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Shoot your shot: Survival Smarts, Juneteenth Justice, and Flipping the Script in Romance

June 26, 2024 Bobby Frost Season 2 Episode 64
Shoot your shot: Survival Smarts, Juneteenth Justice, and Flipping the Script in Romance
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Shoot your shot: Survival Smarts, Juneteenth Justice, and Flipping the Script in Romance
Jun 26, 2024 Season 2 Episode 64
Bobby Frost

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Can you endure 100 days of sweltering heat or freezing cold? We kick off our episode with this challenging question, as Misty and I weigh the pros and cons of surviving in extreme climates. Reflecting on my late grandfather's Mississippi bayou wisdom, we discuss essential survival tools like rifles, flints, and canteens. This conversation underscores the importance of preparedness and adaptability, making you ponder which environment you'd rather brave and how you'd survive it.

Next, we shift gears to discuss Juneteenth and its significance in the workplace, sharing my frustrating experience of being suspended right after returning from the holiday. Despite the inclusivity and love in the Black community, the lack of recognition for Juneteenth versus other holidays like Martin Luther King Day caught our attention. Adding irony to the situation, we highlight how Chinese stores closed in observance while many workplaces stayed open. Misty and I resolve to take Juneteenth off in the future, expressing our disappointment over the disparity and our commitment to celebrating it properly.

Finally, we dive into the intricacies of romantic pursuits, focusing on women taking the initiative. From buying drinks to sending thoughtful gifts, we cover the excitement and potential outcomes when women break away from traditional gender roles in dating. Sharing cultural observations and humorous anecdotes, we encourage women to make bold moves and pursue what they want in relationships. We also explore the social dynamics of buying meals for others and how such gestures can be perceived, whether respectful or otherwise. This episode wraps up with a heartfelt celebration of Pride Month and the importance of supportive parenting, highlighting Marlon Wayans' public support for his child and our ongoing journeys toward positivity and self-improvement.

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Can you endure 100 days of sweltering heat or freezing cold? We kick off our episode with this challenging question, as Misty and I weigh the pros and cons of surviving in extreme climates. Reflecting on my late grandfather's Mississippi bayou wisdom, we discuss essential survival tools like rifles, flints, and canteens. This conversation underscores the importance of preparedness and adaptability, making you ponder which environment you'd rather brave and how you'd survive it.

Next, we shift gears to discuss Juneteenth and its significance in the workplace, sharing my frustrating experience of being suspended right after returning from the holiday. Despite the inclusivity and love in the Black community, the lack of recognition for Juneteenth versus other holidays like Martin Luther King Day caught our attention. Adding irony to the situation, we highlight how Chinese stores closed in observance while many workplaces stayed open. Misty and I resolve to take Juneteenth off in the future, expressing our disappointment over the disparity and our commitment to celebrating it properly.

Finally, we dive into the intricacies of romantic pursuits, focusing on women taking the initiative. From buying drinks to sending thoughtful gifts, we cover the excitement and potential outcomes when women break away from traditional gender roles in dating. Sharing cultural observations and humorous anecdotes, we encourage women to make bold moves and pursue what they want in relationships. We also explore the social dynamics of buying meals for others and how such gestures can be perceived, whether respectful or otherwise. This episode wraps up with a heartfelt celebration of Pride Month and the importance of supportive parenting, highlighting Marlon Wayans' public support for his child and our ongoing journeys toward positivity and self-improvement.

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Thanks for listening please go leave a review or comment and hit the support show link at the bottom of the page, so we can continue to give you and all tri nation more high-quality episodes and content!

Bobby Frost:

yo, yo yo, it's your boy, bobby frost. And bobby frost media presents tri-parency. I'm with the beautiful lady, just misty hey, we're back. Man, it's hot as fuck outside yeah, super fucking hot.

Jus Mystie:

It's like way too hot for michigan and this is my thing.

Bobby Frost:

You know, we, we stay in michigan and people always complain when it's winter.

Jus Mystie:

I'm not one of those people fyi yeah, I love fall. But yes, the norm is for them to complain during the wintertime like fuck them, they'll treat their whole life.

Bobby Frost:

And when we get to this point I'll be like again I can warm up quicker than I can cool down. I don't get frustrated when I'm cold, I just be cold. I be thinking about warming up when I'm hot, I'm frustrated as fuck. Yeah, for sure you know. I say you're just frustrated, you sweating this shit.

Jus Mystie:

You feeling icky, you're mad as fuck, okay, okay. So look, I'm gonna tell you this little thing that I always me and my uncle, right, he real like you know into nature and shit like that I always be saying, if I ever get stranded, you feel me, that's what I'm gonna be with. So everyone, every time we together, we always give scenarios right so that you can pick from. So I'm going to ask you this Tell the peoples y'all when y'all having family night, y'all got to ask people this, so y'all know who know how to survive. First of all, I think I'm going to answer this Would you rather be stranded? I'm going to say you got to do 100 days, okay, like alone in the freight or whatever the fuck it's called. You got to do 100 days. Do you want to be where it's hot as hell at or cold as fuck? Now, don't, don't forget you're.

Bobby Frost:

you have to survive out here I'm gonna go with the hot and the only reason I'll say with the hot and this is my survival thing because I know it's still gonna be a lot of shit I can go hunt and do shit like that to live with. Why it's hot? Yeah, okay when it's cold ain't there ain't no vegetation growing, so you fucked on that. You ain't getting no berries and nothing like that, okay, okay.

Jus Mystie:

So it's hot, right, okay. So you in the desert? No, you saw desert. No, okay, well, no just where it's hot.

Bobby Frost:

You could be in the woods, you could be in the rainforest, or you just the desert.

Jus Mystie:

It just ain't gonna get cold, it's just hot. Yeah, the forest get cold at nighttime, but okay not when it's really super hot. Oh no, okay, so you're super so you super hot and you yeah, okay, okay, I'm even gonna let you pick that. So where you? At the desert or the forest?

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, desert. I'm going cold If it's desert, because ain't shit out in the desert.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, so no, you in the forest, it's hot yeah.

Bobby Frost:

I'm going with the forest and you can person and five items which who you bringing.

Jus Mystie:

I know the items I'm bringing. When you say person, it would have been my granddad. It would have been my granddad, but he's gone, so I can't bring him. This person. No, you know what we we're imagining right now. This person can be somebody that was gone. Tell me why you would have brought your granddaddy because he came out in mississippi.

Bobby Frost:

He's telling me the stories they going down through the uh canals and he was close to uh louisiana where he stayed at vidsburg, mississippi.

Jus Mystie:

So they going back, they down in the delta okay, close to the bayou, all that, so you think he know how to survive he didn't tell me all the stories they didn't have this running snakes, messing with snakes and shit out you know out in the open. We didn't do up north.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, he knew how to live off the land. They it was 13 of them they lived off the farm and shit like that. So I know we got survivors thinking I know the shit I'm gonna bring.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, okay. So what's the five things you know? Yeah, so it's you and your granddaddy and y'all in the forest for a hundred days.

Bobby Frost:

What's the?

Jus Mystie:

five things you're gonna bring.

Bobby Frost:

I'm definitely Keep your shit cool Nine times out of ten. I would say a rifle, but it depends on how many bullets you got. For 100 days I would say a rifle for sure.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, but then the next thing, because I don't know if the rifle and bullet go together so if they don't, then I need it, because I'm keeping it real, because you know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost:

Okay, I'm not going to answer that I'm going to leave that open. That's two items in a different box, so I'm at two rifle canteen. Yeah, I'm gonna use four boxes of bullets. I mean two boxes of bullets. So that's gonna give me enough animation and I'm probably gonna go.

Jus Mystie:

So two boxes of bullets. So that's four items. You need one more. I'll probably go with a flint. Well, what the fuck is you gonna live in? I would not be stranded with your ass.

Bobby Frost:

Once I figured that shit out. How to make that shit, you know yeah, no.

Jus Mystie:

What's crazy, though, is that when you watch the show, I'm telling y'all, if y'all don't watch it, I'm not one person to scare nobody or nothing. But y'all know, I do feel like we eventually gonna be living back off the land, but I swear to god along. So motherfucking good they be building shit out of that I can't do that what you said what you said.

Bobby Frost:

I might thinking about that. Yeah, maybe put one of the boxes of bullets back, depending on what the box of bullets is. You know what I'm saying. If I can get a, if I can get a I'm sorry y'all a 50 a 50 box of bullets or something like a 100 box, depending on what the size box. So we didn't say uh, bullets, and yeah, I get a tent flint, tent canteen rifle, 100 uh box of bullets.

