Relationship Goals - Part 1

Relationship Goals.   Part 1            Pastor David King 

(Romans 12:2 NLT) Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.

Common Influence

1. I must _________.

2.              I must _________.

3.              I must _________. 

4.              I must _______. 

People Problems

• People will ___________.

(Matthew 14:31 NLT) Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him. “You have so little faith,” Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?”

• People make ___________. 

(Matthew 16:23) But if your eyes are unhealthy,[a] your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness!

• People are ________.

(Mark 14:37) Then he returned and found the disciples asleep. He said to Peter, “Simon, are you asleep? Couldn’t you watch with me even one hour?

• People might __________. 

(Mark 14:71) He began to call down curses, and he swore to them, “I don’t know this man you’re talking about.”

My influence is not determined by my level of __________ but by my ability to help you __________. 

1. Focus on the _________. 

(Philippians 2:3-4 NLT) 3 Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. 4 Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

2.              Focus on the __________. 

(Ephesians 4:32 NLT) Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

3.              Focus on their _________.

(1 Peter 4:10 NLT) God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another.

4.              Focus on their _________. 

(Ephesians 2:10 NLT) For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

5.              Focus on the __________. 

(Luke 6:38 NLT) Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back.”

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