Have you ever written down all the qualities you're searching for in a soulmate, only to meet Mr. or Ms. Perfect and watch them slip right through your fingers? Join me as I unravel the mysteries of love and the pursuit of personal happiness in today's heartfelt podcast. Let's navigate the treacherous waters of relationships together, from the importance of self-love to the undeniable power of positive manifestation. I open up about my own romantic missteps and the lessons learned, all while dissecting why ticking boxes on a partner checklist might not be the golden ticket to lasting love we once thought.
This episode, I put a magnifying glass to the transformative effects of savoring your own company and the magnificence found in self-appreciation. We'll contemplate how embracing personal growth and becoming self-sufficient not only sculpts our inner relationship but also elevates the caliber of partners we attract. From the trenches of my latest dating experiences, I've gleaned vital insights on the significance of a supportive partner—one who cheers on my ambitions and celebrates with me. Together, we'll venture down the path of syncing our energies and ideals to create relationships that resonate with our true selves and amplify our personal victories.
I close this episode with a heart brimming with thanks for your unwavering support, hinting at the exciting guests we have in store and the challenges of balancing a jam-packed schedule while delivering engaging content. Remember to reach out on Instagram, and peruse the show notes for some beneficial resources. I cherish your ratings and reviews; they're like a warm hug of encouragement. Sending out a ripple of love and vitality for the week ahead, and hoping you'll find inspiration in the power of introspection and the magic of manifesting love.
Have you ever written down all the qualities you're searching for in a soulmate, only to meet Mr. or Ms. Perfect and watch them slip right through your fingers? Join me as I unravel the mysteries of love and the pursuit of personal happiness in today's heartfelt podcast. Let's navigate the treacherous waters of relationships together, from the importance of self-love to the undeniable power of positive manifestation. I open up about my own romantic missteps and the lessons learned, all while dissecting why ticking boxes on a partner checklist might not be the golden ticket to lasting love we once thought.
This episode, I put a magnifying glass to the transformative effects of savoring your own company and the magnificence found in self-appreciation. We'll contemplate how embracing personal growth and becoming self-sufficient not only sculpts our inner relationship but also elevates the caliber of partners we attract. From the trenches of my latest dating experiences, I've gleaned vital insights on the significance of a supportive partner—one who cheers on my ambitions and celebrates with me. Together, we'll venture down the path of syncing our energies and ideals to create relationships that resonate with our true selves and amplify our personal victories.
I close this episode with a heart brimming with thanks for your unwavering support, hinting at the exciting guests we have in store and the challenges of balancing a jam-packed schedule while delivering engaging content. Remember to reach out on Instagram, and peruse the show notes for some beneficial resources. I cherish your ratings and reviews; they're like a warm hug of encouragement. Sending out a ripple of love and vitality for the week ahead, and hoping you'll find inspiration in the power of introspection and the magic of manifesting love.
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Hey guys, welcome back to Updated AF Collective, the podcast. I'm your host, megan Wirth. If you haven't noticed, we have a new graphic. I took a new photo. We got a new Updated AF Collective logo for the podcast. So cute, so much better. And, yeah, I'm kind of like in the middle of a rebrand, so stay tuned for that.
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Today's episode is going to be like, oh my gosh, a topic that just kind of irritates me and I'll get into why it irritates me but relationships and how to attract them, how to manifest the right person that you're looking for, how to call in the perfect person for you, all of the things. I know you guys have probably heard manifestation coaches or other podcasts talking about ways that you can call in like your quote, unquote perfect person or soulmate or whatever you want to call it. We're going to talk about that today, so stay tuned, sit tight and we'll be right back. Welcome to the updated AF Collective podcast, where we celebrate the power and resilience of women. Join me as we dive into inspiring stories, engage in meaningful conversations and explore topics that empower women from all walks of life. I believe that every woman has a unique strength within her, waiting to be unleashed, whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, a creative, a caregiver or simply on your own personal journey. This podcast is for you. Together, we'll share stories of triumph, discuss strategies for success and provide a supportive space for women to connect and grow. Get ready for real, authentic conversations that ignite your inner strength and inspire you to chase after your dreams fearlessly. Welcome to the Updated AF Collective. Okay, welcome back.