Jus Mystie:

So the biggest, the biggest box of bullets we can get and yeah, we okay, I done saw a motherfucker alone build a fucking house from wood, like literally. I mean, I guess that's what you all our houses is built from wood, shit, but that shit crazy. Okay, I just be wondering, because I'll be watching that survival shit and baby, you'd be so good because right now I don't know nobody like personally I can go.

Bobby Frost:

I know motherfuckers like bear grills. I don't know if you ever seen bear grills before, but he do that shit. Um, yeah, I don't know like personally I can go, know that's for sure that's gonna be able to live off the land like that. Yeah, I had some workers that I know did the shit. But shout out to the white.

Jus Mystie:

The white people know what they own. They got bunkers and shit. They ain't going to live off the land because they saving their food already.

Bobby Frost:

We was going to be out there fucked up. I don't trust them enough to where I feel like they won't do me dirty out there. Exactly no listen. Okay, so I do Jay.

Jus Mystie:

Shout out to Jay, I'm going to live off the land and she can, and I told her that me and my son is going over there with her and she caught she, her is freedom farm, her freedom farmer. So I like her and that's my baby and that's why I go stay with. Yeah, like I said, if it wasn't.

Bobby Frost:

I got my dog Tim. I got my dog Tim. Shout out to my dog Tim Tim White Grew up off the land. Tim already be talking that when the war break out. He got this and this and that yeah, tim know.

Bobby Frost:

I'm like, yeah, I'll rock with Tim, tim ain't gonna fuck over me. So yeah, I'll fuck with Tim. Tim will get me together, cause Tim know Tim got he hunt. He every year around October Is hunting time, so it's it's bow hunting first and then it's actual rifle hunting, you know and that's crazy, because I know that this wasn't our topic.

Jus Mystie:

But I think that's crazy when you say hunting because, like you know, you see a lot of TikTok people like they like when black people is showing their kids how to shoot guns and this and this, and that they automatically think like, oh, we shouldn't be doing that, this and this and that, but white kids hunt, young as hell.

Bobby Frost:

You talking about six and seven? Why?

Jus Mystie:

do? They always got to think we should teach them to shoot each other or shoot other people.

Bobby Frost:

You know why? Because a lot of times that is what's being taught. Shout out to my granddad, my other granddad, my mom's dad. Shout out to him. He passed away when I was in the eighth grade. He had a bunch of land over 100 acres of land, right outside of Battle Creek. That was his thing. He hunted, that was his shit. Like he really hunted, had all the atvs and shit, had the crossbows, born arrows, different rifles. That's what he did my granddad didn't.

Jus Mystie:

My granddad lived right on out in beecher but he definitely knew how to hunt um and live off the land. He had a garden all the time. And then my other granddaddy, my dad's dad, he went hunting all the time. I remember we had a raccoon in our garage right and my mama was like I don't know what to do because it just won't leave, you feel me. So she called my granddaddy washington and he was like put this um cage in there, whatever this trap, and he gonna get caught. So if y'all can just imagine this the best way y'all can, when we caught the, the, the raccoon, it was inside the garage, way in the back right. My granddaddy said all the way on the outside of the garage, on the porch. Now he is in a cage, this animal. I mean even though he wasn't staying still though he sat on the porch and shot it in the middle of the head there on, like I'm like how is you shooting something moving like?

Bobby Frost:

that because, well, I used to ask my granddad the same thing my granddad that I got raised by he used to tell me, like he used to get, he got his ass whooped one time. We can get to the podcast. He got his ass whooped one time because his daddy took him out to hunt he was like eight or nine with a rifle .22 rifle. When he shot he hit the rabbit in the wrong spot and it splattered the rabbit. Oh man, he, like he told us can you go eat that?

Jus Mystie:

Oh yeah, you can. You have to eat, cook.

Bobby Frost:

shoot him somewhere, a certain place, he said hit right behind the ear, it'll flip the rabbit over and that's good aim. And he told me. He said shout out to my great-granddad. Never met him People get. They over-exaggerate the story, right. But he says his granddad's shot was so good I mean his daddy's shot was so good, my great granddad that he could drill, he could shoot and knock a nail into a post.

Jus Mystie:

I want to learn how to shoot that good.

Bobby Frost:

But again and this is a story my granddad would bootleg liquor my great granddad rather bootleg liquor back and he went to I always get the name of the fucking prison in Louisiana, it's like Angola and something like that, but it's a historic prison down there. He went in, that motherfucker, when he was like 15. Okay, with a bootleg, and one of the things that like life, one of his jobs was the gun line If somebody went across that motherfucker, he could shoot so good.

Jus Mystie:

Don't cross the gun line, boss.

Bobby Frost:

He could shoot so good.

Jus Mystie:

If you cross that motherfucker his name was arthur arthur you better shoot him. That's crazy to know that like life really like depicted how jails really used to be, like no gates, you know what I'm saying? Like that's crazy. Jails fucking evolved like a mother.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah that's one when I watched baby. If they had no fences right now, in 2024 when I watched life I always related a little bit more to other people's life, because that's what my great-granddad did. He said it like you, I'm the gun line. He gave me the story. He said one time a guy he was cool with you know what I'm saying on Grenade's head and instead of hitting him to kill him, he hit him in the shoulder and he fell and they told him next time, kill him dead.

Jus Mystie:

Lord, yeah, thankful that we in 2024.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, I tell people all the time when you really go trace how far removed. Like I said, not my granddaddy Arthur was a slave, but guess what?

Jus Mystie:

His granddaddy was a slave. See, I know that my granny was not a slave. This is just my granny, my mom's mom. She wasn't a slave, but but she definitely told me she picked cotton before. So I'm like, yeah, they pick they pick cotton.

Bobby Frost:

What the fuck was you picking cotton? For granny because it was still a big thing down there to pick up my granny, pick up she said it was a job, then yeah, it was a job but still all it went from. Instead of you not getting paid to do this shit, oh, you're gonna pay us, we listen we want our.

Jus Mystie:

And guess what, before we go off, I still want our. How many acres we get in?

Bobby Frost:

the fucking.

Jus Mystie:

I want my 40 acres and a mule right now. Reparations yeah, no, I just wanted to tell him that no.

Bobby Frost:

So we had you.

Jus Mystie:

What did you do for Juneteenth? I went downtown for a little minute and sat with my mom they had a parade down there and then I went down there later on when it got dark and I watched the fireworks and stuff like that.

Bobby Frost:

I didn't do shit, man. You know I got. I can say it on here, they probably watching. But you know, fuck that I didn't let them say that Anyway.

Jus Mystie:

Oh God, that just went left real fast.

Bobby Frost:

I got suspended on my first day back, so I didn't even think I was going to be working. I mean, it was going to be available as Juneteenth get to the festivities, but I was so mad I stayed home so what I did was, oh, because I did work, so we wasn't closed, so I did have a.

Jus Mystie:

We had a meeting, right. So I'm waiting for the meeting to get over and shit. Now it's, most of us is black, but it's a couple white people in the meeting too, though. So we on there and shit, and I wait for my boss to finish. And when she finished, she's like anybody got any questions. I'm like, yeah, I said Serena, why we ain't off? She was like what I said, it's Juneteenth. I ain't supposed to be up in here. Listen. She couldn't do nothing but laugh. By the way, she is a Caucasian woman, but she couldn't do nothing but laugh. She gonna say, listen, we just got Martin Luther King Day. I'm trying. I said all right, long as we get Martin.

Bobby Frost:

Luther King.

Jus Mystie:

Y'all shout out to the fucking Chinese stores that's in the hood, because they was closed. You hear what I'm saying? Look, a&j was closed, fucking A&J was closed. The two on Ballinger was closed. I said damn, look at y'all.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, that was closed. Man. You know what? I rode past Kickers and I seen how many cars there are. I had my homie in there and was like, yeah, they was in that. White people was in that bitch, some was celebrating and some was in that bitch. Like I ain't celebrating this black ass holiday YT people.

Jus Mystie:

I don't know why y'all act like y'all can't celebrate our shit. We celebrate y'all's Irish people. We celebrate y'all's shit black people. What I will say is I don't look at it as a bad thing, like how they try to make it seem like y'all crazy. Y'all just celebrate. We are a loving race. Yeah, I really think that I know that we it's violence between us and it's and we a killing motherfucker blah, blah, blah. Overall, we're a loving race, bro. We still like white people. Yeah, after what they did to us, we fuck with the mexicans. We fuck with everybody. You know what I'm saying like. So I just we celebrate y'all shit. Fuck. Y'all can celebrate ours, that's whatall can celebrate ours.

Bobby Frost:

That's what I said. I was upset with myself.

Jus Mystie:

They mad at us. I was upset with myself.

Bobby Frost:

I said I got off of St Patrick's Day, I got off of single to Mayo and I didn't get off of our shit. And I would have. My plan was to get off at 11 o'clock.

