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"Unlocking the Mysteries of Mediumship With Psychic Medium Mariel De Moya"
Have you ever felt the lingering presence of a departed loved one, or sensed a whisper of the life beyond our own? Psychic medium Mariel joins us from her roots in the Dominican Republic to the heart of Tennessee, sharing her gift of bridging the ethereal gap between the living and the ones who have crossed over to the other side. Her journey is marked by profound insights into grief, the nurturing of intuitive powers, and the mysterious signs we receive from those on the other side. Mariel's narrative, rich with childhood memories and pivotal life moments, invites us into a world where the veil is lifted, and the language of the spirit is translated through her unique psychic 'clairs.'
As we venture deeper, Mariel unveils the transformative world of spirit guides, detailing her celestial encounters and the role these unseen companions play in shaping our destinies. Her personal tales of meeting her guides in meditation and the nuanced ways in which they guide us are testament to the myriad forms of connection available to those open to the experience. Mariel's Spirit Circle emerges as a beacon of empowerment, mentoring women to embrace their psychic potential, while her social media presence as MS4medium bridges the gap between the mystical and the mainstream.
In the realm of spirit communication, Mariel addresses the challenges faced by mediums, from skepticism to the delicate dance of conveying messages with authenticity and respect. We contemplate the art of readings, the validation they provide, and how spirits may choose their moments to connect or remain silent during times of grief. Mariel's reflections on her professional path, from the impact of criticism to the balance of public and private life, serve as a powerful reminder of the human experience intertwined with the spiritual. Join us for this soul-stirring conversation, where the whispers from beyond are brought into the light, offering comfort, closure, and a deeper understanding of the bonds that transcend our mortal coil.
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Have you ever felt the lingering presence of a departed loved one, or sensed a whisper of the life beyond our own? Psychic medium Mariel joins us from her roots in the Dominican Republic to the heart of Tennessee, sharing her gift of bridging the ethereal gap between the living and the ones who have crossed over to the other side. Her journey is marked by profound insights into grief, the nurturing of intuitive powers, and the mysterious signs we receive from those on the other side. Mariel's narrative, rich with childhood memories and pivotal life moments, invites us into a world where the veil is lifted, and the language of the spirit is translated through her unique psychic 'clairs.'
As we venture deeper, Mariel unveils the transformative world of spirit guides, detailing her celestial encounters and the role these unseen companions play in shaping our destinies. Her personal tales of meeting her guides in meditation and the nuanced ways in which they guide us are testament to the myriad forms of connection available to those open to the experience. Mariel's Spirit Circle emerges as a beacon of empowerment, mentoring women to embrace their psychic potential, while her social media presence as MS4medium bridges the gap between the mystical and the mainstream.
In the realm of spirit communication, Mariel addresses the challenges faced by mediums, from skepticism to the delicate dance of conveying messages with authenticity and respect. We contemplate the art of readings, the validation they provide, and how spirits may choose their moments to connect or remain silent during times of grief. Mariel's reflections on her professional path, from the impact of criticism to the balance of public and private life, serve as a powerful reminder of the human experience intertwined with the spiritual. Join us for this soul-stirring conversation, where the whispers from beyond are brought into the light, offering comfort, closure, and a deeper understanding of the bonds that transcend our mortal coil.
Follow Mariel De Moya on Instagram!
Mariel 💜 (@mis4medium) • Instagram photos and videos
Find her website here!
M is for Medium – M is also for Mariel. That’s me.
Love what you hear? Wanna be featured on Updated AF? Shoot me a DM!
IG: Tx_Realestatedoll
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Please don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review!
Email: UPDATEDAF@GMAIL.COM
XOXO,
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Hey guys, welcome back to updated AF Collective, the podcast. I am your host, megan Worth. Today's episode is again like another medium. I have my girl, mariel, who has graciously decided or, I guess, not decided. I asked her and she agreed. She agreed to be on the show. It was so last minute. I have wanted Mariel on this podcast for a very long time. I have her here.
Speaker 1:She's a very well-known psyching medium. Apparently, she's moved. When I first met her she was living in Miami. Now Liz and Tennessee helps not just people who are grieving and need to hear from their loved one on the other side, but she also helps women who are also intuitive and want to explore their gifts, and puts on live events to help them connect. For other people, if you've always felt different or you have all these crazy stories about your childhood and stuff like that too, it's like she helps people figure out those gifts, because not everybody is a medium, not everybody's a psychic. There are some people that are mediums and psychics, but they're not everything. Every medium is different. She helps people try to find their clears, so to say.
Speaker 1:We'll get into that in the episode about your different style of reading. Do you read by hearing, sensing, seeing, knowing all the different things. She's amazing. She's a girl's girl, a hype woman and very, very gifted. I've had a couple readings from her and they've just completely blown my mind. We get into that. We get into a little bit of death, dying, grieving, signs from spirit, your loved one, stuff like that. We talk about our personal experiences with mediumship. This episode is going to be jam-packed full of things. If you can resonate with this, I highly recommend DMing her, messaging her. She also does live readings on Instagram Live and you can sign up to have a reading with her. All of that is in the show notes. You can just go DM her. She's super sweet and she'll get you set up. You can schedule a reading with her, whether it's a psychic reading, mediumship, reading, all of the things.
Speaker 1:On a side note, I have been putting together a vision board mastermind course. It's a little bit of mini mastermind course about just the science behind vision boards and what they do, how they work, all of that stuff. Because, like I said, I before even learning about the law of attraction and manifesting and stuff like that too. The only thing that I knew from listening to a random podcast back this was like five years ago was a vision board. Everybody talked about vision boards and how they could help you manifest your dream life. Yeah, the stars planting the seed. There's more to manifestation of law of attraction than just doing one thing. But if I had to pick one thing that kind of catapulted me into creating a life that not to use Stephanie Keith's analogy, but creating a life I didn't need a vacation from. The first thing I did was create a vision board. I created a free class. It's for anybody that wants it.
Speaker 1:Like I said, there is science behind vision boards and why they work. I've read so many books you can read like so many different stories, so many different books from, like actual doctors saying that vision boards work. You are actually more likely to fulfill your dreams and goals and everything if you have a vision board in view of you at all times Like, for example, I have vision board, like my 2024 vision board is on every single screen in the house laptop, computer, my phone, everything. If it has a screen, I have my vision board on it. You are more likely to create the life that you are trying to achieve by looking at your goals every single day.
Speaker 1:If you want this free masterclass, all you have to do is follow me on updated AF Collective on Instagram and then send me a direct message, a DM, just asking for the link to the course, and I'll just send it to you. I am working on a webpage right now where I will have the course up and running, where anybody can just go click on it. But as of right now, I just need to send you the link and, yeah, go from there. The only thing that I ask is, if you take the masterclass is just to write me a little review, and it can be in a DM, it can be an email or whatever. Just write me a review of how you liked it. Give me some positive or even just any feedback on what you liked about it, what you didn't like about it and, if it actually, if you saw some progress with it.
Speaker 1:Okay, guys, I'm going to let you get to the episode. This is a good one. It's packed full of information. If you are in the grieving process, if you just recently lost a loved one, or you lost a loved one years ago but you're still processing it, if you ever, this podcast episode is for anybody who's ever wondered okay, are my loved ones still around? Are they giving me signs, like what can I do to have a visitation? Like a dream visitation, like what do I need to do? How can I see signs from them that they are still here? We dig into all of that and just completely unpack it here Again, like this is such a good episode.
