Enlighten & Elevate with Kelly
Thank you for being here dear soul! My name is Kelly and I am a Reiki Master, mother, wife, and lover of all things spiritual. Come with me on my quest to find tools and knowledge for continued spiritual growth. It can be tough to navigate the world as a human and parent. Dive in with me for enlightenment and ways to empower your life! We will explore many topics such as spirituality, holistic healing modalities, and metaphysics.
Enlighten & Elevate with Kelly
Shilpi Joshi's Journey Through Spiritual Alchemy and Healing Energy!
Hello beautiful souls! Ever wondered how the changing seasons mirror our own spiritual journeys? Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Shilpi Joshi, a psychic medium and spiritual alchemist with over two decades of transformative experience. Shilpi shares her extraordinary path from her early visions and poetry in India to becoming a beacon for spiritual growth and awakening. Together, we reflect on the deeper meanings of autumn, touching on gratitude, letting go, and the beauty of nature's transformations.
Discover the timeless wisdom hidden in books that resonate uniquely at different life stages, offering personal growth and validation. We’ll also explore the complexities of nurturing relationships, especially the seismic shifts that come with becoming a parent. Shilpi and I discuss the significance of inner work and how even the most challenging relationships serve as powerful catalysts for our development. Learn to navigate the "highway" of spiritual growth while steering clear of the distractions and entanglements that everyday life throws at us.
Finally, we delve into the transformative power of forgiveness, illustrating how releasing grudges can restore personal peace. Insights from a K-drama about past lives and karma shed light on the interconnectedness of our actions. Shilpi shares how understanding ancestral patterns and karmic debts can help dissolve blame and resistance, leading us to a more peaceful existence. Tune in to grasp how gratitude, mindfulness, and recognizing signs from the universe can guide us on our spiritual journey, reminding us that we are always supported by unseen forces.
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Hello everybody, welcome back to A Mind in Elevate. I am so happy you are here with me on this beautiful journey of life. We are now in autumn in my part of the world and I think autumn and fall brings us so many beautiful spiritual reminders Gratitude and harvest a time to reflect on our blessings, our many blessings and accomplishments that we've made throughout the year. Letting go Leaves falling from the trees remind us of letting go, that it's a necessary part of growth and thriving, embracing change. A reminder of the impermanence of life Trust. Fall reminds us of God's source creator within us and that he's always. He or she is always there to help us renew and start something new. And God's artistry, autumn's colors and transformations are just amazingly beautiful. There's been some really awesome sunsets and things that I've seen recently and, of course, the beautiful mums and the colors of the trees here are just amazing.
Speaker 1:My guest today. Her name is Shilpi and she's a psychic medium for 22 years. She is just this amazing, dynamic, beautiful spirit. We are connected through a group on Facebook and she has these awesome videos. She's a wealth of spiritual knowledge and you can find her at Awakening with Shilpi on all socials. Definitely go out in there and follow her on Instagram. She has these awesome reels that she puts out there. Thank you so much for being here. I'm wishing you all the very, very best as we move into fall here and have a great day, and thank you again for listening. Welcome back, everybody, to Enlightened Elevate. I have a warm welcome here for Shilpi Joshi. She is a modern day spiritual alchemist on a quest to transmute life's experiences into profound wisdom and enlightenment. She has 22 years of experience as a psychic clairvoyant guide. She leads seekers on a transformative journey of self-discovery and spiritual growth, exploring the alchemy of the soul, unlocking the secrets of inner transformation and empowerment. Welcome.
Speaker 2:Hi, keri, nice to see you. Thank you for having me.
Speaker 1:Oh, I'm so honored to have you here. Let's talk a little bit about who you are and what your life experience has been and your journey and brought you to be this spiritual coach and clairvoyant and guide for others who have awakened Kelly long story.
Speaker 2:We all have a journey right. This is a journey from somebody born as SHILPI with a single L, leading to the side care care warrant with a double L now, and I do not think there are any coincidences in life. It was all the way they planned up there. And, of course, thank God that I had the guidance and the right support to be led to this path and rediscover, because, as we all know, the soul has a plan. Once you're born, you forget about it and it is the free will at that moment which takes you where you are meant to go. Do you really take that path or do you carve a new one for you? So it's all very free will, based at the particular time in your life. So I'm just grateful that I discovered and aligned myself due to the people in my life, the guidance and, of course, to the supportive and the non-supportive people, because the non-supportive ones are the ones that really push you to stand and think why is this happening? Why are things not working out? Why am I suffering? And they actually work as a kind of, I would say, fuel to really push you towards seeking why is this pain there? And finding your way out. So extreme gratitude to everybody in my life, all the teachers. But yes, as a child, when I was born in India, I have a sister who was born five years after me, who had a medical problem. So I do remember having visions of seeing various goddesses. Of course I'm not very religious so I had no idea about who those faces were until I grew up and saw in various temples and I'm very spiritual though even now and then, I think, with her visiting she has hallucinia major so we would have transfusions every three weeks even until now. And I think visiting the hospitals at that young age it just puts the entire reality in front of you, right? The fragility of life, people crying, people suffering, and I am sure that this work isn't only from this lifetime. So I think it takes you a lot of lifetimes to be where you are with the kind of clairvoyance.