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Okay, why I hate talking about relationships is because I've felt like I've never been good at them until I learned about a year ago why and why. Why I just like write down the things that I'm looking for in a man and all the good things that I want, and why. It's just not coming to me easily Because we hear stories all the freaking time. Even my girl, candice Candice Dalton, who's a friend of the pod and is my friend, who I just spent a weekend with in Sedona, she did the same thing and she said something along the lines of like. I don't want to speak for her, but she wrote down a list of everything that she wants in a man. And there's all these stories about women who have been doing that and then manifest the love of their life Every single thing on the list. When it comes to like hair color, to personality, to how they make that person feel, to all of the things.
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Well, I've done that several freaking times and let me tell you, I did manifest the perfect person and I wasn't ready, even though I had found him. For example, this happened back in maybe it was like 2020, 12, excuse me, back in. Maybe it was like 2020, 12, excuse me and I was still in the Marine Corps and I had found, I found the perfect person. He was great, but because I wasn't ready technically, I sabotaged the relationship and completely blew it up and he's gone forever. Right, why is that? Why do we sabotage perfect relationships? Here's what I have come up with. There's no science behind this, but maybe this will make sense for you.
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Okay, so if you look into any ways of manifesting things, you know the saying like attracts, like we are, like what we call into our life, whether it's a relationship, a friendship, our reality, the people that we are interacting with every single day, we attract those people into our life based off of our vibration. If we have a very low vibration, if we're having a really shitty day, if we wake up in a bad mood, we're just having a really crappy morning and then we go out into the world and next thing you know we have a flat tire or our coffee spills on our lap. It just seems like a snowball effect. Where our vibration is so low, we are attracting that, we are attracting all the chaos into our life, versus we wake up, we wake up early, we have our cup of coffee, we write our gratitude list, maybe we sneak in a seven minute meditation and we're just starting a day off the right track and everything seems to work out fairly well for us because we're starting our day off on a high vibration.
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Relationships work very similarly. When we are calling, we were calling a relationship into our life, right, so think about it. We, for the most part and I'm speaking based off of experience I have called in the same type of man into my relation, like into my life the same relationship, but just a different person. So the same exact relationship, but in a different man's body. It's wild, and I know there are girls out there that can say the same exact thing. It's like we are attracted to a certain type even though we don't want that type, and we're like ew, you remind me of my ex-boyfriend, or you remind me of my ex-husband. And then we're just like we noticed, like there's a trend here. There's a freaking trend. There's a mile of men, a mile of men, standing outside our door like same problems, different person, because that's what we're calling in. Because that's what we're calling in Because, ultimately, that's the type of person we are.
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We call in insecure men because we haven't worked on our insecurities, we haven't worked on ourselves. We want Prince Charming, we want somebody who's going to treat us very nicely, we want somebody who's going to open the door for us. Well, when's the last time that you've done those things? When's the last time that you've done those things? When's the last time that you've treated yourself with unconditional love and taken yourself out the whole thing with manifesting love? And you've heard other coaches say the same thing too. If you're big on, manifestation is like you act already as if, as if you already have that love of your life. That's how you need to be treating yourself, right. So you treat yourself by taking yourself out for a date, by splurging a little bit on a pair of shoes, because you love yourself, or you are treating yourself with unconditional love. If you mess up on something at work, you're not bashing yourself, being like why am I so stupid? Why did I do it this way? Blah, blah, blah. If that's the type of person that you're trying to call into your life, then, yeah, you want an abusive, crazy person, go for it. But if obviously we don't, so we need to be loving ourselves as if, like we're going to be loving that other person, or somebody is loving us, right. So we need to love ourselves first, get ourselves good, and then the person will enter into our life. Person will enter into our life.
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So, getting back into how I sabotaged a relationship, I attracted this great guy and we were actually engaged in all the fun things and we were living together and so, long story short, like I was really insecure, he was perfect. I never felt good enough for him. I was like I felt like I had to keep a bunch of secrets, I had to hide who I was in order for him to like me, and you'll never find out this and that. And I remember calling him all the time, crying, and I'm just like I feel like you're just too good for me and this and that, but he was super perfect. Ultimately, I won't get too much into it, but I destroyed the relationship. I completely blew it up and we had a breakup and call it the engagement, all this, all the things. But he was what I wanted. He's everything on the list. He like checked off all the, all the boxes, including how he treated me, how he made me feel it was all me. I wasn't ready for that because, again, like I was the complete opposite of him and I knew it.
