Shamelessly Ambitious

146. I Am Safe Enough To Go Slow

August 06, 2024 Ashley McDonald

Coming to you for another Musings style episode from the comfort of my bed on day one of my bleed as I watch the Washington rain outside and dream about ordering some hot Pho. 🌧️🍜🩸🛌 This is the first time it's rained since we've been here and I'm obsessed. I can't stop opening the window to smell the fresh rain. As always, this episode is a catch up of where I've been, what's going well, and what I'm struggling with. Plussss, I dive into my criminal history and why exploring Canada was such a big deal for me. 🚔🇨🇦

THE JUICY HIGHLIGHTS:
• Enjoying the rain from my window & dreaming about Pho
• Celebrating visiting Canada after thinking I never would
• Abandoning myself in hopes of belonging to others
• Triggered by people giving advice that doesn’t align with my coaching style
• Choose you, belong to you, && don’t abandon yourself like I did

THE EPISODE BREAKDOWN:
[1:01] It’s FINALLY raining in Washington 😍
[1:41] Forgetting our passports on our way to Canada
[2:51] Sea to sky scenic highway & gondola
[4:10] Being overzealous on our adventure day in Stanley Park
[7:06] I really think I was made to live in a treehouse in the middle of a forest
[7:36] Fearing I would never get to visit Canada because… 🚔
[8:34] Backstory on me being a convicted felon SMFH
[13:21] Celebrating my continued wellness success
[15:09] Belonging to myself without sacrificing pieces of me for others “safety”
[18:32] Recognizing when you're stuck in the muck & need to dig yourself out
[19:41] Loving my notes app for my wellness checklist 📝
[20:51] Feeling triggering by this…
[21:56] Safe enough to go slow 🫶🏻
[23:28] I am NOT the coach for you...
[24:48] Handling this trigger

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I am the definition of duality — I swear like a sailor and break rules like it’s my job, but I also hold incredible space for my clients and work my ass off to help them achieve the success they’re after. But I'm also here for the non-preneur woman, too. My background in counseling gives me a unique perspective on what it means to show up, serve, & create connection for those who feel like they've never belonged before.

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