Ep51 How My Mother Met My Father/A Chance Encounters on the B Train

Twists of fate and chance encounters shape our stories, just as they shaped my mothers astonishing 45-year marriage, which all started with a glance on the B train. Join us as we explore the unpredictable nature of life, from the eerie recollections of a potentially haunted house to the difference in the rent prices of yesteryear and the economic realities of today. This episode, love, resilience, and the pursuit of dreams collide. 

This Episode is a celebration of the unsung heroes in our lives.....our parents. We acknowledge the profound impact our supporters have on our journeys. It's a heartfelt tribute to those who have been our bedrock, culminating in a belated Mother's Day salutation that honors all caretakers, whether mothers or single fathers, who have dedicated their lives to nurturing the next generation. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:07

Welcome to Getting Out the podcast. Well, you're saying you sound better, though, right? Yeah, I sound a lot better than I normally do.

Speaker 2: 0:17

No, it's because you think All right you always told me this that you don't hear your real voice.

Speaker 1: 0:23

Absolutely not. Just like you don't see yourself when you look in a mirror. Yeah, we talk about that all the time.

Speaker 3: 0:28

It's funny how you said that, because someone told me that and I always stuck with it. You never in life can see yourself what you really look like. Well, you know what you can do the way other people see you.

Speaker 2: 0:39

Wait a minute, wait, wait.

Speaker 1: 0:40

If you look in the mirror, and you take a handheld mirror or you have a mirror behind you. The reflection from that mirror into the mirror is what you look like to other people.

Speaker 2: 0:54

That's different yeah that's what you're saying. It's like the picture of you, of what other people see on a picture. That's how you look. That's how other people see you.

Speaker 3: 1:04

But when you look in the mirror.

Speaker 2: 1:05

That's not really what you're. It's like the reverse of yourself and that's very weird too, how it's like the camera flips, you like it's just like when you see an ambulance and you look in your rear view mirror you see it says ambulance. But if you look at it, it's backwards if you look yeah, it's written backwards on the front of the ambulance like Turn yourself a little this way.

Speaker 1: 1:25

So that you can talk to us.

Speaker 2: 1:26

Kevin, which way Turn this way?

Speaker 1: 1:27

Are we recording right now. Just turn your seat this way.

Speaker 2: 1:34

So that you can look at Kevin.

Speaker 1: 1:35

Oh, that's what I was trying to do, and then turn them.

Speaker 2: 1:37

Then push it back, no, no, back towards the cabinet, mom. Yeah, and now push the mic in front of you a little bit to the sides. There you go, and that's better, better, a little closer.

Speaker 3: 1:51

So when you can look at me, there you go, perfect. Thank you, there you go.

Speaker 2: 1:56

Now you can see him, you can see me.

Speaker 3: 1:58

You can see everybody.

Speaker 1: 1:59

Everything except for me over there.

Speaker 2: 2:01

Yeah, because you're blinded by the light, except for me over there. Yeah, because you're blinded by the light. Yes, but if?

Speaker 3: 2:05

you want to talk to the fans?

Speaker 2: 2:06

say hi, yeah absolutely, but it's Mother's Day. It was Mother's Day yesterday. We're recording this on Monday Monday. Yeah, monday Monday, nature or damn, yeah, but yeah, it was Mother's Day yesterday. What did you? So you know, you guys know my brother, we do the show and we're starting our own.

Speaker 1: 2:30

You went to work with Anthony. Yes, yesterday's Mother's Day was Take your Mom to Work Day. Okay, and I was his sous chef. I didn't even know that was a thing.

Speaker 3: 2:39

I knew there was a Take your Kid to Work Day.

Speaker 1: 2:41

I made it up, jesse, oh what.

Speaker 2: 2:44

I love it you made that you were just saying that to me.

Speaker 1: 2:46

Take your mother to work day.

Speaker 2: 2:49

So Anthony, but Anthony then had to make who decided that.

Speaker 1: 2:52

Anthony said I want you to come with me to work on Mother's Day.

Speaker 2: 2:56

We'll spend the day together that's so nice of him and you'd be amazed.

Speaker 1: 3:01

They love him. He's got at least 15 people under his wing, I believe it. They all respect him. It was okay, boss, I got you. Yes, anything he wanted, done, they did, and they killed it. Three seedings for brunch Wow, three seedings. And it's not assisted living, it's independent living. Okay, yeah that's different. Yeah, they take care of themselves the apartments, yeah.

Speaker 2: 3:28

One bedroom apartment. Doesn't it look like a hotel room? It's like a fucking.

Speaker 1: 3:30

It's gorgeous $3,500 for a one bedroom. Yeah, that's crazy. And breakfast and dinner they get complimentary. Well, it's included in that. $3,500. The utilities and the two bedroom is $3,500.

Speaker 2: 3:46

The utilities and the two bedroom is $6,500.

Speaker 3: 3:48

Wow, so I worked at the same place that Anthony works at right, but yours was assisted.

Speaker 2: 3:52

But just a different branch. No, mine was both kind of. There was women who were allowed to do whatever they want, leave whenever they want, and then there was the memory care unit.

Speaker 1: 4:03

Yeah, they have medics on site, but they don't have doctors that come in and check on them periodically. It's when they want someone they call.

Speaker 2: 4:12

Yeah, I think that's how it is with ours too, or the one I was at. It was awesome, it was great, but the thing is is like they're paying so much money, right so, and they ask for something they should be able.

Speaker 1: 4:27

You're paying that much money, like if you want french toast. Like, oh, they'll make a few, I know, but at my place.

Speaker 2: 4:31

It was like a different story. It was like huffing and puffing and I don't want to do anything. You know, I mean, but you're getting, you're? They're paying that much money. You want the best, yeah, oh yeah, I mean, it looks great, but you better also take care of them as well. You know, I tried to be as nice and polite as I possibly could.

Speaker 1: 4:50

Well, it was fun, it was fun, the residents loved it, yeah, so what did you do? Like, what was your part? I did you know the edible decorations Okay, edible arrangements. Decorations, okay, edible arrangements, edible arrangements. It's not called that anymore, it's called edibles, which is kind of yeah, we think, yeah, I set up the fruit platter, we did pineapples, we put flat pineapple flowers in there and then I did parfaits yogurt, fruit granola yogurt.

Speaker 1: 5:18

And we did that. And then we set up outside up. Well, I didn't set up, his crew did. And Anthony did the pasta table. He did Alfredo and Pomodoro. What's the Pomodoro? It's a chunky tomato sauce with lots of garlic and basil. And he did Jared did the carving station, which was roast beef. They had an omelet station, an egg station, all the sausages, bacon, french toast, chicken and waffles. They had everything, everything and it was very well run.

