"The Art of Ghosting: Navigating the Silent Endings in Modern Dating."

Why is ghosting such a prevalent and polarizing issue in modern dating culture? Tune in as we unpack the emotional and ethical complexities of abruptly ending communication without explanation. From personal anecdotes to heated debates, we question whether ghosting is a cowardly escape from difficult conversations or a misguided attempt to spare feelings. You'll hear about the lengths people go to track down those who ghost them and the importance of mature communication and mutual respect.

We didn't shy away from the tough topics. Join us as we navigate the tricky terrain of sexual compatibility and the need for honest dialogue in relationships. How do you handle conversations about sexual performance, hygiene, and other sensitive issues without causing emotional harm? We dig into real-life examples, emphasizing the nuances of delivering and receiving feedback. Can a straightforward approach coexist with preserving someone's confidence and feelings? Find out as we explore the emotional impact of these challenging discussions.

On a lighter note, we bring you behind the scenes to share some personal milestones and team dynamics. Misty calls out Bobby Frost for not including her and Courtney in his outings, revealing the playful tension within our friendships. We also celebrate Courtney's recent graduation, highlighting the personal achievements within our team. Plus, get excited about our upcoming projects, including an electrifying collaboration between Hit-Boy and Alchemist. This episode is packed with raw honesty, heartfelt moments, and engaging discussions that you won't want to miss!

Transcript

Bobby Frost: 0:00

Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby Frost Media presents Tri-Parency. I'm with the beautiful lady Just Misty.

Jus Mystie: 0:07

Yo, yo yo. I'm going to change that up. I should be a little more happier. Do it again. Say it one more time.

Bobby Frost: 0:13

One more time. One more time for the road. Okay, I'm ready. It's your boy, bobby Frost. And Bobby Frost Media presents Tri-Parency. I'm looking at your tongue sticking out, cause I was ready man get the fuck on. I don't wanna Just Missy.

Jus Mystie: 0:29

We good, you don't even be amped up enough for me. That's why I don't be amped up.

Bobby Frost: 0:33

I be trying to. I swear. You know you bring the energy, that's your thing. I so you wasn't feeling it today.

Jus Mystie: 0:39

I'm tired bro hey y'all hey, pew, pew, pew.

Bobby Frost: 0:44

And what's up, what y'all been up to. Man, you know what I'm saying. We back hey, I ain't lying to y'all. This show gives me energy and life. Though. I like chopping up with y'all. I like doing this. I have fun doing this. This is my shit, I like doing it. You all the feedback and somebody bumping to me out there or DM me or message me or even text message me. You know what I'm saying. Hit me up. Hey, I love all that. I appreciate all of y'all. Keep it up, man, y'all. Even at the times I do like man, I got so much shit going on I don't feel like recording. That makes me get out and record. I ain't gonna lie to y'all. So I appreciate it all. I appreciate it all. You know ain't shit. I ain't gonna lie to you. I ain't no star, but it do feel good. Motherfucking coming like, yeah, I'm tapping in with you, bro, I see you or what you been up to.

Bobby Frost: 1:29

Okay, yeah, you about to be super dope it'd be super dope, that shit like damn, I'm like, yeah, I fucks with it. I fucks with it. So what, you been on misty I've been super busy at work.

Jus Mystie: 1:38

I ain't gonna lie. You know, the same old, same old man I am. It's the first today. I ought not even be in here. I ought to be somewhere collecting rent. But wake up wake up.

Bobby Frost: 1:48

Wake up, it's the first of the month get up get up. Get up cash, some checks and come on for real, yeah, no, I ain't been on none that man. You know I had a? Um funeral to go to and it was a sad thing. I ain't gonna touch on it on here. But sad situation in my neighborhood was, um, some of my uh, my home with my homie and it just, yeah, had me for a loop. But um, rip my dog, t-nick, for sure, yeah that had me tight, yeah.

Jus Mystie: 2:14

Yeah, I heard y'all had a lot going on over there in the hood yeah praying for the families involved that. It's been a lot of. It's been a crazy ass week last couple of weeks in Flint anyway, you know what I'm saying. A lot of people lost their lives. I'm praying for all the families involved.

Bobby Frost: 2:29

This was last weekend. I pulled up to the gas station in the hood, carpon Road, saginaw. Why the fuck was a car like the human torch came and torched that bitch, this bitch. When I say this bitch was like, yeah, melted all through. All you had was the frame of the car, yeah.

Jus Mystie: 2:46

Yeah, that was crazy. It was a shooting up there too last weekend or maybe the weekend before. A girl lost her life. Again praying for all the families involved. I don't know the details of it, but yeah, shit be getting crazy in Flint in the summertime and I just have to pray extra hard for my city man.

Bobby Frost: 3:01

That's the real, that's what you do. You know, I'm saying that's what you do. That shit, just like I said that shit, fuck me up man.

Jus Mystie: 3:06

I said I was, you know I'm gonna get that in two seconds, but I'm going, I'm no, no, I got you.

Bobby Frost: 3:11

I'm turning it to you so you can have it. Yeah, what you? Think about yeah, okay, I fucked around and, like I said, I was out you know I'm saying dangling and I seen that shit, like I was buzzed, you know I looked like what the fuck?

Jus Mystie: 3:23

you've been out a whole lot. Every I know that the followers and the listeners is peeping that out and, uh, we have not been with you, me or courtney. Courtney's still around y'all. She is c doing her thing. She graduated june 7th. Shout out to her. She knocked that shit out. We missed her. I'm so tired of talking to just rob, but I love you right they always ask about her too.

Bobby Frost: 3:43

They y'all always ask about her.

Jus Mystie: 3:44

Yes, she will be back, graduation coming soon, but you've been out without us. What the fuck.

Bobby Frost: 3:51

You know, it don't even be like I be going on work big, I just be out. You know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie: 3:55

You think we don't want to just be out with you. I'm just confused on why you don't ever call and be like, because you be being fake on here and these people probably think we friends outside of here but really in real life.

Bobby Frost: 4:04

Man, y'all be having. This is the thing that y'all ain't saying to the listeners too. Y'all be having y'all shit going on too and just be like I didn't even know.