Speaker 1:It's one of my favorite topics. I love talking about this again because I don't really talk about it with my friends too often. There are my best friends and then my family I talk about it with, but there are a lot of people in my life that don't know that I'm a medium. So, again, like having the podcast and having this platform to talk about it, especially with my closest friends, just is so freeing. Let me know what you think about the episode.
Speaker 1:Rate me the stars, send me a review, do all the things subscribe, follow whatever you have to do. It helps the podcast out. So so much Share this episode, especially because Mariel does readings over Zoom like virtual events. If you know somebody who is interested in having a reading, you can totally send them this episode and say, hey, there's our. It's therapeutic, it is a way of grieving, it's like a tool to help people who are grieving not grieve faster. I don't think anybody grieves fast. Everybody grieves at their own pace but it just gives them that reassurance that I hate saying that people that crossover are dead because they're actually not dead at all. Their body is, but their soul is still alive and well, with the same personality that you loved or didn't love or whatever.
Speaker 1:Like if they were a smart ass or whatever. They're still here. Okay, enjoy the episode, guys, and I will see you next time. Welcome to the updated AF Collective podcast, where we celebrate the power and resilience of women. Join me as we dive into inspiring stories, engage in meaningful conversations and explore topics that empower women from all walks of life. I believe that every woman has a unique strength within her, waiting to be unleashed. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, a creative, a caregiver or simply on your own personal journey, this podcast is for you. Together, we'll share stories of triumph, discuss strategies for success and provide a supportive space for women to connect and grow. Get ready for real, authentic conversations that ignite your inner strength and inspire you to chase after your dreams fearlessly. Welcome to the updated AF Collective. Hey guys, welcome back to the show. Today I have an extremely special guest Like. I've known her for a couple of years now, and she's a well-known medium in the state of Florida, miami, right, miami.
Speaker 2:Well, I recently moved, but, yes, I was in Miami for 13 years.
Speaker 1:Her spirit is very old and I'm going to let her introduce herself, because you guys got to hear her story. She is a medium and psychic as well. Correct me if I'm wrong. Yes, yes, and she does tarot cards reading. What we're going to talk about today's episode is you're going to hear a little bit of her backstory and then we're going to get into all things death, dying, grieving, everything and what she believes is true from conducting readings on other people and stuff like that, and what she's learned along the way about what happens after we pass. Mariel, welcome to updated AF. It is so freaking exciting that you're here, because I have been wanting to have you on the podcast for a very long time. So welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God. Thank you so much for inviting me. This is so exciting. I love talking about all of this Like who could spend the whole day doing this, and I know both of us. We're going to have fun.
Speaker 1:Tell me about how you got into this. Did you? Were you always? This just connected to the other side? Tell me about Little Mariel Like what was your childhood like.
Speaker 2:I love this question because, for typically, for those of us who can connect to spirit, this is when it shows up when you are little right.
Speaker 2:So I like to answer this question saying to, as far as I can go back, I was probably eight, eight, nine, that's where my memory starts. When I was little, I would wake up with literally having this man sitting in my bed every morning, and for me it was just typical and I would say like, well, I guess it's time to go to school and get ready, because I would wake up see him sitting there, he would disappear and then I would go like that was my alarm clock, basically. So yeah, I also was extremely afraid of the dark. So I would have, I would share a room with my sister, and my sister still remembers how I would be creeped out. So let me first say that I am from the Dominican Republic. So in my beautiful island the electricity goes out, right. So you're in the middle of the night, you're sleeping and boom, there's no electricity, and that would scare the living shit out of me. You told me I could curse, so yes, you can swear.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:Oh my gosh, yeah, it's so scary.
Speaker 2:And basically I was afraid because I could see things in my hallway and I would like go into the bathroom closing my eyes, because I could see people standing behind me in the mirror when I would go into the bathroom. So, but at one point when you're little, you really don't understand what's going on and do you think it's normal. I was. I was so lucky that my mom also has this gift, so when I started to tell her what I was seeing and sensing, instead of telling me like that's all in your head, she would support it and she would be like, yeah, of course, yeah, that happens, don't worry. But she didn't have the tool that I have now, where I'm like, if it happens to me now, I'm like, no, you set boundaries. I'm like, no, no, sorry, so I would have to deal with it.
Speaker 2:Growing up, right, and then really all my life, from eight to in my 40s, what I did to channel was I use the cards. So I use the data card to channel and that's how I would connect with spirit. To be honest and I've told this before, I have never been classically trained or taken a course I did, I took, I took one that I didn't finish. On that. How I read that out is that my body kind of senses the muscle memory of just using and pulling the cards in my body goes like, oh, we're reading, and from doing it for such a long time now I know what the card means. But what I'm going to tell you is what I channel, not necessarily what the card means.
Speaker 1:So I read it yeah, when you pull that card, you get that instant download of K. You're reading off that person's energy like, okay, this is what this means.
Speaker 2:Yes, Instead of like well, because this means this, I have to say this. That's not how I read, so, yeah, so for that period, long period of time, that's what I was doing, basically, and then I started listening to podcast Teresa Caputo, candice Dalton which I love. And Bruce so all of those podcasts. And then what happened to me is that when I would listen to the podcast, I would know who passed. I'm like, oh, it's a male and it's this and it's that, and I'm like maybe I'm just like a really good guesser.
Speaker 1:That's crazy. You're picking up on the person's energy, that that person is already in the middle of reading, but you're already picking it up as well.
Speaker 2:Yes, and then I started getting obsessed with listening to these things and see how many I would get, right, right. So what happened was that in one of my obsessions I met Candice and she had this course, and that's how I started. Actually, we have the same mentor, which is Candice Dalton, but I like to explain that I had to go through and experience a life and death experience to actually kind of like step into my power, because I have something that's called Chiari Malfirmation and I had to go through brain surgery which is really scary, and I remember when I was going through that process, I told myself, like am I really going to let myself die without doing this and not giving a fuck what anybody says?
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:So literally, if you go into my website now and you look at my pictures, you see me with long hair. But if you would pull that hair up, it was all shaved for my surgery. So while I was preparing for my surgery, I was taking photos how I recuperated for my surgery, was editing the content for my website. I took that moment as a wake-up call and I said I don't care anymore what anybody says and I'm just going to launch myself into it and this is where. I am now.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you had a gift and heaven forbid that was the time that God was going to take you. Your gift would die with you without you even having the opportunity or chance to share it with the world, because that's what you're doing with your gift.
Speaker 1:Now is when I get to see you on social media, you putting on all these events and you giving people healing messages and validations from their loved ones on the other side, giving them the tarot card readings of inspiration and hope and motivation of like, yes, keep going or no, pivot that way, whatever needs to be said, you say it. So I love the fact that you recognize it. It was almost like a push from the universe or from God like hey, you have some major things coming up in your life. You need to start putting out your gifts because you need to start sharing that.
Speaker 2:I also got a really good advice from Emily Emily Fitch.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I love.