Jus Mystie:

And.

Bobby Frost:

I was going to finish all the night celebrating.

Jus Mystie:

I was so fucking mad that you didn't. Yeah, it's all good, I went to see the fireworks, but yeah, it's definitely.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, I'm taking it off next year. You know what I'm saying, just flat out.

Jus Mystie:

I'm taking it off too. When they say why, I'm gonna say cause it's a holiday, god damn it yeah, I'm gonna celebrate for sure, for sure.

Bobby Frost:

So we gonna get into. This is a great topic. Misty been on fire. When she do pick the topics, I give her credit. That's what I'm trying to find. Love, I'm messing with you.

Jus Mystie:

That shit just threw me for a loop. I'm trying to find love.

Bobby Frost:

She really been on point with her shit. So I got to give her a props y'all like for real, for real. And she said this this is a good one, real, for real.

Jus Mystie:

and um, she said this this is a good one. Do you, do you think a woman should shoot her shot? Yes, ladies, have y'all shot, y'all shot. Do y'all be shooting, y'all shot? I think we kind of touched on this before, but I just want to know how the men feel about it. I came straight in y'all and asked rob like do you how you feel when a girl shoot her shot? I didn't even know if that was gonna be the topic or not. I just needed to know, because I just shot my shot and somebody dm and I'm a little nervous he ain't saw it yet I can't wait till we get ready to go live to get some response about it, because, like, yeah, I mean I'm speaking.

Bobby Frost:

I always speak on behalf of the fellas up here. You know what I'm saying. Holding, holding it down. But no, seriously, like, yeah, I think to myself anyways that, hey, I love when a woman shot her shot at me. Like that was you made me feel, wanted I mean you really for you to go out the norm of the cat and mouse game, the chase that we do to go out there and you flip the game and you, coming at me it's like, oh, she really want a nigga. Okay, I started thinking about what cologne did I have on that day? I'm running that bitch back, you running it back, I'm running that back. I'll tell my barber nigga, the same way you cut, I need that same haircut that you. The same way, nigga, don't fuck shit up. A bad bitch shot her shot. You feel me?

Jus Mystie:

no, okay, but for real, though, I did ask because it took me a. First of all, let me say this when you don't give a fuck about somebody because y'all know I do that a lot sometimes I just be uh, I don't know shooting my shot just because I'd be bored and or just because I just wanted to see what they was gonna say, and I really don't give a fuck about what they was gonna say. I just was bored. Okay, I admit it. Sorry, but when you for real, intentionally shooting your shot, like I, I need this one to go in, like I need him to be very receptive of this, it's scary and I can see it being more scary scary for y'all because, niggas, we have to do anyways.

Bobby Frost:

It's funny you say that because I was talking to a white lady she said. She said the only people that talk to her is black guys, even though she's not just strictly into black guys. That's all that talk to her is black guys. I said why do you think that? Because she don't got the regular, you know that regular little like short ass haircut and you can tell that she look like she's into black guys like that. No.

Jus Mystie:

What the fuck? It's a haircut that make you look like you into black guys yeah, it's that little short.

Bobby Frost:

You can tell it's like that little short, like how can I put it'd be like a, a bob, almost.

Jus Mystie:

Look like you know what I'm saying so white girls can get a haircut that makes them look like and what I mean I'm just what I mean, and anybody listening this gonna know exactly what I'm talking about.

Bobby Frost:

It's like the little cut and you can tell like her kid gonna be mixed, so you're gonna have that kid.

Jus Mystie:

I can't believe you are sounding so racist right now this is crazy. It's a haircut that the white girls can get. That says I talk to black people.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, it is, it's the look. I can't think of it Like I don't know the name of the hairstyle, but it's like the little shortcut you can tell it. Look like, yeah, how she walk, tell she's gonna hop out with about two or three kids with a nice look, with a nice little curly hair, and they're gonna be bad as fuck, but they're gonna be mixed yeah, mulattoes, yes, oh my god, so we finna get banned because he racist?

Jus Mystie:

no, I'm not no, it ain't even about. I don't even know how. I do know how that came up, the color.

Bobby Frost:

But I don't care what color you is, I just want to know and the reason why I said that miss is this because I asked her. I said why do you think that is?

Jus Mystie:

he said because guys oh god, somebody said, they almost shot. They shot at me. They see me at chipotle yesterday they should have shot their shot.

Bobby Frost:

And she said as he said, because black guys, he's feel like, don't have the problem with getting rejected, so they just go shoot their shot maybe that's why I women, you should have shot your shot, hi Tiandre, hi Derek, hi everybody.

Jus Mystie:

Maybe you should have shot your shot, though, but this is what I'm saying. I know some women that definitely shoot their shot, and just they don't give a fuck about being rejected. I mean, I guess I don't give a fuck about being rejected because, boy, fuck you, it's your loss. But then again, I guess, when I really like like, I want this boy, I want him to be like I want him to hurry up and write back shoot your shot.

Bobby Frost:

I always said it's good to shoot your shot. I mean, like I don't never understood why females got to that. I understand where it started from, but now we at that point where females feel like they can't just shoot their shoot your shot. Why not? You know what I'm saying? Like I don't, I doniggas gonna like that.

Jus Mystie:

I don't feel like it's thirsty. Y'all feel like it's thirsty. I felt like y'all felt like it was thirsty. No, you know what I'm saying? Hi Seeker, hi Chris, shoot that shot.

Bobby Frost:

Shoot that motherfucker.

Jus Mystie:

How do y'all feel when women shoot? They shot. Is we supposed to? I'm going to shoot my shit and listen. If it don't go in, bitch, I'm spinning the block, because guess what?

Bobby Frost:

Because I'm pretty sure anybody If I want something, I'm going to get it.

Jus Mystie:

I don't give a fuck male, I don't give a fuck if I'm a female, whatever.

Bobby Frost:

I bet any of the fellas that's in the comments right now are going to tell you.

Jus Mystie:

When a lady shoot, that shot at you it make you feel like the shit.

Bobby Frost:

I ain't gonna lie to you. Once a female shooter Shout out, she be like yeah.

Jus Mystie:

You gonna tell your fellas. So when he oh my god. So let me tell you what I said to him. First of all, I'm not Y'all know, I'm not gonna say who it is, but listen, he not a regular nigga though you feel me, he kinda he ain't a regular nigga. I know it's a million bitches in this inbox so you could be I mean, you could have wrote a million bitches back, but you wrote me back and you continue to write me back. So I'm feeling like why you ain't shooting your shot? What the fuck is taking so long? I am a patient person, but let's get the ball rolling. So I decided to shoot mine. Yeah, like I said so yesterday I wrote him and I said hi kenan, hi frank. So yesterday I wrote in his inbox and said I can't tell y'all. The first line was because then y'all gonna know who it was. But and I told him, like I'm about to stay out your inbox because you got me over here crushing like listen.

Bobby Frost:

The first time the shot got shot at me I'll never forget. Man, motherfucker, brought me a drink. It had never happened before. That's dope I had never had. Now, females that brought a drink after I done, brought them a couple rounds like I got this one, but I'm staying off the dribble. I'm sitting there at the bar with my dog and the drink came over. I'm like y'all serious coming to me. They're like yeah, I'm like who sent it? And you know, bartender pointed over there.

Bobby Frost:

That's know, bartender pointed over there. That's what sunshine did in harlem nights nigga. Yeah, and I look careful. Yeah, you haven't called home like I ain't coming home. I look, and you know I'm saying, she just winked her eye at me. You know I'm saying a little quick, you know, smile grand. I'm like damn, I felt, I felt like I wasn't laying on the bed.

Bobby Frost:

I felt like I should lay on the bed. You know y'all didn't like the bed. Y'all just lift up a little bit to let them pay this. Come on like, just slide my my briefs off me. Girl, go ahead okay I'm second.

Jus Mystie:

I bought a drink for somebody one time, and that that's definitely a good thing. What's up?

Jus Mystie:

uh dj j big yeah, that's exactly how I felt, man, you get hi j big um I when I bought a nigga a drink, uh, I think I talked to him for about he did now that's so sad, rest in peace, like seriously. But I think I talked to him for like oh, did now that's so sad. Rest in peace, like seriously. But I think I talked to him for like oh, 10 years after that. So, ladies, if you want somebody to be around for a long time, guess what? You wasn't a looker. I didn't see nobody around me. That's what I'm trying to tell you. I can't look at your profile picture to see exactly what you look like, because I don't be knowing names and stuff, but I didn't see nobody. I was paying attention to what was going on on my phone. Probably I was on lunch break. Hi, calvin.

