Goals, Grit, and Some Woo Woo Sh*t
"BREAKING NEWS: Your dream life (and your dream bod) isn’t just going to happen because you made a vision board. Join Oonagh Duncan (fitness expert and bestselling author of Healthy As F*ck/Ditch The Diet) to examine the habits of kicking ass every day - so you can create a life of no regrets. Whether you want to lose weight, get rich, or save the whales while writing bestselling mystery novels- get ready to be inspired. This isn’t about incantations and putting the right crystals in your bra. This is about having the courage to take responsibility for your life, the grit to do the actual work and—most importantly—constantly training your brain to be your b*tch. Here’s what you can expect: Sometimes you’ll get the most tender loving b*tch slap in your ear about why you need to exercise - even when you don’t f*cking feel like it. Sometimes you’ll get a sleep expert teach you the exact steps on how to fall back asleep at 3am so you don’t feel like a zombie all day. Sometimes you’ll hear from someone who ran the marathon, kicked the addiction or manifested their dream threesome on the beach and you’ll think “If they can do it, so can I” And when you start thinking thoughts like that… you will be inspired to stop drifting and being a victim of your circumstances - and start actively creating the life you want. It takes Goals. It takes Grit. And it takes some Woo-Woo Sh*t."
Goals, Grit, and Some Woo Woo Sh*t
Goal: Get the Passion Back In A Long Term Relationship with Dr. Cheryl Fraser
Okay, lovely listeners, let’s do a little exercise. [And no, I'm not asking you to break a sweat in this episode.]
Close your eyes and think back to when you and your partner were first together. It was all giggles and romance and constant romps in the bedroom, am I right?
Keep ‘em closed…What does it look like today? Have you entered Marriage Inc.? Friendly routines and business as usual? Scheduling and rescheduling sex that you’re only kinda, sorta interested in?
Dr. Cheryl Fraser is overflowing with wisdom (and redeeming humility) when it comes to long term relationships, finding fine, and then not settling for anything other than exceptional.
She shares familiar anecdotes that we all fall into that affect our internal happiness and our relationships.
Pining after a fictional soulmate, focusing on what you're getting rather than what you’re giving, hyper fixating on the traits your partner doesn't have over what they do—all common stories that ring true to the philosophy that whether you’re happy or not depends on your mind.
She offers solutions and habits to debunk these inner thoughts and do the work on the outside. And she dispels the not so golden rule everyone’s heard: Never Go To Bed Angry.
Resonating? I thought so. Rate your relationship with Dr. Cheryl’s Passion Quiz and tune in for the full episode.
Now, try some of the tips in this episode and go give your partner a smooch! xx
What’s Inside:
- Why you shouldn’t settle for fine in your long term relationship.
- Why romance and passion is important.
- Tips and advice to rewrite the stories in your mind.
- You never know: 1 rule to follow before leaving your loved ones.
- Is it really okay to go to bed angry?
Have you entered Marriage incorporated? What sort of inner stories have led to this and what are you going to do to rewrite them? Let me know on Insta!
Mentioned In This Episode:
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Interested in the Become Passion online couples program? Next session begins Spring 2024. Learn more and get on the waitlist to be the first to be notified when doors open here
Book Buddha’s Bedroom - A Mindful Loving Path to Sexual Passion and Lifelong Intimacy
Podcast Sex Love and Elephants with Dr. Cheryl
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