Speaker 2: 5:52

Yeah, that's not the way that I was at.

Speaker 1: 5:55

Well, this was a Mother's Day brunch. You could bring your family. They could invite their family in. We had a couple of those.

Speaker 2: 6:00

I was there for a couple of events that were similar to that, but yeah, no, it wasn't really like that.

Speaker 1: 6:08

No, it was fun. It was different. It definitely was. I can't even tell you how tired I was this night.

Speaker 3: 6:14

It's a good time.

Speaker 2: 6:15

Well, yeah, that's how it is. You're not used to working a full shift. I was up at 6 o'clock, I know, Got there at 7.30.

Speaker 1: 6:25

We left at 2.30. Right, so yeah, it was a long day.

Speaker 2: 6:26

I didn't know. I thought he went to work later than that, though.

Speaker 1: 6:28

Well, no, he does. He went in yesterday because it was the Mother's Day brunch.

Speaker 2: 6:33

Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.

Speaker 1: 6:35

He wasn't supposed to work. It was his day off.

Speaker 2: 6:37

So you had fun.

Speaker 1: 6:41

Anthony had. That matters. I got to see him in his element, so that was nice. That's awesome.

Speaker 2: 6:44

I didn't know he, because he doesn't talk much about any of that stuff, which is Because I guess he's humble. I didn't know he was doing his thing like that. I sent him a text. I was like I'm proud of you. I heard you're killing it over there, Got some underlings.

Speaker 1: 7:00

And they loved him. They loved him.

Speaker 2: 7:03

Everybody. Why wouldn't they? I know that's.

Speaker 1: 7:05

Anthony, he's a good guy, like you sometimes. Sometimes, yeah, most of the time. Yeah, well, I had my. You have your moments, just like I do.

Speaker 3: 7:14

Yeah, you too. Yes, I do.

Speaker 1: 7:16

You're a good guy.

Speaker 3: 7:17

I'm a good guy, yes, but I have some bad times.

Speaker 1: 7:20

With a voice that's knockout outrageous. Yeah, that's what people don't understand, oh my god, I don't think Kev understands why I heard you do Elvis.

Speaker 3: 7:30

Right.

Speaker 1: 7:31

I thought it was a recording you were singing over.

Speaker 3: 7:34

People say that it's like oh, it sounded like a jukebox.

Speaker 1: 7:37

It was great. And then he says you do Sinatra really well. Yeah, that's where.

Speaker 2: 7:41

I think he would kill it Because, imagine, because you know in New York you're from Brooklyn, right, what part of Brooklyn? I always get confused.

Speaker 1: 7:50

All over Brooklyn Bensonhurst Bay Ridge and then Park Slope and Jersey, do me a favor, move the microphone a little bit out of your face.

Speaker 2: 8:01

No, no, no. This way the way I'm pointing why closer, no, no, no. This way the way I'm pointing why closer, no, not closer, like out of your face. Because there you go, okay, there you go, just because you got to see the beautiful face she used to be a model.

Speaker 3: 8:14

That was you. Oh, my God.

Speaker 2: 8:16

It was a weird situation. I was downstairs in my. I was young, I was in the library. We used to live in this big friggin' house that my mom hates. Oh, okay, she does not want, like look at her face. No, no, no.

Speaker 1: 8:31

It was haunted.

Speaker 2: 8:33

She's seen some shit. You know I haven't seen as much. I've seen a couple of things.

Speaker 1: 8:39

You saw things happen when you got your license, when you were a senior in high school. Everything started. The shit hit the fan.

Speaker 2: 8:46

Yeah, see so she thinks that when all of us grew up at the house Like, only liked kids, so okay, they wanted us out. It started like, like yeah, it was crazy. Yeah, everyone was just that was in the house. She was getting hurt, falling.

Speaker 1: 9:04

Surgery on my foot. I had rods and pins put in it.

Speaker 3: 9:07

What though? What happened?

Speaker 1: 9:08

Peter got out early enough. My older, your older brother, got out early enough. He went away to college and he never came back to the house so he was fine. He was fine, Anthony. Shit started. I don't like to curse, but things started with. Anthony and then Jesse. As soon as he got his permit, he got in an accident. I know with you in the car In the school parking lot Right in the south parking lot.

Speaker 1: 9:31

He he rear-ended somebody. It was a tap, but he still yeah, a tap, there was a tap, that Still, I was like everything was fine, I was killing it with the band.

Speaker 2: 9:42

For me it was great. So she was, and also the school didn't understand how I had so many absences but yet I had a 3.2. I had some A+. I was in music theory, ap theory. They were like what, how is?

Speaker 1: 10:02

this possible. Then he was in Tommy. He played the lead in Tommy.

Speaker 3: 10:05

Yeah, we won't be saying that too.

Speaker 1: 10:06

He played in chess. He was one of the leads in chess I can't believe I won that Best Actor thing and he won the Bucks County Best.

Speaker 2: 10:14

Actor Award. I was so out of my element, kev, because I was like the weed-smoking kid, you know, like the renegade that my girlfriend's parents, like my ex-girlfriends, was like don't hang out with him, he's like the worst and yeah. So like I was known for getting, like I was known for getting in trouble outside of school, but I was also known for just being a like funny, always, yeah, happy guy. So, like my teachers loved me, yeah, so they, even though I missed classes, they would, you know, throw me a little slack, exactly, even for the plays and stuff I didn't really want I had to try out. They came up to me and approached me about it, did they not? They came up to me and said Listen, we know that you can sing. We have no guys that can sing.

Speaker 1: 11:00

He started when he was in kindergarten. They would make him sing and he'd get solos. He was the big one no kindergarten. He was the only one you heard. His voice stood out above everybody else. All through elementary school, the middle school you started with that other girl that was singing. Talking to the microphone, that girl that was singing with the dark hair. She was in the video, not Buble, what's his name?

Speaker 2: 11:24

Bieber. You're talking about Bieber. What was her name? Oh, you're talking about Jenna DeMartini. Yeah, she, so all right. That's crazy too that you said that Our my band, for Pete's sake. So Zach, my drummer, went on to make.

Speaker 1: 11:39

We know this. You talked about this already. Went on to make.

Speaker 2: 11:43

Chitty Bang right. Or Jenna I didn't talk about this went on to be in the soap opera. Yes, that. I remember what's that soap opera called.