Jus Mystie:

Hi, keisha, keisha y'all we asking y'all ladies, do y'all be shooting y'all shots and feel us how y'all feel when they shoot? They shot Rob Lyski and ass over here said he love it and he be feeling all tingly on the inside?

Bobby Frost:

I don't think no nigga that's going to be in there right now going to trip about. Are they going to? I think they're going to grip me. It ain't about tripping, it's about, is you?

Jus Mystie:

really going to later on when we get into an argument is your little janky ass going to be like?

Bobby Frost:

and bitch, your thirsty ass said See, I hit below the belt and I like that.

Jus Mystie:

That's below the belt.

Bobby Frost:

Bitch to bring up the fact that I'm that's corny, I'm going to say something like why your eyelashes fucked up.

Jus Mystie:

Well, he's-.

Bobby Frost:

Right, I'm going to say some shit. Why?

Jus Mystie:

would you say that the day that I don't have on no eyelashes, I wasn't paying attention. That was shade.

Bobby Frost:

Yes, it was. I swear to God it was. Yes, put me in the game, because put what calvin see. That's why you ain't gonna get in the game because nobody know who play on my team.

Jus Mystie:

Why is you on here making these people think that you play on my team? Yeah, that's what I'm gonna say, you know okay? Hi, janea, I love you. Hi, britney, nicole um, I was trying to read the comment. Y'all I'm I'm sorry Because we live too y'all Rob over there on his phone shooting his shot.

Jus Mystie:

I'm shooting oh my God, you've never done it before Summer. Have you ever shot your shot at somebody, and if so, what happened? Oh my God, santoya, you need to do it. It's actually fun. I ain't going to lie. I just just going through this with my little cousin, hi Keisha, and she was like bitch, I ain't chasing no nigga. I don't consider it chasing a nigga. You know what I'm saying. I'm a different breed, though. When I shoot my shot, that's it. I shot my shot. You better, motherfucking, make sure I make it too, and if I don't, y'all got a booger.

Bobby Frost:

And listen what you just said, misty. You see had all the women saying they ain't did it yet why y'all ain't did it?

Jus Mystie:

I thought I had a booger and that's what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost:

When it do happen to you, you like damn you, you, you shot skin y'all.

Jus Mystie:

That wasn't a booger, I had a piece of skin right there. Fyi, I love women that shoot. They shot it. Lets you know that the chick mess with you for real. Okay, okay, yeah, but how I know? Why didn't you shoot your shot? That's that's the question. He said it's not chasing the showing interest. That's how I feel. Hey, jeezy baby, yeah, I feel like.

Jus Mystie:

The only thing, like on a serious note, that would make me skeptical, though, is what makes me skeptical is why you ain't shot your shot yet. Like if we going back and forth, you feel me, because in this situation that made me bring this up, me and this guy is going back and forth like you know I'm saying, inboxing each other, so, but it never really got to anybody shooting their shots. So it's like why you ain't shot yours yet, nigga, you know I'm saying you making me feel a little like damn, but I don't know, I shot it anyway, y'all. Oh so, toya, she said she married, she can't shoot her shot, but when I was single I would buy a drink, but it was an exchange for them buying me one.

Bobby Frost:

See, that's what I said. That had happened to me before I done been at the bar and you know I've been out and I brought a lady, Well, so I told you, mary, she didn't do what she was supposed to do. To get what she was supposed to get, she didn't that's the ultimate thing you like, like you interested in it, like you really going to be, like God damn so, like she really been, you know, said check, because you don't know who be checking for you or not until you shoot your shot.

Jus Mystie:

Hold on. Y'all didn't put my headphones back on. You know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost:

You don't know who's checking for you until you shoot your shot as a nigga and she hits you first.

Jus Mystie:

You gonna be like Okay, normally, okay, normally, but this is what I'm saying. Normally it's A female Makes you Shoot your shot, like I can do that. That's what I was trying to do, like, but he trying to play A little hardball, like he ain't picking up what the fuck I'm laying down. And now it's becoming old, and now we finna get right into it and we finna see what there you are, but no, that's the real and that's what I should have wrote him and said no no, that's yeah.

Jus Mystie:

I don't know why females don't do it more, because it's like we're not confined to the traditional shit we used to do well I ladies if y'all listening in your ears, like I know y'all is I'm telling y'all shoot y'all a shot, because I'm shooting mine. I just wanted to know what y'all summer, so I'm shooting mine. I just wanted to know what y'all summer, so I'm for real. I just wanted to know what y'all felt about. I don't give a fuck about how y'all feel about me shooting my shot, because I'm shooting mine.

Bobby Frost:

I want to say this too while we're saying shooting a shot, and while we got some ladies in here, I want to say this when I say shoot your shot, not the shit y'all normally do, because what y'all call shooting shot might be walking past me no, that's no, brother.

Jus Mystie:

Let me break it down. Light skin, that is us making you shoot your shot. That ain't us shooting our shot. Us shooting our shot is like buying a drink or sending. I don't even sent the edible arrangement before. I mean, I know some niggas that like flowers, but you know I don't know about sending no flowers. I done definitely sent some edible arrangements before.

Bobby Frost:

That's dope. You know what I'm saying. Thinking about that, now, if I was sitting at the job or some shit like that at the crib and I seen an edible arrangement pull up, the first thing I'm going to say, hey man, you at the wrong spot. And they get that one. I'm like damn, who thought about hey, hey man, that's, that's player, right there, I like that one, missy, I was player. Yeah, y'all, y'all just got some game on that one edible arrangement because, yeah, somebody would have sent me some edible arrangement.

Jus Mystie:

Thank you for not judging me, santoya. I santoya, respectfully, I love you and I'm so happy that you tapped in and I wouldn't give a fuck if you judge me. I swear because guess what? I'm gonna do it to him and when I get him, I'm gonna come back on here and tell y'all that I did it to him. And when I marry him, I'm going to come back on here and tell y'all that I married him, because that's going to be my husband. Watch what I tell y'all. I know I ain't telling y'all his name, but I'm going to tell y'all eventually.

Jus Mystie:

So when you get to him, when we pop out, y'all just know that I did that.

Bobby Frost:

I shot today. I did well last night. I shot it last night. We're gonna see what happened, hey man I'm gonna be your testimony.

Jus Mystie:

Maybe that might that'd be a great story to tell you. Did I say that right?

Bobby Frost:

that'd be a great story to tell, like you get married to him down the line. But how did you get married?

Jus Mystie:

I shot my shot shot that bitch from way half court, steph curry. I have no idea what he got going on. I don't know if he got a bitch, got a nothing. I don't know. I'm just you have to tell me.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, nah, man, you know what I'm saying, but that's why so that's why I want to hear what is y'all ways of shooting shots.

Jus Mystie:

I'm cracking up. Santoya, any ladies that stepped in? He want to know how do y'all, how you ace a braids?

Jus Mystie:

I just gave him a couple. I do you know what I'm saying. What else have I done to shot my shot? Oh, I done shot that bitch directly too. No, no, no underscore. I done saw a motherfucker and done been like listen, I ain't even finna, keep playing with you. You keep liking all these statuses and these pictures, like go on, hit me up, because I know women are more discreet. I've been checking for you, like you checking for me.

Bobby Frost:

That's what I want to know, because women are more discreet than men's nature, you know, and actually so I want to know like how, what y'all shooting, y'all shots I?

Jus Mystie:

told you, just like everything in life, I be joking. And then if you bite, you bite like I'm for real. If it's face to face and I and this is my opportunity and I've been waiting on it I'm just gonna shoot that bitch. I'm gonna be like I love you, why you been playing with me, and that's gonna start to laugh because you know damn well, you know I don't love you, but I do, though, because I do. And then boom, from there we gonna ride you leaving enough interpretation I love you that's my phone number no, fuck that.

Jus Mystie:

I love you, higgie. I want you to be my man. Here come my number.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, like I said, the only way you're going to say, if I say that I'm going to be like all right, I'm still on bullshit, so let's see where it's go. What I'm trying to think now, that's why everybody think I be bullshit.

Jus Mystie:

I don't be playing y'all just cause I'm gonna get a shirt that say I love you, cause I see it all.

Bobby Frost:

See cuz this said exactly what I said. The look I'm giving the nigga, let him know Come get it.

Jus Mystie:

Yes, that's the low key approach. Yup, it is. When you keep Making eye contact, especially if you Out in the public, that's definitely the, that's the first initiation, like bitch, I see you Looking at me, you looking, I'm playing, come on.

Bobby Frost:

You know what I'm saying. That shooting shot I done heard this from females before. Some shooting shot was like walking past a blink. I like the picture and for a nigga shooting a shot. We can't shoot shots like that. Our shit got to be direct Like, yeah, you see me pulling this bitch and holding a motherfucking forearm up. You feel me? You know I shot. I left that motherfucking follow through up there. You feel me?

