Ashley Taylor Wellness Podcast

050 - Love At First Sight? Vetting For Healthy Relationships, Polarity, Intuition Vs. Impulse With Taylor Burrowes PhD

November 27, 2023 Ashley Taylor Season 1 Episode 50
050 - Love At First Sight? Vetting For Healthy Relationships, Polarity, Intuition Vs. Impulse With Taylor Burrowes PhD
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Ashley Taylor Wellness Podcast
050 - Love At First Sight? Vetting For Healthy Relationships, Polarity, Intuition Vs. Impulse With Taylor Burrowes PhD
Nov 27, 2023 Season 1 Episode 50
Ashley Taylor

https://www.instagram.com/taylorburrowes/?hl=en
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2:11 - Taylor’s story

4:00 - How common is sexual trauma?

4:49 - Trauma could have been normalized

6:00 - Ashley’s story

6:43 - Identity & how we see ourselves after trauma or even being a single mom

9:00 - Amazing story of Ashley’s grandmother finding love at 78, traveling the world

11:00 - Influenced by the media

13:00 - Age gaps

17:50 - Vetting

20:11 - What to look for when vetting

23:50 - Interests are not indicative to compatibility

24:30 - Intuition vs. Impulse (gut feeling vs. being triggered)

25:30 - Stockholm syndrome (going back to an abuser because it feels safe)

30:00 - Love at first sight

31:40 - Masculine role vs. feminine role

32:30 - Pacing

34:30 - Enthusiasm often comes from the feminine, and pacing often comes from the masculine

36:00 - Boundaries when dating

38:15 - Polarity

40:40 - 80/20 rule works for Taylor personally

43:33 - Date planning, leave it for the masculine? 

45:30 - Love is not control

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Show Notes

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2:11 - Taylor’s story

4:00 - How common is sexual trauma?

4:49 - Trauma could have been normalized

6:00 - Ashley’s story

6:43 - Identity & how we see ourselves after trauma or even being a single mom

9:00 - Amazing story of Ashley’s grandmother finding love at 78, traveling the world

11:00 - Influenced by the media

13:00 - Age gaps

17:50 - Vetting

20:11 - What to look for when vetting

23:50 - Interests are not indicative to compatibility

24:30 - Intuition vs. Impulse (gut feeling vs. being triggered)

25:30 - Stockholm syndrome (going back to an abuser because it feels safe)

30:00 - Love at first sight

31:40 - Masculine role vs. feminine role

32:30 - Pacing

34:30 - Enthusiasm often comes from the feminine, and pacing often comes from the masculine

36:00 - Boundaries when dating

38:15 - Polarity

40:40 - 80/20 rule works for Taylor personally

43:33 - Date planning, leave it for the masculine? 

45:30 - Love is not control

Follow me on Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/ashleytaylorwellness/

https://www.instagram.com/highmaintenancehippiepodcast/

Interested in 1:1 coaching? Click here: https://ashleytaylorwellness.as.me/schedule/8230ed17