Speaker 1: 11:52

There was so many of them All my Children, all my Children, or something.

Speaker 2: 11:55

She had a part in that. She was the girlfriend in the first Justin Bieber girlfriend video. Yeah, she was in that video. Oh, okay, she's gorgeous. Yeah, she was gorgeous. What is it called? Pete winds up going to teach English, or no, that was Jake in Japan. I think Pete's like a surgeon or something. All right, kiss, yeah, wow Kiss, but Eric Luba's killing it Luba is doing great Love, luba, love.

Speaker 3: 12:23

But Eric Luba is killing it. Luba is doing great.

Speaker 2: 12:24

Luba is literally playing around, like travels around to play music. That's what he does. All he does is play music he's played with like really good underground bands Do you talk to him at all, yeah all the time, all the time. He's a really good kid. He's just in Colorado, he lives in Colorado but he is really just playing music all the time. I was honored to be on stage with that kid To say that he was someone that I played with, just like Phoebe Ryan, remember with If the Shoe Fits.

Speaker 1: 12:56

Those were the days. They were good days when we weren't home.

Speaker 3: 12:59

Yeah you go, we had good days when we were all out of the house.

Speaker 2: 13:03

Well, I was also younger then too, so that was also part of it.

Speaker 3: 13:07

I guess yes.

Speaker 2: 13:09

You're saying after high school? Because, yeah, when I went away to college too, I got a call from what. It was like the FBI or something, asking me where I was. And they're like we're at your front door and you were at the restaurant at the time and I was like what, what are you talking about? I'm at college in Connecticut. What's going on? Like well, we can't explain this over the phone, Remember that. I remember that. And then I had to call her. I'm like Ma, there's a detect. I was about to go All right, so this is hilarious.

Speaker 2: 13:38

That day, actually, so I woke up late and I had in one of the one of those tests called like those midterms. It was in my midterm test that day. Okay, I woke up, I had my glasses on the side of the bed, I rolled over and I broke the left side. I remember this like it was yesterday, was so upset, like I'm running late to my midterm, and then, all of a sudden, I got a phone call and the phone call was that and so I no midterm, I missed the midterm. I'm on the phone trying to figure out what's going on. Call her. She calls the FBI agent, they talk. Then my mom calls me and says that yeah, that's like a warrant out for my arrest.

Speaker 1: 14:18

And if you turn yourself in when you come home? Yeah, no-transcript.

Speaker 2: 14:28

And that was life, and that was the story, and now things are kind of going on an even keel.

Speaker 1: 14:36

Okay, he's doing better, he's in recovery, he's clean, except for the weed, and yeah, thank god, it's legal. Yeah, I know the medication that he needs to get off of is the weed is helping him do that.

Speaker 2: 14:53

Yeah, absolutely, and it's got me. I was on like six, yeah, and that's a huge thing too.

Speaker 3: 15:00

It's like she's reading my mind. Yeah, that's what I would have thought too. It's a huge, huge thing.

Speaker 2: 15:04

And I see so many people too Like we have a couple older people around our neighborhood that they're in pain. They don't want to take these painkillers, they know what it does to the kids and stuff. So they're trying to figure out another source and the edibles work, the edibles really do work.

Speaker 1: 15:24

Cbd, what is it called?

Speaker 2: 15:25

CBD.

Speaker 3: 15:26

All that stuff. Calm down, relax.

Speaker 2: 15:29

I know the first time I ever smoked weed was when I stole it from your purse in your closet. I was going I knew something because I knew you smoked. It was sixth grade. I was like, let me, I want to go see. And you had the big ass walk-in closet too. So I would go into a room and it was a big ass room and then to the left was like a makeup room and then it was the bathroom. Then you had a walk-in closet, the whole side of the house was a bedroom.

Speaker 1: 16:02

The bedroom was a suite.

Speaker 2: 16:03

It was fucking ridiculous bro, it was a heater in there.

Speaker 1: 16:07

I loved it.

Speaker 2: 16:07

I don't know why I hate that. She hates the house.

Speaker 1: 16:10

I loved it. I don't know why I hate that. She hates the house. I hated it At the end. I loved it. I fucking loved it. We had a spiral staircase going up to the bedroom.

Speaker 2: 16:17

It was the whole thing. We had a spiral staircase, the basement was all fit.

Speaker 1: 16:21

Tony finished it. We had a bathroom, a full bath. Down there we had a library.

Speaker 2: 16:26

Oh yeah, we had a gym, we had our own.

Speaker 1: 16:33

We had a gym and outside the gym we built, we put a hot tub and had slats that you could open and close so you go out there in a winter cave.

Speaker 3: 16:38

I mean, you told me about the hot tub too.

Speaker 2: 16:41

I didn't even realize of how much of a magnet like. When I brought women over to my house they were like oh my, we had a waterfall on the side of the house.

Speaker 3: 16:49

We had three waterfalls, three waterfalls with two lakes, two ponds With a bridge that went over the ponds.

Speaker 1: 16:54

Was it two ponds?

Speaker 2: 16:55

Yes, one at the top and one at the bottom.

Speaker 1: 16:57

No one, it was two. Yeah, a bridge. One, two, three waterfalls With a bridge going over. One of the rocky waterfalls was crazy Huge fish.

Speaker 2: 17:09

Each one of them were mad expensive, so we thought people were stealing them. Oh wow, and when we asked the guy, the fish guy, and what did he say?

Speaker 1: 17:15

He said that the birds were probably eating them, or?

Speaker 2: 17:17

taking them, wow, and they're worth a shit ton of money A gazebo we had outside, yeah, but you know what?

Speaker 1: 17:26

I don't care, we're talking about it. I love my dad and her. Somebody hung himself.

Speaker 3: 17:30

Yeah, okay, so tell me the backstory of that. Then Okay, In that same house. Then yeah.

Speaker 1: 17:36

All right, peter. When he was had his Chewy my bird up in his room, who is a dog?

Speaker 2: 17:41

bird, by the way. Okay, oh, he thinks he's a dog.

Speaker 1: 17:46

Yes, he walks around the floor and everything he would have up in the morning. One morning he woke up scratches all over his back like fingernails, like a chalkboard. Right right, none of us did it, yeah, and the bird was locked up. He didn't get out of the cage. Where did it come from? Right the heck? That was the first incident, right, yeah? Second, I'm trying to think there was so many things would disappear. Oh, I remember that that was crazy.