Speaker 2:I began very early, when I was 18. So I am sure and 22 years under my belt already seemed like at 45, 22 years of channeling it, I'm sure it was already there somewhere. All it needed was the right circumstances to push me to rediscover it. But you are young so I could see and it just brought me to that question. I remember I do have a lot of poems that I wrote when I was about 17 and 18, the hospitals, back and forth, which talk about fragility of life. Is this what it is? I was extremely sensitive Now I know to energies because I would be scared of going to certain places and of course it was made fun of by the cousins oh, she's such a scaredy-do and always not wanting to go into dark rooms. But I personally feel that I could sense energies, which is what I know now, and bless them. They didn't know, nobody knew these other kind of things that exist and for a person like me, you feel everybody's like that because you're just so young.
Speaker 2:And then, remember, I chanced upon a book by Dr Brian Bees Many Lives, all Masters. It was in my friend's home and I was supposed to go to my house after the boarding school. I was in a medical college, so that's where actually things began happening the one-sided conversation that I would I I remember as a child my refuge was the washroom. I would go to the washroom and have those one-sided conversations with so-called dear god. Are you there? Why is this happening? I don't know this is there's so much chaos? People think I'm sensitive. But you know what I just feel? Everything feels very intense, blah, blah, blah. And then I was. I was doing my english honors. But of course when you're in a family setup you can't hear because you're not all by yourself and there's constant triggers and everything.
Speaker 2:And this opportunity came from to be in a medical college doing bachelor's in physical therapy. Everything the dates had passed out, the exams were over, but somehow through connections, I found myself being in that college All on my way towards that. I was praying. Before that I left, I went to. I usually used to go to a temple, but I went to a gurudwara, which is for the Sikhs, because that's a quieter place. If you're crying, you're upset, nobody can see you. I was really full that day because I could feel that I'm stuck. So I went there and I sat down and I remember I was crying, there was nobody and I see two dicky birds coming in and suddenly things changed. Now, of course, years back of experience, I realized that something shifted in that moment where there was no reason there would be two dicky birds coming from nowhere in a building right in Frankfurt, pemig. And then I found myself on my bus ride in the mountain street, going towards the college, literally invoking every single leaf I saw. Make sure that I get the admission. Make sure who knew what invoking is at that time. Now I know. So this is a part I know. This wisdom came. It was there somewhere in mind and it just came in, that 18-year-old. And when we reached there we realized the owner of the cottage was also a Sikh gentleman and somehow things fell into picture Fast forward.
Speaker 2:My next memory is of me praying in one of the rooms where they have their holy book. And I'm praying and I hear a very loud voice saying you'd asked for it, you got it. So previously, when I'd gone to the gudwara, I'd said I'm stuck, show me a way. I this is going nowhere where I am. And now that one-sided conversation had become two-sided I started hearing. So Carl suddenly joined the dots and years later that he do it. You know it's in sync, but one plus one is two. It figures out later. And then I realized a great Nagarathwara, the gentleman who owned the colleges of Gusee. I was sitting in front of the same holy book when I started hearing. So I ran out in the open area there, the lots of green, beautiful place in the mountains. And I remember I kneeled down and I said now what? Okay, okay, but now what I'm hearing? But I need to to process. But you didn't know anything.
Speaker 2:And then those five years, I heard a lot, I saw a lot, I was guided a lot. I thought everybody goes through it until relationships that were meant to be the ones that were not meant to be fell out. I could, years down, realize that those were done from me, through me, but that wasn't me. Like somebody I was meant to not realign in the future was literally I wanted to go and see that gentleman but somehow I said I'm not coming. And later on all of my day I was like this was not what I was meant to say. So late years, doug, you realize that things were taken charge of by your guides because you were not ready to really follow and surrender and implement it. And then when I read that book I remember I pulled an all-nighter, read that book my friend was like, oh, take it, it doesn't make sense, we're very vague. And I read that book and I was like, oh no, it means not everybody, and this is for real 21. Wow, life is there's so much going on at that part time of your life.
