay, I was thinking it was. You know, maybe the person that you was with was so toxic, right, that you couldn't be good to them, and then, when they left you, you you was able to be cool. You know what I mean.
Speaker 3:Well, to be honest when you know what I mean. Well, to be honest, when I wrote that, I was basically saying I'm a good man when I'm in a relationship, but if I got some outside attention, I won't be good anymore. Okay, so that's why I said if you leave me alone, I can dig it. I will be a good man. You leave me alone, I can dig it.
Speaker 2:I will be a good man, you in the streets, I can dig it.
Speaker 3:Yes, day walking yes.
Speaker 4:That's what day walking means. Yeah, that's what he called it, I would be getting. I would be getting another podcast out there. Yeah, yeah, I would admit.
Speaker 3:Yeah, day walking. If I didn't get no unauthorized attention, that would yeah.
Speaker 4:I feel, it, I feel it. That's like you know. That's just like your eyes, like what the Bible say about lusting with your eyes, you can't. Once you start lusting, you can't. It'll never go away. You can't get enough right. Like the what they say, the grave is never full of bodies. It's like your eyes will never get full of sin, which you lust for. So that's what that remind me of. Like once you start, you can't stop. Quit day walking.
Speaker 3:Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 4:So if y'all had to pick what would be a good title, okay, run them back one more time real quick, my guy Okay, just read them through real quick.
Speaker 3:All right, me you, that's the same book, right, yeah, okay, me you and them other niggas you with. I can only get away with so much. Call me when he leave for work. She ran from everything she wanted and now, if we didn't break up, she would have never met her husband. I'm a good man if you leave me alone.
Speaker 2:I know which one I think you should write. I'm going to say the last one. I know which one you should write. They all good though, okay, and it's only because I feel like this one could be turned into a lifetime movie. Okay, which one Call Me when you Go to Work? Yeah, that's a lifetime movie, bro, I agree.
Speaker 1:I agree Okay.
Speaker 4:I like that too. I like Amal, but the last one sound more like you gonna go more into that, sound more specific. You've been doing the whole book on different things, though, right.
Speaker 3:I mean it could be like chapters or whatever. Yeah, you know what I'm saying yeah, but just to catch somebody's attention, what would you would go with the? What would you would go with the last one? I would go with comedy when it goes to work. Okay, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3:that's what, yeah okay, I need someone to jump off the shelves, yeah that's gonna pop out okay alright a couple days ago I saw this article on social media and it said that I didn't really have time to read it that much, but it said that men do not desire women like they used to.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3:Okay, so starting with you, rob Mm-hmm, first off, do you think that's true?
Speaker 4:That sounds homosexual to me.
Speaker 1:I ain't going to lie to you.
Speaker 4:Okay, Y'all crazy man, I'm just being real man. I ain't trying to be funny or nothing.
Speaker 3:That's what you came with huh. Yeah, he come with the heat. I feel it real man. I ain't trying to be funny or nothing. That's what you came with huh.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he come with the heat. I feel it. I feel it. What do you think? It depends on what you mean. Desire him like you used to yeah you ain't saying what he mean.
Speaker 4:He just said the words. That's what.
Speaker 1:I thought, he just said the words.
Speaker 3:Okay, this is how I took it. Yeah, yeah, please let us know, men don't like pursue women like they used to. They don't, they don't want to actually spend quality time, stuff like that. You know. I'm saying they think that they have Men in general have a lot of options.
Speaker 4:So we don't desire women like we used to, because we think we can have the pick of the litter. So it's not that they don't desire women, they just desire more. They just got more variety to choose from, that's what you're saying Possibly.
Speaker 3:Or they think, since they have more variety, that they don't have to put effort into it.
Speaker 4:I can see that Because it's just so many and it's just getting worse. And then they having less morals, the younger generation got less morals, so it's more sex is more easy to get than it was. You know what I mean. The younger you get, sex gets more easier to get because the times is changing. Okay, the older people was a little bit harder in our generation than it is for the young. How old are you? I'm 40.
Speaker 3:Okay, so we close at the same age. Nah, what do you think?