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I didn't know what self-development work was. I didn't know that I needed to love myself in order to, like I guess, appreciate a good relationship. So right after that relationship I attracted exactly what I was. I was. I used to tell myself all the time that I hated myself. I had very low self-esteem. I thought it was really stupid. I had a lot of negative things to say about myself. I was going in and out of eating disorders. I just didn't have the self-confidence that I should have had. It's a completely different situation now because obviously I'm really big in self-development and self-care and I love myself unconditionally. Even if I fuck something up, it doesn't matter. I always give myself that grace.
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But back then I did not. I took everything very, very hard and I attracted men that came into my life that treated me the same way I treated myself. I attracted really nasty people, nasty, nasty, freaking people, and I married one of those people who was a direct reflect of what I was doing to myself on the inside, my subconscious. He was a direct reflection of what I was telling myself. But now I had somebody in my life verbalizing it right, not good, and all because of what I was telling myself. I feel like I brought that into my reality. Like attracts like. I married a nasty person, completely nasty person, and even to this day he shows his true colors and I have not. I don't have to say anything negative about him because his family already sees the type of person that he is and his family has disconnected from him. So I left him and went a couple of years single and moved to Texas.
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Well, no shit, even though I was still working on myself and starting to understand what self-love was and starting to understand that you know, like attracts like, and maybe I'm going to I'm going to call him the right person this time. No, I wasn't a hundred percent. I attracted the same exact freaking man to the freaking tea, just in a different body, and I treated him the same way. I treated my ex-husband. Like I was like what can I do for you? I took care of everything for this guy. I literally like I just met him and he was already asking me to help him pick out gifts for mother's day and like, do errands for him and like everything. And he also wasn't like the same, the same um disease that my ex-husband had had, severe alcoholism. Well, this guy was sober but had six relapses while we were together. He treated me like shit because I wasn't all the way there yet, so took another break, didn't date for a while.
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I met another guy and he was almost there, a little bit better than the last. This one barely drank, which I loved. I felt like I called that one in Hardly drank. He only drank if I poured him a glass of wine, but he still. The way he would talk to me was still something that I had going on in the back of my subconscious, that imposter syndrome. Who am I to do what I'm doing? Who am I to have a podcast? Who am I to write a book and stuff like that too.
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But I still feel like when I would share something that I was doing in the moment, I would send him like a video that I made for real estate and I sent it to him and he was like cool, great, and I was like really proud of that video too. That was the sad part about it, cause I was like so excited to show him a video that I made to put on Tik TOK, and every time I would share something that I wanted to do or an experience, he's like yeah, sure, go go try it, see what happens, whatever. Like there was no, like yeah, like excitement, like now I'm like so excited for myself, like I don't give a fuck what anybody else thinks, like I'm learning so, so much, and so I have taken a year off. I feel like I think I've been single for a year now. I can't, I can't keep track of this and I'm just like, no, I don't know. Like yeah, I'm working on myself still, but I just have no desire to start dating at all, and it's have no desire to start dating at all, and it's it is not because I don't feel ready.
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I do feel ready, but at the same time I'm just like I'm not scared, but I'm like I kind of just really enjoy being with myself. As weird as that sounds, I'm really enjoying my own company, like I am not afraid to take myself out to lunch to treat myself. I'll have like a margarita with some tacos and I'd be like wow, like reflecting back on my day and I'm like, wow, I got so much accomplished, I feel so productive. Or I'll celebrate my small wins, like I didn't yell at my daughter today, like it's, it's just, I'm enjoying being with myself. So now I'm at the point where I've, like you know, if somebody was to come into my reality and match that energy of just kind of being like me I guess I don't know how I'm trying to say it Like they're matching my energy, like they enjoy being around me, they love, just like, the simplicity of my life and like they want to celebrate wins with me and stuff like that.