Jus Mystie: 4:10

But we called you. We stopped calling you because you never call us.

Bobby Frost: 4:22

I'm going to have to't know how this is me. I'm being honest and shout out to my dog Quill, because I've been doing this before for a while. I'm talking about like a six month span when you're not drinking and you go to the club or a bar. It's not, it's fun, no more. I swear it's not Like if you ain't doing no weed, you're not for the people Anything to get you intoxicated. If you just going that bitch, sober as hell to a bar and club, I know me, I talk to my dog. You don't want to be there. I know I don't. I be like man, shit, what am I here for?

Jus Mystie: 4:54

I'm straight. I didn't want that light right there back in my video.

Bobby Frost: 4:57

Okay, yeah, I'm like, yeah, I'm straight, I don't want to be in that.

Jus Mystie: 5:05

Hell.

Bobby Frost: 5:05

no, what the hell Girl you over there, fight for your life.

Jus Mystie: 5:07

I'm having technical difficulties. My fucking Microphone is jumping out at me Damn, yeah, that shit.

Bobby Frost: 5:10

Yeah, that's crazy though, but yeah, nah, I don't know. Man, I need to slow my ass down. I'm gonna be honest about that. That's the real. I definitely need to slow my ass down?

Jus Mystie: 5:18

Yeah, cause I think you drinking Like a fifth a day. Nah, just kidding.

Bobby Frost: 5:21

I did do a fifth last Sunday, did a little bit over a fifth. I'm becoming an alcoholic. That's why I said I got to get myself together For all my listeners out there. We have to jump into this topic. We at the halfway mark y'all Anything you're listening to right now, anything in the episode, pay attention to this. We at the halfway mark.

Jus Mystie: 5:43

End of the second season, end of the second quarter.

Bobby Frost: 5:44

If you look at quarter, yeah, if you look at the right now, it's halftime. You know you're going there, so if you defeat it, you, you, you drain. You feel like you're down on the scoreboard. Hey, man, this this coach, rob, coach bobby, talking to you. Hey, you gotta dig deep, all 10 toes down.

Jus Mystie: 6:00

Go out there and go win put them, numbers up, revamp your goals, look at them, write them down. Oh, rob, tell the listeners what you did, that I told you to do. I'm gonna let you tell them, rob has a planner yep, I had to go get it, man.

Bobby Frost: 6:18

Rob has a planner and he's organizing his life yeah, man, like I said, one thing I do I'm intentional with prayer now, like really when I pray, I don thing I do I'm intentional with prayer now, like really when I pray, I don't. I used to pray vague as hell. Yeah yeah, now, when I pray, I'm intentional. I pray for organization, prioritization, preparation. That's what's up, so I pray for it.

Jus Mystie: 6:37

I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you. Before we jump into our subject, that is something else. I have been on. I have been. I told y'all that I was embarking on my little spiritual journey and trying to find and get a better relationship with God. And for those that do believe in that, you know, and if you don't, that's fine, I ain't knocking nobody's shit. But I have actually and y'all know I do not fuck with churches, but I found a pastor that I like, jerusalem and, um, I've been eight, eight Sundays in a row.

Bobby Frost: 7:06

That's big.

Jus Mystie: 7:07

Eight Sundays straight, bro, I was like look at this. And woke up last week it was like I was really like oh up, like I got church, this today. Yeah, it's just you know. But I do go. I ain't gonna lie to y'all. A lot of fuck with churches. I do still go as soon as the pastor finna start preaching. As soon as he done, I leave, I put my offerings in the thing on my way out.

Jus Mystie: 7:28

I don't really, and it ain't even that I don't like the worship part, it's just they choir chatty, don't tell nobody else, so I don't even go and watch the choir.

Bobby Frost: 7:38

What they say, they don't get. The spirit they don't make me get.

Jus Mystie: 7:40

Yeah, they don't get the spirit moving. Yeah, it'd be like jesus. Oh, that's the boring song you know it's that tempo it's boring, you know I don't fuck with it. But yeah, though y'all shout out to aj, I fuck with him. He makes sure I understand what's going on. So that's all I've been on okay, so let's get into it.

Bobby Frost: 7:57

Man, the episode today is the art of ghosting, navigating silent endings, admiring dating. So with that, saying, I don't understand this shit like this shit became part of the culture. Now the ghost people like that shit is just the big thing to do.

Jus Mystie: 8:12

Ghosts like I think, define ghosts for the listeners, even though they already know. Do you mean, like, stop answering?

Bobby Frost: 8:19

yeah, you just disappear, you all all the contact you have with this person, you just drop it. That's like to me that's some wild shit to do, man, and then if a motherfucker come pop you in your ass or do some wild shit to you, a motherfucker would sit back and think like you know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie: 8:37

First of all, let me say this I'm not getting ghosted. I'm not getting ghosted Cause that shit is. That's janky as fuck. Don't just not At least tell me why you don't wanna Fuck with me no more, cause then you ain't Gonna have to ghost me, cause I'ma be like, okay, cool, i'ma stop fucking with you. But if you don't tell me it's a problem, or I don't know why you don't wanna Fuck with me no more, or that I don't want me to talk to you, and then I won't.

Bobby Frost: 9:04

I don't. The ghosting is crazy, like when you really Put that shit into, like it's crazy. You just, you, just you got somebody Feelings or attention Rolling with it, they getting infatuated With you or whatever they level Of emotional attachment.

Jus Mystie: 9:21

Is to you? And then what if you go somebody and then you find out they fucking killed they self that next week? Right, like seriously, though I feel like you shouldn't do people like that, because I think closure is important in any situation, in all honesty, cause I feel like you can't truly get over a situation, no matter how light it was or no matter how big it was. You can't get over it until you like no and you ghosting a motherfucker. That just that's just not right. But I'm not getting ghosted again, I'm popping the fuck up, and if you get in trouble behind it or if you want to whoop my ass behind it, then we just going to be out here fighting because you should answer this motherfucking phone.

Bobby Frost: 9:54

Yeah, it's just like I don't know why this became a phenomenon now, I truly don't.

Jus Mystie: 9:59

It is thing um like it's trendy, but I wonder why? How do you really go somebody though with social media?

Bobby Frost: 10:07

and shit.