Speaker 2:Nah, I mean, I agree. I mean it's, it's. Society is over-sexualized. Okay, like you can't even get on Facebook without seeing some cheeks. Without seeing some cheeks, you can't go on TikTok without seeing somebody twerking. You know what I'm saying? It's like. It's's like they're selling it too. Why would I want to pursue a relationship if I could just hit you up and say I got a couple dollars?
Speaker 3:Okay, this is my thinking when I heard, well, when I read, that it's kind of true, because I think women only fans and, like you said, once you get on social media, you get on Instagram twerk videos. So what's there to desire when it's at our fingertips?
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4:But it ain't real. You know what I mean. I feel like I don't know if y'all ever seen that when Boozy had that thing, that clip that went viral and he was talking about like back in the old days before phones, like if a man had his wife he might see a bad chick at work and maybe a bad chick at the grocery store, and that was it, like in his surroundings. That was just. It was just his wife work, you know, grocery store paying, wherever he paid bills. He might see a bad chick. But now when you just flicking your thumb, it gives you a false sense of it's so many out here but they got to like you too, so it's just a false sense of reality.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree with that for sure. Like back in the day, like he said. You talk about how it was in the older times, like you actually had to physically be in the place of somebody you wanted to talk to, right, and you had to actually put in work to pursue them. You know, you see them one day at the store, like he said, and it's like, okay, I got to go back to the store in the mall, right. You see, if she there, nowadays it's just so easy to see somebody and instantly hop in there, then you second guessing your girl, because you like, why you ain't like this?
Speaker 3:Why you can't make it clap like that.
Speaker 4:It's not real, though True.
Speaker 3:Okay, what was I about to say? Crap. I lost my train of thought looking at this dude here.
Speaker 4:Just trying to get y'all interviewed.
Speaker 1:Get interviewed, bro Nah.
Speaker 2:You asked me to be here. I brought the party to y'all. You know what I'm saying yeah for sure?
Speaker 3:Nah, all right, okay, all right. I think the problem is, just because we look at that don't mean that we actually want to wife that Right? You see what I'm saying? Yeah, so I think saying that we don't desire women like we used to is kind of misleading.
Speaker 4:That's why I said it sound homosexual. Because we still do, because they all on the phone. They're everywhere.
Speaker 3:But they think that the Instagram model is what we actually want. But we look at that as entertainment. I don't think we would actually wife somebody who makes a living twerking showing their cheeks.
Speaker 2:But you know what? In a sense, though, that's what'll make people desire them less, though, because you believe that everybody's the same, you start believing that anybody outside of somebody that you can physically see is all about the same. You start believing that anybody outside of somebody that you can physically see is all about the same thing. Okay, even the one that might be on social media dressing the business suit, you still might look at her like she's just craving attention.
Speaker 3:Okay, if a woman, if a woman posts anything out of the ordinary, I guess, on media is she looking for attention.
Speaker 4:What do you mean out of the ordinary, like naked?
Speaker 3:Well, you can't be naked.
Speaker 4:I mean half naked yeah. Yeah, I feel like she's selling herself to somebody that got some money that can fly her out where they at. Okay, it's all about getting paid.
Speaker 2:But I think even if you ain't half naked, like if you always posting everything you're doing in your day-to-day life, you want attention.
Speaker 1:I don't care.
Speaker 2:I don't care that you got up and cooked breakfast this morning. I don't care that you stopped at this place to eat. I don't care about that.
Speaker 3:You see a lot of get ready with me videos.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you do see that a lot, but how do they start off though Half naked?
Speaker 3:Well, it depends on what they're getting ready to do, like some have get ready to cook breakfast with me or stuff like that, but they don't be naked though.
Speaker 2:So it all just depends on what they're getting ready to do? Don't show me a cooking video, or you cooking anything without giving me a tutorial you want all that I want a tutorial, because now, in my opinion, it ain't for attention.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:I follow a lady on TikTok right now. Cook everything from scratch. I love it. Is he dressed? Yes, kids be in the video sometimes. Husband be in the video, I love it. Bro, does she got yams? I don't know. You never see that. You know what I'm saying. Like she in front of the counter. Good answer, that's because she ain't on sale, everybody else on sale. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. And she just cooking, bro. And I love it, bro, because it's something that's you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3:Okay, so let me ask you this then, rob Was you dating somebody who was on sale, mm-mm.
Speaker 4:Mm-mm. Nope, I ain't got that kind of money and I'm cool, my ego can't take it. It ain't nothing but money, baby that kind of money.