Jus Mystie:

That's what. Oh, she said he likes sneakers, snickers, so she left him a pack Flat out. Find out what that man like and leave it to him. Here you go. I'm Fact. Keisha said facts.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, that was a small one, and you know what?

Jus Mystie:

else I done? Did I done? Did I done? Did I didn't do one of these too? How was it small, Like a week, even though the shot wasn't technically shot he probably it wasn't really technically shot, but I was like fuck it, you feel me? He ended up getting sick like literally two days after. You know what I'm saying. We kicking it a little bit, we didn't exchange numbers, he didn't get sick two days later. I'm talking about sick as fuck, so I you know what I'm talking about. Sick as fuck, so I you know what I'm saying I went and got a little care package.

Bobby Frost:

And put it on his door. Hey, that definitely works.

Jus Mystie:

You feel me. That was me shooting my shot, saying bitch this, I'm here, you here, okay.

Bobby Frost:

That definitely works. That for sure works she.

Jus Mystie:

Thomas Carroll said yes, my.

Bobby Frost:

That's my dog. What's up best man? That's my homie man.

Jus Mystie:

I'm going to perm my hair after this.

Bobby Frost:

Hey, I'm coming up to New York, man, I'm coming to.

Jus Mystie:

New York too, Thomas. Is that who going who in New York?

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, that's my dog, man Thomas, I'm coming to New York too.

Jus Mystie:

I love New York, I love everything.

Bobby Frost:

Happy B-Day too, bro. I know it's belated man, but happy B-Day. His birthday just passed too man. And he long. I'll send my dog happy b-day. I'm just saying I'm gonna show him. I'm on the show too. That's my dog, thomas. Tell me if he said you happy birthday. So I need some more from the ladies man. What's some more ways of shooting a shot, the snicker?

Jus Mystie:

thing was smooth.

Bobby Frost:

I like that. I liked that one too. The snicker was smooth I like.

Jus Mystie:

So we got a drink, we leave it. Why you always gotta leave something, though? Is it something y'all ladies do without leaving nothing? Oh, I'll tell you.

Bobby Frost:

I'm gonna say it off the back, so the reason why I like the snicker thing what she said, because he likes he paid attention to detail, so that means he had been watching paying he likes.

Jus Mystie:

Let me drop him some snick, but I want her to do, but but that can be in the midst of y'all kicking it too, though you doing a little. Thomas said, hit him up, okay, I'm gonna call you, we coming but that's like listen, she did that.

Bobby Frost:

That means she paid attention to him. That's detail and she left it for him. So you know wherever she left it. That could have been the house work, whatever.

Jus Mystie:

I want to do the real like you know how you leave a note on somebody thing. Like I want a real deal, date, date. Like I want to be dating somebody like that. Like we do all the fun cute shit from the movies, okay, from the jump. So the movies Okay.

Bobby Frost:

So I'm going to switch gears with it now. What's a bad way for a woman to shoot a shot, or is it a bad way to shoot a shot as a woman? That's what I want to know. Is it a bad way to shoot a shot as a woman?

Jus Mystie:

Probably not, because what's the most fuck shit you can say, come here, let me suck your dick. You ain't going to say no.

Bobby Frost:

Nah, depending on who it is, I ain't going to lie to you Like whoa, wait a minute, she was too for it.

Jus Mystie:

You is not going to say no, I swear I won't. You going to definitely think oh yeah, it depends on who it is.

Bobby Frost:

Because I'm being honest with you. Like damn you me, I don't believe you. I'm being honest because that's how I'm gonna look at it. I don't know about other fellas if somebody can comment and you know, get their opinion, but for me I'm like damn you, just walk up to any nigga acts and suck dick. No, it's you what. That's what I'm saying. I'm not gonna feel like I stood out with that one well, I'm just telling you we can have.

Jus Mystie:

we gonna have the conversation right there, because that's what you ought to say next if throat and you'd be like damn, you cutting everybody like that. I'm gonna be like, no, but it's something about you. And then what you're going to say we're going to have to have the conversation, keep it rolling. You don't never, you always say what y'all, what you're going to say Remember, this is something about beginning stage.

Bobby Frost:

you said that to me, yeah, but just off the blue, like I ain't said, none of you ain't said to me you come up to me at the bar or I'm not walking out of footlocker we didn't just sit at the bar.

Jus Mystie:

You've been at the other end, I've been at the other end and I done bought you a drink. You done bought me a drink. Now I am at your side saying let's get the fuck out of here see and look my.

Bobby Frost:

My dog, thomas, said same thing depends on who it is it got to be, because I'm looking like I'm about to look you up and down Like what the fuck Do she look like? She suck dick all the time.

Jus Mystie:

She said I shoot my shot one time in my life it was last, it lasted 13 years. I wish I could tell y'all the story. It's going to take a long time. Just know it landed, oh, cousin, because I want to know what happened. What's?

Bobby Frost:

up, Shay.

Jus Mystie:

I'm going to marry this nigga too.

Bobby Frost:

And I just said that. I'm pretty sure when I pop out with him y'all, I'm pretty sure relationships that started with the woman shooting the shot has a better chance at lasting than the dude shooting the shot. That's my opinion.

Jus Mystie:

He's so fine.

Bobby Frost:

I fine, I believe that why? Because, again, you putting a dude in a different, you putting him in a different approach.

Jus Mystie:

But again that takes us back to y'all being bitch ass niggas, because y'all the ones supposed to be chasing us.

Bobby Frost:

We shouldn't even have to shoot our shot. That's the point I'm making. So when you shoot the shot, you take me out the norm.

Jus Mystie:

Right, so that mean I'm going to lead too.

Bobby Frost:

Sit your motherfucking ass down and be the but you know, again, that's that's how I think it go because, like I said, it only happened to me one time when real shot got shot, that other blanking eyes and that type of stuff. So when she shot her where she at now in life you know, I don't know I didn't keep up with her, but when she brought me the drink I'm like, like I said it had never happened before, shot me a drink.

Bobby Frost:

We I didn't even know where the drink came from. And when I looked around, how did I have my dog? I said, bro, who shot the drink? She didn't shoot him a drink, she shot me a drink.

Jus Mystie:

I'm like damn okay, no, listen, okay, because we I got a question. This is, this is it's on topic, but it ain't on topic. But I have to ask y'all because we we talking about buying drinks. So and you and you a man, okay, even though you're light-skinned when you a man. So my home girl said that when she be out with her baby daddy eating right like at lunch or dinner or whatever, she said that he will look around and find a fine female, whether she with a nigga or not. We're going to say this female is with a nigga and he will buy her food. How would that make you feel as the man that's with the girl who another nigga? He's with a girl, though, but he just bought your bitch food.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not that type of nigga that I be making scenes. That's not what I'm gonna tell her in a juggling way. I'll be serious. Oh, they trying to fuck you Cause why is he behind you? A meal he went, a female.

Jus Mystie:

He's right. But what's crazy is and I've talked to him he's never said like it's not that I want to fuck her, she's just a cute girl. I bought her food.

Bobby Frost:

I don't understand that at all.

Jus Mystie:

For me logically.

Bobby Frost:

Because I'm looking for the logic. Every time I approach a situation, I'm going for what the situation is. I approach with logic.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, keep trying. What's the logic?

Bobby Frost:

reason you would buy a. Now I done. Seen this happen before. That would have made me logic.

Jus Mystie:

You brought both of us together. I'm not buying no food for no nigga, so that's what I'm saying and I'm a nigga Because in my mind.

Bobby Frost:

This is what I'm saying in my mind. I know how niggas think. Because I'm a nigga, Most niggas going to feel disrespected.

Jus Mystie:

I can see that.

Bobby Frost:

So if you brought both of us, one.

Jus Mystie:

They just being nice, being all extra and saying if you feel disrespected, nigga, why don't you just say no, we good, tell him he can keep his money. Why would? Why would you? What would you with him? Fucking me gotta do it. If you felt disrespected, then handle it, cause it's my thing you ain't gotta make a scene.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not gonna make a scene. That's why I said I'm gonna crack a joke. I'm gonna crack a joke after he leave. I ain't cracking a joke, right, therepected I'm gonna look at her and say what you gonna do.

Jus Mystie:

What am I supposed to do? I'm with you, you the man. So what you gonna do?

Bobby Frost:

You buying the food today, anyway, but somebody else done bought mine, so I'm gonna see you gonna roll with that, because that's gonna let me know where you at.

Jus Mystie:

How you gonna put that on me.

Bobby Frost:

It ain't on me. He brought you the meal.

Jus Mystie:

He paid for my food that you were already going to pay for.

Bobby Frost:

So I'm looking at you again like, hey, that's the same way.