Speaker 2:Emily yeah, her fellow medium. She told me how many more lifetimes are you going to let go by without owning this? And that for me was like. I know I've been through this many other times because when I would meditate at the beginning, I remember having a meditation where I would see I was going into prayer mode and I would see 20 different hands doing the prayer at the same time as me and I would visualize myself in different lifetimes doing this and I'm like that's it. This is the lifetime where I own my shit and where I'm like I don't care what anybody says, I'm going to do it.
Speaker 1:Do you think in previous lifetimes that you were suppressing it or hiding it?
Speaker 2:Yes, so I've had. I don't know if you guys have had, if you have had past time regressions, but I have, and one of those. I've seen myself hiding in caves, specifically, and I didn't even know that this was an actual thing and when I Googled it, literally witches from the era would hide in caves to avoid going through what they had to go through.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I had the same thing. It's like I don't know if other lifetimes I've had this gift or anything but the past life regression thing, those dreams. I've been having those dreams since I was a kid, Like as far back as I can remember. I was having clips of past lives and I was having these dreams over and over again of like before I was even enlisted in the military. I was having dreams about me being a man on a ship. I had dreams about me being a man as a police officer, and this is all before I was any of those things. So I was eight years old, nine years old, having these dreams about being killed in these different professions. And then it's so crazy, because this is the lifetime I feel like I did everything and I was the police officer, I was the military person, and then I found out later like hey, I've had this gift the entire time.
Speaker 1:I obviously, growing up, I had no idea what the hell was going on because I was, like you, terrified of the dark, but I was constantly seeing spirits around me at all times. I had no idea what it was. But, yeah, growing up, like our childhoods were like like very similar, just terrifying, like horror movies Like I still to this day. I don't even like screaming Now I'm not afraid. Now the stuff. If the you know it's crazy if my TV turns on by itself or a light turns on like it doesn't, it doesn't even phase me at all.
Speaker 1:Like I literally will get up and I'll turn it off. The only thing that freaks me out is in the middle of the night, when the smoke alarms go off. I don't know if this happens to you. It happens to me quite often. My smoke alarms will just randomly go off for no reason.
Speaker 1:And I'm just like okay, and it's so funny because my last house in San Diego, what happened? A lot, until I finally in the middle of the night just yell okay, I can't like, okay, I get it, You're here. And then it stopped and never happened again.
Speaker 2:I don't know what to do. That's how I was in the smoke. Alarm. To be acknowledged, that was it.
Speaker 1:I wish I would have known that when I was a kid because, like I thought they would come into my room and they would turn on my CD player and I would hear the button click to like a certain song, or it was crazy.
Speaker 2:Like my childhood was bananas so yeah, and the good thing about what you're saying even though it's kind of creepy that we can have this conversation, and for me, it just reminds me why community is so important.
Speaker 1:Community is so important. You need to have the support.
Speaker 2:Oh my gosh, because when I hear you talking, I'm like I completely understand you, and then you're like okay, I'm not crazy, okay, I wasn't making this up, you know. Yeah, I think one of the most important things as a psychic and a medium is to build that community and to have these conversations right. I mean I hear you I'm like, oh my God, I feel so identified.
Speaker 1:I didn't have the radio thing happen, but a lot of the things that you mentioned, lucky, but it's so true, like it's crazy, because, like when I started doing readings, you have to have that community. If anybody out there is listening right now and you feel like you're an intuitive and empath or anything like, you always felt like you're a little bit different. You need to find people who are like-minded, because those are the people that you can open up to. You have to get it out. If we had I mean, before, you know, we had Candice Dalton's class Like I had no idea what the hell was wrong with me For the longest time I thought I was schizophrenic.
Speaker 1:I would just know things, I would hear things and I would just like I felt like it was just weird. And so you need people that you're gonna like, hey, like, has this ever happened to you? Or you have you ever had this experience? And then we can go into that conversation and be like, oh yeah, it's totally normal. This is what you do to fix it. This is what you do to set boundaries.
Speaker 2:For me it was like the same. I didn't have a community and when that Zoom opened up, I think it was like 16 women in that Zoom. I had never felt as seen as when we had that first conversation and then that helped me understand. Listen, you're not making these things up, you're not crazy, you just have this gift and owning your gift is one of the most beautiful things I have done in my life. I don't know if you feel the same. I do like I also have a nine to five, so I do do my model job, which it's nine to five, and I work in marketing, but the weekends is my you know, witchy, psychic, medium job. And let me tell you something I can't wait for the weekends. I'm so excited.
Speaker 1:There's just something so powerful when you're giving a reading to somebody and like you're giving them validation of like hey, your aunt or your uncle or your grandparents or whatever your child is coming through and then giving them the validation of, okay, yeah, we're talking to the right person, and then all the messages and it's always the messages that they needed to hear. It's crazy because it's like it's just so fulfilling, if that makes sense, Like you do feel like you're actually helping somebody heal in the grieving process, Cause, oh my gosh, the grieving process is painful. But if you have the opportunity to go to a medium and say you know, like, let's, I would love a reading. Let me just see who's around me, Let me just see if somebody, if they're actually hearing me talk, because there's so many times where I give readings and I would say word for word what that person was saying to them, right after that person passed away. They're like you know having those conversations, I'll say it like you said this and they heard you, they are. And then they're like oh my gosh.
Speaker 1:I was hoping that they heard me and stuff like that. It's so crazy and so you've done so many readings, so many readings. You have these live events where you have multiple people show up and it's just like. It's just this magical spiritual experience and I wanted to today. I wanted to go into, like, what have you learned in the process about the other side? I want to know about you know, just the spirit guides, arch angels, guardian angels, all that stuff Like. First off, first question what do we have around us for somebody who's new to this whole death, dying, grieving thing? Like, who's our team? I call them my spirit team. Can we talk? Can you?
Speaker 2:tell us about spirit teams and what all that is.
Speaker 2:So spirit guides, everybody has one, everybody has a spirit guide. So how I have tuned into mind through meditation, I've met my spirit guides and I have a crazy story, which I'm sure you know because you were a part of that team, where I would see my dad as a tree, literally like as a tree. He showed up to me as a tree first and then, thankfully, because we had that mentor that was open enough to tell me sure, keep on going, see what that, how it could be anything. I kept on meditating and I found out it was my father and it was because I would. My father passed away when I was nine. So when I was nine I drew a picture of a tree that was so detailed that I had the memory of him showing it to my mom and going, like, we have an artist in the family, so I'm in marketing, but I also studied graphic design so I can also illustrate, and that's how he showed up to me. So I believe that our spirit team, or our spirit guides, you can actually tell them I'm gonna work with you, or they can show up to you through meditation. My dad showed up to me but regardless, even if he wouldn't have, I would have been. I'm working with you, boo.
Speaker 2:I also have aunts that had the gift, so my gift comes from my mom's side, so my mother's aunts would have the gift. I have called them into it. And I've also met. Actually, in one of my events I met one of my guides. So, as you were mentioning, I do host events and my events are more they're called spirit nights and they're more about networking and community. So in one of those events I was doing the opening meditation with Marlene Mendes, which is a beautiful, beautiful mystic as well, and I met one of my guides there, which I had always thought I was seeing somebody else's spirit guide, but she was like no, boo, I'm here for you Very powerful Cuban, african-american lady, which she showed up to me all dressed in white. You know, it was really a beautiful experience.