Speaker 2:And of course, you have gurus in india and you have these enlightened people, but the whole mindset is that they are people with white hair. They're really seen live, they're out in their mountains.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's really young to have that kind of experience. But I love Brian Weiss. Many Lives, many Masters, such an awesome book. And then he has another one. I know he has several, but Only Love is Real. Have you read?
Speaker 2:that one. It's so good.
Speaker 1:I love that book so much.
Speaker 2:Certain books are for keeps. These are books for keeps, right. You can't really let go of them. And the beauty of these books is right. There are times that you suddenly want to read one. You take it out, and at any step in your life, wherever you are, it's a validation, or there's a message, or it resonates differently with you.
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:It's a non-fessional For you on this journey it still resonates with you. It's beautiful, right? I love the path I am on. It's magical, it's blissful, really hard, unchallenging, but so is life. So I would rather be here than anywhere else to be honest with you. Yeah, it's been a beautiful journey.
Speaker 2:And then I got married. Um, more relationships brought into, more chaos, more triggers, and found then I had to. I, of course, became a monk and I think that was the catalyst because to be able to actually nurture that soul, I think I needed to upgrade myself further and I found myself extremely angry with her and losing it because of the triggers from the world. So I needed. I realized that there's a lot that I need to sort out within myself to be able to be a vessel, to be able to hear and then lead her through. So I remember I gave him up, gave her a placard, which was all of two, and I said anytime I lose it, use this placard, which said you're scaring me. And I think she had to use it only once because it was a call ready, because I started working on myself, literally just to be able to tell me you have to be a clean vessel. Oh yeah, to be that clean vessel is hard because and now I know why it's I'm not saying it's easier, but why so there are certain people who actually choose to leave their families both families and do not go further, observe celibacy and just take a different path in monasteries and ashrams, because it's easier to walk that without more triggers coming from the Berg family, the family's people.
Speaker 2:So I think these are all distractions and kind of cobwebs and binance, as I called it, because the highway is that journey that you take and the connection that is the between you and your higher source universe, whosoever you want to call it, and all of these are the bylanes, that kind of. Again, like Shakespeare said, these are the roles that you play and I think these are more of the karmic depths and the karmic give and take and whatever you need to resolve, take and whatever you need to resolve. But ultimately all the karmic challenges, all the depths that you're paying with these relationships, should act as a catalyst to bring you back on that highway and that journey. But instead we get lost in those only. So if you've had an issue with somebody, instead of taking it as all right, maybe I had something in the past life. I've paid it off, that's it.
Speaker 2:I don't want to take this further by re-engaging in the drama and come back to the highway. We go on then nurture grudges and then you, the violence don't take you further up in the highway, you gotta go. You're stuck there. Then you want to come back 20 years down, 30 years down, at the age 60. All right, let me come to this part and then take the journey. But you're stuck at say whatever you did in your past life and you're still stuck because you got lost in all those relationships which really mean nothing. When you have to go, the soul has to leave and go. Yeah, because the soul, whatever you've gained on this highway, is the capitalist that's going to take the soul for that. That's your, your soul work.
Speaker 1:Absolutely. I think inner work is something that maybe a lot of people don't fully understand, but the only way to move through things is really to do that inner work, and it can be challenging, I get it. Life is hard, relationships are hard, but I think what's helped me is just having that different perspective, understanding that we do have, that we do agree and that we are playing roles for each other. So sometimes the most difficult people in our lives are actually, in a way, obviously everyone's teachers good, bad, whatever, however you're perceiving it but sometimes those most difficult people are the ones that are actually helping you, like you talked about this earlier, the people who challenge you, who may be skeptical of what you're doing or the journey that you're on. It really does help you to go inward, and I think, too, for me it helped me. It forced me to, like, really fully understand and get a grasp on all the things what is energy, how does it work, so that I could talk about it and then, seeing it from a higher perspective, where, what is the? I now think when I'm going through things. What is the lesson for me here? What am I supposed to be learning from this experience?
Speaker 1:And I'm not saying it's comfortable, because it is often not. It can be still very frustrating. We're human, we're going to feel the feels right, so we're going to get angry, upset or frustrated, that's normal. We're human and we're having a human experience. But it's then being able to move yourself through that, feel those emotions, feel the things, understand where you're at, why you're feeling it, understand where you're at, why you're feeling it and do what you need to do, but see it and then move through. Okay, this is triggering me because of this and I never really accepted this. It's shocking to you, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:Chemically. I think that's why I give a very vivid example, because that's the highways. So when you are taking it head on and going to whatever you need to go through the pain and everything, you bang your Kami depths but you're still on the highway. But the moment you try and engage and say, oh, you've gone into the binary and you're off the path, you are off the path. I love the way how the source has made it. If you're off the path, you'll be stuck, you'll be stuck worse and there is no other way, 10 years down, 15 years down, but to again go through that emotion in a much worse manner. Unfortunately, probably that person is no more in your life, so you can't really. Really that's the beauty of human work because you can fast forward so much of karmic depths faster than you would do at the other planes. If you know how to do it, it's so much quicker, and I was.