Jus Mystie:

He on some player shit ain't he, ain't he, ain't he? Tasteless Hell. Yeah, I'm sitting back but. I'm just saying.

Bobby Frost:

Okay, I'm not a man. Okay, I do understand some player shit he's saying he on the guy asked Shake what he would do if he said you said my man's on some player shit for buying the food.

Jus Mystie:

I think that's what you're saying for him. I'm so happy you tapped in. Listen to this. I'm going to say it one more time. Ask them what they'll do. He getting riled up? No, okay, listen. Listen you out to eat with my nigga. You feel me? My nigga buy your bitch her food or he pay her for her food. How do you feel as a nigga? He don't want to fuck her. He ain't told me we fucking her or nothing. I don't even like girls. He just saw a beautiful woman and said he wanted to buy her food.

Bobby Frost:

So he bought her food.

Jus Mystie:

Hold on and you were with her. How do you feel him? And and take shake, how you feel I'm waiting on this one. Okay, while I wait for y'all to talk, let me just tell y'all I'm not a man, but I ain't gonna lie to you. I wouldn't be mad and I ain't gonna even really say I totally feel disrespected. But I would also expect for I would hope that when they leaving out or something, he would come and be like y'all have a nice evening, or you got a, you got a beautiful wife, something like you know what I'm saying. Don't just make it seem like you want some sneak shit, but I wouldn't be mad. You feel me? In fact, I might be like well, if they still dying, and I might be like, well, let me pay for her food. You feel me?

Bobby Frost:

I don't know, but I wouldn't be mad, I don't know I'm waiting on a comment because I know, in my opinion and most niggas that's like if I'm at the bar.

Jus Mystie:

Can y'all please hurry up and answer he turning red? No.

Bobby Frost:

I was like it's like if I'm at the bar with a woman and a dude, send her a shot while I'm at the bar like nigga what?

Jus Mystie:

Right, what's the problem? Why are you sending a shot? You see, I'm at the bar with her. It doesn't matter, she a pretty good that's what I feel like, if it's excessive, like listen.

Bobby Frost:

Look, read it, read the comments.

Jus Mystie:

They coming in. I wouldn't approve of it. I would politely decline his offer and I would think my woman would also. Okay, I said that, though he the one said he First, before you tapped in, he said I'll make a little joke.

Bobby Frost:

Now why he there?

Jus Mystie:

No, or he said he Look I was going to do, nigga you the man. He just basically, if you looking at it like disrespect, he should shit it on you, not me.

Bobby Frost:

No, I just what he just said. I said I would crack the joke afterwards. I'm going to see what she going to do.

Jus Mystie:

He said it's a no, go find something safe to do.

Bobby Frost:

I just told you Thomas said not happening. Cus said that shit disrespectful and she a female. That's not, no, what the fuck.

Jus Mystie:

Oh look, she said shit.

Bobby Frost:

That's disrespectful now, like I said, if you would have brought me and her, I still might decline, but that one I can see you. Just, you know, that's like the um what they call that shit.

Jus Mystie:

When you in the drive-thru line, you pay for the person behind you. Yeah, you don't know who behind.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, that's cool, but just to go on. That bitch, that's the same thing. I'm up in the mcdonald line, gonna look back there. Hey, I'm paying for whatever the the girl in the past you shooting, your shot and the other way.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, he said no. She said he just asked his girl and she said she wasn't having that shit. She said she go run the checkup so I can't buy her shit. She said motherfucker, you can barely buy our food. No, no, no, not, no, not what?

Bobby Frost:

You heard what Bro said.

Jus Mystie:

Oh, she wouldn't even let you buy the shit. She ain't even. You ain't even going there.

Bobby Frost:

You heard what Bro said, ted. It's a WNBA for a reason, ted. If you gonna let a nigga do that to you, go on, take your ass over there, because you a bitch, right along with who you sitting with. Oh, yikes guys, I okay. He's trying to buy my bitch sister, you just tapped in.

Jus Mystie:

I guess, ladies, y'all can answer too from your side what y'all would feel like if y'all nigga did there you go okay, okay, what, what if she was by herself? Ladies, I'm gonna say the lady by herself, because if she was with a nigga I don't know what we'd think. Okay if a lady by herself and you ought to eat with your dude and he, like I'm gonna buy her meal. How y'all feeling about that as y'all mad no, flip that, fuck that, flip it.

Bobby Frost:

I got one better for you. Flip it. You ought to eat uh-huh with your nigga. Uh-huh, and another female sitting there. She could be with a nigga and she buy him something to eat.

Jus Mystie:

Yeah okay, okay, ladies, if you have to eat with your nigga and it's a girl at the bar or whatever, wherever she at she with another nigga, and she buy your nigga some food his food the waitress come over and say, yeah, that lady over there paid for his meal.

Bobby Frost:

How y'all gonna feel, ladies I want to see this one.

Jus Mystie:

I know I can answer that one, because I'm a lady and be honest. No listen, if she was by herself I'm never gonna get mad anyway, but if she was by herself, then I would be like, oh yeah, she like you. You know what I'm saying, I ain't tripping. She bought the food. But if she would a nigga now, bitch, now you playing games with me, now I'm finna, send your nigga a drink, don't, cause I'm don't play with me, Cause I'm looking at what Brody said for your man meal.

Bobby Frost:

What would you do? How would you feel Two-way street out here? That's the truth.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, I just told you for him. If a bitch pay for my nigga fool and she with a nigga now she done turned me up and I'm feeling we on that then Bitch quit playing with me, because I'll be on that with your nigga. But if she by herself, then I mean I'm with y'all.

Bobby Frost:

I actually said I'm going to ask. He said it's going to be a problem. That's not appropriate.

Jus Mystie:

No, which one are you talking about, sister?

Bobby Frost:

I got to say I can see that from a mile away with the girl buying your dude food. That's the most disrespectful shot I can see somebody shooting. They shooting the shot in front of you. That's wild Like hey, hey, that hey, but that don't turn you up a little bit that, but that don't turn you up a little bit like she don't give a fuck, said my eyes was set down like superman, like superwoman for real, like that's wild.

Jus Mystie:

He better be buying both our food. Okay, I can feel that that's a paying forward, though I get it.

Bobby Frost:

I said you know I'm saying now because that's cool, you know I'm saying, but to sit up and just buy my, my chick, my woman, my girl, my queen, my bitch, just buy her the meal.

Jus Mystie:

still sitting here, it ain't your queen, your woman, your bitch.

Bobby Frost:

What if it was your first date? It's about the first date and I said does it matter?

Jus Mystie:

Okay, for him does it matter what y'all relationship is? What if it's just a bitch you took out to eat?

Bobby Frost:

Man gonna keep eating my food yeah, you're gonna receive it, because if you don't be like crossing boundaries, exactly what you're gonna do.

Jus Mystie:

That's why I said I think that if I think that if it's our first date or if we're into it kind of early, I think that we should establish right then and there that that's disrespectful for you to accept.

Bobby Frost:

I ain't establishing shit, you gonna do it. I'm, I'm watching you. This is all gonna let me know what I'm dealing with I can't win today today, cause anybody gonna tell you that I'm gonna say bitch you, petty, bitch, I'm petty too. Exactly.

Jus Mystie:

No, that's no, fuck you. She's saying bitch, if that bitch wanna be petty and bite my nigga, no, I'm saying it's Ted saying that Bitch you petty.

Bobby Frost:

I'm gonna be petty too, Alright.

Jus Mystie:

My comments ain't adding up fast, y'all, cause I can but guess what Cause?

Bobby Frost:

that's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna always keep it P I'm always gonna keep it. I'm not gonna tell you it's disrespectful. I'm gonna wait for, I'm gonna wait for that nigga to leave back out, or if he never came over and the waitress just said it, I'm gonna look at you, I'm gonna crack my jug, I'm gonna see what you do. You gonna accept the motherfucking meal?

Jus Mystie:

we cool if he Bitch ass nigga and let you leave out. No, you could have told us you know what. No, no no, no.

Bobby Frost:

You could have said no, I'm not going to accept. And I would have said baby girl waitress. Hey, take that as your tip, that he's going to pay for her. And I got hers. Take that meal, he's going to pay for your tip. You got an extra tip.

Jus Mystie:

Listen man. I'm not going to. That is, she ain't finna refund no fucking money and give him no it ain't no refund, no money.

Bobby Frost:

Even with that, I would give you the tip for the same price that her meal was. That's how it's going.

Jus Mystie:

Oh, okay, okay. Yeah, you chatty, I ain't chatty, I'm going to keep it. Player always. He said it's a respect thing If we out for dinner, don't bother us. We a team.

Bobby Frost:

We both on your ass like booty hair. Yeah, there you go, man. That's what I'm saying, yeah like it's, like.