Speaker 1:So everybody when you say see, how do you see them? Because, for everybody who's new here when you say see, you don't physically see, are you physically seeing them? Are you seeing them in a picture in your head, like because there's a lot of people that are gonna be like? What do you mean? You see them?
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, that is an excellent question. I love it. We all have clairs, right? Clairs is how we channel. So how I channel is that I see, I feel and I hear. Those are my three major clairs. So how I see is imagine if you're remembering a movie in your head or you're remembering a photo. That's how I see. Sometimes I say movie because sometimes it moves and sometimes it's just like a picture of a person in front of me. So I don't have the ability to see. But I know people who can physically see with their eyes open, and that's not me. Everybody channels differently, right?
Speaker 2:Yeah, every medium is different, yeah, and it's perfect. Imagine if we were all the same. It would be so darn boring, maybe boring. So that's how I see. And yeah, everybody has guides. I actually am hosting now a circle of women and that's one of the questions that I get the most how do I meet my guides? This is a personal experience, guys. I can show you the door, but I cannot go in with you. Right, you have to cross that with you. You can meet it through meditation, but you can also call them into your tribe, into your team.
Speaker 1:I hope that I have a good question. Do you have a meditation? Yeah, do you have one. Do you offer a Meet your Spirit Guide meditation on your website? By chance that somebody they were looking for that could they come to you?
Speaker 2:I actually have it through my course Meet your Spirit Guide meditation, and also I have one that is for opening your psychic abilities as well. So, but I am going to be. I started doing meditations now, like recording myself doing meditations and I'm loving it, so I love that idea of offering something like this through my website.
Speaker 1:So yeah, do you?
Speaker 2:think.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you should. You would be so good at it. Do you think that spirit guides are assigned to you before you're even here on earth? Like, do you think that we come to earth with spirit guides Cause I know we can collect family members as they pass, especially if we lose somebody really young, they can join the team. You know that could have been the entire plan, the entire time, but do you think that before we come to earth, we have a spirit guide assigned to us?
Speaker 2:Yes, so I noticed now that I only talked about ancestors spirit guides that are ancestors, but there's also, like I work with Archangel Michael and I believe that one. That was that Archangel was assigned to me as part of my journey, and how he showed up to me as well was through my readings and through my meditation. So, to answer your question, yes, I believe that they're assigned, and I think the beautiful thing about spirit guides is that it's not like like these are my five friends and that's it. No, as you grow in your spiritual journey, more are gonna start adding or some are gonna start removing themselves because you don't need them anymore, because you've learned that already. So don't think about as something static like this, is it I've met?
Speaker 2:them all, that's it. I've checked them up like think about, as your stole journey grows, how you start adding and maybe removing some of them.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, I do believe in that too, like the more like chapters like you have in your life. Some of them are gonna come, some of them are gonna go, some of them will stay with you for a long time, but they do serve a purpose, they have a job, so that once they complete their job and you, like you said, learn that lesson or got through that chapter, they can go help somebody else. But I do believe that we come to earth with a blueprint, with a plan of our life, and we have the free will to navigate through that blueprint. But they're spirit guides. I do believe they are here to keep us on track.
Speaker 2:What if?
Speaker 1:bumpers, like we are at a bowling alley and like put the bumpers up. I need the bumpers, but like we can bounce back and forth, because that's free will. We can do whatever the hell we want with our life, but I do believe our spirit guides do their bestest to keep us on track.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and also think about like the story of my father. They also show up to you as you need them. So imagine if I'm just like brand new doing this mediumship and my dad goes like I'm here.
Speaker 1:What are we?
Speaker 2:doing. I would be like holy shit, you know, but showing up to me as that type of memory helped me and until I was prepared, I didn't know it was him. It took me at least a year of meditating to actually notice it was him.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So what about the Oak Angels? How do they help us in everyday life? And I love a good angel story because there's so many people who like write about angels in books or write about their near death experience where they actually saw an angel, or an angel manifested itself into a human being to pull somebody out of a burning car, I mean where do angels come and how do they come into play with all this?
Speaker 1:Like I picture them, like thank God that we all can't see them flying around. So I feel like if we all had the ability to see what was actually going on on the other side, we'd just be chaos, because I look at angels as like they're just flying around at all time, like keeping us alive so we're not killing ourselves, yeah. So how do they come into play with all this.
Speaker 2:So I'm going to talk about my personal experience, because I am sadly not an angel expert. I would love to learn more about angels, that's a completely different frequency to connect with.
Speaker 1:I can't. Even when I do readings, people always ask like can I connect with angels and can I give them like a reading and like see what angel is, like you know, helping them or whatever, and I'm like I'm not on that frequency.
Speaker 2:They don't talk to me, I can't talk to them so that's what I was going to tell you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, exactly. But where do you think?
Speaker 2:I know that there are people that actually can see angels.
Speaker 2:That would be like my dream to get to that part where I could see the angel. So when I do readings, what I typically see are wings, so I can tell them like oh, I see this gold wing and I think it's Archangel Michael, but I don't, I can't see like the whole angel right For me. I think they're protecting you and I use them as protection. So before every reading, I have this ritual which used to be like 10 minutes meditating and it's now like seconds, thank God, where I ask them to come in and to protect me and where I visualize them, you know, protecting me with their wings. So I use angels for protection. When I do readings I do see them, but not like I only can see like the color of the wings. And sometimes I can see fairies and things like that, which is a completely different scenario, but I am sadly not an expert on that, sorry, megan.
Speaker 1:No, I love it. I wanted your opinion on that Cause it is like it's so for people who don't really know what mediumship is. It's like we can connect with the other side and the other side all it is is like think of it as like a radio and we are tuning into that specific channel and some mediums can talk to angels. Some mediums can only talk to ancestors and people that I've crossed over and stuff like that, and we can tune in to the other side, like we dial in that radio channel and then all of a sudden now we can hear what's going on on the other side and relay messages and validations and stuff like that too. But and I mean, am I explaining this right? It's just a frequency. Every single different like, and I feel like angels and spirit guides are all on different frequencies.
Speaker 2:I love that explanation. I love the radio explanation.
Speaker 1:That's the best way to describe it is by having a visual learner and I just have to picture like a radio dial and then, like when I'm tuning into the other side, I have to imagine myself like in a little old school brown radio and I'm like turning it, turning it, turning it until I can hear the other person's loved ones coming in and then I also I have the ability to see them. So in my head. So I keep my eyes closed during readings, which I hate because it looks creepy, I feel like. But Candice, our mentor, was like every medium's different. I keep my eyes closed during the entire reading because I can physically see them, I can see them step forward and I can describe their features.
Speaker 1:And I love when people's dogs come in. Oh, yes, yeah. So like we have a mutual friend, amber, and it was so crazy because, like Amber was like I was like, hey, did you? She just recently lost a puppy or not a puppy, but a dog, we call them all puppies and it was crazy because her dog came in and told and like, gave her like all these validations and it was bananas. But yeah, so I picture a radio being turned until I can actually start seeing and then I can hear them. So I see them first and then I can hear them.
Speaker 2:For me, what I do is I open a door.