Jus Mystie: 10:07

I mean you just yeah, that's it you think that I'm gonna stand for being blocked? No, I'm gonna go right on rob page and look up your shit, because I know you ain't even thinking to block rob. You might buy you, they might block courtney, they might block your immediate friends too. So you can't see. You know, they're not gonna everybody. I don't give a fuck if I go and I'm, and it's me and another bitch, I don't know if we are sitting there having a drink of smoke and you with somebody else, guess what bitch. Let me see your phone so I can see this.

Bobby Frost: 10:36

It's crazy man. You know what I'm saying Like.

Jus Mystie: 10:50

I ain't getting ghosted. It is wild like that ghost and shit is wild like it's a phenomenon like, and it someone to me some of the chattiest shit catch on fire, in my opinion.

Bobby Frost: 10:54

You know what I'm saying like you think ghosting is chatty. I can't say all the way chatty. I think it's chatty when you're doing it because it's trendy. You know what I'm saying. Like you, you fucking over somebody.

Jus Mystie: 11:00

Just be fucking over that's, I don't wait a minute, okay so you think that ghosting somebody I don't think ghosting somebody is fucking over somebody. I think that people ghost people because they don't want to hurt nobody's feelings or they don't want to go through the communication of saying that I don't want to fuck with you.

Bobby Frost: 11:15

That's not, that's not being chatty about it. Like I'm saying, like it's it's, it's it's chatty, like I'm gonna tell you something I used to do when I was younger with Shadi. You know what I'm saying. It's a good comparison.

Jus Mystie: 11:23

Hi, Woo Woo.

Bobby Frost: 11:24

Just trying to run up the score of fucking bitches. That was Shadi. Now I think about-.

Jus Mystie: 11:27

Wait a minute, you would ghost somebody to fuck somebody.

Bobby Frost: 11:29

No, I'm saying that was Shadi. Something I would say what Shadi was done was trendy when I was growing up. That's just the era I was don't agree with that.

Jus Mystie: 11:42

You wasn't doing it because the person didn't like you didn't like the person.

Bobby Frost: 11:45

You was just doing it because that was high fives.

Jus Mystie: 11:47

I think that that's why you go. Oh no, I think that's why people ghost people. I don't think it because they don't be liking them. Maybe they be dealing with the situation.

Bobby Frost: 11:55

I went into it with the mindset that I was going. It was a song called Tutor Neboot. I was going. I went in there with the attention to Hi Sequan. I went in there with the attention to knock something down and get the fuck out of here Hi. Rayanna, that's Chatty.

Jus Mystie: 12:08

Y'all what y'all think about. Ghosting Y'all. I mean, that's what we talking about today Ghosting how they just don't call, don't answer, don't text, block you on everything. Have any of y'all.

Bobby Frost: 12:20

That's. That's, that's to me. If you got a valid reason, you know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie: 12:24

You, just somebody, whatever it is, there's no valid reason to just stop talking to somebody. You should be adult. At this big age you should be able to say you know what, rob, this friendship ain't working, I'm gonna go my separate way, you go yours. Or this relationship ain't working, I'm gonna do me, I'm gonna do you. There's no reason that I should have to block you on my phone, block you on social media and like really ghost you. That's crazy and then that make people worry about you. Shit, I could be worried about your stupid ass, thinking you in the ditch dead somewhere. Nigga, we in Flint, right, don't be fucking ghosting me. Tell me you don't want me. No more bitch so I can cry and get over it. Whatever the fuck the case may be I.

Bobby Frost: 13:01

I, you know I ain't never ghosted nobody, for the most part, like I would tell you what's up.

Jus Mystie: 13:05

Rex, we talking about being ghosted, when people just stop talking to you, just don't text you Nothing.

Bobby Frost: 13:12

Just cut off all communication. That's crazy man.

Jus Mystie: 13:15

To me like.

Bobby Frost: 13:15

I said it's a wild thing to do. It's a phenomenon. I be seeing people talk about it. It's crazy. Dj Woo said.

Jus Mystie: 13:25

I ghost crazy. Dj woo said I ghosted a motherfucker because I'm tenderoni, because I'm tenderoni, woo. And if you know, and if you on bs and you're not telling me, i'ma ghost you what bs, what do you mean? And then why would you ghost me? Instead of just why, can't you just tell me, like you want some bullshit, I'm finna.

Bobby Frost: 13:37

Get the fuck on down because I'm gonna go back to what you just said, like this is the truth. You know, I'm saying the impact of it, like the emotional effects of being a person that got ghosted. Like think about that shit. You really feeling somebody and you could have done something wrong, but you didn't know you did something wrong and they just cut all communication.

Jus Mystie: 13:52

That's what I'm saying that's why it's not fair and that's why you're not gonna ghost me. I am popping the fuck up because what? What did I do tell me? I'm not a person that can deal with being ghosted and I'm not being funny, I don't give a fuck if I catch you out with your bitch as respectfully as I can. I'm going to be like hey, rob, how are you bitch? You shouldn't have ghosted me. Now if she gonna ask who I am and all of that shit, that's on you, because you should have told me why you wasn't gonna fuck with me, no more like I'm listening what she says.

Bobby Frost: 14:17

That man says these men don't understand when you be up front and tell them you gotta ghost them or they'll manipulate the situation and make them the victim and you the villain. And I'm gonna use, I'm gonna, I'm gonna uh piggyback on what she said, with changing this is the truth. I feel like ghosting somebody like that, especially if they ain't know what the fuck they did. I think that's like villain origin stories when motherfuckers turn into like super villains and shit. That's what I feel like. It's like you done, fucked the person up okay.

Jus Mystie: 14:43

So okay, we saying that now there's a destiny, just said shout out to destiny. Destiny says sometimes it depends on what type of relationship we have. Like, if we met two or three weeks ago, then fuck it. Okay, destiny, I feel that, but I still think that you don't know how emotionally attached I was to you in them two or three weeks. I know it sound crazy, but in my mind I could have been like I want to make her my bitch. And now you didn't ghost to me and I don't even know what the fuck I didn't do that's that's that's the problem I'm having with the emotional side of somebody being ghosted I feel like we, I feel like it's not right, because what if it was something that I do with everybody?

