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Episode 075: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play

June 13, 2024 Elle and Vee Season 2 Episode 75
Episode 075: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play
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Girls Gone Deep
Episode 075: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play
Jun 13, 2024 Season 2 Episode 75
Elle and Vee

Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).


Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)


Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)


Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)


Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)


Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)


ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)


If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)


Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)


How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)


Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)


Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)


Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)


Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)


How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)


Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)


How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)


Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)


Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)


Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.au

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Show Notes

Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).


Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)


Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)


Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)


Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)


Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)


ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)


If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)


Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)


How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)


Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)


Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)


Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)


Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)


How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)


Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)


How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)


Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)


Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)


Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.au

Where to find us, and how you can support us:

Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod

Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop

Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com
Instagram: @wlthegame

Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!