Speaker 2:And if we have a reading together. Sadly, this is one part and not sadly, it's just part of how I work that I haven't been able to take out. I have to do this little give me permission to connect to your energy, and now I'm gonna look for you. And then now I found you. Now grab your hand, we're gonna go through your door, and that's how. And then I picture a room. The room is completely white, and then I should start seeing people, like literally, imagine if you had, like a group of people in the back, and some of them are just starting to come in to the front and they talk to us in symbols which is crazy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's like a bad gamer show raise. I was like, how do you communicate? I was like sometimes, like I can hear, I can hear like it's like a broken, like a staticky line, like if you were on a cell phone going through a tunnel or something. I can hear that. But and it's like super broken, but literally they're showing me pictures and like playing. Like it's literally just a crappy gamer show raise. And I hate it, to be honest, because, like I don't ever want to get the interpretation wrong and it stresses me out, so no.
Speaker 2:So let me tell you one thing, megan I've gotten to the point where, for me, I don't care about a no, so we ask for validations. When I tell you something, it's yes or no. So I love the yeses, and if I would tell you that I don't, that I would be lying. But I don't care about the noes, because I know that whatever it is that I channeled is going to make sense to you at one point. Right, and also that what is important is not the validations, it's the message, and you said it at the beginning the important thing is the message. So the only reason we're going through these validations is so you know that who I'm seeing is who I'm telling you. That's it Like.
Speaker 2:I don't care if he looks like this or looks like that. What I care deeply about is the message, is how you, if you walked in thinking of something, how you walk out. That is what I care deeply about, not if that's how he looked. And also, guys, some people like get stuck on looks and a spirit can show up to you, like when he was 15, when he was, when he was like and maybe you didn't know him when he had the beard, or so. Always focus on the message and not on the validations when you get readings for mediums, because when you start saying no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, some mediums thankfully that's not happening to me anymore Get discouraged and they're like well, I saw his two readings because I had two skeptics.
Speaker 1:The one. The first time it happened, when I had a skeptic. It was crazy because, like, I have had amazing readings up until I met this one girl and she was just like her husband made her do it and she was completely just like because I gave her a husband a reading and he was like you have to go to Megan and get a reading, and she was so blocked and just completely turned off that like so she had two relatives pop up and they were trying to tell her, like, give her validations, like hey, it's me, it's us like, tell her this, tell her that. And she was like that doesn't make sense to me. I have no idea what you're talking about. Blah, blah, blah.
Speaker 1:And I ended up like, just ending the meeting I was like you know what this is stressing me out. I was really stressed out. I was like this isn't working. And the second time it happened again it was somebody's husband. It was one of my best friend's husband and he just like, and he just sat there the entire time. I gave him a full hour long reading and even Spirit on the other side was getting frustrated. It wasn't that crazy because he kept giving me validation after validation his friend and the guy I was giving a reading to just like sat there and I was like I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 1:I was just like so stressed out so I decided to only read for friends and family and nobody else. And it was crazy because a year ago, when I moved to Texas, you gave me a reading because I really needed a motivation, like I just needed something to keep me going, because I completely changed my entire life. I changed my scenery, everything, my career. And you were the one a year ago that, like you called me out, like you didn't even know I stopped doing reading. But you were like your spirit guards are telling you that you have to get back into this and you have to keep doing more and more readings. And I remember telling you I was like I don't know. And you're like no, you have to. Like they're telling you to. And you had no idea that I had stopped. I know like I don't know. I just I feel like I kind of needed to do that. And since then again I've started reading other people solely just people who have been asking, but the skeptics like stress me out.
Speaker 2:Let me tell you stories about skeptics. I have many. So the one that only sits there and says nothing, yes, what they're trying to do and this is so sad. Guys and anybody who's listening, please don't waste your money, your time doing this. They're trying to have like a poker face, so you don't know if what you're saying is correct. Here's the thing If I show you a ring, my symbol could be when I see a ring, it is wedding. Or it could be when I see a ring, it is you have the ring of your loved ones, right? If I ask you, is it a wedding? And you say nothing, I don't know if my other interpretation of that is the correct one. So, basically, you're wasting my time, you're wasting spirit time and you're wasting your money, right?
Speaker 1:I love that. You said that yeah. And it's crazy because, like so again, like anybody who's like new to this world, we have what's called a spirit dictionary and every this is again, every medium is different, every medium. When you see a sign like you same thing for me, it's when I see a ring. It's either a wedding that is coming up, an engagement, or that you have that person's piece of jewelry. And it's crazy because, like yeah, people aren't saying we just want them to say yes or no, we just say hey, does this make sense? Yes, it makes sense. Okay, good, then we know. Okay, that's the direction we're going to Exactly.
Speaker 1:We are interpreters. We are only interpreting. We didn't know that person. We don't know you. Half the time I don't know any of my clients. When I was doing readings, I was doing readings for women all over the world, like Brazil and the UK, and I don't know you and I don't know your loved one. I'm just the interpreter. I call myself like the operator, like.
Speaker 2:I'm just connecting the two of them. You're connecting the call.
Speaker 1:I'm literally just interpreting a message and giving it over. And yeah, our spirit dictionaries are very different. When they show us a sign, like when I see spirits snap their fingers, I know that they passed away suddenly or unexpected, or if they appear to me and they black themselves out into a shadow, I know that it was a tragic death. So again, like we have a whole dictionary that we have to memorize as mediums Like we have to be on it, we have to be on the ball, and it just takes practice.
Speaker 1:Over the years. You create your spirit dictionary by doing multiple readings Literally, I think 2020,. I did like a hundred readings because there was nothing to do. I was doing readings on Zoom for women all over the world and that's how I created my spiritual dictionary. Does that, I mean? Do?
Speaker 2:you agree, I'm a spiritual dictionary. I don't know what you call it. That's what I call it my spirit dictionary. You know what it kills me that you stopped because of this. What happened to me in that when this happens to me and it still does I just say well, that person just wasted my time, their time. And I have been in readings where I've told people goodbye, like that's happened to me once, where I'm like I'm gonna send you, I'm gonna stop right now. You're being disrespectful and I'm not connecting with you. You're not connecting with me and I'm gonna issue you a refund right away.
Speaker 2:That happened to me once Another time, which I posted on my social media account. I had this person ask me so many particular things, like, and I was like God, I hope, because it was this. It was the brother of this person and I'm like I'm hoping that he really knows that I'm here with his brother, you know, because the brother really wants to communicate. One of the things that he asked me was what was his favorite animal? And I am like I hate this question why and it's not about his favorite animal, but the spirit did not fail.
Speaker 1:I told him I cannot guarantee he did.
Speaker 2:I'm like I cannot guarantee that I'm gonna get the answer, but I'm gonna try. And the spirit when I close my eyes because I sometimes close my eyes too and I open it like close it up we felt it better. Her eyes closed, he was laughing and he goes like oh, he's just playing with you. Tell him it's a turtle. And it was literally a turtle. So look at the question what's your favorite animal? You're never gonna think about a turtle as an animal. You're gonna think dog, cat, like bunnies, but turtle. And it was turtle. So that I hated that he did that. But that actually opened up the door and we could have a reading after that.