Jus Mystie: 15:14

and now, as a woman, you didn't ghost to me because I did this and I could keep getting ghosted because of that reason, and I don't even know because ain't nobody took their time to communicate it to me. That's fucked up. So I feel like we need to communicate with people before we just ghost them, cause I I ain't going to say I ghost the motherfucker because I don't block them and all of that extra shit, but I will stop answering the phone.

Bobby Frost: 15:36

But you know what? Now I'm gonna flip the script. I'm gonna flip the script real quick.

Jus Mystie: 15:39

Me popping up is insane, no, insane, no, you blocking me is insane I'm gonna flip the script real quick now.

Bobby Frost: 15:44

I'm gonna flip it. How about the uh perspective of the ghoster, the person who? Why? You know why I will somebody, why would somebody want to go somebody?

Jus Mystie: 15:54

I think that the only reason you would go somebody is because you don't want to hurt their feelings, or you don't want to communicate whatever the issue was, or you don't want to communicate that you just wanted to fuck and I'm gone. Like I think that it's a lack of communication, that person that's ghosting. Just they don't know how to communicate. Sometimes it ain't what you thought it was and those. Okay, so, destiny, why wouldn't you just say that to me? Like you know what I'm saying? Okay, she said people don't know how to express themselves. I get it, but as adults, you should be able to say I thought this day, me and my cousin just talked about it.

Jus Mystie: 16:27

I hate to switch up, but I'm gonna tell you what she said. She said that she would get up and walk out in the middle of a date Like you know what I'm saying, like it's not working and I think that's fucked up. Like why would you do that? Why wouldn't you finish it? And then, during the date, we can talk about it, like you know what I'm saying. Or, or after the date, you can be like you know, like I I enjoyed myself, but I thought this was. You know, I'm saying this and I feel like community. We lack communication, bro. I can't.

Bobby Frost: 16:51

I'm getting frustrated even thinking about it, because all it is is communication see, and you saying it, and that's that's what I'm saying, that's we just talking about it? Ghosting is big man.

Jus Mystie: 17:00

That's fucked up like and people do fall in love, fast as hell, faster than I never even saw this shit in life. Motherfuckers will fall in love, do you hear me? And really be loving each other yeah, and that's what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost: 17:11

Like now, I'm trying to look at it from both ways. I'm looking at it from the person being ghosted and then a ghoster, because it might be emotional reason why this person ghosted. Now I would say this I have in the past you know I'm saying not being funny I have in the past and that's still ghosting. Like I get to a point where I'm so overwhelmed or so in a mood and I'll just be like fuck it. You know I'm saying I'm not picking up the phone for you, I'm not talking to nobody and it's not intentionally, I'm trying to hurt you feeling. I'm just overwhelmed, what's going on with me, and I don't want to bring my baggage, my luggage, to you.

Jus Mystie: 17:43

Okay. So what's wrong with you saying that, instead of having me at the house losing my mind because Rob didn't just up and stop talking to me I don't know what I did. I thought we was on to something good. If you having issues, and you are, it's okay to say that. That's all I'm saying. People don. I'm saying people don't communicate. If you Listen, when my uh, when my per be here I just learned that word Too.

Jus Mystie: 18:05

Even though you don't got no period, I'm still sharing it with you. When my per be here, I don't want to talk to you, I don't Want to look at you. I don't want you to come lay in the bed with me. Guess what, when my nigga call and be like what you doing, I'm finna. Come over there. I say that I don't just be like. Let you think I got an attitude about something else. I'll be like I don't feel like being bothered today. I might not be like nigga, I'm bleeding, leave me alone. I'm going to be like. I don't feel like being bothered, I just want to be by myself.

Bobby Frost: 18:26

It's funny man, Hold on.

Jus Mystie: 18:27

What's wrong with communication?

Bobby Frost: 18:29

She just said I ghost dudes who dick was trash, Not going to lie. I unfollow and block.

Jus Mystie: 18:37

I. If they find a way to get in contact with me, I'm going to tell them that's fucked up. I'm not going to use those words, but I'm going to be like you know, I. I'm a person that sex is important to me. Did see, did I start that right? Yeah, yeah, that ain't hurt your feelings If I'd be like sex is very important to me and we just didn't. Our chemistry chemistry was off, it wasn't. That ain't mean, is it?

Bobby Frost: 19:07

no, no, okay, well, I always think that's gonna be like your dick was little as fuck, like that's what I'm saying, the ghosting part that's why I'm saying it's fucked up, like the communication part with the ghost, and like why can't you just sit up and tell somebody hey, I'm easing up out this bitch because of this reason, like if that was a case, if the, the dick was trash, hey, hey, what you just said, not you have it because he might have thought the dick was great.

Jus Mystie: 19:26

Okay, fuck, she said. Destiny said if she texting somebody, she said you right, communication is everything, but if I'm texting somebody I will lose interest in the conversation so quick and just stop texting back. So should that be considered ghosting as well? Yeah, it is considered ghosting, but you know what? I'm happy you brought that up, because for real destiny I ain't gonna say a lot of men, because I heard a lot of dudes said about females too.

Jus Mystie: 19:49

Some people just don't know how to hold conversation. You know, I'm saying it's boring because I I don't know why it's boring, but it's boring. I've ran across dudes that I'll be texting too and I'll be like he don't even know what to say. You know what I'm saying? He don't know what to say. He don't know what to say next. He don't even know how to start this conversation. So I stopped talking to him too. But before I stopped talking to him I try to initiate it, though like I try to say shit, ask questions. But if you being dry and you don't know how to talk and hold conversation, then yeah, I'm out.

Bobby Frost: 20:16

I ain't getting back and see that's, that's all my whole key thing tonight. Why not just tell somebody hey, listen, the issue I have right now is you don't know how to hold my attention, so I'm about to bag up my thing hold on my thing with people when it comes to ghosting and I ain't never been ghosted like that, you know.

Bobby Frost: 20:32

I'm just saying I have ghosted somebody, a couple people before and it wasn't intentional. But my thing be like this is why can't you just tell somebody how you feel and stand on what you said? You right that, that's it. Like I'm looking at Porsche. Porsche that goes and shows a lack of maturity and security. Grow the fuck up and communicate Seriously.