Speaker 2:and I'm cool, my ego can't take it. It ain't nothing but money, baby. That's an inside joke, bro he always be saying that, bro Ain't nothing but money, baby, that was back in the day.
Speaker 3:But look though, if single people sell themselves, though right To some degree, like you have to sell yourself for somebody to see you, to get to know you, stuff like that you have to sell them on why they should, you know.
Speaker 4:That's different. When you get on social media sites, man, you, for the whole world, can fly you out. That's different Versus, like I said, we just local.
Speaker 3:But that's how life is now though.
Speaker 2:But that's why they starting to become less desirable. Though you got men right now like bro, I'll never marry nobody, because they all the same.
Speaker 3:The more videos of women twerking and all the other stuff that they do makes them less desirable.
Speaker 4:Yeah, For marriage yeah.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm so.
Speaker 2:You're going to desire to be with a woman bro.
Speaker 1:Unless you're homosexual.
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying You're going to desire. Any regular man is going to desire to be with a woman, bro, Unless you're homosexual. You're going to desire. Any regular man is going to desire to be with a woman. Yeah, but we talking about you talking about twerking, and I can't wife you down if you're doing all that.
Speaker 2:I ain't going to lie to you, bro. The internet is so saturated, bro, with the same stuff, that I swipe past that stuff to watch something else.
Speaker 3:I do, though I let it finish, and then I go, and then I go, bro.
Speaker 2:I bro, I be scrolling, you'll see it on there, bro.
Speaker 3:And then, like I said, I'll stop at somebody cooking something somebody, somebody, yeah somebody fixing something is that why you swipe past it Because your wife be around.
Speaker 2:No, it's just twerking is twerking, bro yeah. But Eventually you just get desensitized to it altogether. You see it so much All cheeks ain't made equally. That's facts, that's true. That's very true. That's very true, he was like that's deep.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, he was like that's deep, yeah, nah, nah that's very true but like I said, some things get old, bro, like I like watching the videos of people doing comedy skits and I like that type of stuff, bro. It's just after a while. It's this one thing that killed me about social media is that it can show up on your page once and then you scroll past it or you hover a second or two. This one thing that killed me about social media is that it could show up on your page once and then you scroll past it or you hover a second or two. Then all your joints get flooded with the same type of content.
Speaker 3:I don't like that. Well, yeah, the phone be spying on you, bro. I don't like that. Okay, I'm going to read something to y'all. Tell me if y'all think it's true or not, or if y'all feel this way. I don't care if your appearance is a 10. If your personality is a 3, then you're a 3.
Speaker 1:I agree.
Speaker 4:We ain't talking about getting married. If you're just kicking it, like you said you was out in the streets then you probably cool with that. But if somebody you want is really locked down, yeah, I agree with that. But if you just having fun, then no matter.
Speaker 3:So you would rate a person based off their personality, only Me, not their looks.
Speaker 4:Nah, you're going to rate them on all of it. I'm going to rate them on the total package. Yeah you rate them on all of it, but I'm talking about what you just read.
Speaker 3:Right. But they said that the personality is a three Right. That's you in the street, so that means you is a three Right. That's you in the streets, so that means you're a three.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but he's. You just said she look a 10.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but the personality a three Right, but so that knocks her all the way down to a three.
Speaker 4:But he's saying basically, if it's somebody you're trying to wife up If you was in the streets, on them books. You was talking about, like I'm in the streets, that in them books you was just talking about I'm in the streets, that's cool Right there but on some wife material. That ain't cool. You're going to be a three on wife, but if I'm in the streets kicking it, I'm going to go off your 10 part.
Speaker 3:But what I'm asking you is why does having a three for a personality take away everything else? And she just left with the three for the personality?
Speaker 4:We're not about to keep arguing all day. We made it, I'm cool, why do? You want to keep arguing when she bad, but we arguing every day. That makes sense.
Speaker 2:I got to be able to be bothered with you. Yeah, I'm cool. Listen, if you, let's say, your IQ low, right, right, but you a 10. Okay. And we at the restaurant. And they say, okay, we're getting breakfast, right, right. They come to me. They say what you want? I say, let me have this. I want my eggs. You know what I'm saying? Over medium, blah, blah, blah. They get to you. They say okay, how do you want your eggs? And you say yellow, I'm done. You ain't got to go to work. Who cares Bro?