Speaker 1:That happened to me too. It was crazy. The first reading I ever gave was to a random girl. Actually, here in Texas it was a random reading I think. She was like referred to me. Somebody was like, oh, go, have her reading with Megan. I was free at the time so I'm just like practicing. And it was crazy because, like I connected with her dad and she literally like I think we were 15 minutes in the dad was talking and I was able to determine that was her father. I described what he looks like and I was giving her like all these like messages and like little validations here and there she goes okay, well, great, yeah, that's him. That probably sounds like him, but if it's really him, what's his name?
Speaker 1:And I have the hardest time hearing names, and so names is really hard because, like again, I'm more of like sign, symbols, audio. I can hear it sometimes if spirit is loud enough, but most of the time I'm a visual person anyway and they're going to give me messages the best way that I can interpret them, which is trades. So it was crazy because I heard him yell as soon as she said that. I heard him yell Joseph, like so loud and clear.
Speaker 1:I was like, oh my God, and again, this is my first ring. So I like argued with the man, the spirit. I was like no, that's not right. Like I was second guessing myself. I was going crazy. I was like hold on, man, let me ask him. And he kept saying Joseph, my name is Joseph. And I was like no, it's not. I literally I tell the story to my son.
Speaker 2:I guess it's louder right.
Speaker 1:Argued with a spirit because they'll get frustrated, and so finally I told her. I was like oh, he's telling his name is Joseph. She's like yeah, that's my dad. I was like dude, why did I so? I tell my friends all the time. One time that I argued with a dead guy he was like so frustrated he kept yelling his name.
Speaker 2:He's like just tell her my name is Joseph, and it gets louder and louder and louder You're like, are you sure?
Speaker 1:Louder and louder.
Speaker 2:And the reason why this is so interesting because the reason why you don't want to say Joseph is because you know that you're saying their dad. But if you say another name, you're like fuck, they're not going to believe me anymore. So you don't want to lose that. You know, when I was giving her all the validations, like she even knew, she's like, yeah, this is my dad and blah, blah, blah.
Speaker 1:But she was like, if it really is him, I need to know, like he give me his name. And it was crazy again because, like you, I say you as a Nick, you probably don't have this issue, but I am a people pleaser, I am trying, I'm a recovering people pleaser, I want people. It's not that like. So it goes back to my childhood. I was called the free.
Speaker 1:I grew up very Catholic and I remember telling my friends and I was close with my deacon and his wife because I was on, I was in the choir, so I was very close with them and I remember having the conversation with, like you know, like the people in the choir. And this is when I was like 13, 14 years old and I would tell people about the things that was going on in my house. Again, this happened my entire childhood and it just people were like something's wrong with you. You're not normal things like that. And it was crazy because, like, the only person that actually gave me support was my deacons wife, because she was my choir teacher and she was like you were born with this like incredible gift, and blah, blah, blah. You should be open and tell people about it.
Speaker 1:But the thing was is like I was so worried about people thinking I was a freak. I didn't like it. I kept a lot of things to myself. My family knew especially my mom knew the things that I was seeing and stuff like I would tell her all the time because it was absolutely terrifying. I knew it wasn't normal. I even knew as a child, like these people aren't supposed to be here. I shouldn't be seeing children in my room or grown adults in my room. I shouldn't be seeing this.
Speaker 1:But like so when I started giving readings, I it's not like, yeah, I wanted them to believe that. Like hey, I have this gift and I'm sharing it with you, but at the same time I didn't want them to think like this girl's a freak, like this girl is so weird, and blah, blah, blah. So still to this day I have a hard time telling people, and even when I date, because I've been single for five years. So when I do date here and there, I don't tell people that I'm a medium until I'm a little drunk, and then it comes out. It's come out several times.
Speaker 1:I'm just like we'll be sipping wine, or and then all of a sudden they'll be talking about a past love one, and then I'll be like, oh yeah da, da, da da da, and they want you to know A, b and C, and they're just like and I was like, oh yeah, by the way, I can talk to dead people, and that's usually how it comes out. And I'm not even joking, because I get so paranoid. It's bad.
Speaker 2:No, I need to just talk. No, I love that you're saying it, even if it is when you're drunk, right, I mean, at least you're saying it. So, to be honest, I have my work life very separated from my spiritual life. Yes, yeah, so if somebody at work asked me is this you? And it has happened, not where I'm at now, but where I worked before, I'd say yes, but I, that's it With smarts, that's it.
Speaker 2:I'm like yes that's me, but that's it. But my spiritual life is my personal life. Right, I do when I meet people and when I talk to people. If it comes up, I do mention it, but I don't feel like it's kind of like I don't tell everybody like I'm a director of marketing. Hi, I'm a director of marketing. How are you feeling? Like that's not something that I say, but if we're talking about, specifically, mediumship and psychic abilities and things like that, I will mention it and it's liberating, it is like the best thing, because you're like I don't give a fuck what you say.
Speaker 1:I think I don't, I don't care Like.
Speaker 2:This is who I am, and I love every inch of who I am and, to be honest, this is the part that I love the most of who I am Like. If I could choose tomorrow, I would get rid of my nine to five and do that full time Backend.
Speaker 1:And do this full time. I think you could. With the amount of like events and like you are so well known, like you have an incredible following and stuff like that, I feel like, if you wanted to, this is something that you could do. But I love that you kept it separate. So I kept it separate when I was a police officer for a very long time I didn't tell anybody until somebody found out and then I ended up giving them a reading. And then it got out and I was giving a lot of coworkers readings like out of off duty, like at home on our days off. And it was crazy because, like some of those people, like I knew one girl who literally didn't talk to me for two weeks after I gave her a reading because the reading was really emotional and she ended up having to go back to therapy because of it.
Speaker 1:It was a lot of shadows that came up that nobody knew, including myself. I didn't know that side of her. She had something very traumatic happen and it's not that spirit was trying to call her out. Spirit was actually trying to give her that validation of like hey, everything is fine over here. I don't want to get into the details, just because you know it was that traumatic of a reading for her. She actually avoided me at work for two weeks. She didn't talk to me and I remember thinking like I'm not fucking reading people from work anymore, like those were my friends and like, and I even told her I was like it's not like they're trying to call you out on your shit or whether they're trying to tell you like everything is okay. You need to heal from that event and again, it's because she kept it secret for like 20 years.
Speaker 2:She felt shame. That's a thing, guys.
Speaker 1:If you're gonna have a reading it's an open book.
Speaker 2:I tell everybody yeah, I can't control who comes through.
Speaker 1:I can't control the things that are said I can't control. If somebody yeah somebody came to you and was like I wanna talk to my grandmother, like you can't control that.
Speaker 2:I can't control what's said yeah.
Speaker 2:No, I always say I'm sorry, I can't control who comes through and sometimes exactly the person. I had one reading which is one of the readings that I think about a lot Like this person. Her son passed away and I spent the whole reading talking about her mom, who had passed away also, but she wanted to hear about her son and everything. All the validations were on point and then at the end she goes like I really wanted to listen, I really wanted to hear about my son and I can't control that your son didn't show up. And the fact that they don't show up it does not mean that they don't love you. No, it's for a reason. I mean they're not ready Right, especially when it's something recent.