Jus Mystie: 20:51

You're right, porsche, cause, I swear to God, they just do y'all think. Let me ask y'all a question and we got 20 viewers, y'all. Do y'all think that women communicate more than men, or do y'all think it's kind of like a equal thing that motherfuckers just ain't communicating? I think it's now. I think this generation I think it's.

Bobby Frost: 21:09

It's depending on the person, who the people is, because some guys are great communicator. Myself, I feel like I'm a great communicator. I'm gonna tell you how I feel, because if you're feeling get hurt, just feeling get hurt, I know I'm not gonna deliver the message in a fucked up way I think that that's the point that people have to get to the maturity thing that you said.

Jus Mystie: 21:24

I think that's absolutely correct, but I think that you have to get to a point where you okay with hurting somebody, feelings like it's just. There's no way that you can tell somebody that they're not for you without hurting their feelings unless they feel the same way. Now they feel the same way and they come back and be like you know what? I the same thing. You know that we wasn't really on the same page. I think that's what's wrong with the black community period.

Bobby Frost: 21:46

That's why I went back to what I said. With the ghoster, you got to take the ghoster perspective. If I don't like here, go promise up. I done seen this happen too. Some people are they're not combative, so they try to avoid conflict at all costs. So, even though they know they don't want to fuck with this person or they want to end this with the situation, instead of them being grown about it and being like, hey, this is this, is that they just gonna say I'm gonna fall back and hopefully they get the message.

Jus Mystie: 22:11

Okay, but that's another part about maturity on the other person's end, because why do it have to be a confrontation or a debate, or why does it have to be any aggression at all because you're not feeling me or I'm not feeling you? A motherfucker gotta accept that. Everybody ain't for everybody. No I'm with some stuff I do ain't gonna be for you. You feel me like in some stuff another motherfucker do ain't gonna be for me, like why.

Bobby Frost: 22:34

I would say this too in my own past relationships you know I'm saying situationships, all that under the sun it's sometimes I thought about like I should have probably just ghosted and went on about my motherfucking business, because even me being mature and telling them about it, I still got to take the backlash of you getting upset, cussing me out, fuck you and like why are you like you said? Why are you doing that? Because I'm telling you how I feel.

Jus Mystie: 22:57

I made that girl feel so bad. I would have said see, you're not even mature enough for me.

Bobby Frost: 23:00

Man, females, don't give a fuck. You think I ain't say that?

Jus Mystie: 23:03

Listen, you got to stop thinking. That's the problem with motherfuckers. Niggas think that we don't give a fuck about nothing because we keep snapping. Yes, the fuck we do, just like when a motherfucker don't react to us.

Bobby Frost: 23:15

Y'all think that don't piss us off. Hell yeah, I'm sure enough to come have a uh, you know, have a meaningful I mean meaningful conversation. Have a meaningful dialogue with you and I tell you hey, listen, this is why I'm doing this and this is why I want to fall back or be done that's why she stopped explaining why she goes down.

Jus Mystie: 23:31

Okay, jerron, let me ask you, I'm with her no, jerron just said that he keep it simple and be like I'm not feeling you. Okay, jerron, as a woman, if I was to be like no attitude or nothing, if I just came back and was like, damn well, you know what I'm saying, can you tell me why? Is it something I did? Because I want to better myself as a woman. It could have been something that you could have been like bitch, you were chewing with your mouth open. I don't know Something that I could have worked on. I'm just saying would you be able to sit there and have a conversation with me and say this is why I'm not feeling you like you know I'm saying and not be a dick about it, would you be able to do that, because I just don't think.

Bobby Frost: 24:07

Or here go another thing for a ghoster I'm gonna take, I'm gonna play devil advocate for the ghoster. So maybe a person who's care about emotion so much they don't want to hurt somebody emotion, even though you're still gonna hurt their, their feelings, they don't want to hurt them I think, if you deliver, if you deliver it correctly.

Jus Mystie: 24:22

You shouldn't hurt my feelings. You telling me you're not feeling me. Okay, that ain't gonna hurt my feelings if I be like okay, well, you know I'm saying like why? Nah, I mean, I can see. If it's some shit where you be like your breath stank or some shit you don't want to tell them, I'm gonna go back to uh, uh in the live, uh, miss, uh, smith, matia smith, what she said?

Bobby Frost: 24:39

the guy dick was trash Nine times out of ten. You tell a guy that you about to crush him.

Jus Mystie: 24:44

Why do it Delivery Again? Why would I be like your dick, trash bro.

Bobby Frost: 24:48

So how you going to tell him that the sex is bad?

Jus Mystie: 24:50

When you call again, I'm going to be like you know. You know what I'm saying. Last time we was together, I just really wasn't feeling it. Now, when I wasn't feeling it now, when I say that what you gonna say, I'm gonna ask what, what was you not feeling? I don't really think our sexual chemistry was there, and I'm a big person on sex.

Bobby Frost: 25:07

So what was what? What I'm because I'm, I'm, now I'm again. Let's have this conversation.

Jus Mystie: 25:11

That's my answer. Okay, so I'm actually. So what was?

Bobby Frost: 25:14

off with the chemistry. What was the imbalance?

Jus Mystie: 25:17

um, I just kind of felt like I usually like a little bit larger.

Bobby Frost: 25:21

You know what I'm saying listen for any of the fellas in here. Right now. If a chick tell you what misty just said I like larger how do you react? Be honest, I didn't say you was little.

Jus Mystie: 25:34

I said I like listen, that's why I need some fellas.

Bobby Frost: 25:38

Y'all gotta tap in on this comment man what if I reworded?

Jus Mystie: 25:42

They said it wasn't just. It just wasn't enough for me. I didn't say your dick, I said the sex and it wasn't enough for me.

Bobby Frost: 25:47

I'm going to ask you what wasn't enough? The sex. What about it?

Jus Mystie: 25:51

I didn't last long enough, I didn't have an orgasm. I'm that's still, you still knocking the confidence level. I'm saying it as nice as I can. Okay, this is what I'm saying. I can't, I can't, worry about your confidence versus my. I'm with you, hold on, I'm with you.