Speaker 4:you got to deal with bro. You got to be able to deal with the person, but that's different than what I feel, like you're saying a bad personality versus she's just a little slow, but she bad.
Speaker 2:Okay, I'll let you have that. I'll let you have that. Yeah, because that is what saying yeah, but yeah, on the personality side, we got to be able to click I feel like you're saying attitude but he's saying slow.
Speaker 4:I feel like that's y'all talking about, I mean. But but.
Speaker 3:But I mean the personality, that, that, that kind of goes. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 4:she didn't have to be slow, but she's got an attitude that's different.
Speaker 1:That's the piece of Okay, yeah, hey, man, that's stupid, we gonna talk after this show.
Speaker 2:We gonna, we gonna talk after this.
Speaker 3:I had never heard that in my life she didn't ask to be slow.
Speaker 4:But she chose to have attitude. That's the difference.
Speaker 2:I feel him you know what I'm saying. I'm trying to make a comparison, but yeah, that's, you gotta be able to deal with him, alright we gonna talk after this show.
Speaker 3:That was amazing. She didn't ask to be slow and guess what I feel bad about my little analogy. Now, bro, though bro Like yeah, I didn't mean it in that way, but yeah, that's cool, all right. So having a bad personality would take a 10 all the way down to a 3.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Not to a 6.
Speaker 4:Is it straight. 3?. We still on the chose to have a bad attitude, not the slow one, right Both All right no. His would be a six, yours would be a three.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Okay, yeah, I feel you Give him some good numbers.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:Yeah, oh wait, you said slow would be a six. Yeah, because she didn't choose that.
Speaker 4:She chose to be. I'm sorry. She choose that. She chose to be. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3:She chose that attitude. Alright, yeah, I feel it. Yeah, you a Cowboys fan, bro, you a Cowboys fan.
Speaker 1:That's crazy.
Speaker 2:That's crazy.
Speaker 4:Oh, that's so funny, Okay Looks.
Speaker 3:Her appearance is what attracted you first.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3:So if she had a snotty attitude, mm-hmm, how long would you talk to her to see if it would change or anything?
Speaker 4:Talking to you, rob, right it didn't depend on my intentions. If I'm dating to get married, I'm not dealing with it, but if I'm like what you said, I'm in the streets, that's cool because we kicking it.
Speaker 4:I didn't say I was in the streets and I'm just saying he was a day walker and all that for the streets if I'm in streets, life that's cool, because we kick and I'm going to pick you up, we're going to kick you, I'm going to show you off and I'm going to take you back home. And every now and then we do what we do. But if I'm dating with an intention to marry somebody, I'm not dealing with it. No, I'm not messing with her, I'd rather mess with the slow girl I feel you, I feel you.
Speaker 3:Oh my God, this episode is wild. Okay, rob, what would you consider a bad personality like a bad attitude?
Speaker 4:You don't get along with my kids, my mama. You always want something. You know where I work, you know what I come for. You ain't working. You just got an attitude like I'm good so the attitude involves your family yeah, if you just boozy, I got kids.
Speaker 4:so if you don't get along with my kids, you feel like they bothering you all the time, like I can't deal with nobody like that. But you said you're a parent though. Yeah, if you ain't even trying like say if somebody do something, or you just don't like being around family settings, Like you know, I'm involved with my family on the holidays. So if you just wanna, if you just all about your appearance and material things, like I ain't with that, Like you ain't got no substance.
Speaker 3:Oh, so you want substance? Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, but they can be slow as long as they got substance.
Speaker 4:Yeah, if she got a little substance. But you said she was bad. If somebody bad and slow, I'm not going to knock nobody for that. Like man she bad though.
Speaker 3:I'm going to dap you up like that, that's what I'm saying, bro. Bro, bring the moe to you, bro. I can't, I can't.
Speaker 4:Hey, this is amazing. I ain't talking about super slow, but he said like I want yellow eggs, I want some yellow eggs.
Speaker 2:That's what he said, but this has happened before, though. Okay.
Speaker 4:It's real, I want my eggs yellow.