Speaker 2:I usually have this. I always put these morning ramblings with the source. Whatever comes, messages that come through the guidance in the morning after my rituals and everything. On the other day I first put something about stay on the highway, don't go in the by lanes in a very nice coat and I put it across and a lot of people in the Smiths said, wow, that makes sense. And then I put and I said that nasty friend, friend, that annoying relative, that selfish family member is your biggest teacher. You know why? Because they're forcing you to actually learn. They're triggering what you haven't learned. They're showing you that pattern. So thank them and come within, see what's it's triggering you. Because he they're not. Their purpose as a soul is not to trigger you. Their purpose as a soul is to do their work and still have that karmic interplay.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, and we all have a role to play and we all have things to learn.
Speaker 2:And I know it's hard, because being a mother is the hardest role. You've got three children, like you mentioned. It's hard because we are learning. We are unlearning the patterns that have been passed on, and yet you want to pass on the right patterns and nurture someone. So, my God, it is daunting.
Speaker 1:It sure can be, it really can be no-transcript because maybe they're not ready.
Speaker 2:It's an intention. I was seeing a K-drama yesterday with my 16-year-old. It's called the 19 Lives or 19th Life, and it's all about, of course, and they're presenting it. It has to be dramatic and it has to be something has to be shown. Or, if they at the end of the 12th one, it is like a lady who remembers all her past lives and then she comes to how do I remember them? Why do I remember while others don't't?
Speaker 2:And it's because she literally cursed herself with the person who murdered her in the first life that I'm not gonna spare you, I'm gonna have a revenge. And at the end of all those 19 lives of suffering with that person around her, in the karmic impalance and the karmic cobwebs that she created, she comes back and her realization is I created it. And how do I undo it? By forgiving that person. It is that easy. And how beautifully they've shown that while she took this vow of coming back, coming back, she entangled all these lies around her, including her parents, mother, this, the perpetrator who killed her, all of them entangled, all of them. And she then come back and while she comes back, those people are still in there, that particular lies where she had passed away as a child and you know, you know how they have suffered, waiting for their childhood, said I'll come back, but they don't know. This is the girl that's come back because she's come in a different boat. So how we influence others around us.
Speaker 2:And then I was having a conversation with my six-year-old and I said all it takes is an intention to say self. You don't need to forgive people because what they've done is minor, what they've done is not hurtful or you are the bigger person. No, you will go through hurt, but let them go because remember, and what is my purpose? Not the by lanes, come back to the highway and when you have that intention, if you're stuck, you will find mentors like me to push you. You will attract them. The universe will send them because you put in your intention, like clearly, Absolutely, and it's so freeing too and letting go.
Speaker 1:It's just like you said. It's releasing the situation too and letting go. It's just like you said. It's releasing the situation, releasing a person, and it doesn't excuse whatever happened You're not saying anything like that but it's just releasing it and it's such a weight to let it go. Yeah, because you're giving your power to it. When you are so focused in anger, resentment, whatever it is, whether you like it or not, that is your intention and you're giving your power to that. So to me, it's work through your feels and let it go and then move on, Because where our energy, where our focus goes, energy flows. So we want to put our intention out there, to move, release that individual and get back on that highway and keep finding and evolving. And what's the next lesson or what? And you're so right, we do influence everything around us all the time.
Speaker 2:And that's why I was saying, right, when you pray, you pray in a group because the vibration together is higher. So everything is very simple. If I'm holding grudges, every single book, maybe it is from somebody in my family. But when I go out, I, with my moods, I add an energy which is which people don't understand. Forget about energy which you can't understand, but you will be constantly on the edge triggering, getting triggered at people at work. On the edge. Triggering, getting triggered are people at work. They're spoiling their mood. It's like a domino effect. Absolutely. How do you feel good when you meet a monk because he's so much at peace that you don't feel triggered. You don't need to have a guard, a boundary. All of us are like walking around with those boundaries, with guards oh, this person shouldn't hurt me. But we don't realize that all these hurts and all the power is within us.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker 2:So yeah, and then mothers taking it out on their children, not being able to nurture them, and I get why you are not able to support others, similar adults, on the journey. But if you are the awakened one and you're on the highway, you will only find people on the highway who have understood the concept. And then it's not about me having 22 years and somebody having 10 years. There's nobody greater. There's no maybe. On a certain thing, I am for the head and I shine the light on the path because you're struggling with it. Who knows five years down? You're for the head and you shine the light on the path because you're struggling with it. Who knows five years down? You're further ahead and you shine the light on a certain aspect. There is nobody senior, junior, there. It's nothing about age. It's about all of us on a similar purpose of walking the highway, shining our light, connected to the source and just kindness and compassion, and also not getting dragged on the bylines.
