Bratting vs Topping from the bottom: How to get what you want from your Dom whilst remaining in surrender.

Do you identify as a BRAT? Do you love to test your Dom and take control? Or do you wish you could surrender more? 

In this episode I break down the difference between bratting and ‘topping from the bottom’ as well as giving all submissives some top tips on the ways to ask your Dom for what you want without it taking away from your submissive experience. 

I break down some of the behaviours that you might notice when topping from the bottom, ask you some important questions to get clear on your intentions, and give a little reminder about how to co-create a power dynamic that works for ALL involved.