Speaker 2:It is real, though. I mean a female didn't do this. I was using the analogy of what happened to me before with somebody else, but that sounds like a sweet girl Going out to eat.
Speaker 3:That might be a sweet girl.
Speaker 4:How does it sound like a sweet girl? Because she's like I want my eggs yellow.
Speaker 3:That's cool. Get her the yellow egg and scramble them with cheese. Bro, I feel it. I can't with you, bro.
Speaker 2:I can't. I feel it though, bro.
Speaker 3:Nah, it's cool Any of y'all want to talk about. Yeah, you got anything that comes to mind.
Speaker 2:Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. So you said family settings. Right, they got to be cool with family settings. Like what? If you know what I'm saying, okay, let's reverse it Not your family, but her family, right? If you had an issue with her family and she wanted you to be a part of the family situations, would you do it? What's the issue?
Speaker 4:Would you do it?
Speaker 2:What's the issue? Okay, maybe her family dynamic is. They talk crazy about her and her face. Nah, man, you can't do that, yeah, and you just watch her getting bullied? Nah, so you wouldn't support that? Nope. But what if she's like you don't support me though. You know how they treat me and you don't support that, Nope. But what if she's like you don't support me, though you?
Speaker 4:know how they treat me and you don't want to go. That's too slow. Why you want to be around people? That's hurting you.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Agreed. Agreed, agreed If you ain't got that kind of sense, then I'm good.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, let's say in a situation where, let me ask you this Dyer your mom, right, maybe your mom doesn't really feel your girl right Happened a lot and she shows it. Okay, would you fault your girl for saying, nah, I'm cool on your mama.
Speaker 3:No, no. If my mom shows my girl that she don't like her, I can't say I couldn't blame my girl for not wanting to be around that. Because that makes you uncomfortable, which makes me uncomfortable because the mother I mean the person that raised me, who I love don't want to be around the person that I'm in love with. So I'm in the middle like, okay, who do I make happy here?
Speaker 2:You know, what I'm saying. Okay, so since you brought that up, say, you got an event coming up with your girl, right, and you can answer this too, but you got an event coming up with your girl. You know they got issues. Your girl don't want your mom to come, but your mom finds out.
Speaker 3:So how do you break it to your mother that she can't come? Wait, it's my event, yeah, like my event.
Speaker 2:It's not our event, it's my event.
Speaker 3:Yeah, Like my event.
Speaker 2:It's not our event, it's my event. It don't matter. Your wife you know what I'm saying is with you and she say I don't want your mother to be there. What?
Speaker 3:do you do, Nah, I Nah. I mean, I would probably still say my mother's going to come, but I'm going to do my best to keep y'all you know what I'm saying separate. That's just me.
Speaker 2:It might be hard to do because mom might be sitting in the corner side I ain't her and she might be on the other side looking at her. You know what I?
Speaker 3:mean Well, y'all may not like each other, but y'all going to be cordial. And y'all may not like each other, but y'all going to be cordial and y'all going to respect each other while this event is going on, because if not, I'm kicking both of y'all out.
Speaker 2:How would you handle that bro?
Speaker 4:Well, yeah, I'd probably just be on with he on, just try to keep him separate, man Like you know she gave birth to you, but it's the woman you love.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's a hard one, it is. It's a hard one, very hard one. What I would say is you would have to do what your wife asked you. Nigga you tripping. You married too.
Speaker 1:You tripping.
Speaker 4:You married, nah yeah, your wife come first, really.
Speaker 3:I mean, I get that, but nah.
Speaker 2:Nah, I'm not gonna. I'm not saying Don't, try to fix the issue and try to bring them together, but if it's not fixed, Be like Mom you can't come.
Speaker 4:But we going I feel like he going off the biblical senses you got to. You won with your wife. You got to detach from your parents. You are detached On the Bible side. That's where I feel like he coming from.
Speaker 3:But I get that. But at the Bible side, that's where I feel like he coming from. But I get that. But at the same time you have detached. But that don't mean that you can't say, no, my mother's coming. I mean we don't have to like everything that the other person do. Agreed.
Speaker 1:I understand that part too.
Speaker 2:I do. You know what I'm saying? No, no, no. Now, if she say, okay, she can come, but keep her away from me, that's different, true, but if she's insisting on, she don't want to be around her period, now you got an issue, I don't have nothing. You got a problem, I don't have nothing. Now, what if it was the other way around, though? What if it was her mother versus you?