Speaker 2:One lesson just remember anything that's happening. Where is it taking you? If it's taking you into drama, that's the byline, honey. Come back on the highway. Just. If not anything, just pray and ask for guidance. If not anything, just focus on yourself. Go inwards.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, and so from that you talked a little bit earlier, you had mentioned, like rituals and spiritual practice. Do you want to give some examples or tips for those watching and listening that they can do daily that will help them stay on that highway?
Speaker 2:Perfect, why not? And again, we are all playing various roles. It doesn't. Honestly, meditation takes eight. You need to sit in a particular place, you need to have your routine. Not everybody can do that. Sometimes, even I struggle as a mother. So I say have moments of mindfulness, which is wherever you are, whatever you're doing, just go within. So there's so many times when you're driving from a particular place, which is a known route, and you, oh my gosh, where was I? I started, it's been half an hour and I reached mindfulness. You're within you. You're so comfortable with the route you've nothing to control that you're just within, simply those. So develop those moments of, if you're cooking, just be with yourself, because the mind is constantly running and getting exhausted. Be with yourself.
Speaker 2:I sometimes, for me, I usually love swimming. For me, the best thing that I love doing is swimming. I just back float and it blocks the ears with the water, so you can't hear anything from outside. All you can hear is sometimes your heartbeat or your breath, and I just net course my body. And that's when I then extend that connection from me to the universe. And if I there's something that is bothering me, I say you know what, I surrender it to you and, of course, this takes practice, like I said.
Speaker 2:Again, a very vivid example that I give how do you make friends with a stranger that you see every day on your walk or you know is there? How do you do that? The first day you just nod. The second day you smile A further smile Wave, can we? We have gotten lost in the bylines. We've gotten lost in the role playing, the wanting to be the ceo, wanting. These are. This is not everything is going to remain here when you go. These are not catalysts for your soul to achieve a further ed level of going further. On the other side, what will take is the catalyst, the capitalist, is the work that you've done, the kindness, the compassion. So the you come back, spend some time every day in the morning, connect with the catalyst source, then the unlimited source.
Speaker 2:Every human that you're dealing with has their own life, challenges, karmic depths and their struggles. They are a limited source. So to think, oh, I want to find that fairy tale love that's going to give me the love, and then you obviously face resentment and disappointment. Oh, I thought you're going to love me unconditionally. No, he cannot. She cannot because she has her own challenges and lessons to learn and conflicts to deal with. The unconditional love is only between you and the source and you and yourself.
Speaker 2:So work on that, so that you are not a burden to the relationships, the roles that you're playing at any age, at, even as a older parent, your children. You're expecting them to look after you or give you that love and care they will if they have to, but you're, she is there to look after you and you are there for yourself because you're not. No matter how much anybody loves you, kelly, at the end of the day, maybe you love flowers, but and your husband, your boyfriend, brings you yellow flowers one day and you're like, oh yeah, but today I have sense like having a red flower only. No, you know what you need at that end, so why do it for yourself so easy?
Speaker 2:yeah that's true. So to the universe, that the stranger that you've made, to that source, higher source, they smile, acknowledge. Build a relationship. Ask, because the rule is, unless you ask, your guides, your archangels, your spirit guides cannot help that's very true.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, you have to ask so and I like that you mentioned about everybody having karmic debts and everybody having things. So we all and we're all in this together, so having compassion and understanding for that, that, all these things that we're carrying maybe it just gives you a little bit of pause and you may react differently when you think about it in those terms. Right Okay, I don't really know what this person's deal is or what they're coming in with or what their past is or what they've dealt with.
Speaker 1:It just gives you a little bit, at least for me, when I had that understanding about everybody in life, it did. It does. I do pause now and think about that and why an individual might be angry or reacting in a certain way or treating people in a certain manner. So I wanted to thank you for that, because I think that's a really important perspective for people to think about.
Speaker 2:I have this realization. A few years ago, I was really hurt by somebody extremely close to me and while I was praying and asking for guidance, I heard my guide saying remember, as souls, nobody wants to hurt anybody. So these are the soul plans and so they're only behaving this way so that you are redirected towards your purpose. One and second who, in their mind, would hurt the closest member? So nobody wants, so their intention is not to hurt you. If, given a choice and being told that they're hurting you, they would never hurt you.
