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37. Living Boldly: Embracing the Calling Over Your Life and Creating a Life of No Regrets

January 11, 2024 Hazel Brown
37. Living Boldly: Embracing the Calling Over Your Life and Creating a Life of No Regrets
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It's The Human Experience: Overcoming Self-Doubt, Embracing Emotional Intelligence, Self-Worth, Personal Growth and Your Authentic Self
37. Living Boldly: Embracing the Calling Over Your Life and Creating a Life of No Regrets
Jan 11, 2024
Hazel Brown

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Life is full of opportunities, but often we let fear and doubt hold us back. We hesitate, we play it safe, and we settle for a life of regrets. But deep down, we know we were meant for something more. Living boldly means embracing the calling over your life, stepping out of your comfort zone, and taking risks. It means listening to that inner voice that tells you there's something greater waiting for you. When you unleash your inner courage, you open the doors to a life of endless possibilities. You break free from the chains of regret and start living a life that aligns with your true purpose. It's never too late to start living boldly. 

Don't let the fear of failure or the opinions of others hold you back. Embrace your call, take that leap of faith, and watch your life transform before your eyes. Living regret-free means seizing every opportunity, learning from failures, and never looking back. It means living with passion, purpose, and without the weight of what-ifs. So, today, make the decision to unleash your inner courage. Embrace the call over your life and create a legacy of no regrets. Live boldly, embrace challenges, and never settle for anything less than the extraordinary life you were meant to live. 

This is not just another session of empty encouragement; We dive into the art of starting new, embracing the unknown with the confidence of a seasoned gambler placing their bets on the surest stake—their own potential.  So, let's raise the stakes, defy the comfort zone, and together, cultivate a community where authenticity is our shared language of growth.

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Life is full of opportunities, but often we let fear and doubt hold us back. We hesitate, we play it safe, and we settle for a life of regrets. But deep down, we know we were meant for something more. Living boldly means embracing the calling over your life, stepping out of your comfort zone, and taking risks. It means listening to that inner voice that tells you there's something greater waiting for you. When you unleash your inner courage, you open the doors to a life of endless possibilities. You break free from the chains of regret and start living a life that aligns with your true purpose. It's never too late to start living boldly. 

Don't let the fear of failure or the opinions of others hold you back. Embrace your call, take that leap of faith, and watch your life transform before your eyes. Living regret-free means seizing every opportunity, learning from failures, and never looking back. It means living with passion, purpose, and without the weight of what-ifs. So, today, make the decision to unleash your inner courage. Embrace the call over your life and create a legacy of no regrets. Live boldly, embrace challenges, and never settle for anything less than the extraordinary life you were meant to live. 

This is not just another session of empty encouragement; We dive into the art of starting new, embracing the unknown with the confidence of a seasoned gambler placing their bets on the surest stake—their own potential.  So, let's raise the stakes, defy the comfort zone, and together, cultivate a community where authenticity is our shared language of growth.

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Speaker 1:

Welcome to. It's the Human Experience Podcast Hosted by Hazel Brown, a healthcare leader, wife, mom and career coach. If you're big on authenticity, personal development, perseverance and transparency, you're in the right place. Get ready to be uplifted, inspired and empowered as you become fearless in pursuit of the life you desire and deserve. Our goal is to help you level up by creating a safe space to learn and reflect, while listening to transparent stories from our host or successful professionals and business owners who've agreed to share the parts of success that typically gets x'd out on social media, because that's the part you need to see and hear the process. Go ahead and subscribe. You don't want to miss out on these transparent stories and discussions that reveal highs, lows, aha moments and nuggets that'll help you to grow and glow.