Bobby Frost: 26:08

100 with that, that's. That's the maturity level I'm getting at it. Take a mature person to be able to sit down.

Jus Mystie: 26:14

Did you just hear my why? When he said why, I'm going to say I don't think our sexual chemistry was there. Now, what's the next question to you? Because the sexual chemistry was off. He said that the dude gonna say why was the sexual chemistry off? And then I'm gonna say it.

Bobby Frost: 26:30

No, I'll say what you said at first. No, the first one. You changed it. I like a little larger.

Jus Mystie: 26:33

I prefer something a little larger how.

Bobby Frost: 26:35

That's why I said ain't no, ain't no man's uh comment on this. But I can't. I'm on podcast If a female tell me that she likes it larger. You just man. You just hit a death blow. I'm on suicide watch now.

Jus Mystie: 26:49

Okay.

Bobby Frost: 26:51

I'm on suicide watch.

Jus Mystie: 26:52

Okay, so what? God damn, If my pussy stained, what you gonna say? Or if it was dry, what you gonna say when I say, when I say why you ain't feeling me?

Bobby Frost: 27:01

I'm going to tell you see, this is me, I'm going to do it the same way you just did it, but I'm going to be a little bit more blunt, but not disrespectful. Tell, like you know what I'm saying. Like I said when I was down there and shit it was, it was one of them ways. Well, why you?

Jus Mystie: 27:13

ain't spit on it.

Bobby Frost: 27:14

I shouldn't have to.

Jus Mystie: 27:15

Yeah.

Bobby Frost: 27:25

People you gonna tell you this is me okay if I'm not turning this babe I wasn't wet because you didn't turn me on.

Jus Mystie: 27:27

I was getting there before you said it. I didn't turn. I'm not feeling, you know, hurt by that. I didn't turn you on that. We not together with okay. So see, two adults should be able to be like you know, maybe we shouldn't fuck with a female y'all.

Bobby Frost: 27:31

That's a little bit different to tell a female that no, it's not.

Jus Mystie: 27:34

Yes, it is because a little dick and dry pussy. No, it's not. No, it's not the same thing I'm going to tell you why it's not the same thing.

Bobby Frost: 27:40

Hold on, I'm going to tell you why it's not the same thing. I don't know why fellas ain't commenting on it. They might be a little insecure about getting this one. I can comment on it. You're right, this is the truth. You can fix not being moist enough. They have KY jelly and other things.

Jus Mystie: 27:55

You're right.

Bobby Frost: 27:57

You can't fix deep enough.

Jus Mystie: 28:00

You know I'm saying you can't get the feelings you can't fix, there's no fixing. This is the thing, what you're gonna fix it. That's why I'm saying okay, see, this is a whole nother subject. That's why we need to take it back to sexual education, because, first of all, you ain't got to get deep to make me come. You gotta know what the fuck you doing with that little stop, stop right there, I tell you your dick little and I didn't. You can't make me cum.

Bobby Frost: 28:22

If you tell a guy that large, and that's why you you know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie: 28:26

First of all, hold on, hold on. This is what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost: 28:27

In that situation I would feel like, yeah, that's probably just a better ghosting situation. You might as well do the ghosting let's be clear.

Jus Mystie: 28:37

first of all, Let me just say this he knew his dick was little before he came here. I don't give a fuck what these niggas say. You know when your dick little. You knew that before you came here. So me putting a stamp on it is just another bitch. Putting a stamp on it because I know you heard it before.

Bobby Frost: 28:51

That's why I'm going to agree with you. We need to get her on the show what she just said.

Jus Mystie: 28:55

When you coming home so you can get on the phone but what she just said yeah, I'm wrong with that.

Bobby Frost: 29:03

You might as well just ghost me. If that was the case, just ghost me, Don't. You ain't got to crush me, but you knew your dick was little. And guess what?

Jus Mystie: 29:10

He might not know you think I'm gonna let you get up out of here and you got my pussy on your dick and you know, if you spread it they come ask me. That's the response they get. His dick was little, so he's never getting no more she said june 28th.

Bobby Frost: 29:25

We got to get her on because I'm june 28th natia, I rocks with you in that situation. That's why I was going to it. That's where I was taking a certain situation. I think your ghosting is the right way. That situation right there, yeah, just ghost me. If my shit ain't adding up, it ain't reaching.

Jus Mystie: 29:40

So when should Ghost me? Okay, so if sex Is an okay reason, well, basically We've come up with Sex is an okay reason To ghost somebody.

Bobby Frost: 29:48

She just said the same thing. Just ghost him. Yeah, just Ghost me. Man, y'all bitches weak.

Jus Mystie: 29:53

I'm telling that I don't want to have that conversation. No, just for that.

Bobby Frost: 29:57

You tell a nigga that nigga on suicide watch.

Jus Mystie: 30:00

When I come, tell a nigga, that man, that nigga on suicide watch, when I come, when I come in on live and I got a black eye, just know that I didn't tell somebody that's why I said if a female, I tell a female, she not, she not moist.

Bobby Frost: 30:06

And the first day female gonna say that's what she's gonna say, her comeback is you didn't make me wet, okay, I can't say you can't come, tell me my dick little. I could say, well, you didn't make it large enough I had no more grow, though, so I don't got no more inches. I gave you all of my time. You didn't go find you a little bitch, I don't know, I don't know, so I get it.

Jus Mystie: 30:22

Sex may be a good reason to ghost somebody. I'm getting that Okay. Sex may be a good reason, but not when it's something that they did, like something that they could fix. You know what I'm saying? I think that you should give somebody time.

Bobby Frost: 30:36

I'm listening to one person that said First priority should be pleasing you and making sure you have an orgasm, no matter size. I feel like that's how I am too, but again, if the females used to be knocked down and you can't knock on the door and now I'm going to say you can't knock on the door. You doing this, you doing little taps. You can't come through that bitch like the ATL.

Jus Mystie: 30:52

Yes, you can Listen. What can you do? My niggas is totally opposite. I I'm tiny because I don't fuck with no tiny dicks, but that does not mean that if you can deal with a horse and deal with a pencil, all of the same you can come, no matter what.