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 2:Closest of relationships, like a lot of people come to me and say my mom said this and I was really hurt and I said remember, honey, she had her own ancestral learnings that she had to do patterns, karmic gifts. Do you think your mother would ever hurt you? She said no, and she's. Oh, that's a huge burden of me that she didn't mean to hurt me. She's as much a product of her sufferings and her life at karmic depths as I am. And that is a game changer, because then there's no blame game, there's no resistance, you don't have to say anything. And I am not saying if the relationships are toxic, go back, because you may be having that understanding and they may not be, and then you do not again.
Speaker 2:Like I said, everything is a journey. Maybe you're further ahead, you realize that this you realized, had this realization they may not have it. So the idea here is not ego-based, that they should also understand this and we can have a great relationship again. No, you're on your path. If they don't get it, you are the person who's got this understanding. So stay there, but detach, do not trigger them, don't get triggered. Keep following their path, your own path. The moment you don't trigger them. It's not going to be that karmic relationship anymore. You've changed it.
Speaker 1:That's really powerful.
Speaker 2:And what they do out of it is their karmic. You are not responsible for anybody. So that's why this path is coming back to the affirmations, coming back to my daily routine in the morning, the first thing I wake up is a lot of gratitude for another day alive, for another thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. And then I obviously just get ready, push myself out, go for a walk, love bird songs, no matter how hot it is. And then I obviously have reminders to myself. I repeat myself a couple of times, reminding myself similar thing nobody wants to say whatever has happened about the past day which is not resolved, and I want to. I do, but resolve everything that's happened in the day at the end of the day, because I don't want to have that lesson now. I've cleared 40 years, I don't want to add on more, so clear it, but that, whatever the remnants are the next morning I remind myself remember, they don't want to hurt you. Remember this is not their part, this is your part. And then do a little bit of affirmations you're unloved. If I need love, you love.
Speaker 2:Get down, chunking the universe and asking the universe what I'm struggling, I need help, my guides, who's you? Who just have to say it loud, not even allowed to yourself. This is what I need help with. Can you guide me? Can you show me signs, and then the signs to those strangers. Then the signs start coming. You start recognizing them, telling them for them, acknowledge them. So you made friends with the universe. Then you make friends with the signs that they send you and then they become the Hansel and Gretel, the fairy tale, the breadcrumbs. They show this glow for you and you are not lost anymore on that highway.
Speaker 1:Absolutely. And I think once you start seeing the signs, you just they're all around all the time, absolutely. And you, just once you start seeing them, you're going to just see more and more. And, like you said, I'm just saying thank you.
Speaker 1:I know, before we got on I told you there was like a conflict between two of my siblings and I had gone over to my sister's house to try to make sure she was OK and help her with the things. And I went into her bathroom and there was this little white feather and when I found that I was like OK, everything's going to be all right, this is all going to be OK. It's just a sign. So we're all very supported and I think sometimes people forget that we are very supported and I think sometimes people forget that we are very supported just because you don't see it or hear it all the time. But we're very supported in this life and I've seen many people say if we actually knew who walked this life with us, we would have no fear. We would have no, because we are all so supported and everybody on the other side wants us to be successful. They want us to be.
Speaker 2:That's why I say moments of mindfulness are so important, because once you get into that practice, somebody maybe, if it was not, you would see that feather and ignore it. But because you were mindful, you saw that feather, acknowledged it, and I'm supported. It's funny. Yesterday I was dealing with something and I needed a bit of a sign to see if I'm going on the right path. Am I supposed to take this up or not? And I was inside and then I opened my fridge for grabbing something and I see something and I'm like what is this apple seed doing here? And I just brush it past out of fridge onto the floor but suddenly it starts working and I see it's a ladybird. I'm like wow, oh my God, it is hot. The universe knows I'm not going to step out. So a ladybird must have come with the grocery three hours in the fridge because it came in nine in the morning but it waited till 12.30 when I asked for the sign in the afternoon. And then, but the frizz at that time thought it's an apple seed because. And then it starts walking on the floor and I was so touched with tears in my eyes and I was like, oh my God, thank you, because sometimes you're so lost and all you need, and then, when you receive so much love and support, who really loves one human?
Speaker 2:I think it comes with a lot of baggage. Love from humans comes from a lot of baggage because it's give and take, it's conditioner. It comes with a lot of strings attached. I don't, and the highway that you're on. The soul is limitless, boundless, stringless. It wants to fly free. The reason I have taken this birth is to break these strings, karmic depths, because in the human birth it's faster. So use that opportunity and oh, it's bliss. These signs, these signs are oh, what do I say? Magic, good they are.