Speaker 2:

Hey, hey, hey. Welcome to the it's the Human Experience Podcast. I'm your host, hazel Brown. I wanted to make sure that, as we go into the new chapters of our life the new year, the new week, the new month, the new day whatever the newness is for you in this moment, it could be a new year for you in terms of your birth ages past, the fact that we are in a whole new dimension of challenges and opportunities and relationships and all the things right when we think about our evolution and as we become a better person, I want you to make sure that you are embracing everything that is in store for you, because you have to continuously remember that you are nowhere near where you're going to be. So, in that moment, in knowing that the future you starts with you, as well as knowing that the best is yet to come, I want you to go after your goals. Guys, if this is your first time tuning in to the it's the Human Experience Podcast, welcome. Welcome If you are a return listener. Thanks for tuning in to the it's the Human Experience Podcast. If you're not already following us, go ahead and scroll up to the top so that you don't miss an episode. Hit follow so that you can be able to get alerts when new episodes drop. And be sure to comment when you're done listening, so that I can know if the episode provided value, what parts of it provided value and all the things, so I can keep bringing you episodes like this. I'm going to go ahead and jump into the episode because, yes, I don't skip a beat, but I wanted to make sure that I had some manners and I let you know that I appreciate you listening and welcome, welcome.

Speaker 2:

So, guys, as we're thinking about embracing our authentic self, embracing the calling of our life, betting on ourselves because we know we're called to do more, I want you to realize, like that fear that you're feeling, that feeling of can I really do this? I don't even have no money. Let's talk about that part of it, right, I don't have no money, I don't have the resources, I don't have the connections, I don't even know where to start. I don't know where to start. No one in my family has done this before. None of my friends are doing this. Like, how do I even start this? Like, that's cool. There's chat GDP, there's Google, there's YouTube University and that sounds cute, but I don't even have time to go and do that level of research, to stand this up Like that is just not going to happen.

Speaker 2:

Yes, those are all the thoughts that are possibly going through your mind when you think about your goals, when you think about your dreams, when you think about all the things you want to accomplish and all the things you want to become. But know that you're not alone in those thoughts. Every time we start something new, we all get that feeling of ooh, should I? I want to, I want to do the work, thank you. I don't want to walk through that dark space. I don't want to have to deal with all of the disappointments that are going to come along with walking through the unknown Guys. Yes, we all feel that way. We all go through the period of wondering is the reward going to be worth the bite, be worth the fight, be worth the risk, be worth the time? Let's be real here, but the decision is up to you.

Speaker 2:

What I've learned is that there's truly four types of people in terms of scientifically and what they share. It's people that are average, people that are reserved, people that are self-centered and people who are role models. Then, bridging that gap, we've had other different theories. It talks about up to 16 different human types or personality types, regardless of you want to choose four or you want to choose 16,. The reason I mentioned that is I want you to remember that there are youths all over the world. You think of all of the people in this world, not even in the US, in this world. If you divide that out by 16 types of people, child, there is you and you and you all over the place. That means there are people like you all around the world that are willing and waiting to hear someone like you stand up and show them that, yes, I have the same story to a certain degree, and I still was able to get up and do it. This is how I did it Knowing that you embracing that calling is going to help someone else.

Speaker 2:

Then you have to stand up in that truth. I'm no different than anyone else when it comes to having that sense of oh, child, this looks like a lot. How am I going to figure this out? But I can tell you, every time I own the calling over my life, every time I decide that I'm going to use my voice and just be, I'm going to embrace me and I'm going to say that you know what this is me. I'm just going to show up, and who loves it loves it, and who doesn't doesn't the amount of outpouring is the best way to describe it that I get from people that are excited that I decided to do it, decided to show up for myself, decided to go through the dark moments, regardless of what it is that it takes to get it done.

Speaker 2:

What I've learned is that that obedience brings the resources, it brings the money, it brings the opportunity, it brings the people. It brings everything that you thought you lacked. What I've realized is that it's truly a mindset. In that mindset, you have to make the decision that am I going to look back in three years, in three weeks, in three months, in three decades, and say to myself, man, I wish in that moment I would have bettered on myself? Or are you going to stand tall at that point and say, wow girl, wow guy, look what you did, look what you did.

Speaker 2:

It wasn't easy. On the outside everybody else it looks just smooth sailing, no ebbs and downs, no ebbs and flows. But regardless of that, you know the truth, you stood up in it, and look at the miracles that have taken place, guys, that feeling of betting on yourself is the feeling of fulfillment, the feeling of knowing that I had no idea how I was going to get this done. I just knew I needed to do it and I knew that he would provide a way for me. I knew that I was doing it because it's what made the most sense to me as a person, as opposed to what everyone else was doing. And man did I reap the benefits? Man did I make the impact? Man do I feel unstoppable in knowing that anything I put my mind to, I can absolutely do it.