Speaker 1: 18:16

Things would actually disappear, and then she would say and then I'd just like close the cabinet or close the refrigerator and just say, please, you gotta help me out here, put it back, no I remember one time you were like stop fucking with me.

Speaker 2: 18:29

What's wrong with me? I was a young kid, I didn't know what was going on.

Speaker 1: 18:32

I remember she time you were like stop fucking around with me. Wow, I was a young kid.

Speaker 2: 18:34

I didn't know what was going on. I remember she had a can opener right.

Speaker 1: 18:36

Oh, that disappeared.

Speaker 2: 18:37

It disappeared and she put it away. I saw her put it away. She was freaking out and this shit just came back.

Speaker 1: 18:44

Yeah, that happened quite a few times. Like what the fuck it happens to me in this room.

Speaker 2: 18:49

Like what the fuck it happens to me in this room and she doesn't believe me, I'll be bugging out for like an hour and a half, yeah but you're very unorganized, so you and I both know yes, you are, I was, yes, you are.

Speaker 1: 18:58

Not anymore, okay, not anymore, I'm trying Once a week. He tells me Ma I can't find it. What'd you do, ghosts? I'm telling you there's no ghosts here, kev, because he'll find it the next day, kev. Yeah, that's what I mean. The ghost is funny. You know what?

Speaker 3: 19:14

You borrowed it for a little bit, you know what I got to agree with him. I had to happen. I had a lot of experiences that you guys are talking about, and with Jesse I would put my Xbox controller right there in front of my TV and then I'll go downstairs and I'll come back upstairs and it's not there and I'm looking everywhere. I'm going crazy. I'm throwing everything everywhere. Kev your brothers were definitely fucking with you the next day.

Speaker 1: 19:39

You find it and it was. Was it back where you put it?

Speaker 3: 19:42

It was right where I put it and I'm like did I pass out? Did I? I didn't do drugs?

Speaker 1: 19:46

What the fuck's going on.

Speaker 2: 19:48

That's crazy.

Speaker 3: 19:49

So I'm just like I had a couple experiences like that Like a pencil. I'm like where the fuck did I just put that pencil? I put it right there. Or my phone, like where's my phone? Coffee.

Speaker 1: 19:59

A container of coffee I keep in the refrigerator. I go back to the coffee. There's no coffee in there, yeah and door and yell at whatever it was, and when I open it up it's right there in front of me. I'm talking not the next day, a few minutes later Now.

Speaker 3: 20:16

that's crazy.

Speaker 1: 20:18

That happened? How many times, jesse? A lot of times. That's crazy. Then we find out. The mailman told me. He says you know, it was a long time that nobody was living here. He says the guy who used to own this house prior to the contractors that bought it after he left, had Bentleys and Rolls Royces parked outside underneath those portable garages. Yeah, he had them parked outside. Well, bentleys and Rolls Royces. He says yeah, he won the lottery and won millions. Oh, bentley's in Rolls Royce. He says yeah, he won the lottery and won millions. And his daughter, apparently, when she was of age and that's where I'm going with this, she was of age, she got into a car accident and he didn't have an umbrella policy on the car for the whole family. Apparently, somebody got hurt. They sued him, he lost everything oh my gosh. And he hung himself in Anthony's bedroom. Damn, and we did not know that when we bought the house.

Speaker 3: 21:21

They don't have to disclose that to realtors unless you ask yeah, just same as a car. When you get a car and it's been in nine accidents, they can say yeah, it's been in the fender bender.

Speaker 1: 21:32

So I found out that from the mailman. And then Melody, aunt Melody, told me Same thing. So, yeah, so I'm so glad I'm out of there. I really am.

Speaker 3: 21:41

Life changed. That makes me believe it more now, because hearing from you and hearing from Jesse like things like that I never knew could.

Speaker 1: 21:48

Oh well, you know what? I had a couple of things when I was young too, so sometimes I think they follow you. They do they have to. I think they follow you. I had an experience. I was probably a teenager we didn't have central air at the time, living with my parents and my sister and we had a huge window unit in the dining room and it was my dining room, living room and a little TV room. So we had the air conditioner on on a summer night and someone had bought my mom, not a trinket, a little tchotchke, a tchotchke, yeah, a tchotchke.

Speaker 1: 22:23

Like a sailor sailor with a big nose and he had the hat on and the whole bit and it just spooked me out.

Speaker 3: 22:29

Yeah, it's weird.

Speaker 1: 22:30

Yeah, just the head and it was on the dresser, I slept on the couch. My sister slept on the floor with a blanket and I used to turn that face around.

Speaker 3: 22:41

Yeah, I would do the same thing.

Speaker 1: 22:42

Because I didn't want to see it.

Speaker 3: 22:44

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 22:45

And I had a dream that it was midnight, oh, and I'm sitting in front of a grandfather's clock, okay, and I knew once that clock struck the 12th strike, I was going to die, oh, wow. And just before it hit the last ring, I woke up, literally, really woke up, wow, really woke up, and I see a head, all white, beautiful face, flying like, floating around and I thought I was kind of sleeping. But I did like one of those. Pinch yourself you know, and it was mouthing the words get rid of the doll.

Speaker 3: 23:34

What is the doll? The face, the face, yeah, okay, cool.

Speaker 1: 23:39

And I looked over at the dresser where it was, and it wasn't turned around. It was facing me, oh my gosh. And we found out that the doll was made in Norway and Norway was a place where witchcraft was running rampant. Oh yeah, I remember you saying that, yeah, and my father got up out of bed, grabbed a doll and next morning burnt it.

Speaker 3: 24:03

Good.

Speaker 1: 24:04

And that was that. But then you think all the things that happened later on. You know Well we told that story happened later on.

Speaker 2: 24:09

You know who knows. Well, we told that story we call them here on Halloween about how that guy threw the axe at you. Oh, that was.

Speaker 1: 24:19

Italian American Unity Day in Columbus Circle. Yeah, it was Columbo's Joe Columbo.

Speaker 2: 24:27

Yeah, we told it wrong, so she got mad.

Speaker 1: 24:29

The head of the Casa Nostra in New York, right, and he didn't come out yet, but they were doing like a big show. They had a stage set up and my mother's, girlfriend's daughter was much older than me and she took me under her wing. Let's sell the food tickets, nice, okay. So you bought the ticket and then you went to the food tent and you got what you wanted, and while we're there, they would do with the axe going on on stage.

Speaker 3: 24:58

Okay.