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I feel like that's what I'm going to call in, but I'm just enjoying my alone time so much that I don't care if that person comes in or not, or if it's going to be another year, I don't care because I am enjoying being by myself, loving my accomplishments and cheering myself on for the first time in my life and this has only been going on for the last, like I want to say, six, six months and that's the energy that I feel like we all kind of need before putting ourselves out there so that we don't sabotage the relationship. Loving ourselves and having high expectations and high standards for ourselves, so that, when the right person comes along, that's what we're attracting. Like, will always attract. Like Clean up your subconscious and all of your limiting beliefs, your imposter syndrome, your self-hatred. If you have any of that going on in your head, you're going to attract that into a relationship in a form of a man or a woman or whoever you're into. That's what's going to come into your reality.
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Hence, why, if you look back at your past, if you were or are one of those girls that sees a pattern of behavior in all the men that they're dating and they're like, oh, all these men just suck, they're all the same. If you start to see the patterns, maybe start to journal or find a way to kind of dig deep into your subconscious and ask yourself, like why am I attracting this? It's not them I'm. You need to learn a lesson. The lesson's there If you're holding on to self-trauma or self-trauma, if you're holding on to, like trauma from childhood, trauma from past relationships, and you're just holding on tight to it because you you're using it as a, as a survival, survival mechanism, and you have like a you know barbed wire heart, like barbed wire around your heart and you're just very, very clenched and tight up and like you don't want anybody coming into your orbit, but at the same time you're out there, putting yourself out there and dating.
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You're only going to attract men that are going to add more shit onto that. They're going to make you think like this is why I don't date, because of so-and-so, and now all I'm doing is all these men are all the same and you keep attracting the same energy, same vibration. You're just bringing all that when you let go. Maybe do some inner work, work with a coach to kind of unpack all of that trauma and just learn to let it go. And it does take time. It does take a lot of time Because, like I said, I thought I was healed when I moved to Texas and met one guy and then I ended up realizing no, I'm not.
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There's still a lot in my subconscious and it's coming out in my relationships. So I had to make the unconscious conscious and learn. Oh, there's still more work to be done, otherwise I wouldn't be attracting the exact same man that I had in my ex-husband into another guy here in Texas like night and day. Not night and day, I'm sorry, not night and day. What's the saying? It's not night and day difference. But it was like the exact carbon copy of my ex-husband here. I'm like, oh my gosh, obviously I haven't learned my lesson. There's something I needed to work on. There was more books I needed to read. There was more coaching I needed, and after that I met Marlee Harris. No, it was Stephanie, yeah, no, no, no, it was definitely Stephanie Keith. That's right. Stephanie Keith came into my life and we in her millionaire, millionaire class sorry, I can't talk today. I've been up since like 4am I unpacked a lot of stuff in the in the groups.
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We would do these zoom groups once a week. I think it was twice a week, sorry, twice a week and like we would just unpack things and we would work through it and she would give us like workshops and all that fun stuff and I really felt like I worked through a lot of stuff. And then I went to Marley and I utilized her more for business. But there was times where I kind of used the groups as like a little therapy sesh. But I mean that's what business coaches and manifestation coaches and life coaches are all for. It's just to kind of like it, all it all.
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If you think about it, it's all the same thing relationships, businesses, um, your self-development, all the things. It all ties into one and it ultimately comes down to how you treat yourself. If you're not treating yourself well, you're not going to serve, you're not going to have successful businesses, um chase after your dreams. You're not going to be able to do any of that as well as attract what you're looking for. So if you're one of those girls that wrote down everything on a piece of paper in your journal, in your diary of like the perfect man, which is great, everybody should do that. You should be writing down your perfect person and looking at that like every day, but make sure that you reflect all of those qualities. You don't have to do the physical qualities Like if you have brown eyes you're not going to get green Um but how that person makes you feel, how that person treats you. Does that person get your door? Does the person always pick up the tab? Does the person always call you? Does he always text you? Like is he like willing to come over. You know when you're, when you're having a bad day or like all the things. It's. It's how that person makes you feel is what you need to focus on, because that's how you should be making yourself feel. Work on that and practice that.