Jus Mystie:

That's the most disrespectful shot I've ever seen. My favorite couple.

Bobby Frost:

Well, jimmy is on here, so jimmy man, jimmy listen because you just tapped in cuz gonna beat that nigga. I already know where it is going shut up, rob.

Jus Mystie:

Shut up, okay, jimmy, if you and your wife out to eat and a guy buys her dinner but he's out to eat, let's just say with his wife too. But you know what I'm saying, and we're just gonna assume, because we're only assuming, we assume he ain't trying to fuck her or he don't want her or nothing. He just saw, uh, he just this is something he do. He just bought her food. What is your reaction?

Bobby Frost:

I'm waiting on this one. I know what cuz cuz about this. I know what he gonna say Nigga, that's them fighting words, Nigga's like what.

Jus Mystie:

No, because you gonna shoot your shot. I know somebody that do this all the time, so this is why I'm asking y'all this is crazy. I want to know.

Bobby Frost:

Had that nigga got into a.

Jus Mystie:

That's what's crazy.

Bobby Frost:

That nigga smooth Because I'd be down. He has not got to a fight you got to think what my man say.

Jus Mystie:

If it's the first date, we going to share it and look over and say, thank you, right, if it's the first date, I ain't going to lie, we ain't even finna get all mad and shit like that. We going to take it versus you being my nigga for real.

Bobby Frost:

Man first date. I'm looking at you just so I know where you are here with me.

Jus Mystie:

I actually got a date. Okay, man, you need to choose. Do you like skin? Because, nigga, I don't even know this nigga Jimmy Black.

Bobby Frost:

I don't even know you. Ask anybody in the comment they're going to tell you Jimmy, is you back or?

Jus Mystie:

did you really leave?

Bobby Frost:

That's, it's the first date. I don't know you, you don't know me.

Jus Mystie:

We getting to know each other. This random man I'm a bad bitch. This random man says he bought my food.

Bobby Frost:

I don't even know this nigga. Why are you looking at me different? That's crazy. I've been on a bigger season. People are, uh, more loving to people in their relationship. Probably was trying to fuck us, though they gave off a fucking vibe.

Jus Mystie:

I just said that no, okay, I have been out. Let me tell you something. We was out, okay. That's crazy. I'm asking that because you just made me remember this. We was in miami and this man and his wife was sitting next to us and we wasn't with nobody. It was three of us. It was me, I believe it was me, candace and miyoshi, I'm not sure, but whoever I went with that time. But he bought all three of our foods and she and told him to. He was like she was like when she bought us our beer, she was like he has it here, babe. And he was like yeah, I got it. Like she was white people, just different.

Bobby Frost:

I understand that and people in different countries. I mean not countries, but states. But what you said, he brought everybody a drink, so I mean or a meal, and it seemed like we not expecting that, I mean Accepting that. I already know what was going, because here come the point.

Jus Mystie:

Jimmy, your stat. It ain't pop up for me yet, but what did he say?

Bobby Frost:

He said we not, we not accepting it. I already know what was going on, because here come the thing.

Jus Mystie:

I'm not saying it's a right or wrong.

Bobby Frost:

I'm going to give you One of the smoothest ways I ever shot my shot.

Jus Mystie:

At a female shot. I'm saying that's not me shooting my shot. I saw you out with your wife.

Bobby Frost:

It gotta be shooting the shot, because why are you not buying both of our meals?

Jus Mystie:

you only buy hers it's because you up north, bro. No, that don't make sense. No, I don't give a fuck if I was in iceland. Do it gotta be a sex thing, though, like mail-to-mail? What if I was a male and just was like okay, what if you was by yourself? Right, I'm just saying, how do you feel about this?

Bobby Frost:

no, I'm gonna reverse it for you. That would have been the same way I would have felt disrespected if he would have just brought my meal and not the chick I was with. That's what I was. Finna say Okay, what do you I was gonna look at you and you trying to fuck me?

Jus Mystie:

No, okay, why do we gotta think like that? Okay, for real, why did you buy the whole table? Boom, and and and I'm I'm with my bitch, whatever the case. No, I'm by my, I'm with my, my bitch too, whatever. And I'd be like oh, I'm paying for his meal because I'm just picked a random person. You was at the bar, I'm paying for your meal. And they look over there, she say that table. She might even say him, she's gonna say that table paid for your meal you ain't gonna accept.

Bobby Frost:

No, I'm good with that. I accept that. Get what you just said. I'm by myself.

Jus Mystie:

I can see you doing good charity if I'm with my chick or chick, I'm dating bitch, whoever it is this could be, but so you would let me pay for your meal as a nigga and not pay for hers you didn't miss what I said and you said I'm just out by myself right now, but you just said you and your chick. So now I went back to so if you and your chick and I'm a nigga. I I can buy your food.

Bobby Frost:

No I was still gonna have an issue. Nigga, are you trying to fuck me? Why didn't you buy?

Jus Mystie:

her. No, I just. I picked somebody food to buy. I don't know if y'all together.

Bobby Frost:

That doesn't make sense.

Jus Mystie:

I don't know if y'all together, I don't know if y'all sister and brother nigga, I don't know what y'all is, cause I don't know y'all.

Bobby Frost:

I'm feeling you for real, cause I already know what it is. That doesn't make sense. It's no logic behind that. One time Real player shit. I seen a chick Talking to a nigga. I didn't know If they was really together Cause the nigga kept Moving off and off From the bar and shit. I seen him talking To some other females. So this is what I did I sent the shot over To her. It wasn't a shot, it was a drink. I asked what she's drinking, sent her that drink, but Put this on a napkin my number.

Jus Mystie:

That? That ain't smooth, motherfucker. It was smooth, but that nigga didn't, it's still smooth. No, it's not the nigga didn't see it. You know how many times that is the oldest fucking. That's still.

Bobby Frost:

It's smooth because it's not. No, I'm going to show you why it's smooth. Now, if I would have did the shit while she's sitting with the nigga.

Jus Mystie:

No, oh, probably did, because she chatty.

Bobby Frost:

Well, let her be chatty. I don't need not a chatty bitch.

Jus Mystie:

I'm cool with a chatty woman. She want to be chatty? I'm good. Fellas, don't write your number down on no fucking napkin and give it to me. And she roll with it she call me everything and where she at now. We just didn't work out.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not going to let y'all, y'all going to have to tap in. Yeah, the other thing I did was I remember this one I was sitting back and I'm like my dog. I said I'm looking. I said hold on. I said man, she's sitting at the bar by herself. We're not at the bar, but the table we at the bar. I'm like she gotta be not with a nigga. I said it can't be, gotta be not with a nigga. I said it can't be because I said a female ain't gonna sit waiting for no nigga, no 10 minutes. She gonna be the cuss that nigga out. But the nigga did come in there. You could see it was friction. Next thing, I know about 20 minutes of that that nigga. You could see his walk. You could see her face express. He walked out. I waited about five minutes. I'm gonna set my ass down and talk to her.

Jus Mystie:

Ladies shoot your shot. Yeah, shoot your shot.

Bobby Frost:

Don't shoot your shot, like Missy just told you, because you might have a bra. You shoot your shot.

Jus Mystie:

Shoot your motherfucking shot. Buy that nigga his meal while he with his bitch buying him a drink.

Bobby Frost:

No, I'm just saying yeah, boy you better be able to fight.

Jus Mystie:

Don't do that, ladies. Don't disrespect each other.

Bobby Frost:

Everybody think discreet. I know, but don't write your number on the fucking napkin. I know for a nigga was disrespectful, but I always want what's the disrespectful way for a woman to shoot a shot.

Jus Mystie:

I don't know I, because women don't usually shoot their shots. So it ain't really I can't, I couldn't tell you because, shit, it ain't really.

Bobby Frost:

No, ain't like the one thing you said that ain't disrespectful, but have me looking at you like. You just walk up to me out the blue.

Jus Mystie:

Yeah, I'm gonna suck your dick, whoa well, I mean, nobody would actually say that.

Bobby Frost:

That's not true. Some will.

Jus Mystie:

I mean, but if I'm sitting here, like I said, if we sitting up here and I didn't send you a drink, you didn't send me a drink, and I come down there and I'd be like let's ride. You know what the fuck going on? I ain't got to say let me suck your dick. I'm saying let's go.

Bobby Frost:

I think this disrespect. I heard this happen before I Out the blue.

Jus Mystie:

Oh, I done, definitely did that. I ain't gonna tell you who I did it to, but that's crazy. I did that to somebody who went to Central. He was fine as fuck.