Speaker 1: 24:59

And we see this guy running from the police. Yeah, he was supposed to be like an axe thrower, yeah, but he didn't throw it on the stage. He was ready to throw it. He was looking at our counter and he was throwing the ax and a cop got in front and got caught with it.

Speaker 2: 25:17

Was it a terrorist or something.

Speaker 1: 25:19

I don't know what he was. Everything happened so fast. One of us could have gotten hit.

Speaker 3: 25:25

So where was he when he had the ax?

Speaker 1: 25:28

He was standing probably about 25 feet away from us, okay, but looking right at us and a cop got right in front of us and took the blow and did he survive?

Speaker 3: 25:39

I?

Speaker 1: 25:39

have no idea. They took him away in an ambulance, so I don't know. And when did that hit? I have no idea.

Speaker 2: 25:44

See, that's like when I found out. I was like I would have went to the fucking hospital. I was young, though I was probably like 14.

Speaker 1: 25:51

Okay. And she was in her 20s. She's gone now too. Her boyfriend she was living with her boyfriend Right. He got pissed off at her. He picked up a crystal last drink, threw it at her, bang, killed her, killed her. Killed her.

Speaker 2: 26:05

Yeah, no, or a hematoma yeah but that's, it. Let's get away from this.

Speaker 1: 26:10

Let's get away from this.

Speaker 2: 26:11

Yeah, all right. So, cora, I'll go into something that I want to. I think it's a good little thing. It was Mother's Day, yes, and so my mom and dad had like the weirdest love story that I think is very unique, you know. So I always tell it. The details are always off the way I say it, so I want her to explain it, because it is a very cool story.

Speaker 1: 26:42

I would like other people to hear it because it proves how you never know and this is what fucked me up, or how you do know when this was what fucked me up too, or how you do know when it's the right person you know when it's the right one, but you never know when the right one's gonna show up.

Speaker 2: 26:58

That's the.

Speaker 3: 26:58

Thing.

Speaker 2: 26:59

And this story, like, really proves it. And it fucked with me for a long time because I was in a relationship when I like a long-term relationship, when I really started understanding the story that she's about to tell. Okay, and it messed me up. I'll tell you why in a second.

Speaker 1: 27:17

Even my sister. My sister thought that the knight on the white horse was going to come and sweep her off her feet. Wow, because it's what. So tell the story.

Speaker 3: 27:25

He wasn't on the white horse.

Speaker 1: 27:26

He was on the B train. Yeah, okay, he wasn't on. I used to work at Rolls Royce Arrow Engines Incorporated when I was 18 years old you were one of the first women to work on Wall Street.

Speaker 2: 27:39

I'm not talking about Wall Street.

Speaker 1: 27:42

I wasn't one of the first, but you were one of the first of many yeah, it got very. A lot of women came after me, but I wasn't the first or one of the first.

Speaker 3: 27:54

What?

Speaker 1: 27:59

I was in the group of the well, whatever, One of the originals yes, so I used to ride the B train to work, okay, and every day I would see this guy on the train and he'd stand. I used to draw a lot.

Speaker 2: 28:15

She's an amazing artist, I'd carry my sketch pad with me. I'm going to put some pictures up.

Speaker 1: 28:20

I would draw and I'd sit there and I used to notice him on the train. He had this beautiful mop of hair.

Speaker 2: 28:27

Yeah, he looked like a terrorist.

Speaker 1: 28:29

Yeah, he looked like today's terrorist. I thought he was an Arab.

Speaker 3: 28:33

That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 28:34

I thought he was a terrorist and, before I know it, like a couple of weeks go by and he's holding on to the strap hanging, yeah, and he's leaning over looking what I'm doing. Right Never said a word to me. Right Never talked to me. This went on for about six years. Towards the end of those six years, I didn't see him for a while and I wonder what the hell happened to him. You know, because when you see somebody every single day and you know that this person is interested, right and you at the time, were in a relationship too.

Speaker 2: 29:11

Yes, I was in a relationship. You were engaged? I think no.

Speaker 1: 29:13

I wasn't engaged. No, I was pre-engaged, pre-engaged, okay.

Speaker 2: 29:16

Fucking pre-engaged. It was a little tiny friggin' diamond thing.

Speaker 3: 29:19

Okay, so it was a thing I was living with somebody.

Speaker 1: 29:21

It was good, you didn't commit to that no, never committed to anything but listen and I didn't see him for a long time. And then I get on the train with Donna. I was with Donna. We're waiting on 42nd Street. Oh, this was when I was working for Metcalfe, an employment agency. This is after Rolls-Royce. Okay, the train pulls into the station Not the train I was going to get on, but I'm sorry. It was pulling out of the station. And while it was pulling out, in the window of one of the doors, I see Tony's face, oh wow, and his eyes were just like magnets. Yeah, on me. While the train is moving, his head is moving. And I says to my girlfriend I'm going to marry that guy, I'm going to marry him. And she, yeah, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, of course she did. Well, two weeks later I had seen him in his car driving. He was driving a Datsun 280Z.

Speaker 3: 30:21

Okay.

Speaker 2: 30:22

The Datsun.

Speaker 1: 30:23

And he stopped the car and asked me if I wanted a ride. No, no, no, no. Next time I see him, I was was getting off the train. I was waiting for my girlfriend to get off the train and he did to stop. I get off. That he got off. That he didn't live anywhere near me, he lived on 18th street and I'm in Bensonhurst. He gets off the train and he comes over and he says are you waiting for me? I said no, I you waiting for me? I said no, gangster, I'm waiting for my girlfriend, are you waiting for me?

Speaker 1: 31:00

Come on, and the interest was there, and two weeks later, we were married, and then Jesse pops out.

Speaker 2: 31:14

Then Peter and Anthony, that'd be me. But two weeks later we were married and they've been married for how long?

Speaker 3: 31:23

45 years, that's crazy when it happens like that, like two weeks later, like that has happened to me, Like two weeks later I find a great girl and then she just doesn't have her mind set up.

Speaker 2: 31:36

Yeah, but see, that's the thing I'm talking about how they stayed together for that long.

Speaker 3: 31:39

But you know why? Because of him.

Speaker 2: 31:42

I know Because there was a connection there.

Speaker 3: 31:46

You knew everything, but it was because of him. Oh, absolutely.

Speaker 1: 31:49

And the charisma yeah. For example, there was a grocery store that he worked at on 79th.

Speaker 2: 31:55

Street. This is the story I always get confused with 17th.

Speaker 3: 31:57

Avenue.