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Self-love is what needs to happen first, or you're going to have these consistent patterns of behavior, and I mean, like I said, like I'm speaking from experience, I don't know if this is science backed, but this is what I've noticed and I'm very much aware of it. Like I said, I've made the unconscious conscious and I was like you know what? This is what I'm doing and this is why I keep attracting the same exact problems, but in different men. Like I said, as of right now, I'm good, I don't want. To date, I have no motivation. To date, I feel like I'm in my era of just focusing on writing and focusing on my daughter and my business and real estate and buying a house and everything. I'm focusing on that. But if somebody was to come into my reality and what's meant to be will always be what's meant for you will never pass you If somebody is also vibrating at my vibration, my very high vibration, then there's a good chance that person's going to add more value to my life, because two high vibe people in a relationship work really really well.
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One high vibration and one low vibration. Like me and the first guy I was ever in a serious relationship with, he was always at a high vibration. He had a lot of self-confidence, he loved himself, he loved his family, no childhood trauma, great, great guy. But then there was me who was vibrating at a very low vibration. Those relationships will wear thin and one person will sabotage it. Most likely the person with the lower vibration will sabotage the relationship, and I was that low vibration.
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Now, two people in a low vibration, those ones can drag on for years. You're at a low vibration, he's at a low vibration. You guys both hate each other. You hate yourselves. Like you can't stand each yourselves. Like you can't stand each other, but you can't stand yourself either. Like I know, my ex-husband hated himself and he still shows that today. He doesn't have any confidence whatsoever.
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But I didn't at the time either. I married myself is what I did, and even though I wasn't saying those nasty things to myself, I was like verbally, I was saying them inside my head. Then I met somebody who was actually verbalizing everything that I thought because, again, like attracts, like I know we beat up this topic pretty well, but I just wanted to talk about that it's something to think about. If you've also been single for a very long time and you do want to start putting yourself out there, but make sure that, like, you're doing the work for yourself so that when that person comes into your life, you can recognize one red flags and you can be like oh no, no, no, no, thank you, I've dated you before and he was just, he just looked a little different, but no, I've dated your kind and you'll be able to recognize red flags and then you'll be able to recognize oh my gosh, like you're perfect. This is how I talk to myself and that's how I expect him or her to talk to me.
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I have, personally, I have high standards because I love myself so much and I'm very okay with being single, very okay. Now it's getting a little dangerous because, according to my therapist, I am hyper independent and hyper independent people it's it's a thin line. I only say that because people who are deemed hyper independent actually are like the type of people that are like bundled up barbed wire around their heart Like, don't, like don't want people to come close to me kind of thing, like that's not how I am. Um, I don't want to get to that point. I think when I left my ex-husband I was single for very many years just because I was living in survival mode of like nobody will ever do that to me, ever again. But now the difference between hyper-independent Megan and very happy alone Megan is I can recognize red flags and I can recognize green flags and I'll lean into the person that's giving me green flags and that's okay.
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I'm very much okay with going into a relationship with a lot of green flags versus somebody with a lot of red flags. The old Megan would have been like oh, that's fine, I'll fix him. You know it'll work itself out, but it absolutely weren't. Well, you can't be. You can't be a low vibration with another low vibration person. So maybe you start taking yourself out. Treat yourself. It doesn't have to be like expensive spa dates or whatever. We don't. We're moms I'm sure most of my listeners are moms. We don't have time for that. But after the kids go to sleep on a Friday night, if you don't have to get up early, buy yourself a movie on Amazon Prime, sit with a glass of wine and just relax and then maybe write down your gratitude journal, all the good things that have happened to you in the last 72 hours or 24 hours and stuff like that.
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I do feel like that's a really good self-care exercise is just writing, journaling and talking about the great things that you accomplished, not things that you didn't accomplish. Talk about the things that you did accomplish, the things that got you results, and what you needed to do and you accomplished it. Write it all down. I sometimes will take myself out to lunch. Sometimes I'll get dressed up and go take myself out for a drink and I won't scroll on social media, I'll just sit there and then I'll talk to people. Usually I'll find another girl to talk to or the bartender if they're super interesting and I'm just so happy.