Bobby Frost:

Now, if you If we done had Prior conversations and shit like that, I might you know what I'm saying. Depending on what it is, we cool with it, but just out the blue, I ain't expecting you To come do that. So yeah, I'm feeling disrespectful, crazy to you, but I'm gonna let you know, like hold on this, ain't that? You chatty it ain't because why would the? What the fuck made you just come out.

Jus Mystie:

I wanted to grab your dick like damn listen, because people let me tell you everything in life. People always want an explanation for it.

Bobby Frost:

There's no explanation I wanted to grab your dick so I did. You know what I'm saying, because if I would have walked up to the and grabbed a woman's pussy, I might have a charge.

Jus Mystie:

You could go press charges if you want to.

Bobby Frost:

No, you missed what I'm saying Nine times. I might have a charge. No, you only can have a charge.

Jus Mystie:

You can only have a charge if I press charges.

Bobby Frost:

So like.

Jus Mystie:

I said, if I come up and grab, your dick and you don't like it and you don't like it, press charges.

Bobby Frost:

Not even the pressing the charges. A woman has run up, go on the girl dress or skirt and grab her ass. Or grab her ass Girl. Turn around, smack shit and throw drinks on you. You look bad. Well, smack the shit out of push her in before you can't do that you know you can't do that, because if you smack shit out you still gonna be in the wrong.

Bobby Frost:

So I said I think that would be a disrespectful way to. I get tired of going through that and then we do this a lot, cause that's we talk about relationships. I'm tired of females and men keep talking to traditional shit, that traditional shit. If it works, it works for you, but you can't approach every person. You look in your eye with the traditional Cause, that shit out the window. It's not traditional, no more. So, yeah, back in the day it was unheard of for a woman to shoot. They shot like what was what the move? I think what movie it was. But that was how they used it back in the day. They had the little gloves and stuff on. They had dropped their little napkin and, man, that was their shot. Shoot a man, go pick it up.

Jus Mystie:

You drop this yeah, that was how they shot their shot. Let me drop this glove, so you can?

Bobby Frost:

yeah, come pick it up. Oh my I yeah you know what I'm saying, but I should have been. I should have been back in the day but you know, now I can shoot your shot. You know, if you shoot a nigga a drink, tell her hey, I like y'all. I got my eye on you. Let a nigga know, because I'm telling you your relationship probably gonna last long, because that nigga gonna really feel special.

Jus Mystie:

I'm cracking up.

Bobby Frost:

It is he gonna really feel special there, you have it ladies, they sassy asses wanna feel special as well. Yeah, make me feel special, girl. You want this motherfucking account. You want to be on account. You can be on account now, girl.

Jus Mystie:

That's crazy.

Bobby Frost:

Because if I'm doing all the motherfucking work, god damn Shit you a chatty dad. You know what I'm saying. Make me feel special girl, Make me blessed.

Jus Mystie:

Slide my briefs off me, you a chatty dad.

Bobby Frost:

Let me act like I don't want it. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, get me together, I'm with it, but we at the end. So what you been vibing to, missy.

Jus Mystie:

I have been listening to Lucky Day and I am so stuck on this song called that's you. Oh my God, it is like the best melody, literally a melody. It is like a vibe, 'all gotta hear it lucky day, and that's d-a-y-e lucky day, that's you you gotta send that to me because I haven't. Oh, my god, it is everything. I'm definitely gonna send it to you, okay, I?

Bobby Frost:

I've been all three artists right now. Well, their latest projects and I can't pick, so I'm just gonna shout out all three of them. Um, my nigga, jay worthy, just dropped some more shit. My nigga always holding down for the West Coast. He was on stage with Kendrick. That shit was dope. To touch on that one, kendrick just did that shit on Juneteenth. That shit was dope. A lot of people was more concerned about him doing it than the message he was giving to Drake about saying you rap like you always trying to free his slaves and meet it on Juneteenth. Fuck all that. That was a nice concert. He brought a lot of West Coast cats out there. I seen Crips and Bloods on stage. That was dope. And Jay Worthy one of them. That's my nigga. I think he underrated now. Motherfucker, jay Worthy, make great music, especially if you into that funk West Coast vibe. Yeah, jay Worthy, he got some new shit out. Check him out. You know what I'm saying? That 105 West is nice.

Bobby Frost:

Other person I've been listening to man was I checked out? I've been checking out. I'm having a brain freeze at the worst moment. Shit, I'm looking at him. I can't say Fuck, what his dog name. Man, let me look them up, what you call it, man. I don't know why I'm having a brain mold. The other one was uh, we don't, we still don't trust you by uh, future and metro okay because, I didn't get to really sit with it.

Bobby Frost:

When I uh first listened to it the first time, I didn't get to really sit with it and um I, because he dropped, he dropped them albums back to back. He dropped. Uh, we don't, uh, we don't trust you, and then we still don't trust you Came later. So I didn't get a chance to even check the first one out enough, but the second one I liked that better than the first one. And then Brent Fires. I don't know why, the fuck, my mind wouldn't work. But yeah, I've been on Brent Fires, real heavy, just vibe and chilling, you know what I'm saying so, but yeah, those are all I've been on, so that's how we've been rocking.

Bobby Frost:

So where can they catch you at Misty?

Jus Mystie:

On our social media platforms at Misty Summers. Oh my God, I got it all together Just Misty Summers, y'all, and that's M-Y-S-T-I-E Summers. But you can still search just Misty and it will pop up and that's J-Y-S-T-I-E.

Bobby Frost:

And she's telling the truth, y'all Cause I posted her On a link and I put the wrong one Out there. I had to edit that Motherfucker. I said wait a minute, this ain't the right one. She probably didn't even Get this bitch.

Jus Mystie:

No, I did. I do get them, but like no, I can't get into the damn thing. It's stupid.

Bobby Frost:

So I'm like Bobby Frost Media on all social medias and RobertDot87 on Instagram, but everybody else is Bobby Frost Media and again, call to action. Tap in, leave comments, run the numbers up. Go on Spotify. Go on Amazon Music, iheartradio. Go on, I said, spotify, apple Music. Go on the YouTube page. Tell a friend to tell a friend. Run them, numbers up.

Jus Mystie:

Run them up, please. Thank you, please.

Bobby Frost:

I'm out here to call to action and leave the comments. That's the biggest thing I be wanting y'all to do. I like that y'all.

Jus Mystie:

Text my fucking phone and tell me, but write it on.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, put the comments down, man. I like y'all do that. I appreciate it, because y'all give me critique always. But man, leave that shit on the comments and let me go back in that bitch and one, one, one, one run it up. Man, because the last episode we did I don't know if it's because of the lgbtq plus community was in there. That shit shot up and it shot up.

Jus Mystie:

I said I'm like, yeah, pride month oh yeah, okay, shout out the pride month, though I know it's got a lot of more events coming june, it's still june, so y'all check out those events though. I mean, did you see before we go to the whole marlon wayne's thing? Yeah, I think that's dope, though I I think that black fathers are being supportive of their kids, and I don't even think his photo shoot was that he just had on the rainbow colors yeah, you know, some people's calling saying he coming out.

Bobby Frost:

I don't know. Know about all that I did. I took it from the positive standpoint that you're supporting your son His daughter, his daughter.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, yeah.

Bobby Frost:

It might have been a son. I thought it was a daughter, so don't get me confused. I'm going to say his kid. He was supporting his kid.

Jus Mystie:

I think it was very supportive. I think that, yeah, I mean because, at the end of the day, man, if your parents don't support you, you're going to be fucked up mentally.

Bobby Frost:

Exactly, I done seen this happen with multiple people. If you feel like your parent ain't there, that shit man, that's who birthed you. That's who you come from. They can't fuck with you. You start having dark thoughts and shit happen that way. So you know you got to give them shout outs. So yeah, glad y'all tapped in with us. This was a good episode. Shout out to my dog, misty, again she's been on fire. Y'all, she's been on fire, she's been on fire. We're coming to pick any topics listen.

Jus Mystie:

No, for real, it's just up for everything y'all. Everything is positive right now for me. I am eliminating myself from all negative shit, negative people. I have been still focused on my spiritual journey and doing me and I've been just chilling and everything's going right Cause I know y'all give me here. Every time I get on this motherfucker I say I got another community, but I got another community on my portfolio, so I'm super busy. These motherfuckers might as well just they gave me another raise. They might as well just made me district manager. Like seriously.

Bobby Frost:

There you go. What'd you tell what we talked about about six months ago? No-transcript.

Survival in Hot Weather
Celebrating Juneteenth in the Workplace
Initiating Romantic Pursuits Through Shooting Shots
Taking Initiative in Romantic Pursuits
Shooting Shots and Making Moves
Gender Dynamics in Shooting Shots
Buying Meals for Others
Navigating Social Interactions in Relationships
Shooting Your Shot in Relationships
Celebrating Pride and Supportive Parenting