Speaker 1:They can come in the form. It could be a song, it could be. You could be see a series of numbers. You could um you. It could be an animal thing, like you see an animal a significant animal shiny pennies. Yes, it's all over, and once you start tuning into that, you're going to start seeing them everywhere and you're going to realize, really, how supported you are in this life, and it really is magical.
Speaker 2:It's a beautiful world. I always listen to the song and it says oh, what a wonderful world, Such Absolutely it is.
Speaker 1:Absolutely. Now you work with people and you help them to reach, transform and empower themselves. Do you want to give us an idea of what like a session working with you is like? How you help somebody who comes to you with that idea, of what like a session working with you is like, how you help somebody who comes to you with that sort of intention? How do I figure out why I'm here, what I'm supposed to be doing? All the big questions that we have when we start to awaken and be on this journey so I?
Speaker 2:there is nothing specific to the sessions that I do they are. They could range from somebody who's very new on the barge to why happening what's coming, I've lost the job. Sometimes people are just again in, stuck in the by lanes, and I use my care, my psychic gifts, to actually reassure them, tell them what I can see. Maybe the job is taking longer. Of course, the years of experience teaches you how to put things forward and not really say, oh, I see it coming in nine months. So not getting hassled and losing hope, but putting it in a way where I guide you, yet I put you on a path of manifestation. But I use these gifts to say, all right. But let me ask you, why have you lost the job? Is this a pattern? So I'll use these gifts to go back in your past, in your life, in the past, in the present life, of course, in the past incidences where you're holding certain patterns. Are they coming from ancestors? Is it a family lineage thing, or is it from this lifetime? And because we all have patterns, and then, when you come to me for a session, for a reading, how do you know what was this? So I basically take out those energetic imprints of those episodes in your lives and ask you what happened at this age? Could you let me know? And then at this age, and then you're like, oh, I know where you're going. These are, this happened.
Speaker 2:So some people have this with forgiveness and the it. Like I said, all it needs is acknowledgement sometimes and validation. So it's sometimes as simple as can you just let this grudge go? That's it. Do you see? That grudge is leading you to so many issues with the male partners that you're finding the kind of people you are attracting in your life jobs you are attracting. So readings could go from just having validations to as simple as a lot of people come to me for pictures with their love life, their love partners, people with marriages.
Speaker 2:I always tell them I'm not taking the decision on your behalf. I will tell you what I get, because I am not getting involved in your karmic, anything karmic, anything karmic with you, because I want you five years dancing, shilpi told me. So I did it. Sorry, I am your guide. I will tell you what I see. The decision will be yours. It's okay. You make a mistake? Come back to me after two months. I had this today morning. I didn't listen to you and it's led to a fistfight today. You told me to disconnect. Never mind, this is how we learn Now let's see what you need to do now. So there's no wrong or right, there's no shame here, there's no criticism here, there's no spanking here.
Speaker 1:And I think there's so much power and you were talking about the patterns and cycles Just having somebody be able to go through that with you, because it gives you clarity, because you're able then to look back and say, yes, I do see this cycle and pattern. I do see how this has come up in relationships over and over again, whatever type of relationships it is 80% of the work is done there.
Speaker 2:I had this 75-year year old lady who'd come to me and said I had this constant dream every single night. Can you help me? And I was like you led to me for a reason. I do not know if I can help you because you're here for a reason. If you're not to me and I myself do not know what guidance will flow through me. It's not like it's a presentation that I've presented and read. So let's sit down and see. You have faith in me, I have faith in my guides. Let's surrender and flow. And so my first question was what happened at this age? And she went blank pale and she started crying and she said nobody in my life knows this. I said all right, that's okay.
Speaker 2:And the dream was very different. It was like stuck on a ship on a particular place with specific people. Every single night, the same dream. And when she talked about those things, that thing, and I said look, I want you to know you need to release the shame that was given on you at that time. Just release all of that. And then she left and she said do you think the dreams will go? But there's no relationship between. I said you know what? This is what was meant to come through. I have done the work, you've done the work. Let's see.