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Like I said, you don't I mean yeah, don't get me wrong. I did do a full-blown spa day 2 months ago where I was like, yes, I deserve this and spent way too much money, and that's okay. Once in a while it's fine. I mean, my money beliefs that's a whole other issue, that's a whole other topic for another day. But there are occasions where it's totally fine to do that. So anyway, yeah, like I said, I just got back home not too long ago from Sedona. I was with Candace Dalton, her mom, and then a bunch of other girlfriends. We all got this beautiful Airbnb and we meditated, we did mediumship readings because it's a house full of mediums we have a bunch of us talk to dead people, so we did some exercises with that and it was just so amazing.
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I wrote my gratitude journal every single morning on the back patio while watching the sun come up over the mountains of Sedona, and that was my self-care. It was also the first time I've ever been away from my daughter First time, and she's almost seven years old, and it was just the weekend, right? So yeah, for two whole days I was away from my daughter, which was crazy, but I took the time, I got up early and I was like you know what, I'm going to maximize my time here, cause this doesn't ever happen, and that was my form of self-care. And I remember looking at like, just like looking at my gratitude journal, looking up at the mountains, and I'm just like. I love my life the way it is, like I'm providing myself all of these things and whoever decides to come into my life. A little bit later, maybe we'll do these things together, but as of right now, I am providing for myself. So whoever wants to come on in to my life again, I'll recognize that. I feel like I'll recognize the green flags and I'll know.
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Okay, I feel like I'm calling my perfect person into my life that checks off all the boxes on my manifestation list for the perfect man, right. Quote. Unquote perfect Nobody's perfect. We're all going to have some things that we need to work on. Things are going to pop back up. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship. I'm just saying like if you find a person that is vibrating high with you and they're working on themselves and they're able to recognize their red flags, like I can recognize my own red flags. I'm just like if I say something or do something, I'll immediately stop myself and be like oh, no, no, no, that's the old way of thinking. That was the old Megan, that's not what we do anymore. Again, like just recognizing those things. And if I find a guy that can also recognize when he's having a red flag moment and self-correct, great, it's all I'm asking for, just self-correct. You don't need me to correct you. I already have a daughter. I don't want another child. I need somebody who's going to recognize it without me even saying anything. To be honest, that would be great. I don't know if those guys exist, but that would be fantastic If somebody could just be like oh no, I'm being, I'm being a red flag, I'm going to fix this. So anyway, thank you guys so much for listening. I appreciate you guys.
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I know I've not been putting out these podcast episodes on time and I'm sorry for that, but I can't bring myself to record a podcast if I don't feel motivated or if I don't feel like I have anything interesting to talk about, because I won't tell you which episode it was. But I forced myself to record an episode of content and it was so bad, I was so embarrassed, but I'm leaving it on the podcast. I'm leaving the episode on the podcast. I'm not going to tell you which one it is, because I'm praying to God. You don't notice. I'm sure you do. Oh, my God, it's so bad, it's so freaking bad. I'm leaving it on there because the show like no, this is my journey, this is my podcasting journey. I'm not perfect, but I did learn a lesson. I'm not going to record a podcast If I'm just going to make just a shitty podcast episode. I'm not going to do it this one.
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I was driving in my car and it's something that I've been thinking about a lot and I was like this needs to be an episode. This needs to be an episode. I need to share my experience because I'm sure a lot of people are wondering why. I know I'm speaking from experience. I don't know people, but I used to wonder why I would manifest or bring into the same, to bring into my reality, like the same type of person over and over again and they all say like, oh, if you don't learn your lesson the first time, you're going to keep bringing it into your life. Well, it's more than just learning a lesson. It's like doing the work that lives inside of you healing trauma, healing wounds and everything that lives inside of you how you talk to yourself. That needs to get fixed first.
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Okay, anyway, I love you guys so so much. Thank you so much for listening. If you guys could leave a rate, a review, follow, message me on Instagram. The links are in the show notes of what do we want to talk about. I have more guests coming on. It's just been a process of trying to find the freaking time. I'm having the busiest month in real estate, plus the trip to Sedona. I'm having a hard time like booking people when they're available and like aligning schedules, but I, my gosh, I have some people in the works. We're just trying to iron out the damn schedule. Anyway, I hope you guys have a great rest of the week. I love you, so no-transcript.