Speaker 1:I feel like you have to give it a little bit of time you do, and I think that's why certain family members, or especially children, don't show up. If you go get a reading and you're not healed from that experience of you're not over the grief process, they're not gonna show up in a reading. They don't wanna re-obset you. They don't want to come through in a reading, I feel like, because what I found happens this is what I've experienced is if they do step forward and I'm saying, hey, your son or daughter is coming through, they break down, start sobbing and it's like they're reopening that a lot of them won't come through. And the one thing, the one question I get all the time is why isn't that person, whether it's a parent or a child or even a pet, why haven't they come through in a dream? Because that's another way that anybody could have a loved one step forward. If you have a dream, because we all dream about our past loved ones they're not ready. You're not ready at all. They know when it's a good time to come forward and show you signs and stuff like that too.
Speaker 1:I had one girl say that, like after her dad died, she would dream that he was. She couldn't see him, but she could hear his voice. She would dream that she was picking up a telephone and they were having that conversation. He was saying, hey, I'm okay, everything is good. And she's like why is he calling me in a dream? Because you're not ready to see him? She's like oh yeah, she was like if I would have seen him in a dream, I would have woken up and just broke down. So sometimes they know what's best Is that the experience, like you feel, like you had too, For me, visitations.
Speaker 2:I always say that spirit at least this is what I've interpreted from all of my readings spirit has a really hard time doing visitations. So whenever you get a visitation, I have noticed the pattern that spirit is young. So if somebody has passed away, I would say five years, one to five years or even months, right, but if I remember, I used to have visitations from my father and I don't have them anymore. So the dreams are literal visitations from your loved ones, and when that happens I feel they have to be young, young in the spirit realm, right. So what you just added now is extremely interesting the fact of saying, like, maybe you're not ready, right, Because spirit does show up, it meets you halfway, it meets you where you are.
Speaker 2:So, and if you're grieving I always like to believe that grieving, can I always say grieving is a personal journey. No, there's no wrong or right way to grieve. I can't tell you how to grieve and nobody can. If it takes you 10 years, it takes you 10 years. If it takes you two days, it takes you two days. It's your process, Exactly. Nobody could get in the middle of it. So what you added about like if you're grieving, they don't want you to revisit that. I agree with that. But I also think it helps you so much to do a reading when you're in the grieving process, because you understand that.
Speaker 2:Yes, and I've had. I was just talking to I think it was Emily as well about how psychologists have been referring her clients, and I've always. I've also have clients that have come from psychologists that are more woo-woo and they're like why don't you have a reading with my dad? And they have told me like I'm completely different, since, like now, I feel so much better. You know, it is also it depends on what you believe in, right, but it is also very helpful. Yeah, you do incredible work, yeah.
Speaker 1:Another question I always get all the time too, is signs. It's like you know, like some people are like oh, I do get signs. I see signs like from so-and-so, but then there's a lot of people that are so devastated Like I don't get signs, like my so-and-so passed away a couple of weeks ago or a couple of years ago and I have not got signs. Like can we talk about signs for a second?
Speaker 2:I know it's like a broad statement, but what I've noticed with signs is that usually it's not what you're waiting for and you wanna control it. You're like my dad really liked whatever a bird and I want that bird to be on my window every morning. Don't control it, right. Don't control it, just be open to whatever they can show up, because first spirit is really hard. When we're having a reading, I always tell people God, your loved one did just an incredible job because it takes so much of their energy to do these things right. So be open for the sign to be anything. If it's a song that plays in your car, right. If it's like that bird, or if it's like a coin that you see in the floor, be open for it to be anything. Don't try to control that process. Yes, and then you will receive more.
Speaker 1:I love sign. Yes, and that's like I feel like that is such a great gift. People need to realize that, like our loved ones are not gone, they're not dead, they're literally like right there at all times, just guiding us. Like it's crazy because, like I did this one reading a long time ago and this girl was like talking about her mom she's like my mom doesn't send me signs or anything and I said and like you said, I was like, well, are you kind of like, did you ask her to send you a specific sign? And so she said like a red cardinal. Well, she's a part of the country there's no red cardinal. Oh my God.
Speaker 1:So I talked and I was like, ok, first off, red cardinals can come in the form of a photo, like you could be at a store and see a picture of a red cardinal, or you can see like a key chain, or somebody has a bumper sticker with a red cardinal or whatever. I said, be open to that. And she's like, but I really want to see like a red cardinal. I said, well, what if your mom just sent you a random bird? Would you be OK with that? She's like, I guess, and no kidding, as soon as the call ended, a bird landed on her, her, her outdoor, like camera.
Speaker 1:She has one of those ring cameras and it landed on the camera and it looked into the camera and have, if she texted me, a picture of it. She's like, as soon as the reading was over, a bird landed on her ring camera which never happens and looked into the camera and she she screenshot it and she was like you were right, my mom sent me a bird and she, she left, she goes, it wasn't a red bird, but my mom was a smart ass anyway, when she was alive, exactly.
Speaker 2:I don't have that photo. I love that. That is such a beautiful story. I love that and that explains it perfectly.
Speaker 1:And the best part about science is I like this. She made the comment. She's like my mom was a smart ass. Anyway, she was going to send me a red bird. She just sent me her brown bird, and it goes. They play off of their personalities as what you knew them as and you know they're going to be funny. They have a sense of humor. They're going to send you weird stuff when you get into a car and then automatically a song is playing with their name on it. You know stuff like that. It just it's those little things like that all the time, like you've got to be open to signs.
Speaker 2:The car thing. I've seen that happens a lot to people who liked music. So if that person connects to music was a musician used to sing songs to you? That's probably how you're going to put be open to it. I remember one reading. I was telling somebody like I see a teddy bear and I don't know why I see a teddy bear. I just see a teddy bear and I'm like and I feel like you're going to see a teddy bear at one point, you're going to know what it is, and that person couldn't validate it. And then, when the reading was over, they would send me they send me a card with a teddy bear with some note written from their loved ones. So that's how it doesn't have to be literal. The guys were literally interpreting symbols and interpreting visions.
Speaker 1:It's it's hard and it's hard for them as it is for us, but it's beautiful and then, like you said, like sometimes the message doesn't make any sense because you remind, as you were talking about that, like something that was going to happen later. For example, like I read a girl who her loved one on the other side was like talking about a road trip that she was getting ready to take. And she was like yeah, we're getting ready to go take a, take a road trip, Like we're going to go cross country. And and I was like now he's showing me a picture of a dinosaur which is so random.
Speaker 2:Right Like a dinosaur. She's not a child.
Speaker 1:She's not a 12 year old little girl or boy, but like we couldn't figure it out and I was like he's showing me a photo of a dinosaur and he's saying he's like laughing. He's like I'm going to be with you on that road trip. I'm going to be there the entire time. And it was crazy because, like when a couple of days that had passed again, like I love these messages like she randomly texted me a picture. She was like we stopped off at a truck stop and she's like look what's around us. It was those like gigantic metal dinosaurs.
Speaker 1:She's like we did not plan on stopping here. She's like we did not plan on stopping here and she was like he's here with us and it was just validation that he was on that road trip with her and she was in complete shock. And to this day and that reading happened four years ago and to this day I still talk to her because we follow each other on social media She'll text me random photos. He sends her signs of just random dinosaurs, like she'll find like a random dinosaur sticker on a ground or whatever.