Speaker 2:The next day morning she sends me a message. No dream. I was like like, okay, then let's thank her bites, but that doesn't mean it will not come. This has been four years. Every single month, I receive a message from her saying you freed me. And I said, linda, I didn't free you, I guided you to free yourself. You were holding yourself hostage over that guilt and shame. So, as your guide, your mentor, I hold the space for you. I lead you to your inner light, which will enlighten the areas that are dark in you yourself. We are all healers.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and so often we don't even realize that Absolutely, we all have that healer within. It's just realizing that we are powerful, we are extremely powerful. Individuals and people just don't realize it because we're. Often the society tells us we're not powerful. Society says that we're powerless, we have to go without that. We're powerless, we have to go without. Everything is at least that I was taught is you have to go outward to find help or you have to do this or that, but really you don't. You just have to ignite that inner healer that lies within each and every one of us and finding a person who can hold space. I don't do you want to talk about that, because when we do that, when we work with individuals're holding space, and how I talk about it is we're just creating an environment where that inner healer ignites and remembers who it is and that, and it's not me doing the work for an individual, it's that person just remembering that and it's coming through them in sessions.
Speaker 2:I would say, when I hold this space, it's a place like I said it begins with. No one is above each other. We're all on the same path. You may be stuck in the mandates, not on the high lane. Thank you for honoring that acknowledgement and thank you for being able to listen to me, but nothing, more, nothingness. I am not your guru, I am not. Let's not do that, because then we are going in a.
Speaker 2:This is ego-based. I don't want to do that. This is a path of compassion. I'm not here to feed my ego. To be honest with you, kelly, when I started doing this, the channeling was to guide me, because I kept asking guide me, I'm struggling. I'm struggling and I often joke with my conversations on him and I said I was asking you for guidance for myself, and this is collateral damage. You brought in people who needed help and then I had to help them and then it began, the readings began, and then you know, but then I sit down. I remember one I once I was very upset and then I said but this way I'm extending the light to others. So maybe this is a way of fulfilling my karmic depths faster, making my lessons easier and sharing my wisdom, because at the end of the day, you only rise by lifting others.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, absolutely. We all have something to share. We can all learn from each other. No matter what stage you're at, you can learn, and I feel like we're always. We're on this path. As long as we're living and breathing, we're going to be learning and evolving.
Speaker 2:It's never something that you have to achieve. And so when they come to me, I say you know what? If you've begun now, you're still not late. There's never the right time or today is the right time. You were meant to be here today. And there is no judgment. You can be your own little self, because when the messages start flowing in and you, when I'm asking you to speak about a particular age and an event, it it's hard. They don't want to talk about it. I have to say what happened at that time and remember. Sometimes it happens that the person is denying it until the end of the session and just when they're getting in the car I didn't tell you this. You know what, you pointed it right. And then they start crying and I'm like honey, no problem, let's sit down with it next time problem.
Speaker 1:Let's sit down with it next time. You were not ready. It's okay, it's okay, oh yeah. So I mean we all through a an array of things, and some things are so painful and so traumatic that it does take some time and it's the conditioning that we've been brought with be strong.
Speaker 2:This is not okay, society. When I hold the space, let's operate from the heart. Of course, my guides are there, I connect with their guides and I ensure that the spaces. So a lot of people come to me and say you know what? I just want to cry. Please cry, sit down, let's cry, let it all out, because then I can connect with you.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, absolutely. How freeing is that right just to be able to be in a space, in a place, where somebody, where you can just let it all go, you know?
Speaker 2:tender, wonderful moment. Sometimes I cry with them and I feel it. I'm sorry, but don't worry, it's gonna be okay if you're led here. There is a reason absolutely shilpi.
Speaker 1:This has been so awesome. Where can people find you? Where can they connect with you so they can work with you?
Speaker 2:so I my email is at gmailcom. Instagram, facebook, awakening with shilpi with a double l, because that's how it came to be. When I step out of the room after channeling, it's Shilpi with a single N the mum who plays all the roles, so that there's no ego that steps in any of it. So it's Shilpi with a double N. Awakening with Shilpi on Instagram, facebook, and I've got my website, wwwawakeningwithshilpicom. And if you do not find any of those and you chance upon this podcast, then maybe you are left to lead me through this podcast. I personally feel, when we are ready and we ask the universe for a teacher, a guide, a mentor, somebody to hold the space, the one that's aligning with our energy and vibration and that is meant to be, steps in somehow or the other, I 100% agree with that.
Speaker 1:When the student is ready, the teacher appears. I love that so much.
Speaker 2:I think that's a beautiful Once you ask, it's very important to ask.
Speaker 1:Absolutely, shilpi, and I honor the beautiful light you are in this world. You're doing some really awesome transformative work and I just really like everything that you're doing.
Speaker 2:Thank you, kelly. Likewise, it was such a wonderful conversation with you. I know what you are doing and, in your own beautiful ways, I think us on the highway is such a beautiful journey. Yeah, thank you. Thank you for honoring me and I honor the Kenyan hero.
Speaker 1:Oh, thank you. Thank you for honoring me and I honor the candidate Nero. Oh, thank you. Thank you so much.