Speaker 1: 31:58

He worked there. The guy's name was Max, who ran the store. Oh, okay, and Tony saw me get off the train and this is while we were talking. You know it wasn't like we weren't dating or anything, it was pouring rain. He sees me get off the train and he grabs one of the umbrellas from the fruit stand these huge umbrellas.

Speaker 1: 32:21

And walked me over to the store so I wouldn't get wet and we waited underneath the awning. He did things like that. He would pick me up with teddy bears and roses in the car, that's my man. I'd get home at 3 o'clock in the morning with my girlfriend. We went out dancing or whatever, and it's 7 o'clock or 7.30. He's outside waiting to drive me to work. See, yeah, so it was. Yeah, it was fast.

Speaker 3: 32:47

And you know what it is too. When you're right by him and you actually finally see him again, you get butterflies and you're like, oh my gosh, you know, yeah, and that's what they always said to me they're like when you're with someone when you know you know, yeah, and I kind of understand it. You know, I thought I knew a couple times and you know what it doesn't have to be one person when you know it could be a couple of girls.

Speaker 1: 33:10

Oh yeah, it could be Absolutely A couple of guys.

Speaker 3: 33:13

A couple of guys. Yeah, I don't know about that.

Speaker 1: 33:15

Yeah, it could be no it can't just be one.

Speaker 3: 33:17

Think about the world. There's a lot of people in this world.

Speaker 2: 33:19

Yeah, but I think, yeah, you're right.

Speaker 3: 33:29

Yeah, I think it is. There's a couple of those.

Speaker 2: 33:32

You're right. I do think that there are a couple different options.

Speaker 1: 33:36

You gotta see what works for you.

Speaker 2: 33:39

Well then I'm gonna go into something crazy, but the thing is why I what fucked me up is the fact that you never know, I could be with a girl for six years and she could run into some guy on the train that looks like a terrorist.

Speaker 1: 33:51

Yeah, I had no idea he was Italian.

Speaker 2: 33:55

Yeah, if you look at the, picture you look straight like you'd be waiting in the 7-11 parking lot for 7 o'clock in the morning waiting for a job.

Speaker 3: 34:06

Wow.

Speaker 2: 34:08

Oh, in a muster zone? Yeah, you're always in the morning. They're all waiting for someone to say, hey, muster zone. Yeah, you know, I always see him in the morning and I'll wait for someone to say hey, six of you, no, but he was driving a 280Z.

Speaker 1: 34:18

I know he was not waiting in a muster zone, but he looked like it. He had hair. He had the most gorgeous hair.

Speaker 2: 34:26

See, but that's what she loves long hair. I still do so now here you and Kev can talk, because my mom's obsessed with Triple H.

Speaker 1: 34:38

Now, he's bald though.

Speaker 3: 34:39

Oh yeah, it bothers me too Both of you.

Speaker 1: 34:42

I'm bald. Wait, wait, wait. When he used to come out and stand up on the corner and do and spit the water out. And he wore those leather briefs.

Speaker 3: 34:57

Well, that's what you're looking at. I'm looking up.

Speaker 2: 35:00

That's too little.

Speaker 1: 35:02

I was standing right in front of him. Oh, bro, there was one part, oh, not WrestleMania.

Speaker 3: 35:08

We had four tickets. Yeah, you were there.

Speaker 1: 35:11

When we had money, then my mom, I had second row seats by the ring but on the other side of where the cameras are.

Speaker 2: 35:20

Oh wow, the cameras are facing the other side and.

Speaker 1: 35:23

I was in the second row. Yeah, and Triple H tore his.

Speaker 2: 35:26

ACL or something. No, but hold on.

Speaker 1: 35:27

So me and my brother, me, and Anthony, right, it was me and Anthony, you, Anthony, peter me.

Speaker 2: 35:31

Okay, so we're like we're going to try going somewhere else.

Speaker 1: 35:36

To get closer to the ring.

Speaker 2: 35:37

But we were already really close. But my mom goes we were literally right near the entrance of where people walk out on the side and she goes. I have a feeling that he's coming out tonight and that he's coming on the side. I'm staying here and we're like now you're crazy.

Speaker 1: 35:52

So what they did was because there were two of them Anthony and Jesse were pretty young at the time they would switch seats. One of them would come like after every match they'd switch over.

Speaker 2: 36:03

So the two seats in the back. Oh yeah, that's what it was. And, bro, we see Triple H when we're gone running past my mom. No, he didn't run past my mom, he sat next to me.

Speaker 3: 36:15

He grabs the chair, the empty chair next to my mom. He sat right next to you I had kids in front of me.

Speaker 2: 36:21

Wait wait wait, hold on, he sat next to you.

Speaker 1: 36:23

He sat down. Well, two seats away there was nobody there. People were all gathering around the ring. There was a kid there and I had said to them if Triple H is next to me, I'm just going to jump him.

Speaker 3: 36:37

Of course, I'm going to jump him, jump his bones. She don't say that.

Speaker 1: 36:41

Next, thing I know, the chair next to me gets lifted up.

Speaker 3: 36:46

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 36:47

And he runs to the ring. I didn't even know he was there. Yeah, you know what? I didn't even know he was there.

Speaker 3: 36:52

Yeah, you know what? Oh, I didn't even know.

Speaker 1: 36:53

I had no idea. I was so upset with myself.

Speaker 3: 36:56

Don't be upset, though, because you know what. That's the normal thing. That's why they do that, because they don't want you to know, and then they'll be wearing a jacket, and then they'll take it off, but, like Triple H, he, probably that's what you're right.

Speaker 2: 37:09

You're right. That's when he came back.

Speaker 1: 37:10

Yes, and I even had the Harley Davidson hat that he used to wear backwards. Yeah, you go, I got one and his hair.

Speaker 2: 37:18

The other thing his hair is.

Speaker 3: 37:20

he still has his hairline, he's not going bald. So I think maybe in the future he will grow it out.

Speaker 1: 37:25

No, because he had hair plugs put in. Oh, that's why Later on, before he started retiring with Stephanie, after they had a couple of kids, he had hair plugs put in. You could see when he started sweating they were little dots and I guess the hair plugs didn't work anymore.

Speaker 3: 37:44

So we shaved his head.

Speaker 1: 37:45

Wow, he still looks great though.

Speaker 2: 37:49

He's got a body on him. Once I saw some pictures behind me, I was like, yeah, this has got to come off.

Speaker 1: 37:55

Is it hot in here? Is it me? No, it's just you. You had to see me yesterday.

Speaker 2: 37:59

You know me, I'm usually the one that's sweating.