Bobby Frost: 31:09

Man, listen, I'm going to say this and this is funny, man, I'll say this Like I remember. It's a little video going around that was viral a long time ago. That's all the reason. I'm a ghost too. That's like a female tanninist, right here. That's like a female tannius, right here. You just you the right size, you just fit the right size, that's like. So what you're saying, I'm, I'm, I'm okay, I'm average. That's what you said. That's still. That's a backhanded compliment, okay.

Jus Mystie: 31:37

First, of all, let me see, let me let me say this I said it give a fuck if that motherfucker 12 inches. That don't mean you know how to fuck. So I don't give a fuck if it's four inches, that don't mean you can't fuck. So when it comes to the size of your dick, it's just what y'all can and can't do. Y'all have to figure it out. If that motherfucker little cause, granted, if it's big enough, I can just matter what, because I'm filled up with that motherfucker. Y'all with the little dicks do have to work a little bit harder. Sorry, but it can't happen so figure it out.

Bobby Frost: 32:04

Figure out how to work your tool I'm with you, so in that case, that's something you should ghost. I got another question for any, any other situation that you think you should just go somebody for, like something else that you think having a conversation is gonna be. I went my cuz.

Jus Mystie: 32:16

She said if they can't handle the truth, they pussy. Period. There's a lot of pussy people. Yeah, I just. I just wanted to say pussy with that much aggression behind it.

Bobby Frost: 32:25

Now it's what can you like if I told a female she was corny, it never mattered.

Jus Mystie: 32:29

Carmel, goddess, you right, it never mattered. The niggas think it matters because this is me again.

Bobby Frost: 32:33

I don't have this situation never ghosted, but it was hard for me to tell a female you're corny, like outside of outside of sex. What's corny you? You corny Like I don't like your music, taste your shit bland when we chilling. I can't hold a conversation with you. You're corny.

Jus Mystie: 32:48

Okay, so how long? Okay, how long should you give a motherfucker Like is it after the first date, where you just be like this ain't gonna work, Listen, I can't tell you off a first date that you're corny.

Bobby Frost: 32:57

Now people can do that, that you you an amazing person. But after I'd been Chilling with you for a month or two and I'm just watching like Dog Ghost in his weakest, she corny. I'd have had a corny chick Before that. Her sex was great, but she was just corny Like outside the sex. He wondering why we get done with sex. I'm like, yeah, I'm about to. I got something to go do every time.

Jus Mystie: 33:14

So what do you want to do?

Bobby Frost: 33:17

Fuck there, corny, I don't I'm gonna start losing set answers in the sex because, damn nigga, all I can do is corny like weird.

Jus Mystie: 33:25

No, he's saying corny that he said her music choice, chatty, he can't hold a conversation with her. That type shit. I got tears it's just corny, y'all. I'm over here laughing at rob. She said, oh god, I'm dealing with somebody and they so corny, and I don't know how to tell him, so I'm just ignoring him. Janae, I hooked you up with somebody. Chatty. The african was chatty as hell and corny as fuck. I know he was that's all.

Bobby Frost: 33:47

I've been in that situation before man and it was hard to tell him, like you, corny listen.

Jus Mystie: 33:53

Yeah, cory, you can shout out to cory jackson, that's my, uh, that's my husband brother-in-law. No, I mean my husband brother.

Bobby Frost: 33:58

She said my brother-in-law not a nerd, no, it's just like you're. You know. It's a word that we use a lot in the culture now a vibe. You're not a, you're the opposite of vibe. I don't even know what the word is for opposite vibe except for corn.

Jus Mystie: 34:11

You're not a vibe.

Bobby Frost: 34:12

Yeah, like I did not catch a vibe, yeah like shit, man, and I'd have had a female like that a couple of them before like this. I'll have one that the sex was good, the other other one that nigga said if you can't cook, he ghosting you.

Jus Mystie: 34:22

Damn, you gonna ghost me. After we got to the point, I done cooked for you, yeah there you go Well at least if you ghost me after that. I know That'll dawn on me Like damn. I gave that nigga a plate last week. He ain't talked to me since. Maybe that shit was nasty.

Bobby Frost: 34:33

I guess I get it football player because I asked them if they was down low and they what. The way they responded was alarming. It wasn't masculine response, responses at all.

Jus Mystie: 34:47

Both responses was very telling, see yeah, you got to do that, though down there where you at sister, well, you got to do that period because shit oh, dog said he pulled the boomerang.

Bobby Frost: 34:57

He said he ghosted her because her toes was fucked up. I remember he put eddie pulled the sheets back up. Oh my God, corey, that shit was funny as hell. But no, like certain things I can say, like ghosting, to be honest, certain shit I can see why you are ghosting. And the other thing, I mean you just being immature, the corny situation. I told her in the best way I could tell her.

Jus Mystie: 35:18

Tell me what you said.

Bobby Frost: 35:19

I told her. I said yeah, we just not. You know compatible. We not kicking and we vibe. You know what I'm saying? We just not. There's no excitement. That's how I told her.

Jus Mystie: 35:27

Okay, well, let me get y'all my two cents on how you tell somebody some fuck shit that you don't want to tell them. I'm going to be honest with y'all. I joke a lot, right? So I told y'all that about it. And then when it comes up and it's a conversation, now we can really talk about it like I mean, I might be like bro, what was that last night? I didn't even come. That's crazy. And then he don't think I'm joking or he gonna be like man, yes, and then I'll be like no, I didn't for real, though, like so you get it. You know, this is what we got to do. That's how I present shit that I don't want to talk about.

Bobby Frost: 35:59

Yeah, joke no, I, I joke time. I joke time too, but I tell people who know me if you see me repeating the same jokes, I'm just changing that bitch up with the same joke. It's the truth in there. I'm trying to let you down easy.

Jus Mystie: 36:10

She said I guess I just. She said I guess I'm just too 100. I would rather a nigga be real with me because I'm going to be real with him. If I don don't want to fuck with you. I don't want to fuck with you, I'm with you. Dimitri, tell me what's good you know what, and I?

Bobby Frost: 36:23

I see everybody saying that and I'm with that. But this is something I also encountered during my trials of living. You know, I'm saying my walk through life. People would say that shit, they want the real. And when you kick the real to them, even if you deliver good hell, no, that's why so, cory?