Speaker 3:I would tell the same thing. We ain't got to. You know what I'm saying? Mingle, be there for you.
Speaker 2:I agree, Bring in a motive. No man, we're here to support you, Right? No, I understand that, but some people don't be on it. And some parents, bro. Some mothers be on one, bro.
Speaker 3:My mom would be like I don't care about that, heifer. I'm there for you.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm, and see, that's where I'd have been like, hold on now. I mean, yeah, that's my wife. Yeah, you know what I man, we're not going to call her that. See, I think part of the problem is they don't check their appearance, true, and that's where a lot of the issues come in at, I think you should find the humor in checking your appearance. Find the humor. Yes, I can see you now trying to check yours, bro.
Speaker 3:Because as a kid, they used to check you and now, as an adult, you can check them To a degree. Whatever degree, that is, you're still checking them.
Speaker 1:Yeah, to a degree. So you should find the humor in it. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but at the end of the day, you got to live with your wife, you got to live with mommy.
Speaker 3:I understand that, but If we gonna compromise, like I said, y'all don't have to be around each other. Y'all here for me. That's it. You stay over there. You stay over there. You shut the F up. You shut the F up.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, I feel you, but, like I said, in most cases they don't check the parent though. Oh well then that's their fault.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's their fault. No, mom, she's a great person. You just got to get to know her. I don't want to get to know that trick.
Speaker 1:Nah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, see, just have the conversation. Yeah, yeah, for sure. But then If your mom start, start talking you know what I'm saying, reckless Then you be like, yeah, you don't need to come.
Speaker 1:Mmhmm.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but don't just Automatically say Nah, moms, you can't come. That's just me personally, I'm just not gonna do that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm the type we gonna sit down and figure it out real quick, right? Yeah, we need to talk the best thing and you're not gonna disrespect my mom either.
Speaker 3:I'm gonna make sure she don't disrespect you be on first name or missus, or you know, I'm saying stuff like that yeah, for sure, for sure good show you got anything, rob you got anything nah man, I'm just here, hey, I'm just here for y'all.
Speaker 4:In so many ways I'm just happy to be on the show. I've been waiting for a minute.
Speaker 3:It's been appreciated.
Speaker 4:How many years? When did it start? This is my first time.
Speaker 2:It's been three four years, it ain't been three. Four years it's been two, three. No, it's been like what?
Speaker 3:It's been a four years. It ain't been three, four years, it's been a year.
Speaker 2:It'll be, I think it'll be, we'll be on.
Speaker 3:YouTube for a year next month.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm. Okay, man, you know what?
Speaker 3:I'm saying Rob brought the party to the studio, yeah man, it ain't nothing but money, baby. Bring the moe here, brother. Now, since you've been watching the show I don't know why I'm about to ask you this, but I am. Do you have a motivational quote to lead the people with?
Speaker 4:motivational quote trust in God's plan. Baby, people can't hear you trust in God's plan. Alright, baby, people can't hear you Trust in God's plan.
Speaker 2:All right, Give it to the Lord.
Speaker 4:All right, then All right then that's what you can do. You got one man, yeah.
Speaker 3:The first step in being great is to be grateful. I got that off of Google, all right, all right, I'm not ashamed of it.
Speaker 2:That's what's up I got that off of Google, all right, all right, I'm not ashamed of it. That's what's up. I'm about to make mine up off the top of the dome. Okay, my motivational quote is your relationship is like a car Things break down, but it can be replaced and fixed. Repaired, repaired. You know what I? Mean yeah, cause when you say replaced, not replace the car, but replace the bad part so that you can keep the same car.
Speaker 2:Okay, you know okay revision oh okay alright, you, you here, man yeah man they call me dire Okay, all right, you here, man. Yeah man, they call me Dyer, I be your boy Nine. This is Supreme Week for the podcast. Yes, sir.
Speaker 3:Chill, the chill mode. You know what I'm saying. I just came here to be with y'all. You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:I was just saying, you know.
Speaker 3:You said something homosexual.
Speaker 4:Don't scrap my episode, man. What'd you say? Don't scrap my episode, man, because y'all petty like that.
Speaker 1:Oh my God, Because y'all petty like that.