Speaker 1: 38:02

Oh no, I'm dripping Well. I'm sorry, it's just this weather messing with my arm, not looking forward to the summer at all.

Speaker 2: 38:11

Yeah, I'm not either. I wish I could go to a colder environment. I would love to be cold all the time.

Speaker 1: 38:22

I go to Alaska and a half years. You can always put on more clothes you can't take off Right. Daddy's got a sweatshirt and a sweater on top of the sweatshirt and sitting in the living room.

Speaker 3: 38:34

Yeah, doesn't make sense. I'm wearing a sweatshirt right now and you're not warm. I'm fine, I'm like you know, I'm me before.

Speaker 2: 38:51

I know that we're running a little bit. We're going to be stopping soon, but I want to ask you how?

Speaker 1: 38:58

because Excuse me.

Speaker 2: 39:01

How much was rent when you were my age?

Speaker 1: 39:05

There you go, my first apartment I lived in, not a basement apartment, it was a walk-in. The garage was right next door to where my living room was. I was paying $190 a month and all my utilities, aside from my phone and my TV, were included $190, was it $190? Oh, $160 a month. Month, I'm sorry, it was $160. And then when I married dad, we lived on 21st street by Greenwood Cemetery and we were on the third floor and the rent was $190 a month, a two bedroom, really.

Speaker 2: 39:49

And what was minimum wage back?

Speaker 3: 39:51

then, $8 maybe they.

Speaker 2: 39:53

And what was minimum wage back then? Eight dollars, maybe? Yo, they didn't raise minimum wage. Yes, that's right, they didn't raise. I was watching something about this.

Speaker 3: 39:59

They haven't.

Speaker 2: 40:00

There was a period of time where they didn't raise minimum wage.

Speaker 1: 40:03

Well, you figure in a 40 hour work week at eight dollars an hour.

Speaker 2: 40:07

You're good with math. Eight times 40. Eight, 60, 24, 30, $320 a week, that's awful A week.

Speaker 1: 40:15

Imagine I'm rich, that's rich, but you got to take out taxes. I don't care. And then transportation into the city we would do that, and food, okay, exactly. So you're left maybe with $100 a week, if that much. So you want to go to the disco, you want to go to clubbing?

Speaker 2: 40:31

$100 a week. You're talking about leftover, yeah, but your rent is only $190 a month, okay, but you figure on how much you're spending.

Speaker 1: 40:42

I had a baby too. I know that. I understand that.

Speaker 2: 40:46

Alright Brandon oh my god please $30-something hundred For a house he's renting for a fucking two-bedroom.

Speaker 3: 40:57

No four bedrooms. Four bedrooms 3,200.

Speaker 2: 41:00

Four bedrooms 3,200, huh.

Speaker 1: 41:02

A month, but it's a house.

Speaker 3: 41:04

Yeah, you can't afford Buying a house now. It's impossible. That's what.

Speaker 1: 41:08

I'm saying it's ridiculous.

Speaker 3: 41:08

Not here anyway. Buying a house now it's impossible. That's what I'm saying. It's ridiculous.

Speaker 1: 41:10

Not here anyway, if you go down south, maybe Midwest, maybe. All right, arielle is in LA and she's paying $2,000 a month for a studio apartment. I believe it, yeah, and she has to pay everything with it.

Speaker 2: 41:27

Oh, she's killing it War the sewer everything, she's doing it, she's doing everything. She's doing her thing.

Speaker 1: 41:31

She's doing her thing. She's got a couple of jobs. She's been on some auditions.

Speaker 2: 41:35

Yeah, I saw a couple of headshots on Facebook.

Speaker 1: 41:38

So yeah, just keep your fingers crossed, because she's good, she looks just like she has an amazing voice.

Speaker 2: 41:43

You go on my page. She sang one of my songs for me.

Speaker 1: 41:50

She's looking to get into the movies or something.

Speaker 3: 41:51

I told her do the commercials.

Speaker 1: 41:52

Everybody, come on like a good neighbor, stay from the stairs.

Speaker 2: 41:57

But the thing is, though, I don't think she wants to do commercials.

Speaker 1: 41:58

Commercials. You get into SAG For some reason. No, but all the stars are doing them now I know you have to, that's how I feel All the stars are doing them now.

Speaker 2: 42:09

Anything and it's a paycheck, fuck it.

Speaker 3: 42:11

So every time it plays, then you're just like ooh, Not many people would die, even if, it's 10 cents a time. Yeah, I know.

Speaker 1: 42:17

Different channels, whatever stations?

Speaker 2: 42:19

Absolutely, that's what happens with Justin. You always get like a little check. You know you'll never know when you're going to get money in the mail. Well, you know.

Speaker 1: 42:26

Cindy, over here, yeah, over here, yeah, my friend Cindy, she, her father, oh God, rodriguez, tito, tito. Tito Rodriguez was a big orchestra guy, right, right, and she, when she was younger, would sing and she made an album. Oh, wow, yes, and the father's music is still being played on the Spanish station.

Speaker 2: 42:47

Oh yeah, I remember she was talking about that and she gets a residual check.

Speaker 1: 42:50

Wow, that's awesome. She gets checks for herself and for her dad. That's gone now.

Speaker 3: 42:56

Right right.

Speaker 1: 42:56

And that's years ago.

Speaker 2: 42:58

Yeah, that's not true, because I was looking into it because I put up a Shawn Mendes cover like a while ago. Shawn Mendes is a singer. I don't know if you know who he is, do you?

Speaker 1: 43:07

know who he is? Yeah, I've heard of them.

Speaker 2: 43:08

Well, I did a cover of it and I put it on YouTube and it was getting actually a decent amount of views. But three days later, boom, I took it down and I didn't understand, because I always see people cover songs on YouTube. Of course, yeah, and yeah, you have to pay.

Speaker 1: 43:21

You have to get permission.

Speaker 2: 43:22

No, yeah, no. They have these things, these sites that are coming out, these new things where artists will sign up, because there's not a lot of ways for artists to make money anymore.

Speaker 1: 43:31

Of course, yeah, so that's the way is through playing at restaurants, because restaurants like Will was saying when we had him on, if we had our own you have to pay BMI for playing any type of song in your restaurant and then BMI gets to keep 90% of the money and the other 10% goes to the artist.

Speaker 2: 43:50

Yeah, it's really crazy, it's absolutely ridiculous.

Speaker 1: 43:53

Did you hear the finished? Yeah, we played it on the show.