Jus Mystie: 36:38

you just asked me why not just keep, not just shoot it straight to him? It that me doing it as a joke? That's for me because I am a person that don't really like hurting people's feelings for real, for real, like I ain't a mean ass person, no matter what people think they say. I'm unapproachable. I don't want to just shit on nobody like that. So I rather like joke with you, ha ha ha, and then we can get off into it, because I don't want you to think I'm mad about it or I don't want you to think, like you know, I'm saying I don't know, I just joke about it so that you can, so that you can take it better.

Bobby Frost: 37:09

I don't know that's just say your brother, I said I love you, that's just.

Bobby Frost: 37:12

I appreciate everybody tuning in on a live, because this is my favorite part of the show when we go live and we get the feedback from the fans. That's my favorite part of the show. I love that. But yeah, that's like I said. I think I'm glad we had a good dialogue about this and you know what. What do you do when it comes to ghosting, like you know what I'm saying, because I I think and it got to the point where people think that is the way to handle all situations. If it's not going the way you want to go in a relationship, some shit shouldn't be said.

Jus Mystie: 37:41

That's too hard of a conversation well, I'm gonna tell y'all this before I get up out of here don't ghost me, because I'm popping the fuck up at your mama house.

Bobby Frost: 37:47

She said she's a ghost buster I don't give ghost buster.

Jus Mystie: 37:50

You hear me who? Hey, where you at, you ain't answered your phone for me. I just called my nigga. Didn't call me for seven days, baby. I called him and said, made him say it again you a ghost buster? Ghost buster ain't no ghost of misty.

Bobby Frost: 38:03

No, sir, no hey ain't no ghost of misty, she's not gonna go. Hey, babe, what they call the proton packs, he coming, ghost buster ain't no, ghost, you got company, guess what?

Jus Mystie: 38:12

oh, my bad, call me I'm coming back.

Bobby Frost: 38:15

I ain't bad at you, it's, it's, it's it's. That's why I said it's up with me. That's why I said this conversation. I was geeked about it when I seen it because I'm like man. It's the truth, man. Like it's hard to not ghost somebody, but some situations you can ghost, other ones you don't. That's why at first I was against ghosting all the way, but then when you break it down it's kind of like some shit needs to be done. I can respect that. You know what I'm saying because I have to respect that.

Jus Mystie: 38:38

Just don't ghost me.

Bobby Frost: 38:39

Yeah, you got to tell me my pussy stank or whatever the fuck.

Jus Mystie: 38:41

The problem is.

Bobby Frost: 38:42

You got to tell me, because some of them shit is too hard to have.

Jus Mystie: 38:44

Okay, well, what is it? And if you tell me my pussy stank, I'm going to be like why you ain't tell me when you was down there I would have went to the shower.

Bobby Frost: 38:57

I never told a female I ain't gonna lie to you, that was it. That was it, that was it Once. I figured out that, yeah, that shit was uh-huh. You know what? Let me go ease the fuck up out of here, boy. That's it. You know what?

Jus Mystie: 39:11

I'm saying I can't.

Bobby Frost: 39:12

I'm not going to be in this motherfucker with my nose like this.

Jus Mystie: 39:14

What's crazy is we smell it before y'all.

Bobby Frost: 39:17

So I assume that, because that's what my grandmama told me. So I don't know why bitches act like we definitely do.

Jus Mystie: 39:21

I'm like you didn't know that Sit down on air was boofing when we got in the car.

Bobby Frost: 39:25

What'd they say? The sit down win when you sit down win.

Jus Mystie: 39:27

The sit down air was boofing. When we got in the car we smelled it.

Bobby Frost: 39:30

Like it's certain things woman especially, and your shit really nasty, that like you can get you popping up and everything ain't together dying while talking, when that shit really nasty, while I'm uncomfortable being there, I'll tell you oh yeah, okay now I'm gonna hurt your feelings.

Jus Mystie: 39:48

We're gonna wrap it up with the nasty houses, because that's a whole different level yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm gonna hurt, I'm here to hurt your feelings.

Bobby Frost: 39:54

I want, because you hurt my feelings, you right, put me in this situation.

Jus Mystie: 39:57

Nigga, I don't want to come sit over here in the trap with you fuck you right, yeah, so, um, you know we have to end up.

Bobby Frost: 40:02

Hey, again, call to action. Hey, drop them. Comments on youtube uh, apple music, spotify, iheart radio facebook, space jam everywhere again, pump us up. We need it, I want it hey we got another live event coming too yeah, pump it up, pump it up.

Bobby Frost: 40:21

You're running numbers, man. I'm trying to get the algorithm to pop. Run them up. I got to do better, but I need y'all. We're going to do better together Togetherness. Oh shit, what you been listening to, Rob? Oh man, Really, I've been everywhere, man, Really like not being funny. What I've been listening to is Project About to Drop. You know Hit-Boy the producer, His dad just got out of prison a little while ago. Big hit. I've been listening to this shit man. He got a project coming out with his son, Hit-Boy and Alchemist and I've been off that shit. That gang move in. Black and white is cold. I fucks with it. I fucks with it heavy.

Jus Mystie: 40:59

What you been off. Um, I have actually been listening to a lot of the flint artists around here. I got a little project going on. Um, I'm really finna. Jump off into this management shit here first, for real and the music thing just because, oh yeah, that was just some light work I ain't really been talking too much about. But yeah, I've been really like dealing with some producers just giving my input on music, so I really ain't been listening to nothing.

Bobby Frost: 41:23

Industry- yeah, that's, that's it. So yeah, again, call to action. You can catch me, bobby frost, media, on all social media. I'm pumping it up at the halfway mark. Y'all know I'm saying y'all can see it, but I'm really about to go on an overgrind with it, like y'all gonna see me so much on y'all timelines and shit like that. I know y'all gonna be tired of me. I can tell you fuck with it. I don't. It's up to you. And where can they catch you? At Just Misty.

Jus Mystie: 41:45

Y'all can catch me on all social media platforms, at Just Misty, and that's J-U-S-M-Y-S-T-I-E, or y'all can put in the official real name. Learn it, it's going to be on billboards soon.