Speaker 1:So that's like their sign, because it was so funny Like dinosaur I love it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know, what I love the most is that she's acknowledging it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I love that that sticker.
Speaker 2:That's my dad, you know, because it is.
Speaker 1:And what I tell people is just say hi, hi, that's what I do, that's all they want, that's all they want, especially because, like we wonder, like I wonder how they're doing over there, or, you know, we think about our loved ones and stuff like that, and just like I wonder if they're with me, I wonder if they're with me in this hard time or these happy times like my wedding or you know, whatever that we always wonder if they're there. You just I mean the signs are around us. Just be open to receiving them. Don't have tunnel vision. Open up your mind and you'll start to see the signs. You'll see the license plates with their birthday on it. You'll see, you'll hear songs with their name in it. It's crazy.
Speaker 2:So also, like you said, be open to it, be open to it being whatever it might be Right. So, like the license plates, I hadn't thought about that. That's I'm sure I can think about right now. Probably my mom. She's obsessed with license plates, that's she's alive, thank God. But that would be a way that she connects Like try to find those things that make sense for them. I love it. Yes, I'm a big fan of signs and symbols.
Speaker 1:Oh my gosh, yeah, that's just crazy. So tell us about for people who want to connect with you that are listening and they're like I feel like I have these gifts, like I don't know what to do with them, or they want a personal reading for you. How can they find you on social media, all those things that I'm going to link everything in the show notes, but let's talk about how they can find you and then what courses that you do offer.
Speaker 2:OK, so my social media handle is MS4medium. So my name is Marielle and it's a play of M, for Marielle is for medium, but it's with a number four, so it would be M is number four, medium. And I am on Instagram actively. At Facebook I just I, just because it's only me. It's only me. So where I am most is on Instagram.
Speaker 2:I did take a little break because, as I told you, I moved from Miami. Now I'm in Tennessee. So, yes, you know that. Yes, I've been here for six months, so it's pretty recent. Yeah, thank you. So I took a little break from social, but I'm trying to start to get active again. I also have a website. It's MS4medium that is without the number four MS4mediumcom. I am right now so excited this, literally like Megan, this is the best thing I've done with my life. I'm hosting something, of course, that's called Spirit Circle. It's intimate, it's only six females and what the circle is about? It's owning your intuition, owning your power, getting rid of the fear Because, if you will notice throughout this conversation, fear plays a huge role when you're a psychic and you're a medium.
Speaker 2:Getting rid of the fear, Also understanding am I a psychic or I'm a medium, Because we didn't talk about that. But it's completely two different things.
Speaker 1:It is different. I tell people all the time I am not a psychic, I cannot predict the future, I don't know anything. I just talked to dead people, that's it. I just thought that's all I do. I'm not a psychic, but you are a psychic. I'm a psychic medium.
Speaker 2:So I do both. Through my psychic gifts I can give you guidance about your past, your present and your future. So if we have a reading, I can channel things that happened in the past, talk to you about what's happening right now and also give you guidance on the future. And through my mediumship gift, I can talk to those who have departed. So I can do both and my course also helps you identify, like are you a psychic or are you a medium?
Speaker 2:We do a lot of like. We meet every week. It runs for six weeks and we do every week. We have an hour and hour and a half where we're together and we're doing live readings. What I did is what I took. I took what I loved about and this is course, and by all the courses that I've taken and also added my spin, like this is what I think it should need, like what I was missing from those courses, and for me it was that life experience of like let's read together, let's see how and I'll give you pointers while you're doing it and I'll explain things to you. So it's a very interactive. So, yeah, that's one way and I do also offer I only have one reading right now where I mix both psychic and mediumship gifts, and you can book that through my website.
Speaker 1:And do you ever and I know, like other girlies, like our mutual friends, like Bianca and Candice and everybody like gets on Instagram live? Do you ever, as I know I think he used to do that we're yeah, you and Bianca used to get on Instagram live and do live readings from, like random people. Are you still doing that? So, like any listeners can just go follow you on Instagram and maybe catch one of your lives.
Speaker 2:I haven't done it in a while because of the yeah, it's been a while.
Speaker 1:I haven't seen you get on in a while. You guys used to do it.
Speaker 2:It's been a huge move, but I do. I will keep on doing that, I also. I also like, if you can't afford one of my readings, I'm always giving away readings. I'm always doing, you know, giveaways, or I'll just do it and not charge you Like I wish I had all the time in the world to only do this.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so yeah, I do a lot of giveaways, and for me, the favorite thing is also the events Like reading live in front of 40, 50, 60 people. That's beautiful, but since I am no longer in Miami, I am going to schedule those only once a year and I will continue on doing those in Miami.
Speaker 1:I love it so okay, if you guys are listening and you want to know more, just go follow her her Instagram and I'm going to put your website on the show notes as well. Everything you can just click right over. You can DM her, ask her questions. She's one of the nicest women you're ever going to meet in life and, yeah, I really hope that. Like, maybe, if I get brave enough with you, would you do it Instagram? Yes, oh my God. Yes, so a lot of my friends don't know that I'm a media.
Speaker 1:Yes, so I just see it would actually shock a lot of people. Yeah, I mean, I looked at you and Bianca all the time and I'm just like, oh, they're so brave, they can just get on Instagram live and you know like give random girls a little bit of random girls readings and I'm just like I'm not that brave.
Speaker 2:Yes, yes, I would love to do that. I have my separate family account where I post pictures of my kids, and I have my mediumship account. However, it is public, like you can go in whoever can follow me. Yeah, and I encourage you to do that. You're so confident.
Speaker 1:I love it, you're so brave, you're so brave, you're such an inspiration girl Like you were just like everything that like I'm hoping that one day I could just be open.
Speaker 1:It's baby steps. Like I said, I'm a recovering people blazer and it took two people to just throw me off track. Second guess everything, tell myself and then, yeah, now it's just like I just read my friends and family, but I do want to get back into it. I feel like it's a really great way to, you know, be of service to other people, and I do like helping people. I'm not in law enforcement anymore so I don't get that hands on. You know where I get to physically help people anymore. But I do believe that, like this is a gift that I should be sharing. But skeptics can like rock your world you know, especially people like me.
Speaker 2:So, yeah, I mean you'll. The more you practice, the more you're. You have to think about what you just said. You said I did a hundred readings with women internationally and then one person fuck that up. Yeah. One person, by the way, you said, you said I could curse, but you don't curse, but I'm the only one cursing here. So really, like, think about that, it's a hundred and then one hater. I know, I know, it's my head.
Speaker 1:I was already nervous doing those other readings and then it'd be so excited. I would call my mom and then my best friend after every single reading and tell him, like all the amazing validations, and there was that one person. I just like suck at everything, so just stopped working. We're going to get you back to readings.
Speaker 2:And yes, I do that. Okay.
Speaker 1:All right, girl, thank you so much for being here. I'm going to let you just enjoy your Friday and your weekend and congratulations on the move. Oh, my God, that is a huge change. But thank you for being on the show. I appreciate you so freaking much. You are amazing and everybody, like I said, go follow her book, a reading with her, because she does tarot and she's a real psychic mediumship. You're not going to want to miss it, so go check her out. Thank you so much. I appreciate you, girl. Thank you.