Speaker 3: 43:57

My favorite. We played it on the show.

Speaker 2: 44:00

Yeah, it's not finished, but it's close to finished.

Speaker 1: 44:03

Which one are we talking about Under the Moonlight right?

Speaker 3: 44:05

Oh no you're talking about Billie Jean. Oh, yeah, yeah, because we covered Billie Jean.

Speaker 2: 44:09

Yeah, that was fire. That sounds really good.

Speaker 1: 44:12

And I'm waiting for the next one.

Speaker 2: 44:14

Yeah, see, that's Fridays. You know my thing. I'm trying to get him on here. It's just that he's a busy man, yeah.

Speaker 1: 44:20

He's really good at what he does too. I know he really is. He's fucking out of his mind like me.

Speaker 2: 44:30

There you go, but he's like a mentor to me. Yeah exactly Like when you're ready, the teacher will appear, type shit. That was the kind of thing. And the thing with him was he was in my life the whole time. And I didn't realize like damn, this is the guy I should be messing with.

Speaker 2: 44:48

The whole time and he is in recovery, you know, knows what it's like to be going through what I'm going through. Right Is like very sympathetic towards all the stuff and he knows me very well. We were stayed. There's this certain thing like when you go through crises or something with something, go through like emotional moments.

Speaker 1: 45:03

Somebody's aware of it? No, together yeah.

Speaker 2: 45:05

Like, say, near death, like you guys were in like an earthquake together or something happened.

Speaker 3: 45:10

Yeah, you guys were in like an earthquake together, or something happened, or yeah.

Speaker 2: 45:13

So you were in a jail cell alone, for, like me and justin spent a lot of time together in a building for three months and we saw each other every day.

Speaker 2: 45:20

We ate breakfast, lunch and dinner together. Yeah, you know, I knew everything about him. Yeah, so it was a deeper relationship, so that kind of bond. It's like we feel like we, no matter what, what we didn't even him we'll fight, like, like, like argue, but it's like the next day it's like it's all right, it's, oh, it's what it was.

Speaker 2: 45:42

You know, we never hold grudges. It's like it's. We've been through that already. We've had to sit on our hands across from each other and tell each other how we feel about them. And if we didn't tell, like they could tell when you're lying, they would tell your PO and your PO would come but he was the only one that was there. Like he can leave if he wanted to. He was doing this just because he knew he needed to get his life straight. So that's why I respected him so much for that. That's awesome. His life straight, so that's like I respected him so much for that. That's awesome. And then how I find out, like how I wind up years later opening for his fucking band that he was.

Speaker 2: 46:20

How crazy is that? So we get an offer, a reunion show, yeah, and they were like all right. Yeah, like cool, it's a big thing at Wonder Bar. Who are we opening for? Right Borealis? I'm like wait that the fuck. I was like Justin, did you do anything to get me the show? He's like I had no idea. He's like I'm not even playing it. He goes. I didn't even want to do that one, he goes. We already had a reunion show at the Stone Pony. It sold out.

Speaker 3: 46:50

He goes.

Speaker 2: 46:50

I thought that was just so how the world works and I think that's a revolving door. Yeah, and I wrote something at the end of this book. I found another great author I was telling you about and he mixes sci-fi with like other murder mysteries and stuff. But at the end of this book you find out that the whole universe, what we see is literally Are you going to get deep now?

Speaker 1: 47:19

She hates when I do this.

Speaker 2: 47:20

I don't like, because you know he can talk like he was basically saying that we no longer you know what you need to do?

Speaker 1: 47:25

You need to have a podcast by myself. Strictly, no, strictly for the stuff that you read. I know.

Speaker 3: 47:33

That's what you do.

Speaker 1: 47:34

Instead of talking about, hey, let me tell you this, that and the other thing. No, talk about what you love.

Speaker 2: 47:42

My best critic right here.

Speaker 1: 47:43

Talk about what you love, Like the last the vlog. Yeah, you hated that huh, I didn't hate it, I just thought you didn't talk about anything. That was anything that's gonna grab anybody what I loved it.

Speaker 2: 47:56

I'm sorry, I don't care, I'm gonna do me.

Speaker 1: 47:59

I'm gonna try it and do it and fuck everybody. No, but that's okay, but I think that's what you should do. You should no.

Speaker 2: 48:06

I really want to.

Speaker 1: 48:06

That's great team up with somebody that's into the stuff that you're in. No.

Speaker 2: 48:09

I could go off by myself with Kevin fuck it.

Speaker 1: 48:12

Books, movies music Team up with somebody who's going to actually listen to you and enjoy conversing with you. Notice, I don't say what's the other one. They say let's have a powwow no conversation. But they say it different Convo Conversate. Let's sit and A powwow no conversation, but they say it different Convo, convo.

Speaker 3: 48:35

Conversate. Let's sit and converse, but they don't say that.

Speaker 1: 48:39

They say conversate. Look in the dictionary. They added that now and that's not. Well, yeah, it's a slang dictionary, I know, but it's not that's not the word.

Speaker 2: 48:46

What is that called the Urban?

Speaker 1: 48:47

Dictionary. That's not the word, it's converse, have a conversation. But anyway, okay, oh thanks for the fucking tidbits. Yeah Well, tidbits and items are my thing.

Speaker 2: 48:59

Well, I just wanted everybody to meet the woman behind the scene.

Speaker 1: 49:04

I made him. Yeah, she made me Well, with some help from Tony. There you go. Yes, she did.

Speaker 2: 49:11

She has seen me through the ups and downs and has never left my side, and she's the reason that this is all able to happen.

Speaker 1: 49:19

We are we are all, we are all backing this. I know I love you.

Speaker 2: 49:23

I love you too.

Speaker 1: 49:24

Happy, belated Mother's Day to all you moms out there.

Speaker 2: 49:27

Happy belated Mother's Day to all the moms, out moms, and even the single dads that are raising their children.

Speaker 1: 49:32

Yeah, God bless them.

Speaker 2: 49:34

You also need to have a happy parents' day. Yes, I agree with that. Because there are a couple, I know. A shout out to Brian too, if he ever listens on.

Speaker 1: 49:43

And what about the moms that aren't all doing it on their own?

Speaker 2: 49:46

Yeah, absolutely they double kudos. It's on both sides Double kudos to both of them.

Speaker 3: 49:50

Shout out to my mom I love you. Yeah, yeah, shout out to your mom Happy.

Speaker 2: 49:54

Mother's Day and we will catch you on the flip side. You, son of a bitch, I love it.