Speaker 2:

It is an absolute mindset shift being able to go from what you don't have, what you think you cannot do hence think you cannot do and moving away from that to be able to just do what it is you were called to do. I want to ask you are you going to do what it is you were called to do? Because I know you were called to be great. I know you were called to do more. I know you have what it takes. You know what you know you have what it takes and I want you to stop playing small, stop trying to shrink yourself and take up less space, stop dimming your light, stop telling yourself it's for other people. Stop telling yourself it's hard, it's hard for everyone. Start talking yourself down when you start getting that feeling of oh, that's that I know. Yeah, I wanted to do it, but it looks a lot harder than I thought it would. Talk yourself down, tell yourself, for example I'll give you an example Tell yourself you know what? Hazel, that's a tall glass, but guess what? We're just going to pour a shot. We're going to try one step and we're going to see how that goes. And within that one step, one step is going to work out. Because it's one step, you're going to realize, okay, it's time to take step two, because I did step one. Break it down. Don't make it so hard for yourself to where you're trying to accomplish that end goal. That end goal takes time. Right, that end goal takes time.

Speaker 2:

If we were on a track, feel or whatever kind of feel, people run on because child, I don't know, I'm not even from here. That's a whole nother story. Yes, I was born in Jamaica. Guys, if you did not know, you know that now. So a lot of times I'm trying to remember what things are called in the US of A. But regardless of which, we're going over to that track feel, and that's that, because Jamaica has a lot of track stars. So yeah, that's a terrible excuse, but that's what I got Anywho. You start on the track feel at start, and then there's stop all the way at the end.

Speaker 2:

And if that person is thinking to themselves man, I don't have the endurance, I don't have the stamina, I have not trained for this, I don't know how I'm going to run from the starting point to that end point. And if you're anything like me, when I'm exercising I give myself a goal. I said you know what, run to that tree, child. When I get to that tree, I trick myself again. Just go ahead and run to the light pole. I run again. Okay, just go ahead and go to the run again. Keep, just keep running, but pace yourself. When I tell my mind that I only got to go to the tree, guess what? I do it. But if I told my mind I had to go all the way to the stop, my mind is like child goodbye, who's going to do it? Not me, because you're sometimes you're mentally working against yourself because it seems hard. Our mind is trying to protect us from hard, but the reality is we have what it takes to do it. So do that for yourself and pace yourself so that you don't deter yourself from becoming the version of yourself that you know your destined to be. Guys, I just want you to be great.

Speaker 2:

This is not intended to be a long episode. This is intended to just let you know truly how important it is to embrace those new beginnings, to bet on yourself. As time continues to pass, I don't want you to keep looking back and saying to yourself man, if I would have just bet on myself, if I would have just done it. Gosh, this person did it. That person was talking about it with me and look at them. This person said but it's not about any of those people, it is about you.

Speaker 2:

If it takes you, using healthy competition, to say to yourself I know I can do it and I'm going to do it with someone, regardless of you're doing it with them in your head or you're doing it with them out loud, depending on, like that circle, circle, the social circle that you have, I want you to do it. I want you to use whatever you know that you have to use against yourself to become the best version of yourself. For me, I've had many moments that I had to just kick myself in the butt in a negative way by saying, girl, you keep going like this and it's going to be like XYZ, and that would motivate me to show up for myself. But if you know that you're the kind of person where that mean motivation is not gonna work, then you have to tell yourself give yourself some kind of incentive. You know what, if you do XYZ, girl, I will take you to Mexico, I will take you to Japan. Just do it. I will buy you a bicycle. Listen whatever you gotta tell yourself. Do that, because that is what's gonna help you show up for that goal. Whatever it is that you know works for you. Do it Journal, write your thoughts out. Seek therapy if you realize like this is something that's triggering you, it's causing more trauma. Heal from that and then continue to work towards your goals.

Speaker 2:

I'm not here to tell you that anything is gonna be easy. I don't do the glitz and glam of social media to make it seem like oh my God, like you just shift your mindset Magic. No, it's not magic. It's gonna take some work and dedication, but I tell you that it's worth it. Betting on yourself is the best thing you could do for yourself. Stop shrinking, stop playing small, stop dimming your life. Remember the future. You. It starts with you. I'm rooting for you.

Speaker 2:

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