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128. Depersonalizing Failure | RTWOS EP 3 with Topsie VandenBosch

November 14, 2023

Let’s dive into the transformative power of embracing failure and learning how to fail well. In this episode, you’ll find how depersonalizing your setbacks can lead to growth and how the importance of treating everything as valuable data can lead you to become the scientist of your own entrepreneurial journey. This is the Releasing The Wounds Of Success Series, Episode 3. ✨ The expert for this episode is a fellow therapist & mindset coach, Topsie VandenBosch. 👇🏻

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Topsie VandenBosch, LMSW is a Mindset & Emotional Intelligence Coach & Consultant for CEOs of small businesses & organizations. She helps business owners destroy negative thought patterns + unhelpful behaviors that affect how they run their businesses by teaching leaders how to master their mindset, manage their thoughts, and use emotional intelligence skills.

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THE JUICY HIGHLIGHTS:
🖤 Being unable to hold all the success you desire
🖤 Afraid to take a step back in your business
🖤 Depersonalizing failure & failing well

THE EPISODE BREAKDOWN:
[2:42] How Topsie became a mindset coach

[5:33] Am I cheap orrrr do I just want business advice from a friend?

[8:15] Depersonalizing your failures for personal growth

[13:28] Treating messy launches as data points for creating better systems

[18:01] External blame versus internal radical responsibility 

[19:49] Fear of stepping back & an intentional mindset

[24:25] Be willing to stop a lot in life

[25:11] The value of sharing your journey & building a supportive network

[31:45] Becoming the scientist of your business to overcome the fear of failure

[38:01] The affirmation confirmation loop

[40:25] Yeah… I peed the bed last week

[42:29] Feeling discomfort & pain around failure

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I am the definition of duality — I swear like a sailor and break rules like it’s my job, but I also hold incredible space for my clients and work my ass off to help them achieve the success they’re after. But I'm also here for the non-preneur woman, too. My background in counseling gives me a unique perspective on what it means to show up, serve, & create connection for those who feel like they've never belonged before.

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